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(Rights of Parents in Islam)

This booklet was written byShaykh-e-arqat Amr-e-Al-

e-Sunnat, the founder of Dawat-e-IslamiAllma MaulnAb Bill Muammad Ilys Ar Qdir Razav in UrduUrduUrduUrdu. The translation Majlis has translated this booklet

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Table of ContentsTable of ContentsTable of ContentsTable of Contents

Transliteration Chart ...................................................................... iiiOne Who Recited alt-Alan-Nab Loudly was Forgiven ................ 1Injured Finger .................................................................................. 4Kiss the Doorstep of the Paradise Everyday...................................... 5Freed Two Slaves Upon the Voice Being Risen in Front of Mother .. 5Earn the Reward ofajj-e-Mabrr (Accepted ajj) Again and Again6Companion of Heaven..................................................................... 7The Disobedient of Parents is Punished Even in the Worldly Life .... 8One Became Dumb for Not Replying to His Mother....................... 8Parents had Better Refrain from Cursing.......................................... 8

Will Have to Return Even If You are Abroad ................................... 9Infant Spoke Up! ........................................................................... 10

Walking Six Miles on Blistering Stones Whilst Mother on Shoulders

...................................................................................................... 11What If Man had to Bear Child Instead of Woman !.................. 12Wife Deserves Sympathy................................................................ 13Explanation of the Ruling on Breast Feeding a Child ..................... 13It is an Obligation to be Obedient to Even Cruel Parents ............... 14Mother Do Bears the Excrement of Her Kids in Their Childhood . 15Deceased Resembling Donkey........................................................ 16Disobeyers Worship Not Accepted................................................ 17One Who Abuses his Mother/Father.............................................. 18The Ones Hanging With the Branches of Fire ............................... 19

As Many Embers as Raindrops ....................................................... 19


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Grave Smashes the Ribs ................................................................. 19Will Not Enter the Heaven ............................................................ 20If Father-Mother Quarrel, What Should Children Do? .................. 20If Parents Order to Shave the Beard, Do Not Listen to Them ........ 21

What Should a Person Do If His Parents Died Whilst Displeased

With Him? .................................................................................... 22Payoff Parents Debts ..................................................................... 23The Reward of Visiting the Grave of Parents on Friday.................. 23Madan Channel will Bring Madan Reforms in Every House ........ 23Leg Got Cut off Due to Mothers Curse......................................... 25

Apologise to Your Parents by Falling to Their Feet......................... 2615 Sunnas and Manners of Walking............................................. 27Bibliography.................................................................................. 32


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Satan will use every trick of his trade to keep you from reading this

book, but you will fear a lot after reading it .

One Who Recited alt-Alan-Nab Loudly was

Forgiven

An old pious man saw a person in his dream after his death

and asked How has Allah dealt with you? He said, Allah has forgiven me. The pious man asked For what reason?

He said I used to write ad in company of a Muaddi andonce he recited alt upon the Embodiment of Nr, the Mercyof the both worlds, the Beloved of Allah so Irecited alt-Alan-Nab loudly. When everyone heard it, they

too recited the alt-Alan-Nabi. Therefore, by virtue of this,Allah has forgiven all of us. (Al-Qaul-ul-Bad, p. 204)

Allah sent revelation upon Sayyidun Sulaymn

ordering him to visit the bank of the ocean in order to witness


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the demo of His power. Sayyidun Sulaymn went there with his companions but did not see any notable

thing. Therefore, he

ordered a jinn to diveinto the ocean and bring the facts from the deep. After coming

out of the ocean the jinn said I could not reach to the depth ofthe ocean and neither did I see any (noticeable) thing. He ordered another more powerful jinn. That

jinn dived twice as deep as the first Jinn but he too could notbring any information. Then he

ordered

his wise minister Shaykh if bin Barkhiy .

Very shortly, if bin Barkhiy brought a grandcamphoric four door white coloured Dome in the blessedcourt of Sayyidun Sulaymn . One doorwas made up of pearls, the second of rubies (Yqt), the third

of diamonds and the fourth was made up of emeralds(Zamarrud). There was not even a single drop of water insidedespite all four doors were open. Inside the Oceanic Dome,there was a very handsome young man, dressed up in neat andclean clothes, engaged in offering al.

When he completed his al, Sulaymn said Salm to him and enquired about the secrets of thisOceanic Dome. He said: O Prophet of Allah ! My father

was handicapped and mother was blind. ! I servedthem for seventy years. My mother supplicated before shepassed away that: O Allah ! Grant my son a long righteous

life. My beloved father supplicated before he passed away that:


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O Allah ! Give my child the ability to worship at such aplace where Satan cant interfere.

I saw this oceanic dome when I came to the bank of this oceanafter the burial of my beloved father and I entered it. Meanwhile,an Angel came and took this dome into the depths of the ocean.Upon asking of Sayyidun Sulaymn , hesaid that I came over here in the blessed time of Ibrm .Sulaymn realized that its been two

thousand years since he has been in the Oceanic Dome and isstill young. Not even a single hair of his had turned white.

Regarding his food he said: Everyday, a green bird bringssomething yellowish in its beak. I eat it. It contains the taste ofall of the bounties of the world. It fulfils my hunger and thirst.

In addition, , I remain secured from heat, cold, sleep,laziness, drowsiness, loneliness, fear and horrors. After that,upon the request of that young man and order of Sulaymn , Shaykh if bin Barkhiy picked up that oceanic dome and took it back to the depth ofthe ocean.

After this, Sulaymn said: O people, MayAllah shower his blessings upon you. Did you notice towhat extent the supplications of parents are acknowledged!Refrain from disobeying your parents. (Rau-ur-Riyn, p. 233)

May the mercy of Allah be showered upon them and we

get forgiven for their sake!


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Dear Islamic brothers! We come to know that serving parentsis a great honour. If they become happy and supplicate for us,

we become successful. Listen to another similar faithenlightening narration and sway with happiness.

Injured Finger

Sayyidun Byazd Bism says that my motherasked me for water in a freezing night of winter. I fetched the

glass of water but she had gone asleep. I didnt feel appropriateto wake her up so I stood next to her with the glass of waterwaiting for her to wake up so that I could present her the glassof water. It had been quite some time since I was standing andsome of the water had frozen on my finger by flowing throughthe glass.

Anyway, when my mother woke up, I presented her the glassof water. As soon as the finger that was stuck to the glass dueto being frozen separated from the glass, the skin also came offand it started to bleed. Upon seeing this, my mother askedWhat is this? I told her the whole incident. Then she raised

her hands and supplicated: O Allah ! I am pleased withhim, You too be pleased with him. (Nuzha-tul-Majlis, pp. 261, Vol. 1)

May the mercy of Allah be showered upon them and weget forgiven for their sake!


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Kissthe Doorstep of the Paradise EverydayThe fortunate ones, whose parents are still alive, should kiss

their feet and hands at least once a day. There is a great rewardin respecting the parents. The Holy Prophet has said: The Paradise lies under the feet of your mothers. Sobeing good to them reward entry into the Paradise. It is statedin Bar-e-Sharat, volume 16, page 88 published by Maktaba-tul-Madna: One may also kiss the feet of his mother. It is

stated in a ad The one who kissed his mothers feet; it is asif he kissed the doorstep of the Paradise. (Dur-ru-Mukhtr, p. 606Vol. 9)

Freed Two Slaves Upon the Voice Being Risen in

Front of Mother

Whenever you see your mother or father coming, stand upwith respect. Dont talk to them by looking into their eyes.Whenever they call you, instantly reply Labbak (Here I am).

Address them with respectful words (and never let your voicerise above theirs). Sayyidun Abdulla bin Awns mothercalled him and while replying back to her, his voice rose a littlebit. As a compensation, he freed two slaves. (ilyat-ul-Awliy, pp. 45, Vol. 3 Raqam 3103)


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Earn the Reward ofajj-e-Mabrr (Accepted ajj)

Again and Again

! How much our saints would value theirparents and how great their Madan thinking used to be.Where shall we get two slaves from! Alas! In such matters,forget about two chickens, we dont even have the courage tosacrifice two eggs in the path of Allah ! May Allah give us the ability to understand the importance of parents.mn!

Lets earn abundant rewards without spending anything andfor absolutely free. Look at your parents with sympathy andlove. How nice it is to look at your parents with a merciful gaze!The Holy Prophet has said: When children

look at their parents with a merciful gaze, Allah

writesthe reward ofajj-e-Mabrr (accepted ajj) for every (such)

sight. The Holy Companions asked: Even if someonelooks at them hundred times a day! Holy Prophet said, Yes, Allah is the Greatest and Ayab (the Purest).(Shuab-ul-mn, pp. 186, Vol. 6 ad 8756)

Undoubtedly, Allah is capable of everything. He cangive as much as He wants. He is not bound orcompelled by anyone at all so if someone looks at his parentswith a merciful gaze one hundred times a day, He wouldgrant him the reward of one hundred accepted ajjs.


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Companion ofHeavenOnce Sayyidun Ms asked Allah O

the most forgiving one! Show me my companion of Heaven.Allah said: Go to so and so town. You will find so and sobutcher over there, he will be your companion in Heaven.Therefore, Ms went to the butcher; (evenwithout knowing him and just considering him a traveller anda guest) he invited him. When they both sat down to eat, he

put a very big basket next to him. He would take one bitehimself and put two inside the basket. Meanwhile, someoneknocked on the door. Butcher got up and went outside. Ms

looked inside the basket and found out thatthere were aged man and woman inside. As soon as they lookedat Ms , smile appeared on their face. They

testified the Prophethood of Ms andpassed away right at that moment.

When the butcher came back and looked at his dead parentsinside the basket, he understood the whole matter and kissedhis hands and said: You seem to be Allahs Prophet Ms

. He

asked: How did you

recognise? He said: My parents used to supplicate humblyeveryday that O Allah ! Grant us death during sighting ofMs . Upon their sudden death, I realisedthat you must be Ms . The butcher furthersaid: Whenever my mother ate food, she would supplicate forme out of joy in the following manner: O Allah ! Make my

child the companion of Ms in Heaven.


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Ms said: Congratulations! Allah hasmade you my companion of Paradise. (Nuzha-tul-Majlis, pp. 266,Vol. 1)


The Disobedient of Parents is Punished Even in the

Worldly Life

Dear Islamic brothers! Did you see? How much supplicationsof parents for their children are accepted! If parents becomeangry and supplicate against their children, that is also accepted.Therefore, parents should always be kept happy. Holy Prophet said: Parents are your Hell and your Paradise.

At another place Holy Prophet said: If Allah wants He can delay the punishment for every sin

until the day of Judgement but He punishes the disobeyerof parents in this very world. (Al-Mustadrak, p. 216. Vol. 5 ad 7345)

One Became Dumb for Not Replying to His Mother

It is narrated that a man was called by his mother but he didnot reply back. Because of this, his Mother cursed him and hebecame dumb. (Bir-rul-Wlidan Li-arsh, p. 79)

Parents had Better Refrain from Cursing

Dear Islamic brothers! You have noted! The one who didnt

reply to his mothers call became dumb instantly! There are


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many Madan pearls of warning for disobeyers of parents butthere is also a great point where parents need to think too.

Especially those mothers, who curse their children by saying:May you be destroyed, May you catch leprosy etc., shouldcontrol their tongues. It might be the time of acceptance and ifthe supplication gets accepted, something wrong may happento the child. Now the mother will be tensed! Therefore, it isalways best to supplicate only in the favour of your children.

Will Have to Return Even IfYou are AbroadNo doubt, it is a great honour to travel in Madan Qfilas ofDawat-e-Islami with the devotees of the Holy Prophet in orderto learn Sunnas. It is also a great privilege to travel in MadanQfilas of Dawat-e-Islami and spread the Madan work, to

travel overseas and stay there for 12 months or 25 months butif parents get angry due to this or if they have to face so muchtrouble due to this, then do not travel at all. The aim ofspreading the work of Dawat-e-Islami around the globe is notto attain self praises but to attain the pleasure of Allah and the pleasure of Allah can never be attained by hurting

the feelings of parents.

Furthermore, people working or doing businesses in othercities or countries should also travel by obeying their parents.Keep this in your mind as it is written in Bar-e-Sharat,

volume 16, page number 202 published by Maktaba-tul-Madna: He (the son) is in abroad and parents call him. Now

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sufficient. Similarly if parents require him to serve them, hemust return and serve them.

Infant Spoke Up!

Whenever parents call, do not delay in replying without areason. Some people are very negligent in this matter and mayAllah forbid; they do not even consider the delay in replyto be bad at all. If supererogatory (Nafl) al is being offeredand parents are not aware of it and they call hazily, one will

have to respond to them by breaking the al. (However it isWjib to reoffer that Nafl al afterwards).

Those who hurt their parents feelings by ignoring their callsfor no reason become very sinful and deserving of the Hellfires. Mother is after all a mother. Sometimes due to confusionsomething bad for her children comes out of her mouth and if

it is the time of acceptance of supplication, then children comeunder difficulties. In this relation, a moral story of an old manfrom Ban Isrl is mentioned in the Bukhr Sharf.

Therefore, the Holy Prophet has reported:There was a person named Juraj in Ban Isrl. He was offeringal whilst his mother came and called him but he didnt

reply. He said: Shall I offer al or reply to her. His mothercame again (and cursed him by not getting a reply from him):O Allah ! Do not give him death until he sees the face ofan immodest woman.


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Juraj was one day in the place of worship. A woman said: Iwill seduce him. Therefore, she came and started talking to

Juraj but he (Juraj) denied. Finally, she went to a shepherdand handed over herself to him. Resultantly, she bore a childand associated him to Juraj. People came to Juraj and brokehis place of worship and kicked him out and abused him.Juraj performed ablution and offered al and then came tothat child and said: O child! Who is your father? He replied: Soand so shepherd. Subsequently people offered Juraj: We willbuild you a place of worship with gold. He said: No. Make it asit was (of dirt). (a Bukhr, pp. 39, Vol. 2 ad 2482, Sa Muslim,

pp. 1380, ad 2550)


Walking Six Miles on Blistering Stones Whilst

Mother on Shoulders

There are so many rights of parents and we can never fulfilthem. Therefore, one of the holy companion said inthe blessed court of the Holy Prophet : Therewere extremely hot stones on a way that if a piece of uncookedmeat was put on them, it would be roasted! I took my mothersix miles carrying her on my shoulders. Am I free from the rights

of my mother? The Holy Prophet said: This


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might be the recompense for one of the labouring shocks sheendured while giving birth to you. (Mujam Kabr, pp. 96, Vol. 10,

ad 652)


What IfMan had to Bear Child Instead ofWoman !

Dear Islamic brothers! Undoubtedly a mother faces so manyhardships for her child. Only a mother can understand thepain she bears during delivery. How easy it is for man that hedoesnt have to face delivery.

Al arat says in Fatw Razaviyya Sharf

volume 27 page 101: Man only gets delight but woman faceshardships for a long time. Keeps the child in womb for ninemonths and faces the difficulties in walking, getting up, sittingdown and she faces almost death upon every contractionduring childbearing. Then woman who grins and bears thepains of bleeding after giving the birth is unable to sleep due to

different kinds of pains she gets. Thats why Allah says:

His mother bore him in the womb with hardship, and delivered

him with hardship; and carried him and lactating him is for thirty

months.

(Chapter 26, Al-Aqf, verse 15) (Kanzul mn [Translation of Quran])


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So the birth of every child is at least three years continuoushard labour for a woman. If a man had to give birth to even a

mouse, he would have never done it ever again in his life.(Fatw

Razawiyya (Jadd), p. 27 vol. 101)

Wife Deserves Sympathy

Dear Islamic brothers! The blessed Fatwa of Al arat doesnt only highlight the importance of a mother but also of a

wife. A husband should be more kind towards his wife duringthe period of pregnancy. He should help her out in everything.He shouldnt let her do any hard work. He shouldnt give hertension by shouting at her or through any other means. In fact,he should give her as much rest as possible. Whenever headores his child, he should also look at his childs mother witha merciful gaze that how many difficulties she endured todeliver his beloved child.

Explanation of the Ruling on Breast Feeding a Child

The Quranic verse that has been mentioned in the blessedFatwa of Al arat And lactating him is for thirtymonths is related to the establishment of relation of milk andto the prohibition of Nik. It is mentioned in Bar-e-Sharat,

volume 2, page 36 published by Maktaba-tul-Madna that:Infant shall be breast fed for two years (according to ijryears). It is not permissible more than that, whether the infantis a girl or a boy and it is popular amongst some people that agirl can be breast fed for two years and a boy for two and a half;

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This ruling (of 02 years) is for breast feeding only and forNik to become arm, the period is two and a half years.

Meaning that even though breast feeding after two years isarm, but if she breast feeds within two and a half years(according to ijr year), then urmat-e-Nik would be validand if she feeds after that, it would not validate urmat-e-Nik even though doing so is not permissible.

It is an Obligation to be Obedient to EvenCruel Parents

Sayyidun Abdulla bin Abbs states that theHoly Prophet said: The one whose morningwas in such a way that he was obedient to his parents, for him

two portals of the Heaven are opened in the morning and ifonly one of them is alive from his parents, then one portalopens. And the one whose evening was in such a way that hewas disobedient to Allah for the rights of his parents, forhim two portals of the Hell open since the morning and if onlyone of them is alive, then only one portal opens. A personasked whether the parents tyrannise him. He

replied: Even if they tyrannise, even if they tyrannise, even ifthey tyrannise. (Shuab-ul-mn, pp. 206, Vol. 6, ad 7916)

Dear Islamic brothers! No doubt the person who keeps hisparents happy is very fortunate. The one who displeases hisparents there is nothing else for him apart from destruction.

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Treat your parents with kindness; if either of them or both reach

old age in your presence, do not say Uff (any expression of disgust)

to them and do not rebuff them, and speak to them with the utmost

respect. And lower your wing humbly for them, with mercy, andpray, My Lord! Have mercy on them both the way they nursed me

when I was young. Your Lord is Well Aware of what is in your

hearts.

(Chapter 15, Ban Isrl, verse 23-25) (Kanzul mn [Translation of Quran])

Mother Do Bears the Excrement of Her Kids inTheir Childhood

Dear Islamic brothers! In the above mentioned verse, Allah has given the order to be kind to parents and specially

emphasized to look after them in their old age. The old age of

parents certainly puts a man through trial. Sometimes in theold age, parents excrete on their beds and children getannoyed but bear that in mind! Serving parents in such state isalso obligatory.

After all, mother too leans up excrement of the child in thechildhood. Due to the old age and different diseases, no matter

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decrepit, no matter how much they grumble make an issuewithout any reason, no matter how much they fight, even

though if they make your life miserable, but still you will haveto be patient, patient and patient and will have to respect them.Forget about being disrespectful or shouting at them but youare not allowed to even say Uff to them otherwise you can beat a great loss and destruction of both worlds can become yourdestiny because the one who hurts the feeling of his parentsgets humiliated and is accursed in this world and also becomesdeserving the torment in the Hereafter.

Dil dukn chor dayn Mn Bp k

Warna is Mayn ay khasra p k

Stop hurting the feeling of parentsOtherwise you will be in a great loss

(Wasil-e-Bakhshish, pp. 377)

Deceased Resembling Donkey

Sayyidun Awwm bin awshab (who was amongstTabi Tbain and passed away in 148 ijr) says: Once Ipassed by a graveyard which was located on the outskirts of a

village. After the al of Ar, one of the graves opened and aman came out whose head was like the head of a donkey andrest of the body was like of a human. He brayed three timeslike a donkey and went back into the grave and the graveclosed.

An old lady was sewing cotton. A lady said to me: Do you see

that old woman? I said: Whats the matter with her? She said


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that the old lady is the mother of the one in the grave. He was adrunkard; whenever he would drink and return home in the

evening, his mother used to advise him: O my child, fear Allah . When will you give up such worst thing! He used toreply her back: You bray like donkey. He died after the alof Ar. Since the day he died, every day after the al of Ar,his grave splits and he brays like a donkey three times and goesback into his grave and the grave closes back. (At-Targhb wat-Tarhb, pp. 226, Vol. 2 ad 17)

Disobeyers Worship Not Accepted

Dear Islamic brothers! We repent in the blessed court of Allah the most merciful and forgiving and implore Him for

security in the Hereafter.

Ah! Hurting the feelings of ones parents is cause of deprivationand results in severe torment. It is stated in a ad that:Torment of the grave is a reality. Sometimes its glimpses arealso shown in the world so that people may take some lessonfrom it.

Al arat

says in the reply of one of the questions

asked to him regarding the disobeyer of the father that:Disobedience of father is the disobedience of Allah andthe anger of father is the anger of Allah . If a person pleaseshis parents, they are Paradise for him and if he displeases them,then they are his Hell. None of his Far (Obligatory), Nafl(Supererogatory) or good deeds will be acknowledged at all

until he doesnt please his father.


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Apart from the torment of the Hereafter, severe calamities willbefall him in this world and there is a danger that whilst he is

dying, , he wouldnt be able to recite the KalimaSharf (article of faith). (Fatw Razawiyya (Jadd), pp. 383-385, vol. 24).

May Allah forbid, even if the parents are Kfir (nonbelievers), it is still necessary to be kind to them within theprovisions of the Shara, adr-ush-Shara, Badr-u-arqa,Allma Mauln Muft Muhammad Amjad Ali Aam

writes with the reference to Alamgr in Bar-e-Sharat, volume 2, page 452 Published by Maktaba-tul-Madna that: If parents of a Muslim are Kfir (non believer)and they ask him to take them to an idol-temple, then heshouldnt do so and if they ask to bring them back from there,then he can bring them back. (Fatwah Alamghr, pp. 350, Vol. 6)

One Who Abuses his Mother/Father...

Those who are used to abusing other peoples mothers are verydisgraceful people adr-ush-Shara, Badr-u-arqa, AllmaMauln Muft Muhammad Amjad Ali Aam writes in Bar-e-Sharat, volume 16, page 195 Published byMaktaba-tul-Madna that: The Holy Prophet said: It is amongst the major sins that a person abuses hisparents. People asked: Y Raslull , Is thereanyone who even abuses his parents? He said:Yes. It is when he abuses someone elses father, he abuses backat his father and when he abuses someone elses mother, he

abuses back at his mother.


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After narrating this ad, Allma Mauln Muft MuhammadAmjad Ali Aam says: The holy companions

who had seen the time of ignorance did not understand thatwhy would someone abuse his own parents (i.e. can someoneeven abuse his parents!); this was inconceivable. The HolyProphet described that it means to get abusedby others and now such a time has come that some peopleabuse their parents themselves and completely disregard them.(Bar-e-Sharat)

The Ones Hanging With the Branches of Fire

Sayyidun Imm Amad bin ajr Makk Shfi narrates: The Holy Prophet said: On the nightof Mirj (Ascension), I saw some people who were hanging

with the branches of fire. So I asked: O Jibrl, who are thesepeople? He replied: These are the people who used to abusetheir mothers and fathers in the world. (Azzawjir Aniqtirf-il-

Kabir, pp. 139, vol.2)

As Many Embers as Raindrops

It is reported: The one who abuses his parents, as many embersdescend in his grave as the raindrops descend on the earthfrom the sky. (Azzawjir Aniqtirf-il-Kabir pp. 140, vol.2)

Grave Smashes the Ribs

It is narrated: When the disobeyer of parents is buried, the

grave squeezes him so much that his ribs mix into one another


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(after being smashed). (Azzawjir Aniqtirf-il-Kabir pp. 140, vol.2)

Will Not Enter the HeavenIt is reported by Sayyidun Abdull bin Umar that the Holy Prophet said: Three people willnot enter the Paradise:

1. Disobeyer of parents2. Dayy

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3. A woman adopting the resemblance of man. (Al-Mustadrak,

pp. 525, Vol. 1, ad 252)

IfFather-Mother Quarrel, What ShouldChildren Do?

Al arat says: If there is quarrel between parentsthe children should neither support the mother nor the father.They shouldnt be harsh on the father out of the love for themother. To hurt the feelings of father, to reply back to himrudely, or speak to him disrespectfully by looking straight intohis eyes is arm and is disobedience of Allah

. It is not

allowed for children to support either their mother or father inthis way. Both of them are his heaven and hell. Whoever hehurts, he will deserve the hell.

One should never go for such obedience of anyone whichculminates in disobedience of Allah . For example, if the

1 Dayy is a person who does not insist his woman to refrain herself from unveiling.


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mother asks her child to hurt the father by any means and if hedoes not agree to do so i.e. doesnt be harsh on the father and

due to this the mother gets angry, then he should let her beangry and should not listen to his mother at all in this matterand vice versa for the father.

Scholars have made discrimination in such a way that inmatters of looking after, mother will be given priority and inmatters of respect, father will be given the preference because

ones father is the head of his mother as well. (Fatw Razawiyya(Jadd), pp. 390, Vol. 24)

IfParents Order to Shave the Beard, Do NotListen to Them

We come to know that if parents ask to do something unlawful(against the Shara), do not comply. Obeying them in unlawfulthings is sin. For example, parents ask to tell lie or shave beardor keep it less than a fistful, then do no listen to them at all onthese things no matter how much angry they become. You willnot be considered to be disobedient. And if you do agree tothem (on unlawful things) then you would definitely beconsidered to be a disobeyer of Allah .

Similarly, if parents are divorced and no matter how muchmother cries and orders you not to meet your father, then thisorder will not be obeyed. You will have to meet your father and

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but the relationship with children is not broken. Children willhave to observe equal rights for both of them.

What Should a Person Do If His Parents Died

Whilst Displeased With Him?

The one whose parents passed away whilst they were displeased,he should abundantly supplicate for their forgiveness as the

biggest gift for the deceased is the supplication for theirforgiveness and should also transmit a lot of awb on theirbehalf. Hopefully deceased parents will become pleased withhim if he sends the gifts of good deeds continuously.

It is stated in Bar-e-Sharat, volume 16, page 197 publishedby Maktaba-tul-Madna that: The Holy Prophet

said: Someones parents or one of them passed away in a statethat he was disobedient to them, now he should ask for theirforgiveness so much so that Allah writes his nameamongst the pious people. (Shuab-ul-mn, pp. 202, Vol. 6, ad 7902)

If possible, buy as many booklets and books from Maktaba-

tul-Madna as you can and distribute them with the intentionof l-e-awb1. If you want your parents name or youraddress to be printed on the books and booklets for purpose ofl-e-awb, please contact Maktaba-tul-Madna.

1 Il-e-awb refers to the act of spiritually sending the reward of virtuous deeds to thedeceased.


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PayoffParents DebtsThe Holy Prophet said: The one who fulfils

the oath of his parents after their death and pays off their debtsand doesnt get them abused by abusing others parents, he willthen be written amongst those who treat their parents nicelyeven if he was disobedient to them (in their lifetime) and theone who doesnt fulfil the oath of his parents and doesnt payoff their debts and gets them abused by abusing others parents,

he will be written as disobedient even if he used to treat themnicely in their lifetime. (Mujam Awsa, pp. 232, Vol.4 ad 5819)

The Reward ofVisitingthe Grave ofParents onFriday

The Most Beloved Prophet has said: The onewho visits both graves of his parents or anyone of them everyFriday, Allah will forgive his sins and he will be writtenamongst those who treat their parents nicely. (Jmi Tirmi, p. 97

ad 130)

Madan Channel will Bring Madan Reforms in

Every House

Dear Islamic brothers! In order to save yourself from the

disobedience of parents and to get the zeal of their obedience


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and furthermore, to light up the love of the Holy Prophet in your hearts and to make your hearts the

centre of the love of the Holy Prophet

, stayattached to the Madan environment of Dawat-e-Islami.

! With the blessings of this Madan environment,we will get the privilege of acting upon Sunna, doing gooddeeds, refraining from sins and safeguarding our faith.

For learning of Sunna, adopt practice of travelling in threedays Madan Qfila every month with the devotees of theHoly Prophet. Spend days and nights of your lives according toMadan Inmt provided by the Madan Markaz. Moreover,every night, do Fikr-e-Madna for at least 12 minutes and fill

in your Madan Inmt card. ! You will besuccessful in both the worlds. In order to understand the

blessings of the Madan environment of Dawat-e-Islami, nowread a Madan Marvel.

The summary of the account presented by a Muballigh-e-Dawat-e-Islami from Mrpr 11 (Dhaka, Bangladesh) is thatonce I came across someone while I was going somewhere.

Upon seeing me he said: Do you know where am I going withmy wife and kids? Then he replied himself: Actually my parentsand I were at discord with each other. By virtue of watchingBayn Mn Bp ke uqq (Rights of the Parents) on Madanchannel, I realised that I have committed a major sin by beingdisobedient to parents. Therefore, I am going in the court of

my parents along with my wife and kids to apologise. May


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Allah confer success to Dawat-e-Islami and MadanChannel by leaps and bounds.

R-e-Sunnat par chal kar sab ko Jannat k araf

Lay chalay bus ik ye ay Madan Channel k adaf

Y Khud ay iltij Ar k

Sunnatayn apnyan sab Sarkr k

Leg Got Cut offDue to Mothers Curse

Dear Islamic brothers! From this Madan marvel, we come toknow the benefits of the Madan channel. In this MadanBar, The Rights of Parents are discussed and without anydoubt, to completely fulfil the rights of parents is very difficult.One should keep trying to fulfil their rights throughout his lifeand should try to save himself from the anger of parents.

Those people who hurt their parents come to a fearful end inthis world too.

Therefore, Shaykh Allma Kaml-ud-Dn Damair narrates that Zamakhshar (who was a famous scholar of theMutazil sect) had one leg cut off. On query of people, herevealed: This is due to my mothers curse. The incident took

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its leg. By chance, it flew away from my hand and went into acrack of a wall but the thread was hanging out. I pulled the

thread very forcefully and the bird came out with convulsivemotion in severe pain but the poor birds leg was cut due to thethread. My mother saw this painful scene and became restlessout of anguish and she cursed me saying: May Allah cutyour leg in the same way as you did to this innocent bird.

And it happened accordingly. After sometime, I travelled to

Bukhr to learn Ilm-e-Dn and I fell down from my ride andmy leg was severely injured. When I got to Bukhr, I wentthrough a lot of treatments but the pain would not get better.After all, I had to get the leg cut off. (And so the mothers cursecame true). (ayt-ul-aywn-ul-Kubr, pp. 163, Vol. 2)

Apologise to Your Parents by Falling to Their FeetDear Islamic brothers! If your parents or any one of them areangry, without any further delay, implore forgiveness by crying,by joining your hands in front of them and by falling into theirfeet. Fulfil their lawful demands because the success of bothworlds lies in it. For further information about the rights of

parents, please watch two VCDs:

1. Mn Bp ke uqq (Rights of the Parents).2. The VCD of Madan Mukara held during the Itikf of

Ramadan-ul-Mubarak (1430 ijr) named Wlidan kayna-Farmnon k Anjm (Aftermath of Disobedience of

the Parents) presented by Maktaba-tul-Madna.


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Dil dukn chor dayn Mn Bp k

Warna ay is mayn khasra p k

Kna-e-Muslim se sna pk karIttib-e-ib-e-Laulk kar

Y Khud hay iltij Ar k

Sunnatayn apnyan sab Sarkr k

Stop hurting your parents hearts

Otherwise you will be in a great lossPurify your heart from the malice of Muslims

Follow the footsteps of the beloved prophet of Allah O Lord, the request of Ar is that

Everyone adopt the Sunna of the Noble Prophet

Dear Islamic brothers! Concluding the Bayn to the end, I willhave the privilege of mentioning the blessings of Sunna andsome of the Sunna and Islamic manners. The Holy Prophet has said: The one who loves my Sunna lovesme and the one who loves me will be with me in the Paradise.

15 Sunnas and Manners ofWalking1. Allah says in the 15th chapter, Sra Ban Isrl,

verse number 37, translation from Kanz-ul-mn Sharf:


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- - - - And do not walk haughtily on the earth; you can not tear the

earth and nor you can achieve height of the mountains.

2. The fragrant saying of the Beloved Prophet has been narrated in Bar-e-Sharat, volume 16, page78 published by Maktaba-tul-Madna that: A manwas walking arrogantly by being covered with two piecesof cloths and was feeling proud of it. The earth pulled himinside and he will keep getting pulled inside the earthuntil the Day of Judgement. (Sa Muslim, p. 5465)

3. The Beloved Prophet sometimes used tohold the hand of his companion in his blessed hand while

walking. (Mujam Kabr, pp. 162, vol.7) One should not holdthe hand of any Amrad (attractive lad). To hold his handor to shake hands with him or to hug him out of lust isarm and an act that leads towards the Hellfire.

4. When the Holy Prophet used to walk, he would lean a little bit forward as though

as if he is descending from height. (Shamil-e-Tirmi, pp. 87, ad118)

5. Never walk with pride, wearing gold or any metal chainsand with your front buttons opened to show off. This isthe style of unwise, proud, transgressing people. It isarm for men to wear a gold chain in the neck and

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6. If there is no hindrance, walk on the side of the pathwayat a medium pace. Dont be so fast that people start

looking at you that where is he going in such a hurry andnot too slow that a viewer may assume that you are ill.

7. It is not Sunna to look here and there (unnecessarily)while walking. Walk with dignity and with your gazeslowered down. Sayyidun assn bin Ab Sinn went for the Eid al. When he came back

home, his wife asked him: How many women did yousee? He observed silence. When she insisted alot, he said: I kept looking at the thumbs ofmy feet from exit till return to you. (Kitb-ul-Wara ma

Mawsa Imm Ibn Ab Duny, pp.205, vol. 1)

! Devotees of Allah dont look here and there

unnecessarily while walking, especially when its crowdedas they might look at someone who is not permitted bythe Shara to look at! This was the piety of our saints

. The ruling is that if you look at a womanunintentionally and move your gaze away immediately,you will not be sinful.

8. Its not appropriate to look at someones balcony orwindows unnecessarily.

9. While walking or coming up or down the stairs, makesure that your shoes do not make noise. Our BelovedProphet did not like the echo created by

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10. If there are two women standing or going on a way, donot go through between them. A blessed ad prohibits

us from doing so.11. It is against manners to spit, clean your nose, put your

finger inside the nose, keep tickling your ears, clean thedirt of your clothes with your fingers, itching your privateparts and so on while walking, sitting down or standing infront of people.

12. Some people have the habit of kicking whatever comes intheir way. This is very ill mannered practice. There is alsoa danger of your foot getting injured. Furthermore, kickingnewspapers or boxes, packets and empty bottles of mineralwater having inscriptions is also very disrespectful.

13. While walking, abide by the laws that do not oppose theShara. For example, whilst crossing the road, try tocross the road from the zebra crossings or the over headbridge.

14. Cross the road by looking at the direction of the traffic. Ifyou are in the middle of the road and vehicle is

approaching, then rather than running away, try to staythere as this is a safer approach. Furthermore, to cross thetracks at times when trains usually pass from there is likeinviting your death. The one who considers trains to be

very far should keep in mind the danger of beingentangled in wires in rush and falling over and the train

passing over him and there are some places where going


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through the tracks is against the law. Adhere to these lawsespecially on the stations.

15. Walk for 45 minutes doing ikr and reciting alt-Alan-Nab everyday with the intention of gaining strength to

worship. ! You will remain healthy. The bestway to walk is that walk at fast pace for the first 15minutes, next 15 minutes with medium pace and walkfast again for the last 15 minutes. With this practice, the

whole body will be exercised. ! The digestivesystem will be fine you will be saved fromheart diseases and many other diseases.

In order to learn thousands of Sunnas, buy and read twobooks:

1. Bar-e-Sharat, volume 16 and2. Sunnatayn or db (Published by Maktab-tul-Madna).

Another great source of learning the Sunna is to travelwith the devotees of the Holy Prophet in the MadanQfila of Dawat-e-Islami.

Lnay ramatayn qfilay mayn chalo

Skhnay sunnatayn qfilay mayn chalo

on g al mushkilayn qfilay mayn chalo

Khatm on shmatayn qfilay mayn chalo


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