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September - October 2019 Vol. 23 Number 5 www.tbk.org September - October 2019 5th Annual TBK Congregational Picnic Sunday September 8 at TBK 12:00 - 2:00 pm: Kosher hot dogs, hamburgers, veggie burgers, salads, chips & desserts. Plus, music, bounce houses, crafts & fun! Adults: $5 per person/Children: Free - RSVPs needed for all/children must be accompanied by an adult. Please respond no later than Friday August 30th. RSVP & payment to Terri Richardson at 244-7060 or [email protected]. Attend the Annual Bernstein Society Shabbat Service Friday, October 25, 2019 Guest Speaker: Joseph R. Fornieri Topic: The Decline of Civility in Public Life 6:00 pm Shabbat Service with Guest Speaker 7:15 pm Bernstein Society Annual Meeting & Dinner Joseph R. Fornieri is Professor of Political Science at RIT and teaches courses on American Politics, Rhetoric, and Constitutional Rights. Dr. Fornieri is an expert on the political ideology of Abraham Lincoln and has authored several books including Abraham Lincoln, Philosopher Statesmen (2014), The Language of Liberty: The Political Speeches and Writings of Abraham Lincoln (2008), and Abraham Lincoln’s Political Faith (2005). There is a charge of $15 for dinner for Bernstein Society members. Dinner is also open to TBK congregants and the public at a cost of $20 per person. RSVP no later than October 15th to Terri Richardson at [email protected] 244-7060. The Bernstein Society fosters the presentation of topics of interest to the community and the congregation in memory of Rabbi Bernstein. The Society welcomes new members. Please contact Linda Mendelson at [email protected] for more information. An invitation to those looking for a worship home for the High Holy Days To encourage unaffiliated individuals and families in the Rochester community to explore all TBK has to offer, we are inviting those individuals and families to attend the High Holy Days as guests of the Temple. To help further this effort – initiated to attract new congregants – current congregants are encouraged to ask unaffiliated family and friends to join us for the High Holy Days. This initiative is part of an effort to build the Temple’s community and also highlights the Give to Your Heart’s Content campaign, a new way congregants make their financial pledge and commitment to the Temple. The Temple has seen an increase in new, first-time memberships, “which reaffirms the idea that TBK’s new approach appeals to those looking for a new spiritual home,” says campaign chair Sue Lococo, herself a life-long TBK congregant. “Our hope is that the guest initiative will help to grow our TBK community.” This year to-date, 25 new individual or family members have joined our congregation. Current congregants who wish to invite guests to our services should call or email Terri Richardson at 244-7060 x 229 or at [email protected] Please be prepared to give us your guests’ names, addresses, phone number and e-mails. Registration in the Temple’s guest program must take place prior to the Holidays.

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Page 1: October 2019...This initiative is part of an effort to build the Temple’s community and also highlights the . Give to Your Heart’s Content. campaign, a new way congregants make

September - October

2019Vol. 23 Number 5

www.tbk.org

September - October

2019

Help us find Congregants

I’ve had a few answers too, so now the “outstanding” list appears to be:Michael - column, Annual Meeting & Nominations (cover), goodbye rabbi (cover), campaign articleDaniel – columnJacqui – school Shabbat on May 18, End of school event, mother’s daySuzanne – donationsMuseum eventCongregatingsSocial Action Page (I have Tempro & shortened “pencils & paper” but nothing else from Ayala yet)

Have a good PassoverSuzanne

5th Annual TBK Congregational Picnic Sunday September 8 at TBK

12:00 - 2:00 pm: Kosher hot dogs, hamburgers, veggie burgers, salads, chips & desserts. Plus, music, bounce houses, crafts & fun!

Adults: $5 per person/Children: Free - RSVPs needed for all/children must be accompanied by an adult. Please respond no later than Friday August 30th. RSVP & payment to Terri Richardson at 244-7060 or [email protected].

Attend the Annual Bernstein Society Shabbat Service

Friday, October 25, 2019 Guest Speaker: Joseph R. Fornieri Topic: The Decline of Civility in Public Life

6:00 pm Shabbat Service with Guest Speaker7:15 pm Bernstein Society Annual Meeting & Dinner

Joseph R. Fornieri is Professor of Political Science at RIT and teaches courses on American Politics, Rhetoric, and Constitutional Rights. Dr. Fornieri is an expert on the political ideology of Abraham Lincoln and has authored several books including Abraham Lincoln, Philosopher Statesmen (2014), The Language of Liberty: The Political Speeches and Writings of Abraham Lincoln (2008), and Abraham Lincoln’s Political Faith (2005).

There is a charge of $15 for dinner for Bernstein Society members. Dinner is also open to TBK congregants and the public at a cost of $20 per person. RSVP no later than October 15th to Terri Richardson at [email protected] 244-7060. The Bernstein Society fosters the presentation of topics of interest to the community and the congregation in memory of Rabbi Bernstein. The Society welcomes new members. Please contact Linda Mendelson at [email protected] for more information.

An invitation to those looking for a worship home for the High Holy Days

To encourage unaffiliated individuals and families in the Rochester community to explore all TBK has to offer, we are inviting those individuals and families to attend the High Holy Days as guests of the Temple.

To help further this effort – initiated to attract new congregants – current congregants are encouraged to ask unaffiliated family and friends to join us for the High Holy Days.This initiative is part of an effort to build the Temple’s community and also highlights the Give to Your Heart’s Content campaign, a new way congregants make their financial pledge and commitment to the Temple.

The Temple has seen an increase in new, first-time memberships, “which reaffirms the idea that TBK’s new approach appeals to those looking for a new spiritual home,” says campaign chair Sue Lococo, herself a life-long TBK congregant. “Our hope is that the guest initiative will help to grow our TBK community.” This year to-date, 25 new individual or family members have joined our congregation.

Current congregants who wish to invite guests to our services should call or email Terri Richardson at 244-7060 x 229 or at [email protected] Please be prepared to give us your guests’ names, addresses, phone number and e-mails. Registration in the Temple’s guest program must take place prior to the Holidays.

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All in the Temple Family

Mazel Tov to...

Temple Contacts

Peter W. Stein Senior RabbiRochelle Tulik Assistant RabbiLaurence A. Kotok Rabbinic Scholar & Sr. Advisor for Life- long Jewish LearningKeri Lopatin Berger Cantorial Soloist & Director of MusicMichael Yudelson Executive DirectorTerri Richardson Program & Engagement DirectorJacqui Lipschitz Education Director

Steven Chaba PresidentMichael Kaufman President-ElectFred Weingarten Vice PresidentIrene Narotsky SecretaryDavid Stone TreasurerDaniel Mendelson Past President

The Temple president may be reached via the Temple’s voicemail system at 244.7060 x 401.

Temple Hours Monday-Thursday 9:00 am - 5:00 pmFriday 9:00 am - 3:00 pm

Robert Loeb Bulletin Editor

All ads placed with payment in advance. TBK reserves the right to refuse any ad for any reason. Contact the TBK office at 244.7060

Temple B’rith Kodesh2131 Elmwood Ave.Rochester, NY 14618-1021585.244.7060 www.tbk.org

New members – Nancy Weinstein, Wayne & Jacqui Lipschitz, Marty Golub, Alissa and Jim Roger, Vera Plotkin.

Members Dale & Joe Klein and Debbie & Andrew Schepard announce the marriage of their children Elissa & Eric on Sunday May 26, 2019 at the Genesee Valley Club. Elissa is the granddaughter of members Lenora Klein and Ray Fradkin.

Bev & Morrie Weinstein celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary.

Bob Sneider was presented with the Jack L. Frank Award for Excellence in Teaching by the Eastman Community Music School

David & Jane Levy celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.

Harry & Ellen Rosen welcome their first granddaughter Golda Beth Rosen on July 15, 2019. This is the first child for proud parents Abby & Aaron Rosen.

Mari & Marvin Wolk on the engagement of their son Justin to Lisette Velasco over the July 4th weekend. The newly engaged couple reside in Phoenix, Arizona.

Member James Berger and Grace Chen on their recent marriage.

Johnathan & Shayna Minix on the birth of their son, Levy Gold.

Alex & Alison Cameron and Richard & Lori Stromberg on the birth of their son/grandson Grayson James.

Sarah Zakalik on her marriage to Kevin Kurtz on Sunday, August 4th at Three Brother’s Vineyard on Seneca Lake. Sarah’s sons Noah and Adam along with her parents Jerry & Bobby Zakalik and brother Scott Zakalik were there to celebrate the beautiful day with them.

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From Rabbi Tulik

A Place to Belong

May the New Year be one of Promise and Hope

May the New Year bring us Joy and Peace

May the New Year help us grow

May the New Year bring us closer to one another

May the New Year open to us the Gates of Prayer

May the New Year bring us Healing and Health

May our hearts and souls be touched by the New Year

And may we find the strength to hope - to live

Our very best wishes for a sweet New Year 5780 - from home to home

Rabbi Peter Stein & Amy Stein Rabbi Rochelle Tulik

Keri & Jason Berger Steven & Laura Chaba

Michael Yudelson & Karen McArthur Jacqui & Wayne Lipschitz

Terri & Steve Richardson

Temple B’rith Kodesh is a place where anyone can find some way to connect to their ideal Judaism. It is a place that can bring out the best in us and push us to grow. We are lucky here. There are groups for everyone and pathways in for anyone looking. Our tradition teaches that Abraham’s tent was open on all sides so that he could welcome anyone in from whatever direction they approached. Like Abraham’s tent, Temple B’rith Kodesh has doors in every direction as well - both literally and metaphor-ically. And while you can’t always enter our physical building from any direction, there is always a way into our tent. Whether you enjoy study, prayer, or hands-on engagement, you can find a “door” at TBK. As the new year gets underway, I encourage you to find your doorways to engagement. I am confident that there are things you do in your “regular” life that are well-aligned with our Jewish values.

Are you passionate about social justice work? Are you engaged in work to help make the world a better place or people’s lives easier? We do that here! Join our Social Action Committee - if we aren’t directly engaged in your passion area, maybe we should be! Tell us about it!

Did you grow up at Jewish camp and miss the feeling of a camp Shabbat? Did you enjoy your Bat/Bar Mitzvah so much, you wish you could chant Torah or give a sermon again? I’d be happy to share the bima with you! Come pray with us on Friday

nights or Saturday mornings! Join our Religious Practices Com-mittee or just stop by my office to talk about services.

Do you like talking to people and brightening their days? Want to help spread the love and sense of community to our more vulnerable members? Join our Caring Community Committee to help us reach out to members unable to physically enter our “tent”.

Does your family love hanging out with other families? Our School and Youth Committee has a ton of opportunities for social and meaningful engagement - with each other and the greater Temple community.

These are just a few of our “doors” in. We also have a thriv-ing Sisterhood/WRJ community, our Congregatings and Kollel Adult Education programming are robust and engaging, and our Youth Group opportunities are constantly growing! If you have an interest in life, chances are it’s happening here. If not, I’d love to talk with you to see if we can make it. TBK Rollerderby anyone?!

Get involved; get more involved; join us. Let’s continue to make Temple B’rith Kodesh a place where anyone, where everyone feels they belong.

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In Memoriam

We note with sorrow the passing of the following and extend our sympathy to the family members who are part of our TBK family.

For information on additional family members, please see BrightonMemorialChapel.com

Margaret Peggy Stone, mother of Dr. Pamela Stone (Mark Dudley) and grand-mother of Joanna & Matthew Dudley on June 14

Arthur Kaufman, father of Michael (Karin) Kaufman on July 6

Emanuel Rosen, father of Joel (Lara Evans) Rosen and grandfather of Han-nah, Olivia & Leah on July 13

Kevin Clinefelter, father of Heidi Clinefelter on July 13

Leon Sabath, brother-in-law of Margie Sabath on July 21

Member Jerome Marks, husband of Susan and father of Richard (Laura) Marks and grandfather of Jeffrey & Rachel Marks on July 23

Member Elaine Lasser, wife of Michael on July 24

Honorable Richard Rosenbaum, father of Amy (Kevin) Steklof and brother-in- law to Harold (Ann) Kanthor on July 28

Hermaine Leavitt, sister of Sharon (Jeffrey) Trest on August 3

Betty Stein, grandmother of Lisa (Scott) Fybush and great-grandmother of Ari & Eli on August 9

Friday, September 6th and Saturday, September 7th Abram Alperovich, Samuel Bauman, Belle Esther Berger, Manfred Berger, Cerf Berkley, Benjamin Berkley, Benjamin Besdin, James H. Biben, Shirley Braiman, Lillian Braveman, Leon Brontman, Murray H. Brovitz, Rose Buff, Ann Susan Caplan, David Cohen, Lottie B. Connuck, Anna Cukell, Dorothe A. Feldman, Eva Festenstein, Jane Glazer, Laurence Glazer, Richard Goldman, Raymond Goldstein, Rhoda Tasman Goldstein, Kenneth Goodwin, Audrey Gordon, Florence Halpern, Dora L. Heilbronner, Marion Kates, Elizabeth Ann Kissel, Arline Komenski, Vera Kravetz, Abraham Kroll, Libbie Lavine, Don Levine, Myron Lewis, May Lovenheim, Isadore Messinger, Samuel Robenstein, Celia Rockford, George Rosen, Joseph Rosenfeld, Hilda Rothschild, Dick Schindler, Herbert Schwartz, Pauline Shamus, Charles Solky, Arline Squires, Rose B. Strumph, Joseph Wolfe Tein, Albert Torres, Ida D. Vigdor, Rose Sherman Weiss, Daryl S. Wolin, Pearl Wortzel, Jean Young

Friday, September 13th and Saturday, September 14th Mae Manson Appelbaum, Norman Appelbaum, Ethel Babitz, Jack Babitz, Alan Barkin, Sophy Bernstein, Fanny Bilgore, Frances C. Blanchard, Natalie Glaser Bleier, Lewis E. Block, Esther M. Bloom, Sarah Bobry, Stuart Chess, Nina Dworkin Cohen, Rachel Cohen, Max Connuck, Leo Cowan, Carol Lang Davis, Sydelle Elyakin, Nathan Evra, Michael Festen, Sanford Fine, Elliott Finkel, David Finman, Jakob Flicker, Lala M. Gasul, Laurence Glazer, Leonard Horn, Hyman Horowitz, Owen J. Kaplan, Charles A. Klein, Rose Lavine, Gussie Gross Levi, Phyllis Levy, Rose S. Lewis, Leonard Lipton, June Lovenheim, Yetta Luckoff Lubin, Hyman Maas, Martin Orens, Sharon Geller Pellingra, Frances Popkin, Richard O. Roeder, David Rosenblatt, Hyman Shapiro, Fanny Silverman, Helen Singer, Joseph Sitomer, Nesha Bass Springer, Edward Stabins, Sophie Swire, Jack Taylor, Judith Torres, Harry Weinberg, Samuel S. Weinstein, Jerry Weiss, Charles Werbuck, Rose Wiesner

Friday, September 20th and Saturday, September 21st Rudolph Angell, Mildred K. Applebaum, Dora Beckerman, Georges I. Benhamou, William Blitz, Hazel A. Brim, Charlotte Broder, Betty Jane Cohen, Harriet Epstein, Rachel Florentine, Irving Fradkin, Nelson Freeling, Marvin Gernstein, Jacob Gitelman, Harry D. Goldman, Jane C. Goldman, Florence Graff, Joan Hart, Max Hasson, Abraham Jonah Josephson, Dvorah Kaplan, Marcia Karch, Sarah Karchefsky, Isaac Keymel, Meyer Kotel, Dreyza Kotina, Dorica Leibovici, Katherine Lerner, Nathan Lidman, Sara London, Audrey Rose Mitchell, Mitchell Morris, Richard W. Moskowitz, James Orange, Joseph Pizer, Jacob Murray Posner, Hudas Pulka, Emmanuil Romm, Hanna Bendetovan Romm, Iiyash Mendelevich Romm, Muriel Rotenberg, Jean M. Salzman, John Sawyer, Lena Scott, Nathan Silverman, Ernie Wolk

Friday, September 27th and Saturday, September 28th Bess Abramson, Thelma Barkin, Ira Harris Berger, Morris Berger, Gertrud Trudy Boyar, Michael Boyar, Charles C. Clark, Sadie K. Cole, Ralph Derman, Annella Dubrow, Golda einickovich, Anna Posner Fagin, Gail Katz Feingold, Gayle Katz Feingold, Caryl Festenstein, Theodore I. Goldstein, George Gould, Benjamin Graff, Ruth Harris, Mark W. Herrmann, Ellison Jacobstein, Abraham Aaron King, Minnie Knopf, Julius Krebs, Shirley L. Lapides, George R. Lavine, Leah Lederman, Maer Leibovici, Muriel Levy, Maurice L. Lewis, Tena B. Lipton, John Maisel, Victoria Michelson, Miriam B. Miller, Ann T. Moskowitz, Marian Newmark, Moisey Ravin, Dora Roemer, Arthur M. Ross, Eric Jay Roth, Frances Schultz, Doris Segal, Lillian Granite Siebert, Evelyn Simon, Libbie B. Steinberg, Leya Voskoboynik, Frank G. Weinberg, Jodi Michelle Wolff, Samuel Zakalik

Friday, October 4th and Saturday, October 5th Ronald Baron, Anna Benes, Elias Brenner, Spencer Brown, Moses Capell, Meyer Cohen, Jacob Devinsky, Irwin Dubrow, Ruth Gitlin, Nancy Goldenberg, Sadie Golf, Hannah H. Guggenheim, Elli W. Gupp, Meyer Harris, Sarah Jane Heilbronner, Esther Hellman, Leon Herritt, Isaac Itkin, Asher Kaplan, Idlaine Katz, Gisya Khozak, Louise Mildred Kline, Eleanor Krass, Norman Lester, Cecelia Levine, Paul Levine, Ralph Levine, I. Robert Lewis, David Lipton, Burton Markoff, Estelle Moscov, Helen Gartner Nobel, Ella Aida Onimus, Sara Rabinovich, Ignatz Reichmann, Ruth Salzman, Hyman Silverman, Pauline Sitomer, Stanley S. Weingart, Samuel Weiss, Howard H. Weston, Helen Yellin

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Friday, October 11th and Saturday, October 12th Leah Albahari, Sylvia Berman, Mary Weinberg Bernstein, Sylvia Birnfield, Samuel W. Braverman, Annette Brightman, Geller Briker, Laura Brody, Lyla Brontman, Abraham J. Calderon, Lynne Chartoff, Janus Clar, Jules Cohen, Henriette Cohn, Minnie Dell, Helen J. Estreicher, Rachel Florentine, Jacob Jack Fox, Mauna Chapman Gallo, Seymour Gray, Phyllis Gupp, Maynard Hellman, Phillip Hurvitz, Sade R. Hyman, Sylvia Kaplan, Jacob Karolinski, Emily Farash Lasser, Phyllis Leon, Bertha Levitsky, Michael Lococo Sr., Abraham (Sonny) Lustig, Helen Maciag, Howard H. Mofsky, Miriam Nemerow, Jan Penberg, Anne K. Phillips, Sadie Rosenberg, Florence Roth, Edwyn S. Ruda, Joseph Benjamin Sachs, Jeane P. Schwarz, Beatrice Sheinberg, Bertha Stone, Abraham Stricker, Harry Susman, Harriet Tatelbaum, Matilda Winkler, Ben Wolk

Friday, October 18th and Saturday, October 19th Harry Achter, Helen Aronson, Gilbert Allen Aser, Phillip Averbach, Harold Berman, Herbert Myer Brill, Cecile Brontman, Emanuel Brovitz, Amelia “Mia” Chaba, Dora Cohen, Ike Cohen, Juda Cohen, Helene Cukierman, Fannie Davis, Anna Doktor, Lesser Erenstone, Alfred Evans, Charlotte Falk, Martin H. Ghelberg, Ada P. Goldberg, Louis Goldberg, Anna Goldstein, Israel Gurvich, Lillian Harris, Doreen Helsher, Bernice K. Isaacson, Ben Jacobson, Marvin L. Jacobstein, Jeanne Betty Kaplan, Herman Kaufman, Charles Kellmanson, Irving Kerstein, Martin Klass, Hannah Lavine, Milton Lazeroff, Samuel Levine, Edward I. Levy, Ely Levy, Belle Lovenheim, Yette Metzger, Rose L. Miller, John Misch, Ira Herbert Morris, Julius Ness, Ellen Oster, Louis Rappaport, Gertrude L. Richardson, Virginia D. Roeder, Esther Schwartz, Viola Selling, Pearl Shvartzman, Selde Solomonik, Herbert Spiro, Sidney Starman, Benjamin Tein, Alexander Trest, Nathan Tucker, Michael Benjamin Weinberg, Thelma Weinstein, Stanley David Weiss

Friday, October 25th and Saturday, October 26thBetty Arnold, Ben Atkin, Marilyn Berman, Sheila Burton, Harry Cohn, Joseph S. Feldman, Arline Gerber, Bernard Gitlin, Albert Gluck, Norman Lewis Goldfarb, Simon Gordon, Lee B. Harris, Anna Hellman, Saul N. Hershberg, Arnold Hirst, Jeanne Hurwitz, Andrew Johnson, Mollie Fix Jossem, Anna Karasick, Edmund I. Karp, Bernice D. Katz, Thelma Rudin Kroll, Charles Levine, Bluma Levy, Reuben Levy, Fanny Lewis, June B. Lewis, Andrew S. Lovenheim, Barbara Messinger, Leona Stern Meyer, Marvin Meyer, Sue Meyer, Joshua Nahum, Louis P. Neustein, Lillian Platt Oren, Anne Rabinowitz, Ruth Rosenberg, Stella Rosenthal, Selma Sattler, Emily Schollnick, Kate Senzel, Jessie Shelby, Henry Silberstern, Arthur Abraham Silverman, Samuel H. Steinberg, Faye Stillman, Ann L. Stone, Lester E. Tokars, Timothy Villard, Lazar Voskoboynik

Friday, November 1st and Saturday, November 2ndSimon Axelrod, Rosemond Seidel Brooks, Gertrude Cohen, Elizabeth cohn, Frederick Eppstein, Rachell Etta Fatzelnick, Mary Fein, Janet Gersh, Goldie Goldstein, Louis Goldstein, Rose Graver, Sidney Grossman, Howard Groudine, William Isaacson, Irwin Jordan, Ernestine Juffy, Louis Karpel, Leonard Kay, Lois Koff, Hiram Korpeck, Manuel S. Lederman, Joseph Leichtner, Mort Levy, Ollive Samuels Liberman, Walter C. Littwitz, Mabel Messinger, David Metzger, David Miller, Carol Moseman, Abraham L. Moss, Sam Norry, Arthur Reichard, Richard Reitkopp, Carol Passar Robinson, Lottie Rockowitz, Sarah G. Ruben, Peter Rubens, Phyllis Schiff, Anita Schin-dler, Sue Schneyer, Helen Sharp, Abe L. Shulman, Pauline B. Shurr, Marian Winter Siegel, Donald Silverberg, Sydney Silverman, Sylvia Steinhart, Simon Stillman, Alfred Stolberg, Eugene Theuman, Rabbi Myron Weingarten, Rachel Weisberg, Erwin Winnick, Estelle S. Witt, Alice Yablin, Audrey Zarfes

High Holy Day Festival Services

SukkotSukkot, the feast of Tabernacles, is a holiday of great beauty that brings us into harmony with nature. During Sukkot services and when we visit the Sukkah, we use the ancient symbols of the lulav and etrog, the four species named in the Bible.

Sunday October 13th at 4:00 pm Sukkah Decorating for All Ages (with a light dinner). RSVP to the Religious School office at 244-7060 ext. 252 or [email protected] before Thursday October 10th. 5:30 pm Erev Sukkot Service

Monday October 14 at 10:30 am Sukkot Service

Shemini Atzeret/Simchat TorahSimchat Torah, the holiday of rejoicing in the Torah, is when we reach the end of the annual cycle of Torah readings. This is a joyous, almost raucous night as we sing and dance with the Torah, read the last words of the Torah and then imme-diately read the very first words as well. We never want to be done with our study of Torah!

Sunday October 20th5:30 pm Pre-Service nosh6:00 pm Erev Shemini Atzeret & Simchat Torah Services including Consecration and the presentation of the Class of 2022 B’nai Mitzvah dates.

Monday October 21 at 10:30 am Shemini Atzeret, Simchat Torah & Yizkor Service

Save the date for a very special celebration as we honor

Cantorial Soloist and Director of Music Keri Lopatin Berger

for her 20 years of leadership to our Congregation.

Sunday November 10, 2019

10:30 am Buffet Brunch11:00 am Program and musical

entertainment

Additional details to follow

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Steven ChabaTBK President

Preparing for the New Year in Mind, Body and Spirit with Rabbi Stein

Wednesdays September 11, 18, and 25th: 10:00 am – 11:00 am OR (choose one) 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm

Join Rabbi Stein and guest presenters to study text (Sep-tember 11), meditate (September 18), and learn music (September 25), in preparation for the High Holy Days. Come to one or more of the sessions.

The morning sessions will be repeated in the evening.

No fee; however, please register with Lisa Buchholz at [email protected] or 244-7060.

Mirror, mirror, on the wall . . .

Just about the time you are reading these words, we will be entering the month of Elul, the traditional period recommended for reflection and introspection leading up to Rosh Hashnah and the Days of Awe.

In these trying times, such reflection can and should be both self-directed (am I being the best “me” I can be?) and externally facing. (Am I doing all that I can to repair this world?)

It is unquestionable that each of us, alone, can only do so much to make our world better. But in community with others, our ability to change the world can verge on the limitless.

The ability to work effectively in community requires the ability to effectively take stock of one’s self, to understand one’s own passions as well as one’s limitations. To know how much energy is available to direct outward, and how much of one’s resources are necessary to “keep the home fires burning”.

I’ve found that one of the biggest benefits I get from Shabbat is to take time weekly to consider these competing concepts, and to work to balance and re-balance them as circumstances change.

During Elul, it’s almost like a whole month’s worth of opportunities for such consideration are afforded each of us, to allow us to be ready to fully and joyously embrace the New Year, full of hope and a renewed sense of both purpose and of the “capital” - both spiritual and material – at our command.

Here is hoping that Elul brings you ample opportunity to look in the mirror. Not to self-criticize, but to prepare.

Laura and I and our family hope that the New Year brings each of you a 5780 filled with sweetness and prosperity, health and happi-ness. And a mirror that always smiles back.

See you in Temple!

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Admission for High Holy Days at TBK

If you plan to worship out-of-town for the High Holy Days or if you need admission for others to TBK, contact the temple office (244-7060) to request seats at another congregation or additional seats here. We can request accommo-dation from another synagogue of your choice, or we can help you find another synagogue to attend. At TBK we require admission cards for the High Holy Days for security purposes.

High Holy Day Worship Opportunities & Events 2019- 5780

Preparing for the New Year in Mind, Body and Spirit with Rabbi SteinWednesdays September 11, 18, and 25th: 10:00 am – 11:00 am OR (choose one) 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm

Selichot Saturday, September 21 at 7:00 pmHavdalah, Selichot Service, & Study Session- Discussion of The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life by David Brooks. Prior reading of the book is encour-aged but not required to participate. A few copies are available to borrow from TBK.

Erev Rosh Hashana Sunday, September 29 at 8:00 pm Rosh Hashana First Day Monday, September 30 9:00 am Children’s Service- Grades 3 & under 10:00 am Youth Service, Grades 4 & above 10:00 am Congregational ServiceReception on front lawn following service/ Tashlikh - Meet at the Brickyard Trail-head 20 minutes after service ends

Rosh Hashana 2nd Day Tuesday, October 1 at 10:00 am

Cemetery Services Sunday, October 6 10:00 am Mt. Hope Cemetery 11:00 am White Haven Memorial Park

Erev Yom Kippur/Kol Nidre Tuesday, October 8 at 8:00 pm

Yom Kippur Wednesday, October 9 9:00 am Children’s Service, Grades 3 & under 10:00 am Youth Service, Grades 4 & above 10:00 am Congregational ServiceYom Kippur afternoon programming begins at 12:30 * See additional information to the right. 4:15 pm Afternoon Service beginning with the Torah Service 5:00 pm Yizkor and Ne’ilah Services (time approximate)

Please join us immediately following the Ne’ilah Service as we break the fast together. $12 per person/ Children 12 and under $8. Responses required no later than October 3rd. Please call 244-7060 or [email protected]

SukkotSunday October 13 4:00 pm Sukkah Decorating for All Ages with a Light Dinner 5:30 pm Erev Sukkot ServiceMonday, October 14 10:30 am Sukkot Service

Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah Sunday, October 20 5:30 pm Pre-Service nosh 6:00 pm Erev Shemini Atzeret & Simchat Torah Services including Consecration and the presentation of the Class of 2022 B’nai Mitzvah dates.Monday, October 21 10:30 am Shemini Atzeret, Simchat Torah & Yizkor Service

Yom Kippur Afternoon Programs

12:30 - 1:30 pm: ChapelStudy with the Rabbis; texts on the themes of the season.

OR

12:30 - 1:30 pm: Brickyard Trail (rain location in Atrium) Tashlikh/Walking Meditation; we will enhance our work of teshuva by spend-ing some reflective time in the beautiful outdoors. We will enjoy a quiet and slow walk, including meditation and song to add a physical element to the spirituality of the day

1:45 - 2:45 pm: LibrarySocial Action study; we will explore Jewish texts and actions relating toimmigration OR

1:45 - 2:45pm: Sanctuary Music & Meditation: The sanctuary will be open for personal reflection, with the renowned Telos Trio providing an uplifting backdrop.

3:00 - 4:00 pm: ChapelFamily Service: Families with children of all ages are encouraged to attend and participate OR

3:00 - 4:00 pm: Sanctuary Avodah Service

Services will resume at 4:15 in the Sanctuary with the Torah Service.

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B’nai Mitzvah September

Day Date Time Service Location*

Wednesday 4 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan AtriumFriday 6 6:00 PM Shabbat Service/Women of the Wall ChapelSaturday 7 Shoftrim Torah: Deuteronomy 16.18-21.9 Haftarah: Isaiah 51.12-52.12 10:30 AM Shabbat Service/Bar Mitzvah of Asher Gupton SanctuaryWednesday 11 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan AtriumFriday 13 5:30 PM Family Fun Shabbat Rm 214 6:00 PM Shabbat Service ChapelSaturday 14 Ki Teitzei Torah: Deuteronomy 21.10-25.19 Haftarah: Isaiah 54.1-10 10:30 AM Shabbat Service/Bar Mitzvah of Sage Hellman SanctuaryWednesday 18 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan AtriumFriday 20 6:00 PM Shabbat Service/Birthday Blessings & Welcome Home Israel Travelers ChapelSaturday 21 Ki Tavo Torah: Deuteronomy 26.1-29.8 Haftarah: Isaiah 60.1-22 10:30 AM Shabbat Service/Bat Mirzvah of Traci Weinstein Sanctuary 7:00 PM Havdalah/S’lichot Service Sanctuary 8:00 PM S’lichot Study Session AtriumWednesday 25 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan AtriumFriday 27 6:00 PM Shabbat Service ChapelSaturday 28 Nitzavim Torah: Deuteronomy 29.9-30.20 Haftarah: Isaiah 61.10-63.9 10:30 AM Shabbat Service ChapelSunday 29 8:00 PM Erev Rosh Hashanah Services SanctuaryMonday 30 9:00 AM Rosh Hashanah Childrens Service Chapel 10:00 AM Rosh Hashanah Services Sanctuary 10:00 AM Rosh Hashanah Youth Services Chapel 1:00 PM Tashlikh

Asher Gupton, son of Ian and Alyssa Gupton, on September 7th.

Sage Hellman, son of Todd Hellman, on September 14th

Traci Weinstein, daughter of Nancy Weinstein, on September 21st

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Worship Services October

Day Date Time Service Location*

Tuesday 1 10:00 AM 2nd Day Rosh Hashanah services ChapelWednesday 2 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan Friday 4 6:00 PM Shabbat Service/Shabbat Shuvah ChapelSaturday 5 Bereshit Torah: Genesis 1.1-6.8 Haftarah: Isaiah 42.5-43.11 10:30 AM Shabbat Service ChapelTuesday 8 8:00 PM Erev Yom Kippur Services/Kol Nidre SanctauryWednesday 9 9:00 AM Yom Kippur Children’s Service Chapel 10:00 AM Yom Kippur Services Sanctaury 10:00 AM Yom Kippur Youth services Chapel 4:30 PM Yizkor/Neilah Services Atrium 6:00 PM Break Fast following services WFCFriday 11 6:00 PM Shabbat Service ChapelSaturday 12 Noach Torah: Genesis 6.9-11.32 Haftarah: Isaiah 54.1-55.5 10:30 AM Shabbat Service ChapelSunday 13 6:00 PM Erev Sukkot Service ChapelMonday 14 10:30 AM Sukkot Service ChapelWednesday 16 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan AtriumFriday 18 5:30 PM Family Fun Shabbat 6:00 PM Shabbat Service/Grade Level Participation/ Children’s Agenda Sabbath SanctuarySaturday 19 Lech-Lecha Torah: Genesis 12.1-17.27 Haftarah: Isaiah 40.27-41.16 10:30 AM Shabbat Service ChapelSunday 20 6:00 PM Sh’mini Atzeret/Simchat Torah/Consecration /2022 Bar/Bat Mitzvah Date Assignment SanctuaryMonday 21 10:30 AM Sh’mini Atzeret/Simchat Torah/Yizkor Service ChapelWednesday 23 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan AtriumFriday 25 6:00 PM Shabbat Service/ Bernstein Shabbat /Women of the Wall/ Birthday Blessings SanctuarySaturday 26 Vayera Torah: Genesis 18.1-22.24 Haftarah: II Kings 4.1-37 10:30 AM Shabbat Service ChapelWednesday 30 5:30 PM Wednesday Evening Minyan Atrium

College Connection

Do you have a child or grandchild attend-ing college or graduate school? WRJ/TBK Sisterhood would like to keep in touch with our students during the year.

Please remember that we create a new list each year. You must contact us for your student to receive packages for the 2019-2020 year, even if the student received packages last year. Let us know of any changes during the year as well.

To sign up or renew a connection, please send the following information about your student to the WRJ/Sisterhood office by email at [email protected] or by mail to 2131 Elmwood Avenue, Rochester, NY 14618:

• student’s name• student’s mailing address (including college, if required) • expected year of graduation • food allergies• parent email address

Judaica Shop

Please stop by to take a look, and support our temple Sisterhood! New

items arriving!

As always, your Sisterhood shop is the place to go when planning for a bar or

bat Mitzvah, for a tallit, or a gift!

We carry jewelry, giftware, tallasim, mezzuzot, shabbat items, candles and

more holiday items.

TBK members always receive a 10% discount on all regularly priced mer-

chandise. Special orders welcome.

The Judaica Shop is open on Sundays when religious school is in session or

by appointment.

Please call 244-7060.

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Fifth Annual Fine Arts FestivalOctober 27, 9AM-5PM

Please plan on attending our 5th Annual Art Show-if you have never attended you are missing out on experiencing some fantastic art from Rochester and the surrounding com-munities, including as far away as Ithaca.

Help support WRJ/TBK Sisterhood’s major fundraiser for the year.

Jewelry, painting, pottery, photography, purses, scarves, textiles, women’s clothing,woodworking and more. Check out the many new artists for this year.

Silent Auction: includes donations from each artist as well as gift certificates from local restaurants and businesses.

Please consider being a patron for $18 or a sponsor for $36 and lending your support. Your name will be listed in our program. Patrons and sponsors support WRJ/TBK Sisterhood, which supports TBK.

To be a patron or a sponsor, please send $18 or $36 along with your name and email address to WRJ/TBK Sisterhood at 2131 Elmwood Avenue, Rochester, NY 14618.

Interested in volunteering at the show? Please contact Susan Fogal at 585-381-7056 or [email protected] Want to bake for the Bake Sale? Please contact Jane Levy at 585-338-1868. Questions? Contact Ellen Solomon at 585-244-7011 or [email protected]

Sept - Oct Events

Religious School

Jacqui Lipschitz

Day Date Time Event Location

September EventsMonday 2 Temple Offices closed for Labor DaySunday 8 12:00 PM Congregational Picnic/First day of Sunday SchoolWednesday 11 7:00 PM WRJ/Sisterhood Book DiscussionTuesday 17 7:15 PM Board of Trustees meetingSunday 22 3:00 PM WRJ/TBK Sisterhood Baden Street Settlement ProgramThursday 26 12:00 PM Congregatings/ Ralph Meranto, JCC Director of Arts & Culture will present The Jews of BroadwayMonday 30 Temple Offices closed for Holiday October Events Tuesday 1 Temple Offices closed for HolidayWednesay 2 4:00 PM WRJ/Sisterhood PAD PartyThursday 3 6:00 PM Tempro Committee meetingSunday 13 4:00 PM Sukkah DecoratingMonday 14 Temple Offices closed for HolidayTuesday 15 7:15 PM Board of Trustees meetingMonday 21 Temple Offices closed for HolidayThursday 24 12:00 PM Congregatings: Grant Holcomb, Director Emeritus of MAG presents Abraham Lincoln in American ArtFriday 25 7:15 PM Bernstein Shabbat DinnerSunday 27 9:00 AM WRJ/ TBK Sisterhood Art Show

I hope you’ve had a fantastic summer!We’re days away from beginning another fabulous school year at TBK – and from where I’m sitting, it looks like a spectacular one!!

Join us for the following:

• Family Education with our visiting Shinshinim from Israel – four ambassadors who’ll be spending the school year with our families, and facilitating many exciting Israel education programs.

• Grade level Shabbat services and din-ners.

• Lunches and concerts with two awesome musicians – Nick May (October 6) and Jason Mesches (February 9).

• Musical education programs with Naomi Less (October 20) and Shira Kline (March 29).

• Weekly enrichment classes during Sunday mornings (Art, Drama, Edible Art, American Sign Language, Hebrew through Movement, Hebrew through Games, Technology, and Library).

• School wide holiday celebrations.

• Monthly youth group events with our two wonderful youth group advisors – Sharona Kersh (4th-6th Grade) and Tamar Feldman (7th-8th and 9th-12th).

• Family Schmooze events for everyone!

• Monthly Family Fun Shabbat and much more!!!

We love to partner with parents, grand-parents and extended family during the year, so please participate as often as you can!!

Wishing you a Shanah Tovah U’Metuka – a Sweet and Healthy New Year!!

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Jewish Soldiers Rosh Hashanah ProjectDrop Off Sunday September 15th from 8:30-noonReligious School Entrance

CALLING ALL BAKERS!!! CARE PACKAGES FOR SOLDIERS OVERSEAS

Since 2008, the Jewish Soldiers Project has sent care packages to Jews in the military. For Rosh Hashanah care packages, we need home baked or purchased kosher honey cakes, cookies, and chal-lah, as well as grape juice to help soldiers celebrate L’ Shana Tova.

Please drop off donations at the TBK religious school entrance on Sunday September 15th from 8:30 to noon.

If you have any questions or would like to assist with the project, please contact Cindy Finestone at [email protected] or 202-3812.

The brochure for Fall/Winter 2019-2020 was mailed in August. Call or email The Rochester Kollel office (244-7060, [email protected]) if you did not receive one and would like one. Or go to the website: https://tbk.org/learning/roches-ter-kollel-adult-education-programs. Registration is open. Please plan to register two weeks or more prior to the first class.

Our faculty members include Bonnie Abrams, Stu Berger, Howard Brill, Thomas Driscoll, Elliot Fix, Andrea Gluck-man, Barbara Grosh, Joe Kelly, Orna Korn, Rev. Christopher Luedde, Rabbi Rochelle Tulik, David Orange, Sharon Shafrir, Herb Skerker, Gene Spiro, Juleen Squires, and Rabbi Peter Stein.

Please note that all of these classes begin in October: Torah Through the Voice of Women with Rabbi Rochelle Tulik, Living Ethically in Our Modern World with Dr. Joseph Kelly, Characters and Sidekicks with Rev. Christopher Luedde, Private Life from the Fires of Revolution (1795) to the Great War (1914) with Thomas Driscoll, Jews and Mah Jongg for Beginners with Juleen Squires, Mussar: Becoming More Men-schlike, One Step at a Time with Howard Brill and Barbara Grosh.

The Rochester KollelTo Explore, to Learn, to Engage… To be Involved in Jewish Life.

22nd Annual Women’s Spirituality Retreat

Saturday December 7, 20199am to 4pm

Irondequoit Country Club4045 East Avenue

We are delighted to have Rabbi Rochelle Tulikas our Spiritual Leader this year for our day retreat!

We come together to share Shabbat with otherwomen in a relaxed, inviting and informal setting.

Please join us!

We are always looking for Torah readers for this relaxed way to participate in

this meaningful experience.

The program fee of $50 includes an enhanced continental breakfast, a buffet lunch and any reading

materials.

More details to follow!

Please fill out form and mail check to: WRJ/TBK Sister-hood, 2131 Elmwood Avenue, Rochester, NY 14618, by November 20.

Name ____________________________________

Phone ____________________________________

Email ____________________________________

I am interested in reading Torah: ______________

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TBK Sisterhood Social Justice & Action

Baden Street Special Event

September 22nd at 2:00 pm at TBK

Join WRJ/TBK Sisterhood as we cele-brate Baden Street’s 118th Anniversary and honor the two TBK Sisterhood women who had the foresight to initiate this endeavor.

We will honor the memory of Therese Katz and Fannie Mae Garson with music, memories and a special dessert reception. We will have singing by our own TBK students and step-dancing by children from Baden Street.

All are welcome to stroll down memory lane and reminisce about Joseph and Clinton Avenues through pictures and stories from the past. Learn about Baden Street in the present too. Please spread the word to other friends and family.

Donations to benefit the Baden Street Settlement House will be welcome at the event.

An RSVP would be appreciated: WRJ/TBK Sisterhood Office: 244-7060 x236 or [email protected]. Questions: contact Ellen Solomon (585-244-7011) or [email protected].

Sisterhood Book DiscussionWednesday September 11th at 7:00 pm

Join us for a Sisterhood Book Discussion of The History of Love on Wednesday, September 11th at 7pm in the Adult Lounge at TBK. There will be nosh and nourishing conversation! RSVP [email protected].

If you have not yet gotten your hands on a copy of The History of Love by Nicole Krauss, there is still time!

Fall Pad Party Wednesday October 2nd from 2-4:00 pm in the TBK Atrium

Please join us once again on October 2nd to assemble kits of feminine hygiene products (regular pads and tampons). Be sure the packages you buy contain individually wrapped products. They will be distributed at Project Homeless Con-nect on Tuesday October 15. Our goal this year is 500 kits.

We will also be collecting new socks for donation. Just drop in at your convenience between 4-6:00 pm. If you are unable to attend, feel free to drop off the pads, tampons, and socks to the Sisterhood office. The need continues in the community. Questions: contact Ellen Solomon (244-7011) or [email protected].

If you would like to volunteer at Project Homeless Connect to help distribute the kits, you can sign up at ncjwgrs.org. Join other WRJ and NCJW women in this very worthwhile endeavor. Questions for the October 15 event: contact Gina Horowitz (482-8652).

Introducing a new WRJ/TBK Sisterhood Fund!

Money donated to the WRJ/TBK Sister-hood Gift Fund will be used to support Sisterhood’s current operating needs.

Please consider this fund in your giving plans!

WRJ/Sisterhood Awards

Watch for information in upcoming Bulletins about the 2020 I Love Science Award for funding for girls toward the URJ Six Points Sci-Tech Academy next summer and the 2020 Bernstein Award for Judaic Studies!WRJ/B’rith Kodesh Sisterhood

is active on Facebook!

WRJ/Temple B’rith Kodesh Sisterhood

The Chamber of Secret Gifts by Ayala Emmett

In a time of so many pressing needs we, individually and as a congregation, do our best to respond to poverty and refugees/immigrants, which have been a focus for action at TBK.

We are about to celebrate TEMPRO’s 50th year of working tirelessly to make a historic difference in the lives of homeless families. We continue to partner with NOLB to integrate immigrants in the Rochester community. We have responded to needs of the moment; we worked with RAC NY successfully to have a legal im-pact on inclusion of all those who live in the state to have drivers’ licenses. In doing so we also fulfilled the mitzvah of Torah, “One law there shall be for you and for the stranger.”

We continue to respond to emerging needs; on the agenda now is a call from social justice leadership at our sister congregation in Albuquerque, NM.

Congregation Albert is a Reform con-gregation that has a corps of volunteers who are offering physical support on the border for each week as they prepare for Shabbat. With Rabbi Stein’s support we are launching a gift-cards appeal here at TBK. This will be our first drive in an official TBK Tzedakah Box, modeled after the ancient custom of The Chamber of Secret Gifts in the Second Temple.

The chamber was a special room where people used to leave gifts in secret and the poor would enter a door secretly and take what they needed. After the destruction of the Second Temple, The Chamber of Secret Gifts was established in synagogues and later became the model of our famous Tzedakah boxes that moved into the home as well.

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Music Notes Keri Lopatin Berger, Cantorial Soloist & Director of Music

High Holy Day Music As we get ready for this special time of year a few reminders:

• Most of our High Holy Day services now start with the choir singing a niggun or little melody. This melody is the signal that the service is beginning. As you hear the repetitive melody, please feel free to start singing along to help us create a sense of warmth as part of our congregation and holy community.

• Many of the melodies are very different than we are used to hearing at our weekly Shabbat services. The traditional chants and melodic patterns that we hear in our liturgy are called nusach. The term nusach literally means “version.” It is also amusical term, reflecting the modality of music that is specific to a particular place in the service, time of day, day of the week, or in this case a specific holiday of the year. The nusach melody is there to be another reminder to us both musically and spiritually that the holiday has indeed arrived. At TBK, we use the nusach for several prayers in our High Holiday services: Chatzi Kaddish, Barchu, and Mi Chamocha are a few examples of places where the holiday nusach is heard. • Our TBK High Holy Day Choir will be spending many hours rehearsing for the inspirational melodies that you will soon hear. Our accompanist, Anna Maimine, has been hard at work with Jason Berger and the choir to prepare. Our deep appreciate goes to Jason and Anna and the entire choir for their meaningful work at this season.

It is my hope that this deeply beautiful music we hear this time of year can help the holidays be more meaningful for you and your family and our entire congregation. I wish all of you a sweet and healthy 5780.

B’shalom & L’shana tova,Keri Lopatin BergerCantorial Soloist and Director of Music

If you are interested in getting involved in planning for our special events or helping with our music advisory committee, please contact the Music Office at ext. 231, or email: [email protected].

Order your Lulav and Etrog by Friday, September 13, 2019

You may purchase a lulav and etrog set of your own so that you can say the blessing at home each day during Sukkot. You can also bring them to our Sukkot Service on Sunday October 13th or Monday October 14th . To order your set, complete the form below and return to Terri Richardson at TBK no later than September 23rd. Plan to pick up your order at TBK on October 10th or

11th. Please call in advance to be sure the sets have arrived. Please send check payable to Temple B’rith Kodesh or call us at 244-7060 to pay by credit card.

Name: __________________________ Daytime phone: ________________

#________ Children’s sets @ $34 $ ________ (Slightly smaller than standard)

#________ Standard sets @ $40 $ ________

Total $ ________

Chamber (continued from page 12)

The communal Tzedakah Box at TBK will be a place to leave gift cards, serving to respond to various emerging needs and starting with Congregation Albert. Since we have yet to establish a formal Tzedakah Box, Rabbi Stein has offered his study as a space to leave gift cards.

Congregation Albert would like gifts from Walmart, Walgreens, and Target. Walmart and Target gift cards are used to purchase items, such as sneakers, clothing, and food/snack items. Walgreens gift cards are used to purchase needed medication and medical supplies.

Thank you for any and all the Mitzvot that you do for Tikkun Olam.

Shanah Tovah, wishing you a year filled with blessings

Ayala Emmett is the Chair of TBK Social Action

Meet in the Adult Lounge of TBK except as noted! Current Events on the 2nd Thursday of each month has been discontinued.

Programs will take place on the 4th Thursday of each month (except November, which will meet on the 3rd Thursday); brown bag lunch** at noon, programs start at 12:15

September 26 Ralph Meranto, JCC Director of Arts & Culture will present The Jews of Broadway

October 24 Grant Holcomb, Director Emeritus of Memorial Art Gallery presents Abraham Lincoln in American Art

November 21 Rabbi Michael Silbert, Temple Beth David, will talk about Judaism in South Africa

Suggestions for future programs are wel-come and encouraged! **Please exclude pork and shellfish products and mixed meat and dairy items.

Congregatings! Corner

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Donations

Associate Rabbi Discretionary FundContributed by: In Memory of: Mrs. Daryl Kaplan Chuck KaplanMr. Michael Lasser Elaine Lasser

Debra Lynn MSContributed by: In Memory of:Naomi Karolinski & Victor Jakas Ruth WolchBev & Morrie Weinstein Morton LevineBev & Morrie Weinstein Devra FreedlanderBev & Morrie Weinstein Arthur KaufmanWestminster Barrington Foundation Debra Lynn

Contributed by: In Honor of:Bobby & Jerry Zakalik Griffin Firmin’s Bar Mitzvah!Judy & Ted Ertischek Griffin Firmin’s Bar Mitzvah!Merle & Larry Markus Griffin Firmin’s Bar Mitzvah! Bev & Morrie Weinstein Sarah Zakalik & Kevin Kurtz’s Marriage

All Your Children in honor of Bev & Morrie Weinstein’s 45th Wedding Anniversary

Donation to Kollel ProgramDr. Howard Weiner in honor of Jane Levy’s Bat Mitzvah!

Gifts to TBKContributed In Memory of Arthur Kaufman by: Donald Salamone William, Diane, Alexander & Lauren Salter Deb, Jim & Paul Allen Mr. David Beck Deborah L Nesser Sally Hirst & Douglas Miller Howard & Deborah Herzog Jonathan & Jill Feldman Lillian & William Boyce Lisbeth & Ronald Rank Marcia & Jerald McNeil Mark & Michelle Cohen Michael & Patricia Teddy Mr. Raymond E Naber, Jr. Ms. Ann May Ms. Lois Lapidus Nelson & Janet Meisenzahl Shira & Mark Lazeroff Thomas & Kathleen Wetherell Tim & Marabeth Nally William & Gloria Fanning William & Linda Mackenzie

Contributed by: In Memory of: Ms. Nellie Rosenberg Michael UmanskyPamela & Richard Kroll Michael UmanskyCarl & Susan DiLiberto Michael UmanskyMichael & Joany Cooper Michael UmanskyDr Jeffrey Rhodes Michael UmanskyAmy & Bruce Kahn Jerry MarksSue & Norm Lurie Jerry MarksBrian & Michele Miller Jerome MarksIlya & Rose Girin Rabbi MillerJoan & Bob Clar Hermaine LeavittSylvia & David Harrison Hermaine LeavittArlene & Ira Schneider Owen Krieger on the Yahrzeit

Contributed by: In Honor of:Ms. Paula Harris Heather Chesterton’s RetirementSue & Norm Lurie Heather Chesterton’s Retirement! Susan Hellman and Paula Hansen Heather Chesterton’s Retirement!Mrs. Miriam Krieger Bill Colombo’s 80th Birthday!Sue & Norm Lurie Bill Colombo’s 80th Birthday!Samuel & Gabriela Rind Bill Colombo’s 80th Birthday!

Gifts to TBKContributed by Lynda & Mark Bowen In Honor of The 5779 Adult B’nai Mitzvah

Doug Burdick Karen DeCross Rickie Gordon Sandy Kushner Jane Levy Paula Ouzer-Mauro Melinda Riviello Marilyn & Howard Katz Irwin & Ellen Solomon receiving the Laurence A Kotok Tikkun Olam Award

Michael & Lynda Stock Stuart & Betsy Bobry receiving the Aaron Braveman Etz Chayem Award

Thomas & Lorraine Donaher John & Roz Goldman’s 60th Wedding Anniversary!

TBK Sisterhood in appreciation for Floral fund & Courtyard Gardens

Miss Jaime Metzger in appreciation for Temple B’rith Kodesh

Kollel ProgramRalph Toscano in honor of Jane Levy’s Bat Mitzvah

Museum FundContributed by: In Memory of:Ms. Miriam Weidenfeld Manny Rosen

Sr Rabbi ‘s Discretionary FundContributed by: In Memory of:Amy Chapman & Gary Levine Morton LevineMr. Barry Goldberg Lynne Goldberg Joel Rosen & Lara Evans Emanuel RosenRonald & Sheila Umansky JoAnn CotterKevin Cotter JoAnn Cotter

Contributed by: In Honor of:Mrs. Maria Jacobson Heather ChestertonMara & David Metzger Jaime Metzger’s Bat Mitzvah!

Mrs. Sarah Zakalik & Mr. Kevin Kurtz in appreciation for Rabbi Steinperforming a wonderful wedding ceremony!

Andrew & Jordi Sadowsky in appreciation for Rabbi Stein officiating our wedding!

Melissa Bronstein & Jack Huttner in appreciation for Rabbi Stein’s wedding ceremony!

Stuart & Betsy Bobry A.L. FundContributed by: In Honor of: Betsy & Stuart Bobry Hobart Lerner’s 100th Birthday!Betsy & Stuart Bobry Lynda & Michael Stock’s 35th Wedding Anniversary

Mrs. Eleanor Holtzman in honor of Betsy & Stuart Bobry receivingthe Aaron D. Bravemen Etz Chayem Award! Mazel Tov!

TBK FoundationContributed In Memory of Arthur Kaufman by:Barbara & Marvin Becker Joyce & Warren Heilbronner Jill & Robert Kravetz Robert Kittelberger Harry & Marcia Rosenfeld Joanne & Seymour Viener Rona & Howard Weinstein

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Mrs. Linda Rubens & Family Maurice Liberman on the YahrzeitMrs. Linda Rubens & Family J H Rubens on the Yahrzeit

Contributed by: In Honor of:Barbara & Sam Waldman Bill Colombo’s 80th Birthday!Sue & Hy Lasker Bill Colombo’s 80th Birthday!Mrs. Natalie Schwartz Hobart Lerner’s 100th Birthday!Joyce & Warren Heilbronner Justin Vigdor’s Special Birthday!Amy & Alan Shaffer Ellen & Irwin Solomon receiving the Laurence A Kotok Tikkum Olam Award

Westminster Barrington Foundation in honor of TBK Foundation

Sue & Michael Lococo in honor of Heather Chesterton with love & appreciation for all your years of service to TBK

TEMPROContributed by: In Honor of:David & Edie Silver Bob Kravetz’s Nomination to the TBK Board of TrusteesDavid & Edie Silver Susan Kramarsky & Larry Merrill’s first Grandchild! David & Edie Silver Ellen & Irwin Solomon receiving the Laurence A Kotok Tikkum Olam Award

WRJ/Sisterhood Education Fund Contributed by: In Memory of: Barbara & Marvin Becker Hyman BeckerJulene & Barry Gilbert Sherri Weiss VillardSusan Hellman & Paula Hansen Herbert RobbinsMarvin J. Hoffman Florence K. HoffmanEllie Holtzman Arthur KaufmanMarilyn Katz Howard KatzLynda Loomis & Peter Ross David Rosenblatt, Myron RosenblattMarcia & Harry Rosenfeld Celia Kaufman The Ross, Herlehy, and Argaman Families Herbert RossCarol Shulman Lottie Connuck, Max ConnuckNorma & Walter Silverman & Family Arthur KaufmanRobin Weintraub Florence Wallbert, Maurice Wallbert Michael WeintraubElaine Broder Weiss David Weinstein

Contributed by: In Appreciation of: Norma & Ralph Hyman The lovely flowersNancy R. Rosenberg Susan Hellman’s help with moving arrangements Rona Weinstein

WRJ/Sisterhood Floral and Beautification FundContributed by: In Memory of:Audrey Bernhard Sadie Cole, Isaac KeymelThe Bernstein Family Betty Sokol BrushBetsy & Stuart Bobry Sarah BobryTerri & Harold Bobry & Family Edith Dickter HolsmanCharlene & Stanley Caplan Rebecca Caplan, Esther GoldbergSherwin Cerini Arthur Cerini, Elise WolffStanley Friedman Martin I. Davis, Seymour Fogel Norman E. FriedmanJune and Warren Glaser Sylvia LevinsonRoslyn Goldman Benjamin BakstInge & Larry Goldstein Betty Goldstein, Eric Meier Susan Goldstein Sands

Sherry & Richard Goldstein Simon Angart, Shelley Beth LeessJoyce & Warren Heilbronner Dora L. HeilbronnerLinda & Mark Komenski Arline KomenskiPaul Krebs Julius KrebsSteven Levine Paul LevineDorene & Mel Pizer Joseph PizerLinda & Michael Raff Jerome Raff, Pauline Shamus, Jacob KaufmanNeil Roth & Evan Roth Ann RothThe Rudin Family Nathaniel R. Alent Natalie Schwartz Herbert J. SchwartzAmy Shaffer Rose B. LippmanBernice & Alan Shank Sally SpizerNorma & Walter Silverman Fanny Silverman, Hyman SilvermanMonica & Herb Skerker Adriana BarbaschCarol Steron & Family Margaret Lisson, Herb SteronFran & Steven Studley Bernard Friedman, Ethel S. Friedman, Alan S. WeinbergGerald Sukert Sheila M. Sukert Wolk, Nacheman Family Sarah J. WolkSybil Young & Family Celia Gold

Contributed by: In Honor of:Rhonda & Earl Gurell Kyla Gurell

WRJ/Sisterhood YES Fund Contributed by: In Memory of: Elaine Broder Weiss Jerry Weiss

WRJ/Sisterhood Youth FundContributed by: In Memory of: Marlene & Gary Berger Herbert DoktorEllen & Irwin Solomon Susan LichtensteinLouise & Justin Vigdor Irving B. Vigdor, Jerome Vigdor

Contributed by: In Honor of: Sandra & Earl Mehlenbacher Melinda Riviello’s Bat MitzvahThe Root Family Melinda Riviello’s Bat Mitzvah

Sisterhood Shabbat and Women of the WallContributed by: In Honor of:Julie Alweis Terri Richardson’s work at TBK Julie Alweis Dawn Wisset’s help organizing Sisterhood Shabbat

Please remember Temple B’rith Kodesh

in your will and estate planning.

For more information or to sign a letter of intent,

contact TBK Executive Director Michael Yudelson at 244-7060.

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Non-Profit OrganizationU.S. POSTAGE PAIDRochester, N.Y.Permit No. 779

Temple B’rith Kodesh2131 Elmwood AvenueRochester, NY 14618-1021

Return Service Requested

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