outspoken communication, sabine egeraat: engaging your opponent

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Sabine Egeraat of Outspoken Communication gave a presentation on "Engaging your opponent" at Expatica's International Job Fair on Saturday, 14 September 2013.

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Page 1: Outspoken Communication, Sabine Egeraat: Engaging your opponent

Engaging your opponent

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We help people all over the world to become leaders in their profession, through: Effective communication Intercultural skills Improvement of sales and management skills

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You engage others by influencing and persuading them.

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Recognizable situations: Which TV programme to watch Telling your child to clean up his room

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Frustation

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Not only at home, also at work you come across situations where you need to influence others: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jq2LKhXXgyA

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INFLUENCE & PERSUASION

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Persuasion is something meant to get you to do or believe something. If you’re not sure you want to go somewhere, your friend might use persuasion to talk you into it.

Influence is the power to have an important effect on someone or something. If someone influences someone else, they are changing a person or thing in an indirect but important way.

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Start with yourself; A positive mind

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Understanding the other (culture); Perception of time

Perception of relationships

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Planned Flexible

Time management

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Time management

• Importance given to time management

Planned Flexible

Appreciated Qualities Scheduling, punctuality,

deadlines and

timeframe adherence

Adaptation, flexibility,

openness about

imponderables

Tolerance for

interruptions

Weak Strong

Working time vs.

Leisure time

Demarcation Encroachment

Type of reflection Sequential approach –

focus on one solution

Exploratory mode –

search for other

solutions

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Task-centric Person-centric

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Professional relationships

• Importance given to professional relationships

Task-centric Person-centric

Foundation of a

successful collaboration

Complementarity of

expertise

Interpersonal alchemy

Importance of breaks,

lunches, informal

discussions, small-talks

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Strong (necessary to

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Person vs. Function Separation Confusion

Importance of the

networks

Important Fundamental

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Listen to the other; Effective listening

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Fantastic sandwiches, pass it on!

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Finland

Germany

Norway

Switzerland

Poland

Sweden

Australia

Israel

Russia

USA

Canada

Belgium France

Nigeria

Argentina

Brazil

Italy

South Africa

Spain

Ivory Coast

Kazakhstan

Kenya

Mexico

Mozambique

Senegal

South Arabia

Turkey

Angola

Egypt

India

Libya

Morocco

Niger

UK

Burkina

China

Korea

Japan

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THE MAGIC TIMELINE

Master the techniques: A positive mind Understand intercultural signs Effective listening

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Successful mastering of important techniques on how to create impact

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Thank you for participating and Success in 1 day.com is looking forward to seeing you November 7th!