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Asia Seminar Oct 2019
Overview of Family Building Options –
Surrogacy & Donors
Sam EveringhamDirectorGrowing Families
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Surrogacy Availability
USA, Canada,
Ukraine, Greece,
Georgia, Russia
Hong Kong
DIY Managed (legal framework)
Malaysia, Laos,
Thailand
Managed (no legal framework or illegal)
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What to consider in choice of Country
• Who will be named on birth certificate?
Regulated surrogacy destinations (US, Canada, Georgia, Ukraine, Russia) provide just your name(s) on birth certificate
Unregulated destinations (Cyprus; Mexico; Kenya; Thailand; Africa) have Surrogate + IP on birth certificate
Note who is on BC doesn’t affect your eligibility for citizenship & passports
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Your Budget
$915,000
$570,000 $570,000
$375,000 $300,000
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$100,000
$200,000
$300,000
$400,000
$500,000
$600,000
$700,000
$800,000
$900,000
$1,000,000
USA Greece Russia Ukraine Georgia
HK D
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Country Engaged In
Total
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KEY DECISIONS
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Do you need an egg donor?
Friend/family member
from donor community (known)
from donor database (known or anonymous)
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• 30-40% with eggs from 30 yr old
• 20-25% with eggs from 35 yr old
• 8-15% with eggs from 40 yr old
• 3-5% with eggs from 42 yr old
Success Rates Based on Egg Provider Age
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What to consider in choice of Country
• Your comfort with known vs unknown donor
Country Donors
Greece Anonymous
Ukraine Anonymous
Georgia Known
US Known or anonymous
Canada Known or anonymous
• Think about the rights of your child to write to their donor
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What to consider
• Altruistic vs agency –managed (compensated)• Altruistic comes with more risks of
• Surrogate dropping out /not continuing• Surrogate not following protocols/ getting pregnant with someone else
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Some Countries Require Patience
Country Demand for surrogates
Supply of surrogates Wait times
Hong Kong Low Low ?
US High High 2 – 6 mths
Canada High Low 12 mths +
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Altruistic (Hong Kong/Canada) means longer timelines
• Parents using altruistic often report
• Longer wait times to match with a surrogate (12- 18 mths)
• Surrogates dropping out
• Unsuccessful transfers / poor success rates
• spiralling timelines, costs & stress as surrogates and donors are changed
after repeated failure
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Others are Quicker But Not all Eligible
Country Demand for surrogates
Supply of surrogates
Wait times Eligibility
Greece Low Low 1 - 2 mths Heterosexual couple, single women
Ukraine High High 1 - 2 mths Hetero married
Georgia High High 1 - 2 mths Heterosexual couple
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Processes Differ
Country Process
Greece Up-front court case adds 3 mths
Ukraine Specific medical indication letter
Georgia Shipped embryos need significant paperwork
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35 years experience
Best practice
Increased demand
Can be 6 mth wait for surrogate
Child awarded US citizenship
USA
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RUSSIA
• Legal framework allows foreigners• Accepts heterosexual couples and singles• Short time to match• Gay men need to go through additional court
case post birth
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• Hugely Increased demand
• Number of providers quadrupled
• No shortage of surrogates
• Good screening & medical care
• Prices are rising significantly
UKRAINE
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Altruistic
Heterosexual couples & single woman
Both parents on birth certificate
Only a handful of good providers
Anonymous egg donors
IVF clinic plays the role of surrogacy agency
GREECE
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What type of surrogate relationship?
Prefer to be Close /supportive - US/Canada/Hong Kong
Prefer more removed - Ukraine/Russia
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Should I use a ‘Guarantee’ Program?
• Only available for donor egg surrogacy
• Not available for Canada or US only surrogacy
• Only recommended if you want a capped program for peace of mind
• Otherwise, the costs of adding extra embryo transfers if required are not significant
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What to consider in choosing an Agency
Payment stages• What % up-front?• Are payments milestone-based?• What milestones are used?
• Surrogate match• First embryo transfer• Confirmed pregnancy• Week 12• Week 24• Birth
Your funds• If you are not happy with service, what
refunds are available?
• Who holds your funds?• Agency or third-party escrow account
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What to consider in choosing an Agency
Surrogate Recruitment• Should provide a maximum time within which will recruit surrogate or
refund monies
• What is their recruitment strategy?
• Who handles their surrogate recruitment and screening?
• If surrogate falls through, what is their ‘replacement’ policy?
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What to consider in choosing an Agency
Surrogate Contact• Should be able to meet surrogate up-front (at least online)
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What to beware in choosing an Agency
Parent Referees • Most providers can find at least one parent who will say good
things about them• Need to look at a range of reviews
Law firms who operate their own surrogacy agency• Contracts often favour the agency• Risk not getting truly independent legal advice
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What to beware in choosing an IVF Clinic
IVF Success ratesNeed to look at live birth rates (not pregnancy rates)For US clinics can research audited data www.sart.org
For other countries Success data is un-audited
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Risks
Online AgentsWill sell vulnerable intended parents into high-risk, illegal programseg Thai surrogacy with births in China
Malaysian surrogacy
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Risks
Multiple Embryo transferUS & Canadian surrogates typically refuse to undertake a double embryo
transfer given the great difficulties in carrying multiples
IVF clinics outside the US & Canada will routinely transfer 2+ embryos
poses a far greater chance of pregnancy complications, miscarriage, very pre-term birth and long-term health issues, additional costs & stress
You need to be firm with your IVF clinic if you don’t want this risk
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Risks
Unsuccessful embryo transfersCan increase by
Using egg donor <30 yearsUsing proven donorPGD testing embryos where eggs are from 35+ yr oldThorough testing of IPs prior to embryo creation
MiscarriageA risk in ANY pregnancyEnsure you have a support network
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Customised Support
Help you decide on a country/ provider
More hand-holding/concierge style service
Reliable, proven providers to meet your budget
Wide range of options
One hour or complete journey support
Email [email protected] or visit www.growingfamilies.org/customised-support/