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Parental Pride Life Style Changes Learning Process Knowing and Walking the Path Relax with your Baby Fantasy World Work place relevance


Parental Pride

This Baby is minemine

Everyone should know mymy Baby’s name

Everyone should know what mymy Baby does

MyMy Baby is very very special

MyMy Baby learns everything much faster than other babies

WhateverWhatever she does, you want to capture it in Pictures and Videos

Each and every small thing mymy baby does means a lot to me

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Life Style Changes Time Crunch – Reduced TimeTime Crunch – Reduced Time

Time spent with Spouse

Time spent with Friends and Family

Time spent on Hobbies, Interests

Every event and task in your life needs planningplanning

Tend to be more conscious about TIMEconscious about TIME. Which in turn makes you to a better organizer

Sleep less nights, toothless smiles and much more…

You tend to start your conversation with “My baby…”

No more candle light dinners… entertainment seems to be around Disney, Nick and Cartoon Network or where ever kids seem to enjoy.

You just can’t wake up at 10.00am and decide to go on for a long ride and have a Italian dinner with dry red wine. This part of life seems to be impossible.

More visits to ToysRUs, BabyRUs, Gap Kids, Children's Place, OshKosh B Gosh , Carter’s and of course Costco


Learning Process CuriousCurious to know each and every object and there is so much to exploreexplore

A small task of “flip on the tummy” seems to be so difficult. But still they do it again and againagain and again till they succeed. See the smile on their face once they do it.

Touching and feeling the objects seem to be integral part of making friends (toys) – Caution is an integral partCaution is an integral part of their brain

Perseverance to “achieve next stepachieve next step”

Once they start “sitting”, they don’t want to “lie down”

Once they start “crawling” they don’t want to “sit”

Once they start “walking” they don’t want to “crawl”

They play with so much of concentrationconcentration with every toy they see. Often they are angry if you disturb their play time

Language is no barrierLanguage is no barrier. They learn and understand expressions by parent’s voice modulations and facial expressions rather than the technicality of Language



Parental Pride Life Style Changes Learning Process Walking the Walk Relax with your Baby Fantasy World Work place relevance


Walking the Walk Playing with your neighbor’s, sibling’s and friend’s kids is totally

different from your kids.

Commenting other parents is easy; Not repeating the same Not repeating the same mistakes is the most difficultmistakes is the most difficult.

Morning Cereal – 2 Hours; Afternoon snack – 1 Hour; Night Cereal – 2 Hours; Putting them to sleep – 2-3 Hours; Playing with them – 6 hours; Of course, you need to organize all your time exactly in 24 organize all your time exactly in 24 hourshours.

You tend to develop lot of respect on your parents and eldersrespect on your parents and elders for all the EFFORT, TIME and PATEINCE in bringing up kids.

When you say, “i did not sleep last night as the baby was playing/crying” to your parents, the little smile on them tells you everything. They have been through the same path and they know they know what you are talking aboutwhat you are talking about.

Being an example to your own kidsBeing an example to your own kids is the “most challenging task in this world”. There is never an end to it.


Relax with your Baby One little, cute smilelittle, cute smile will take off all the stress

Natural Expressions

Adults tend to hide the expressions for various reasons

BrightnessBrightness in baby’s eyes when she sees you

Expression by flappingExpression by flapping the hands and legs

InnocenceInnocence in their eyes which feels like divine

Naïve happinessNaïve happiness to see different colors and lights

Baby’s world of joyworld of joy when she reaches mother’s lap

Fear, Happiness, Frown, Surprise, Sadness, Anger and Disgust are a must see during baby’s sleep timebaby’s sleep time

Happiness on their faceHappiness on their face when they grab Remote, Mobile, Car Keys, Spoons and others with their tiny fingers

Language is no barrier – Every expression countsEvery expression counts


Fantasy World Every small toy seems to be their BEST friend they can’t live

without

Fight with the toys by imaginingimagining that the toys are their friends

There is so much to explore and learn, each and every new artifact makes them distracteddistracted

A very naïve magicnaïve magic from parents makes them totally perplexed

While feeding solids, parents would become better story tellersstory tellers

Show them the clear sky or roof or floor, they will be in search of search of something very seriouslysomething very seriously

They don’t seem to care about Job, Studies, Earnings, Spending and other stupid things. They love to play, eat, sleep, learn and explore unconditionallyexplore unconditionally.


Work place relevance If you work with passion and enthusiasm, you tend to get less less

effected by the resultseffected by the results

Everything involves a process and has defined steps to accomplish. One has to walk though the process; no short cutsno short cuts.

With persistence, patience, repetition and enthusiasm nothing is nothing is impossibleimpossible

If you love your work, you will TAKE TIME to do a gr8 job. No excuses for “not having timenot having time”

Attitude changes according to determinationAttitude changes according to determination

Like a thing -> “most difficult task” seems to be “doable”

Hate a thing -> “most easiest task” seems to be “impossible”

As long as you have a brilliant idea, there are no boundariesno boundaries to express it


The End

Thank YouEverything in life has exceptions and so does parenting. Some parents are too

perfect or too lazy to learn any thing from their parenthood.

Give a great life to your kids and yourself.

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