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Loss and Grief in Caregiving
Caregiver Newsletter O C T O B E R 2 0 1 6 E D I T I O N
ADRC - Green County
N3152 State Rd. 81
Monroe, WI 53566
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November is National Caregiver’s month – a month to celebrate and honor all of you who are
caring for your spouse, parent or friend. Over 25% of households in the United States are
involved in caring for an older adult. Isn’t it wonderful that so many people are dedicated to
helping those they love? Being able to take care of your loved one in their older years is a joy
and an honor.
But caregivers also know that their job is not always joyful, or easy! In fact, there is a lot of loss
associated with caregiving. Some of the more obvious things that caregivers lose are jobs/
careers, social interactions, free time and often their own well-being. Other losses are less clear,
like when you are feeling sadness and grief but can’t quite explain exactly what it’s all about. For
example, you may feel like you have already lost your loved one even though they are still alive.
This ambiguous loss is particularly difficult to overcome because it is often brushed aside as not
being real. When losses are not identified and feelings of grief are not validated, depression will
often follow.
I’m sure all caregivers will agree that they have experienced various losses as a result of their
caregiving role. Most of these losses are unavoidable and must be faced. Grief is the emotional
process of working through these losses. Grief can be experienced in many different ways.
Some common responses to grief are anger and frustration, shock and denial, disorganization,
helplessness and fear, guilt and regret, sadness, and fatigue. The most important thing is that the
caregiver recognizes their losses and how they are responding, and then allows themselves to
grieve.
How does a person grieve? Let yourself express all of the emotions you are feeling. Find a good
friend, therapist or support group where you feel safe to share your feelings. Find a private time
and space to gather memories and savor that which was lost. Write in a journal. Take care of your
health. Stay in touch with friends. Say “goodbye” to life as you knew it and say “hello” to your
life as it is now.
The phrases “work through your grief” and “learn to let go” are common, giving the impression
that the sadness and pain of your loss will end one day. But some grief and sadness will never
completely go away. Living under the impression that you can somehow make your pain and
grief disappear may be setting yourself up to fail. Dealing with loss is not forgetting that which
you have lost, but learning how to integrate those losses into your life and move forward. It has
been said, “You never get over a loss; you just get different.”
One last suggestion to all of you hardworking caregivers: Give yourself a pat on the back for
all that you do. Treat yourself to lunch with friends, a few hours doing your favorite hobby, a
manicure or massage. You have definitely earned it. And remember, you are admired by many for
your dedication and selflessness. Keep up the good work!
Jane Mahoney
Older Americans Act Consultant
Greater Wisconsin Agency on Aging Resources
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P A G E 2
Humans are social
creatures. Each of us has
our own unique level of
need for socialization.
Some people seem to
snap up every opportunity
to be out and about in
their community. Others
appreciate great amounts
of solitude. Most of us
fall somewhere in be-
tween. No matter where
we fall on this scale, we
all require some meaning-
ful contact with fellow
human beings.
The need for socialization
is so basic to humans that
it is a popular subject of
study. Research has
demonstrated that the lack
of adequate socialization
contributes to anxiety,
panic attacks, depression,
addictions, physical
disease and more rapid
mental deterioration in the
aging brain. Thus we can
surmise that maintaining
a certain level of sociali-
zation is beneficial to the
prevention or treatment
of these conditions.
As one gets older, the
social circle they have
developed over a lifetime
will change. Grown chil-
dren or friends may move
away. Parents, siblings,
spouses and friends may
pass away. Most people,
at some point in their lives,
will experience temporary
or permanent physical or
cognitive changes that
affect their ability to fully
connect with others. These
may make getting to or
around at social functions
difficult. Changes in
communication abilities
may make meaningful
conversation and connec-
tion more challenging. A
person must find ways to
adapt to these changes and
find new opportunities for
socialization.
One great opportunity is to
join a social group that
offers specialized support
for physical and cognitive
challenges along with the
social activities-- such as
an adult day center
program. A 2007 study
of adult day programs
published in ‘Psychology
and Aging’ found that a
low frequency of meaning-
ful socialization with
friends and family was an
important predictor of
future institutionalization.
They concluded that an
adult day center’s focus
on meaningful social
activities may delay the
decline that leads to
nursing home placement.
Hand in Hand Adult Day
Center offers opportuni-
ties to engage with others
in a supported, meaning-
ful, healthy and fun-filled
way. Activities include
Fitness Routines,
Creative Minds Classes
and Discussion Groups
that focus on
Participants’ strengths.
Hand in Hand meets
every Tuesday and Friday
and transportation is
available to serve all
areas of Green County.
For more information or
to schedule a tour,
contact Stephanie Hafez
at 328-9499.
Fun at Fun at
Hand In Hand In
Hand Hand
Adult Day Adult Day
Center Center
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summer!summer!
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P A G E 3
Understanding and Coping with the
Challenges of Alzheimer’s Disease and
Dementia
Wednesday, November 9, 2016
United Methodist Church, 2227 4th Street, Monroe
9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m.
The Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance, the Aging & Disability Resource Center and Monroe Clinic are excited to partner to offer family members, direct care workers and professionals an excellent opportunity to learn the latest information and resources that can help you face this growing health epidemic. Learn more about Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias and person centered care through informative and interactive presentations.
The day will begin with an Overview of Alzheimer’s Disease & Other Dementias presented by Dr. Joshua Morrison, Neurologist, Monroe Clinic Memory Diagnostic Center. Next the focus will shift to understanding the Montessori Method for Positive Dementia Care which will be presented by Tom & Karen Brenner, authors of You Say Goodbye and We Say Hello: The Montessori Method for Positive Dementia Care. After lunch and local updates, participants will be revitalized during a presentation called Re-energizing the Energizers presented by Gina Green-Harris, MBA Director, Milwaukee Outreach Program and Services, Wisconsin Alzheimer’s Institute (WAI), UW School of Medicine and Public Health.
On site respite will be available at no cost through the Hand in Hand Adult Day Center. Please contact Stephanie Hafez at 608-328-9499 to make respite arrangements by October 26.
Fee is $30 for professionals and direct caregivers. amily caregivers may attend at no cost. Lunch is included. Registration deadline is Wednesday, November 2. For more information and to receive a detailed brochure, please contact Deanna Truedson, Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance at 608-843-3402 or [email protected] or Linda Boll, Aging and Disability Resource Center at 608-328-9499 or [email protected]
Care Trak specializes in tracking individuals at risk for wandering, such as adults suffering
from Alzheimer's disease or other dementia, kids with special needs including autism, Down Syndrome, brain injuries or other conditions. If your family member doesn't have one of these diagnoses, but does have a history of wandering, they may still qualify for the program. The locator is a simple bracelet worn by your family member, and emits a radio transmission which is tracked by equipment utilized by trained deputies with the Green County Sheriff's Office.
Care Trak is available to all qualified residents of Green County for only a minimal cost. For
more information, please call 608-328-9401 to speak with Pam Tourdot or Bernie Roidt.
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The Caregiver Support Group will continue to meet on the second Thursday of each month at 6:00pm-7:30pm at the Monroe Public Library, 1st floor conference room.
If help is needed to care for a loved one during the group time, please contact the
Aging & Disability Resource Center at 608.328.9499 for information about respite options and funding.
Please contact Deanna Truedson at 843-3402 for questions or more information. The group is co-sponsored by the Aging & Disability Resource Center, the Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance and
Monroe Clinic.
“Take Care to Give Care” The theme for National Family Caregivers Month November 2016
The first rule of taking care of others: take care of yourself first. Caregiving can be a rewarding experience, but it is
also physically and emotionally demanding. The stress of dealing with caregiving responsibilities leads to a higher risk
of health issues among the Nation’s 90 million family caregivers. So as a family caregiver, remember to pay attention
to your own physical and mental wellness, and get proper rest and nutrition. Only by taking care of yourself can you be
strong enough to take care of your loved one. You really do need to “take care to give care!”
Caregiving can be a stressful job. Most family caregivers say they feel stressed providing care for a loved one.
With all of their caregiving responsibilities – from managing medications to arranging doctor appointments to planning
meals – caregivers too often put themselves last.
The stress of caregiving impacts your own health. One out of five caregivers admit they have sacrificed their
own physical health while caring for a loved one. Due to stress, family caregivers have a disproportionate number of
health and emotional problems. They are twice as likely to suffer depression and are at increased risk for many other
chronic conditions.
Proper nutrition helps promote good health. Ensuring that you are getting proper nutrition is key to help
maintain your strength, energy and stamina, as well as strengthening your immune system. Maintaining a healthy
diet is one of the most powerful things you can do to take care of yourself and keep a positive attitude overall.
Ensuring good nutrition for your loved one helps make care easier. As many as half of all older adults are
at risk for malnutrition. Good nutrition can help maintain muscle health, support recovery, and reduce risk for
re-hospitalization – which may help make your care of a loved one easier.
Remember: “Rest. Recharge. Respite.” People think of respite as a luxury, but considering caregivers’ higher
risk for health issues from chronic stress, those risks can be a lot costlier than some time away to recharge. The chance
to take a breather, the opportunity to re-energize, is vital in order for you to be as good a caregiver tomorrow as you
were today.
During National Family Caregivers Month, we remind family caregivers that to be strong
enough to care for your loved one, you must
Take Care to Give Care!
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Crockpot Chicken and Dumplings
Ingredients
4 boneless skinless chicken
breast
1 can chicken broth
2 cans cream of chicken
sliced carrots
sliced celery
1/2 can peas
1/2 onion
crumbled bacon
parsley
garlic powder
salt and pepper
1 can flaky biscuits
Method
● Place chicken breasts in bottom
of crockpot
● Pour chicken broth and both
cream of chickens over it
● Add in carrots, celery and on-
ion. How much ever you prefer
● Add in garlic powder, salt and
pepper and parsley flakes over it,
how much ever you prefer
● Cook on high for 3 hours
● Remove chicken and shred.
● Add the chicken back in with
some crumbled bacon and the
peas, stir together.
● Break up the flaky biscuits,
uncooked, and put in the
crockpot. Break each roll in
about 3 parts and just place
them on top.
● Remain cooking for another
hour or so on high or until
done. Enjoy!