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Music Together:(Ages Infant – 5yrs. w/Adult)This program is the perfect start for your child’s early music education that has become an international craze!

Mommy & Me Craft & Play: (Ages 12 mos.-2 ½ yrs.) These classes are filled with love. Mom and child learn and play together through creativity and imagination!

Calling All Artists(Ages 7- 13)Grab your easel and your blank canvas, time to bring the artist out within you! Learn from the Masters! Pastels, Acrylics, and more!

Dance: (Ages 3-5; 6-7; 7 yrs.-advanced levels; Adult and professional Training)The elaborate dance program includes classes in many genres and on many different levels. From beginner and intermediate combo classes, to ballet, tap, jazz, modern, hip-hop, recreational dance, adult dance, ballroom, and much more.

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24On The CoverSpecial Thanks to College Nannies

and Tutors

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Spring Family Expo ...................3

The PlayroomLets Move the Playroom to the Kitchen ....................................9

Family Finance Financial Choices for you and your children .............................10

Convergence Insuffiency ......12

Recipe Exchange.......................13

Family Travel Tips We’re Serious about Family Fun .............................14

How Can Parents Know if Tutoring is Right for their Child ...................................16

Restaurant Review The Big A Grillhouse and Bar .........26

Readers Talkback .....................23

Family Practice Corner What to do with an Ever-Depreciating Marital Home ...26

Ask Dr WatersPartners in Watershed Protection ...30

Kids Korner ................................34

Teen & “Tween” ........................35

Health & Medical Resources .....................................36

Marketplace ................................37

Pet Tails .........................................38

By Nikki Mitchell, Family Relations Coordinator

So many high school seniors walked through our Learning Center’s doors this past summer looking

defeated and feeling disappointed in themselves. What was causing this depressed procession of students?

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MISSION STATEMENT The PoconoParent Magazine is a reliable printed family resource committed to providing its’ readers with useful information and professional area contacts. It is our priority to assist in connecting parents with appropriate resources in order to ensure a pleasurable experience living and raising children in the Pocono Mountains!

Publisher David O’Brien

Graphic Design Michael Dombrowski

Edward Fader Jennifer Goodall

Karen Klinger

Account Executives

Jennifer Haines Veronica Talbot

Photography: Maria Marchiano,

Creation on LocationKim McCambley,

Candid Camera CreationsLouise Reeves,

Photography by Louisa Michael Straub Photography

Editor Teri O’Brien

Contributing Writers:

Erin Baehr

Nina DeSantoDorota Gasienica-Kozak

Susan Mehler-BostickNikki Mitchell

Joan MullerLinda Munson

David T. O’BrienStephanie Reeck

Jen, TeenShana, Tween

Dr. Waters

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M A G A Z I N E

From the Editor’s DeskFall is has definitely settled into the Poconos. It is hard to miss all

of the vibrant colors as you cross over the Delaware Water Gap into this beautiful state! I hope that the school year got off to a great start for you and your children. Although it is hard to believe, it is that time of year again to start preparing for upcoming holidays and celebrations like Halloween and Thanksgiving. Halloween is so much fun for our children and virtually a stress free day for parents. Once you get past the question of “What or who do you want to be for Halloween”? The rest is easy. Thanksgiving can be much more stressful for parents if you are the household hosting “the feast”. Try to begin preparations early this year to reduce stress. Plan your menu, and begin shopping early in the month. Don’t be afraid to ask your guests to bring a favorite Thanksgiving dish, or dessert, to cut down on your expenses. Let’s face it; we are all still trying to reduce our expenditures in this economy. Most importantly, don’t forget what this holiday is about. It is about being with loved ones, sharing time, a great meal, and giving thanks for all of our blessings! I continue to wish you and your family, “Simple Abundance”!

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Let’s Move the Playroom to the

Kitchen!Cooking together can be a

delicious learning experience for children and their parents. Kids can explore new foods, learn about nutrition, and develop math and reading skills as they measure and read directions. With eager imaginations and enthusiastic spirits, having your children help you in the kitchen can be easier than you think. With the chaos of making sure you get dinner on the table on time, keeping everyone happy and cooking healthy meals it seems a like challenge to integrate your child in meal preparations. Ways of letting your child help in the kitchen is always in perspective of age and abilities. So given your child is capable and ready to help you in the kitchen it can be a great learning experience for them. With some simple tips your little chef will be on their way to culinary brilliance.

One great way to get your kids involved in the kitchen is to let

them feel involved. Allow them to do simple tasks like opening packages, measuring liquids and dry ingredients and fetching bowls and pots for you. This can give a child a really great sense of involvement by helping you. One great way to get your kids involved is to find out what your kids favorite recipes are.

Kids love things like cookies, cakes and desserts, so why not let them get in on the fun of baking. One great all time baking classic are Rice Krispies Treats. This recipe is quick, simple and most of all fun. One great idea is to have a separate batch for your kids to cook with while you do your own. Set out everything they’ll need like sugar, butter, oil etc. and let them follow along with you, that way when you pull their batch out of the oven they’ll be able to see how all their hard work paid off. Seeing what they’ve baked can be very big reward for the child,

not to mention they get to lick the spoon! This idea can work with any of your child’s favorite snacks such as chocolate chip cookies, cakes, muffins or cupcakes. This idea is also perfect for the holiday season!

When it comes time to make ginger bread houses and ginger bread men, don’t forget to let the kids get in on all the holiday cheer. Kids can also be great helpers for the Chanukah feast, whether its matzo balls or latkes kids can be a helping hand with all the festivities.

Hands on in the kitchen is not the only way to get a child excited about cooking and baking. You can also incorporate the fun in the kitchen into their everyday imaginative play.

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We’ve had two new babies born into our extended family

recently, which naturally brings with it a lot of reminiscing about when my children were babies, and all the financial issues that were born along with them. I have a wall hanging in my house that says “Children don’t make life easier, just better,” and that is certainly true in our finances.

If you’re a new mom or dad, you no doubt are buried (maybe

literally) in diapers, toys, and feedings, and taking care of household paperwork

can fall to the bottom of

the pile. But I urge you, if you don’t have a will, make that a top priority, right now. Don’t let not knowing who to name as your guardian delay you—take the time to discuss it, and get your will done. There’s a great book called Wear Clean Underwear by Alexis Martin Neely that can help you think it through. Alexis is an attorney and also has a website called www.KidsProtectionPlan.com, where you can print out a document to name your guardians. It is not a substitute for a properly drafted will, but a tool to guide you in the process. And along with that, make sure you have enough life insurance coverage.

Financial Choices for you and your children

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If you are young and healthy, term coverage is a cheap way to give your family priceless protection, should something happen to you.

Most parents think of saving for college as something they should do right away. While I don’t discourage saving for college, I recommend that your first priority be to establish an emergency fund for your family, maximize your retirement savings, and then start saving for college. It’s the old “put your oxygen mask on first” theory. It’s much easier to draw from your own funds to pay for college than it is to use college funds to pay for a family emergency.

Think long term when it comes to how you define your child’s standard of living. What I mean by that is, will you be able to keep your child in the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed when she is a teenager? A parent of any teen will tell you, the cost of their “care and feeding” increases exponentially as they get older. Be careful what habits you (and their grandparents) instill; a dozen pair of toddler shoes costs a

whole lot less than a dozen pair of Nikes.

Take advantage of flexible spending accounts at work if they are available. With these plans, because you are able to use pretax dollars for out of

pocket medical expenses, you don’t have to jump the 7.5% of adjusted gross income floor before deducting expenses on your federal income tax return. The trick is you’ll have to choose an amount to defer to the account prior to the start of the new calendar year. You will forfeit what you don’t use, but with over the counter medications and vitamins included in eligible expenses, there

are plenty of ways to use up excess funds. Flexible spending accounts are available for child care expenses also; since many taxpayers can only take a credit of 10% of their eligible child care expenses on their federal income taxes, the flexible spending account may yield a greater savings.

Finally, network with other parents and share ideas for creative ways to save money. For instance, you may want to form a babysitting co-op, and trade child care hours for a night out, or for regular working days. I learned how to make my own baby wipes from a friend, found out when the snow boots and baseball cleats were on clearance (always stocked up years ahead!) from moms on the playground, and learned about many free and low cost places to take my kids from my playgroup—including the combined birthday parties we had at Chuck E Cheese, which we couldn’t have afforded otherwise. I owe a huge debt of gratitude to Playgroups, Inc., who connected me with my playgroup. That was a lifesaver to me as a stay at home mom!

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Convergence Insufficiency: A Masquerader of Learning DisabilitiesBy Stephanie Reeck, Optometric Intern Eye Associates of Monroe County

Convergence insufficiency can often be misconstrued as a learning disability. It affects approximately

5% of children in the United States, and may have a serious impact on an individual’s performance in school and academic development. School-aged children with convergence insufficiency manifest as children with focusing and attention deficits. It is most often diagnosed in older children and adolescents when increased visual demands of schoolwork and prolonged periods of reading exacerbate symptoms.

The exact cause of convergence insufficiency is not known, but it ultimately is a misalignment of the muscles that move the eye. It is a disorder that interferes with an individual’s ability to see, read, learn, and work at close distances. Extra effort is required to make the eyes work together which can lead to symptoms such as eyestrain, headaches, blurred vision, squinting, rubbing, closing or covering an eye, sleepiness, inability to concentrate, and short attention span.

It is also possible to have convergence insufficiency without symptoms of eyestrain, headache and double vision if one eye has shut down. This can cause loss of depth perception and poor coordination which can affect sports performance.

Treatment for convergence insufficiency includes vision therapy and eyeglasses with specialty lenses which help relieve strain on eye muscles. About 75 percent of children who do office-based vision therapy along with at-home reinforcement achieve normal vision or have significantly less symptoms in a few months.

An individual can see 20/20 in both eyes and still have convergence insufficiency. Testing for convergence insufficiency is not included in pediatrician’s eye tests or school screenings. Thus, an annual comprehensive vision examination by an eye doctor is recommended for everyone.

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Joan’s Healthy Thanksgiving Recipes TipsTry seasoning the skin with salt and pepper instead of rubbing it with butter, which is loaded with fat. Reach for a piece of turkey breast instead of the leg as it’s lower in calories than dark meat.

StuffingStuffing is one of the best dishes at the dinner table, but did

you know it absorbs fat from the turkey as it cooks? So instead

of stuffing the stuffing inside the turkey, bake it in a casserole

dish instead.

Ingredients:

2 cups diced celery

1/2 cup minced onion

3 cups chicken broth

1/2 cup butter

3 eggs, beaten

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1 tbsp. salt

1 tsp. ground black pepper

1/4 tsp. sage

1 pinch dried thyme

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not brown. Add celery and stir well. Add two cups of chicken

broth, bring to a boil and simmer for 10 minutes. In a large

mixing bowl, toss bread cubes, eggs, salt, pepper, sage and

thyme. Add onion and celery mixture and combine thoroughly.

If it’s on the dry side, just add a lil’ more chicken broth. Bake at

350 degrees Fahrenheit for 45 minutes, or until the top is lightly

browned.

Spinach SaladInstead of loading up on candied yams and sweet potatoes, just take a couple spoonfuls to nibble on and pile your plate full of veggies. Check out this easy spinach salad that you can prepare with ingredients lying around in your fridge! Ingredients:

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Thanksgiving dinner isn’t complete without pumpkin pie, but

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June 24, 2010 ~ Seems like a long way off,

but will be here before a blink of an eye. Pocono Parent Magazine is excited to offer its first Group Family Vacation. So set

the date and come sail along. We set sail from New York’s Harbor and will visit the fabulous Islands of San Juan, St. Thomas and Grand Turk. There will be plenty of time to enjoy and explore all the “Fun Ship ~ Miracle” has to offer, and let me tell you there is a ton! This modern marvel is highlighted by an 11-story atrium with a ruby red glass ceiling. Carnival features some of the largest accommodation at sea, and most of the Miracle’s staterooms have ocean views. The Miracle features all of the

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fabulous dining cruising is famous for ~ including a reservations only Steakhouse “Nick & Nora’s” where the intimate ambiance and mouth watering favorites will make this a truly memorable dining experience.

This cruise is about family time and Carnival IS serious about Family Fun ~ they realize that every family is different, so they have FUN with everyone in mind, young married with tots in tow, couples with teens and seniors who want to travel with their children and grandkids. Carnival offers plenty of activities to keep everyone happy, they want your family vacation to be filled with lasting memories. They offer the ultimate in supervised youth programs, led by highly trained professionals and all are included in your cruise.

CAMP CARNIVAL ~this program is designed for children ages 2 – 11. With specific activities for each age group; Toddlers (2-5) Finger painting, story time, arts and crafts, A-B-Seas! Juniors (6-8) Volcano making, outdoor games, Stars and Planets and Knights Night! Intermediate (9-11) Sports, board games, outdoor fun and Game Systems. From the moment the kids enter the lively world of Camp Carnival they will have a blast. There is also a Family Welcome Aboard Party, Ice Cream Sundae Making, Kids Talent Show and Scavenger Hunt. At Camp Carnival they make sure your kids will have so much fun, they don’t even notice they’re being supervised…they think the Counselors are just big kids!

CIRCLE “C”~ this is where young teens ages 12- 14 can chill out, have fun and make new friends. Circle “C” offers parties, games, and other supervised activities; there are even special shore excursions for this age group. Outdoor movies and night swims. There is a special space program dedicated to this group. The “tweens” will love this place!

CLUB O2 ~ “THE” Hot Spot (sorry ~ no adults) is specifically for the 15 – 17 year old.

Club O2 is the place for them to hang out with friends, watch movies,

listen to the latest music, play video games or join in a karaoke sessions. They also offer supervised teen –only excursions so they can take in the sights and sounds of the Islands with their friends.

In the evening they can hang out in CLUB style featuring comfy cool seats, a DJ booth, state of the art dance floor and a non-alcoholic drink bar…

Mom and Dad, while the kids are having a great time at Camp Carnival, there is plenty of grown up fun to be found….You could have a relaxing message at Spa Carnival, try your luck at the Casino, take a swim or just relax at the pool ~ whatever floats your boat.

Family Time ~ just think about it…No getting ready for work or school. No lunches to pack, no shuttling back and forth. All you have to think about is what kind of “FUN” you’ll share together. Make a big splash ~ spend the afternoon at the pool; the Miracle has a waterslide that is 3 decks high. This twisting turning water slide is perfect for splishin and splashing at any age. How about a round of mini golf or one-on-one basketball. Plan one of the fabulous shore excursions while on the Islands and munch out together on the Lido deck ~ pizza, ice cream, there are plenty of choices even for those picky eaters.

There will be so many opportunities for discovering new things together ~ this is a great vacation choice for the entire family. The kids will Love it, so will Mom and Dad, Grandparents too. …...soooooo

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By Linda Munson, Executive Director

The notion of tutoring, whether it’s to catch up, keep up or get ahead, has been around for a very long time.

Socrates, for instance, tutored Plato and Plato tutored Aristotle. These were all bright philosophers and scholars who learned from someone who knew more. So, how can parents know when a personal instructor is right for their child?

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they build confidence that translates into all areas of their life, helping them build a strong foundation for a successful future. The purpose of tutoring is to teach children efficient learning skills and techniques to use in the classroom and, ultimately, in the workforce as adults. It is important that parents take action early and seek a reputable supplemental education service that personalizes and develops these skills for success.

If you notice that your child is struggling with homework, the first step is talking with your child and determining the underlying cause. Once you know the potential source of difficulty, it will be easier to develop a strategy for changing the struggle into success.

Even a child who is doing well in the classroom may benefit from outside help to sharpen study and test-taking skills. A supplemental education provider can help your child prepare for a test, catch up or get ahead in a particular subject area.

What should parents look for when selecting a tutor? Make sure the instructor is licensed and certified. Get recommendations from family, friends and teachers, and ask prospective tutors for references from previous employers and students. Or, hire a respected

supplemental education company with a proven record of academic success.

Ask personal instructors how they will help your child master a specific skill and request an assessment to gauge your child’s current level. A good teacher will require that a child learn a specific skill before advancing to the next academic level, and, by utilizing the results of an assessment, you can benchmark your child’s progress. Most importantly, ensure the instructor will work with you and your child’s teachers to create a personal learning program based on your child’s current needs

If you’re looking for maximum flexibility, consider online educational services. Look for online programs that offer real-time assistance where students obtain individualized attention and personalized programs taught by highly trained and certified teachers – from the convenience of home.

Although parents may not have the necessary skills to tutor their child, they can take the right step by obtaining the proper academic help.

Even a child who is doing well in the classroom may benefit from outside help to sharpen study and test-taking skills

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tomatoes, red onion, toasted pecans, sundried cherries, white cheddar cheese, and Italian style croutons, served with the house apple cider vinaigrette dressing ($8.95) and I had the French Onion Soup baked with Provolone cheese and garlic crostini ($4.95). Having an Italian family, my wife could not resist trying the Tuscan Shrimp and Chicken Penne as an entrée; sauteed chicken and shrimp with crimini mushrooms, diced tomatoes and baby spinach in a garlic cream sauce, served over penne ($23.95). I decided on the Cold Water Salmon Fillet char-grilled with a Sweet Bourbon Sauce (19.95). They boast

a full-service bar where you can order cocktails, fine wines & draft beers. The service was very good and our dinners were excellent!

If you are looking to be a little more casual, you can always stop by for some pub grub at the bar which is a much more casual atmosphere. The dining room and bar seem like two completely different restaurants – “Something for everybody.”

Local area residents should ask about their frequent dining card.

Reservations are suggested and don’t forget to mention you read about them in PoconoParent Magazine!

By David T O’Brien

My wife and I stopped by for dinner recently. The food was

really good & fresh. The environment is clean. And the options are many, from burgers, pasta, steaks, chicken & seafood.

My wife started with a “Big A House Salad” Spring greens, grape

Parents Before children start out on their “trick or treat” rounds, parents should:

Make sure that an adult or an older responsible youth will be supervising the outing for children under age 12.

Instruct your children to travel only in familiar areas and along an established route.

Teach your children to stop only at houses or apartment buildings that are well-lit and never to enter a stranger’s home.

Establish a return time.

Tell your youngsters not to eat any treat until they return home.

Accessories Knives, swords and other accessories should be made from cardboard or flexible materials. Do not allow children to carry sharp objects.

Bags or sacks carried by youngsters should be light-colored or trimmed with retro-reflective tape if children are allowed out after dark.

Carrying flashlights will help children see better and be seen more clearly.

Motorists The National Safety Council urges motorists to be especially alert on Halloween.

Watch for children darting out from between parked cars.

Watch for children walking on roadways, medians and curbs.

Enter and exit driveways and alleys carefully.

At twilight and later in the evening, watch for children in dark clothing.

Safety Tips

Costume Design Only fire-retardant materials should be used for costumes.

Costumes should be loose so warm clothes can be worn underneath.

Costumes should not be so long that they are a tripping hazard. (Falls are the leading cause of unintentional injuries on Halloween.)

If children are allowed out after dark, outfits should be made with light colored materials. Strips of retroreflective tape should be used to make children visible.

Halloween

Treats To ensure a safe trick-or-treat outing, parents are urged to:

Give children an early meal before going out.

Insist that treats be brought home for inspection before anything is eaten.

Wash fruit and slice into small pieces.

When in doubt, throw it out.

On the way Children should understand and follow these rules:

Do not enter homes or apartments without adult supervision.

Walk, do not run, from house to house. Do not cross yards and lawns where unseen objects or the uneven terrain can present tripping hazards.

Walk on sidewalks, not in the street.

Walk on the left side of the road, facing traffic if there are no sidewalks.

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As an approved tutoring provider by the PA Dept of Education, we provide free tutoring to students (K – 12) in eligible schools within local school districts. We guarantee that students’ performance will improve in reading, math and science in a few weeks.There is absolutely no charge to families since this service is funded by the federal government.

Our Mission and Core Values

The directors of the locally owned and operated Tannersville

Learning Center have worked to build a program of customized services and have developed their mission and core values that will nurture a business culture they feel better fits their goals and ideals for this region.

Our Mission: To build stronger families and provide the best quality service -- care and education -- to all children and their families through our well trained, fun-loving, active role models while meeting the needs of community.

Our Core Values: These are the vital and timeless guiding principles for our company. This is our culture.

• Put God First – We believe that without God, this company would not be possible. We seek His approval in all that we do. He gives us direction in how to run this company, protects us from the giants, gives us the right staff at the right time and provides for our every need. He deserves honor and praise for all our successes and even our failures. He is our CEO.

• Love Children and Young People – We care for and respect all children and their families, regardless of their age, ethnicity, background and/or socio-economic status. We believe that all children can learn and deserve to learn and will learn when we come into contact with them. We will motivate and encourage them. We will do all that we can to help them live successful, productive lives.

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We provide customized in-home childcare services based on the unique needs of the family.

According to the IRS, a nanny is an employee, whether you employ them or we do. As an employer, we take steps to ensure the nanny is legal to work, covered by workers’ compensation insurance, payroll forms are processed and payroll taxes are properly withheld.

On-Call ServicesHourly childcare that’s easy,

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Our On-call Nanny Service is the perfect alternative to trying to find another “babysitter”. We are the perfect option to use for:

• Date Nights• Weddings• Corporate Events• Back-up Child Care• Emergencies

Work-Life Balance Benefits Corporate On-Call Services

Through our relationship with national and local partners, we provide work/life benefits to employees of small, mid-size and large companies.

We are a back-up care solution when parents need to get to work and need an alternate child care arrangement.

• Go the Extra Mile – We look for ways to give a little extra – a little more in value than is expected – in order to show we care for the children and families we serve. We go above and beyond to what is expected to ensure that others are happy with our service.

• Provide Servant Leadership We provide our staff with the support, the tools and resources they need to do their jobs to the best of their ability and to increase their value to the company. We provide an example to our staff in how others should be treated, with respect and dignity.

• Hire Fun-Loving, Qualified, Above-the-Line Role Models Our staff are carefully selected to ensure that the developmental needs of the children we serve are met. We aim to ensure that our children are safe, happy and well-cared for. Our staff is committed, dedicated, hardworking, fun, honest professionals, who put children’s/students’ needs first. They treat each child as if he/she was their own family member. They are safe, well trained and well qualified to work with children. Our staff uses their God given talents and skills to engage children in child development activities and active play and learning. They see their worth and value in the families they serve.

• Place Significance Before Success – We place a higher value on people than we do on profit. We want to make significant impact on the communities we serve.

• Create a Results/Growth Only Work Environment – We expect our company to grow consistently and continuously because our staff provides results. They deliver. Our staff set their own schedules and preferences for a working environment.

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STROUDSBURG UNITED

As we enter our 19th year of operation our club is your child's home for soccer development. Our nationally certified instructors and dedicated staff will take pride in watching your future star grow within

our organization. From the beginning 4 year old, to the advanced premier level player, we have a place for everyone within our organization. Register now by going to www.stroudsburgunited.com

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With the club since she was a U8 player, Elva has progressed in our club's

system . Elva was recruited by Division 2 East Stroudsburg University while

playing for our U17 team premier team.

“Come Grow With US”

First Touch Program ages 4 and 5 (Fall and Spring programs)

Kick Start Program ages 6,7,8 (Fall and Spring Programs)

The Euro Pre-travel Program-U9 (Fall and Spring Programs)

The Classic Program U10-U19 (Fall and Spring Programs)

The Premier Programs U12-U19(10 Month Program)

The Elite Programs U13-U20(10 Month Program)

Programs for the PRE-K child to the Over 30 adult

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STROUDSBURG UNITED

As we enter our 19th year of operation our club is your child's home for soccer development. Our nationally certified instructors and dedicated staff will take pride in watching your future star grow within

our organization. From the beginning 4 year old, to the advanced premier level player, we have a place for everyone within our organization. Register now by going to www.stroudsburgunited.com

WWW.STROUDSBURGUNITED.COM WWW.ACPERUGIAUSA.COM

Alex Weekes

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years

Elva Composto

U818

years

With the club since he was a U8 player, Alex has progressed in our

club's system. He was recruited while playing on our U17 premier team by

Division 1 Colgate University

With the club since she was a U8 player, Elva has progressed in our club's

system . Elva was recruited by Division 2 East Stroudsburg University while

playing for our U17 team premier team.

“Come Grow With US”

First Touch Program ages 4 and 5 (Fall and Spring programs)

Kick Start Program ages 6,7,8 (Fall and Spring Programs)

The Euro Pre-travel Program-U9 (Fall and Spring Programs)

The Classic Program U10-U19 (Fall and Spring Programs)

The Premier Programs U12-U19(10 Month Program)

The Elite Programs U13-U20(10 Month Program)

Programs for the PRE-K child to the Over 30 adult

A Not-for-Profit 501c3 Organization

Serving The Monroe County Youth For 19 Years

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Our church has lots to offer for families

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Fun-�illed and inspirational

programs are available for children and youth during

all three service times.

Service Times: Saturday evening 6:00

Sunday morning 9:00 & 11:00

PoconoParent Magazine,Our family attends every family expo you hold and we were disappointed to hear that the October family fall expo was cancelled. We were so looking forward to it! Please send us an email reminder for the Spring 2010 Family Expo. Keep up the good work your are doing.

Jennifer,Pocono Mountain

To The Editor,Just wanted to let you know that your article on “clean your body” was fantastic. I actually went online and read the other articles by the same writer.Thank you.

Monica,

Bartonsville

Dear Mrs. O’Brien,We are so excited to see in your magazine that Pocono Parent Maga-zine & Carnival are hosting a special cruise next year. My two boys have started saving and we can’t wait.See you onboard!

Jeff,Stroudsburg

At PoconoParent Magazine we enjoy hearing from you

If you would like to send your feedback on the

magazine please send us an email at

[email protected] or submit it directly at

www.poconoparentmagazine.com

Thank you for your contributing letters

By Nina DeSanto, Holistic Mom

As parents we worry about the health and wellbeing of our children in many forms. We ponder upon many

questions like: Are the foods our children eat healthy and safe? Are the cleaning products we use toxic to our children? But have you ever asked yourself, “Are the crafts and toys my children play with safe and non-toxic?” Well, you should, because in some cases the answer is probably, No!

Our skin is the largest organ of our body. Anything we come into contact with via the skin will be absorbed into our blood stream and flow through our entire body including our remaining organs. Not only do we have to be cautious of what we eat, but what our skin comes into contact with.

Some art and craft supplies contain toxic ingredients especially when used or stored indoors. There have been studies that suggest certain gases are released from kids craft items that can trigger conditions such as asthma, allergies, headaches, and nausea. Particularly, inks, adhesives, solvents and clay which may contain chemicals that can lead to chronic disease like cancer after repeated exposure. Because children are more vulnerable, it is important to choose supplies certified as non-toxic. To insure safe craft products for your children you can purchase non-toxic or make your own. Making homemade crafts for your children can be safe and fun with an added bonus of saving you money!

Here are some recipes for the enjoyment of your children as well as yourself. Have fun!

Safe Crafts for Kids

*NOTE: You can also add vegetable juices or mashed up vegetables, such as carrots, beets, or spinach for color, instead of food coloring. Veggie powders such as powder carrots, beets, wheat grass and spices such as Turmeric work great as a color additive.

Play Dough –Heated Recipe

2 cups flour

1 cup salt

2 tablespoons vegetable oil

2 cups water with several drops of food coloring

added* 4 teaspoons cream of tartar

Mix ingredients together in a saucepan over

medium heat. Stir constantly until mixture

thickens. Remove from heat and turn dough onto

a plate to cool. Store play dough in a covered

container or plastic bag. Finished creations can

also be baked slowly in the oven until hardened,

then painted.

Play Dough-No Heating Required 3cups four 1/3 cup salt 2tbsp oil (veg) 1cup water

7 drops food coloring Mix dry ingredients with oil. Add food coloring to water and mix together. Add water to flour/salt/oil mixture slowly; about 1/4 cup at a time and mix together with a spoon. Once you’ve added all the water, knead the dough with your hands.

Fun Putty Mix one part liquid starch to two parts white glue. Mix should be allowed to ‘work’ for five to ten minutes to allow the glue and starch to react to each other. Knead the mixture together, and store in zipper bags inside of plastic containers between

uses.

Child’s Dough – Different Version

One and ½ cups flour

¾ cups salt

¾ cups water

Combine the two dry ingredients together in a

mixing bowl. Slowly add water, stirring and then as

mixture comes together start to knead the dough.

Extra water may be added as needed. A few drops

of food color may be added as desired. Store in

zipper bags or inside plastic containers between

uses.

Air Dry Clay-Great for Making Jewelry ¾ cups flour ½-cup salt ½-cup cornstarch Water (warm water works best) Combine dry ingredients together. Add warm

water to mixture until mixture is of a doughy consistency. If too much water is added, add in a bit more equal parts flour and cornstarch until desired mixture is attained. For making this dough into beads to be decorated later with paint, take small amounts of mix and roll between hands, forming small round shapes. Pierce each with a toothpick. Let dry. Paint as desired once they are completely dry. String and

wear!

Homemade Finger Paint Recycled jars with covers (baby food jars work) for storage or plastic cups, like applesauce cups for dispensing, when it’s time to paint 1 1/2 Tbls white sugar 1/2 cup dry cornstarch 1/2 tsp table salt 1 cup of very cold water 1 box of food coloring with red, green, yellow and blue Mix and dilute the cornstarch into the water. Once mixed, pour into a cooking pot, and add remaining ingredients. Mix the ingredients and cook on low heat. Over the next 10 minutes, continue to stir the paint mixture. The ingredients will go from looking funny, to looking watery, to thickening up to a nice painting consistency. Once the mixture thickens, remove the pan from the stove and place on a safe surface. Let the mixture cool and once cooled place some of the mixture into each of the jars. Add a couple of drops of food coloring into each jar to make a color. Mix well and paint away! Store paint with a closed lid for future use.

Bubbles 1 gallon water 2/3 cup non-toxic dishwashing soap

2-3 tbsp. glycerin

Mix together and have fun!

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As a result of the recent economy, many divorcing individuals are faced with a

decision as to how to deal with the marital home. In past years, the marital home, in most situations, was the largest marital asset of the estate and worth fighting over in Divorce Court.

However, in recent times, the trend has reversed and parties are trying to free themselves from the home rather than fighting to maintain the home due to its depreciating nature. In these situations, parties have difficulty in deciding who should remain in the marital residence and maintain the expenses associated with that marital residence. Even the breadwinner of a relationship may not be able to continue to afford to maintain the residence as is required by the party remaining in the residence. Therefore, the present economy has presented inventive options in these situations. Unfortunately, the options may not be in the best interests of either party involved as follows:

What To Do With An Ever-Depreciating Marital Home

1. One party may maintain the marital residence and live in the marital residence during sale or buy-out of the other party’s interest.

2. Both parties agree to share the expenses of the marital residence during the process of the sale of the marital residence if neither party is living in the residence and agree to make any improvements to the residence in order to sell the residence quickly.

3. Both parties agree to continue to live in the residence and share the expenses until the economy improves and they are able to sell the residence. This option is only available if the parties are amicable and are able to remain in the residence in separate bedrooms within the same home during this process.

4. If there are children involved in the divorce, some parties may negotiate terms where they

share the marital residence at different periods of time in order to maintain stability for the children. In that scenario, both parties would share the expenses of that residence, as well as share expenses for separate residences where they live when the other party is exercising their rights to custody in the marital residence. Obviously, this is only a good option if the ultimate priority of the divorcing couple is to maintain

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stability for the children during the divorce process and until ultimate resolution of the marital residence.

5. Some parties may agree to provide provisions in their Property Settlement Agreements wherein a dependent spouse, who wishes to remain in the marital residence as primary custodian of the children, is allowed to remain in the marital residence, maintain the costs of the marital residence through child support and alimony paid to the dependent spouse, and agree to terms to a future sale of the residence when the youngest child reaches the age of majority. Obviously, such a scenario would have to be spelled out in detail in order to provide for provisions regarding maintenance of the residence, improvements to the residence and any type of reimbursements to either party, as well as addressing the dependent spouse’s contribution towards the maintenance of the residence during the period of time of continued residence in

that home and potential issues if default on the mortgage occurs by the dependent spouse. This also keeps divorcing parties tied to each other for long periods of time which is not always in anyone’s best interest.

6. The parties may allow the financial institution securing the mortgage on your property to foreclose on the property. However, the problem with this scenario is that any party listed on the mortgage will suffer the consequences of the foreclosure by damaging their credit.

7. The parties may allow for a short sale of the house to another party, which allows for a quick sale of the residence but does not eliminate the possibility of damaging your credit.

8. The parties can agree to auction the property through an auctioneer for a quick turnaround and establish a minimum sale price to cover all liens against the property.

9. In many situations, the next option seems to be the most

viable option for the parties during this potential sale of the residence. Many parties have now entered into real estate partnerships after the divorce and agree to sell the property when the market improves and even rent out the residence to the other party or to a third party interested in renting the residence and splitting the rental income from such tenant. An agreement of such nature may be easily drafted upon discussion with the attorneys involved in the divorce. In this scenario, neither party’s credit suffers and the parties may negotiate a settlement with regard to the other assets of the divorce even though they remain in a partnership with regard to the marital residence. This is an enticing option to many divorcing parties because it does not delay the divorce process and eventually provides income to the parties in the interim, as well as an eventual sale and proceeds of the sale of the marital residence in the future.

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So many high school seniors walked through our Learning Center’s doors this past summer looking defeated and feeling disappointed in

themselves. What was causing this depressed procession of students? Many of them had taken the SAT/ACT test for the second or third time and found their scores to be in the same range as their prior attempts. Low, low, low. Now going into their last year of high school, they are concerned about not getting into the colleges and universities upon which they have set their sights. And while parents understand the importance of seeking out proper academic support, you can also feel their despair as they too realize that time is running out for their child. Parents realize that financially, the lower the test scores, the less financial support their student may receive and the more out of pocket expense they are sure to have.

Why are so many students retaking the test to find they are earning the same scores? Albert Einstein said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Now I am by no means calling our students insane. Not even close! However, failing to prepare for the SAT/ACT, along with ignoring where the areas of deficiency lie on a previous test will pretty much get you the same results each time, no matter how many times you retake it. In the spirit of Einstein, it is almost crazy to think you will get something different unless you prepare differently. And while when they walk through our doors, we are more than happy to help them achieve the academic success they so desire, we do feel that there are ways to

“ “The Earlier You Plan, The Better Your Student Will Stand

By Nikki Mitchell, Family Relations Coordinator

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Students who struggle academically in school are not the only ones who are finding that they need the

extra support when it comes to the SAT/ACT.

avoid the turmoil it takes to get them to seek out the assistance in the first place.

Students who struggle academically in school are not the only ones who are finding that they need the extra support when it comes to the SAT/ACT. In fact, I speak with a number of parents weekly who cannot figure out why their “A” student scored so low on this test. One mother sighed over the phone when talking about her son’s scores, “he’s an honor student, near the top of his class. What more can he do?” Fortunately there is more. It comes down to preparation and we definitely advocate being proactive in planning for the SAT/ACT.

Frankly, waiting until 11th and 12th grade to prepare your student for

the SAT/ACT is too late. If their grade point average is high and they generally do well in school, then at least we can focus the remainder of their time before the test on coaching them in test taking strategies, practicing good essay writing skills and helping them become comfortable with the format and layout of this particular test. If their grades are struggling, however, and previous test scores are relatively low, positive changes can still be made with the assistance of our tutors, but we have to have a much greater commitment from the student in regards to the time and the energy they will put into studying. These particular students need to overcome two hurdles: improving academic deficiencies in a relatively short period of time and

learning the strategies and skills involved with taking the SAT. When the students truly commit to our program, we have seen significant improvement in overall scores regardless of what grade they are in when they come to us.

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There is an organization in Monroe County with a long

name that you don’t normally associate with watershed protection. This organization is instrumental in protecting water and keeping the Poconos clean from litter and debris. This entity even has its own police force to combat illegal dumping.

It is true that “it’s only recycling if you do it right”. However recycling is a smaller part of what this company does. The main focus of this company is the management of Monroe County’s waste stream and the management of landfills. Have you guessed the name yet?

Although there are others, the Monroe County Municipal Waste Management Authority is one of the primary recycling entities in the county. The waste management authority is responsible for the blue bins located throughout Monroe County. They even have an anonymous tip line to report illegal dumping (www.reachrecycling.org). This Authority is also the company that holds the hazardous household waste collection sites usually on an annual basis.

There’s that ugly term again – usually. The decline in the U.S.

market has taken a great toll on the money raised by recycling. The Authority went from having its best financial year in the last 30 years (in terms of money generated by recycling) to almost zero. At its peak the Authority was able to generate about $120,000 per month by recycling truck loads of recyclables. The recycling market has rebounded slightly and now generates about $30K per month for the Authority. Almost one million dollars had to be cut from the annual budget to compensate for this reduction in revenue.

There was no hazardous household waste collection event in 2009 for financial reasons. The goal is to remove hazardous material from the waste stream and landfills. As one can imagine the cost to hold a collection event is quite high. The previous two years cost the

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Authority about $150,000 per event. At the last event held the Authority expanded its collection items to include electronics like computer and televisions. The shipping costs are high for these large items.

Electronics should be recycled. The United States is one of only a few nations that does not require manufacturers to take back (recycle) their own products. If manufacturers were required to take back their own products you can bet that they would be engineered in a much different fashion. Product designers would be forced to have more “future vision” than they do now. For now you can take your electronics to Staples or Burnley Workshop for recycling. Small items like a mouse or keyboard can be recycled for free. There is a $5 or $10 fee for larger items like TV’s, computer monitors and CPU’s which is very reasonable considering the cost of shipping.

I was surprised to learn that the Authority is currently storing glass. It is very difficult to find markets willing to accept glass because the cost is so high to recycle glass into

a usable product (it’s cheaper and easier to buy raw sand). The reason the Authority is stockpiling glass is because of a new pilot program. The glass bottles are being ground up and used in sand mound septic systems. For the waste Authority this is a great way to keep glass out of the landfills (it takes some 700 years for a plastic bottle to decompose but glass doesn’t breakdown over time).

An exciting new prospect for the waste Authority is the POSSIBILITY of holding a pharmaceutical collection event. Again, cost is a major factor but the first steps have been taken to initiate such an event for 2010. I hope most readers know that flushing unused medicine down the drain is not the right thing to do. The guidelines currently recommend that unused medication is crushed and mixed with coffee grounds or cat litter and put into the household trash. This method is better than flushing because it gives the pharmaceutical time to degrade before it goes into the environment. Conversely, flushing a medication sends it directly into the drinking water supply!

The blue roadside bins are our friends and should be treated as such. It’s a shame that a handful of people abuse this service provided by the Authority. The waste Authority spends thousands each year chasing after and issuing fines to people who leave furniture, fire extinguishers and charcoal grills at the blue bin sites. Those security cameras do come in handy!

As always, take care of yourselves and if you have any questions about what and where to recycle certain items please do no hesitate to contact me by e-mail at [email protected].

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&Although many American’s think of Thanksgiving as their

holiday there are other places in the world that celebrate Thanksgiving - it is a celebration focusing on thankfulness for the harvest.

Canada’s Thanksgiving is the 2nd Monday in October in celebration of the harvest. Like the Americans they have a traditional feast Turkey with all the trimmings.

China also celebrates the end of the harvest in August, it’s called The August Moon Festival or the Woman’s Festival. According to legend the moon symbolizes beauty and elegance and it is the biggest and brightest on this day. Moon cakes (small palm size cake with egg yolk centers) and folktales about a moon maiden are popular traditions on this day. Make a wish and the Lady on the Moon just might grant it.

In Korea Thanksgiving is a celebration during the harvest season. It is called Chusok (meaning great day in the middle of August) and is celebrated in August. The celebration is a time of thanks to their ancestors for providing rice and fruits, it starts the night before Chusok and ends the day after.

In Vietnam, Tt-Trung-Thu or the Children’s Festival is also celebrated in August. Vietnamese parents work so hard preparing for the harvest that family time has been ignored. This day parents show their love to their children. There is a traditional lantern procession that the children participate in at dawn. The lanterns represent brightness and the procession represents success at school. Unicorn dancers, moon cakes and moon lady folklore stories are part of the traditional celebration.

Succoth is a 7-day Jewish Harvest Celebration usually held in September and October. This is both a religious and historical holiday. During a trip to Canaan (Israel) Hebrews lived in Temporary shelters, these living spaces are called succah. They lived, worshiped and shared meals. During Succoth farmers give thanks to God for their crops. Today they celebrate by building the traditional succah. and decorating it with olive and other tree branches. Three sides of the succah are covered with blue and gold fabric. Families gather inside to eat and celebrate and Thank God for the Harvest.

Pongal is a 3-day harvest festival celebrated in South India beginning January 14. Each day represents a day of thankfulness. The first day is in honor of the rain gods for providing rain for the harvest. The second day, pongal is offered to the sun and on the third day, the family’s cattle are honored. They are cleaned and decorated with flowers, bells, and colored powder. They are honoring the cattle’s hard work in the fields. Although activities vary, most communities get together for a feast with all the villagers attending.

In Africa, The Kwanzaa (first fruits) a harvest related celebration starts on December 26 and lasts for 7 days. Family, community and culture are what Kwanzaa is all about. This is a 7-day celebration based on the values of African culture: unity, self-determination collective work, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity and faith.

Thanksgiving seems to be a celebration that centers on family, friends, eating and tradition no matter

where the location is.

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I used to collect coins and stamps when I was younger. I haven’t done that in a long time. At this point in my life, my hobbies are my after school activities. I participate in alot of different

activities, like drama club, Student Council, yearbook, and my church youth group. All of these activities keep me pretty busy and I enjoy them all. Most of my friends keep busy with after school activities as well. When we were younger, we just went to school and came home, but when you get older, you spend most of your time after school in clubs and groups that the school offers. I think all teenagers should have activities and hobbies outside of school, it makes life more interesting, and fun!

My favorite activity is dancing. I have been taking ballet, tap, and jazz since I was five years old. I love going to my dance classes twice a week and I really love my end of year recital. Having

a hobby like dancing keeps me busy and in shape. Dancing is great exercise. I think all kids should find an activity that helps them get exercise, that way they can keep fit by having fun! Friends my age have lots of different hobbies and activities that they do, like karate, art classes and playing instruments. I love my hobby so much, that I’d like to be a professional dancer when I grow up!

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