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On The CoverSpecial Thanks To

Emma

Photographer: Louise Reeves,

Photography by Louisa

20When Margaret Miller began her “Music Together” program nearly ten years ago, in

Reeders, she had no idea of the success and growth that was to follow...

eMMiissss MMaarrggaarrett’’ssMiss Margaret’s

“Why are you teaching your son sign language?”

College Savings 101By Erin Baehr, Financial Advisor

Fall Family Expo ‘08 ..................3

The Playroom A Kid’s Play Space .............................7

Family Travel Tips Families Rule! ...................................10

What We Learn by Watching our Kids Play Sports ..................................12

Restaurant ReviewAntelao’s ...........................................15

Spotlight Awards ......................16

Family Practice CornerWhy You Rarely File a Fault Divorce ....................................18

Reader’s Talkback ....................23

Kickoff a Stress-Free School Year ..................................24

Ask Dr. Waters Locally Support Good Ideas to Promote Good Water ..................30

MRSA/Staph Infection: Are These New Concerns For Schools? .....................................32

Kids Korner ................................34

Teen & Tween .............................35

Health & Medical Resources .....................................36

Marketplace ................................37

Pet Tails .........................................38By Karin DePaul

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From the Editor’s DeskMy, how the month’s pass so quickly! It is hard to believe that it is

almost “back to school time again”. During the last month of summer, be sure to take time out to relax and enjoy the beauty of the Poconos. Find time to swim in community pools, wade in our beautiful lakes and rivers, play, and just “hang out” with your family. If you haven’t had a summer picnic yet, take advantage of the beautiful weather, find a park or a shady tree, and enjoy a feast of sandwiches, fruit, and juice boxes. You will make a beautiful, lasting summer memory for your family. Flying a kite, playing tag, ball, or just swinging on the swings are what picnics are all about. If you have the opportunity, visit the “Jersey Shore” even for the day. It’s really only an hour and a half away. Growing up there, it wouldn’t be summertime for me without a swim in the ocean or a sandcastle on the beach! Get ready for the school year with your children by discussing your expectations. Remind them that each school year is a fresh start for them. Encourage them to do well and to be involved in extra curricular activities. Make a commitment to your children and yourself to be accessible to them for homework challenges, projects or just a simple chat to discuss their concerns. Now that the “lazy days of summer” are winding down, look forward to a fun-filled school year. Don’t forget to visit the Fall Family Expo in October. I’ll see you there!

Kindest regards,

Teri

MISSION STATEMENT The PoconoParent Magazine is a reliable printed family resource committed to providing its’ readers with useful information and professional area contacts. It is our priority to assist in connecting parents with appropriate resources in order to ensure a pleasurable experience living and raising children in the Pocono Mountains!

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Camille CapriglioneKarin DePaulEmma, Tween

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Every child needs a place to play both indoors and outdoors.

Some children are fortunate enough to have a playroom in their home for indoor play. This space is a room specifically assigned to the children for playing with their toys, games, siblings and friends. Children who do not have a playroom will usually play with their games and toys wherever there is space available.If a child has their own bedroom, that can be the designated area for their toys and play time. If a child shares a bedroom, that may be harder to do. The family room can be the ideal place for children to gather and play. Some parents allow their children to play anywhere they want to in their home. Other parents have rooms that are specifically “off limits”.

Whatever rules you may have in your home for playtime, be sure to provide your children with some basic ground rules.

* Do not dump all toys out at once* Toys must be put back when done playing* Do not throw balls or use other outside toys indoors* No running or jumping in the house* Use indoor voices when playing* Share your toys and play fair

Most children love to play outside. A front or back yard can provide an open play space for your children. Even if you don’t have a yard, a public park can provide hours of fun and physical activity. Children love to run, jump, yell, swing, climb, and explore. The “great outdoors” is the perfect place for children to play in good weather. Winter, Spring, Summer and Fall each provide opportunities for different types of outdoor fun.

Basic ground rules for outdoor play need to be in place for your child’s safety.

* Always play outside with a “buddy” * Always let a parent know where you are playing * Don’t play in the street * Don’t talk to strangers * Don’t approach stray animals * Share your toys and play fair

All play spaces and play times for kids need to be safe and supervised by a parent or another adult. “Kids will be kids,” and there will always be time to “play”.

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By Karin DePaul

Over the years, I have been asked this question in many different forms by family, friends, and even

strangers. The answer is simple; communication. As fellow parents, I’m sure many of you have been in a situation similar to this one:

It’s 2 o’clock in the morning, and I am awoken to my 9- month old son Peyton, screaming. I lay in bed waiting to see if he will just go back to sleep. After almost a full minute, I realize I’m going to have to get out of this nice, warm bed. I tell myself, “No problem, we’ll just make this quick, and it’s right back to my much needed sleep.” I start running through the possibilities of what makes a baby cry. Is he wet, hungry, lonely, or sick? I ask my dear son all of these questions but, of course, all I get is more screaming. I start the arduous process of eliminating each need. I try giving him a bottle, but he spits it out. I change him, still nothing. What does he want? I begin rocking him, sure that this will calm him, but to no avail. Nothing is soothing my boy. I now start to panic in my sleepless state. Could something really be wrong here? I just don’t know, and he can’t tell me. Why is it that babies can’t talk?

It’s true, babies can’t speak. However, they can learn to communicate.

Babies have limited communication skills, but also have limited needs. A crying baby needs one of only a few things. As they get older, their needs increase, but they still have the same, limited communication. Instead of only a few things, now crying can mean they want: milk, cookies, up, down, toys, change of diaper or love. It could even mean that they are hurt or sick. Playing the guessing game of what they need wastes a lot of important time, which no new parent has a lot of. Teaching babies sign language takes a lot of the guess work out of parenting.

American Sign Language (ASL) works for all children. Even children with special needs or delays can learn, and effectively use, sign language. Any speech pathologist will tell you signing will expedite speaking, not delay it. Learning to speak is a very difficult process, and can be quite frustrating. When a child

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learns to sign first, it gives them a strong foundation in which to build upon when learning to speak. When a child effectively communicates and gets a need met by using a sign, it gives them feelings of independence and confidence; two qualities very valuable to children as they grow.

My son Peyton learned that by using a sign, his needs were met much quicker than if he just cried. Instead of me guessing what he wanted, he could simply tell me by making a sign. When a toy challenged him or he wanted his stuffed monkey that was too far to reach, instead of crying or having a tantrum, he could simply sign “help”. The day he signed “hurt stomach” was the day I knew that teaching him sign language was so worth it. I immediately remedied his pain, and our day went on. A problem that once could’ve taken thirty minutes of guessing was now solved in a few seconds. I can sum it all up by saying this:

When Peyton learned to sign it saved a lot of tears; his and mine!

Now, at age four, Peyton can speak. He also has over 400 signs. While speaking is now his main form of communication, signing is something that we still use every day. Whether to make a song a little more fun by signing along as we sing it, or to tell me that he “hurt knee” when he falls off of the swings and is crying too hard to verbalize, sign language is still of great use to us. I have even seen parents of older children use sign language so as not to embarrass their kid by verbalizing certain questions in front of their friends. A question like, “Do you have to use the bathroom before we leave?” or a statement of “I love you baby bear” no longer needs to mortify your eight year old! There are simple signs to use that will get your point across, whatever it may be, without everyone hearing it.

I know that sign language will always be a part of my family’s life. It really helped us, and I know it can help your family too. Please e-mail me if you have any questions about sign language, or just want to learn more about it!

Email me at [email protected]

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Families Rule”, that’s the motto at Cedar Point, located in Sandusky,

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and rides than any other park in the world. It is a fabulous family destination. Whether you can spend a few nights or an entire week, you will not be disappointed. New for 2008 is Planet Snoopy which focuses on the little ones. It features rides geared just for them; a miniature train, off the road 4 x 4’s, and a balloon ride taking them off into the air. Planet Snoopy also has a restaurant just for the kids; “Peanuts” a family fun restaurant.

You can easily spend a few days just in the park, but if the summer heats up, you can spend some time at Soak City located right next to Cedar Point. This water park offers 15 different water slides, a gigantic wave pool, a family raft ride, and many other water drenching attractions.

Make the most of this exciting get-away by staying as close as you can get to Cedar Point. After a full day of thrill riding a welcome respite will be a hotel located close to the action. There are a number of Cedar Point Resorts and you will find one with accommodations to suit your budget. Guests staying at one of the Park Resorts can purchase discounted tickets and are admitted to the park one hour prior to opening. Another great perk is admission to some of the most popular rides without waiting in long lines.

My personal favorite Resort is the Hotel Breaker’s. This hotel has welcomed guests for over 100 years. The hotel offers beautiful views of Lake Erie, its own gorgeous sandy beach, two outdoor pools, one indoor pool, outdoor spa, full service restaurant, specialty shopping, and a T.G.I Friday’s restaurant. They offer a number of different room types perfect for families of all sizes. Hotel Breaker’s offers comfort and convenience; guests are within a two-minute walk of Cedar Point and Soak City. It is the place to unwind after a fun-filled day of adventure.

Cedar Point would be a great end to your family’s summer vacation. Located on a Lake Erie peninsula between Toledo and Cleveland, this fun-seekers paradise lives up to it’s motto; Families Rule! It’s collection of 75 rides, 17 roller coasters; more than any other park on earth, is sure to deliver world-class thrills for the entire family!

“Families Rule”, that’s the motto at Cedar Point, located in Sandusky, Ohio and known as the “Roller Coaster Capital of the World”

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By Camille Capriglione

Like many of you, fellow Pocono parents, I’ve spent a lot of time

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There I sit, among other parents, grandparents, siblings and friends, of loved ones on the court. As a group, we watch with earnest; feeling elation when our children succeed, sorrow when they lose, concern when they’re injured and pride when they are victorious. Not all my realizations stemmed from watching the physical tasks of my child’s sport, but from observing

interactions off the court. I believe all of us can be reminded of valuable life lessons while we watch our children play.

Camaraderie: They get along. They laugh, they joke, and they chat. They like and respect one another. Teammates spend time outside of school together.

Unity: They dress in matching warm-up suits on game day. They take turns holding the game ball in school, never letting it touch the floor. There’s no ego amongst the team. They work as a unit of skilled players who each bring something to the sport.

Pride of school and country: Every member of the team strives, and is proud, to be part of the team. It’s an honor. The players stand for the national anthem before each game, while holding hands.

Spirit: They cheer their teammates on from the sidelines. They participate in pep rallies. “De-fense!” and “Go Team!” are frequently heard from an excited crowd.

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Encouragement: Players pat each other on the back after great plays. Teammates offer encouraging words when players attempt difficult shots.

Determination: We witnessed a game where there were four seconds left and a time-out was called. Our team was behind by several points. Our players went back on the court for those remaining seconds with the same mental acuity and effort as they had when the game began.

Emotional Support: It is placing a supportive arm around a teammate’s shoulders. It’s a warm hug for the player who missed the final shot and is shedding a few tears.

Empathy: There is genuine care and concern when a teammate or opposing playeris injured. There is applause when someone is taken off court by the trainer.

Grace: The team accepts their losses with dignity. Although disappointed, they congratulate their opponents. They learn from their mistakes.

Appreciation: The team appreciates the skill and support of teammates and colleagues; for everyone who makes

the sport possible. This includes cheerleaders, coaches, sports trainers, referees, scorekeepers, photographers, security guards and bus drivers. Plus all the volunteers who work ticket booths and concession stands.

Let’s face it; we are our children’s biggest fans. Be assured, our children are looking for us in the stands. With all the game festivities, all the cheering, all the friends and hot dogs, each time we are there, we are solidifying our role as supportive parents in this very short time we have before they enter adulthood.

Learn lessons from the actions of our young athletes…and cherish every chance to sit in those bleachers.

Ms. Capriglione is an insurance agent and freelance writer. She and her daughter have called the Poconos home for fifteen years.

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Debbie has 20 years experience painting and plaster molding, and has owned her own studio in the past. The most logical answer to their desire to open a business was for them to create a “plaster craft” business.

With over a dozen categories to choose from, and hundreds of pieces, Lotsa Plasta has a huge selection to offer. Each week, new pieces are being introduced to their customers. Customers may stay to paint their pieces for a nominal studio fee, or purchase them to paint at home.

Lotsa Plasta Fun is opened Monday through Saturday, and offers afternoon specials, adult classes, senior classes, family nights, birthday parties and more. In addition to their public space, they also have a private party room for birthdays, special occasions, “ladies night out,” etc. Lotsa Plasta Fun is conveniently located on Route 611 in the Stroud Plaza. For more information or studio hours, call 570-422-0888.

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By David T. O’Brien

Some things are just worth repeating”. The avid PoconoParent

Magazine reader may remember my restaurant review back in the October/November 2006 issue. If you do not, you are in for a pleasant surprise. If you do, please bear with me while I tout my absolute favorite place to dine in the Poconos. My wife and I just recently celebrated our fourteenth wedding Anniversary at Antelao’s.

Antelao is one of the finest restaurants that I have come across on this side of the Atlantic Ocean. Located on Main Street in Delaware Water Gap, the exquisite cuisine is worth traveling for. This stunning Victorian home with its’ beautiful flower, herb and vegetable gardens, is only the beginning of a truly wonderful dining experience. The dining room provides a warm, intimate setting to relax with your spouse.

Antelao is not a family restaurant, but a perfect “date night” for two, business meeting or private party. Seating is limited and the restaurant is both smoke free, and cell phone free. Owned and operated by Chef Michael and baker Elvi DeLotto, each entrée is cooked to perfection and made to order. The menu is reasonably priced, with appetizers ranging from $7.50 to $9.50 and entrees priced from $15.00 to $21.50. My personal favorite is the Filet Mignon, and my wife’s is the Shrimp Tarragon. There is a seasonal menu with a wide variety of selections.

Antelao is open Thursday through Sunday, and reservations are required. Attire is casual, and it is a BYOB, so be sure to bring your favorite bottle of wine. Don’t forget to tell Elvi or Michael that you read about them in PoconoParent Magazine. You are sure to enjoy your dining experience!

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Local high school thespians hit the Red Carpet “Hollywood-

style” Friday, May 31, 2008 for the first annual SPOTLIGHT Awards Gala hosted by the Sherman Theater in downtown Stroudsburg. Glitz and glamour were the order of the night, as nominees arrived in a chauffeur-driven limousine to a Red Carpet lined with media and fans alike.

The first-ever SPOTLIGHT Awards Gala, aimed at recognizing excellence in all aspects of high school musical production and performance, was the culmination

of months of hard work on the part of organizers, evaluators and of course, the actors, actresses and production staff of the musicals themselves. The ten participating high schools hailed from Carbon, Monroe, Pike and Wayne Counties in PA.

“We were looking to foster a feeling of friendly competition

and camaraderie amongst the students while raising money for scholarships and the schools’ musical theater programs”, said Richard W. Berkowitz, Executive Director and President of the non-profit Sherman Theater. In fact, the SPOTLIGHT Awards Gala was able to raise nearly $11,000 which will be divided and given back to the schools for those purposes. “This first competition was extremely successful,” added Berkowitz, “and the hope is to grow the program in the future to possibly even provide college scholarships.”

The good will was evident between competing schools as they came together in spectacular medleys of nominated actors and actresses performing numbers from their respective musicals for the opening and closing of the Gala. Individual and group nominees gave performances throughout the night, with the talent level making it quite evident why they were nominated.

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Dear Editor,PoconoParent Magazine has been a tremendous resource for my family. We moved to the Poconos from New York about 6 months ago, and a friend gave me my first copy of the magazine. Since then, I went online and subscribed to get my own copy delivered to my home. I just wanted to say thank you for such a wonderful magazine.

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Kickoff a Stress-Free School Year By Jennifer Munson, Learning Center Director

For many children, the first day of school doesn’t only mean

new teachers and new friends – it can also be a source of anxiety with homework assignments and tests just around the corner. Starting the school year off on the right foot can help minimize a child’s stress level throughout the year.

The experts at Sylvan Learning Center suggest parents’ help their children prepare for the transition to the next grade level and the return to school by encouraging a structured routine from day-one and staying actively involved in their child’s education.

To help children get ready for the new school year and to minimize academic stress, implement these tips and ideas to make the transition from summer to school easier. Tips include back–to-school suggestions and specific hints for the transitional years.

Back-to-School Tips (for each new school year):

• Get back in the routine. Ease transition from lazy summer days to the structure of the school year by re-establishing bedtime, mealtime, reading and homework routines. Talk with your child about the importance of these routines and how they help ensure that he is not overtired or overly anxious about schoolwork or the next day of school.

• Set education goals. Help your child set goals at the very beginning of the year. Whether it is striving for an “A” in reading,

handing in all homework on time or preparing for tests well in advance, setting goals can help set the routine for the new year.

• Develop a relationship with your child’s teacher. Take the time to meet your child’s teachers at the beginning of the school year. Teachers can be the best source for information about your child’s scholastic performance and they can recommend ways to help your child or resolve any difficulties he or she is having.

• Homework routine and place. Designate a specific time and place for homework time and help your child discover a regular, quiet place where he can study. Make sure that the area is free from potential distractions and that study tools are at your child’s fingertips to keep him focused on homework and studying.

• Stay on schedule. Your child should keep a schedule of all classes, assignments and key dates, such as project deadlines and test dates. As part of that schedule, she should include specific times for studying, projects and extracurricular activities. The more thorough the schedule, the more efficient your child will be. Organization minimizes late nights completing homework assignments, cramming for tests at the last minute and can ultimately reduce student anxiety about school.

• Emphasize organization. For some students, having color-coded

binders for each subject helps them stay on track throughout the school year. Keeping notes organized helps test preparation later in the year, so work with your child to determine the best method for him.

• Encourage learning at home. Promoting learning outside of the classroom helps children perform better in school. To nurture reading skills spend at least one hour per week – 10 to 15 minutes a day – reading with your child. To enhance math proficiency, try allowing your child to help plan the next family trip and encourage him to compute miles, cost of gas, and expenses for food, hotel and entertainment.

Transition Year Back-to-School Tips (Children Starting Kindergarten, First Grade, Middle School or High School):

• Visit the school. If your child is changing schools with the new year, make a special trip together to visit the school before the first day of classes. Checking out the new classroom and the new teacher before school starts will help ease feelings of anxiety and help get your child into his or academic routine. If it’s available, review the class schedule with your child and prepare him for the new grade.

• Discuss changes in routine. Talk with your child about how the routine for her new school may differ from the previous year. It can

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be difficult for children to adjust to changes in schedules and workloads. Explain how her schedule may differ from last year. Will there be more homework assignments? Does she have to wake up earlier? Will she have more than one teacher this year?

• Provide extra support. When starting the new school year, especially if it’s a transition year, a little extra support can’t hurt. Talk with your child about her fears regarding school and maintain an open dialogue throughout the year. Discuss what subjects she’s anticipating and any areas she finds particularly challenging. Don’t forget to talk about homework and tests.

• Transition into Kindergarten. Kindergarten is your child’s introduction to elementary school and a first opportunity to learn basic math and reading skills, not to mention a first look at routines and expectations of group learning. As a parent, you are your child’s first teacher. The skills that he learns from you – how to get along with others, follow directions and listen to directions – will help him start the year off right.

• Transition into middle school and high school. Transitioning from elementary to middle school and from middle school to high school brings many questions and concerns. Organization becomes even more important in middle school and high school when your child must keep track of multiple subjects, homework, teachers, classrooms and books. You can help him to reduce stress by giving him a calendar/planner to help him organize these new items and encouraging him to build good study habits.

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In just a few short weeks my oldest child will be going back to college

to begin his junior year. It seems like just a few short weeks ago we were spending our days at parks and playgrounds, and college seemed a lifetime away. For those of you who are living the parks and playground days now, some days longing for the college days to arrive… believe me, they will be here before you know it, with tuition bills right behind.

A college education is fast becoming a necessity, and the cost is rising faster than inflation, averaging 6-7% a year. Looking at the numbers can be scary, but don’t let analysis paralysis get the best of you. Parents of young children have many competing goals—paying off debt, building an emergency fund, saving for retirement. Frankly, if a family’s financial position is precarious

and the fundamentals are not being addressed, saving for college may not be appropriate until the foundation is solid. But for those who have the basics down and are already saving for retirement (I can’t say it enough: don’t sacrifice your retirement!), saving even a little at a time on a regular basis will help in the long run. The younger your children are the more time is on your side.

Section 529 College Savings Plans are the best known way to save for college, but certainly not the only way. As is true with much of our finances, diversification is important. It’s hard to predict the future so it’s best to spread your savings across educationally tax advantaged accounts and regular accounts. Here are some of your options:

Custodial, or UTMA/UGMA Accounts. These accounts are easy and convenient, but a contribution to a custodial account is legally a gift to the child, who will have control of the money at the age of majority and may not think college is as useful as a sports car. The first $1,800 in investment income is taxed at the child’s rate, but beyond that the “Kiddie tax” may apply up to age 23. For families that may qualify for financial aid, because they are considered an asset of the child, funds in a custodial account may reduce your eligibility for aid.

Accounts in the Parent’s Name. Obviously money held in your name does not need to be spent on tuition. You also have total control over the money, not your child. Be sure to be tax efficient and cost efficient in your savings.

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529 Qualified Tuition Plans. Made permanent by the Pension Protection Act of 2006, 529 accounts work similarly to Roth IRA’s, in that contributions are not deductible, but qualified distributions are tax free. Qualified expenses include tuition, room and board, required supplies and mandatory fees (usually not books), paid for in the same calendar year (not necessarily academic year) as the distribution. Distributions not used for qualified expenses are subject to income tax and a 10% penalty. Care should be exercised when taking distributions, to be sure to maximize the education tax credits available. Consult with a tax professional to optimize coordination with credits, grants, and scholarships

All 50 states have at least one 529 plan, and you are not required to choose your own state’s plan. Before choosing a plan, look at the plan fees, any sales charges, and what the investment choices are. Pennsylvania is one of the few states that give a tax deduction for contributions made to any state’s 529 plan. Pennsylvania offers two options: a Guaranteed Savings Plan, tied to the rate of tuition inflation, and the nowU Pennsylvania 529 Plan managed by Vanguard, which offers investment options. The plan also can be linked to Upromise or

Sage Scholars (see below).

Coverdell Education Savings Accounts. Like its cousin the 529, contributions to a Coverdell are not tax deductible, but qualified distributions are tax free—with a few caveats. Some features of the Coverdell are set to expire in 2010. Currently, withdrawals can be used for K-12 expenses, even children’s computers and internet access (the rules for college students are stricter). That is scheduled to end in 2010. The maximum contribution will reduce from $2,000 per year per beneficiary to $500, and taxpayers will have to choose to use either Coverdell withdrawals or Education Credits in the same year, not both. The Coverdell is subject to income limitations.

U.S. Savings bonds (Series EE or I). Certain post 1989 EE and I bonds can be used tax free for qualifying education expenses, provided the bond is owned by a parent who was over 24 when it was purchased. It is also subject to income limitations.

Other Ways to Save.

Upromise is an easy way to save •a few dollars for college. After signing up on their website, your registered shopper cards (CVS, Foodtown, etc) earn you points for various purchases, along with online shopping through Upromise links. It’s taken me about 5 years, but I have earned almost $1,000 in my Upromise account. Friends and relatives can sign up to benefit your child as well.

Sage Scholars Tuition Rewards •offers tuition reward points by investing with its financial partners, including nowU

Pennsylvania. Participating colleges offer scholarships in the amount of the tuition rewards points in your account. I’m a member of Sage as well, but my son’s school does not participate. Maybe one of the next 4 going to college…

For birthdays and Christmas, •instead of adding to your child’s toy collection, why not request a contribution to his 529 account? Some programs even have gift certificates available.

Sell your child’s old unwanted •“stuff” at a yard sale: give part of the proceeds to your child as an incentive, put some away for college, and take a tax deduction for yourself. Alternatively, selling on eBay® can be a fun learning experience for both of you, teaching your children money and business skills too.

Finally, although college is expensive, it doesn’t have to put you in the poorhouse. There’s no law that says you owe your child an elite (read: $$$) college education, but it is also true that at many private schools, especially those with large endowments, the sticker price is not the ultimate price. When the time comes, there are strategies to use to save on the cost of college, besides saving for it. So cherish the time you have now with your children while they are young, but continue to prepare for their future-- just not at the expense of yours.

Information in this article is not intended to provide specific personalized advice, including, without limitation, investment, tax, or legal advice.

Resources: www.savingforcollege.com– Joe Hurley: the ultimate 529 guru

www.niccp.com – Rick Darvis: the expert at tax coordination

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A new school year is right around the corner! I can practically

smell the fresh crayons. September always starts out with high hopes and expectations. By now the kids are sun burnt and complaining about being “bored”. We have had our fill of the beach, the pool; summers re-runs and are ready to get back to the routines that make up a school year. There are some things that everyone should know before the new school year begins. There are some myths that need to be debunked and some truths that need to be reinforced. So, with twenty-some years of teaching, three kids and a big mouth, I am here to tell you what I have learned.

MYTH #1- “Mom, I need LOTS of new school supplies”

No,no,no! Don’t fall for this one mom and dad. You do not need to go to Staples and fill an entire cart with school supplies in August! Unless your child’s new teacher sends you a list of materials, hold off on this outing until school has been in session for a few days. Your

child will insist that she needs the $20.00 “Hello Kitty” binder, only to find that it is too big to fit in her desk or locker! If a favorite store is having a sale, by all means stock up on items that you will need throughout the year; crayons, pencils, glue, tape, etc. and stash some away for those Christmas stockings while you are at it. Just don’t go overboard. I ignored my own advice this last year when Dan was heading off for his first year of college. I filled one of those big plastic bins entirely with school supplies. He ended up carrying most of it back home in June. So, wait until you know exactly what the teacher wants your child to have. It is easier and cheaper, too!

MYTH #2- “Dad, I need LOTS of new school clothes”

Ahh, trips to the mall to buy school

clothes. Not just any mall, no, most teenagers need to go to the mall that is as far away from home as possible. Delightful, shopping with teenagers, isn’t it? Your children, and mine, are wonderful, thoughtful, sweet….until they hit the mall. When a teenager enters a mall, the circuits in their brains disconnect. They suddenly can not understand how a $90 pair of jeans is outrageous or how a t-shirt that proclaims “drink ‘til he’s cute” is unacceptable. Why do usually reasonable children march into Hollister and expect to leave with every item of clothing that the company makes? Please, don’t shop too much before the school year begins. When your child gets to school, he may find that the “must have” stuff is different than what you have bought. Also, many of our local

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Myths & TruthsBy Bonnie Kraeutler, Preschool Director

schools have strict dress codes and that cool hoodie sweatshirt might be on the list of “No-nos”. This goes for the younger kids, too. Elementary schools also have dress codes and will expect you to follow them. In our case, at preschool, we want your child to dress for action. We don’t want to worry about ruining your child’s beautiful, new outfits. So, grab a couple of things that you really need and save the major shopping for a few weeks in to the school year. And hey, by then everything will be on sale!

MYTH #3- “Mom, summer reading is a waste of time, besides I can get it done the last week of vacation.”

Don’t fall for it! Many schools now have summer reading requirements. Your child will not be able to grab a book from the list and complete the assignment during the last hectic week of summer. Our district assigns two challenging books for each High School student to read and report on over the summer break. Those kids who take honors courses have even more to read. If your child isn’t old enough to be assigned work during the summer, you still will want him to read during the break. Kids who continue to read during the summer have an easier time getting back into the school routine. They tend not to “lose ground” during the break like some of their peers. Even the smallest children need to keep the reading habit during the summer…so hit the library this summer! Try some books on tape with your kids, too. My kids love them.

TRUTH #1- “Beginning of the year paperwork is the school’s way of being nasty to parents right off the bat.”

Nope. Everybody dreads the mountain of parent “homework” that pours out of backpacks every September. You may well be tempted to toss the whole mess in the trash. That would be a very bad idea for a couple of reasons. First, they will know that you have not completed every form sent home…they have ways of punishing you for that. No, not really, but the papers will get sent home over and over until you give up and complete them. Secondly, the school forms really are important to the health and safety of your child. I know that you filled out the same thing last year, but stuff changes. Your school has your child’s best interests at heart and all that dumb paperwork helps them keep your kid happy and healthy. I made a paperwork mistake last year that almost kept Sami out of the seventh grade. Sam had had a series of medical issues that kept us running from doctor to doctor for about eighteen months. The school kept sending me paperwork that said she was due for a physical. We were at one specialist or another every week; however, I never got her an ordinary physical. Finally a letter came saying “no physical, no seventh grade”. Yikes, if I had just kept better track of the paperwork, I could have avoided all that embarrassment and kept Sami up to date on her routine health issues.

TRUTH #2- “The staff at the school really likes me. So I don’t have to________________”(fill in the blank with whatever you do not want to do)

Yup, I’m sure that you are a peach. However, the rules that your child’s school has are for everyone. The staff may love you, but don’t try to get them to bend the rules for you. It makes them uncomfortable and puts them in an awkward position

with their supervisors. Even the rules that don’t seem to make sense are there for a purpose…as parents we just don’t always see it! At preschool, we require that people that we do not know present ID to pick up the children. That is the RULE. Don’t ask my staff to break it or even bend it. It makes them feel bad that they cannot honor a request. It makes me mad at the person who has put my great staff in a bad position. So, just follow the rules…even the weird ones.

TRUTH #3- “Calendars are for sissies.”

The calendar is your friend. I am notorious for forgetting really important stuff. If it is not on the calendar, it does not happen in my universe. Sometimes even then bad things happen…dance class and cheerleading at the same time, a preschool board meeting before the budget is completed. Even this magazine has recently had to create firm deadlines, I’m pretty sure that it is my fault. When the school year starts, I really depend on my calendar. I have one at home, at school and in my purse. When I look at the calendar and follow its magic guidelines everything runs smoothly. When I am cheeky and think myself smart enough to do without the calendar things go badly very quickly!

Well, gang that is my take on the facts and myths of starting a new school year. Have fun and good luck as you move from the easy pace of summer into the routine of September. And all you teenagers put that tank top down…it is against the dress code, costs way too much money, and besides, NOBODY is wearing that color this fall.

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Can you imagine what would happen to the value of your property if the drinking water became contaminated? In order to sell your house you’d

have to put up a sign that says “No matter what offer you make, we’ll take 20% off!” But seriously, it is so much harder to correct a problem than it is to prevent one. In the world of drinking water, an ounce of prevention is worth a TON of cure!

I recently discovered that clean healthy drinking water appears to have biblical roots. In the King James version of the bible “wells” are defined as; Water source, healthy, rightly. Wells are of the utmost importance. They are artificial ponds or pits in the ground in which rainwater is collected and stored. Funny, I don’t remember that part from Sunday school!

There is no question that human and animal activities greatly impact our drinking water. When a builder installs a roof on a building or paves a parking lot, two things happen. They create runoff. Water cannot penetrate an impervious surface, so it runs off into our creeks and lakes. Along the way nature’s perfect solvent picks up pollutants which then go into our drinking water supply. Secondly, in order to install a building or parking lot you must first remove the trees and vegetation. Trees and plants work as excellent filters that clean our drinking water. It’s the proverbial double-whammy!

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If Stroudsburg can consider an ordinance about leaving a couch on your front porch, then I have three ideas that all townships should consider – sanitary well caps for private wells, riparian stream buffers, and proper maintenance of private septic systems.

For good reason, sanitary well caps are sometimes referred to as vermin-proof well caps. On a private well there are basically two well cap options, either standard or sanitary. A standard well cap leaves a gap around the top of your well for rodents and insects to enter your water supply. These animals use well caps for shelter. Sanitary well caps make a complete seal around the wellhead making it impossible for bugs and vermin to enter your drinking water supply. The total cost to drill a new well and pump it into your house is roughly $6,000. The additional cost of a sanitary cap versus a standard well cap is $14. Sanitary well caps should be required on all new wells drilled. It’s also

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A recent seminar I attended exclaimed the slogan “Alongside every good stream is a good buffer!” A riparian buffer is an area of land alongside a stream or river made up of trees, bushes and tall grass. Buffers serve two very important functions. Have you ever seen cows standing in a stream? Animal waste is loaded with harmful bacteria. Buffers can physically prevent pollutants from getting into a river or stream. Also buffers work as natural filters which remove pollutants before entering our water supply from rainwater runoff. Without question riparian buffers greatly increase the health of any stream or body of water so please support streamside buffers in your area.

Most people don’t enjoy talking about septic systems. Let’s face it, they stink. However, I think we can all

agree that we don’t want our septic water mixing with our drinking water. Our cars, our bodies, and yes even our septic systems all need regular maintenance in order to work properly. If you live in Pocono Township you are required by law to have your private septic pumped out every 4 years (ordinance #97). The potential liability of contaminating water supplies will eventually force all townships to adopt similar ordinances. The recommended service interval for private septic systems is at least every four years.

Water is the one natural resource that none of us can do without. I’m happy to see that water is finally getting the press coverage it deserves. Love it, protect it, and use it wisely. If you have any additional questions, comments, or suggestions you can always send an e-mail to Michael at [email protected]

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MRSA (methicillin-resistant staphylococcus aureus)

infections affecting school aged children and teenagers have received much media attention over the past school year raising questions not only for parents but also school officials making decisions for large populations of our children.

Staph infects a person through skin to skin contact and is responsible for many minor skin infections that occur in children. Most of these staph infections are treated with topical ointments and healing generally occurs within seven to ten days. In the community, skin infections commonly occur at sites of visible skin injury such as cuts or abrasions but also on areas of the body covered by hair such as the back of the neck, buttocks or armpits. Some settings/factors also make it easier for infections to be transmitted. These factors can include crowding, frequent skin to skin contact, compromised skin (cuts or abrasions, contaminated items and surfaces and lack of cleanliness). Locations where these factors are common include schools, dormitories, military barracks, households, correctional facilities and day care centers.

While most staph infections are minor and are treated without antibiotics, MRSA is a staph infection that resists treatment to a particular class of antibiotics. Like many skin infections, staph infections typically include an area on the skin that comes up quickly and is red, swollen, painful, draining and is full of pus and not getting better with typical antibiotic treatments usually prescribed for routine skin infections. Another classic description of a MRSA infection has been described as looking like a spider bite. Even with classic MRSA symptoms, it is important to keep in mind that your

child’s skin infection can still be caused by the regular Staph aureus bacteria. A MRSA diagnosis can only be done through a culture of the drainage from the site of the infection which requires a visit to your child’s physician. Since it can take several days to get results, your child’s physician will likely treat your child with an antibiotic that works against MRSA if the physician suspects these resistant bacteria.

MRSA is spread to others by direct contact or contact with shared items that have touched someone else’s infection. Good hygiene can help prevent MRSA infections. This includes proper hand washing, showering after exercise, covering cuts and abrasions, not sharing personal items with other students including: towels, clothing, washcloths, razors and any equipment that are used by many students. Equipment that is used by many students should be cleaned before and after use.

If your child has a MRSA infection, they may continue to attend school unless otherwise directed by a physician. Exclusion from school and activities is reserved for those with drainage that cannot be covered or contained with a clean dry bandage and those who cannot maintain good personal hygiene. If drainage from a wound is large and there is the possibility that your child’s clothes may become soiled with drainage during the school day, then your child may need to stay at home. Returning to school with a dressing should be discussed with your physician to be certain that your child is not at risk to others or them self. Washing hands frequently for your child and family should occur at any time there is the possibility that there may be contamination of drainage from any wound. Hand washing is essential

after any bandage change or touching of the wound. If hand washing is unable to be performed then using an alcohol based hand sanitizer should be used immediately until washing with soap and hot water can occur. Your child’s sheets, clothes and towels that become soiled with drainage should be washed separately in hot water with detergent and dried completely in a clothes dryer.

Practical advice for teachers includes referring children to the school nurse if you observe children with open draining wounds and enforce hand hygiene for the entire class. It is not necessary to inform the entire school community about a single MRSA infection. When a MRSA infection occurs within the school population, the school nurse and school physician should determine, based on their medical judgment, whether some or all students, parents and staff should be notified. Consultation with local public health authorities should be used to guide this decision. The decision to close a school for any communicable disease remains with your school officials in consultation with local and /or state public health departments. It is important to remember that staphylococcus (staph) bacteria, including MRSA, have been and remain a common cause of skin infections. MRSA transmission can be prevented by simple measures such as hand hygiene and covering infections with dry dressings. Although some of these infections will still occur, diagnosis of the infection and proper treatment are essential in preventing further spread of these skin infections. Diagnosis and treatment combined with the simple measures of hand hygiene and covering cuts and abrasions will help in keeping our children safe.

MRSA/STAPH INFECTION: ARE THESE NEW CONCERNS FOR SCHOOLS?By Paulette Nish, RNC, MSN, Director of Women and Children’s Services

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Summer is finally here! For some of us summer is almost over. Some of us will be going to a new school. Some of us will be starting school and some will be in the same school. During the summer I think about my new teachers, the people I will meet, and what it will be like. I’m going to the Pocono Mountain Intermediate School, and that means that we will have lockers and no homeroom; just teachers and more teachers. I get excited for school when I get my book bag or supplies.

Sometimes it’s hard to get back into the “groove” of school. I know that you can do it because you have your friends and teachers for support. If you listen to your teacher for rules and directions, you should have no trouble. A good studying trick is if you know what you’re going to be learning about; say it’s multiplying, study that in your free time. Then you will understand what you’re learning about.

For now, just have fun; I mean it’s summer vacation!

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