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Are you divorced and looking to marry again? Are you a single parent and finding it hard to find a suitable spouse? Sisters – do brothers see your children as ‘baggage’? Is your family standing in the way of you marrying a divorcee? Is polygamy the only option available to sisters? And what exactly is the Islamic position on all of the above? Join us to find out on our upcoming webinar: Who Will Marry Me? Practical Advice For Divorcees Resident marriage counsellor Sheikh Musleh Khan tackles this highly sensitive topic in the light of the Qur’an and the Sunnah in which you will discover: • Practical ways to prepare yourself for marriage • How to prevent culture overtaking deen • Tips for single mothers who want to get married • The truth about polygamy • Why parents don’t accept divorced sisters and their children and what you can do about it • Practical solutions for finding a good spouse • Special duas you can make to help you If you’ve been divorced for a while and have encountered any kind of prejudice or bad attitudes towards you because of your situation, then make sure you sign up for this webinar to help you understand how you can deal with these negative issues. Marriage can seem an impossibility when you’re single with children, and for sisters in particular, it can make them very vulnerable to getting hurt.

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Page 1: Practical advices for Single parents and Divorcees - Who will marry me?

Presented BySheikh Musleh Khan

Who will marry me?

Practical advice for divorcees and single parents

Page 2: Practical advices for Single parents and Divorcees - Who will marry me?

IntroductionWe will discuss:

- Life after divorce

- Family issues

- Social prejudices

Page 3: Practical advices for Single parents and Divorcees - Who will marry me?

Divorcees are viewed as ‘damaged goods’ by other

people (especially the case for divorced sisters)

Page 4: Practical advices for Single parents and Divorcees - Who will marry me?

Social prejudice of single Muslims not willing to accept a

divorcee with children

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Solutions for tackling issue of divorcees

DuaGrassroots

approachForm your own

networkIstighfarSurah Ta Ha

Break the cycle!

Knowledge is power

Diversify

Be firm with parents

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Solutions for sisters with children

Dua

QadrMarry a divorcee

with children

IstighfarDo not require

permission from wali

Polygamy

Diversify Consider leaving children with father for

a time

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Moving on from divorce

Dua

Closure Counselling

AcceptanceSocialise

Interests & hobbiesStrengthen

connection with Allah Focus on yourself

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Conclusion1. Seek to improve yourself first and foremost

and have patience

2. Challenge respectfully those who prevent you from marrying divorcees

3. Break the cycle now or this will continue for generations

4. Keep an open mind and heart and make lots of dua

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Q & AAny questions?

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