National Silhouettes President, Janice Hall Dean is the past president of the Atlanta Kap-pa Silhouettes, the immediate past Southeastern Province Journalist, imme-diate past Southeastern Province Coor-

dinator, past National 1st Vice President, and cur-rent Treasurer of the

Southeastern Province. Janice (a native of Greensboro, GA) re-sides in Stone Mountain, GA with her husband, Stanford Dean (a life member of Kap-pa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc., Atlanta Alumni Chapter). She is a Golden Life Member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. (East Point/College Park Alumnae Chapter). Janice is a busy wife, mother, grandmother, military veteran, and a highly-skilled business woman.

Janice holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Criminology/Computer Science from St.

Leo College. She also holds a Master of Science degree in Administration from the

Central Michigan University. Janice has been employed by the Centers for Disease

Control and Prevention as an Information Technology/Management and Systems An-

alyst for the past 38 years.

I N S I D E

T H I S I S S U E :

Greetings:

National

President

Table

of

Contents

News from

Around the

Provinces

13th Annual

Founders’ Day to

be held in the

South Central

Province

Silhouettes

Moved to Action

during the

Harvey

Disaster

Health and

Wellness Corner:

You Survived

Domestic

Violence…

Now What?

Milestones

Did You Know?

Guidelines for

Submissions

N A T I O N A L

S I L H O U E T T E S

O F

K A P P A A L P H A P S I

F R A T E R N I T Y , I N C . THE SPECTATOR

Local News. National Views.

V O L U M E 1 I S S U E 1 S U M M E R / F A L L 2 0 1 7

Janice Hall Dean National President

National Silhouettes of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc.

Individually Unique Together Complete

Bridging the Gap

Greetings National Silhouettes,

Our theme is: INDIVIDUALLY unique – TOGETHER complete – BRIDGING THE GAP. Always remember - we are indi-

vidually unique, and together, we are complete. The National Silhouettes of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Incorporated

have successfully provided 70-plus years of stellar support and service. As we move forward, we will continue to

bridge the gap to strengthen our organization, enhance our communities, and fortify our partnership with our Kappa

men.

During the next four years, one of our primary goals is to strengthen our organization. Transparency is, and will con-

tinue to be, a top priority. Together, we will continue to implement new technology processes and procedures to im-

prove our national structure. In addition, new committees have been established to assist the National Silhouettes

conduct business efficiently and effectively. The National Finance and Audit Committee is charged with ensuring that

we are financially responsible with your money. The National Policies and Procedures Committee is charged with cre-

ating and updating pertinent policies and procedures to ensure operational success. The National Fundraising Com-

mittee was been established to raise funds for our organization. This committee will also solicit donations and obtain

sponsors to support the initiatives and other endeavors of our organization.

Membership is the foundation of the National Silhouettes organization. To further strengthen our national organiza-

tion, our local chapters are being encouraged to REACTIVATE and ENGAGE Silhouettes. Our membership efforts will

extend to RECRUITMENT of new chapters across the country. Silhouettes, we need you to get excited about this

membership initiative as we implement different events in 2018.

Our National Silhouettes organization will continue to be on the frontlines of societal issues to enhance our commu-

nities. In the United States, on average 20 people are physically abused by intimate partners every minute. One in

every three women is physically abused by a partner. During the next four years, we will raise awareness, volunteer,

support legislation, and partner to “Stop Domestic Violence.” First Lady Geraldine Battles has been appointed our

National Silhouettes Spokesperson and Dr. Stacy Scott has accepted the appointment as our National Silhouettes Edu-

cator for both programs. National Silhouettes First Vice President Andria S. Daniels has accepted the role of Program

Chair for the “Stop Domestic Violence” initiative and National Silhouettes Second Vice President Shirley Pinckney has

accepted the role of Program Chair for the “Safe to Sleep Campaign.”

The National Silhouettes of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Incorporated is a brand that fortifies the strong relationship

and lifelong partnership we have with our Kappa men. Therefore, the National Marketing Committee has been estab-

lished to assist national committees with promotion of our organization and its planned activities. Additionally, the

National Vendors Committee has been established to vet and establish vending relationships with companies to sell

Silhouettes paraphernalia and general items at the National Silhouettes meetings, events, and online. Additional

committees will be established in the future, and we will need Silhouettes to utilize their expertise in many areas.

I excitedly look forward to having the opportunity to continue working together with you!

Love,

Janice Hall Dean

Janice Hall Dean

National Silhouettes President

12thnationalsilhouettespres@gmail.com

From the President’s Desk

COLLECTIVE EFFORTS

This edition of our quarterly

newsletter is both lively and

motivating as it highlights our

accounts of fun with each other

as well as our collective efforts

of work in the spirit of the

National Silhouettes of Kappa

Alpha Psi. Through our collec-

tive efforts we have served not

only our communities, but also

one another in ways that we felt

might make a difference in

those lives. These, acts of self-

lessness were repeated over

and over again throughout our

nation as we, who are sisters

by way of a bond between

brothers, worked collectively to

give more.

Collective efforts are all about

constant cooperation, and col-

laboration within our chapters,

our provinces and the national

board. Collective efforts, such

as the ones written about here

have positioned us to move

even further up the ladder to-

ward greater opportunities of

service and reward.

So in this issue, I ask that you

focus on the collective efforts of

all the chapters shown. Through

them we are able to witness,

first-hand, how the contagious-

ness of collective efforts has

made and will continue to make

a difference in local communi-

ties. Then, let us pray that

what we see continues to

strengthen the bond that in-

spires us to continue doing the

work that makes good things

happen for each other.

Silhouette Scedella Gregory

National Silhouettes Journalist

Scedella

Table of Contents:

Murfreesboro Silhouettes

‘Boro Sils Ladies Night…

Silhouettes Earma Lane, Veda White, Kenya Day-Edwards, & Clydell Clark (photographed clockwise)

In the words of Kool & The Gang Lyrics, Oh, yes, it’s Ladies’ Night, And the feeling’s right. Oh, yes, it’s Ladies’

Night, Oh what a night. On Friday, November 10, 2017 The Murfreesboro Silhouettes (‘Boro Sils) participated in our very

first “Ladies’ Night Out” at The Pottery Place where we relieved the stressors of the week by painting a ceramic of our

choice. During this social outing, we were able to catch up and become better acquainted with one another as Women &

Wives. Immediately following painting, we had dinner at Burger Republic a new restaurant in our city of Murfreesboro,

which is among the 15th fastest-growing large cities in the United States.

In addition, on September 16, 2017, we had Round-Up 2017 - Membership Drive at Arrington Vineyards in Ar-

rington, TN to attract new members to the ‘Boro Sils. During this Holiday Season, we have decided to adopt an Angel

from The Salvation Army Angel Tree for Christmas to ensure a child in need will have presents. Lastly, we will be volun-

teering at or local Domestic Violence Shelter in the Spring of 2018. The Murfreesboro Silhouettes of Kappa Alpha Psi

Fraternity, Inc. Silhouette Chapter members consists of the following women: Clydell Clark, Earma Lane, Ann Smith,

Chanta Wilder, Veda White and Kenya Day-Edwards is the Chapter President.

SOUTH CENTRAL PROVINCE Scedella Gregory, Province Coordinator

ORLANDO CHAPTER

Our Chapter President is Silhouette Theresa Foster and the picture was taken at the home of Silhouette Theresa Foster and Kappa

Tony Foster prior to one of the many planning meetings for the 2017 Conclave of Kappa Alpha Psi and the 47th National Meeting of

the Silhouettes held in Orlando, Florida in July, 2017. Committee chairpersons and members diligently planned for the events that

unfolded in Orlando. With careful planning and collaboration with the Orlando Chapter of KAY we were able to accomplish the goals

that were set.

First Row from left to right-The Silhouettes are The Honorable Tanya Wilson, Caroline Oliver, Shirley Bradley, Theresa Foster, Mattie

Johnson, Beatrice Benjamin, Glinder Stephens, Alice Rozier, Lorraine Offer, Mary Simmons, Cathy Campbell, Deloris Saulsby, Mary

Frances Boyd, and Opal Humphrey.

Second Row from left to right: Silhouettes Shaune Poole, Ethel Fortson, and Marchetta Glover

Not pictured: Silhouettes Althea Jackson, Johnnie Lang, Torri Polk, Virginia Willis, Kelly Bell and Shanae Rasberry .

SOUTHERN PROVINCE Brenda Beale, Province Coordinator

Chapter Name: Huntsville Silhouettes Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. Alumni Chapter -Huntsville, AL Chapter President’s Name: Silhouette Ramona Chestang

In October, the Huntsville Silhouettes enjoyed a social evening of food and fun at Stars and Strikes Family Entertainment Center. Silhouettes seized the social event to reflect on summer activities spent with family and friends and to collaborate future events and activities for the Chapter. Silhouettes were divided into teams for several friendly games of competitive bowling. A great time was had by all. Pictured below: (Back row left to right) Silhouette Brenton Calhoun, Silhouette Melanie Dock-ery, Silhouette Shirley Morgan, Silhouette Susan Chaney, Silhouette Lisa Johnson, Silhouette Sheena Hicks, Silhouette Vivian Kimble, and Silhouette Shiree Lane-Griffin (First row left to right) Silhouette Ra-mona Chestang, Silhouette India Bolden, and Silhouette Brenda Beale (Southern Province Coordinator) Not Pictured: Silhouette Blannie Batts, Silhouette Felisha Knight-Dorsey, Silhouette Melissa Gaddis, Silhouette Lolita Mack, Silhouette Robin Miller, Silhouette Kathryn Neal, Silhouette Theresa Powell, Silhouette Bet-tye Showers, and Silhouette Zata Threatt.

In November, the Huntsville Silhouettes took a moment to give back to the community by adopting a fami-ly for the Thanksgiving holiday. Silhouettes presented a Kroger Grocery Store gift card to assist a wonder-ful family with their Thanksgiving meal. “While we are grateful for all the blessing bestowed upon us, we feel the blessing of the Season is in giving back” Huntsville Silhouettes.

SOUTHERN PROVINCE Brenda Beale, Province Coordinator

The Jacksonville (FL) Silhouettes have created an original service project in 2017 which benefits the middle and high school students attending the Gravely James Campus of the Florida Military Academy in Jackson-ville. The cornerstone of the project is a program affectionately known as “Girl Magic” – which focuses on the development and shaping of the social, interpersonal and personal skills of the female students. The program requires a personal commitment by each participating student to attend monthly sessions, to actively participate during the workshops, and to treat their peers and the visiting Silhouettes with proper respect. The November meeting with the girls was an energetic and informational “Getting to Know You” session, which included a Name Game ice breaker to encourage all participants to introduce themselves in a creative way, distribution of the 2017-2018 Events Calendar and special gift cards, lively conversation and refreshments. Topics for future monthly meetings will include Etiquette/Manners, Self Esteem, Respecting Yourself and Others, and Healthy Body & Nutrition. Silhouette Barbara Darby is the Chairperson of this unique and special project. In addition to this awesome program for the young ladies at the academy, the Jacksonville Silhouettes are also providing seasonal decorations for the school bulletin board as well as periodic greeting cards and holi-day luncheons for the cadets and staff.

Members of the Jacksonville Silhouettes prepare for the “Girl Magic” program. (Pictured Left to Right: Audrey McCauley, Darlene Spann, Elvina Parker and Traci Womack)

SOUTHERN PROVINCE

Brenda Beale, Province Coordinator

Durham, North Carolina Silhouettes Middle Eastern Province Gracie Rogers, President

L-R: Earnstine Boyd, Carmen Dorsey, Kaye Sullivan and Evelyn Slappy

Cancer awareness topic of program (Never give up hope)

A breast cancer awareness program was held on October 16, 2017 at the Kappas of Durham Community Cen-ter hosted by the Durham Silhouettes of the Durham Alumni Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity. Gracie Rogers, President of the Silhouettes was on hand along with Moderators Evelyn Slappy and Carmen Dorsey. Dr. Rachel Adams Greenup, MD, MPH, and Director of the Breast Surgery fellowship at Duke University School of Medicine gave a talk entitled Breast Cancer, a Surgeon’s Perspective, reviewing screening guide-lines, diagnostic tests, and treatment of breast cancer. Members of the Sisters Network Triangle NC, a support group for breast cancer survivors, and Valarie Worthy, RN, a Duke patient navigator and president of the Net-work, described their personal experiences with breast cancer. Alycia Hill of the Sisters Network and a breast cancer survivor gave a presentation on her journey through a scrapbook and testimonies about the victories and challenges of facing a breast cancer diagnosis. At the end of the evening, the Silhouettes made donations to the Pretty in Pink Foundation and Sisters Network Triangle of NC both of which provide financial assis-tance to underinsured people with breast cancer. The lighting of the Candle of Hope Ceremony was conduct-ed by Faye Watkins. The members of the Breast Cancer Committee were Earnstine Boyd, Chairperson; Car-men Dorsey; Iris Layne; Lucy Lincoln; Deborah Page; Evelyn Slappy; Kay Sullivan and Sharon Taylor.

MIDDLE EASTERN PROVINCE Katina Gamble, Province Coordinator

With the spirit of “A Call to Action”, one of the Charlotte Chapter’s goals has been to increase chapter size and participation. On

August 10, 2017, we held a meet and greet at locally owned Plaza Midwood Smokehouse. To effectively reach and invite new

ladies, we used social media thru the Kappa’s GroupMe and Chat channels. We were pleased to have 11 new ladies that have

not attended a meeting before. We have increased membership participation and paid membership dues. In December, we are

planning Kappa Klaus for the Charlotte area; March, assisting with the Kappa Beautillion; and June, the Healthy Achievement 5k

Walk/Run. Together, we are achieving more!

Charlotte, NC Chapter

Middle Eastern Province

Deshondia Rhodes Walker, President

Priscilla Wills, Vice President

MIDDLE EASTERN PROVINCE Katina Gamble, Province Coordinator

The South Central Province

and Chapters of Middle Tennessee

are proud to host

The 13th Annual National Founders’ Day

Kappa Leonard Clemmons, Polemarch

The San Antonio (TX) Alumni Chapter Silhouettes (SAACS) is a group of devoted and enthusiastic

women who work tirelessly to support our community with various events and activities. Highlights of Activi-

ties:

Collected, donated (10) Silent Auction baskets, and raised $695 towards the Annual Kappa SAAC Black & White Ball Education Foundation, June 17

Supported in the collected donations of 600 backpacks filled with school supplies in support of San An-tonio NPHC’s Back to School Backpack Bash. Then distributed the filled bags to our community (K-12), August 19

Volunteered at the San Antonio Food Bank, sorted over 30,000 pounds of food and supplies in support of Hurricane Harvey Relief Efforts, September 9

Supported, walked and raised $2,170 towards San Antonio’s Relay for Life, October 13

Supported Silhouette Gwen Sampson during the Kappa SAAC Kastle’s Chapter Hall dedication ceremo-ny in honor of Brother Samuel Sampson (Chapter Invisible), October 20

Assembled and donated Halloween goodie bags for the children during our Annual Kappa SAAC Picnic, October 21

Attended and patron supported the 68th NAACP Freedom Dinner, October 27, 2017

Volunteered at both the Kappa and Delta adopt-a-park clean-ups, November 4

Volunteered at the Kappa’s quarterly community service at the River Care Rehabilitative Center, No-vember 11

The San Antonio Chapter welcomed the new 2017-2018 leadership: Chapter President: KAREN ROSS Chapter Vice President: TANIA CHAMBERS

Chapter Recording Secretary: SHARRI HALL-CARGER Chapter Treasurer: TASONIA HENDRIX Chapter Financial Secretary: HALIMA

BERRY Chapter Parliamentarian: TRA-CY BROWN

Chapter Historian: DARYL “GWEN” DEVERA-WADEN Chapter Sergeant-

at-Arms: JEAN PITTS

Compilation of San Antonio (TX) Chapter Silhouettes. Upper left: si-lent auction baskets during Black &

White Formal. Middle top: Hurricane Harvey relief efforts at SA Food

Bank. Upper right: Silhouettes dur-ing Kappa Kastle Chapter Hall dedi-cation. Middle/main: Silhouette dur-

ing annual SAAC picnic. Bottom left: At NAACP Freedom Dinner.

Middle bottom: Park clean-up. Bot-tom right: 2017-2018 Executive

Board (missing VP)

SOUTH WESTERN PROVINCE Jacinda Johnson-McCree, Province Coordinator

SOUTH WESTERN PROVINCE

Jacinda Johnson-McCree, Province Coordinator

This will be an opportunity to ad-dress issues faced by young women post Harvey. We expect women from shelters, and we have reached out to the Houston, Aldine, Sheldon Independent School District Nurses, TSU, UHD and others to invite stu-dents. We met with TSU staffers yester-day and found that the date was too close to get female students to attend the conference. We will be able to connect with students in need of these services and explore ways to get these ser-vices to them. The conference will be attended by the 100 target families being serviced through the Bread Of Life. if at all possi-ble, please try to attend the con-ference. We are making a difference help-ing our community to recover from Harvey.

PLEASE TAKE THE FLYER TO OUR CHURCHES and give to your family and friends. Addition-ally, send it to the people on your contact list. As women we fill multiple roles, and often taking care of our personal needs can not take priority, thus these ser-vices focus on female needs.

HOUSTON SILHOUETTES WORKED

TO PROVIDE HELP FROM HARV EY!!

This ad was widely distributed

throughout the city to get the word

out!!

BOWIE/MITCHELLVILLE (MD) SILHOUETTES

“United for Strength, Committed for Success”

Joan Petite Crutchfield, President

Gloria Miller, Reporter

Past National Silhouettes 2nd Vice President, Geraldine “Gerry” Fowlkes installed the 2017-2018 Bowie/Mitchellville

Silhouettes Chapter Officers.

Standing L to R: Silhouette Gerry Fowlkes; President, Silhouette Joan Crutchfield; Vice President, Silhouette Benita Swindell; Sec-retary, Silhouette Gloria Miller; Treasurer, Silhouette Linda Peters; Parliamentarian, Silhouette Jeanette McQueen.

Under the new administration, we will continue to serve the six Community Services Projects (CSP) already in place. This year, at the request of the Eastern Province Silhouettes (EPS) Coordinator, each EPS Chapter presented a Day of Service in their local community. Our Day of Service Project was in support of the SIDS Initiative; a partnership with our beloved Kappa men! We spent an afternoon packaging nine (9) “Safe Baby” baskets for pregnant teens who reside at a local homeless center. We filled the baskets with baby shower gift items, safe sleep items, and a Safe Sleep Video with brochures provided by NIH. The Community Services Project Chair, Silhouette Faye Cobb and Co-Chair, Silhouette Benita Swindell delivered the baskets to the Center. Three Safe Sleep Videos and brochures were

left with the Center.

Throughout the Silhouette year, we will continue to support our CSP, promote goodwill in our communities and pro-vide stellar support to the National Silhouettes Auxiliary under the auspices of the Bowie/Mitchellville (MD) Alumni Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. We are proud of our members and their support and continued belief in

the services and causes we champion.

2017.2018 Members: Valeria Baker, Charla Bishop, Marie Bowe-Quick Tia Cooper, *Joan Crutchfield, President; Rhonda Exum, Faye Cobb, Community Services Projects Chair; *Marlyn Hinkle, Delyssia Janifer, Letitia Janifer, LaChele Kellam, Jeanette McQueen, Parliamentarian; *Gloria Miller, Secretary; Patricia Moore, Leslie Nesbitt, Linda Peters, Treasurer; Karen Shields, Chaplain; Benita Swindell, Vice President; Jacqueline Taylor, Fundraising Chair; and

Jackie Womack.

*Charter members

EASTERN PROVINCE Joan Petite Crutchfield, Province Coordinator

Polemarch A. Keith Chapman, Silhouette Crystal Cooper, Silhouette Past Chapter President Toshia Walters, Silhouette

Mary Williams, Silhouette Elessie Smith, Silhouette Chapter President Davida Chapman, Silhouette LaVerne Reed,

Silhouette Kamika Valmond.

Under the National Silhouettes theme: “Together, We can connect, Engage, and raise the Bar for Service,

and Support, The Time is now, the Silhouettes Norfolk (VA) Chapter partnered with the Health Ministry of

New Calvary Baptist Church, Norfolk, VA to host a seminar on “Safe Sleep For Your Baby”.

The session was facilitated by Adayna Up-Church Burrow, MD, and pediatrician for Tidewater Pediatric Con-

sultants. The audience was filled with exuberance as she offered a presentation on Safe and Unsafe Sleep

Environments. The Norfolk (VA) Alumni Chapter Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. Polemarch, Brother A.

Keith Chapman volunteered to demonstrate how to lay an infant in a crib correctly. Afterwards there was a

lively discussion concerning correct methods of care versus previous learned methods.

The attendees were people who care for infants such as mothers, grandparents, aunts, uncles and childcare

providers (included men). There were light refreshments and door prizes for all. Of the thirty attendees there

were eight Silhouettes, and three Kappa brothers.

There were wonderful responses after the seminar concerning the presentation. Many of the attendees said

they thought the seminar was extremely educational and informative and that those who did not attend

missed an outstanding opportunity. Those who did attend said they would be sure to share the brochures

with others.

Silhouette Davida Chapman,

President

Sil. LaVerne Wiggins Reed,

Chair

Silhouette Mary Redd Nelson,

Co-Chair

EASTERN PROVINCE

Joan Petite Crutchfield, Province Coordinator

Members-At-Large Silhouettes in the Fort Lee (VA) Alumni Chapter Kappa

Although the Fort Lee

(VA) Alumni Silhou-

ettes have not official-

ly formed a Silhouette

Chapter, this has not

hindered our social in-

teractions nor how we

support our Kappa

Men. The Fort Lee

(VA) Alumni Chapter

(FLAC) hosts an annu-

al picnic and the Sil-

houettes are always a

part of the planning

and execution. This

year, our Silhouettes

enjoyed a few Mix &

Mingles with working

lunches that allowed us to coordinate one of our best picnics yet! Not only did we

enjoy the company of our Kappa Men, Silhouettes, family & friends but we ate

great-tasting food prepared by some classy Silhouettes. The o le’ adage, “the way

to a man’s heart is through his belly,” also holds true for our Kappa Men. Towards

the conclusion of the picnic, the 13th Polemarch & his wife, Carl and Leona Brown,

thanked the Silhouettes for their contributions and support of FLAC throughout the

year. We may not be an official Silhouette Chapter…YET but Fort Lee Silhouettes

are definitely supportive of our Kappa Men!

Written by Silhouette Leona Brown, Member-At-Large

FLAC Kappas and Silhouettes

EASTERN PROVINCE

Joan Petite Crutchfield, Province Coordinator

Before the first official call to order,

the Baltimore Silhouettes were plan-

ning their signature annual Scholar-

ship Brunch and Silent Auction. To

enhance our brunch festivities, we

engaged live entertainment. The

Spindles are a nationally known soul-

ful R&B group from Baltimore.

In addition to great food and enter-

taining music, guests were able to get

their seasonal shopping done at the

Silent Auction and “vendor alley”.

Silhouettes and guests also donated

toys to help make Christmas merry

for children in need. The scholarship

fundraiser is on track to meet its goal

to give $3000.00 in scholarships.

Additionally, the Silhouettes support-

ed the Kappa’s in serving their imme-

diate neighbors in the Bolton Hill area

of Baltimore. This year the annual

Kappa “Thanksgiving for All” was

held on November 5, 2017 at City

View at McCullough Homes. In our

creatively decorated Silhouette

aprons, we feed over 250 neighbors.

This was truly a community event

where community means a place

were people come together and are

accepted as a gift.

The Silhouettes look forward to con-

tinuing 2017 - 2018 in service and

community. The Baltimore Silhou-

ettes hope to see you at the Kappa

Foundation Metro Baltimore’s 47th

Annual Night in Kappa Vegas this

March 2, 2018!

Audrey Bennett, President Baltimore Silhouettes

Keeping Community in Service

EASTERN PROVINCE

Joan Petite Crutchfield, Province Coordinator

WILMINGTON (DE) CHAPTER OF SILHOUETTES

Wilmington (DE) Alumni Chapter Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc.

Ongoing Projects 2017-2018

National Silhouettes’ Quarterly Newsletter,

November, 2017

We continue to support our Kappa Men and be active in our community as shown below:

Ronald McDonald House of Delaware

Wish List – this project is ongoing throughout the year, with collections be-ing made at each chapter gathering. The donations are delivered to the House twice a year. The items include paper products, can goods and cleaning supplies.

Middletown Diaper Bank Program – this

project is an arm of the National Diaper Association’s major thrust to provide as-sistance to families who may fall short of their diaper needs during the month. Members donate disposable diapers of various sizes at each regular scheduled meeting. The presentation is done to the bank at intervals.

The Achievement Center (Kappa Main-

stream Leadership & Hope Commission) members donate books, games and toys to the newly established library, regularly. This project encourages the re-entry cli-ents connect with their child/children through reading and games.

Safe To Sleep Program – a national initia-tive to promote, enlighten and inform our community of the risk baby sleep related causes of infant deaths. Members distrib-uted pamphlets to and held talks at churches, daycare centers and health fairs to enlighten the community on SIDS.

Submitted by: Silhouette Patricia Bennett, Chapter President Silhouette Minnie Bazzelle, Chapter Historian

PHILADELPHIA CHAPTER OF SILHOUETTES

After returning to the city after a phenomenal time at the

2017 Orlando National Silhouettes Conference., the Sep-

tember meeting, chapter members celebrated receiving the

“President’s Award – Largest Chapter” and the award for “70

Years of Steller Support”. While in Orlando, Philadelphia

Kappa Silhouettes kicked off preparations for the 2019 Na-

tional Silhouettes Conference with a video invitation during a

business meeting and hosting a “Philadelphia Welcome” in

the hospitality suite. Chapter members are forming the nec-

essary conference committees and developing activities that

offer Silhouettes and families the opportunity to enjoy them-

selves while visiting our City of Brotherly Love & Sisterly

Affection.

Our motto is “Working Together Works!” In conjunction with

the National Silhouettes “Safe Sleep Initiative”, we adopted

“Turning Points for Children” an organization that connects

women and babies with much needed health services and

items for daily living. In June, the Philadelphia Kappa Silhou-

ettes donated safe infant sleep literature, 824 diapers and

9,160 baby wipes. Proceeds from the annual October Atlan-

tic City Casino Bus Trip and our upcoming 68th Annual

Fashion Show & Luncheon, March 10, 2018, Presidential

Caterers, E. Norriton, PA, continue to fund our many com-

munity service projects and charities. These include:

The Achievement Academy of The Philadelphia Alumni

Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi, Fraternity, Inc.

American Diabetes Association

Autism Speaks

Sickle Cell Association, Philadelphia Delaware Valley

Chapter

G. E. Thorne Foundation for Breast Cancer

Evelyn Payne Scholarship

Book Awards/Stipends for Female High School Gradu-

ates

The Philadelphia Kappa Silhouettes will host the next Na-

tional Silhouettes Conference. We welcomed Silhouettes in

1995 and look forward to inviting Silhouettes back to Philly

in the summer of 2019.

Submitted by: Silhouette Karen Dean, President, Philadelph-

ia Kappa Silhouettes

NORTH EASTERN PROVINCE

Sandi Sharp, Province Coordinator

NORTHEASTERN PROVINCE

Sandi Sharp, Province Coordinator

PLAINFIELD, NEW JERSEY SILHOUETTES

1st Chapter Anniversary

The Columbia, South Carolina Silhouettes, led by the chapter president, Silhouette Elaine Melvin, toured the local

Ronald McDonald House on October 16, 2017. The Ronald McDonald House in=s an international organization

which provides a home away for families and children being treated at local hospitals.

The Ronald McDonald House Charities in Columbia, SC serves families through two cornerstone programs, the

Ronald McDonald House and the Ronald McDonald Family Room at Richland Memorial Hospital. The Silhouettes

were welcomed by the dedicated staff and Alphie, the beautiful RMH dog. They toured the new 16,000 square-foot,

sixteen-bedroom, state of the art facility. Recognizing that the RMHC depends on the kindness of volunteers and

the generosity of donors, they learned of volunteer opportunities open to them and they donated to the charity.

The Silhouettes intend to make the Ronald McDonald House Charities a priority in the Chapter’s community efforts.

Persons in photo (left to right) Patricia Motes, Margaret Deans-Marketing and Communications Manager, RMHC,

Sandra Greene, Belinda Thomas, Elaine Melvin, Glenda Leaks, Kim Hollins, Margaret Atkinson- Operations Director,

RMHC and Alfie – RMHC, the house pet.

SOUTHEASTERN PROVINCE

Kimberly Lattimore, Province Coordinator

SUGGESTED READING: (FOR THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE)

Many women who free themselves from violent domestic situations experience symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) long after they achieve physical and emotional safety. A ringing telephone or a crowded city street threatens a potential encounter with their abus-er. People they care for seem far away, and things they used to enjoy offer neither pleasure nor relief. Their long, sleepless nights drag on. If you’ve freed yourself from an abusive rela-tionship but still suffer from its effects, this pro-gram of trauma recovery techniques can help you take back your peace of mind. Based on a clinically proven set of techniques called cogni-tive trauma therapy (CTT), the exercises in this workbook will help you address feelings of guilt, anger, depression, anxiety, and stress. You'll learn how to break down the negative thoughts that might be cycling in your mind and how to replace them with positive, constructive affirmations. Later in the program, you'll be guided through controlled exposure to abuse reminders, which will enable you to face the fears you might otherwise spend a lifetime avoiding. The program begins and ends with techniques for becoming your own best advocate—an in-formed, confident person with all the strength you need to create the secure, fulfilling life you deserve.

Recognize the effects of trauma on your life Let go of anger, stress, shame, and guilt Change core beliefs that can lead to involvement in abusive relationships

Confront and overcome your fears Dispel feelings of helplessness

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HEALTH AND WELLNESS

The Philadelphia Kappa Silhouettes,

celebrate the birthday of our most senior

member! This year, on December 5th, we cel-

ebrated the 100th Birthday of Silhouette Bergner Searles! *

We are overjoyed that Silhouette

Searles, a widow, is a member of our

chapter and is still one of the most con-

sistent and dedicated supporters of chap-

ter activities. She continues to be one of

the most prominent supporters of our

chapter Annual Fashion Show and

Luncheon.

Silhouette Searles, the National Silhouettes President, Silhou-

ette Janice Hall Dean, and the entire body of the National Sil-

houettes of Kappa Alpha Psi wish you a very, very happy birth-

day this year and for many years to come!! *continued on next page

MILESTONES

Written By:

Silhouette Sharritha Thigpen-Prater, History Committee Chairman

Philadelphia Kappa Silhouettes

Founded October 3, 1923

The eldest member of the Philadelphia Kappa Silhouettes, Bergner

Searles, celebrated her 100th birthday on December 5, 2017. This

wonderful woman is still full of vigor, humor, and wisdom! Dur-

ing a phone interview on November 18, 2017, she was asked how

she felt about her 100th birthday and her birthday party. Her re-

sponse was, “Well, I’m a little excited in a way… and I hope eve-

ryone has a good time.”

As she continued to talk, it was so hard to believe her age because

she speaks as if she were much, much younger! Silhouette Bergner

was born in Philadelphia, PA on December 5, 1917. She attended

Reynolds Elementary School, Girls High, and Gratz High School.

She later matriculated at West Chester State College, where she

earned her B.S. Degree in Math and English.

She married Kappaman John Searles (Chapter Invis ible) on Au-

gust 5, 1943, and joined the Philadelphia Kappa Silhouettes short-

ly thereafter. He was a 50-year member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fra-

ternity, Inc. To their union was born one daughter, Judith “Judy”

Searles. She is also the proud grandmother of 3, and the great-

grandmother of 6.

After teaching math for one year in the Philadelphia School District, Silhouette Bergner dec ided to stay home in or-

der to take care of Judy. When Judy turned 16 years old, Silhouette Bergner returned to the Philadelphia School Dis-

trict as a Social Worker, and served in this capacity for 20 years.

Later, in the phone interview, she was asked if she could name the activity that she has enjoyed the most throughout

her membership in the Philadelphia Kappa Silhouettes. She stated with a chuckle, “I don’t know. I enjoyed the meet-

ings ‘cause we, you know, we discussed other things other than the bus iness. We had a little food afterwards.” She

further commented on how she did not feel that she would enjoy being a member of the chapter, but it was so much

more than she initially anticipated. “I didn’t think I would ‘cause I didn’t think I would like women’s groups. I

thought they would be catty and so forth. But in order to live with my husband, I had to be a Silhouette!” With a

hearty laugh she stated, “He would have bugged me to death!” Silhouette Bergner has served as Corresponding Sec-

retary and served on various committees. She served on the first Philadelphia Kappa Silhouettes Luncheon Commit-

tee (1950), and continued for 5 consecutive years! She also spoke about the first time she hosted a chapter meeting.

It was in 1953. Chapter members kept hounding her to do so, and she finally gave in. Her next door neighbor, who

was an undertaker, gave her chairs to use during the meeting because she didn’t have any because of her recent

move, a month prior. At the end of the interview, she was asked if there was any advice that she would like to give to

young or inactive Silhouettes. “Well, all I can say is I love those Silhouettes!” She went on to say, “I advise the

young wives to join and participate in the activities. They will enjoy themselves. Silhouettes were a different kind of

person, lady-like and caring.” When asked if she felt that her overall experience as a member of the Philadelphia

Kappa Silhouettes had been pos itive, she stated, “Oh yes, that’s why I’m still there!”

Silhouette Bergner is a member of St. Luke Episcopal Church, ECW (Episcopal Church Women), and Young at

Heart (Senior Citizens Group).

Continued from previous page

Did You Know

Kappa Silhouette Historical Tidbits

Before the Silhouettes were officially formed, a select group of Kappas asked their wives to act as hostesses and plan activities for visiting wives and children. Thus, an organized permanent group, calling themselves “Kappa Wives” or Kappa Alpha Psi Silhouettes” were formed.

The formal organization of Kappa Silhouettes became official in August,

1947 at the Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc., Conclave in Los Angeles, Cal-ifornia.

Our very 1st nationally elected President was Silhouette Dr. Evelyn Payne

of Brooklyn, New York.

The National Silhouettes’ Hymn was adopted at the 53rd Grand Chapter

meeting of Kappa Alpha Psi, Inc., in Boston, Massachusetts in 1965.

In 1980, the Board of Directors of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc., grant-

ed a seat on the Board of the Kappa Alpha Psi Foundation to the Nation-

al Silhouette President.

We caught our own

National Silhouettes Financial Secretary ,

doing good!

A highlight, for sure, during this holiday season,

Hats Off to You...

Silhouette

Kathie Marsh!!

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