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Daniel Cooper generated this report on 03/04/12 at 06:25 PM. All times are listed inAmerica/Los_Angeles timezone.

1 of 24303/02/2012 5:34 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 03/02/2012 6:02 PM)This weekendI am sending this so that you do not go to pacific division tonight, (if you were planning to), I cannot let you take theI am sending this so that you do not go to pacific division tonight, (if you were planning to), I cannot let you take theboys until I can have some professional intervention to assess your ability to look after them. The fact that you thinkboys until I can have some professional intervention to assess your ability to look after them. The fact that you thinkthe boys can be left on their own outside at night, anywhere, is too disturbing. the boys can be left on their own outside at night, anywhere, is too disturbing. As I have said before, I want them to see you and I need help with them, but not at the risk of their safety.As I have said before, I want them to see you and I need help with them, but not at the risk of their safety.

2 of 24302/27/2012 10:27 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/27/2012 11:26 AM)RE: Sam and Theo safety

I disagree that any 8 or 9 year old could be left alone at night in front of a major grocery store on a busy boulevard,I disagree that any 8 or 9 year old could be left alone at night in front of a major grocery store on a busy boulevard,2 blocks from a huge homeless shelter, or anywhere else for that matter.2 blocks from a huge homeless shelter, or anywhere else for that matter.

And our son's are not typical 8 and 9 year olds. There are well documented facts that pertain to their non-typicalAnd our son's are not typical 8 and 9 year olds. There are well documented facts that pertain to their non-typicalabilities to follow directions and impulse control. And those are only two of the factors that make leaving themabilities to follow directions and impulse control. And those are only two of the factors that make leaving themoutside that store at night with a puppy incredibly risky and unsafe.outside that store at night with a puppy incredibly risky and unsafe.

If you recall there were past incidents serious enough for Child Protective Services to become involved.If you recall there were past incidents serious enough for Child Protective Services to become involved.What you characterize as lies or an attack are my genuine concerns that any reasonable parent would have.What you characterize as lies or an attack are my genuine concerns that any reasonable parent would have.

On Sun, 02/26/12 at 10:46 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Sam and Theo safetyMessage:This is my reply to your current attack.

Once again your claims are unfounded.

1. There is no reason that eight and nine year old boys can't wait for ten minutes with their dog out the front entrance to the store while i was getting food fordinner?2. That market has security in front.3. Despite your claims they were not in harms way.4. Your claims of this being a repeated occurance is nothing more then a lie.

On Sun, 02/26/12 at 8:09 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Sam and Theo safetyMessage:

I have just been informed of a troubling event that took place last night while you had the boys. As you know, I have previously requested that you desist fromleaving our sons unattended while they are in your custody. Despite my repeated requests it seems that you continue to risk their safety and place them inharms way by leaving them alone for prolonged periods of time.

Last night at approximately 8:30p.m., one of our sons’ friend’s mother observed Samuel standing alone outside the market while you were nowhere in sight.He was outside all alone holding a puppy. Not too far from him stood an intoxicated transient. When she asked Samuel why he was there alone, he told her

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He was outside all alone holding a puppy. Not too far from him stood an intoxicated transient. When she asked Samuel why he was there alone, he told heryou were inside the store and he was watching the puppy.

I also learned that you were inside the market with Theodore in a section far from the entrance while Samuel stood outside alone. Our sons’ friend’s momnoticed that you were in the store for a while and at no time did you attempt to check on Samuel. Once she finished her shopping she saw you and Samuellooking and movie rentals and Theodore was not with you. When she left the store she noticed Theodore alone outside holding the puppy. He was stillstanding there alone even after she got to her car, loaded her groceries and started driving away. By this time it was much later and she was concerned for oursons’ safety.

I again ask that you do not place our sons’ safety at risk of irreparable harm by leaving them alone to fend for themselves, which they are unable to do.

3 of 24302/26/2012 8:09 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/26/2012 10:31 PM)Sam and Theo safety

I have just been informed of a troubling event that took place last night while you had the boys. As you know, I haveI have just been informed of a troubling event that took place last night while you had the boys. As you know, I havepreviously requested that you desist from leaving our sons unattended while they are in your custody. Despite mypreviously requested that you desist from leaving our sons unattended while they are in your custody. Despite myrepeated requests it seems that you continue to risk their safety and place them in harms way by leaving them alonerepeated requests it seems that you continue to risk their safety and place them in harms way by leaving them alonefor prolonged periods of time.for prolonged periods of time.

Last night at approximately 8:30p.m., one of our sons’ friend’s mother observed Samuel standing alone outside theLast night at approximately 8:30p.m., one of our sons’ friend’s mother observed Samuel standing alone outside themarket while you were nowhere in sight. He was outside all alone holding a puppy. Not too far from him stood anmarket while you were nowhere in sight. He was outside all alone holding a puppy. Not too far from him stood anintoxicated transient. When she asked Samuel why he was there alone, he told her you were inside the store and heintoxicated transient. When she asked Samuel why he was there alone, he told her you were inside the store and hewas watching the puppy. was watching the puppy.

I also learned that you were inside the market with Theodore in a section far from the entrance while Samuel stoodI also learned that you were inside the market with Theodore in a section far from the entrance while Samuel stoodoutside alone. Our sons’ friend’s mom noticed that you were in the store for a while and at no time did you attemptoutside alone. Our sons’ friend’s mom noticed that you were in the store for a while and at no time did you attemptto check on Samuel. Once she finished her shopping she saw you and Samuel looking and movie rentals andto check on Samuel. Once she finished her shopping she saw you and Samuel looking and movie rentals andTheodore was not with you. When she left the store she noticed Theodore alone outside holding the puppy. He wasTheodore was not with you. When she left the store she noticed Theodore alone outside holding the puppy. He wasstill standing there alone even after she got to her car, loaded her groceries and started driving away. By this time itstill standing there alone even after she got to her car, loaded her groceries and started driving away. By this time itwas much later and she was concerned for our sons’ safety. was much later and she was concerned for our sons’ safety.

I again ask that you do not place our sons’ safety at risk of irreparable harm by leaving them alone to fend forI again ask that you do not place our sons’ safety at risk of irreparable harm by leaving them alone to fend forthemselves, which they are unable to do. themselves, which they are unable to do.

4 of 24302/26/2012 4:18 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/26/2012 4:22 PM)RE: compromise to going back to courtAs I previously suggested in my reply to your "invitation to negotiate" sent from this website you are welcome to useAs I previously suggested in my reply to your "invitation to negotiate" sent from this website you are welcome to usemy personal e-mail regarding your purported "offer of compromise." my personal e-mail regarding your purported "offer of compromise."

I look forward to receiving your offer to compromise soon.I look forward to receiving your offer to compromise soon.

On Sun, 02/26/12 at 3:43 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: compromise to going back to courtMessage:You are entitled to your opinion. But I will not negociate legal issues on this site.

On Sun, 02/26/12 at 2:49 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: compromise to going back to courtMessage:

Your response "what ever" to my attempts to reach a compromise regarding your stated issues of child support, visitation and refinance is not helpful.

This only leads me to believe that your purported offer to "avoid court" is entirely insincere and contrary to your intentions.


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Despite your cryptic and contradicting e-mails, I remain amenable to an amicable resolution of these issues.

On Fri, 02/24/12 at 5:37 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: compromise to going back to courtMessage:what ever. now I had to go back home. Please have the boys there on time.

On Fri, 02/24/12 at 5:29 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: compromise to going back to courtMessage:

I think that you should send me an email on my personal email if you are not comfortable discussing these issues on OFW, (as you have done with other legalissues in the past. (ie.Disney time share, etc.)

I also think that I will wait for that email, which I hope will contain your wishes or proposals (re: the issues that you listed)

I am not comfortable planning to meet you anywhere at this time, as I still have no idea what it is that you want.

On Fri, 02/24/12 at 1:43 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: compromise to going back to courtMessage:Since these are legal negotiations and we are both representing ourselves, I must request that these negotiations NOT be done on ourfamilywizard web site.Maybe a coffee shop/inside with no recordings to take place, except the video surveillance at the coffee shop to ensure that no false accusations could be madeon what occurs at the coffee shop, Since this is to be a public place it should discourage any yelling or name calling.This meeting should be between you and myself and not to be used in a court of LAW. (With the exception that nothing happens that would be consideredunlawful) If you are to bring someone with you, I must request that they are your legal representation and that I be given proof that they have filled with thecourt as being your substitution of attorney prior to the meeting and that this meeting to be held off the record.

5 of 24302/26/2012 2:49 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/26/2012 3:39 PM)RE: compromise to going back to court

Your response "what ever" to my attempts to reach a compromise regarding your stated issues of child support,Your response "what ever" to my attempts to reach a compromise regarding your stated issues of child support,visitation and refinance is not helpful. visitation and refinance is not helpful.

This only leads me to believe that your purported offer to "avoid court" is entirely insincere and contrary to yourThis only leads me to believe that your purported offer to "avoid court" is entirely insincere and contrary to yourintentions. intentions.

Despite your cryptic and contradicting e-mails, I remain amenable to an amicable resolution of these issues.Despite your cryptic and contradicting e-mails, I remain amenable to an amicable resolution of these issues.

On Fri, 02/24/12 at 5:37 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: compromise to going back to courtMessage:what ever. now I had to go back home. Please have the boys there on time.

On Fri, 02/24/12 at 5:29 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: compromise to going back to courtMessage:

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I think that you should send me an email on my personal email if you are not comfortable discussing these issues on OFW, (as you have done with other legalissues in the past. (ie.Disney time share, etc.)

I also think that I will wait for that email, which I hope will contain your wishes or proposals (re: the issues that you listed)

I am not comfortable planning to meet you anywhere at this time, as I still have no idea what it is that you want.



I think that you should send me an email on my personal email if you are not comfortable discussing these issues onI think that you should send me an email on my personal email if you are not comfortable discussing these issues onOFW, (as you have done with other legal issues in the past. (ie.Disney time share, etc.)OFW, (as you have done with other legal issues in the past. (ie.Disney time share, etc.)

I also think that I will wait for that email, which I hope will contain your wishes or proposals (re: the issues that youI also think that I will wait for that email, which I hope will contain your wishes or proposals (re: the issues that youlisted)listed)

I am not comfortable planning to meet you anywhere at this time, as I still have no idea what it is that you want.I am not comfortable planning to meet you anywhere at this time, as I still have no idea what it is that you want.



I have stated my wishes on all 3 topics, in writing, so many times that I don't have time to count.I have stated my wishes on all 3 topics, in writing, so many times that I don't have time to count.

On the other hand, I have never been able to figure out what you want.On the other hand, I have never been able to figure out what you want.

So Please tell me what you would like to see happen on those 3 issues.So Please tell me what you would like to see happen on those 3 issues.

On Fri, 02/24/12 at 12:23 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: compromise to going back to courtMessage:If you would to try to reach a compromise to try to avoid court for the following issues please respond.

ISSUSE TO COMPROMISE TO AVOID COURT


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ISSUSE TO COMPROMISE TO AVOID COURTchild supportrefinancevisitation

8 of 24302/23/2012 11:45 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/24/2012 8:33 AM)RE: 2-24-2012

Just obey the court order. Pay me the $1000, that was supposed to be paid to me by November 11th, AS PER THEJust obey the court order. Pay me the $1000, that was supposed to be paid to me by November 11th, AS PER THECOURT ORDER.COURT ORDER.

Just obey the court order. Pay me 3 years of child support AS PER THE COURT ORDER. Just obey the court order. Pay me 3 years of child support AS PER THE COURT ORDER.

(Or just this months child support, AS PER THE COURT ORDER).(Or just this months child support, AS PER THE COURT ORDER).

How come you think that you should get to pick and choose which Court order is important and which one isn't? (IHow come you think that you should get to pick and choose which Court order is important and which one isn't? (Iknow that I've asked you this before and you haven't answered, but I just really can't help it.)know that I've asked you this before and you haven't answered, but I just really can't help it.)

On Thu, 02/23/12 at 10:57 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: 2-24-2012Message:Just obey the court order. you texting me on saturday to run to the Pacific division at what ever time you like is not exceptable. Once again please confirm thatyou will have the boys at the LAPD pacific division at 6:30 pm on friday AS PER THE COURT ORDER.

On Thu, 02/23/12 at 6:29 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: 2-24-2012Message:

But, last weekend you could not pick them up because you don't have a drivers license.

If being without a drivers license prevented you from picking them up all last weekend, and all the other times that you have given me that reason for notpicking them up, (last weekend was 72 hours long), than it makes sense that being without a drivers license prevents you from picking them up this weekend.(only 48 hours long)

On Wed, 02/22/12 at 2:50 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: 2-24-2012Message:please have the boys at the LAPD pacific division at 6:30 pm as per the court ordered visitation schedule.

9 of 24302/23/2012 7:05 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/23/2012 10:58 AM)re: our text messages today.

Dan, you need to find out what is going on with your thought processes.Dan, you need to find out what is going on with your thought processes.

Seriously, you are not making any kind of logical conversational connections, it has always been a huge problem, andSeriously, you are not making any kind of logical conversational connections, it has always been a huge problem, andone of the big reasons I was so frustrated and had to get away from you. But it is worse now, and especially becauseone of the big reasons I was so frustrated and had to get away from you. But it is worse now, and especially because


one of the big reasons I was so frustrated and had to get away from you. But it is worse now, and especially becauseone of the big reasons I was so frustrated and had to get away from you. But it is worse now, and especially becausethe boys are getting older. You have some form of Autism probably, and definitely ADD. I'm sure that there is helpthe boys are getting older. You have some form of Autism probably, and definitely ADD. I'm sure that there is helpout there for adults with these issues.out there for adults with these issues.I believe now that you are not stupid, but you just can't figure out how you don't quite get what is going on aroundI believe now that you are not stupid, but you just can't figure out how you don't quite get what is going on aroundyou or why people don't get what you are trying to say, like you are always out of step, out of sync, and how you getyou or why people don't get what you are trying to say, like you are always out of step, out of sync, and how you getstuck on things. It's called perseverating. It is a really serious problem. If you get the right therapy you can probablystuck on things. It's called perseverating. It is a really serious problem. If you get the right therapy you can probablylearn how to deal with all of this stuff on your own and get back on your feet. Then you can be an effective fatherlearn how to deal with all of this stuff on your own and get back on your feet. Then you can be an effective fatherfor the boys, I know that is what is in your heart to do, but can you just do it and stop wasting your time making upfor the boys, I know that is what is in your heart to do, but can you just do it and stop wasting your time making upbattles that you will never win. They are not even real battles, they are just time and money money wasting exercisesbattles that you will never win. They are not even real battles, they are just time and money money wasting exercisesin frustration of all those who are involved.in frustration of all those who are involved.

There are agencies, for adults who are undiagnosed on the Autism Spectrum, and from what I hear it can really helpThere are agencies, for adults who are undiagnosed on the Autism Spectrum, and from what I hear it can really helpto find out and just deal with it, you don't have to lose any more time from your life and the boys life, and believeto find out and just deal with it, you don't have to lose any more time from your life and the boys life, and believeme, I need help with them!!!! I wish more than anything that you could be a fully functional parent and spend timeme, I need help with them!!!! I wish more than anything that you could be a fully functional parent and spend timewith them, (more time!) in a good and productive way. That cannot happen if you are in denial that you have manywith them, (more time!) in a good and productive way. That cannot happen if you are in denial that you have manyof the same problems that they do.of the same problems that they do.

On Sun, 02/19/12 at 8:53 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: re: our text messages today.Message:I'm sick of all your lies and manipulations. You are only trying to provoke me. In judge llavanases own words on Dec 19th 2008 "quote"You know, Half of me says you don't need a restraining order. That's what half of me says.And I think as you go through your life and have different relationships you will find yourself in the same situation where you are antagonizing people to thepoint where it is almost invitable that you will find yourself back in the court's protections against someone whom I believe you pushed to the limit.Based on the facts that there was a physical assault, which is defined as an unwanted touching, on that much of the aggravation and of the reasons that Mr.Cooper went to those lengths-- and i'm not talking about secretly recording but went to the lenghts of trying to keep you out of his room when you wereclimbing in the window and removing you from a chair-- I think you've got some considerable fault there.

The restraining order does issue. The restaing order expire on May 31st, 2009 at midnight.Sir you are ordered to engage in 12 sessions of counseling to address how to appropriately handle situations where you may be at the other end of a verbleassault.

Factyou were able to keep the video out of court. I'm sure that if was the other way around the video would be admissable.

On Sat, 02/18/12 at 4:32 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: re: our text messages today.Message:

I am writing this to summarize what we spoke about today through text messaging. I am trying to be clear about what was said.

I texted you at around noon and said that I did not believe you were serious about seeing the boys because you never answered my e-mail on ofw re: thisweekend. Also that I don't believe you when you always have plans, because according to you, you are so poor that you cannot manage to pay 37$per childper month.

You answered around 2, stated that you would be home around 3, and would I bring the boys to you.

I answered that our exchanges had to take place at the Pacific Division because every time I have been nice and gone out of my way to make things easier foryou to see the boys, like bring them to you, etc. That I have been repaid for my kindness, by you, with one horrifying scene or another. And, that I was sad that it had to be this way.

You then wrote, "I don't have a drivers lic., child support says I need to take you back to court and redemands the docs to reduce the debt to get my lic. back.Next round of court. Child support, house refi, visitation."(quote)

What I understand your last text to mean is that you cannot see the boys until you get your drivers license, and you cannot get your drivers license until youcan take me back to court and get an order that states; you do not owe me any child support for the last 3 years that you have refused to pay, and that you willnot owe any child support presently or future(?) because you must have your support reduced LOWER than 37$ per child per month, and nothing for childcare. I am assuming that since you are asking for support lower than 37$, you would be asking for your share of support for your children to be 0$ per child permonth.Or perhaps, you will again ask the court to make me financially support you.


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You should note the major flaw in your strategy has been all of your work to make my life so miserably hard, that I cannot work. If you keep trying to get thecourt to make me pay you, then, why did you go to Medical board, etc. Obviously, you wanted me to lose my license and my job. I haven't worked since Dec.10, 2010. And lately you have been on your mission with the State Bar to try and make sure I never get to practice Law. So, it seems that you have beenspinning your wheels and wasting the courts time asking them to make me pay you, and at the same time, you are trying to make sure that I will never make aliving again. So, you think that you should not have to support your kids, and you will do anything, no matter what, to make sure that I cannot support your kids.... Haveyou ever stopped to try and figure out just WHO is supposed to be supporting your kids? (not to mention the daily work of raising them! Which you also have been refusing to help with for 3 years.... but that is a whole other subject)I do not understand what you are trying to accomplish, just like when we were married...... and I think it is really sad for our kids, just like when we weremarried........

10 of 24302/23/2012 6:29 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/23/2012 10:49 AM)RE: 2-24-2012

But, last weekend you could not pick them up because you don't have a drivers license.But, last weekend you could not pick them up because you don't have a drivers license.

If being without a drivers license prevented you from picking them up all last weekend, and all the other times thatIf being without a drivers license prevented you from picking them up all last weekend, and all the other times thatyou have given me that reason for not picking them up, (last weekend was 72 hours long), than it makes sense thatyou have given me that reason for not picking them up, (last weekend was 72 hours long), than it makes sense thatbeing without a drivers license prevents you from picking them up this weekend. (only 48 hours long)being without a drivers license prevents you from picking them up this weekend. (only 48 hours long)

On Wed, 02/22/12 at 2:50 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: 2-24-2012Message:please have the boys at the LAPD pacific division at 6:30 pm as per the court ordered visitation schedule.

11 of 24302/23/2012 6:10 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/23/2012 10:49 AM)re: our text messages today.

I really hope that you get the help you need Dan, for the sake of your sons.I really hope that you get the help you need Dan, for the sake of your sons.

On Sun, 02/19/12 at 8:53 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: re: our text messages today.Message:I'm sick of all your lies and manipulations. You are only trying to provoke me. In judge llavanases own words on Dec 19th 2008 "quote"You know, Half of me says you don't need a restraining order. That's what half of me says.And I think as you go through your life and have different relationships you will find yourself in the same situation where you are antagonizing people to thepoint where it is almost invitable that you will find yourself back in the court's protections against someone whom I believe you pushed to the limit.Based on the facts that there was a physical assault, which is defined as an unwanted touching, on that much of the aggravation and of the reasons that Mr.Cooper went to those lengths-- and i'm not talking about secretly recording but went to the lenghts of trying to keep you out of his room when you wereclimbing in the window and removing you from a chair-- I think you've got some considerable fault there.

The restraining order does issue. The restaing order expire on May 31st, 2009 at midnight.Sir you are ordered to engage in 12 sessions of counseling to address how to appropriately handle situations where you may be at the other end of a verbleassault.

Factyou were able to keep the video out of court. I'm sure that if was the other way around the video would be admissable.

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On Sat, 02/18/12 at 4:32 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: re: our text messages today.Message:

I am writing this to summarize what we spoke about today through text messaging. I am trying to be clear about what was said.

I texted you at around noon and said that I did not believe you were serious about seeing the boys because you never answered my e-mail on ofw re: thisweekend. Also that I don't believe you when you always have plans, because according to you, you are so poor that you cannot manage to pay 37$per childper month.

You answered around 2, stated that you would be home around 3, and would I bring the boys to you.

I answered that our exchanges had to take place at the Pacific Division because every time I have been nice and gone out of my way to make things easier foryou to see the boys, like bring them to you, etc. That I have been repaid for my kindness, by you, with one horrifying scene or another. And, that I was sad that it had to be this way.

You then wrote, "I don't have a drivers lic., child support says I need to take you back to court and redemands the docs to reduce the debt to get my lic. back.Next round of court. Child support, house refi, visitation."(quote)

What I understand your last text to mean is that you cannot see the boys until you get your drivers license, and you cannot get your drivers license until youcan take me back to court and get an order that states; you do not owe me any child support for the last 3 years that you have refused to pay, and that you willnot owe any child support presently or future(?) because you must have your support reduced LOWER than 37$ per child per month, and nothing for childcare. I am assuming that since you are asking for support lower than 37$, you would be asking for your share of support for your children to be 0$ per child permonth.Or perhaps, you will again ask the court to make me financially support you.

You should note the major flaw in your strategy has been all of your work to make my life so miserably hard, that I cannot work. If you keep trying to get thecourt to make me pay you, then, why did you go to Medical board, etc. Obviously, you wanted me to lose my license and my job. I haven't worked since Dec.10, 2010. And lately you have been on your mission with the State Bar to try and make sure I never get to practice Law. So, it seems that you have beenspinning your wheels and wasting the courts time asking them to make me pay you, and at the same time, you are trying to make sure that I will never make aliving again. So, you think that you should not have to support your kids, and you will do anything, no matter what, to make sure that I cannot support your kids.... Haveyou ever stopped to try and figure out just WHO is supposed to be supporting your kids? (not to mention the daily work of raising them! Which you also have been refusing to help with for 3 years.... but that is a whole other subject)I do not understand what you are trying to accomplish, just like when we were married...... and I think it is really sad for our kids, just like when we weremarried........

12 of 24302/18/2012 4:32 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/19/2012 7:19 AM)re: our text messages today.

I am writing this to summarize what we spoke about today through text messaging. I am trying to be clear about whatI am writing this to summarize what we spoke about today through text messaging. I am trying to be clear about whatwas said.was said.

I texted you at around noon and said that I did not believe you were serious about seeing the boys because you neverI texted you at around noon and said that I did not believe you were serious about seeing the boys because you neveranswered my e-mail on ofw re: this weekend. Also that I don't believe you when you always have plans, becauseanswered my e-mail on ofw re: this weekend. Also that I don't believe you when you always have plans, becauseaccording to you, you are so poor that you cannot manage to pay 37$per child per month.according to you, you are so poor that you cannot manage to pay 37$per child per month.

You answered around 2, stated that you would be home around 3, and would I bring the boys to you.You answered around 2, stated that you would be home around 3, and would I bring the boys to you.

I answered that our exchanges had to take place at the Pacific Division because every time I have been nice and goneI answered that our exchanges had to take place at the Pacific Division because every time I have been nice and goneout of my way to make things easier for you to see the boys, like bring them to you, etc. out of my way to make things easier for you to see the boys, like bring them to you, etc. That I have been repaid for my kindness, by you, with one horrifying scene or another. That I have been repaid for my kindness, by you, with one horrifying scene or another. And, that I was sad that it had to be this way.And, that I was sad that it had to be this way.

You then wrote, "I don't have a drivers lic., child support says I need to take you back to court and redemands theYou then wrote, "I don't have a drivers lic., child support says I need to take you back to court and redemands thedocs to reduce the debt to get my lic. back. Next round of court. Child support, house refi, visitation."(quote)docs to reduce the debt to get my lic. back. Next round of court. Child support, house refi, visitation."(quote)

What I understand your last text to mean is that you cannot see the boys until you get your drivers license, and youWhat I understand your last text to mean is that you cannot see the boys until you get your drivers license, and youcannot get your drivers license until you can take me back to court and get an order that states; you do not owe mecannot get your drivers license until you can take me back to court and get an order that states; you do not owe meany child support for the last 3 years that you have refused to pay, and that you will not owe any child supportany child support for the last 3 years that you have refused to pay, and that you will not owe any child supportpresently or future(?) because you must have your support reduced LOWER than 37$ per child per month, andpresently or future(?) because you must have your support reduced LOWER than 37$ per child per month, and


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presently or future(?) because you must have your support reduced LOWER than 37$ per child per month, andpresently or future(?) because you must have your support reduced LOWER than 37$ per child per month, andnothing for child care. nothing for child care. I am assuming that since you are asking for support lower than 37$, you would be asking for your share of supportI am assuming that since you are asking for support lower than 37$, you would be asking for your share of supportfor your children to be 0$ per child per month.for your children to be 0$ per child per month.Or perhaps, you will again ask the court to make me financially support you.Or perhaps, you will again ask the court to make me financially support you.

You should note the major flaw in your strategy has been all of your work to make my life so miserably hard, that IYou should note the major flaw in your strategy has been all of your work to make my life so miserably hard, that Icannot work. If you keep trying to get the court to make me pay you, then, why did you go to Medical board, etc.cannot work. If you keep trying to get the court to make me pay you, then, why did you go to Medical board, etc.Obviously, you wanted me to lose my license and my job. I haven't worked since Dec. 10, 2010. And lately you haveObviously, you wanted me to lose my license and my job. I haven't worked since Dec. 10, 2010. And lately you havebeen on your mission with the State Bar to try and make sure I never get to practice Law. So, it seems that you havebeen on your mission with the State Bar to try and make sure I never get to practice Law. So, it seems that you havebeen spinning your wheels and wasting the courts time asking them to make me pay you, and at the same time, youbeen spinning your wheels and wasting the courts time asking them to make me pay you, and at the same time, youare trying to make sure that I will never make a living again. are trying to make sure that I will never make a living again. So, you think that you should not have to support your kids, and you will do anything, no matter what, to make sureSo, you think that you should not have to support your kids, and you will do anything, no matter what, to make surethat I cannot support your kids.... Have you ever stopped to try and figure out just WHO is supposed to be supportingthat I cannot support your kids.... Have you ever stopped to try and figure out just WHO is supposed to be supportingyour kids? your kids? (not to mention the daily work of raising them! Which you also have been refusing to help with for 3 years.... but(not to mention the daily work of raising them! Which you also have been refusing to help with for 3 years.... butthat is a whole other subject)that is a whole other subject)I do not understand what you are trying to accomplish, just like when we were married...... and I think it is really sadI do not understand what you are trying to accomplish, just like when we were married...... and I think it is really sadfor our kids, just like when we were married........for our kids, just like when we were married........

13 of 24302/17/2012 10:23 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/19/2012 7:18 AM)Feb. 17

This weekend is the 3rd weekend of the month, it is not your weekend.This weekend is the 3rd weekend of the month, it is not your weekend.

When the children came home from their last visit with you they were both obviously sick, it was very visible. TheyWhen the children came home from their last visit with you they were both obviously sick, it was very visible. Theyhad red noses runny with greenish snot and red puffy eyes, raspy voices and hacking coughs. I asked Theo if youhad red noses runny with greenish snot and red puffy eyes, raspy voices and hacking coughs. I asked Theo if yougave him any medicine, he said you put cream on his red nostrils, so you saw something was wrong.... Then you tookgave him any medicine, he said you put cream on his red nostrils, so you saw something was wrong.... Then you tookthem to the beach!them to the beach!They both missed that monday and tuesday from school, and Samuel woke up screaming from an ear infectionThey both missed that monday and tuesday from school, and Samuel woke up screaming from an ear infectiontuesday night so he had to go to Dr. on wed., he was given a 2 week antibiotic, so he couldn't come see you. Youtuesday night so he had to go to Dr. on wed., he was given a 2 week antibiotic, so he couldn't come see you. Yourefuse to give them their medicine. refuse to give them their medicine.

I told you the children were sick and that is why they have not been back to see you.I told you the children were sick and that is why they have not been back to see you.

They are both fine now and do not have anything keeping them from coming to visit with you.They are both fine now and do not have anything keeping them from coming to visit with you.

If you want to pick them up tomorrow, Saturday and keep them overnight that would be ok.If you want to pick them up tomorrow, Saturday and keep them overnight that would be ok.

14 of 24302/03/2012 7:31 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/03/2012 12:53 PM)RE: this weekend

Yes, What?Yes, What?

I did not ask you a question.I did not ask you a question.

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The boys are still sick.

Do not plan to see them this weekend.

15 of 24302/03/2012 6:58 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/03/2012 7:00 AM)this weekend

The boys are still sick.The boys are still sick.

Do not plan to see them this weekend.Do not plan to see them this weekend.

16 of 24302/02/2012 8:32 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/03/2012 5:22 AM)This weekend

The boys are still sick.The boys are still sick.

Do not plan to see them this weekend.Do not plan to see them this weekend.

17 of 24301/25/2012 10:33 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/25/2012 10:36 PM)RE: Weekend of Jan 27, 28, 29

You say OFCOURSE, but that shows how incredibly inconsistent you are.You say OFCOURSE, but that shows how incredibly inconsistent you are.On the first weekend of this Jan. you did not answer my text (sent Jan. 6th 2012 5:09 PM) about seeing the boys thatOn the first weekend of this Jan. you did not answer my text (sent Jan. 6th 2012 5:09 PM) about seeing the boys thatweekend.weekend.In fact you did not answer it until Jan. 13th 5:00 PM.In fact you did not answer it until Jan. 13th 5:00 PM.

I wish you really did care about what the court saysI wish you really did care about what the court saysAs stated by the court you are ordered to pay me $574.00 per month for child support. (and an extra $1000.00 inAs stated by the court you are ordered to pay me $574.00 per month for child support. (and an extra $1000.00 inNov. for your contempt of the Court)Nov. for your contempt of the Court)Theo and Sam have a right to be supported by both of their parents, not just their mother.Theo and Sam have a right to be supported by both of their parents, not just their mother.

On Wed, 01/25/12 at 9:13 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Weekend of Jan 27, 28, 29Message:Of course I intend to exercise my visitation. and by the way I am allowed 24 hrs to respond to messages on ourfamilywizard as stated by the court.

On Wed, 01/25/12 at 2:14 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Weekend of Jan 27, 28, 29Message:Do you intend to exercise your visitation of the boys this weekend? (ie: to pick them up at LAPD Pacific Division 6:30 Fri.?)

I need to know by 8PM tonight (Wednesday) or I will have to make other plans.


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18 of 24301/25/2012 2:14 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/25/2012 9:10 PM)Weekend of Jan 27, 28, 29Do you intend to exercise your visitation of the boys this weekend? (ie: to pick them up at LAPD Pacific DivisionDo you intend to exercise your visitation of the boys this weekend? (ie: to pick them up at LAPD Pacific Division6:30 Fri.?)6:30 Fri.?)

I need to know by 8PM tonight (Wednesday) or I will have to make other plans.I need to know by 8PM tonight (Wednesday) or I will have to make other plans.

19 of 24301/16/2012 3:35 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/16/2012 3:39 PM)RE: Today 1/16/12

I am sorry that you continue to ignore my my discussions with you about how returning the boys to me at 6:30, on aI am sorry that you continue to ignore my my discussions with you about how returning the boys to me at 6:30, on aschool night, (after a weekend with you) makes their life very difficult in regards to school the next day.school night, (after a weekend with you) makes their life very difficult in regards to school the next day.It would be helpful to the boys if they could get home a little earlier for the transition, to ensure that they areIt would be helpful to the boys if they could get home a little earlier for the transition, to ensure that they areproperly rested for the start of a busy week.properly rested for the start of a busy week.If I pick them up at 6:30, we get home at approx. 6:45, they are hungry, very dirty, overly tired but amped up to theIf I pick them up at 6:30, we get home at approx. 6:45, they are hungry, very dirty, overly tired but amped up to thehighest degree. That makes dinnertime, bathtime, and bedtime, take much longer than an hour. Or even an hour andhighest degree. That makes dinnertime, bathtime, and bedtime, take much longer than an hour. Or even an hour and15 minutes.15 minutes.

It would be helpful if you could look at what is best for them in this case, instead of what you feel you have a rightIt would be helpful if you could look at what is best for them in this case, instead of what you feel you have a rightto.to.Everyone has heard you regarding what you have a right to, believe me, heard, and noted, now can we move on andEveryone has heard you regarding what you have a right to, believe me, heard, and noted, now can we move on andconverse about the boys?converse about the boys?

On Mon, 01/16/12 at 3:20 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Today 1/16/12Message:We will try to be early, but most likely we will be there at 6:30. In the future please be on time when you drop off the boys, your habit of being 30 minutes ormore late is not exceptable.

On Mon, 01/16/12 at 12:39 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Today 1/16/12Message:

Can you have the boys at Pacific Division by 5:00?

(please do not forget Theodore's DS and the case that goes with it)

20 of 24301/16/2012 12:39 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/16/2012 3:04 PM)Today 1/16/12

Can you have the boys at Pacific Division by 5:00?Can you have the boys at Pacific Division by 5:00?

(please do not forget Theodore's DS and the case that goes with it)(please do not forget Theodore's DS and the case that goes with it)


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21 of 24301/16/2012 10:15 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/16/2012 3:03 PM)Samuel

As I told you before I walked into the Pacific division and again when I walked in (and you refused to turn your andAs I told you before I walked into the Pacific division and again when I walked in (and you refused to turn your andturn your head in my general direction and talk like a normal person)turn your head in my general direction and talk like a normal person)

Samuel was excited about having some alone time with you while Theodore was with his friend. Samuel was excited about having some alone time with you while Theodore was with his friend. Remember, Sam doesn't have any friends to go off with, his family is it.Remember, Sam doesn't have any friends to go off with, his family is it.

Sam was happy and you could have made that very special for him, instead, you were busy yelling about "rights" atSam was happy and you could have made that very special for him, instead, you were busy yelling about "rights" atthe Police station, you didn't notice how sad Sam looked sitting on that bench.the Police station, you didn't notice how sad Sam looked sitting on that bench.

He lost his excitement to go with you at that very moment, you actually robbed him of it when you chose to fuss andHe lost his excitement to go with you at that very moment, you actually robbed him of it when you chose to fuss andyell about "your rights" instead of being happy to see him.yell about "your rights" instead of being happy to see him.

It was heartbreaking. I thought of just taking Sam back to my house at that moment, I asked him if he felt ok or safeIt was heartbreaking. I thought of just taking Sam back to my house at that moment, I asked him if he felt ok or safegoing with you, he said "yeah.. I'll go with dad..." no excitement, kind of down. Like he was doing not because hegoing with you, he said "yeah.. I'll go with dad..." no excitement, kind of down. Like he was doing not because hewanted to anymore but just doing so his dad didn't freak out any more.wanted to anymore but just doing so his dad didn't freak out any more.

There are plenty of books and classes on parenting available, they are very helpful.There are plenty of books and classes on parenting available, they are very helpful.

22 of 24301/13/2012 1:03 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/13/2012 3:51 PM)RE: 1-13-12 visitation

This weekend is a good weekend for them to come and see you, and a long weekend.This weekend is a good weekend for them to come and see you, and a long weekend.

So that means that you can keep them Sunday night if you want, but they would have to come home early onSo that means that you can keep them Sunday night if you want, but they would have to come home early onmonday, 6:30 is too late for them to wind down, eat, bathe, and sleep enough for school.monday, 6:30 is too late for them to wind down, eat, bathe, and sleep enough for school.

Theo has been invited for sleepover at Owen's, (they have both been asking, neither has had a sleepover) Theo has been invited for sleepover at Owen's, (they have both been asking, neither has had a sleepover)

Do you want to let him go tonight then get him tomorrow from Lisa?Do you want to let him go tonight then get him tomorrow from Lisa?

On Thu, 01/12/12 at 2:59 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: 1-13-12 visitationMessage:Can I please have visitation with my sons this weekend. Please respond on OFW before 3:00pm friday.

23 of 24301/01/2012 3:40 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/04/2012 10:38 AM)re: last e-mailBelow is the last communication that I sent to you.Below is the last communication that I sent to you.I never received an answer,I never received an answer,will you be at station today at 5:00?will you be at station today at 5:00?

From: Maeve Crommie From: Maeve Crommie To: Daniel Cooper To: Daniel Cooper (first view: Thu, 12/29/11 at 04:28 PM) (first view: Thu, 12/29/11 at 04:28 PM) Sent: 12/29/11 04:27PM Sent: 12/29/11 04:27PM Subject: RE: 12-28-11 Subject: RE: 12-28-11 Message: Over the weekend unless they want to come home earlier.Message: Over the weekend unless they want to come home earlier.


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We will meet back at the Pacific division on Sunday at 5:00.We will meet back at the Pacific division on Sunday at 5:00.

On Thu, 12/29/11 at 04:03 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:On Thu, 12/29/11 at 04:03 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieTo: Maeve CrommieSubject: 12-28-11Subject: 12-28-11Message: how long can I keep them??????????????Message: how long can I keep them??????????????

24 of 24312/29/2011 4:27 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/29/2011 4:28 PM)RE: 12-28-11Over the weekend unless they want to come home earlier.Over the weekend unless they want to come home earlier.

We will meet back at the Pacific division on Sunday at 5:00.We will meet back at the Pacific division on Sunday at 5:00.

On Thu, 12/29/11 at 4:03 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: 12-28-11Message:how long can I keep them??????????????

25 of 24312/29/2011 4:04 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/29/2011 4:05 PM)RE: kids christmas vacationI will not go to SM StAtion for the same reasons that have been discussed previously, ad nauseum.I will not go to SM StAtion for the same reasons that have been discussed previously, ad nauseum.

So, LAPD pacific division at 5:30 today?So, LAPD pacific division at 5:30 today?

Will you be transporting them by bus?Will you be transporting them by bus?

On Thu, 12/29/11 at 3:57 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:I would perfer to go to the S.M. police department. but if that is your current desinated place then so be it.

On Thu, 12/29/11 at 3:54 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:

I guess we should go to the designated place, pacific division is 5:30 ok?

On Thu, 12/29/11 at 2:09 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:I would like to have them today and as soon as posible, pick them up from where? also how long can I keep them.

On Thu, 12/29/11 at 11:58 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:


On Thu, 12/29/11 at 11:58 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:

What day and time do you want to pick them up?

On Wed, 12/28/11 at 6:49 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:when could I have them and for how long

On Wed, 12/28/11 at 5:35 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:

What day and time do you have in mind?

On Wed, 12/28/11 at 1:30 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:are you going to let me have my sons or not.

On Wed, 12/28/11 at 11:53 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:

I don't know anything about you, and I don't make assumptions. If I did I would assume that you took care of whatever problems you had with your licenses.

I have seen you driving your van and you were issued alot of traffic cam tickets that showed you driving since you lost your contractors license in 2008.

Anyways, when I asked you to communicate about visitation with the boys all you said was, Yes. So I started off the communication with the basics, so that I could get some idea of how we will arrange a visit.For example, where and when, obviously it could not be at night because you would not want them out on the street or bus at night.

On Tue, 12/27/11 at 6:52 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:Why do you keep asking that? you know that my licence has been suspended along with my contractors licence.

On Tue, 12/27/11 at 11:09 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:

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On Mon, 12/26/11 at 12:41 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: kids christmas vacationMessage:

The boys are on vacation all week and I'm sure they would like to see you. Samuel says he really misses Freddy!

The boys spoke to your Mom and she said she sent them cards and presents to your house.

Would you like to work out a plan to see them?

Please communicate.

26 of 24312/29/2011 3:54 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/29/2011 3:55 PM)RE: kids christmas vacation

I guess we should go to the designated place, pacific division is 5:30 ok?I guess we should go to the designated place, pacific division is 5:30 ok?

On Thu, 12/29/11 at 2:09 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: kids christmas vacationMessage:I would like to have them today and as soon as posible, pick them up from where? also how long can I keep them.

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27 of 24312/29/2011 11:58 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/29/2011 2:07 PM)RE: kids christmas vacation

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28 of 24312/28/2011 5:35 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/28/2011 6:46 PM)RE: kids christmas vacation

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I don't know anything about you, and I don't make assumptions. If I did I would assume that you took care ofI don't know anything about you, and I don't make assumptions. If I did I would assume that you took care ofwhatever problems you had with your licenses.whatever problems you had with your licenses.

I have seen you driving your van and you were issued alot of traffic cam tickets that showed you driving since youI have seen you driving your van and you were issued alot of traffic cam tickets that showed you driving since youlost your contractors license in 2008.lost your contractors license in 2008.

Anyways, when I asked you to communicate about visitation with the boys all you said was, Yes. Anyways, when I asked you to communicate about visitation with the boys all you said was, Yes. So I started off the communication with the basics, so that I could get some idea of how we will arrange a visit.So I started off the communication with the basics, so that I could get some idea of how we will arrange a visit.For example, where and when, obviously it could not be at night because you would not want them out on the streetFor example, where and when, obviously it could not be at night because you would not want them out on the streetor bus at night.or bus at night.



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31 of 24312/27/2011 11:08 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/27/2011 6:52 PM)RE: exparte / visitation

Even though you are clearly in contempt of many court orders from this dissolution, I have no time to file a case forEven though you are clearly in contempt of many court orders from this dissolution, I have no time to file a case forcontempt. I have no time to defend myself against any of your baseless charges. contempt. I have no time to defend myself against any of your baseless charges. I spend all of my time providing for and caring for our young sons.I spend all of my time providing for and caring for our young sons.

On Mon, 12/26/11 at 11:06 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:


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On Mon, 12/26/11 at 11:06 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: exparte / visitationMessage:I will be filling anouther OSC contempt. If you wish to do the same that is up to you.

On Mon, 12/26/11 at 12:46 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: exparte / visitationMessage:

I will not be able to make this Court date because I do not have childcare money, gas money, parking money, or bus money.

It would really help things go more smoothly if you would pay some of the child-support or court sanctions you owe us and have never made a single paymenton since November 2009.

On Sun, 12/25/11 at 9:08 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: exparte / visitationMessage:Please be advised, this is your notice for ex-parte. I Daniel Cooper will be at 111 north hill st, Los Angeles, CA 90012 on Wednesday 12/28/2011 at 8:30 am department 2D for an ex-parte for violation of thecourt ordered visitation.

32 of 24312/26/2011 12:46 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/26/2011 11:04 PM)RE: exparte / visitation

I will not be able to make this Court date because I do not have childcare money, gas money, parking money, or busI will not be able to make this Court date because I do not have childcare money, gas money, parking money, or busmoney.money.

It would really help things go more smoothly if you would pay some of the child-support or court sanctions you oweIt would really help things go more smoothly if you would pay some of the child-support or court sanctions you oweus and have never made a single payment on since November 2009.us and have never made a single payment on since November 2009.

On Sun, 12/25/11 at 9:08 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: exparte / visitationMessage:Please be advised, this is your notice for ex-parte. I Daniel Cooper will be at 111 north hill st, Los Angeles, CA 90012 on Wednesday 12/28/2011 at 8:30 am department 2D for an ex-parte for violation of thecourt ordered visitation.

33 of 24312/26/2011 12:41 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/26/2011 11:04 PM)kids christmas vacation

The boys are on vacation all week and I'm sure they would like to see you. Samuel says he really misses Freddy!The boys are on vacation all week and I'm sure they would like to see you. Samuel says he really misses Freddy!

The boys spoke to your Mom and she said she sent them cards and presents to your house.The boys spoke to your Mom and she said she sent them cards and presents to your house.

Would you like to work out a plan to see them?Would you like to work out a plan to see them?

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34 of 24312/04/2011 11:08 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/04/2011 6:59 PM)RE: VisitationDan,Dan,You obviously didn't write that because you 'simply' don't talk like a snitty little girl, and everybody knows that youYou obviously didn't write that because you 'simply' don't talk like a snitty little girl, and everybody knows that youlove going to court.love going to court.

Since the refinance of the house is so incredibly important to you, why don't you just go ahead and fill out theSince the refinance of the house is so incredibly important to you, why don't you just go ahead and fill out theassumption papers, all the parts in which the 'Borrower' "Daniel Lloyd Cooper" must sign and notarize so that theassumption papers, all the parts in which the 'Borrower' "Daniel Lloyd Cooper" must sign and notarize so that theassumption process may BEGIN, like you were court ordered to do, like I have been asking you to do for three years,assumption process may BEGIN, like you were court ordered to do, like I have been asking you to do for three years,like my Atty. Mr Stoller asked you to do, in writing and in deposition? like my Atty. Mr Stoller asked you to do, in writing and in deposition?

So, Not only have you refused to cooperate with the process as the Borrower, as you were ordered to do by theSo, Not only have you refused to cooperate with the process as the Borrower, as you were ordered to do by theDivorce final judgment..........You wrote to BofA and told them I am not authorized to speak to them about the homeDivorce final judgment..........You wrote to BofA and told them I am not authorized to speak to them about the homeloan, my hands are tied, by your actions, all I can do is pay the mortgage, which I have done since August 2008.loan, my hands are tied, by your actions, all I can do is pay the mortgage, which I have done since August 2008.

Again, If you have any problem whatsoever with the home loan being in your name, SIMPLY, cooperate with theAgain, If you have any problem whatsoever with the home loan being in your name, SIMPLY, cooperate with theprocess of getting it out of your name, SIGN the assumption packet as it is designated for you to do and authorize meprocess of getting it out of your name, SIGN the assumption packet as it is designated for you to do and authorize mewith BofA to do my part.with BofA to do my part.

You are, now, and always have been, the only obstacle between me and a refinance of that house.You are, now, and always have been, the only obstacle between me and a refinance of that house.

So go right ahead Dan, file whatever nonsense you want, I cannot save you from making a fool of yourself.So go right ahead Dan, file whatever nonsense you want, I cannot save you from making a fool of yourself.

But, you would do better by yourself and your children if you would spend the energy to seek the professionalBut, you would do better by yourself and your children if you would spend the energy to seek the professionalpsychiatric help and counseling that you desperately need.psychiatric help and counseling that you desperately need.

I used to ask you to spend your energy to get a job to help pay to support them, but the problem has been muchI used to ask you to spend your energy to get a job to help pay to support them, but the problem has been muchbigger than money for a very long time, you need help. bigger than money for a very long time, you need help.

The only reason I care is the boys, believe me, I want them to have a healthy relationship with their dad. i want themThe only reason I care is the boys, believe me, I want them to have a healthy relationship with their dad. i want themto even be proud of their dad.to even be proud of their dad.If you won't get help then please just go away, don't do this to them, drag them through whatever mud you haveIf you won't get help then please just go away, don't do this to them, drag them through whatever mud you havemade of your life and make them feel sorry for you. It's a horrible thing to do to boys, it messes up their head so bad.made of your life and make them feel sorry for you. It's a horrible thing to do to boys, it messes up their head so bad.Do you think it is funny that they are always asking Danielle, Gilbert, and me to do various things for you becauseDo you think it is funny that they are always asking Danielle, Gilbert, and me to do various things for you becauseyou can't? Can't you see that if they are asking Danielle to help you that you have made them believe that you are soyou can't? Can't you see that if they are asking Danielle to help you that you have made them believe that you are sobroken and that they observe her as more able so that she can lend you a hand? Don't you get it? You did that. Webroken and that they observe her as more able so that she can lend you a hand? Don't you get it? You did that. Wehave NEVER said one word about you, my family made a conscious decision, a concerted effort, to speak highly ofhave NEVER said one word about you, my family made a conscious decision, a concerted effort, to speak highly ofyou or NOT AT ALL. PERIOD. That is all I do for my sons in place of a real father figure. That is what we do foryou or NOT AT ALL. PERIOD. That is all I do for my sons in place of a real father figure. That is what we do forthem, to help them feel better about themselves.them, to help them feel better about themselves.Just in case you care, although you never ask, they are fine.Just in case you care, although you never ask, they are fine.Theo has had much less anxiety lately, it is really measurable by his steady decrease in behavioral issues.Theo has had much less anxiety lately, it is really measurable by his steady decrease in behavioral issues.Sam is facing some extremely tough hurdles in his little life. He is doing fine on the surface, but the problem he hasSam is facing some extremely tough hurdles in his little life. He is doing fine on the surface, but the problem he haswith communication and maintaining social relationships is very sad. He is not bullied or anything like that but hewith communication and maintaining social relationships is very sad. He is not bullied or anything like that but hewill not participate in any schoolyard games. He will not play with 'balls' ever since that first weekend that youwill not participate in any schoolyard games. He will not play with 'balls' ever since that first weekend that youbrought them to football against your will, you told him something that day, and then you showed him by keepingbrought them to football against your will, you told him something that day, and then you showed him by keepingyour back to the game. your back to the game. Maybe you have the power to undo whatever you did that day, we won't know because you won't try. I get it you areMaybe you have the power to undo whatever you did that day, we won't know because you won't try. I get it you aretoo overwhelmed with your own problems. so, go get the help you need, fix yourself and when you have somethingtoo overwhelmed with your own problems. so, go get the help you need, fix yourself and when you have somethingpositive to give them, bring it.positive to give them, bring it.

Until then don't waste my time with e-mails written by a third party.Until then don't waste my time with e-mails written by a third party.

On Sat, 12/03/11 at 8:15 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: VisitationMessage:reply to your statements per paragraph.

1stwhen I reply to your e-mail that is what is stated by the web site.


2ndI hate going back to court but at this time I can't think of no other options. You are not allowing me my court ordered visitation and you have not refinanced thehouse in your name.

3rdno reply and no I will not drive them any where.

4thI do not do what you accuse me of doing. That is something you do but say that I'm doing it.

5ththat is simply a lie. I had no communications with my sons other then the day that you had theodore call me that you told them that they would never be able tocome see me again.

6th I simply can't respond to your lies.

7thto many issues to respond too.

On Fri, 12/02/11 at 7:45 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: VisitationMessage:

Dan,

When you sent the e-mail on the 16th, (a wednesday) and you asked to see the boys at school the next day, that was a good step in the right direction, theproblem was that you sent that e-mail under the heading of "re: this weekend".

The re: this weekend e-mail was an entirely different subject, it was my response to some threats about court etc., so ofcourse it was not something that I wasin a hurry to read or deal with again, I expected the same nonsense.Don't you think it would make sense to send an e-mail about visiting the boys at school on weekday with a subject header that gives a clue to the person youare sending it to?Since I thought that e-mail was about the weekend, I didn't read it until friday, which was obviously too late for thursday.

If you decide to attempt another communication with me that will lead to us making an arrangement for the boys to see you after school, at their school, andyou will not be driving them anywhere, and I will not be tricked into driving to your house to pick them up, or the 711 by your house, etc.I really think they would love to see you.

I do have to tell you that if we do work this type of arrangement out, if you use the time with them to lie to them, make them feel sorry for you, or mess withtheir heads in any of the ways that you routinely have, it will be the last time until I can have you evaluated by a qualified professional.

Hopefully you are in touch with reality enough to understand when you are flat out asking them to lie, like about you driving them around in your van, etc.Another example of how you twist their head psychologically, telling them that I won't let you see them because I will not drive over to your house to bringthem there.Telling them that you want to give them back their toys but mom won't let you give it to them because I will not drive over to your house. Telling them thatthere is NO way for you to come get them or give them back their toys, that you really want to but their mom won't let you.

Dan, if you ever cared about your sons keeping their dog since you left that house in 2008, you could have done what a normal parent would do to make thathappen, like I did for all that time. Supporting the children and the dog (who eats at Least 75.00 a month) you would have paid the child support you wereordered to, you would not have spent every minute of your time trying to force me to lose the house where they could have a dog, their dog.Then at the 11th hour, the last minute, literally! You tell the Theo to tell me to bring the dog over to you. That is so cheap and idiotic on so many levels I can'teven go there.You have Theo on the phone with me crying why won't you let Dad have the dog?That was abusive! That was not fair to Theo or Sam. Like I would really just drop off a 100 lb dog to your tiny little apartment and expect that all would befine, because a 9 year old boy said it's cool?Funny, I'm supposed to be thinking that you can't pay 75.00 a month to clothe or feed your children, or did you forget that whole set of lies. Do you mean to tell me that the four years that you have not contributed to their support financially and were taking, (still) active measures to try to make melose the house, taking me to court, begging them to force the foreclosure, all of those counter measures and yet somehow you didn't want them to lose the dog?Truth is you never cared about where the children would live if they had no house, you certainly did not care where the dog would live, but when they weresad and vulnerable, crushed at the change and the loss, you took advantage of that to try to make them think that bad mom was against poor dad again. That is reprehensible behavior, you completely disgust me.But guess what? My sons don't have to worry about that. Sam is working on a project for school, I picked out 5 pictures of you and him, so he could see andtalk about fun things that his dad did for him,the disney boat, etc.It's not about you, it's him that I want to him to feel like he has a dad that is strong and loves him. That why I have to keep him protected from whomever it isthat you've become.Like I said before I truly truly regret that I gave you as many chances to act out with them in the middle. I should have stopped your abuse long before this.


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35 of 24312/04/2011 9:58 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/04/2011 6:57 PM)RE: Visitation

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On Sat, 12/03/11 at 8:15 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: VisitationMessage:reply to your statements per paragraph.

1stwhen I reply to your e-mail that is what is stated by the web site.

2ndI hate going back to court but at this time I can't think of no other options. You are not allowing me my court ordered visitation and you have not refinanced thehouse in your name.

3rdno reply and no I will not drive them any where.

4thI do not do what you accuse me of doing. That is something you do but say that I'm doing it.

5ththat is simply a lie. I had no communications with my sons other then the day that you had theodore call me that you told them that they would never be able tocome see me again.

6th I simply can't respond to your lies.

7thto many issues to respond too.

On Fri, 12/02/11 at 7:45 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: VisitationMessage:

Dan,

When you sent the e-mail on the 16th, (a wednesday) and you asked to see the boys at school the next day, that was a good step in the right direction, theproblem was that you sent that e-mail under the heading of "re: this weekend".

The re: this weekend e-mail was an entirely different subject, it was my response to some threats about court etc., so ofcourse it was not something that I wasin a hurry to read or deal with again, I expected the same nonsense.Don't you think it would make sense to send an e-mail about visiting the boys at school on weekday with a subject header that gives a clue to the person youare sending it to?Since I thought that e-mail was about the weekend, I didn't read it until friday, which was obviously too late for thursday.

If you decide to attempt another communication with me that will lead to us making an arrangement for the boys to see you after school, at their school, andyou will not be driving them anywhere, and I will not be tricked into driving to your house to pick them up, or the 711 by your house, etc.I really think they would love to see you.

I do have to tell you that if we do work this type of arrangement out, if you use the time with them to lie to them, make them feel sorry for you, or mess withtheir heads in any of the ways that you routinely have, it will be the last time until I can have you evaluated by a qualified professional.

Hopefully you are in touch with reality enough to understand when you are flat out asking them to lie, like about you driving them around in your van, etc.Another example of how you twist their head psychologically, telling them that I won't let you see them because I will not drive over to your house to bringthem there.Telling them that you want to give them back their toys but mom won't let you give it to them because I will not drive over to your house. Telling them thatthere is NO way for you to come get them or give them back their toys, that you really want to but their mom won't let you.


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there is NO way for you to come get them or give them back their toys, that you really want to but their mom won't let you.

Dan, if you ever cared about your sons keeping their dog since you left that house in 2008, you could have done what a normal parent would do to make thathappen, like I did for all that time. Supporting the children and the dog (who eats at Least 75.00 a month) you would have paid the child support you wereordered to, you would not have spent every minute of your time trying to force me to lose the house where they could have a dog, their dog.Then at the 11th hour, the last minute, literally! You tell the Theo to tell me to bring the dog over to you. That is so cheap and idiotic on so many levels I can'teven go there.You have Theo on the phone with me crying why won't you let Dad have the dog?That was abusive! That was not fair to Theo or Sam. Like I would really just drop off a 100 lb dog to your tiny little apartment and expect that all would befine, because a 9 year old boy said it's cool?Funny, I'm supposed to be thinking that you can't pay 75.00 a month to clothe or feed your children, or did you forget that whole set of lies. Do you mean to tell me that the four years that you have not contributed to their support financially and were taking, (still) active measures to try to make melose the house, taking me to court, begging them to force the foreclosure, all of those counter measures and yet somehow you didn't want them to lose the dog?Truth is you never cared about where the children would live if they had no house, you certainly did not care where the dog would live, but when they weresad and vulnerable, crushed at the change and the loss, you took advantage of that to try to make them think that bad mom was against poor dad again. That is reprehensible behavior, you completely disgust me.But guess what? My sons don't have to worry about that. Sam is working on a project for school, I picked out 5 pictures of you and him, so he could see andtalk about fun things that his dad did for him,the disney boat, etc.It's not about you, it's him that I want to him to feel like he has a dad that is strong and loves him. That why I have to keep him protected from whomever it isthat you've become.Like I said before I truly truly regret that I gave you as many chances to act out with them in the middle. I should have stopped your abuse long before this.

36 of 24312/02/2011 7:45 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/03/2011 7:38 AM)Visitation

Dan,Dan,

When you sent the e-mail on the 16th, (a wednesday) and you asked to see the boys at school the next day, that was aWhen you sent the e-mail on the 16th, (a wednesday) and you asked to see the boys at school the next day, that was agood step in the right direction, the problem was that you sent that e-mail under the heading of "re: this weekend".good step in the right direction, the problem was that you sent that e-mail under the heading of "re: this weekend".

The re: this weekend e-mail was an entirely different subject, it was my response to some threats about court etc., soThe re: this weekend e-mail was an entirely different subject, it was my response to some threats about court etc., soofcourse it was not something that I was in a hurry to read or deal with again, I expected the same nonsense.ofcourse it was not something that I was in a hurry to read or deal with again, I expected the same nonsense.Don't you think it would make sense to send an e-mail about visiting the boys at school on weekday with a subjectDon't you think it would make sense to send an e-mail about visiting the boys at school on weekday with a subjectheader that gives a clue to the person you are sending it to?header that gives a clue to the person you are sending it to?Since I thought that e-mail was about the weekend, I didn't read it until friday, which was obviously too late forSince I thought that e-mail was about the weekend, I didn't read it until friday, which was obviously too late forthursday.thursday.

If you decide to attempt another communication with me that will lead to us making an arrangement for the boys toIf you decide to attempt another communication with me that will lead to us making an arrangement for the boys tosee you after school, at their school, and you will not be driving them anywhere, and I will not be tricked intosee you after school, at their school, and you will not be driving them anywhere, and I will not be tricked intodriving to your house to pick them up, or the 711 by your house, etc.driving to your house to pick them up, or the 711 by your house, etc.I really think they would love to see you.I really think they would love to see you.

I do have to tell you that if we do work this type of arrangement out, if you use the time with them to lie to them,I do have to tell you that if we do work this type of arrangement out, if you use the time with them to lie to them,make them feel sorry for you, or mess with their heads in any of the ways that you routinely have, it will be the lastmake them feel sorry for you, or mess with their heads in any of the ways that you routinely have, it will be the lasttime until I can have you evaluated by a qualified professional.time until I can have you evaluated by a qualified professional.

Hopefully you are in touch with reality enough to understand when you are flat out asking them to lie, like about youHopefully you are in touch with reality enough to understand when you are flat out asking them to lie, like about youdriving them around in your van, etc.driving them around in your van, etc.Another example of how you twist their head psychologically, telling them that I won't let you see them because IAnother example of how you twist their head psychologically, telling them that I won't let you see them because Iwill not drive over to your house to bring them there.will not drive over to your house to bring them there.Telling them that you want to give them back their toys but mom won't let you give it to them because I will notTelling them that you want to give them back their toys but mom won't let you give it to them because I will notdrive over to your house. Telling them that there is NO way for you to come get them or give them back their toys,drive over to your house. Telling them that there is NO way for you to come get them or give them back their toys,that you really want to but their mom won't let you.that you really want to but their mom won't let you.

Dan, if you ever cared about your sons keeping their dog since you left that house in 2008, you could have done whatDan, if you ever cared about your sons keeping their dog since you left that house in 2008, you could have done whata normal parent would do to make that happen, like I did for all that time. Supporting the children and the dog (whoa normal parent would do to make that happen, like I did for all that time. Supporting the children and the dog (whoeats at Least 75.00 a month) you would have paid the child support you were ordered to, you would not have spenteats at Least 75.00 a month) you would have paid the child support you were ordered to, you would not have spentevery minute of your time trying to force me to lose the house where they could have a dog, their dog.every minute of your time trying to force me to lose the house where they could have a dog, their dog.Then at the 11th hour, the last minute, literally! You tell the Theo to tell me to bring the dog over to you. That is soThen at the 11th hour, the last minute, literally! You tell the Theo to tell me to bring the dog over to you. That is socheap and idiotic on so many levels I can't even go there.cheap and idiotic on so many levels I can't even go there.You have Theo on the phone with me crying why won't you let Dad have the dog?You have Theo on the phone with me crying why won't you let Dad have the dog?


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You have Theo on the phone with me crying why won't you let Dad have the dog?You have Theo on the phone with me crying why won't you let Dad have the dog?That was abusive! That was not fair to Theo or Sam. Like I would really just drop off a 100 lb dog to your tiny littleThat was abusive! That was not fair to Theo or Sam. Like I would really just drop off a 100 lb dog to your tiny littleapartment and expect that all would be fine, because a 9 year old boy said it's cool?apartment and expect that all would be fine, because a 9 year old boy said it's cool?Funny, I'm supposed to be thinking that you can't pay 75.00 a month to clothe or feed your children, or did youFunny, I'm supposed to be thinking that you can't pay 75.00 a month to clothe or feed your children, or did youforget that whole set of lies. forget that whole set of lies. Do you mean to tell me that the four years that you have not contributed to their support financially and were taking,Do you mean to tell me that the four years that you have not contributed to their support financially and were taking,(still) active measures to try to make me lose the house, taking me to court, begging them to force the foreclosure, all(still) active measures to try to make me lose the house, taking me to court, begging them to force the foreclosure, allof those counter measures and yet somehow you didn't want them to lose the dog?of those counter measures and yet somehow you didn't want them to lose the dog?Truth is you never cared about where the children would live if they had no house, you certainly did not care whereTruth is you never cared about where the children would live if they had no house, you certainly did not care wherethe dog would live, but when they were sad and vulnerable, crushed at the change and the loss, you took advantage ofthe dog would live, but when they were sad and vulnerable, crushed at the change and the loss, you took advantage ofthat to try to make them think that bad mom was against poor dad again. that to try to make them think that bad mom was against poor dad again. That is reprehensible behavior, you completely disgust me.That is reprehensible behavior, you completely disgust me.But guess what? My sons don't have to worry about that. Sam is working on a project for school, I picked out 5But guess what? My sons don't have to worry about that. Sam is working on a project for school, I picked out 5pictures of you and him, so he could see and talk about fun things that his dad did for him,pictures of you and him, so he could see and talk about fun things that his dad did for him,the disney boat, etc.the disney boat, etc.It's not about you, it's him that I want to him to feel like he has a dad that is strong and loves him. That why I haveIt's not about you, it's him that I want to him to feel like he has a dad that is strong and loves him. That why I haveto keep him protected from whomever it is that you've become.to keep him protected from whomever it is that you've become.Like I said before I truly truly regret that I gave you as many chances to act out with them in the middle. I shouldLike I said before I truly truly regret that I gave you as many chances to act out with them in the middle. I shouldhave stopped your abuse long before this.have stopped your abuse long before this.

37 of 24311/16/2011 8:09 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/16/2011 5:54 PM)Address3112 S. Barrington Ave. #3293112 S. Barrington Ave. #329Los Angeles, Calif. 90066Los Angeles, Calif. 90066

38 of 24311/16/2011 8:07 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/16/2011 5:53 PM)RE: after school

Dan,Dan,

Why are you asking me what time they get out of school?Why are you asking me what time they get out of school?

I have written this entire after school visitation arrangement out for you several times.I have written this entire after school visitation arrangement out for you several times.

This e-mail you sent worries me.This e-mail you sent worries me.

You are so focused on threatening me that you are not functioning as a responsible parent in any capacity.You are so focused on threatening me that you are not functioning as a responsible parent in any capacity.

On Tue, 11/15/11 at 5:43 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: after schoolMessage:I want to see my sons. What time do they get out of school? and ahere do they live. what time do you want them back after school? this is not an agreement thatI except the fact that you took away my weekend visitation but I need to see my sons. I have every intention to file a contenpt of court for you refuseing toabide to the court ordered visitation.

39 of 24311/10/2011 11:10 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/11/2011 7:01 AM)RE: This weekend

I will be filing with the court to change custody just as soon as I get the chance to do so.I will be filing with the court to change custody just as soon as I get the chance to do so.

I cannot let you harm the children anymore. I tried to work something out with you that would avoid all theI cannot let you harm the children anymore. I tried to work something out with you that would avoid all theproblems that you have with the visitation and a way for you to actually have some positive interaction with yourproblems that you have with the visitation and a way for you to actually have some positive interaction with your


problems that you have with the visitation and a way for you to actually have some positive interaction with yourproblems that you have with the visitation and a way for you to actually have some positive interaction with yoursons. But the truth is that you do not really care to see them, you only want to get your way.sons. But the truth is that you do not really care to see them, you only want to get your way.

Since you feel that you are in a position to make demands of me, here's a few that I have for you:Since you feel that you are in a position to make demands of me, here's a few that I have for you:

I demand that you comply with the current court ordered child support and the arrears that have been accruing forI demand that you comply with the current court ordered child support and the arrears that have been accruing forover three years.over three years.

I demand that you pay the $1000.00 you were ordered by the court to pay me for sanctions.I demand that you pay the $1000.00 you were ordered by the court to pay me for sanctions.

I demand that you comply with the court orders to pay me for the Disney Time Shares.I demand that you comply with the court orders to pay me for the Disney Time Shares.

I demand that you stop interfering and changing the address on the bank of america home loan.I demand that you stop interfering and changing the address on the bank of america home loan.

I demand that you turn over the $450 refund check you obtained from Bank of America from the over payment that II demand that you turn over the $450 refund check you obtained from Bank of America from the over payment that Imade in August. (that is theft! you know That is a refund directly from the money I paid them)made in August. (that is theft! you know That is a refund directly from the money I paid them)

I demand that you stop your ridiculous transparent pretending that you are worried about your credit, you have beenI demand that you stop your ridiculous transparent pretending that you are worried about your credit, you have beenin default of of all your credit cards, you let your car get repossessed, you are in collections with the city, with stockin default of of all your credit cards, you let your car get repossessed, you are in collections with the city, with stocklumber, with your Dentist, Dr.s, state franchise board, etc. There is not one entity that you had dealings with thelumber, with your Dentist, Dr.s, state franchise board, etc. There is not one entity that you had dealings with thewhole time that I knew you that is not suing you...whole time that I knew you that is not suing you...So when we end up in court as I am obtaining an injunction against you for your insane interference and I present allSo when we end up in court as I am obtaining an injunction against you for your insane interference and I present allthe evidence of your "credit" and how much you really do not care about it you will again be exposed for the liar andthe evidence of your "credit" and how much you really do not care about it you will again be exposed for the liar anddeadbeat that you really are.deadbeat that you really are.

On Thu, 11/10/11 at 6:14 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: This weekendMessage:NO I simply do not agree with this. You want me to give up my weekends, 1st 2nd and 4th weekends that begin at 6:30 friday and end at 6;30 sunday inexchange for few hrs after school. That is simply unexceptible. I demand that you comply with the current court ordered visitation. I you feel that there is somereason to change the current visitation schedule then you must address it with the court first. Please do not force me to take you back to court.

On Thu, 10/27/11 at 10:39 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: This weekendMessage:

I have asked you before not to cut and paste my emails into your reply, it gets confusing.

I consider your answers a deliberate refusal to communicate. Because, you answered a question c) with an unrelated question, and you gave a one wordanswers when history proves that questions were asked because they are important and the subjects desperately need clarification by you.

The answers to the other questions I asked in that email, were not much better.

I cannot take on more stress just so you can see the kids. I am done chasing after you to give me back their things, or being forced to figure out how to come up with time and money to buy replacements of what youlost, misplaced or just kept out of spite, four years of; shoes, backpacks, jackets, costumes, uniforms, books, toys, medications...... (In addition to that stress, when you do not follow through with sports or school related things I am left to deal with their disappointment.)

If this is the extent to which you are willing to co-parent/communicate the boys then you will have to see them at a different time.

We could make arrangements for you to hang out with them after school on a monday, tuesday, wednesday or thursday. Alot of Kids play at the school after school now, the school is keeping everything open and encouraging kids to stay, our boys have been having fun theresometimes. Theo has even been trying to play basketball.... he also plays handball.... alot of dads are there after school, Theo's best friend Dyami's Dad is there lettingDyami play several days a week. I think that with some encouragement from you Samuel would play handball and I think he would love it if he would just try it. It is right up his alley, hitting that big soft rubber ball against the backboard again and again, it is a tailor made sport for him, he just has to be encouraged theright way to try it.

If you met them at 2:30, (1:30 on Tuesday) everything is there within walking distance, alot of friends and games at the school yard, Mar Vista Park aroundthe corner, food places and groceries on National or Palms, and our new place is much closer to the school, just south of Barrington and National.If you wanted to have dinner with them you could have them back to me at 6:30 or so and I would do homework then, or you could end the visit earlier and Iwould feed them dinner.


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40 of 24310/27/2011 10:39 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/27/2011 8:23 PM)This weekend

I have asked you before not to cut and paste my emails into your reply, it gets confusing.I have asked you before not to cut and paste my emails into your reply, it gets confusing.

I consider your answers a deliberate refusal to communicate. Because, you answered a question c) with an unrelatedI consider your answers a deliberate refusal to communicate. Because, you answered a question c) with an unrelatedquestion, and you gave a one word answers when history proves that questions were asked because they are importantquestion, and you gave a one word answers when history proves that questions were asked because they are importantand the subjects desperately need clarification by you.and the subjects desperately need clarification by you.

The answers to the other questions I asked in that email, were not much better.The answers to the other questions I asked in that email, were not much better.

I cannot take on more stress just so you can see the kids. I cannot take on more stress just so you can see the kids. I am done chasing after you to give me back their things, or being forced to figure out how to come up with time andI am done chasing after you to give me back their things, or being forced to figure out how to come up with time andmoney to buy replacements of what you lost, misplaced or just kept out of spite, four years of; shoes, backpacks,money to buy replacements of what you lost, misplaced or just kept out of spite, four years of; shoes, backpacks,jackets, costumes, uniforms, books, toys, medications...... jackets, costumes, uniforms, books, toys, medications...... (In addition to that stress, when you do not follow through with sports or school related things I am left to deal with(In addition to that stress, when you do not follow through with sports or school related things I am left to deal withtheir disappointment.)their disappointment.)

If this is the extent to which you are willing to co-parent/communicate the boys then you will have to see them at aIf this is the extent to which you are willing to co-parent/communicate the boys then you will have to see them at adifferent time.different time.

We could make arrangements for you to hang out with them after school on a monday, tuesday, wednesday orWe could make arrangements for you to hang out with them after school on a monday, tuesday, wednesday orthursday. thursday. Alot of Kids play at the school after school now, the school is keeping everything open and encouraging kids to stay,Alot of Kids play at the school after school now, the school is keeping everything open and encouraging kids to stay,our boys have been having fun there sometimes. our boys have been having fun there sometimes. Theo has even been trying to play basketball.... he also plays handball.... alot of dads are there after school, Theo'sTheo has even been trying to play basketball.... he also plays handball.... alot of dads are there after school, Theo'sbest friend Dyami's Dad is there letting Dyami play several days a week. best friend Dyami's Dad is there letting Dyami play several days a week. I think that with some encouragement from you Samuel would play handball and I think he would love it if he wouldI think that with some encouragement from you Samuel would play handball and I think he would love it if he wouldjust try it. just try it. It is right up his alley, hitting that big soft rubber ball against the backboard again and again, it is a tailor made sportIt is right up his alley, hitting that big soft rubber ball against the backboard again and again, it is a tailor made sportfor him, he just has to be encouraged the right way to try it. for him, he just has to be encouraged the right way to try it.

If you met them at 2:30, (1:30 on Tuesday) everything is there within walking distance, alot of friends and games atIf you met them at 2:30, (1:30 on Tuesday) everything is there within walking distance, alot of friends and games atthe school yard, Mar Vista Park around the corner, food places and groceries on National or Palms, and our newthe school yard, Mar Vista Park around the corner, food places and groceries on National or Palms, and our newplace is much closer to the school, just south of Barrington and National.place is much closer to the school, just south of Barrington and National.If you wanted to have dinner with them you could have them back to me at 6:30 or so and I would do homeworkIf you wanted to have dinner with them you could have them back to me at 6:30 or so and I would do homeworkthen, or you could end the visit earlier and I would feed them dinner.then, or you could end the visit earlier and I would feed them dinner.

Let me know if you want to coordinate that.Let me know if you want to coordinate that.

41 of 24310/26/2011 7:25 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/27/2011 4:38 AM)This weekend

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b) will you have money to buy tickets for the booths and games at the Big Boo festival?b) will you have money to buy tickets for the booths and games at the Big Boo festival?

c) will you agree in writing (in your own words) to keep track of, and return to me on Sunday, Theo's footballc) will you agree in writing (in your own words) to keep track of, and return to me on Sunday, Theo's footballuniform and cleats?uniform and cleats?

d) will you agree in writing(in your own words) to keep track of and return to me on Sunday, Theo and Sam'sd) will you agree in writing(in your own words) to keep track of and return to me on Sunday, Theo and Sam'sHalloween costumes that they want to wear to the Big Boo?Halloween costumes that they want to wear to the Big Boo?

42 of 24310/23/2011 1:43 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/23/2011 1:55 PM)Communication

Visitation will comply with our court orders or not at all.Visitation will comply with our court orders or not at all.

In addition to that if I cannot communicate with you about things that the children need or activities that they haveIn addition to that if I cannot communicate with you about things that the children need or activities that they havescheduled during your visitation time, then I have no choice but to take care of it myself. scheduled during your visitation time, then I have no choice but to take care of it myself. If you cannot work with me, for the children, I am going to try not to let you work against them and against theIf you cannot work with me, for the children, I am going to try not to let you work against them and against thework I do for them.work I do for them.

You seem to use your efforts to make MY life harder and more stressful, which in turn trickles down to the childrenYou seem to use your efforts to make MY life harder and more stressful, which in turn trickles down to the childrenand leaves them only with a stressed Mom and a Dad that is doing nothing for them or their life, except for hisand leaves them only with a stressed Mom and a Dad that is doing nothing for them or their life, except for hiscontinuous efforts against their mother. It's quite a vicious cycle and it hurts them.continuous efforts against their mother. It's quite a vicious cycle and it hurts them.

I cannot make you stop all of the things that you are engaged in against me, and I cannot make you act like aI cannot make you stop all of the things that you are engaged in against me, and I cannot make you act like aresponsible father that cares about his kids.responsible father that cares about his kids.

I can only do my best to disengage and stop responding to nonsense.I can only do my best to disengage and stop responding to nonsense.

When I get a chance I will be asking the court for evaluations of you and your capacity to care for the boys. When I get a chance I will be asking the court for evaluations of you and your capacity to care for the boys.

Sadly the last two times I borrowed $5000.00 and paid Lawyers to get that going, you managed to use up all of mySadly the last two times I borrowed $5000.00 and paid Lawyers to get that going, you managed to use up all of myretainers by serving the Atty.s with nonsense papers and requests they had to answer.retainers by serving the Atty.s with nonsense papers and requests they had to answer.

Sadly the Court does not seem to care about your harassment of me and the wasting of my resources. Sadly the Court does not seem to care about your harassment of me and the wasting of my resources.

So until I can request a change in the court orders to reflect a more reasonable situation for the boys that will protectSo until I can request a change in the court orders to reflect a more reasonable situation for the boys that will protectthem from your instability, I have to ignore you when you are not acting like a reasonable parent.them from your instability, I have to ignore you when you are not acting like a reasonable parent.

43 of 24310/17/2011 8:08 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/21/2011 4:23 PM)ClarifyWhat does "I will bring it" mean?What does "I will bring it" mean?

It is very difficult to understand what you are saying, particularly that last e-mail which clearly illustrated not onlyIt is very difficult to understand what you are saying, particularly that last e-mail which clearly illustrated not onlyyour inability to get a point across but also your uncanny skill of opposite interpretation.your inability to get a point across but also your uncanny skill of opposite interpretation.

You said that I reassured you I would be at your house before 7, and you attached several e-mails in which The veryYou said that I reassured you I would be at your house before 7, and you attached several e-mails in which The veryfirst thing I said was, I Will NOT be at your house before 7. first thing I said was, I Will NOT be at your house before 7.

There is not one single solitary possible way that anyone could have interpreted anything I said to mean that youThere is not one single solitary possible way that anyone could have interpreted anything I said to mean that youshould have or could have thought I would come over to your house for any reason, including picking up theshould have or could have thought I would come over to your house for any reason, including picking up thechildren.children.


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There is no question in my mind or in the minds of the three therapist's, and the two school teachers that I spoke toThere is no question in my mind or in the minds of the three therapist's, and the two school teachers that I spoke toon the monday, right after you screamed "FUCK YOU" to me in front of the children, that I would never go to youron the monday, right after you screamed "FUCK YOU" to me in front of the children, that I would never go to yourhouse again, no matter how you try to manipulate me over your lack of transportation.house again, no matter how you try to manipulate me over your lack of transportation.

The minute you screamed at me in front of the boys that monday morning (after you lied about having court thatThe minute you screamed at me in front of the boys that monday morning (after you lied about having court thatday), I decided that I will never feel bad about your failure to facilitate father son relationships with our sons again. day), I decided that I will never feel bad about your failure to facilitate father son relationships with our sons again.

There was never any chance that I was coming to pick them up from your house, I did not say I was, nor did I sayThere was never any chance that I was coming to pick them up from your house, I did not say I was, nor did I sayanything else that would allow you to infer that I was coming to your house that thursday.anything else that would allow you to infer that I was coming to your house that thursday.

So back to the question at hand;So back to the question at hand;You said in your email, "I will bring it", You said in your email, "I will bring it", What will you bring?What will you bring?What is "it"?What is "it"?Where will you bring this "it" you refer to?Where will you bring this "it" you refer to?

44 of 24310/17/2011 7:25 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/17/2011 7:30 PM)re: communicationI am instituting a new policy with my communications with you because I have to figure out a way to reduce theI am instituting a new policy with my communications with you because I have to figure out a way to reduce thefrustration caused by it.frustration caused by it.

Here is how I am going to do it; I will not move on to a new subject until I have received an answer on the lastHere is how I am going to do it; I will not move on to a new subject until I have received an answer on the lastsubject I have asked you about.subject I have asked you about.

By answer I mean that the ACTUAL subject must be discussed, a reply to an e-mail that has nothing to do with theBy answer I mean that the ACTUAL subject must be discussed, a reply to an e-mail that has nothing to do with thequestion asked does not count.question asked does not count.

For instance, the last question on the table is when are you going to drop off the boy's DS game system's and 19For instance, the last question on the table is when are you going to drop off the boy's DS game system's and 19games?games?

I will not answer questions about anything else until this subject is addressed.I will not answer questions about anything else until this subject is addressed.

45 of 24310/17/2011 7:16 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/17/2011 7:18 PM)3rd request for the return of The boys ds's

You were asked to return their game systems that you kept at your house on the 7th, again on the 14th, today is theYou were asked to return their game systems that you kept at your house on the 7th, again on the 14th, today is the17th and I am asking you again to please drop off the boys DS game systems ASAP.17th and I am asking you again to please drop off the boys DS game systems ASAP.

You are in possession of over $500 worth of game systems and games that belong to your sons.You are in possession of over $500 worth of game systems and games that belong to your sons.

Please return them by leaving them with the person working at the front desk of their school, in a bag, with theirPlease return them by leaving them with the person working at the front desk of their school, in a bag, with theirnames on it.names on it.

It is very important for the boys to have incentive to do school work. It is very important for the boys to have incentive to do school work. The DS's were the main incentive that anyone has to get them to do school work, especially Samuel.The DS's were the main incentive that anyone has to get them to do school work, especially Samuel.

I told them that they were not allowed to take them to your house because you lose or keep everything they bring,I told them that they were not allowed to take them to your house because you lose or keep everything they bring,(including the last DS that Theo had), they begged me to trust them to bring the DS's home from your house. (including the last DS that Theo had), they begged me to trust them to bring the DS's home from your house. I made it clear to them that this is not their fault, they could not have forced you to let them have their stuff whenI made it clear to them that this is not their fault, they could not have forced you to let them have their stuff whenyou dropped them off. They understand that. It doesn't make it any easier for them to be without their favorite toy. you dropped them off. They understand that. It doesn't make it any easier for them to be without their favorite toy. I imagine it is very confusing to the boys that you are intentionally keeping their stuff from them.I imagine it is very confusing to the boys that you are intentionally keeping their stuff from them.


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46 of 24310/14/2011 7:02 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/14/2011 7:07 PM)Sam and Theo's Nintendo DSi game systems and gamesOn Friday October 7th you spoke to Theo on the phone several times, he was crying and begging you for their DSi's,On Friday October 7th you spoke to Theo on the phone several times, he was crying and begging you for their DSi's,the game systems and games that Gilbert and I bought for them for their birthdays, that you kept at your housethe game systems and games that Gilbert and I bought for them for their birthdays, that you kept at your houseinstead of letting them bring them back like they were supposed to do.instead of letting them bring them back like they were supposed to do.

I told you that I could arrange to have someone, I gave several options of who, to come over and pick them up, youI told you that I could arrange to have someone, I gave several options of who, to come over and pick them up, yourefused to give them to anyone.refused to give them to anyone.

You have had an entire week to drop them off to the boys at their school, you could have given them to me in courtYou have had an entire week to drop them off to the boys at their school, you could have given them to me in courtlast Tuesday, hell, you could have mailed them by now.last Tuesday, hell, you could have mailed them by now.

They have earned the privilege of enjoying their toys but you are withholding them for some unknown reason.They have earned the privilege of enjoying their toys but you are withholding them for some unknown reason.

I need to know how where and when you will return the DSi game systems, and 19 games in the case, that I boughtI need to know how where and when you will return the DSi game systems, and 19 games in the case, that I boughtand that belong to the boys...and that belong to the boys...

It is completely unacceptable for you to hold their belongings hostage.It is completely unacceptable for you to hold their belongings hostage.

47 of 24310/14/2011 6:47 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/14/2011 6:54 PM)VisitationThis is the 3rd weekend of the month. This is the 3rd weekend of the month.

So I will not deal with any more crazy calls or e-mails from you about it.So I will not deal with any more crazy calls or e-mails from you about it.

Last weekend was the 2nd weekend of the month and at 6:30 I had the boys in the car trying to meet with you to giveLast weekend was the 2nd weekend of the month and at 6:30 I had the boys in the car trying to meet with you to giveyou your scheduled visitation with them but you did not answer your phone or your texts, or your e-mails.you your scheduled visitation with them but you did not answer your phone or your texts, or your e-mails.

I will not subject the boys to this instability anymore.I will not subject the boys to this instability anymore.

I have bent over backwards and taken over far too much of your responsibility as far as facilitating the visitation. AsI have bent over backwards and taken over far too much of your responsibility as far as facilitating the visitation. Asusual my extra efforts never encourage you to attempt cooperation or co-parenting, it only backfires.usual my extra efforts never encourage you to attempt cooperation or co-parenting, it only backfires.

I will not answer any communication that is not on OFW, unless it is a true emergency, I will not bother to answerI will not answer any communication that is not on OFW, unless it is a true emergency, I will not bother to answerany communication that is not relevant to the business at hand.any communication that is not relevant to the business at hand.

Because of the fact that you abused my goodwill by screaming "FUCK YOU! I HAVE PLANS!" at me in front ofBecause of the fact that you abused my goodwill by screaming "FUCK YOU! I HAVE PLANS!" at me in front ofthe boys on October 3rd when I picked them up from you at your convenience because you said you do not have athe boys on October 3rd when I picked them up from you at your convenience because you said you do not have acar and you could not arrange transportation.car and you could not arrange transportation.I did not answer you or curse back at you, but you still sent me e-mails that week warning me against coming to yourI did not answer you or curse back at you, but you still sent me e-mails that week warning me against coming to yourhouse and bothering your roommate, (which I have never done)house and bothering your roommate, (which I have never done)

I am going to end this nonsense right here and now.I am going to end this nonsense right here and now.I will not meet you anywhere but LAPD Pacific Division, for any reason.I will not meet you anywhere but LAPD Pacific Division, for any reason.

48 of 24304/02/2011 12:26 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 04/02/2011 8:31 AM)RE: visitation


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You told me you were not picking the boys up this weekend.You told me you were not picking the boys up this weekend.

When the officer called me I was trying to be nice when I offered to let you see them tomorrow.When the officer called me I was trying to be nice when I offered to let you see them tomorrow.

But, being nice to you never works, does it?But, being nice to you never works, does it?

The boys are having a late night tonite, they will be sleeping in I am sure.The boys are having a late night tonite, they will be sleeping in I am sure.

I will meet you at the Pacific division for you to pick them up closer to noon.I will meet you at the Pacific division for you to pick them up closer to noon.

I will text you or have Theo or Sam call you tomorrow when they wake up.I will text you or have Theo or Sam call you tomorrow when they wake up.

On Fri, 04/01/11 at 10:53 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: visitationMessage:You did not bring the boys to the LAPD pacific division. I had the police officer to call you and you told him that you will bring them to me on saturday. bringthem to the 711 on pico and lincoln at 10:00 am on saturday morning.

49 of 24303/25/2011 12:58 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 03/25/2011 1:55 PM)RE: pick up

That will not work out.That will not work out.

Samuel is home sick today.Samuel is home sick today.

On Fri, 03/25/11 at 10:16 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: pick upMessage:can i get the boys from school today

50 of 24302/11/2011 5:56 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 03/07/2011 5:42 PM)Dan CooperI think it really may be an organic brain pathology that you should have checked out, could be a tumor or like I saidI think it really may be an organic brain pathology that you should have checked out, could be a tumor or like I saidalzheimers. Cat scan, MRI.alzheimers. Cat scan, MRI.The statements that come from you are so far from reality and you seem to believe them, when you say them withThe statements that come from you are so far from reality and you seem to believe them, when you say them withsuch conviction.such conviction.The Brain Tumor would also explain the irrational, impulsivity, and rageful behavior.The Brain Tumor would also explain the irrational, impulsivity, and rageful behavior.Seriously.Seriously.

51 of 24302/11/2011 5:36 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 03/07/2011 5:41 PM)RE: 2-11-2011

I have documentation that proves what a bizarre understatement you made (2 Times!!) of how many times you haveI have documentation that proves what a bizarre understatement you made (2 Times!!) of how many times you havegiven too little notice that you did not make arrangements to return the kids or NO notice at all for failing to bringgiven too little notice that you did not make arrangements to return the kids or NO notice at all for failing to bringthem or pick them up.them or pick them up.


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If you believe it has been two times, you may suffering symptoms of early onset Alzheimers. You really should getIf you believe it has been two times, you may suffering symptoms of early onset Alzheimers. You really should getthat checked out.that checked out.

On Fri, 02/11/11 at 8:46 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: 2-11-2011Message:I will have them at the pick up and drop off place on time. It was you that wanted the pick up and drop off the be at the pacific division from the S.M.department. witch is an equal distance for you to travel. In the last two years there has been only one or two times that I was unable to fulfill my visitation or Iwas late without notifying you properly. So please have the boys there on time.

On Thu, 02/10/11 at 9:08 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: 2-11-2011Message:

Because of everything you have been saying in your previous e-mails, I want to know if we can change the time for pick up and drop off to earlier, so the boysdon't have to be out on the bus while it's cold and dark.

I also need to know if you understand that if you pick them up you must have a plan for bringing them back.

Telling me at the last minute you can't get transportation to drop them off is in violation of the arrangement.

Expecting me to change locations for pick up and drop off because of your lack of planning is a violation.

I am not being a mean sociopath. I have more than my share to take care of, I do not have to take care of you anymore.

On Wed, 02/09/11 at 1:53 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: 2-11-2011Message:Please have the boys at the Pacific div at 6;30 pm on friday.

52 of 24302/10/2011 9:08 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/11/2011 8:32 AM)RE: 2-11-2011

Because of everything you have been saying in your previous e-mails, I want to know if we can change the time forBecause of everything you have been saying in your previous e-mails, I want to know if we can change the time forpick up and drop off to earlier, so the boys don't have to be out on the bus while it's cold and dark.pick up and drop off to earlier, so the boys don't have to be out on the bus while it's cold and dark.

I also need to know if you understand that if you pick them up you must have a plan for bringing them back.I also need to know if you understand that if you pick them up you must have a plan for bringing them back.

Telling me at the last minute you can't get transportation to drop them off is in violation of the arrangement. Telling me at the last minute you can't get transportation to drop them off is in violation of the arrangement.

Expecting me to change locations for pick up and drop off because of your lack of planning is a violation.Expecting me to change locations for pick up and drop off because of your lack of planning is a violation.

I am not being a mean sociopath. I am not being a mean sociopath. I have more than my share to take care of, I do not have to take care of you anymore.I have more than my share to take care of, I do not have to take care of you anymore.

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53 of 24302/10/2011 8:33 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/11/2011 8:31 AM)RE: This weekend 2/5/11

I wrote that message to you Friday night.I wrote that message to you Friday night.

If you would have picked them up Sat. morning and returned them late Sun. afternoon it does not seem as thoughIf you would have picked them up Sat. morning and returned them late Sun. afternoon it does not seem as thoughyou would be on the bus for your entire visitation.you would be on the bus for your entire visitation.

Why do you have NO problem getting rides to come pound on my door but you are on the bus when it comes to theWhy do you have NO problem getting rides to come pound on my door but you are on the bus when it comes to thekids?kids?

That makes no sense.That makes no sense.

On Sat, 02/05/11 at 7:15 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: This weekend 2/5/11Message:I want to visit my sons but by the time that I get them in the morning and then take them on the bus to my house we would have very little time together and wewould need to get back on the bus to go back to the Pacific division. the entire visitation would be spent on the bus. that would be very frustrating for the boysand myself. I was at the house on friday night after you refused to bring the boys to the pacific division as per the court ordered visitation.

On Fri, 02/04/11 at 10:08 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: This weekend 2/5/11Message:

If you would like to see the kids this weekend please let me know.

As I said if they are going to travel with you by bus it should be while it is light out.

I can bring them to the LAPD Pacific division any time in the morning.

I will also need your assurance that you have made plans to bring them home.

Just let me know if I need to pick them up at the LAPD pacific division before 6:30 PM.

54 of 24302/05/2011 1:05 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/05/2011 6:35 PM)Saturday 2/5/11

On Friday 2/4 at 11:30 AM, I reached out to you to open communication regarding this weekend visitation with theOn Friday 2/4 at 11:30 AM, I reached out to you to open communication regarding this weekend visitation with thechildren.children.I explained that I would not automatically just go to the police station with the children unless I heard from you first.I explained that I would not automatically just go to the police station with the children unless I heard from you first.I did not want to have a repeat of what happened on your last scheduled opportunity for visitation.I did not want to have a repeat of what happened on your last scheduled opportunity for visitation.You let the boys sit and wait for you, not only did you not answer that day, but the only thing I have heard from youYou let the boys sit and wait for you, not only did you not answer that day, but the only thing I have heard from yousince was your statement that "You could not care for them".since was your statement that "You could not care for them".I asked you to communicate with me, before I went there with them.I asked you to communicate with me, before I went there with them.

On Friday at 3:00 PM I reached out to you again to let you know that the 3 e-mails you sent did not answer myOn Friday at 3:00 PM I reached out to you again to let you know that the 3 e-mails you sent did not answer myinitial e-mail to you.initial e-mail to you.

What I heard back from you at 5:45 PM was that you completely ignored my concerns for the boys traveling by busWhat I heard back from you at 5:45 PM was that you completely ignored my concerns for the boys traveling by busat night, (it was very cold and Samuel has a broken ankle) you insulted me by name calling because you said that youat night, (it was very cold and Samuel has a broken ankle) you insulted me by name calling because you said that youwould be leaving your house at almost 6:00 PM and that it was my fault or my preference that the boys take twowould be leaving your house at almost 6:00 PM and that it was my fault or my preference that the boys take two


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would be leaving your house at almost 6:00 PM and that it was my fault or my preference that the boys take twowould be leaving your house at almost 6:00 PM and that it was my fault or my preference that the boys take twobuses at night.buses at night.

I do not think that you showing up and pounding on my door at 7:45 was taking the children into consideration at all.I do not think that you showing up and pounding on my door at 7:45 was taking the children into consideration at all.At 8:30 when you came with the Police they agreed with me, that the children should not be upset by this situation.At 8:30 when you came with the Police they agreed with me, that the children should not be upset by this situation.(interestingly enough the police told me at 8:30 you were not on the bus, you either drove or were driven to my(interestingly enough the police told me at 8:30 you were not on the bus, you either drove or were driven to myhouse)house)

I told you Friday, day and again at night that I will bring the children to be picked up by you Saturday during theI told you Friday, day and again at night that I will bring the children to be picked up by you Saturday during theday. (based on the info you gave me that you did not have transportation) I made it clear I would bring them today.day. (based on the info you gave me that you did not have transportation) I made it clear I would bring them today.

YOU NEVER TOLD ME THAT YOU HAD A RIDE TO GET THEM FRIDAY.YOU NEVER TOLD ME THAT YOU HAD A RIDE TO GET THEM FRIDAY.I DID NOT KNOW UNTIL IT WAS TOO LATE FRIDAY AND TOO MUCH OF A SCENE TO SUBJECT THEI DID NOT KNOW UNTIL IT WAS TOO LATE FRIDAY AND TOO MUCH OF A SCENE TO SUBJECT THEBOYS TO.BOYS TO.

YOU TOLD ME THAT YOU WERE ON THE BUS. YOU TOLD ME THAT SAMUEL AND THEODOREYOU TOLD ME THAT YOU WERE ON THE BUS. YOU TOLD ME THAT SAMUEL AND THEODOREWOULD HAVE TO TAKE TWO BUSES WITH YOU.WOULD HAVE TO TAKE TWO BUSES WITH YOU.

How could I know what is not communicated?How could I know what is not communicated?

You have not made any contact to accept my offer of bringing the boys today.You have not made any contact to accept my offer of bringing the boys today.

My cell phone is broken so until it is replaced, hopefully some time today, I can only get messages via OFW.My cell phone is broken so until it is replaced, hopefully some time today, I can only get messages via OFW.

55 of 24302/04/2011 10:08 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/05/2011 6:36 PM)This weekend 2/5/11

If you would like to see the kids this weekend please let me know.If you would like to see the kids this weekend please let me know.

As I said if they are going to travel with you by bus it should be while it is light out.As I said if they are going to travel with you by bus it should be while it is light out.

I can bring them to the LAPD Pacific division any time in the morning. I can bring them to the LAPD Pacific division any time in the morning.

I will also need your assurance that you have made plans to bring them home.I will also need your assurance that you have made plans to bring them home.

Just let me know if I need to pick them up at the LAPD pacific division before 6:30 PM.Just let me know if I need to pick them up at the LAPD pacific division before 6:30 PM.

56 of 24302/04/2011 6:03 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/04/2011 9:01 PM)RE: This Weekend 2/4/11

I just got finished with that exhausting e-mail and I said I do not want the boys on the bus at night.I just got finished with that exhausting e-mail and I said I do not want the boys on the bus at night.I will not bring them to you unless you can communicate a plan for bringing them back after the visit.I will not bring them to you unless you can communicate a plan for bringing them back after the visit.If your plan for to visitation or back from visitation is the bus then the time needs to be changed to earlier.If your plan for to visitation or back from visitation is the bus then the time needs to be changed to earlier.

Please do not start insulting and name calling. That is very antagonistic. Please do not start insulting and name calling. That is very antagonistic.

I have bent over backwards and extended every offer for you to see the boys, you never even answered. You neverI have bent over backwards and extended every offer for you to see the boys, you never even answered. You nevertried to see the boys for the last 5 weeks.tried to see the boys for the last 5 weeks.

You were too busy in court trying to make them lose the house they live in. You can get yourself downtown LA or toYou were too busy in court trying to make them lose the house they live in. You can get yourself downtown LA or toCalabasas at the drop of a hat, but you can't get across town to see your kids?Calabasas at the drop of a hat, but you can't get across town to see your kids?

By the way you have not had a drivers license or car insurance for 2 years, right?By the way you have not had a drivers license or car insurance for 2 years, right?

Why would it matter if your car runs?Why would it matter if your car runs?

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On Fri, 02/04/11 at 5:43 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: This Weekend 2/4/11Message:I don't have a running car right now so your intention is to make the boy's ride the bus all the way back at night because you are just a mean sociopath. oh yeahow is samuels foot. we will need to change busses. but if that is the only way that I can see my sons then so be it. I am leaving now.

On Fri, 02/04/11 at 5:32 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: This Weekend 2/4/11Message:1) I will only drop the children off to you at the police station.

The children need to be dropped back to me at the police station.

2) If you want to change the time of drop off or pick up, I am open to changing the time only so the children will not be outside when it's dark. Especially if itis cold like today.I will agree to change the place only if it is for you to see them for the day at a public park or something like that and only if you will be clear about the exactspot for pick up and drop off ahead of time.(I do not want to have to drive around searching like the time I picked them up at Penmar Park and you played games by not telling me where they were)

3) Part of being able to care for the children is being able to provide transportation to andfrom visits, if you are picking them up one day you must know whether or not you will be able to bring them back.

Your lack of planning transportation has caused problems. That is the reason that I had to pick up the children from your house on 12/5/10. It was pouring rainand you did not communicate with me until I had been waiting at the police station for 1/2 hour, then you had Samuel call me, you would not tell me where topick them up and a police officer had to call you to find out. That night I had to pick them up from your house at 8:00PM, in the pouring rain.I left my house topick them up at 6:00PM. It took me two hours of trying to get you to tell me where they were and where to pick them up. I never meant to go to your houseagain after all the problems there last april, the day you sent the children home without shoes.

Then on 12/5/10 when I went to your house because you did not arrange a ride and I did not want my kids in the rain, you sent Theodore out to my car in therain with no shoes on again!

That was obviously a manipulation to get me to your house so you try to start the same fight over losing the children's shoes.

4) I am glad to know you have food for them, but do you have the ability to provide transportation back to me after the visit?

5) If you are going to be taking the bus with them it should be earlier in the day, before it is cold and dark.

6) If you think it is exhausting reading my e-mails just imagine how exhausting it is trying to figure out what you mean when you say nothing.

7) Dan, Please stop trying to antagonize me.

On Fri, 02/04/11 at 3:18 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: This Weekend 2/4/11Message:PLease let me have my sons this weekend.

Please let me know if you will or will not bring them to the 711 on pico and lincoln?

I have food for them to eat so please bring my sons.

Please keep your response short because reading these long e-mails from you is frustrating and exhausting.

Please stop trying to antagonize me.

On Fri, 02/04/11 at 3:08 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: This Weekend 2/4/11Message:


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The way you have written 3 e-mails to me with the same subject line and some of the same info with some different info makes it impossible to read as onequestion or communication and answer as one communication about the same subject. It is just too confusing.

When attempting to show the court or the Atty. or you, the track of questions, conversations is impossible to follow.

That is why it took hours during the deposition you had with my attorney for you to make sense of one or two e-mails that you wrote. That was me paying foryour refusal to communicate reasonably yet again.

If you want to communicate with me about visitation this weekend you will have to do so in a way that I can figure out what you are talking about in one e-mail about one subject.

Then if you have reply to my answer about the subject, you will reply to that e-mail.

That way the new e-mail to me contains your original e-mail, my answer, your reply, if I have a reply to your reply, the e-mail I send you will have youroriginal e-mail, my answer, your reply, my reply to that... and so on.

It is basically a written form of a conversation between two people.

We were ordered to join Our Family Wizard because of the extreme difficulty or lack of communication. The entire purpose of OFW is that the court or attorneys can monitor communications to make sure they are appropriate.

I have been bending over backwards going along with the crazy way you have been sending e-mails, with cut and pastes from my emails into your e-mails andanswers that you put between the lines of the text I sent you and trying to get the point of what you are saying from numerous e-mails that all contradict eachother........ no one can figure them out, not even you.

After all my extra effort to communicate with you, you only give me more harassment. I will not spend any more time with these crazy all over the place e-mails.

Please decide what you are trying to communicate to me about your visitation with the children and formulate one e-mail that I can answer.

I have many concerns surrounding handing the children over to you for a weekend.

One of my many concerns is related to what happened two weeks ago when you left them waiting for you at the police station when you were supposed topick them up. You did not say one word to me, to them, you never addressed it in an e-mail, nothing! I wrote you an e-mail from the police station, I called your phone from the police station, I texted you while we were there waiting for an hour.The children knew why we were at the police station, they knew I was trying every way to get a hold of you. And they know that you did not show up andnever ever answered.Do you care or understand how difficult that is for them?

Another one of my concerns is the e-mail I received from you the following weekend when you said you could not take care of them.Well, the 1st issue with that is, you are unable to keep track of your weekends, (I have about a hundred e-mails and texts to prove that) and the 2nd issue is thatI am left to my own ideas about why you have said you cannot take care of them. I do not know if anything is different now for you to be able to care for them.You never responded to my offers to let you see them for a shorter time like during the day at the park or something if you could not have them for the wholeweekend.

If you refuse to communicate with me in a way that I can follow along in a reasonable fashion than I have no choice but to disregard your input and wait foryou to assume a reasonable state of mind.

57 of 24302/04/2011 5:32 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/04/2011 5:33 PM)RE: This Weekend 2/4/111) I will only drop the children off to you at the police station.1) I will only drop the children off to you at the police station.

The children need to be dropped back to me at the police station.The children need to be dropped back to me at the police station.

2) If you want to change the time of drop off or pick up, I am open to changing the time only so the children will not2) If you want to change the time of drop off or pick up, I am open to changing the time only so the children will notbe outside when it's dark. Especially if it is cold like today.be outside when it's dark. Especially if it is cold like today.I will agree to change the place only if it is for you to see them for the day at a public park or something like that andI will agree to change the place only if it is for you to see them for the day at a public park or something like that andonly if you will be clear about the exact spot for pick up and drop off ahead of time.only if you will be clear about the exact spot for pick up and drop off ahead of time.(I do not want to have to drive around searching like the time I picked them up at Penmar Park and you played(I do not want to have to drive around searching like the time I picked them up at Penmar Park and you playedgames by not telling me where they were)games by not telling me where they were)


games by not telling me where they were)games by not telling me where they were)

3) Part of being able to care for the children is being able to provide transportation to and3) Part of being able to care for the children is being able to provide transportation to andfrom visits, if you are picking them up one day you must know whether or not you will be able to bring them back.from visits, if you are picking them up one day you must know whether or not you will be able to bring them back.

Your lack of planning transportation has caused problems. That is the reason that I had to pick up the children fromYour lack of planning transportation has caused problems. That is the reason that I had to pick up the children fromyour house on 12/5/10. It was pouring rain and you did not communicate with me until I had been waiting at theyour house on 12/5/10. It was pouring rain and you did not communicate with me until I had been waiting at thepolice station for 1/2 hour, then you had Samuel call me, you would not tell me where to pick them up and a policepolice station for 1/2 hour, then you had Samuel call me, you would not tell me where to pick them up and a policeofficer had to call you to find out. That night I had to pick them up from your house at 8:00PM, in the pouring rain.Iofficer had to call you to find out. That night I had to pick them up from your house at 8:00PM, in the pouring rain.Ileft my house to pick them up at 6:00PM. It took me two hours of trying to get you to tell me where they were andleft my house to pick them up at 6:00PM. It took me two hours of trying to get you to tell me where they were andwhere to pick them up. I never meant to go to your house again after all the problems there last april, the day youwhere to pick them up. I never meant to go to your house again after all the problems there last april, the day yousent the children home without shoes. sent the children home without shoes.

Then on 12/5/10 when I went to your house because you did not arrange a ride and I did not want my kids in theThen on 12/5/10 when I went to your house because you did not arrange a ride and I did not want my kids in therain, you sent Theodore out to my car in the rain with no shoes on again!rain, you sent Theodore out to my car in the rain with no shoes on again!

That was obviously a manipulation to get me to your house so you try to start the same fight over losing theThat was obviously a manipulation to get me to your house so you try to start the same fight over losing thechildren's shoes.children's shoes.

4) I am glad to know you have food for them, but do you have the ability to provide transportation back to me after4) I am glad to know you have food for them, but do you have the ability to provide transportation back to me afterthe visit?the visit?

5) If you are going to be taking the bus with them it should be earlier in the day, before it is cold and dark.5) If you are going to be taking the bus with them it should be earlier in the day, before it is cold and dark.

6) If you think it is exhausting reading my e-mails just imagine how exhausting it is trying to figure out what you6) If you think it is exhausting reading my e-mails just imagine how exhausting it is trying to figure out what youmean when you say nothing.mean when you say nothing.

7) Dan, Please stop trying to antagonize me.7) Dan, Please stop trying to antagonize me.

On Fri, 02/04/11 at 3:18 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: This Weekend 2/4/11Message:PLease let me have my sons this weekend.

Please let me know if you will or will not bring them to the 711 on pico and lincoln?

I have food for them to eat so please bring my sons.

Please keep your response short because reading these long e-mails from you is frustrating and exhausting.

Please stop trying to antagonize me.

On Fri, 02/04/11 at 3:08 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: This Weekend 2/4/11Message:

Dan,

The way you have written 3 e-mails to me with the same subject line and some of the same info with some different info makes it impossible to read as onequestion or communication and answer as one communication about the same subject. It is just too confusing.

When attempting to show the court or the Atty. or you, the track of questions, conversations is impossible to follow.

That is why it took hours during the deposition you had with my attorney for you to make sense of one or two e-mails that you wrote. That was me paying foryour refusal to communicate reasonably yet again.

If you want to communicate with me about visitation this weekend you will have to do so in a way that I can figure out what you are talking about in one e-mail about one subject.

Then if you have reply to my answer about the subject, you will reply to that e-mail.

That way the new e-mail to me contains your original e-mail, my answer, your reply, if I have a reply to your reply, the e-mail I send you will have your


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That way the new e-mail to me contains your original e-mail, my answer, your reply, if I have a reply to your reply, the e-mail I send you will have youroriginal e-mail, my answer, your reply, my reply to that... and so on.

It is basically a written form of a conversation between two people.

We were ordered to join Our Family Wizard because of the extreme difficulty or lack of communication. The entire purpose of OFW is that the court or attorneys can monitor communications to make sure they are appropriate.

I have been bending over backwards going along with the crazy way you have been sending e-mails, with cut and pastes from my emails into your e-mails andanswers that you put between the lines of the text I sent you and trying to get the point of what you are saying from numerous e-mails that all contradict eachother........ no one can figure them out, not even you.

After all my extra effort to communicate with you, you only give me more harassment. I will not spend any more time with these crazy all over the place e-mails.

Please decide what you are trying to communicate to me about your visitation with the children and formulate one e-mail that I can answer.

I have many concerns surrounding handing the children over to you for a weekend.

One of my many concerns is related to what happened two weeks ago when you left them waiting for you at the police station when you were supposed topick them up. You did not say one word to me, to them, you never addressed it in an e-mail, nothing! I wrote you an e-mail from the police station, I called your phone from the police station, I texted you while we were there waiting for an hour.The children knew why we were at the police station, they knew I was trying every way to get a hold of you. And they know that you did not show up andnever ever answered.Do you care or understand how difficult that is for them?

Another one of my concerns is the e-mail I received from you the following weekend when you said you could not take care of them.Well, the 1st issue with that is, you are unable to keep track of your weekends, (I have about a hundred e-mails and texts to prove that) and the 2nd issue is thatI am left to my own ideas about why you have said you cannot take care of them. I do not know if anything is different now for you to be able to care for them.You never responded to my offers to let you see them for a shorter time like during the day at the park or something if you could not have them for the wholeweekend.

If you refuse to communicate with me in a way that I can follow along in a reasonable fashion than I have no choice but to disregard your input and wait foryou to assume a reasonable state of mind.

58 of 24302/04/2011 3:08 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/04/2011 3:11 PM)This Weekend 2/4/11

Dan,Dan,

The way you have written 3 e-mails to me with the same subject line and some of the same info with some differentThe way you have written 3 e-mails to me with the same subject line and some of the same info with some differentinfo makes it impossible to read as one question or communication and answer as one communication about the sameinfo makes it impossible to read as one question or communication and answer as one communication about the samesubject. It is just too confusing.subject. It is just too confusing.

When attempting to show the court or the Atty. or you, the track of questions, conversations is impossible to follow.When attempting to show the court or the Atty. or you, the track of questions, conversations is impossible to follow.

That is why it took hours during the deposition you had with my attorney for you to make sense of one or two e-That is why it took hours during the deposition you had with my attorney for you to make sense of one or two e-mails that you wrote. That was me paying for your refusal to communicate reasonably yet again.mails that you wrote. That was me paying for your refusal to communicate reasonably yet again.

If you want to communicate with me about visitation this weekend you will have to do so in a way that I can figureIf you want to communicate with me about visitation this weekend you will have to do so in a way that I can figureout what you are talking about in one e-mail about one subject.out what you are talking about in one e-mail about one subject.

Then if you have reply to my answer about the subject, you will reply to that e-mail. Then if you have reply to my answer about the subject, you will reply to that e-mail.

That way the new e-mail to me contains your original e-mail, my answer, your reply, if I have a reply to your reply,That way the new e-mail to me contains your original e-mail, my answer, your reply, if I have a reply to your reply,the e-mail I send you will have your original e-mail, my answer, your reply, my reply to that... and so on.the e-mail I send you will have your original e-mail, my answer, your reply, my reply to that... and so on.

It is basically a written form of a conversation between two people.It is basically a written form of a conversation between two people.

We were ordered to join Our Family Wizard because of the extreme difficulty or lack of communication. We were ordered to join Our Family Wizard because of the extreme difficulty or lack of communication. The entire purpose of OFW is that the court or attorneys can monitor communications to make sure they areThe entire purpose of OFW is that the court or attorneys can monitor communications to make sure they areappropriate.appropriate.


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appropriate.appropriate.

I have been bending over backwards going along with the crazy way you have been sending e-mails, with cut andI have been bending over backwards going along with the crazy way you have been sending e-mails, with cut andpastes from my emails into your e-mails and answers that you put between the lines of the text I sent you and tryingpastes from my emails into your e-mails and answers that you put between the lines of the text I sent you and tryingto get the point of what you are saying from numerous e-mails that all contradict each other........ no one can figureto get the point of what you are saying from numerous e-mails that all contradict each other........ no one can figurethem out, not even you. them out, not even you.

After all my extra effort to communicate with you, you only give me more harassment. After all my extra effort to communicate with you, you only give me more harassment. I will not spend any more time with these crazy all over the place e-mails.I will not spend any more time with these crazy all over the place e-mails.

Please decide what you are trying to communicate to me about your visitation with the children and formulate one e-Please decide what you are trying to communicate to me about your visitation with the children and formulate one e-mail that I can answer.mail that I can answer.

I have many concerns surrounding handing the children over to you for a weekend.I have many concerns surrounding handing the children over to you for a weekend.

One of my many concerns is related to what happened two weeks ago when you left them waiting for you at theOne of my many concerns is related to what happened two weeks ago when you left them waiting for you at thepolice station when you were supposed to pick them up. police station when you were supposed to pick them up. You did not say one word to me, to them, you never addressed it in an e-mail, nothing! You did not say one word to me, to them, you never addressed it in an e-mail, nothing! I wrote you an e-mail from the police station, I called your phone from the police station, I texted you while we wereI wrote you an e-mail from the police station, I called your phone from the police station, I texted you while we werethere waiting for an hour.there waiting for an hour.The children knew why we were at the police station, they knew I was trying every way to get a hold of you. AndThe children knew why we were at the police station, they knew I was trying every way to get a hold of you. Andthey know that you did not show up and never ever answered.they know that you did not show up and never ever answered.Do you care or understand how difficult that is for them?Do you care or understand how difficult that is for them?

Another one of my concerns is the e-mail I received from you the following weekend when you said you could notAnother one of my concerns is the e-mail I received from you the following weekend when you said you could nottake care of them.take care of them.Well, the 1st issue with that is, you are unable to keep track of your weekends, (I have about a hundred e-mails andWell, the 1st issue with that is, you are unable to keep track of your weekends, (I have about a hundred e-mails andtexts to prove that) and the 2nd issue is that I am left to my own ideas about why you have said you cannot take caretexts to prove that) and the 2nd issue is that I am left to my own ideas about why you have said you cannot take careof them. of them. I do not know if anything is different now for you to be able to care for them.I do not know if anything is different now for you to be able to care for them.You never responded to my offers to let you see them for a shorter time like during the day at the park or somethingYou never responded to my offers to let you see them for a shorter time like during the day at the park or somethingif you could not have them for the whole weekend. if you could not have them for the whole weekend.

If you refuse to communicate with me in a way that I can follow along in a reasonable fashion than I have no choiceIf you refuse to communicate with me in a way that I can follow along in a reasonable fashion than I have no choicebut to disregard your input and wait for you to assume a reasonable state of mind.but to disregard your input and wait for you to assume a reasonable state of mind.

59 of 24302/04/2011 7:45 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 02/04/2011 11:36 AM)this weekend

Because of the lack of communication from you about visitation in the month of January, I will not bring theBecause of the lack of communication from you about visitation in the month of January, I will not bring thechildren to LAPD Pacific Division tonight at 6:30 for pick up without sufficient communication from you.children to LAPD Pacific Division tonight at 6:30 for pick up without sufficient communication from you.I do not want to subject them to sitting in the police station Lobby, waiting, with zero communication from you as toI do not want to subject them to sitting in the police station Lobby, waiting, with zero communication from you as towhy they are not picked up by you.why they are not picked up by you.

60 of 24301/30/2011 11:53 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/30/2011 5:11 PM)RE: visitationYou had the kids on the 1st weekend of this month, January.You had the kids on the 1st weekend of this month, January.

On the 2nd weekend you cancelled by text at 5:52 PM Friday night.On the 2nd weekend you cancelled by text at 5:52 PM Friday night.

On the 3rd weekend you texted friday 4:07 PM that you could not get a ride to pick up the boys at Pac. Div at 6:30On the 3rd weekend you texted friday 4:07 PM that you could not get a ride to pick up the boys at Pac. Div at 6:30PM. (seems like plenty of time to arrange a ride to me...) PM. (seems like plenty of time to arrange a ride to me...) ,I texted you back that it wasn't your weekend. It was the 3rd weekend. ,I texted you back that it wasn't your weekend. It was the 3rd weekend.

You did not text or e-mail again, regarding visitation, even,You did not text or e-mail again, regarding visitation, even,On the 4th weekend when you just didn't show up and you never called or answered the e-mails and texts I sent whileOn the 4th weekend when you just didn't show up and you never called or answered the e-mails and texts I sent whilethe children and I waited for you at Pacific division for an hour.the children and I waited for you at Pacific division for an hour.


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On the 5th weekend, you sent an e-mail on Friday at 4:42 PM, which stated, On the 5th weekend, you sent an e-mail on Friday at 4:42 PM, which stated, "I can't get a ride to pick up kids and I have no means to care for them""I can't get a ride to pick up kids and I have no means to care for them"

I answered you back not to worry, it was not your weekend anyways, and I extended an offer to make arrangementsI answered you back not to worry, it was not your weekend anyways, and I extended an offer to make arrangementsfor you to see the children for a couple of hours at a park or something if you wanted to communicate about that. for you to see the children for a couple of hours at a park or something if you wanted to communicate about that.

I sent you that same offer a couple of weeks ago via e-mail because, as I said, you are having such a hard timeI sent you that same offer a couple of weeks ago via e-mail because, as I said, you are having such a hard timekeeping track of your weekends.keeping track of your weekends.

You never asked to see the boys, until 11:13 last night (Saturday night, 5th weekend) you sent the e-mail below andYou never asked to see the boys, until 11:13 last night (Saturday night, 5th weekend) you sent the e-mail below andthe e-mail following it, in which you ask to see them this Sunday. Asking to see the kids after 11:00 pm saturday forthe e-mail following it, in which you ask to see them this Sunday. Asking to see the kids after 11:00 pm saturday forsunday is short notice by any standard. sunday is short notice by any standard.

In the same e-mail you made the comment about your phone calls to me coming up as an issue in Court.In the same e-mail you made the comment about your phone calls to me coming up as an issue in Court.It disturbs me that you are referring to imaginary scenarios between me and you.It disturbs me that you are referring to imaginary scenarios between me and you.We have been in a courtroom together dozens of times but not once has it been about phone calls as you inferred inWe have been in a courtroom together dozens of times but not once has it been about phone calls as you inferred inyour e-mail.your e-mail.

In the e-mail below it seems as though you sat there at 11:00 PM on Saturday night of the 5th weekend, trying toIn the e-mail below it seems as though you sat there at 11:00 PM on Saturday night of the 5th weekend, trying tofigure out how I made a mistake about the number of weekends this month, which is also disturbing. figure out how I made a mistake about the number of weekends this month, which is also disturbing.

Because that means that, although you have not made any attempt to see the children this month, and you haveBecause that means that, although you have not made any attempt to see the children this month, and you havecancelled seeing them when it was your time, and when it wasn't your time (2 days ago you even cancelled thiscancelled seeing them when it was your time, and when it wasn't your time (2 days ago you even cancelled thisweekend). weekend). You then tried to figure out how it is somehow my fault, that I have done you wrong.You then tried to figure out how it is somehow my fault, that I have done you wrong.

That type of behavior is very common for addicts and alcoholics who are drinking and using drugs. It probablyThat type of behavior is very common for addicts and alcoholics who are drinking and using drugs. It probablyresembles other mental conditions related to instability that I am not familiar with. But, I am very familiar with theresembles other mental conditions related to instability that I am not familiar with. But, I am very familiar with thebehavior of addicts and alcoholics. behavior of addicts and alcoholics.

I am concerned about your inability to keep anything regarding the children straight, your schedule for visits, theirI am concerned about your inability to keep anything regarding the children straight, your schedule for visits, theirneeds, activities, meds, etc. I am also very concerned that you have not been making rational decisions about theneeds, activities, meds, etc. I am also very concerned that you have not been making rational decisions about thechildren's safety when they are with you.children's safety when they are with you.

You have been in and around the program of AA/NA for at least 18 years, if you need help, you know how to get it.You have been in and around the program of AA/NA for at least 18 years, if you need help, you know how to get it.I hope that you do.I hope that you do.

On Sat, 01/29/11 at 11:13 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: visitationMessage:I have looked at the vistation schedule in the court docs. it states I have 1st 2nd and 4th weekends, the first weekend would be when friday starts on or beforethe first day of the month, meaning if friday was the 30th and saturday was the 1st that would not be my weekend. unless the prior month there was only 4weekends.

61 of 24301/30/2011 12:33 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/30/2011 7:55 AM)RE: visitation

I do not know what the point of this is, you had the kids on the 1st weekend of this month and on the secondI do not know what the point of this is, you had the kids on the 1st weekend of this month and on the secondweekend you cancelled by text at 5:45pm, then on the 4th weekend you just didn't show up and you never called orweekend you cancelled by text at 5:45pm, then on the 4th weekend you just didn't show up and you never called oranswered the e-mail about it.answered the e-mail about it.So what is the point of this?So what is the point of this?Are you drunk?Are you drunk?

On Sat, 01/29/11 at 11:13 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: visitationMessage:I have looked at the vistation schedule in the court docs. it states I have 1st 2nd and 4th weekends, the first weekend would be when friday starts on or before


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I have looked at the vistation schedule in the court docs. it states I have 1st 2nd and 4th weekends, the first weekend would be when friday starts on or beforethe first day of the month, meaning if friday was the 30th and saturday was the 1st that would not be my weekend. unless the prior month there was only 4weekends.

62 of 24301/30/2011 12:28 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/30/2011 7:55 AM)RE: sunday

you must be mixing me up with a different woman who has been in court with you harrassing her, because I haveyou must be mixing me up with a different woman who has been in court with you harrassing her, because I havenever discussed you calling me in court. It has never been an issue for me with you.never discussed you calling me in court. It has never been an issue for me with you.

I'm sorry the boys have big plans on Sunday. I'm sorry the boys have big plans on Sunday.

Please let me know when you want to see them another time, by the way, I had Samuel call you twice this week, youPlease let me know when you want to see them another time, by the way, I had Samuel call you twice this week, youspoke to him... Remember?spoke to him... Remember?

On Sat, 01/29/11 at 11:01 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: sundayMessage:Can i visit with the boys this Sunday. Please have them call me. why cant you just have them call me. I don't want to talk to you and you don't want to talk tome. So if I see that there is a call coming from 310-391-3263 I will know it's the boys. That way you can not say in court again that I call to talk to you.

63 of 24301/28/2011 5:55 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/28/2011 6:43 PM)RE: this weekendIt's not your weekend anywaysIt's not your weekend anyways

like I said if you want to make arrangements to see them for a shorter amount of time than a whole weekend, let melike I said if you want to make arrangements to see them for a shorter amount of time than a whole weekend, let meknow.know.

I will work with you to see them at the park or beach or something like that for the afternoon......I will work with you to see them at the park or beach or something like that for the afternoon......

just communicatejust communicate

On Fri, 01/28/11 at 4:42 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: this weekendMessage:I cant get a ride to pick up the boys and I don't have the means to take care of them.

64 of 24301/26/2011 11:00 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/26/2011 11:01 AM)RE: Samuel

You never ever answer your phone when the call comes from my number.You never ever answer your phone when the call comes from my number.

Every time the boys have called you they have gotten your computerized message.Every time the boys have called you they have gotten your computerized message.

Samuel is in school today.Samuel is in school today.

On Wed, 01/26/11 at 8:47 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:


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On Wed, 01/26/11 at 8:47 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: SamuelMessage:I tried to call, the phone rang and then it was answered but nobody said a word, dead silent. Please have him call me. If you had them call me that would avoidalot of problems.1. Me calling when it's not a good time.2. To avoid false allegations regarding conversations between you and myself.

On Tue, 01/25/11 at 10:44 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: SamuelMessage:

Samuel jumped off play structure at the park and hurt his foot.

They said he hurt thew growth plate so they put a cast to immobilize it.

He is using a walker.

Please call him.

65 of 24301/25/2011 10:44 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/26/2011 8:37 AM)Samuel

Samuel jumped off play structure at the park and hurt his foot.Samuel jumped off play structure at the park and hurt his foot.

They said he hurt thew growth plate so they put a cast to immobilize it.They said he hurt thew growth plate so they put a cast to immobilize it.

He is using a walker.He is using a walker.

Please call him.Please call him.

66 of 24301/23/2011 11:07 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/23/2011 6:24 PM)boys visitation

On the weekend of January 7th you sent a text to me 30 minutes before drop off time that you would not take theOn the weekend of January 7th you sent a text to me 30 minutes before drop off time that you would not take theboys for your visit that weekend.boys for your visit that weekend.

On the weekend of January 14th you sent a text to me after 5:30 PM asking me if I would bring the boys to a 711On the weekend of January 14th you sent a text to me after 5:30 PM asking me if I would bring the boys to a 711because you could not make it to Pacific Division for pick up.because you could not make it to Pacific Division for pick up.I informed you it was not your weekend. I informed you it was not your weekend. You never contacted to me to change the time or ask to see them at any time.You never contacted to me to change the time or ask to see them at any time.

On January 21st I brought the boys to Pacific Division for the normally scheduled drop off for your weekend andOn January 21st I brought the boys to Pacific Division for the normally scheduled drop off for your weekend andyou never showed up, I texted you, no answer, I e-mailed, no answer, I phoned you and left message, no answer.you never showed up, I texted you, no answer, I e-mailed, no answer, I phoned you and left message, no answer.

The boys were confused, especially Samuel. They do not have the maturity to figure this out or the words to talkThe boys were confused, especially Samuel. They do not have the maturity to figure this out or the words to talkabout what they are feeling. about what they are feeling.

If you would communicate to me that you are not going to pick them up I can prepare them and tell them whateverIf you would communicate to me that you are not going to pick them up I can prepare them and tell them whateveryou want me to give them as a reason.you want me to give them as a reason.


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It is obvious that you are having a hard time keeping track of your schedule for visits.It is obvious that you are having a hard time keeping track of your schedule for visits.

If you cannot take them for the whole weekend but you want to see them for a few hours at a park or something IIf you cannot take them for the whole weekend but you want to see them for a few hours at a park or something Iwill work with you. will work with you.

Please communicate.Please communicate.

67 of 24301/21/2011 6:53 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/23/2011 6:23 PM)Visitation

we are waiting for you. You never told me you were not picking up boys this weekend. I will wait a little whilewe are waiting for you. You never told me you were not picking up boys this weekend. I will wait a little whilelonger.longer.

68 of 24301/03/2011 1:56 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/11/2011 8:49 AM)Samuel, Theodore medicine

Please explain why you refuse to give Samuel his zyrtec and inhaler.Please explain why you refuse to give Samuel his zyrtec and inhaler.

He is miserable with allergies.He is miserable with allergies.

I would also like to know why you decided to WEAN Theodore from his medicine? Did you consult his Dr?I would also like to know why you decided to WEAN Theodore from his medicine? Did you consult his Dr?

69 of 24301/03/2011 9:19 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/03/2011 9:21 AM)RE: boysok I will get them at 9:40ok I will get them at 9:40

On Mon, 01/03/11 at 9:03 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: boysMessage:please confirm

On Sun, 01/02/11 at 9:19 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: boysMessage:

Theodore has a Dr appt at 10:30 AM tomorrow please answer and let me know if I'm getting them tonite or tomorrow morning at 9:00

70 of 24301/02/2011 9:19 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/03/2011 8:59 AM)boys


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Theodore has a Dr appt at 10:30 AM tomorrow please answer and let me know if I'm getting them tonite orTheodore has a Dr appt at 10:30 AM tomorrow please answer and let me know if I'm getting them tonite ortomorrow morning at 9:00tomorrow morning at 9:00

71 of 24301/02/2011 6:11 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 01/03/2011 8:59 AM)RE: the boys

Tonight at 9:30, or tomorrow morning at 9:00. Tonight at 9:30, or tomorrow morning at 9:00.

Please text me to let me know when you have answered this.Please text me to let me know when you have answered this.

On Sat, 01/01/11 at 1:16 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: the boysMessage:when do you want the boys back?

On Fri, 12/24/10 at 1:10 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: the boysMessage:

Last christmas you had the boys for the first week of vacation and christmas eve, I received them home christmas day.This year we are doing the opposite.We have to decide what time you are meeting me to pick them up christmas day at LAPD pac. div.

Both boys have a third week of vacation this year.

So I have them the first week you have the second, we split the third.

I will get them back from you on saturday Jan. 1st. (unless you have plans to go out on Fri. Dec. 31st, new years eve, in which case I can take them friday)

Then you can have them back for the second half of the week like, wed. dec. 5th. through to weekend, I think they should come home a little early on theSunday 9th, since they need to start school the next day and it will be a tough transition for them.

On Fri, 12/24/10 at 10:39 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: the boysMessage:why are you not answering about my being able to see my sons this christmas. please let me know when I can see my sons.

72 of 24312/30/2010 1:48 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/30/2010 1:50 PM)Kids

You never answered about when I'm picking up kids.You never answered about when I'm picking up kids.


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73 of 24312/25/2010 1:44 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/25/2010 3:23 PM)RE: christmas day

Yes. 6:00 at Pac DivYes. 6:00 at Pac Div

On Sat, 12/25/10 at 12:46 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: christmas dayMessage:I will be back around 5:00 so would you like to meet at 6:00.

On Sat, 12/25/10 at 12:27 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: christmas dayMessage:

You never answered as to what time you expect to see the boys today.

As of right now I do not know if you want to see them today or not.

74 of 24312/25/2010 12:27 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/25/2010 12:45 PM)christmas day

You never answered as to what time you expect to see the boys today.You never answered as to what time you expect to see the boys today.

As of right now I do not know if you want to see them today or not.As of right now I do not know if you want to see them today or not.

75 of 24312/24/2010 1:10 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/24/2010 2:44 PM)RE: the boys

Last christmas you had the boys for the first week of vacation and christmas eve, I received them home christmasLast christmas you had the boys for the first week of vacation and christmas eve, I received them home christmasday.day.This year we are doing the opposite.This year we are doing the opposite.We have to decide what time you are meeting me to pick them up christmas day at LAPD pac. div.We have to decide what time you are meeting me to pick them up christmas day at LAPD pac. div.

Both boys have a third week of vacation this year.Both boys have a third week of vacation this year.

So I have them the first week you have the second, we split the third.So I have them the first week you have the second, we split the third.

I will get them back from you on saturday Jan. 1st. (unless you have plans to go out on Fri. Dec. 31st, new years eve,I will get them back from you on saturday Jan. 1st. (unless you have plans to go out on Fri. Dec. 31st, new years eve,


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I will get them back from you on saturday Jan. 1st. (unless you have plans to go out on Fri. Dec. 31st, new years eve,I will get them back from you on saturday Jan. 1st. (unless you have plans to go out on Fri. Dec. 31st, new years eve,in which case I can take them friday)in which case I can take them friday)

Then you can have them back for the second half of the week like, wed. dec. 5th. through to weekend, I think theyThen you can have them back for the second half of the week like, wed. dec. 5th. through to weekend, I think theyshould come home a little early on the Sunday 9th, since they need to start school the next day and it will be a toughshould come home a little early on the Sunday 9th, since they need to start school the next day and it will be a toughtransition for them.transition for them.

On Fri, 12/24/10 at 10:39 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: the boysMessage:why are you not answering about my being able to see my sons this christmas. please let me know when I can see my sons.

76 of 24312/19/2010 2:16 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/20/2010 7:22 AM)Your mother

Your family has called they don't have your phone number, your mother is in the hospital. Please call them.Your family has called they don't have your phone number, your mother is in the hospital. Please call them.I tried leaving your # on their message machine but it was full.I tried leaving your # on their message machine but it was full.

77 of 24312/09/2010 7:24 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/10/2010 12:58 PM)visitation 12/10/10

I am writing this to make sure that you understand that as a direct result of your game playing last Sunday, I will noI am writing this to make sure that you understand that as a direct result of your game playing last Sunday, I will nolonger be able to accommodate you with any change of venue for pick up and drop off of children for visitation.longer be able to accommodate you with any change of venue for pick up and drop off of children for visitation.

I will bring the children to Pacific Division Friday and I will pick them up at Pacific Division Sunday.I will bring the children to Pacific Division Friday and I will pick them up at Pacific Division Sunday.

Your inability to provide transportation for your scheduled visits is no longer going to be my problem.Your inability to provide transportation for your scheduled visits is no longer going to be my problem.

78 of 24312/05/2010 6:55 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/05/2010 7:21 PM)Pick up of children 12/5/10I'm sitting here at the pacific division LAPD where I am supposed to be picking up the boys from their visit with youI'm sitting here at the pacific division LAPD where I am supposed to be picking up the boys from their visit with youit's 6:50 and samuel just called me from your phone. It is wrong for you to have samuel call me and then tell him Iit's 6:50 and samuel just called me from your phone. It is wrong for you to have samuel call me and then tell him Idon't want to talk to her when Im trying to find out why you are not at the drop off spot, and if I need to pick themdon't want to talk to her when Im trying to find out why you are not at the drop off spot, and if I need to pick themup somewhere else.up somewhere else.

Samuel is not an appropriate go between for his parents.Samuel is not an appropriate go between for his parents.You know that is wrong and yet you do it every time.You know that is wrong and yet you do it every time.

O have no idea if you are coming here, you obviously have your phone you just used it but you have not called orO have no idea if you are coming here, you obviously have your phone you just used it but you have not called orreturned a text about the boys coming home it's 6:55 returned a text about the boys coming home it's 6:55

79 of 24312/05/2010 5:18 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/05/2010 6:01 PM)Samuel Cooper

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Why weren't you worried about Samuel being left alone at the play ground while you were sitting in a lawn chair atWhy weren't you worried about Samuel being left alone at the play ground while you were sitting in a lawn chair atTheodore's game?Theodore's game?

The playground is more than a football field length away completely out of view from where Theodore was playingThe playground is more than a football field length away completely out of view from where Theodore was playingfootball.football.

Samuel not only has autism, not only has a history of wandering off, but he is only 7. Samuel not only has autism, not only has a history of wandering off, but he is only 7. He cannot be alone at a city park, especially one as wide open, huge, on a major busy street, with hundreds of peopleHe cannot be alone at a city park, especially one as wide open, huge, on a major busy street, with hundreds of peoplearound and in and out of there, as that park.around and in and out of there, as that park.

I told you on several occasions on this very website, that if you cannot watch Samuel while you went to Theodore'sI told you on several occasions on this very website, that if you cannot watch Samuel while you went to Theodore'sgame, I would either take Theodore to his game, or watch Samuel so you could take Theodore. game, I would either take Theodore to his game, or watch Samuel so you could take Theodore.

Samuel was alone at that park when I got there before 11AM, you got up from where you were sitting when you sawSamuel was alone at that park when I got there before 11AM, you got up from where you were sitting when you sawme and stayed with Samuel because you knew it was wrong to leave him alone like that.me and stayed with Samuel because you knew it was wrong to leave him alone like that.

Which is why I couldn't believe it when I came back for the banquet and found him alone AGAIN, with you noWhich is why I couldn't believe it when I came back for the banquet and found him alone AGAIN, with you nowhere in sight.where in sight.

I don't think you are a great father but I could not believe that even you would do that.I don't think you are a great father but I could not believe that even you would do that.

I know you did not have any one watching him because Danielle was with him on the playground for at least tenI know you did not have any one watching him because Danielle was with him on the playground for at least tenminutes before she brought him over to the picnic tables.minutes before she brought him over to the picnic tables.

You were on the field with Theodore and there was no one watching Samuel until we arrived.You were on the field with Theodore and there was no one watching Samuel until we arrived.

It is totally negligent for you to leave Samuel alone, especially under those circumstances.It is totally negligent for you to leave Samuel alone, especially under those circumstances.It's not like you were on the other side of the playground from him or centrally located where you could see him.It's not like you were on the other side of the playground from him or centrally located where you could see him.You were so far away and out of sight you may as well have been at the mall christmas shopping.You were so far away and out of sight you may as well have been at the mall christmas shopping.This is unacceptable, either watch the boys when you have them or call me to take them, do not leave one or bothThis is unacceptable, either watch the boys when you have them or call me to take them, do not leave one or bothcompletely alone to fend for themselves.completely alone to fend for themselves.

80 of 24312/05/2010 4:13 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 12/05/2010 6:02 PM)Dan Cooper

Dan,Dan,You are going to great lengths and spending alot of time on an issue that is imaginary.You are going to great lengths and spending alot of time on an issue that is imaginary.I have tried to be understanding because I believe your over reaction is based on your past.I have tried to be understanding because I believe your over reaction is based on your past.Based on what your mothers boyfriend did to you, and because according to you, she let it happen on purpose. Based on what your mothers boyfriend did to you, and because according to you, she let it happen on purpose. I never believed that she would do that, I think she was just drunk and didn't know.I never believed that she would do that, I think she was just drunk and didn't know.

You are taking your over reaction and craziness too far as usual.You are taking your over reaction and craziness too far as usual.

It was over the top even for you, when you pounded the table, acting all menacing and saying what you saidIt was over the top even for you, when you pounded the table, acting all menacing and saying what you saidyesterday in front of all the parents at the banquet and in front of the boys and Theodore was upset and askingyesterday in front of all the parents at the banquet and in front of the boys and Theodore was upset and askingquestions about what you were saying..... questions about what you were saying..... It was obvious from the way you talked in front of them that you also talk to them about the situation.It was obvious from the way you talked in front of them that you also talk to them about the situation.You said Raymond was my boyfriend yesterday in front of them, so it is obviously you who is trying to put that ideaYou said Raymond was my boyfriend yesterday in front of them, so it is obviously you who is trying to put that ideain their head.in their head.The boys had said something about me having a boyfriend to Gilbert and Gilbert asked me about it, just a couple ofThe boys had said something about me having a boyfriend to Gilbert and Gilbert asked me about it, just a couple ofdays before social services showed up at the school asking about Raymond.days before social services showed up at the school asking about Raymond.Gilbert thought it was weird for the boys to say that because he had been staying in my house for three weeks at theGilbert thought it was weird for the boys to say that because he had been staying in my house for three weeks at thetime and never saw or heard of anyone named Raymond.time and never saw or heard of anyone named Raymond.

The kids have only ever seen Raymond a few times, and those times were brief. The kids have only ever seen Raymond a few times, and those times were brief. There has never been any reason for them to think he is my boyfriend or that I had a boyfriend at all.There has never been any reason for them to think he is my boyfriend or that I had a boyfriend at all.

The only reason they even knew he gave them the movies was because I told them where I had gotten them. MaybeThe only reason they even knew he gave them the movies was because I told them where I had gotten them. Maybeonce he dropped some movies off and left.once he dropped some movies off and left.You have made much more of a big deal about Raymond to the boys than he ever should have been to them.You have made much more of a big deal about Raymond to the boys than he ever should have been to them.


They would have already forgotten his name if not for you keeping it alive and burning it into their memory,They would have already forgotten his name if not for you keeping it alive and burning it into their memory,because, their Dad is yelling at their mom about him to keep Raymond away from them, etc....... and Raymond isbecause, their Dad is yelling at their mom about him to keep Raymond away from them, etc....... and Raymond isnever even around them.never even around them.It's weird and confusing and you don't care.It's weird and confusing and you don't care.Not to mention it also gives them a strange definition of a boyfriend.Not to mention it also gives them a strange definition of a boyfriend.

Yesterday, your actions took the cake, you have no idea how scary, creepy and inappropriately you act in front ofYesterday, your actions took the cake, you have no idea how scary, creepy and inappropriately you act in front ofpeople and you just don't care.people and you just don't care.I only care because you do it in front of Theodore and Samuel, they have enough to deal with because of their ownI only care because you do it in front of Theodore and Samuel, they have enough to deal with because of their ownissues, and they have a scary, creepy, inappropriate Dad.issues, and they have a scary, creepy, inappropriate Dad.Man, that sucks so bad for them. Man, that sucks so bad for them.

To be honest with you, Raymond is such a gentle, thoughtful, sweet, honest and responsible man, I bet he is the kindTo be honest with you, Raymond is such a gentle, thoughtful, sweet, honest and responsible man, I bet he is the kindof guy that would know exactly how to act like a role model and a good father to sons. of guy that would know exactly how to act like a role model and a good father to sons. I imagine he would never sit off in the back with his head down and be on the phone while his son got his firstI imagine he would never sit off in the back with his head down and be on the phone while his son got his firsttrophy. trophy. I don't think he would do any of the strange, inappropriate, unfatherly things that you do.I don't think he would do any of the strange, inappropriate, unfatherly things that you do.He would be a guy that you would be lucky if he was a step-father to your kids, even if you didn't appreciate it.He would be a guy that you would be lucky if he was a step-father to your kids, even if you didn't appreciate it.

But none of that matters, because I never wanted a relationship with Raymond like that, and I was never going toBut none of that matters, because I never wanted a relationship with Raymond like that, and I was never going tohave or make any attempt to have a relationship with Raymond like that. have or make any attempt to have a relationship with Raymond like that. And I did not ever put Raymond in the position of having a relationship with me or my sons like that.And I did not ever put Raymond in the position of having a relationship with me or my sons like that.

You obviously knew, even while you huffed and puffed and yelled at me in front of our children, their team mates,You obviously knew, even while you huffed and puffed and yelled at me in front of our children, their team mates,and the parents, that Raymond does not have any criminal history that involves children in any way that put anyand the parents, that Raymond does not have any criminal history that involves children in any way that put anyrestriction on him to stay away from kids. restriction on him to stay away from kids. He was never accused of anything that had to do with children. He was never accused of anything that had to do with children. He was never convicted of anything that had to do with children. He was never convicted of anything that had to do with children. He was never ever restricted from being around kids, or from living anywhere around kids, or from working withHe was never ever restricted from being around kids, or from living anywhere around kids, or from working withkids. kids. You know that 100% because you went to social services and they told you that, and they rejected your complaint asYou know that 100% because you went to social services and they told you that, and they rejected your complaint ashaving no basis in fact, even after they investigated. having no basis in fact, even after they investigated. There was nothing going on to stop. There was nothing going on to stop.

And you knew that when you yelled at me and pounded your fist in front of all those people. The fact that you knewAnd you knew that when you yelled at me and pounded your fist in front of all those people. The fact that you knewthat you were talking about someone that has already been proven not to be a threat and you went out of your way tothat you were talking about someone that has already been proven not to be a threat and you went out of your way topublicly call him a threat and also give people the impression that I am allowing something or someone threateningpublicly call him a threat and also give people the impression that I am allowing something or someone threateningaround the children was extremely and intentionally defamatory.around the children was extremely and intentionally defamatory.

In fact, not only is Raymond not a threat to kids or anyone, the crime that Raymond was convicted of in 1978, is oneIn fact, not only is Raymond not a threat to kids or anyone, the crime that Raymond was convicted of in 1978, is onethat will exclude him from the website based on the nature of it, he just never filled out the paperwork to get histhat will exclude him from the website based on the nature of it, he just never filled out the paperwork to get hisname off. name off. No one that has ever known him has ever made him out to be any kind of threat, and it is easy for all the people whoNo one that has ever known him has ever made him out to be any kind of threat, and it is easy for all the people whoknow him and know about his registration status to understand the circumstances around it, and that it does not defineknow him and know about his registration status to understand the circumstances around it, and that it does not definehim.him.See now you are making me think and talk about Raymond because of your bullshit, I am not even seeing RaymondSee now you are making me think and talk about Raymond because of your bullshit, I am not even seeing Raymondor talking to Raymond as much as you are taking about him.or talking to Raymond as much as you are taking about him.That is so weird.That is so weird.

You are dragging me, the kids, and even yourself through the dirt for nothing.You are dragging me, the kids, and even yourself through the dirt for nothing.And you will keep doing it no matter what anyone says.And you will keep doing it no matter what anyone says.The person that you should really be worrying about that is around your kids is you.The person that you should really be worrying about that is around your kids is you.The next person you should worry about that could potentially ever be around your kids is another man that wouldThe next person you should worry about that could potentially ever be around your kids is another man that wouldtreat them the way that you treated my other children.treat them the way that you treated my other children.I promise Gilbert and Danielle did not tell their Dad what a great guy you were.I promise Gilbert and Danielle did not tell their Dad what a great guy you were.That is what you should be looking for, any indication that I might fall for another guy like you.That is what you should be looking for, any indication that I might fall for another guy like you.

In order for you to be someone that your children can talk to you are going to have to stop acting so crazy aroundIn order for you to be someone that your children can talk to you are going to have to stop acting so crazy aroundthem and saying inappropriate things about me to them.them and saying inappropriate things about me to them.They know for a fact that no man is in this house, I sleep in their room every night, they know that. So how do youThey know for a fact that no man is in this house, I sleep in their room every night, they know that. So how do youthink it sounds to them to hear you saying someone is here? think it sounds to them to hear you saying someone is here? It is so weird..... They know they have never been a car with Raymond or gone anywhere with him, they know he isIt is so weird..... They know they have never been a car with Raymond or gone anywhere with him, they know he isnot babysitting them, so for you to talk about it, and have strangers talk to them about it, and then you keep talkingnot babysitting them, so for you to talk about it, and have strangers talk to them about it, and then you keep talkingabout it,... It is weird.about it,... It is weird.


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Please get help from a mental health professional.Please get help from a mental health professional.There is still time for you to heal and learn to act like a good father.There is still time for you to heal and learn to act like a good father.

81 of 24311/29/2010 3:09 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/29/2010 4:45 PM)RE: please answer

I never told you that Theodore's Dr. told me to do anything.I never told you that Theodore's Dr. told me to do anything.

What I told you the first weekend at Pacific Division was that it wouldn't hurt him if he didn't have them for 2 days.What I told you the first weekend at Pacific Division was that it wouldn't hurt him if he didn't have them for 2 days.I also told you that the prescription was at Costco waiting to be picked up and you were welcome to go pick it up andI also told you that the prescription was at Costco waiting to be picked up and you were welcome to go pick it up andadminister to Theodore over the weekend while he was with you.administer to Theodore over the weekend while he was with you.I also invited you to give me the $162.00 for the prescription that was waiting to be picked up, that I would go pickI also invited you to give me the $162.00 for the prescription that was waiting to be picked up, that I would go pickit up right away, but I didn't have the $.it up right away, but I didn't have the $.You chose to ignore that information completely.You chose to ignore that information completely.That shows me you are not very serious about giving the kids their medicine.That shows me you are not very serious about giving the kids their medicine.

You have never answered a question about Samuel's medication and I know you don't give it to him, why are you soYou have never answered a question about Samuel's medication and I know you don't give it to him, why are you soobsessed with Theodore's medicine and you don't care at all about Samuel?obsessed with Theodore's medicine and you don't care at all about Samuel?

By the way, what Dr. diagnosed Theodore with manic episodes while he was with you?By the way, what Dr. diagnosed Theodore with manic episodes while he was with you?

Also, please furnish me with the names and criminal records of all of your friends that are around the children duringAlso, please furnish me with the names and criminal records of all of your friends that are around the children duringyour custodial time, including the man who served the last set of court papers, he told me that he really loved theyour custodial time, including the man who served the last set of court papers, he told me that he really loved theboys and spent alot of time with them.boys and spent alot of time with them.What is his name, address, birthdate, etc.?What is his name, address, birthdate, etc.?

I would be happy to have a grown up conversation with you about our children's medical needs and prescribedI would be happy to have a grown up conversation with you about our children's medical needs and prescribedmedications and how you can keep a supply to administer to them while they are with you.medications and how you can keep a supply to administer to them while they are with you.I would love it, in fact.I would love it, in fact.That would require you to; stand a reasonable distance away from me, (I will not scream this across the lobby orThat would require you to; stand a reasonable distance away from me, (I will not scream this across the lobby orcourtyard or parking lot), actually face me while I am speaking, (I will not have this discussion to your back whilecourtyard or parking lot), actually face me while I am speaking, (I will not have this discussion to your back whileyou are walking away), listen to what I am saying and allow me to hand you the medications, and speak directly toyou are walking away), listen to what I am saying and allow me to hand you the medications, and speak directly tome if anything I have said is not clear and you have any questions.me if anything I have said is not clear and you have any questions.

I would also expect equal concern about both children and some notice if you want to have this conversation so that II would also expect equal concern about both children and some notice if you want to have this conversation so that Ican bring their stuff with me when I drop them off.can bring their stuff with me when I drop them off.

On Mon, 11/29/10 at 6:49 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: please answerMessage:1. please inform me of theodores medication instructions from the doctor that presribed them. I spoke to the doctor and he stated that he did not inform you thathe was to stop his meds on times with me/weekends. he said that he would talk to you about that. I have observed severe mood swings and manic episodeslately. I'm concerend that the cause may be due to irregular use of meds.

2. Once again I can not emphasize enough how I do not want your freind Raymond Olund/registerd sex offender around my sons at all. Please confirm thatyou will respect this request at all times without exceptions.

Please respond to all three questions above to avoid unessessary e-mails.

Thank You

82 of 24311/24/2010 4:49 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/24/2010 4:52 PM)RE: boys


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yes, I am on my way over thereyes, I am on my way over thereI will be there by 5:00I will be there by 5:00

On Wed, 11/24/10 at 4:42 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: boysMessage:Are you planning on picking up the boys today? or will I keep them untill sunday? please let me know. If you are picking them up today please tell me when. Iwill check this site every ten minutes for the next 1/2 hour.

83 of 24311/24/2010 1:50 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/24/2010 2:00 PM)11/24/10Would you have the boys at 711 at 3:30 today?Would you have the boys at 711 at 3:30 today?We need to get on the road.We need to get on the road.

84 of 24311/23/2010 10:54 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/23/2010 10:56 PM)RE: visitation

I will be getting the children Wednesday and leaving for up north I will be getting the children Wednesday and leaving for up north

It would devastate them to not go to the thanksgiving houseIt would devastate them to not go to the thanksgiving house

On Sun, 11/21/10 at 5:10 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: visitationMessage:Mauvesince i did not have the boys last thanksgiving which was my designated year for hollidays i would like to keep them for thanksgiving this year. I do notimagine you are going out of town for only the one day as you have to be back on friday as this upcoming weekend is my designated weekend. you have notasked me to waive my regulary scheduled weekend so i have assumed i will have them.please clarify and respond so that i may make plans accordingly.

On Wed, 11/17/10 at 4:40 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: visitationMessage:

That's fine, I'll tell them.

On Tue, 11/16/10 at 7:57 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: visitationMessage:how about saturday night at about six till wensday.

On Tue, 11/16/10 at 6:53 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: visitationMessage:


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You have agreed to have the children Sunday the 21st til Wednesday afternoon Do you want them on friday the 19th or saturday the 20th instead of sunday? You would still be keeping them til wednesday.

please let me know soon as you can

85 of 24311/17/2010 4:40 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/17/2010 4:48 PM)RE: visitation

That's fine, I'll tell them.That's fine, I'll tell them.

On Tue, 11/16/10 at 7:57 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: visitationMessage:how about saturday night at about six till wensday.

On Tue, 11/16/10 at 6:53 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: visitationMessage:

You have agreed to have the children Sunday the 21st til Wednesday afternoon Do you want them on friday the 19th or saturday the 20th instead of sunday? You would still be keeping them til wednesday.

please let me know soon as you can

86 of 24311/16/2010 6:53 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/16/2010 7:49 PM)visitation

You have agreed to have the children Sunday the 21st til Wednesday afternoon You have agreed to have the children Sunday the 21st til Wednesday afternoon Do you want them on friday the 19th or saturday the 20th instead of sunday? Do you want them on friday the 19th or saturday the 20th instead of sunday? You would still be keeping them til wednesday.You would still be keeping them til wednesday.

please let me know soon as you canplease let me know soon as you can

87 of 24311/16/2010 6:51 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/16/2010 7:49 PM)RE: Adderrall

Dr. Bezdek has told me that if you are willing to make an appointment with him, he would be happy to discussDr. Bezdek has told me that if you are willing to make an appointment with him, he would be happy to discusswhatever you want.whatever you want.


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whatever you want.whatever you want.He likes to be paid for his time. I even have to pay him for his time to deal with insurance companies. That is hisHe likes to be paid for his time. I even have to pay him for his time to deal with insurance companies. That is hispractice and his right apparently.practice and his right apparently.

The comparison of Theodore and some man who overdosed........?The comparison of Theodore and some man who overdosed........?That is a very broad comparison don't you think?That is a very broad comparison don't you think?The only similarity I can see is they were both male, they both supposedly took the same medication (although when,The only similarity I can see is they were both male, they both supposedly took the same medication (although when,how much, and for how long?) and you know them both.how much, and for how long?) and you know them both.I wonder how many people have taken that medication or are taking that medication that you know, or have known,I wonder how many people have taken that medication or are taking that medication that you know, or have known,or simply see in the world every day, that will not overdose and die?or simply see in the world every day, that will not overdose and die?

Let me know about Drake or whatever else you can come up with that would be helpful for Theodore with hisLet me know about Drake or whatever else you can come up with that would be helpful for Theodore with hisparticular situation.particular situation.

On Mon, 11/15/10 at 5:53 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: AdderrallMessage:Thank youI do have concerns regarding my son being on amphetamines. I recently became aware of a young man that I knew that had taken that medication though hisschool years. He recently overdosed and died at age 23. Besides that I have other concerns regarding this topic. But I will look into what you had suggested. Ihad spoke to TheodoreÂ’s psychiatrist about the concerns that I had and he responded with that would be even more reason for Theodore to be on thismedication. I didn't understand his response and he wasn't willing to speak anymore regarding my concerns.

On Mon, 11/15/10 at 2:35 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: AdderrallMessage:

If you have any reasons for not wanting Theodore to be on Adderrall or any medication for ADD,I have heard that the "Drake Institute" treats children without medication. You might want to do some research on that to see if there is something else that canhelp him.

I would welcome any relevant input or help from you with our children.

88 of 24311/15/2010 2:35 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/15/2010 5:28 PM)Adderrall

If you have any reasons for not wanting Theodore to be on Adderrall or any medication for ADD,If you have any reasons for not wanting Theodore to be on Adderrall or any medication for ADD,I have heard that the "Drake Institute" treats children without medication. You might want to do some research onI have heard that the "Drake Institute" treats children without medication. You might want to do some research onthat to see if there is something else that can help him.that to see if there is something else that can help him.

I would welcome any relevant input or help from you with our children.I would welcome any relevant input or help from you with our children.

89 of 24311/10/2010 5:58 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/10/2010 7:19 PM)Disney Time Share

You asked me to sign listing agreement for Disney Time Share last week,You asked me to sign listing agreement for Disney Time Share last week,Then you didn't bring it to pick up or drop off of kids, you said you left it in your friends car.Then you didn't bring it to pick up or drop off of kids, you said you left it in your friends car.So what is going on? Do you want me to sign it?So what is going on? Do you want me to sign it?


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90 of 24311/10/2010 5:55 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/10/2010 7:20 PM)RE: disney time share

Since you know that I have wanted to take the loan out of your name, and you know that you requested theSince you know that I have wanted to take the loan out of your name, and you know that you requested theassumption packet from Bank of America that would let me do it,assumption packet from Bank of America that would let me do it,and I never got the packet from you......and I never got the packet from you......Why don't you request another packet and give it to me so that the loan can stop affecting your credit?Why don't you request another packet and give it to me so that the loan can stop affecting your credit?

On Tue, 11/09/10 at 9:15 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: disney time shareMessage:I will be sending a copy of this e-mail to both bank of America and e-trade bank in hope that they slow down on the relentless phone calls to me of constantthreats of how this is affecting my credit.

On Thu, 11/04/10 at 2:56 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: disney time shareMessage:

I have stopped paying on the bank of america loan because you would never give me the assumption packet for the loan so that I can put it in my name.

I have had to use my limited resources to find out if any other solutions exist to my dilemma of owning a house that has a mortgage on it in the name of aperson that will not allow me to have my own mortgage on my own house.

You received the loan assumption packet in early February and you have ignored or simply refused my dozens of written requests to hand over the packet tome so that I may comply with the court order to remove the loan from your name.

I own the house but for reasons I do not understand you have insisted on remaining on the bank loan. You have, by your actions, and in contempt of the court order that told you to cooperate with my attempts to take your name off of the loan, also ignored andor distracted and thwarted all of the court filings that I have made in my attempts to gain the courts help in enforcing the order for you to assist and cooperatewith me getting your name off of the loan.

Would you give me the loan assumption packet from Bank of America now?

It is probably too late now but if you give me the packet I will try to rectify the situation if such a solution still exists.

On Sun, 10/31/10 at 12:24 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: disney time shareMessage:Could you please sign the papers for the Disney time-share so that I could sell them. The court papers state that I am to pay you $4444.00 to have the time-share transferred over to me. I will stipulate that at time of sell. I cannot afford the dues so soon it will be forfeited unless I could sell them before it goes intocollections. Please tell me what you are planning regarding the house. Since you have not paid the mortgage in six months now I can hardly keep my phone on becausethey call relentlessly.

91 of 24311/10/2010 5:51 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/10/2010 7:20 PM)RE: adderall

I told you numerous times and I wrote down instructions and gave them to you about Samuel's medications.I told you numerous times and I wrote down instructions and gave them to you about Samuel's medications.


I told you numerous times and I wrote down instructions and gave them to you about Samuel's medications.I told you numerous times and I wrote down instructions and gave them to you about Samuel's medications.There are e-mails going back and forth, text going back and forth regarding Samuel's medications.There are e-mails going back and forth, text going back and forth regarding Samuel's medications.I used to send his inhaler with him when he visited you then I got another one, so I gave you one to keep at yourI used to send his inhaler with him when he visited you then I got another one, so I gave you one to keep at yourhouse.house.It is called flovent and it is daily treatment for his asthma to keep it under control, once in the morning and once atIt is called flovent and it is daily treatment for his asthma to keep it under control, once in the morning and once atnight.night.He has been taking Zyrtec every night since before the divorce also to keep his symptoms from allergies and asthmaHe has been taking Zyrtec every night since before the divorce also to keep his symptoms from allergies and asthmaunder control.under control.

I asked you dozens of times if you were giving him his zyrtec every night and his inhaler am and pm.I asked you dozens of times if you were giving him his zyrtec every night and his inhaler am and pm.

You cared so little about Samuel's medication for his asthma that you don't even remember where you got theYou cared so little about Samuel's medication for his asthma that you don't even remember where you got theinhaler.inhaler.

The Dr.s in the ER do not give out inhalers. they gave him an albuterol breathing treatment, then I took him forThe Dr.s in the ER do not give out inhalers. they gave him an albuterol breathing treatment, then I took him forfollow up and he was prescribed the long term treatment of flovent to keep him out of the ER in the future,follow up and he was prescribed the long term treatment of flovent to keep him out of the ER in the future,hopefully. If he takes it. If his parents give it to him.hopefully. If he takes it. If his parents give it to him.

On Mon, 11/08/10 at 7:28 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: adderallMessage:You have not informed me of meds for Samuel. All that I have is the breathers that the doctor gave me when I took him to the hospital for his asthma attack.You never gave me medication nor have you informed me of meds for Samuel. What meds should Samuel be taking who prescribed them, how long has hebeen on them?

And how long has Theodore been taking adderall.

On Sun, 11/07/10 at 4:51 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: adderallMessage:

What do you mean what type of medication is Samuel taking?

Haven't you been giving him his medication during his time at your house?

On Sun, 11/07/10 at 3:17 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: adderallMessage:Last week I called the school office to see if I could obtain some information regarding the boys and thatÂ’s was when I was informed of the I.E.P. meetingfor Theodore was scheduled the next day. There is a lot I would like to know about adderal being given to my son. The only real information that I have is from the Internet and FDA web site. I talkedto the psychiatrist and he told me that he would call me back the next day. But that didn't happen.What type of medication is Samuel taking?

On Sun, 11/07/10 at 11:49 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: adderallMessage:Dan,I'm really glad to see you taking an interest in Theodores medical needs, I would love to fully explain everything about his treatment and medication to you.We could meet over coffee and I will answer all of your questions.Or you can make an appt with the dr that is treating him and discuss any and all concerns with him.You have the Drs #.

Also, I wonder why you care about Theodores medicine for ADD but not Samuel's medicines?

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On Fri, 11/05/10 at 8:42 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: adderallMessage:when you dropped off the boys at the police station in officer romulo's presence i asked you for theodore's mediaction. you told me that he does not need totake his medication on the weekends,therefore you did not give it to me. Now if he is fine over the weekends without his medication than shouldn't we assumethat our eight year old son does not need to be on amphetomines.please respond.

92 of 24311/07/2010 5:37 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/08/2010 7:10 AM)AnswersWhy are you ignoring my questions about the loan assumption papers and the PALS program for the kids? Why are you ignoring my questions about the loan assumption papers and the PALS program for the kids? You never answered all of the emails I sent about getting Theodore to his game, you just ignored them.You never answered all of the emails I sent about getting Theodore to his game, you just ignored them.Yet you can go on and on about adderall.Yet you can go on and on about adderall.

You don't give a shit if your kids lose their houseYou don't give a shit if your kids lose their house

You don't give a shit if your kids get to participate in good afterschool programs.You don't give a shit if your kids get to participate in good afterschool programs.

You don't give a shit if Theodore gets to benefit from his flag football which he loves.You don't give a shit if Theodore gets to benefit from his flag football which he loves.

It seems as though you did not hear one single thing about what was said in Theodores IEP, like how great he isIt seems as though you did not hear one single thing about what was said in Theodores IEP, like how great he isdoing, his progress, and what a difference there has been since school started....doing, his progress, and what a difference there has been since school started....

You are fixated on the one and only thing that you think you can twist into something bad. Amphetamine!You are fixated on the one and only thing that you think you can twist into something bad. Amphetamine!

I think you should make an appt with the psychiatrist Theo is seeing, pay him for his time so you can ask all theI think you should make an appt with the psychiatrist Theo is seeing, pay him for his time so you can ask all thequestions you want about Theodore, just like I did.questions you want about Theodore, just like I did.

I know it scared you when you heard them talking at the IEP about how smart Theo is, how verbally dynamic, funnyI know it scared you when you heard them talking at the IEP about how smart Theo is, how verbally dynamic, funnyand outgoing he is. You should be scared because he is probably alot smarter than me, like his brother, and one dayand outgoing he is. You should be scared because he is probably alot smarter than me, like his brother, and one daynot too far from now he is going to fully understand all the shit you are putting me and him and Samuel through.not too far from now he is going to fully understand all the shit you are putting me and him and Samuel through.I have not and I will not say one bad word about you. I learned my lesson from my older kids. You will ruin yourselfI have not and I will not say one bad word about you. I learned my lesson from my older kids. You will ruin yourselfin his eyes all by yourself.in his eyes all by yourself.

You should think about answering to your sons for your actions.You should think about answering to your sons for your actions.What exactly will your justification be for making them lose their house or for not supporting Theodore in his questWhat exactly will your justification be for making them lose their house or for not supporting Theodore in his questto be a football player? I can just see it now when you turn on a game on TV and ask him to sit with you, visit withto be a football player? I can just see it now when you turn on a game on TV and ask him to sit with you, visit withhis old man. You couldn't be planning his future resentments against better if you actually tried.his old man. You couldn't be planning his future resentments against better if you actually tried.

It's a joke how you really think you are going to hurt me someday if you just keep trying.It's a joke how you really think you are going to hurt me someday if you just keep trying.

I pray you can give up that quest and start trying to be a man your sons can like and feel some pride about.I pray you can give up that quest and start trying to be a man your sons can like and feel some pride about.Just being the guy who took them to mcdonalds and gave them donuts won't go far,Just being the guy who took them to mcdonalds and gave them donuts won't go far,especially when they are battling those lovehandles just like you did before your lipoespecially when they are battling those lovehandles just like you did before your lipo

93 of 24311/07/2010 4:51 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/08/2010 7:13 AM)RE: adderall

What do you mean what type of medication is Samuel taking?What do you mean what type of medication is Samuel taking?

Haven't you been giving him his medication during his time at your house?Haven't you been giving him his medication during his time at your house?


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On Sun, 11/07/10 at 11:49 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: adderallMessage:Dan,I'm really glad to see you taking an interest in Theodores medical needs, I would love to fully explain everything about his treatment and medication to you.We could meet over coffee and I will answer all of your questions.Or you can make an appt with the dr that is treating him and discuss any and all concerns with him.You have the Drs #.

Also, I wonder why you care about Theodores medicine for ADD but not Samuel's medicines?

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94 of 24311/07/2010 11:55 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/07/2010 2:39 PM)PALS program

I asked you a month ago about signing the boys up for the PALS program in SMI asked you a month ago about signing the boys up for the PALS program in SM

what is your progress on that?what is your progress on that?

95 of 24311/07/2010 11:50 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/07/2010 2:39 PM)RE: disney time share

This is the first time you have mentioned mailing the assumption packet to meThis is the first time you have mentioned mailing the assumption packet to meI never received it.I never received it.would you please call and request another packet since you are the only person that can make that request?would you please call and request another packet since you are the only person that can make that request?

On Thu, 11/04/10 at 3:23 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: disney time shareMessage:simply not true.


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I placed the papers in a envolope and mailed them to you months ago.

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I have stopped paying on the bank of america loan because you would never give me the assumption packet for the loan so that I can put it in my name.

I have had to use my limited resources to find out if any other solutions exist to my dilemma of owning a house that has a mortgage on it in the name of aperson that will not allow me to have my own mortgage on my own house.

You received the loan assumption packet in early February and you have ignored or simply refused my dozens of written requests to hand over the packet tome so that I may comply with the court order to remove the loan from your name.

I own the house but for reasons I do not understand you have insisted on remaining on the bank loan. You have, by your actions, and in contempt of the court order that told you to cooperate with my attempts to take your name off of the loan, also ignored andor distracted and thwarted all of the court filings that I have made in my attempts to gain the courts help in enforcing the order for you to assist and cooperatewith me getting your name off of the loan.

Would you give me the loan assumption packet from Bank of America now?

It is probably too late now but if you give me the packet I will try to rectify the situation if such a solution still exists.


96 of 24311/07/2010 11:49 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/07/2010 2:38 PM)RE: adderallDan,Dan,I'm really glad to see you taking an interest in Theodores medical needs, I would love to fully explain everythingI'm really glad to see you taking an interest in Theodores medical needs, I would love to fully explain everythingabout his treatment and medication to you.about his treatment and medication to you.We could meet over coffee and I will answer all of your questions.We could meet over coffee and I will answer all of your questions.Or you can make an appt with the dr that is treating him and discuss any and all concerns with him.Or you can make an appt with the dr that is treating him and discuss any and all concerns with him.You have the Drs #.You have the Drs #.

Also, I wonder why you care about Theodores medicine for ADD but not Samuel's medicines?Also, I wonder why you care about Theodores medicine for ADD but not Samuel's medicines?

As usual you are a mystery to me.As usual you are a mystery to me.



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97 of 24311/07/2010 11:35 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/07/2010 2:38 PM)RE: Theodore todayNo. He is not crashing from one day without adderall.No. He is not crashing from one day without adderall.He was starting to have a cold Friday night and I'm sure you kept him up late He was starting to have a cold Friday night and I'm sure you kept him up late You told me you were taking them out bike riding at 8:30 PM fri nite.You told me you were taking them out bike riding at 8:30 PM fri nite.When I asked you why you needed the bikes that nite and if you were going to use take them riding that nite,When I asked you why you needed the bikes that nite and if you were going to use take them riding that nite,You said "well, I don't want to sit around here all night and watch TV!" You said "well, I don't want to sit around here all night and watch TV!" Most parents are thinking about putting their kids to bed at 8:30 or at least calming down and staying in.Most parents are thinking about putting their kids to bed at 8:30 or at least calming down and staying in.

The new prescription of Adderall is ready to be picked up, it costs $162.00 after insurance pays their part. Would youThe new prescription of Adderall is ready to be picked up, it costs $162.00 after insurance pays their part. Would youlike to go pick it up so he can take it today?like to go pick it up so he can take it today?

On Sat, 11/06/10 at 2:49 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: Theodore todayMessage:Today we went to football but Theodore had no energy at practice and he is flush and very lethargic. He asked if we could go back home. I canÂ’t help butthink that he crashed from not having his medication/adderall.


I have stopped paying on the bank of america loan because you would never give me the assumption packet for theI have stopped paying on the bank of america loan because you would never give me the assumption packet for theloan so that I can put it in my name.loan so that I can put it in my name.

I have had to use my limited resources to find out if any other solutions exist to my dilemma of owning a house thatI have had to use my limited resources to find out if any other solutions exist to my dilemma of owning a house thathas a mortgage on it in the name of a person that will not allow me to have my own mortgage on my own house.has a mortgage on it in the name of a person that will not allow me to have my own mortgage on my own house.

You received the loan assumption packet in early February and you have ignored or simply refused my dozens ofYou received the loan assumption packet in early February and you have ignored or simply refused my dozens ofwritten requests to hand over the packet to me so that I may comply with the court order to remove the loan fromwritten requests to hand over the packet to me so that I may comply with the court order to remove the loan fromyour name.your name.

I own the house but for reasons I do not understand you have insisted on remaining on the bank loan. I own the house but for reasons I do not understand you have insisted on remaining on the bank loan. You have, by your actions, and in contempt of the court order that told you to cooperate with my attempts to takeYou have, by your actions, and in contempt of the court order that told you to cooperate with my attempts to takeyour name off of the loan, also ignored and or distracted and thwarted all of the court filings that I have made in myyour name off of the loan, also ignored and or distracted and thwarted all of the court filings that I have made in myattempts to gain the courts help in enforcing the order for you to assist and cooperate with me getting your name offattempts to gain the courts help in enforcing the order for you to assist and cooperate with me getting your name offof the loan.of the loan.

Would you give me the loan assumption packet from Bank of America now?Would you give me the loan assumption packet from Bank of America now?

It is probably too late now but if you give me the packet I will try to rectify the situation if such a solution stillIt is probably too late now but if you give me the packet I will try to rectify the situation if such a solution stillexists.exists.



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99 of 24311/04/2010 2:34 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/04/2010 3:23 PM)RE: please respond

Please do not cut and paste portions of my e-mails, it is confusingPlease do not cut and paste portions of my e-mails, it is confusing

On Thu, 11/04/10 at 2:21 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: please respondMessage:

3) Yes I will sign a listing agreement for the timeshares, when and where would you like me to sign it?

at pick up and drop of on friday at 6:30 p.m.

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1) Dr Patrick Bezdek310) 820- 2995

2) Adderall for ADHD


On Wed, 11/03/10 at 6:38 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: please respondMessage:Please answer the following questions.

1. Please provide me with all information regarding psychiatry and medication given to my son Theodore.

2. Please tell me in advance if you will be obeying court ordered visitation drop off time and place this weekend.

3. Please tell me if you will sign the papers necessary to list Disney vacation club for sale.


Yes I intend to bring the children to their court ordered visitation with you.Yes I intend to bring the children to their court ordered visitation with you.


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Yes I intend to bring the children to their court ordered visitation with you.Yes I intend to bring the children to their court ordered visitation with you.

I also fully expect you to do the right thing for your son and either take him to his game or answer me as to whetherI also fully expect you to do the right thing for your son and either take him to his game or answer me as to whetheryou want me to take him.you want me to take him.

On Thu, 11/04/10 at 2:16 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: please respondMessage:2. Please tell me in advance if you will be obeying court ordered visitation drop off time and place this weekend.

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101 of 24311/04/2010 2:26 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/04/2010 2:29 PM)RE: phone contact with boys

I do not know what you are referring to and I don't care.I do not know what you are referring to and I don't care.I do not have a current restraining order against you calling my house, nor are any actions pending.I do not have a current restraining order against you calling my house, nor are any actions pending.

If you call, please call before 8:00 PMIf you call, please call before 8:00 PM

On Thu, 11/04/10 at 2:15 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: phone contact with boysMessage:could you please have them call me before bed time. I try not to call there because you had stated in court that I call to try to talk to you. so if they call me therewill not be any need for additional court documents.

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On Thu, 11/04/10 at 2:09 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: phone contact with boysMessage:

We were already asleep when you sent this.

My home phone is working now.

On Wed, 11/03/10 at 8:31 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: phone contact with boysMessage:can I speak to the boys. I will be sending you a text now with this request.

102 of 24311/04/2010 2:23 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/04/2010 2:24 PM)RE: Flag Football

Sorry on my previous e-mail I meant to say I have NOT discussed their weekend plansSorry on my previous e-mail I meant to say I have NOT discussed their weekend plans

On Tue, 11/02/10 at 8:16 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:are you or danielle or gilbert planning being there.

On Tue, 11/02/10 at 7:46 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Flag FootballMessage:

Since this weekend the boys are designated to be with you.

Do you plan to take Theodore to his game this weekend or would you like to make an arrangement with me ahead of time to pick him up and get him there?


Gilbert and Danielle are adults. I have discussed their plans for the weekend.Gilbert and Danielle are adults. I have discussed their plans for the weekend.

They have not made it to the last two games. They have not made it to the last two games.

As for my plans this weekend...... I am trying to make those but you will not answer me about whether you need meAs for my plans this weekend...... I am trying to make those but you will not answer me about whether you need meto pick up Theodore for the game on Saturday. I know from what you have said that you are having vehicleto pick up Theodore for the game on Saturday. I know from what you have said that you are having vehicleproblems.problems.I am concerned that you will not be able to transport Theodore to his game.I am concerned that you will not be able to transport Theodore to his game.I have made myself available to pick him up take him and drop him back off if you need or want help to get him toI have made myself available to pick him up take him and drop him back off if you need or want help to get him to


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I have made myself available to pick him up take him and drop him back off if you need or want help to get him toI have made myself available to pick him up take him and drop him back off if you need or want help to get him tothe game.the game.

On Tue, 11/02/10 at 8:16 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:are you or danielle or gilbert planning being there.

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Since this weekend the boys are designated to be with you.

Do you plan to take Theodore to his game this weekend or would you like to make an arrangement with me ahead of time to pick him up and get him there?

104 of 24311/04/2010 2:14 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/04/2010 2:15 PM)RE: thoedore

The question you asked me was what counseling has Theodore been receiving? The question you asked me was what counseling has Theodore been receiving?

The counseling, talk therapy or other therapy is provided by the school only at this time.The counseling, talk therapy or other therapy is provided by the school only at this time.

The Psychiatrist is providing medical evaluation, treatment and follow up. It is not "counseling".The Psychiatrist is providing medical evaluation, treatment and follow up. It is not "counseling".

On Thu, 11/04/10 at 8:51 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: thoedoreMessage:At the I.E.P. meeting you stated that Theodore has only been seeing the school appointed psychologist. I find it hard to believe that they would prescribemedication. Please tell me what type of medication he is prescribed and the doctorÂ’s name that prescribed the medication with contact information for thatdoctor.

105 of 24311/04/2010 2:09 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/04/2010 2:11 PM)RE: phone contact with boys

We were already asleep when you sent this.We were already asleep when you sent this.

My home phone is working now.My home phone is working now.

On Wed, 11/03/10 at 8:31 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: phone contact with boysMessage:can I speak to the boys. I will be sending you a text now with this request.


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1) Dr Patrick Bezdek1) Dr Patrick Bezdek310) 820- 2995310) 820- 2995

2) Adderall for ADHD2) Adderall for ADHD

3) Yes I will sign a listing agreement for the timeshares, when and where would you like me to sign it?3) Yes I will sign a listing agreement for the timeshares, when and where would you like me to sign it?





107 of 24311/02/2010 7:46 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 11/02/2010 7:47 PM)Flag Football

Since this weekend the boys are designated to be with you.Since this weekend the boys are designated to be with you.

Do you plan to take Theodore to his game this weekend or would you like to make an arrangement with me ahead ofDo you plan to take Theodore to his game this weekend or would you like to make an arrangement with me ahead oftime to pick him up and get him there?time to pick him up and get him there?


What needs to be signed ahead of time for the sale?What needs to be signed ahead of time for the sale?



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109 of 24310/31/2010 11:09 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/31/2010 12:09 PM)TonightOk here is what I have come up with. Ok here is what I have come up with. Option a. You pick up kids any time today and t or t with them early have them home at 6:30 or soOption a. You pick up kids any time today and t or t with them early have them home at 6:30 or so

Option b. I t or t with them early you pick them up at 6:30 or so t or t with them and keep them overnight takingOption b. I t or t with them early you pick them up at 6:30 or so t or t with them and keep them overnight takingthem to school in the morningthem to school in the morning

Either way is fine with me you pickEither way is fine with me you pick

110 of 24310/28/2010 5:11 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/28/2010 5:16 PM)Thanksgiving

The children's school is closed for the week of november 22nd to november 26th, partly due to furloughs and partThe children's school is closed for the week of november 22nd to november 26th, partly due to furloughs and partdue to Thanksgiving.due to Thanksgiving.

Do you want to have the children Sunday the 21st until wednesday the 23rd, (which is the day we will leave for upDo you want to have the children Sunday the 21st until wednesday the 23rd, (which is the day we will leave for upnorth)?north)?

111 of 24310/28/2010 4:57 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/28/2010 5:17 PM)Halloween

Halloween is Sunday night this year.Halloween is Sunday night this year.

You said you want to take the children trick or treating, so;You said you want to take the children trick or treating, so;

If you do take them trick or treating were you planning to take them to different neighborhoods like over by theirIf you do take them trick or treating were you planning to take them to different neighborhoods like over by theirschool and in Mar Vista?school and in Mar Vista?

I propose that if you take them TorT you keep them over night on Sunday, and take them to school mondayI propose that if you take them TorT you keep them over night on Sunday, and take them to school mondaymorning.morning.

I was thinking you could pick them up earlier in the day and take them when it turns dark.I was thinking you could pick them up earlier in the day and take them when it turns dark.

112 of 24310/28/2010 4:50 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/28/2010 5:18 PM)RE: phone access

I will work on itI will work on it

On Thu, 10/28/10 at 10:07 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: phone accessMessage:Could you please tell me how I could have access to talking to my sons? I would like to be able to speak to my sons at least 2 times per week. I would like torequest that they call me at a specific time preferably before bedtime.


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113 of 24310/26/2010 3:06 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/26/2010 3:07 PM)RE: Halloween and Thanksgiving

Read the last e-mail.Read the last e-mail.

I will try the call today.I will try the call today.

On Mon, 10/25/10 at 9:48 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Halloween and ThanksgivingMessage:what happend with the phone call.

On Mon, 10/25/10 at 3:48 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Halloween and ThanksgivingMessage:Theodore keeps telling me "We have to go trick or treating with Dad or he will try to take us on Thanksgiving"

I have not gotten into it with him. So I am assuming he came uP with this from the events of last year.

Do you want him to call you tonite to talk about it?

Did you want to work something out for trick or treating, it is Sunday nite this year.

114 of 24310/26/2010 3:05 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/26/2010 3:06 PM)RE: Halloween and Thanksgiving

I did not get back to Our Family Wizard last night.I did not get back to Our Family Wizard last night.

It is not the same as texting.It is not the same as texting.

As you know I do not have Internet at home and accessing the website from my iPhone is very difficult due to theAs you know I do not have Internet at home and accessing the website from my iPhone is very difficult due to thebad reception at the house.bad reception at the house.

On Mon, 10/25/10 at 7:50 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Halloween and ThanksgivingMessage:it is 10 minutes till 8:00 pm are you going to have him call me.

On Mon, 10/25/10 at 3:48 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Halloween and ThanksgivingMessage:Theodore keeps telling me "We have to go trick or treating with Dad or he will try to take us on Thanksgiving"

I have not gotten into it with him. So I am assuming he came uP with this from the events of last year.

Do you want him to call you tonite to talk about it?


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Did you want to work something out for trick or treating, it is Sunday nite this year.

115 of 24310/25/2010 3:48 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/25/2010 3:55 PM)Halloween and ThanksgivingTheodore keeps telling me "We have to go trick or treating with Dad or he will try to take us on Thanksgiving"Theodore keeps telling me "We have to go trick or treating with Dad or he will try to take us on Thanksgiving"

I have not gotten into it with him. So I am assuming he came uP with this from the events of last year.I have not gotten into it with him. So I am assuming he came uP with this from the events of last year.

Do you want him to call you tonite to talk about it?Do you want him to call you tonite to talk about it?

Did you want to work something out for trick or treating, it is Sunday nite this year.Did you want to work something out for trick or treating, it is Sunday nite this year.

116 of 24310/23/2010 1:34 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/23/2010 1:35 PM)RE: Saturday 10/23

We are at 711 when were you planning to be here?We are at 711 when were you planning to be here?

On Sat, 10/23/10 at 12:43 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Saturday 10/23Message:7/11 @ pico and lincoln

On Sat, 10/23/10 at 12:38 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Saturday 10/23Message:

Where do you want to meet? The game is over at 1:00.

117 of 24310/23/2010 12:38 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/23/2010 12:42 PM)Saturday 10/23

Where do you want to meet? The game is over at 1:00.Where do you want to meet? The game is over at 1:00.

118 of 24310/23/2010 9:04 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/23/2010 12:19 PM)10/23/10

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Are you picking up kids today after the game?Are you picking up kids today after the game?

and if so where would you like to do so?and if so where would you like to do so?

119 of 24310/22/2010 7:53 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/22/2010 8:45 PM)RE: Flag FootballYour son, Theodore Really wants his family to go to his games. He asked his sister and brother to come.Your son, Theodore Really wants his family to go to his games. He asked his sister and brother to come.

Every single member of my family (and Theodores family) treated you with absolute respect when you were at theEvery single member of my family (and Theodores family) treated you with absolute respect when you were at thefootball game the weekend before last. football game the weekend before last. When you called the boys over to you I heard Gilbert say "go Samuel, listen to your Dad". Everybody was friendlyWhen you called the boys over to you I heard Gilbert say "go Samuel, listen to your Dad". Everybody was friendlyand polite to you, and helpful with the boys.and polite to you, and helpful with the boys.

Whenever you do these weird things to hurt me and the kids it never works out the way you plan.Whenever you do these weird things to hurt me and the kids it never works out the way you plan.

I pray that you will find the healing your heart needs and it will help you to stop trying to hurt us.I pray that you will find the healing your heart needs and it will help you to stop trying to hurt us.

I am not going to tell Theodore what you are threatening because I want him to believe his dad is a good man.I am not going to tell Theodore what you are threatening because I want him to believe his dad is a good man.

I will leave it completely up to you to show him who you are.I will leave it completely up to you to show him who you are.But not at his expense this weekend.But not at his expense this weekend.

I will not be bringing him to you friday. I will not be bringing him to you friday. Your thinking process is not well. Your thinking process is not well. You want to keep your son from a sport that he loves and is excited about (his team picture too!) He deserves to beYou want to keep your son from a sport that he loves and is excited about (his team picture too!) He deserves to begiven the opportunity to play with his team and have the photo to show for it.given the opportunity to play with his team and have the photo to show for it.He should not be punished because his father cannot tolerate the sight of his mother or his siblings.He should not be punished because his father cannot tolerate the sight of his mother or his siblings.

Again, you have been treated with respect and civility, even friendly smiles and a greeting or two, by every memberAgain, you have been treated with respect and civility, even friendly smiles and a greeting or two, by every memberof this family, your attitude towards your son's sports activity is baffling.of this family, your attitude towards your son's sports activity is baffling.

I really thought you would love seeing him enjoy this sport, I thought you would be right there cheering him on.I really thought you would love seeing him enjoy this sport, I thought you would be right there cheering him on.For whatever your reason, from the first game you portrayed as much disinterest as you could at the games andFor whatever your reason, from the first game you portrayed as much disinterest as you could at the games andGilbert and Danielle did not come to the first two or three games, so you cannot blame them.Gilbert and Danielle did not come to the first two or three games, so you cannot blame them.I was shocked when I came to the first game late and you were laying on the grass away from the field, even facingI was shocked when I came to the first game late and you were laying on the grass away from the field, even facingin the other direction from where he was playing. You weren't taking pictures or even looking at him. in the other direction from where he was playing. You weren't taking pictures or even looking at him. So I tried to cheer him, sports are not even my thing, I don't even know the rules or like the sport, but the importanceSo I tried to cheer him, sports are not even my thing, I don't even know the rules or like the sport, but the importanceof my kid getting an opportunity to do the sport if he wants and feel his parents are proud of him...... will make meof my kid getting an opportunity to do the sport if he wants and feel his parents are proud of him...... will make meshow up, for him.show up, for him.Somebody has to show him support. He requested his sister, brother, and his sister's boyfriend to come, they boughtSomebody has to show him support. He requested his sister, brother, and his sister's boyfriend to come, they boughthim a football and play catch with him.him a football and play catch with him.

Let me know if you want to see them after the game saturday.Let me know if you want to see them after the game saturday.(By the way I thought this e-mail got sent yesterday when I was doing it on my i-phone from home, but I guess it(By the way I thought this e-mail got sent yesterday when I was doing it on my i-phone from home, but I guess itlost connection and didn't get transmitted)lost connection and didn't get transmitted)

On Thu, 10/21/10 at 5:28 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:I refuse to respond to your constant harassment.

Simply have the boy's on time for my scheduled visitation.

If you do not comply with my request for you not to intrude on my visitation weekends I will not bring them to football.

If your true intentions are in theodore's best interest then you would comply with this reasonable request.

If you do not respond by 4:00pm friday the 22nd I will assume that you do not agreeto these terms.

A simple yes I agree or no I don't agree will would be greatly appreciated.


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On Thu, 10/21/10 at 4:32 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Flag FootballMessage:

I am asking this question again for the third time.

Will you please let me know if you are going to make sure that Theodore makes it to Mar vista Park for his team pictures.

The last time you had the boys for the weekend you did not get him to his practice or game til the second half because you had to take Samuel to McDonald's,according to the boys. They also said that you don't have a clock in your house and you didn't know what time it was.It's sweet, but sad, that they know when you have acted badly and they make excuses for you.

I will pick up Theodore if you are having a hard time with Samuel, or I will take Samuel so that you can take Theodore to the park.

Would you like to arrange that ahead of time?

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I am asking this question again for the third time.I am asking this question again for the third time.

Will you please let me know if you are going to make sure that Theodore makes it to Mar vista Park for his teamWill you please let me know if you are going to make sure that Theodore makes it to Mar vista Park for his teampictures.pictures.

The last time you had the boys for the weekend you did not get him to his practice or game til the second halfThe last time you had the boys for the weekend you did not get him to his practice or game til the second halfbecause you had to take Samuel to McDonald's, according to the boys. They also said that you don't have a clock inbecause you had to take Samuel to McDonald's, according to the boys. They also said that you don't have a clock inyour house and you didn't know what time it was.your house and you didn't know what time it was.It's sweet, but sad, that they know when you have acted badly and they make excuses for you.It's sweet, but sad, that they know when you have acted badly and they make excuses for you.

I will pick up Theodore if you are having a hard time with Samuel, or I will take Samuel so that you can takeI will pick up Theodore if you are having a hard time with Samuel, or I will take Samuel so that you can takeTheodore to the park.Theodore to the park.

Would you like to arrange that ahead of time?Would you like to arrange that ahead of time?

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121 of 24310/21/2010 2:29 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/21/2010 2:33 PM)Santa Monica PALS Program

Can you sign the boys up for the P.A.L.S. program at Memorial Park?Can you sign the boys up for the P.A.L.S. program at Memorial Park?

It is only available for the residents of Santa Monica, it is a free program and I hear they have excellent after schoolIt is only available for the residents of Santa Monica, it is a free program and I hear they have excellent after schoolclasses.classes.

If you can register them please let me know I will get them there.If you can register them please let me know I will get them there.


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When you texted me and asked for the boys to call you, I had them call you.When you texted me and asked for the boys to call you, I had them call you.

They do not like to talk on the phone, they do not ask to call on the phone.They do not like to talk on the phone, they do not ask to call on the phone.

However the last time you texted I did make that happen.However the last time you texted I did make that happen.

You have sent e-mails to me on OFW asking them to call you, you know I do not have internet, and those messagesYou have sent e-mails to me on OFW asking them to call you, you know I do not have internet, and those messageswere not seen for days.were not seen for days.The fact that you insist on sending that particular message in that way is a mystery only you know the answer to.The fact that you insist on sending that particular message in that way is a mystery only you know the answer to.

You are the only person trying your very best to keep hostility alive.You are the only person trying your very best to keep hostility alive.

I only feel sorry for our sons, and most of the time for you. It's not hostility.I only feel sorry for our sons, and most of the time for you. It's not hostility.

That is why it is so easy for me to be friendly and polite to you when I see you at the football games.That is why it is so easy for me to be friendly and polite to you when I see you at the football games.

The only thing that matters to me on those days is that Theodore is so excited about it! I never thought that he wouldThe only thing that matters to me on those days is that Theodore is so excited about it! I never thought that he wouldparticipate in a team sport, follow directions of the coach and love a sport like that. It is so wonderful.participate in a team sport, follow directions of the coach and love a sport like that. It is so wonderful.

I do not feel any hostility at all, therefore you could not possibly be experiencing that from me. If I don't have it II do not feel any hostility at all, therefore you could not possibly be experiencing that from me. If I don't have it Ican't give it to you.can't give it to you.

You avoided the real issue of the letter I sent you which was are you going to make sure that Theo gets to the parkYou avoided the real issue of the letter I sent you which was are you going to make sure that Theo gets to the parkfor his team picture and practice before his game this saturday, or do you need me to pick him up?for his team picture and practice before his game this saturday, or do you need me to pick him up?

On Thu, 10/21/10 at 1:23 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:These messages clearly shows a great amount of hostility between us. i feel it is reasonable to keep contact between us at a minimum in front of the boys. Untilsuch time where there is some civility. I do not feel it is in anyone's best interest especially the boys, for you and your family "Danielle and Gilbert" to continueto attend our weekend sporting activities during my visitation time. I have asked on many occasions to be able to speak to my boys during the time they are with you to little or no avail, so this very short time that i have withthem. I feel it is important that it remain our time with as little distraction as possible. Please respect my wishes on this and let the boys and i enjoy our weekends together.Please respond that you will agree to this before friday evening on our family wizard only. I don't feel its appropriate to discuss this matter in front of the boysat pick-up times.

On Tue, 10/19/10 at 7:28 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:

Yes, it is.

On Mon, 10/11/10 at 7:22 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:not true


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On Mon, 10/11/10 at 3:20 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Flag FootballMessage:

Theodore really enjoys his participation on the flag football team.

His participation in this sport is so good for him on so many levels....

How can you live with yourself when you are intentionally depriving him of this great thing?

It is despicable that you kept him from his football practice and his game on 10/9/10.

Apparently you have convinced yourself that, in addition to teaching your sons by example that it is OK to behave like a horrible, immature pouty little boywith other adults like their mother, Fathers should not pay for ANYTHING for their children, and, Fathers should stand in the way of the children growingthrough team sports.

What next? Believe me, I am scared of what twisted behavior you will do next. You terrify me in fact.

123 of 24310/19/2010 7:47 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/19/2010 9:35 PM)Flag Football 10/23/10

The team picture will be taken on Saturday 10/23/10 at 10:30 AMThe team picture will be taken on Saturday 10/23/10 at 10:30 AMI will order and pay for pictures for Theodore and Samuel.I will order and pay for pictures for Theodore and Samuel.

If you can not get them to the park (at least Theodore, even if Samuel does not want to go) I will pick Theodore upIf you can not get them to the park (at least Theodore, even if Samuel does not want to go) I will pick Theodore upand bring him over.and bring him over.Or I will take care of Samuel so you can take Theodore either way.Or I will take care of Samuel so you can take Theodore either way.

This is the only time he will have his first team picture, Please do not ruin it for him.This is the only time he will have his first team picture, Please do not ruin it for him.


You were informed by the coach that practice was at 11:00AM and Game started at 12:00PM. You brought TheodoreYou were informed by the coach that practice was at 11:00AM and Game started at 12:00PM. You brought Theodoreto the second half of the game at 12:30to the second half of the game at 12:30If you are incapable of comprehending that he lost out on valuable experience there is no hope for you.If you are incapable of comprehending that he lost out on valuable experience there is no hope for you.Interesting it is the very first time you took a picture at one of his games obviously you did so because you are up toInteresting it is the very first time you took a picture at one of his games obviously you did so because you are up toyour usual games of trying to start a he said she said between you and I.your usual games of trying to start a he said she said between you and I.I pity your son because of his father.I pity your son because of his father.

On Fri, 10/15/10 at 10:32 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:I'm sending pictures and video of rams vs falcons flag football on 10-9-10 to your e-mail ([email protected])


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Theodore really enjoys his participation on the flag football team.Theodore really enjoys his participation on the flag football team.

His participation in this sport is so good for him on so many levels....His participation in this sport is so good for him on so many levels....

How can you live with yourself when you are intentionally depriving him of this great thing?How can you live with yourself when you are intentionally depriving him of this great thing?

It is despicable that you kept him from his football practice and his game on 10/9/10.It is despicable that you kept him from his football practice and his game on 10/9/10.

Apparently you have convinced yourself that, in addition to teaching your sons by example that it is OK to behaveApparently you have convinced yourself that, in addition to teaching your sons by example that it is OK to behavelike a horrible, immature pouty little boy with other adults like their mother, Fathers should not pay for ANYTHINGlike a horrible, immature pouty little boy with other adults like their mother, Fathers should not pay for ANYTHINGfor their children, and, Fathers should stand in the way of the children growing through team sports.for their children, and, Fathers should stand in the way of the children growing through team sports.

What next? What next? Believe me, I am scared of what twisted behavior you will do next. Believe me, I am scared of what twisted behavior you will do next. You terrify me in fact.You terrify me in fact.

127 of 24310/11/2010 3:04 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/11/2010 3:24 PM)Kids clothes

The children did not come back from their visit to you wearing the clothes that they wore to your house, again.The children did not come back from their visit to you wearing the clothes that they wore to your house, again.

The shirts they came home wearing are old and ratty and not school clothes.The shirts they came home wearing are old and ratty and not school clothes.

Since the children must dress for school at my house, it is wrong for you to stockpile the good clothes I send them toSince the children must dress for school at my house, it is wrong for you to stockpile the good clothes I send them toyour house wearing.your house wearing.

You send them home in play clothes and keep school clothes I buy them at your house. This is backwards, not toYou send them home in play clothes and keep school clothes I buy them at your house. This is backwards, not tomention selfish and petty of you.mention selfish and petty of you.

128 of 24310/11/2010 2:56 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/11/2010 3:24 PM)RE: Friday Oct 8

The skating instructor must have a real short memory, because we discussed the fact that Theo had a conflict withThe skating instructor must have a real short memory, because we discussed the fact that Theo had a conflict withfootball practice and skating class that was not anticipated when the class was signed up for, when we talked thefootball practice and skating class that was not anticipated when the class was signed up for, when we talked thefriday before.friday before.

On Fri, 10/08/10 at 6:11 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Friday Oct 8Message:the baby sitter did not show up untill after 4:45 and then the skating instructor said that this was the last class that theodre was signed up for. he asked whytheodore had not showed up for all the other classes,

On Fri, 10/08/10 at 8:44 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Friday Oct 8Message:


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I will not get out of work tonight on time to have the boys at Pac Div at 6:30

do you want to pick up boys at mar vista park ?

Theodore has roller blading class at 4:15. So they will be at or near the roller rink at park

Please let me know so I can tell babysitter if you will be expected

129 of 24310/08/2010 8:44 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/08/2010 9:33 AM)Friday Oct 8

I will not get out of work tonight on time to have the boys at Pac Div at 6:30I will not get out of work tonight on time to have the boys at Pac Div at 6:30

do you want to pick up boys at mar vista park ?do you want to pick up boys at mar vista park ?

Theodore has roller blading class at 4:15. So they will be at or near the roller rink at park Theodore has roller blading class at 4:15. So they will be at or near the roller rink at park

Please let me know so I can tell babysitter if you will be expectedPlease let me know so I can tell babysitter if you will be expected

130 of 24310/08/2010 8:35 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/08/2010 9:34 AM)RE: Children school clothes

last Sunday night when I picked them up they were wearing some of the clothes from the week before.last Sunday night when I picked them up they were wearing some of the clothes from the week before.

This would be less of a problem if you would buy them some clothes that fit them and are good for school This would be less of a problem if you would buy them some clothes that fit them and are good for school

Instead of old too small clothes that I cannot send them to school inInstead of old too small clothes that I cannot send them to school in

if you bought them some clothes that fit it wouldn't matter as much what they wore home as long as it could be usedif you bought them some clothes that fit it wouldn't matter as much what they wore home as long as it could be usedfor school clothesfor school clothes

no bathing suits or rash guardsno bathing suits or rash guards

On Tue, 10/05/10 at 8:39 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Children school clothesMessage:I will look, but they wore clothes home and they brought back uniforms.

On Tue, 10/05/10 at 7:30 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Children school clothesMessage:

I asked you to return the children's school clothes that you have at your house, I do appreciate the fact that you returned some of them last sunday, would youplease look through the clothes that you have and return what you have in addition to what they wear to your house. Even if you have to return them dirty.

Samuel in particular will only wear certain types of clothes.

Thank you.


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131 of 24310/05/2010 7:30 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/05/2010 8:35 PM)Children school clothes

I asked you to return the children's school clothes that you have at your house, I do appreciate the fact that youI asked you to return the children's school clothes that you have at your house, I do appreciate the fact that youreturned some of them last sunday, would you please look through the clothes that you have and return what youreturned some of them last sunday, would you please look through the clothes that you have and return what youhave in addition to what they wear to your house. Even if you have to return them dirty.have in addition to what they wear to your house. Even if you have to return them dirty.

Samuel in particular will only wear certain types of clothes.Samuel in particular will only wear certain types of clothes.

Thank you.Thank you.

132 of 24310/05/2010 7:23 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/05/2010 8:36 PM)RE: Sunday Oct 10th

I am sorry I forgot I have another commitment on Sunday, I will not be able to take the boys to my friends son'sI am sorry I forgot I have another commitment on Sunday, I will not be able to take the boys to my friends son'sparty.party.

Also, I lost my chance to go out of town on the 15th, because you would not trade weekends with me when I askedAlso, I lost my chance to go out of town on the 15th, because you would not trade weekends with me when I askedyou a month ago.you a month ago.

There is no reason to trade now.There is no reason to trade now.

On Mon, 10/04/10 at 5:07 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Sunday Oct 10thMessage:I would be willing to trade weekends of the 8th with the 15th with the exception that I would be able to be with them on holloween night. meaning;1. you would have them on the weekend of the 8th.2. i would have them on the weekend of the 15th stating @ 6:30 pm friday to 6:30 pm sunday3. and I would be able spend time with them on holloween night. 4. after that we would resume regularly scheduled visitations.

On Mon, 10/04/10 at 4:48 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: Sunday Oct 10thMessage:

I do want to talk more about this but I have to leave where I am and get home so I cannot finish this right now.I am getting on the road.I will get back to it as soon as I can.Meanwhile if you have any other info you would like to add about dates, weekends, etc. please send.

On Mon, 10/04/10 at 4:38 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Sunday Oct 10thMessage:I just sent you a message that stated your b-day was on the tenth. I just remembered that it is on the 13th. now you have just asked if you could have them on the 10th. I would be willing to trade weekends. or work out a plan so that I could spend time with them onholloween night.


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On Mon, 10/04/10 at 4:16 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Sunday Oct 10thMessage:

The boys have been invited to a birthday party that would be very fun for them. It is a place with bumper cars and other fun things.

The boy is their age, the son of a friend....

Can I get them back sunday morning to take them?

Please let me know, she needs to have enough tickets for them.

133 of 24310/04/2010 4:48 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/04/2010 4:49 PM)RE: Sunday Oct 10th

I do want to talk more about this but I have to leave where I am and get home so I cannot finish this right now.I do want to talk more about this but I have to leave where I am and get home so I cannot finish this right now.I am getting on the road.I am getting on the road.I will get back to it as soon as I can.I will get back to it as soon as I can.Meanwhile if you have any other info you would like to add about dates, weekends, etc. please send.Meanwhile if you have any other info you would like to add about dates, weekends, etc. please send.

On Mon, 10/04/10 at 4:38 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Sunday Oct 10thMessage:I just sent you a message that stated your b-day was on the tenth. I just remembered that it is on the 13th. now you have just asked if you could have them on the 10th. I would be willing to trade weekends. or work out a plan so that I could spend time with them onholloween night.

On Mon, 10/04/10 at 4:16 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Sunday Oct 10thMessage:

The boys have been invited to a birthday party that would be very fun for them. It is a place with bumper cars and other fun things.

The boy is their age, the son of a friend....

Can I get them back sunday morning to take them?

Please let me know, she needs to have enough tickets for them.

134 of 24310/04/2010 4:43 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/04/2010 4:50 PM)RE: this weekend

My birthday is the 13th.My birthday is the 13th.

I just sent you a message about the 10th.I just sent you a message about the 10th.

I do plan to have them on the 3rd weekend...... I do plan to have them on the 3rd weekend......


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I tried to switch weekends with you because I was trying to leave town on the 3rd weekend of October, but youI tried to switch weekends with you because I was trying to leave town on the 3rd weekend of October, but yourefused.refused.

Has something changed? Are you inquiring about the 3rd weekend because you would like to change something?Has something changed? Are you inquiring about the 3rd weekend because you would like to change something?

On Mon, 10/04/10 at 4:14 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: this weekendMessage:I beleive that this weekend ends on the tenth witch is your b-day. will you be keeping the boys and I will have them on the third weekend?

135 of 24310/04/2010 4:16 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/04/2010 4:17 PM)Sunday Oct 10th

The boys have been invited to a birthday party that would be very fun for them. It is a place with bumper cars andThe boys have been invited to a birthday party that would be very fun for them. It is a place with bumper cars andother fun things.other fun things.

The boy is their age, the son of a friend.... The boy is their age, the son of a friend....

Can I get them back sunday morning to take them?Can I get them back sunday morning to take them?

Please let me know, she needs to have enough tickets for them.Please let me know, she needs to have enough tickets for them.

136 of 24310/01/2010 2:52 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/01/2010 5:05 PM)RE: in responce to you text

That was a nice touch to add some mis-spellings for authenticity, but it is still obvious that Dan is not drafting the e-That was a nice touch to add some mis-spellings for authenticity, but it is still obvious that Dan is not drafting the e-mails.mails.

1. You have never addressed my offer of spending more time with the boys, I presented Many ways in which that1. You have never addressed my offer of spending more time with the boys, I presented Many ways in which thatcould happen that would really enhance the boys life experience. You have not acknoweldged any of them ecxept forcould happen that would really enhance the boys life experience. You have not acknoweldged any of them ecxept forthe one time you said you wanted to walk them to practice but then it got lost in your game playing overthe one time you said you wanted to walk them to practice but then it got lost in your game playing overcommunication, remember I told you I couldnt go on to OFW and you would only send messages on OFW, all thatcommunication, remember I told you I couldnt go on to OFW and you would only send messages on OFW, all thatback and forth for nothing.....back and forth for nothing.....That was it, you never revisited it.That was it, you never revisited it.

2. You made this suggestion about picking up the boys Friday and taking them to school Monday, but you have never2. You made this suggestion about picking up the boys Friday and taking them to school Monday, but you have neveraddressed all of the issues re: the times we have tried that in the past or acknowledged any awareness oraddressed all of the issues re: the times we have tried that in the past or acknowledged any awareness orunderstanding that if things went the way they did last time we tried it, the need for communication between usunderstanding that if things went the way they did last time we tried it, the need for communication between usINCREASED, as I tried to track down thier school clothes, shoes, work, backpacks, etc. and you ignored all of it.INCREASED, as I tried to track down thier school clothes, shoes, work, backpacks, etc. and you ignored all of it.

3. You keep suggesting that picking them up friday and dropping them off monday at school will increase your3. You keep suggesting that picking them up friday and dropping them off monday at school will increase yourteacher interaction. There are literally hundreds of ways for you to be involved in their schooling and have plenty ofteacher interaction. There are literally hundreds of ways for you to be involved in their schooling and have plenty ofteacher interaction, pick up and drop off times are the worst possible times for the teacher to focus on a parent.teacher interaction, pick up and drop off times are the worst possible times for the teacher to focus on a parent.It is just not believable that teacher interaction is motivation for the change.It is just not believable that teacher interaction is motivation for the change.

4. In my offer to you to spend more time with the boys I offered for you to pick them up wednesdays for instance to4. In my offer to you to spend more time with the boys I offered for you to pick them up wednesdays for instance togo to park or walk them home, or walk them to school any day of the week, why wouldn't any of those days promotego to park or walk them home, or walk them to school any day of the week, why wouldn't any of those days promotethe same teacher interaction you speak of?the same teacher interaction you speak of?

5. There has been zero conflict between Dan and I during pick up and drop off. Of course I think (and every5. There has been zero conflict between Dan and I during pick up and drop off. Of course I think (and everyprofessional agrees with me) Dan should work on having a little tiny bit of eye contact, answering simple questionsprofessional agrees with me) Dan should work on having a little tiny bit of eye contact, answering simple questionswith the same courtesy he would like to and does recieve from me, an overall more civil interaction, like two normalwith the same courtesy he would like to and does recieve from me, an overall more civil interaction, like two normalpeople with a common interest... It would be so helpful to the boys if they could see that. They constantly look at uspeople with a common interest... It would be so helpful to the boys if they could see that. They constantly look at usback and forth trying to figure out if we're ok so they can be ok. They notice when Dan turns his head away fromback and forth trying to figure out if we're ok so they can be ok. They notice when Dan turns his head away from


back and forth trying to figure out if we're ok so they can be ok. They notice when Dan turns his head away fromback and forth trying to figure out if we're ok so they can be ok. They notice when Dan turns his head away fromwhen speaking or refusing to speak, etc. Just think about how hard we work and still work on their communicationwhen speaking or refusing to speak, etc. Just think about how hard we work and still work on their communicationand eye contact. A much better example could be set, but other than that I have no idea why you continuously referand eye contact. A much better example could be set, but other than that I have no idea why you continuously referto this conflict that occurs during exchanges.to this conflict that occurs during exchanges.I can count on one hand the actual incidences of conflict that have actually occurred in fact every one of them areI can count on one hand the actual incidences of conflict that have actually occurred in fact every one of them aredocumented heavily. in two years and 100's of exchanges we may be more dramatic but probably have fewerdocumented heavily. in two years and 100's of exchanges we may be more dramatic but probably have fewerincidents than many divorced couples.incidents than many divorced couples.Speaking for myself I am perfectly able and willing to be civil and courteous to Dan.Speaking for myself I am perfectly able and willing to be civil and courteous to Dan.I understand the importance to my childrens development and security.I understand the importance to my childrens development and security.6. Do you intend to go to the practice today?6. Do you intend to go to the practice today?

On Fri, 10/01/10 at 9:44 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:All that I am trying to do is address your offer of me being able to spend more time with the boys. Just by looking at these e-mails back and fourth betweenyou and myself any reasonable person would conclude that we are in high conflict. I beleive that the praposal that I had suggested addresses many issues.1. your offer to me regauding spending more time with the boys.2. it would avoid possible conflict between you and myself infont of the boys.3. I would have the oppritunity to interact the boys teachers.4. you have stated that you work on fridays.

Lets try another way. After reviewing the options for practice schedule I saw that Fridays was an option. I propose this. I propose that I pick them up fromschool on Fridays, take them to football practice and either return them to you Sunday evening or what I would prefer is to bring them back to school Mondaymorning. I feel this proposal is the best solution as it gives me the opportunity to participate in their school lives, (which by the way the children haverequested) I would get to know their teachers on a more casual basis then to schedule appointments with them which can be awkward. If you recall the lasttime I came to school the boys did in fact want to leave with me and that became an issue. You have stated that you are offering me more time with my sons,this seems to be the most reasonable solution until the day comes that we can interact with each other without so much animosity. I believe this would be bestfor the children. Please respond.

On Thu, 09/30/10 at 2:31 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:

It appears as though whoever is writing and sending these e-mails is choosing to ignore everything I say, no matter what it is, just act like I said nothing at all.No response, no acknowledgment of any type.

That is ineffective communication.

Would the person that drafted the e-mail below really formulate a sentence:

"In responCe to YOU text"? As is written in the subject line?

Not so much.

On Thu, 09/30/10 at 9:52 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:Lets try another way. After reviewing the options for practice schedule I saw that Fridays was an option. I propose this. I propose that I pick them up fromschool on Fridays, take them to football practice and either return them to you Sunday evening or what I would prefer is to bring them back to school Mondaymorning.I feel this proposal is the best solution as it gives me the opportunity to participate in their school lives, (which by the way the children have requested) I wouldget to know their teachers on a more casual basis then to schedule appointments with them which can be awkward. If you recall the last time I came to schoolthe boys did in fact want to leave with me and that became an issue.You have stated that you are offering me more time with my sons, this seems to be the most reasonable solution until the day comes that we can interact witheach other without so much animosity. I believe this would be best for the children. Please respond.

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On Sun, 09/26/10 at 9:55 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:To whoever wrote this e-mail,I have an idea, why don't you click over to the e-mail that Dan wrote to me the next day at 2:00 in the afternoon, once you reread the the e-mail you wrote me at10:00 PM Thursday night then the one Dan wrote to me at 2:00 PM the following day and put yourself in my shoes for a moment......I am supposed to be acting like I am communicating with one person?The complete disconnect between attitudes and thought processes is major.There is an e-mail written to me at 10:00 thursday night, remember, I have the children at my house, I am caring for them and I don't have internet access, barely have phone reception, certainly no wireless internetreception to pick up on my phone, all facts which Dan should know from experience, but in case he forgot ,I have talked about it ad nauseum in the last fewweeks,. So it should be crystal clear to any reasonable person that I did not check the 10:00 PM message that night because I could not.Then I get the next e-mail sent at 2:00 on friday, which is impatient, and antagonistic and not the sort of thing you would write or say if you were trying tofurther effective communication with a recipient that has thus far not given any indication being adverse to communicating with you.And it was sent during the day on friday, so not only could I have not read the one the night before, but how in god's name, while getting two boys up in themorning, fed, dressed, ready and off to school, then myself to work at a job where I have worked on fridays for 11 years, and I have stated over and overagain, (even though again Dan should know this from experience) that I am not in a position to be on the computer during the day, how could I have checkedthe e-mail?

So, when I finally get a chance to log on I am hit with one e-mail that is making a request for a significant change in custody, (a change where I would againhave to deal with the issues of the childrens backpacks homework folders, handouts from school homework folders books, clothes, shoes jackets etc. all ofwhich have NEVER been taken care of by Dan and have resulted in me having to attempt to Communicate with him more to find out where these things areand how I can get them where they need to be, which he won't do, and the teachers hounding me and the kids not having thier stuff, on and on,a vicious circle.)

The next e-mail which comes on the tail of the 10: 00 Pm e-mail, which is a very well put request for what could be a reasonable change of custody(with areasonable person) is one in which the person, who supposedly made this reasonable e-mail the night before, Jumps to the conclusion that I am beingadversarial, in other words to say;"has my window of opportunity closed. are you no longer communicating through our family wizzard web site?"Gives the indication that it is written by someone who has no idea that I haven't had the chance to check the-mail from the night before, but simply jumps to theconclusion that I no longer want him to spend more time with his sons, and that my answer to the 10:00 PM e-mail is NO, and I refuse to even communicateon OFW at all.....

So hopefully you can see how difficult this is from my position.There is no hope for someone like myself on the recieving end of this type of situation, even if I responded well to the reasonable e-mail from thursday night Iwill always end up having to really deal with the person who wrote the friday e-mail, one who is already fighting with me in his head before I've ever had achance to weigh in....The losers are the kids....Ultimately I would love to be dealing with a man who could pick up the kids from school have an active and helpful role in thier school career, take the weightoff of me by taking them to school at least one day and so on and so forth.... but sadly as you can see I am not dealing with the person who is mentally at theplace of writing the reasonable communicative e-mail, I am faced with the reality that I am dealing with the person whose every action goes against reasonablecommunication and is so ready to fight that the fight is kind of over to him before I know I am even having one.

I do not have the children all the weekdays because it is my dream to do all the WORK with them...I have them because Dan Cooper cannot co-parent the children in a way that supports their academic needs and he will not investigate his part in this patternand how he can get the help and support to change it......He is probably capable but as long as he is stuck in this bizarre idea that everything revolves around some epic battle between him and I, he just can't see.........

On Thu, 09/23/10 at 10:21 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:Lets try another way. After reviewing the options for practice schedule I saw that Fridays was an option. I propose this. I propose that I pick them up fromschool on Fridays, take them to football practice and either return them to you Sunday evening or what I would prefer is to bring them back to school Mondaymorning.I feel this proposal is the best solution as it gives me the opportunity to participate in their school lives, (which by the way the children have requested) I wouldget to know their teachers on a more casual basis then to schedule appointments with them which can be awkward. If you recall the last time I came to schoolthe boys did in fact want to leave with me and that became an issue.You have stated that you are offering me more time with my sons, this seems to be the most reasonable solution until the day comes that we can interact witheach other without so much animosity. I believe this would be best for the children. Please respond.



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I know Dan Cooper did not write that e-mail, he was probably outside smoking, he probably didn't even read it before it was sent.

Since I don't know who I am talking to with these e-mails I think it really defeats the chance that Dan and I will have any growth in our communicationregarding the children.

Clearly he doesn't want to, or cannot, read my e-mails and he is having someone else answer them.

I find it tragic that the person who is answering me cannot at least be helpful to Dan in this endeavor in a way that will facilitate more communication instead ofdigging into a pointless adversarial stance.

The bottom line that you are not comprehending, as evidenced by your own words, is that Dan will continue to miss opportunities that are open to him to seehis children and take a more active role in their life, to be helpful to them as a father can be in so many ways.

You see,I have offered the scenario's of spending time with the kids after school during the week, in order for that to happen,1)Dan must contact me to let me know he is available and desirous of seeing the children3) I must then answer back to let him know where and when this can take place if he would like to do that4) Dan must confirm that he is going to show up and see them at designated time and place5) All of these things must take place in a short amount of time so that I can make arrangements with whomever is watching them, or myself get them ready tomeet him etc.

I absolutely cannot (and will not even try) go back and forth on the Our Family Wizard Website for this type of communication. This will be the last time I will even address this issue.

So...... yesterday Dan stuck to his guns and would only talk on OFW, he acted like he wanted to see the kids, he acted like he was sitting there waiting for myanswer on OFW so he could go meet with themHe never did get the answer because I was too busy getting them ready, talking to them about their day, and taking them to Mar Vista park to access theinternet, attempt to log on and send an e-mail and then sit and wait for a response which I then have to access the internet again to read the response, etc.

I told him I could not do that so as far as I can tell he made his choice not to communicate in a way that would actually get him what he said he wanted whichwas to see the children.

Dan, if you want to see them during the week as I have offered for you to do, communicate that to me in a way that will work or don't, I don't care.The children lose out having their Dad and you lose out being more a part of your kids lives.As for me, my loss stops here with the 30 minutes I have spent on this e-mail during a boring class.

On Thu, 09/23/10 at 10:08 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:I was completely exhausted and I was only at the second paragraph not to mention that you continue to address me in a condescending tone, which reallydoesnÂ’t help matters. As far as OFW is concerned it was at your request to the courts that all communication go through OFW. I complied. This is the way we will continue tocommunicate as it is the only way our interactions can be monitored therefore leaving me in the position to not have to defend myself against any future falseallegations etc. as i have had to repeatedly in the past.I must once again request that there is no physical interaction between us unless you confirm on OFW that you will accept all recordings of events that disputeyour testimony can and will be used in a COURT OF LAW without your objections to their admissibility. Please agree to this so that I may be able to take partin my sonÂ’s activities at your request and to remove the fear of your allegations in future court proceedings.

Please respond

On Thu, 09/23/10 at 9:31 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:Dan,I am trying here.You have to try too for this to work.

In regard to messages on OFW, I do not sit at a desk with a computer at my job, I do not have Internet access at home. Going online on my Iphone is timeconsuming, difficult in many ways, impossible while driving or running around, interacting with the boys.Don't believe the TV commercials.I have asked you before to text me if there is a message that must be looked at soon as possible but OFW is not appropriate for back and forth conversationsabout an activity that is happening or that we want to happen right away. If you want to have effective communications about our sons so that you can take more of an active role in their lives and physical activities you have to apply


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If you want to have effective communications about our sons so that you can take more of an active role in their lives and physical activities you have to applycommon sense and be capable of some flexibility.OFW is a very good site for many reasons, but texting has it's place in today's world as well.

Yesterday I am certain that you knew I was on my way home or dealing with the boys or whatever you thought I was doing it was not sitting at a computer forsure.I even left you a message on your phone to make sure that you understood that I could not check the computer but that the invitation for you to get your boysand go to the practice was open to you however I had to keep moving as though I was taking them if I did not hear from you.You chose to answer on OFW even though I made it clear as a bell that I could not check OFW.I have told you many times I do not have a home phone you still sent me a message yesterday asking why my phone was busy....I hope that we can have more effective communication.As for interaction between you and I, I wish you understood or could believe that there is no one person on this earth that would wish to interact with you lessThan me.But, it is so critical to the children right now that we have civil or even friendly interaction that I would do that every time I see you regardless of any feelings Imight be having at the time.It just means being decent to each other for the couple of minutes it takes to exchange them.Hopefully someday you can find it in your heart to do that for your boys.I have no idea why you would think that I would have any one with me when you pick up your children , I never have, what would make you think that mybehavior would change suddenly after two years?

On Wed, 09/22/10 at 4:46 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: in responce to you textMessage:in responce to your text sent regaurding taking the boys to flag football practice.I need your confirmation that there will be no interaction between you and myself for reasons that I perfer not discuss in this e-mail at this time. plus I need toknow that your friend raymond william/olund will not be there. If you confirm that this is exceptable then I will be at the house at 5:15 to walk the boys to thepark.

137 of 24309/30/2010 3:01 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/01/2010 8:51 AM)Football practice and Samuel

I believe that Samuel did enjoy the time he spent playing in the game last Saturday.I believe that Samuel did enjoy the time he spent playing in the game last Saturday.

He went to practice Wednesday with a good attitude joined in right away like it was the thing to do, then a fewHe went to practice Wednesday with a good attitude joined in right away like it was the thing to do, then a fewminutes into it he was sitting away from them by himself, when I asked him what was up he said he needed a break.minutes into it he was sitting away from them by himself, when I asked him what was up he said he needed a break.He never really rejoined them, when he did it was for a minute,He never really rejoined them, when he did it was for a minute,what I noticed was that the Coaches are not getting his attention. what I noticed was that the Coaches are not getting his attention. I think he kind of wants to do it but gets lost so quickly it frustrates him. I think he kind of wants to do it but gets lost so quickly it frustrates him. There is alot going on and I think he just doesn't know who to listen to and they don't change their speech patternThere is alot going on and I think he just doesn't know who to listen to and they don't change their speech patternwith him.with him.

If someone is close by just gently directing him for the coaches, like if they say everyone go huddle and someone isIf someone is close by just gently directing him for the coaches, like if they say everyone go huddle and someone isthere to point and show Samuel to go with the kids to huddle, etc. he seems to have fun.there to point and show Samuel to go with the kids to huddle, etc. he seems to have fun.

I don't know if he was participating at all on Saturday before I got there, I never asked, but if you are going to fridayI don't know if he was participating at all on Saturday before I got there, I never asked, but if you are going to fridaypractice will you try that with him? To kind of shadow him? (like I said you may have already done it before I gotpractice will you try that with him? To kind of shadow him? (like I said you may have already done it before I gotthere, and I may be asking this for no reason I don't know)there, and I may be asking this for no reason I don't know)

It's a good thing for him to feel part of, even Theo needs a little help with that here.It's a good thing for him to feel part of, even Theo needs a little help with that here.Even though he is listening to the coaches and playing well taking good direction, I noticed that he doesn't connectEven though he is listening to the coaches and playing well taking good direction, I noticed that he doesn't connectwith the other kids, no real interaction.with the other kids, no real interaction.He just needs a tiny bit of prompting.He just needs a tiny bit of prompting.Like when you see the opportunity, just telling him to go over and say something to a team mate, etc.Like when you see the opportunity, just telling him to go over and say something to a team mate, etc.

We have to do this while they are this little before the kids all start getting TOO COOL, and Theo and Samuel startWe have to do this while they are this little before the kids all start getting TOO COOL, and Theo and Samuel startgetting more embarrassed.getting more embarrassed.


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I hope that you are on board with me for them about this.I hope that you are on board with me for them about this.

138 of 24309/30/2010 2:36 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 10/01/2010 8:53 AM)Theodore and Samuel school clothes

To reiterate what I asked you last week when I picked up children, will you please send back the clothes they wereTo reiterate what I asked you last week when I picked up children, will you please send back the clothes they werewearing when you picked them up from football practice last week, they went to football practice in their schoolwearing when you picked them up from football practice last week, they went to football practice in their schoolclothes, they went with you straight from there and they came home wearing the football uniforms, I need the schoolclothes, they went with you straight from there and they came home wearing the football uniforms, I need the schoolclothes back. clothes back.

If you want to take them from football practice again this week please let me know.If you want to take them from football practice again this week please let me know.


It appears as though whoever is writing and sending these e-mails is choosing to ignore everything I say, no matterIt appears as though whoever is writing and sending these e-mails is choosing to ignore everything I say, no matterwhat it is, just act like I said nothing at all.what it is, just act like I said nothing at all.No response, no acknowledgment of any type.No response, no acknowledgment of any type.

That is ineffective communication.That is ineffective communication.

Would the person that drafted the e-mail below really formulate a sentence: Would the person that drafted the e-mail below really formulate a sentence:

"In responCe to YOU text"? As is written in the subject line? "In responCe to YOU text"? As is written in the subject line?

Not so much.Not so much.

On Thu, 09/30/10 at 9:52 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:Lets try another way. After reviewing the options for practice schedule I saw that Fridays was an option. I propose this. I propose that I pick them up fromschool on Fridays, take them to football practice and either return them to you Sunday evening or what I would prefer is to bring them back to school Mondaymorning.I feel this proposal is the best solution as it gives me the opportunity to participate in their school lives, (which by the way the children have requested) I wouldget to know their teachers on a more casual basis then to schedule appointments with them which can be awkward. If you recall the last time I came to schoolthe boys did in fact want to leave with me and that became an issue.You have stated that you are offering me more time with my sons, this seems to be the most reasonable solution until the day comes that we can interact witheach other without so much animosity. I believe this would be best for the children. Please respond.

On Sun, 09/26/10 at 9:55 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: in responce to you textMessage:To whoever wrote this e-mail,I have an idea, why don't you click over to the e-mail that Dan wrote to me the next day at 2:00 in the afternoon, once you reread the the e-mail you wrote me at10:00 PM Thursday night then the one Dan wrote to me at 2:00 PM the following day and put yourself in my shoes for a moment......I am supposed to be acting like I am communicating with one person?The complete disconnect between attitudes and thought processes is major.There is an e-mail written to me at 10:00 thursday night, remember, I have the children at my house, I am caring for them and I don't have internet access, barely have phone reception, certainly no wireless internetreception to pick up on my phone, all facts which Dan should know from experience, but in case he forgot ,I have talked about it ad nauseum in the last fewweeks,.


weeks,. So it should be crystal clear to any reasonable person that I did not check the 10:00 PM message that night because I could not.Then I get the next e-mail sent at 2:00 on friday, which is impatient, and antagonistic and not the sort of thing you would write or say if you were trying tofurther effective communication with a recipient that has thus far not given any indication being adverse to communicating with you.And it was sent during the day on friday, so not only could I have not read the one the night before, but how in god's name, while getting two boys up in themorning, fed, dressed, ready and off to school, then myself to work at a job where I have worked on fridays for 11 years, and I have stated over and overagain, (even though again Dan should know this from experience) that I am not in a position to be on the computer during the day, how could I have checkedthe e-mail?

So, when I finally get a chance to log on I am hit with one e-mail that is making a request for a significant change in custody, (a change where I would againhave to deal with the issues of the childrens backpacks homework folders, handouts from school homework folders books, clothes, shoes jackets etc. all ofwhich have NEVER been taken care of by Dan and have resulted in me having to attempt to Communicate with him more to find out where these things areand how I can get them where they need to be, which he won't do, and the teachers hounding me and the kids not having thier stuff, on and on,a vicious circle.)

The next e-mail which comes on the tail of the 10: 00 Pm e-mail, which is a very well put request for what could be a reasonable change of custody(with areasonable person) is one in which the person, who supposedly made this reasonable e-mail the night before, Jumps to the conclusion that I am beingadversarial, in other words to say;"has my window of opportunity closed. are you no longer communicating through our family wizzard web site?"Gives the indication that it is written by someone who has no idea that I haven't had the chance to check the-mail from the night before, but simply jumps to theconclusion that I no longer want him to spend more time with his sons, and that my answer to the 10:00 PM e-mail is NO, and I refuse to even communicateon OFW at all.....

So hopefully you can see how difficult this is from my position.There is no hope for someone like myself on the recieving end of this type of situation, even if I responded well to the reasonable e-mail from thursday night Iwill always end up having to really deal with the person who wrote the friday e-mail, one who is already fighting with me in his head before I've ever had achance to weigh in....The losers are the kids....Ultimately I would love to be dealing with a man who could pick up the kids from school have an active and helpful role in thier school career, take the weightoff of me by taking them to school at least one day and so on and so forth.... but sadly as you can see I am not dealing with the person who is mentally at theplace of writing the reasonable communicative e-mail, I am faced with the reality that I am dealing with the person whose every action goes against reasonablecommunication and is so ready to fight that the fight is kind of over to him before I know I am even having one.

I do not have the children all the weekdays because it is my dream to do all the WORK with them...I have them because Dan Cooper cannot co-parent the children in a way that supports their academic needs and he will not investigate his part in this patternand how he can get the help and support to change it......He is probably capable but as long as he is stuck in this bizarre idea that everything revolves around some epic battle between him and I, he just can't see.........







The bottom line that you are not comprehending, as evidenced by your own words, is that Dan will continue to miss opportunities that are open to him to see









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In regard to messages on OFW, I do not sit at a desk with a computer at my job, I do not have Internet access at home. Going online on my Iphone is timeconsuming, difficult in many ways, impossible while driving or running around, interacting with the boys.Don't believe the TV commercials.I have asked you before to text me if there is a message that must be looked at soon as possible but OFW is not appropriate for back and forth conversationsabout an activity that is happening or that we want to happen right away. If you want to have effective communications about our sons so that you can take more of an active role in their lives and physical activities you have to applycommon sense and be capable of some flexibility.OFW is a very good site for many reasons, but texting has it's place in today's world as well.

Yesterday I am certain that you knew I was on my way home or dealing with the boys or whatever you thought I was doing it was not sitting at a computer forsure.I even left you a message on your phone to make sure that you understood that I could not check the computer but that the invitation for you to get your boysand go to the practice was open to you however I had to keep moving as though I was taking them if I did not hear from you.You chose to answer on OFW even though I made it clear as a bell that I could not check OFW.I have told you many times I do not have a home phone you still sent me a message yesterday asking why my phone was busy....I hope that we can have more effective communication.As for interaction between you and I, I wish you understood or could believe that there is no one person on this earth that would wish to interact with you lessThan me.But, it is so critical to the children right now that we have civil or even friendly interaction that I would do that every time I see you regardless of any feelings I


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But, it is so critical to the children right now that we have civil or even friendly interaction that I would do that every time I see you regardless of any feelings Imight be having at the time.It just means being decent to each other for the couple of minutes it takes to exchange them.Hopefully someday you can find it in your heart to do that for your boys.I have no idea why you would think that I would have any one with me when you pick up your children , I never have, what would make you think that mybehavior would change suddenly after two years?


140 of 24309/26/2010 9:55 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/26/2010 10:32 AM)RE: in responce to you textTo whoever wrote this e-mail,To whoever wrote this e-mail,I have an idea, why don't you click over to the e-mail that Dan wrote to me the next day at 2:00 in the afternoon,I have an idea, why don't you click over to the e-mail that Dan wrote to me the next day at 2:00 in the afternoon,once you reread the the e-mail you wrote me at 10:00 PM Thursday night then the one Dan wrote to me at 2:00 PMonce you reread the the e-mail you wrote me at 10:00 PM Thursday night then the one Dan wrote to me at 2:00 PMthe following day and put yourself in my shoes for a moment......the following day and put yourself in my shoes for a moment......I am supposed to be acting like I am communicating with one person?I am supposed to be acting like I am communicating with one person?The complete disconnect between attitudes and thought processes is major.The complete disconnect between attitudes and thought processes is major.There is an e-mail written to me at 10:00 thursday night, There is an e-mail written to me at 10:00 thursday night, remember, I have the children at my house, I am caring for them and I don't have internet access, barely have phoneremember, I have the children at my house, I am caring for them and I don't have internet access, barely have phonereception, certainly no wireless internet reception to pick up on my phone, all facts which Dan should know fromreception, certainly no wireless internet reception to pick up on my phone, all facts which Dan should know fromexperience, but in case he forgot ,I have talked about it ad nauseum in the last few weeks,. experience, but in case he forgot ,I have talked about it ad nauseum in the last few weeks,. So it should be crystal clear to any reasonable person that I did not check the 10:00 PM message that night because ISo it should be crystal clear to any reasonable person that I did not check the 10:00 PM message that night because Icould not.could not.Then I get the next e-mail sent at 2:00 on friday, which is impatient, and antagonistic and not the sort of thing youThen I get the next e-mail sent at 2:00 on friday, which is impatient, and antagonistic and not the sort of thing youwould write or say if you were trying to further effective communication with a recipient that has thus far not givenwould write or say if you were trying to further effective communication with a recipient that has thus far not givenany indication being adverse to communicating with you.any indication being adverse to communicating with you.And it was sent during the day on friday, so not only could I have not read the one the night before, but how in god'sAnd it was sent during the day on friday, so not only could I have not read the one the night before, but how in god'sname, while getting two boys up in the morning, fed, dressed, ready and off to school, then myself to work at a jobname, while getting two boys up in the morning, fed, dressed, ready and off to school, then myself to work at a jobwhere I have worked on fridays for 11 years, and I have stated over and over again, (even though again Dan shouldwhere I have worked on fridays for 11 years, and I have stated over and over again, (even though again Dan shouldknow this from experience) that I am not in a position to be on the computer during the day, how could I haveknow this from experience) that I am not in a position to be on the computer during the day, how could I havechecked the e-mail?checked the e-mail?

So, when I finally get a chance to log on I am hit with one e-mail that is making a request for a significant change inSo, when I finally get a chance to log on I am hit with one e-mail that is making a request for a significant change incustody, (a change where I would again have to deal with the issues of the childrens backpacks homework folders,custody, (a change where I would again have to deal with the issues of the childrens backpacks homework folders,handouts from school homework folders books, clothes, shoes jackets etc. all of which have NEVER been taken carehandouts from school homework folders books, clothes, shoes jackets etc. all of which have NEVER been taken careof by Dan and have resulted in me having to attempt to Communicate with him more to find out where these thingsof by Dan and have resulted in me having to attempt to Communicate with him more to find out where these thingsare and how I can get them where they need to be, which he won't do, and the teachers hounding me and the kids notare and how I can get them where they need to be, which he won't do, and the teachers hounding me and the kids nothaving thier stuff, on and on,a vicious circle.)having thier stuff, on and on,a vicious circle.)

The next e-mail which comes on the tail of the 10: 00 Pm e-mail, which is a very well put request for what could beThe next e-mail which comes on the tail of the 10: 00 Pm e-mail, which is a very well put request for what could bea reasonable change of custody(with a reasonable person) is one in which the person, who supposedly made thisa reasonable change of custody(with a reasonable person) is one in which the person, who supposedly made thisreasonable e-mail the night before, Jumps to the conclusion that I am being adversarial, in other words to say;reasonable e-mail the night before, Jumps to the conclusion that I am being adversarial, in other words to say;"has my window of opportunity closed. are you no longer communicating through our family wizzard web site?""has my window of opportunity closed. are you no longer communicating through our family wizzard web site?"Gives the indication that it is written by someone who has no idea that I haven't had the chance to check the-mailGives the indication that it is written by someone who has no idea that I haven't had the chance to check the-mailfrom the night before, but simply jumps to the conclusion that I no longer want him to spend more time with hisfrom the night before, but simply jumps to the conclusion that I no longer want him to spend more time with hissons, and that my answer to the 10:00 PM e-mail is NO, and I refuse to even communicate on OFW at all.....sons, and that my answer to the 10:00 PM e-mail is NO, and I refuse to even communicate on OFW at all.....

So hopefully you can see how difficult this is from my position.So hopefully you can see how difficult this is from my position.There is no hope for someone like myself on the recieving end of this type of situation, even if I responded well toThere is no hope for someone like myself on the recieving end of this type of situation, even if I responded well tothe reasonable e-mail from thursday night I will always end up having to really deal with the person who wrote thethe reasonable e-mail from thursday night I will always end up having to really deal with the person who wrote thefriday e-mail, one who is already fighting with me in his head before I've ever had a chance to weigh in....friday e-mail, one who is already fighting with me in his head before I've ever had a chance to weigh in....The losers are the kids....The losers are the kids....


The losers are the kids....The losers are the kids....Ultimately I would love to be dealing with a man who could pick up the kids from school have an active and helpfulUltimately I would love to be dealing with a man who could pick up the kids from school have an active and helpfulrole in thier school career, take the weight off of me by taking them to school at least one day and so on and sorole in thier school career, take the weight off of me by taking them to school at least one day and so on and soforth.... but sadly as you can see I am not dealing with the person who is mentally at the place of writing theforth.... but sadly as you can see I am not dealing with the person who is mentally at the place of writing thereasonable communicative e-mail, I am faced with the reality that I am dealing with the person whose every actionreasonable communicative e-mail, I am faced with the reality that I am dealing with the person whose every actiongoes against reasonable communication and is so ready to fight that the fight is kind of over to him before I know Igoes against reasonable communication and is so ready to fight that the fight is kind of over to him before I know Iam even having one. am even having one.

I do not have the children all the weekdays because it is my dream to do all the WORK with them...I do not have the children all the weekdays because it is my dream to do all the WORK with them...I have them because Dan Cooper cannot co-parent the children in a way that supports their academic needs and heI have them because Dan Cooper cannot co-parent the children in a way that supports their academic needs and hewill not investigate his part in this pattern and how he can get the help and support to change it......will not investigate his part in this pattern and how he can get the help and support to change it......He is probably capable but as long as he is stuck in this bizarre idea that everything revolves around some epic battleHe is probably capable but as long as he is stuck in this bizarre idea that everything revolves around some epic battlebetween him and I, he just can't see.........between him and I, he just can't see.........















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I know Dan Cooper did not write that e-mail, he was probably outside smoking, he probably didn't even read itI know Dan Cooper did not write that e-mail, he was probably outside smoking, he probably didn't even read itbefore it was sent. before it was sent.

Since I don't know who I am talking to with these e-mails I think it really defeats the chance that Dan and I will haveSince I don't know who I am talking to with these e-mails I think it really defeats the chance that Dan and I will haveany growth in our communication regarding the children.any growth in our communication regarding the children.

Clearly he doesn't want to, or cannot, read my e-mails and he is having someone else answer them.Clearly he doesn't want to, or cannot, read my e-mails and he is having someone else answer them.

I find it tragic that the person who is answering me cannot at least be helpful to Dan in this endeavor in a way thatI find it tragic that the person who is answering me cannot at least be helpful to Dan in this endeavor in a way thatwill facilitate more communication instead of digging into a pointless adversarial stance.will facilitate more communication instead of digging into a pointless adversarial stance.

The bottom line that you are not comprehending, as evidenced by your own words, is that Dan will continue to missThe bottom line that you are not comprehending, as evidenced by your own words, is that Dan will continue to missopportunities that are open to him to see his children and take a more active role in their life, to be helpful to them asopportunities that are open to him to see his children and take a more active role in their life, to be helpful to them asa father can be in so many ways.a father can be in so many ways.

You see,You see,I have offered the scenario's of spending time with the kids after school during the week, in order for that to happen,I have offered the scenario's of spending time with the kids after school during the week, in order for that to happen,1)Dan must contact me to let me know he is available and desirous of seeing the children1)Dan must contact me to let me know he is available and desirous of seeing the children3) I must then answer back to let him know where and when this can take place if he would like to do that3) I must then answer back to let him know where and when this can take place if he would like to do that4) Dan must confirm that he is going to show up and see them at designated time and place4) Dan must confirm that he is going to show up and see them at designated time and place5) All of these things must take place in a short amount of time so that I can make arrangements with whomever is5) All of these things must take place in a short amount of time so that I can make arrangements with whomever iswatching them, or myself get them ready to meet him etc.watching them, or myself get them ready to meet him etc.

I absolutely cannot (and will not even try) go back and forth on the Our Family Wizard Website for this type ofI absolutely cannot (and will not even try) go back and forth on the Our Family Wizard Website for this type ofcommunication. communication. This will be the last time I will even address this issue.This will be the last time I will even address this issue.

So...... yesterday Dan stuck to his guns and would only talk on OFW, he acted like he wanted to see the kids, heSo...... yesterday Dan stuck to his guns and would only talk on OFW, he acted like he wanted to see the kids, heacted like he was sitting there waiting for my answer on OFW so he could go meet with themacted like he was sitting there waiting for my answer on OFW so he could go meet with themHe never did get the answer because I was too busy getting them ready, talking to them about their day, and takingHe never did get the answer because I was too busy getting them ready, talking to them about their day, and takingthem to Mar Vista park to access the internet, attempt to log on and send an e-mail and then sit and wait for athem to Mar Vista park to access the internet, attempt to log on and send an e-mail and then sit and wait for aresponse which I then have to access the internet again to read the response, etc.response which I then have to access the internet again to read the response, etc.

I told him I could not do that so as far as I can tell he made his choice not to communicate in a way that wouldI told him I could not do that so as far as I can tell he made his choice not to communicate in a way that wouldactually get him what he said he wanted which was to see the children.actually get him what he said he wanted which was to see the children.

Dan, if you want to see them during the week as I have offered for you to do, communicate that to me in a way thatDan, if you want to see them during the week as I have offered for you to do, communicate that to me in a way thatwill work or don't, I don't care.will work or don't, I don't care.The children lose out having their Dad and you lose out being more a part of your kids lives.The children lose out having their Dad and you lose out being more a part of your kids lives.As for me, my loss stops here with the 30 minutes I have spent on this e-mail during a boring class.As for me, my loss stops here with the 30 minutes I have spent on this e-mail during a boring class.


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142 of 24309/23/2010 9:31 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/23/2010 9:33 AM)RE: in responce to you textDan,Dan,I am trying here.I am trying here.You have to try too for this to work.You have to try too for this to work.

In regard to messages on OFW, I do not sit at a desk with a computer at my job, I do not have Internet access atIn regard to messages on OFW, I do not sit at a desk with a computer at my job, I do not have Internet access athome. Going online on my Iphone is time consuming, difficult in many ways, impossible while driving or runninghome. Going online on my Iphone is time consuming, difficult in many ways, impossible while driving or runningaround, interacting with the boys.around, interacting with the boys.Don't believe the TV commercials.Don't believe the TV commercials.I have asked you before to text me if there is a message that must be looked at soon as possible but OFW is notI have asked you before to text me if there is a message that must be looked at soon as possible but OFW is notappropriate for back and forth conversations about an activity that is happening or that we want to happen right away.appropriate for back and forth conversations about an activity that is happening or that we want to happen right away.If you want to have effective communications about our sons so that you can take more of an active role in their livesIf you want to have effective communications about our sons so that you can take more of an active role in their livesand physical activities you have to apply common sense and be capable of some flexibility.and physical activities you have to apply common sense and be capable of some flexibility.OFW is a very good site for many reasons, but texting has it's place in today's world as well.OFW is a very good site for many reasons, but texting has it's place in today's world as well.

Yesterday I am certain that you knew I was on my way home or dealing with the boys or whatever you thought I wasYesterday I am certain that you knew I was on my way home or dealing with the boys or whatever you thought I wasdoing it was not sitting at a computer for sure.doing it was not sitting at a computer for sure.


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doing it was not sitting at a computer for sure.doing it was not sitting at a computer for sure.I even left you a message on your phone to make sure that you understood that I could not check the computer butI even left you a message on your phone to make sure that you understood that I could not check the computer butthat the invitation for you to get your boys and go to the practice was open to you however I had to keep moving asthat the invitation for you to get your boys and go to the practice was open to you however I had to keep moving asthough I was taking them if I did not hear from you.though I was taking them if I did not hear from you.You chose to answer on OFW even though I made it clear as a bell that I could not check OFW.You chose to answer on OFW even though I made it clear as a bell that I could not check OFW.I have told you many times I do not have a home phone you still sent me a message yesterday asking why my phoneI have told you many times I do not have a home phone you still sent me a message yesterday asking why my phonewas busy....was busy....I hope that we can have more effective communication.I hope that we can have more effective communication.As for interaction between you and I, I wish you understood or could believe that there is no one person on this earthAs for interaction between you and I, I wish you understood or could believe that there is no one person on this earththat would wish to interact with you less Than me.that would wish to interact with you less Than me.But, it is so critical to the children right now that we have civil or even friendly interaction that I would do that everyBut, it is so critical to the children right now that we have civil or even friendly interaction that I would do that everytime I see you regardless of any feelings I might be having at the time.time I see you regardless of any feelings I might be having at the time.It just means being decent to each other for the couple of minutes it takes to exchange them.It just means being decent to each other for the couple of minutes it takes to exchange them.Hopefully someday you can find it in your heart to do that for your boys.Hopefully someday you can find it in your heart to do that for your boys.I have no idea why you would think that I would have any one with me when you pick up your children , I neverI have no idea why you would think that I would have any one with me when you pick up your children , I neverhave, what would make you think that my behavior would change suddenly after two years?have, what would make you think that my behavior would change suddenly after two years?


143 of 24309/18/2010 5:24 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/18/2010 5:27 PM)RE: 9/18 Flag Football

I sent you the e-mail about the Flag football when I received it.I sent you the e-mail about the Flag football when I received it.You had as much notice as any parent of any child on the team.You had as much notice as any parent of any child on the team.You have the contact number and e- mail of the coach just as I do.You have the contact number and e- mail of the coach just as I do.I trust that you will not need me to walk you through the details of what is scheduled.I trust that you will not need me to walk you through the details of what is scheduled.

I trust that you can find out and participate the same if not more than many other parents of the kids on the team.I trust that you can find out and participate the same if not more than many other parents of the kids on the team.It is not by my invitation, it is you taking the role of parent of two young boys.It is not by my invitation, it is you taking the role of parent of two young boys.

On Fri, 09/17/10 at 10:22 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: 9/18 Flag FootballMessage:unfortunately i have already made other plans for this weekend. Advance notice would be conciderate. I am open to discussing flag football schedule for futuredates. Will let you know my availability for weekdays. Am happy to participate in this activity with the boys.

On Fri, 09/17/10 at 9:57 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: 9/18 Flag FootballMessage:The following message is a copy of the message I forwarded to your personal e- mail, it is from the boys coach at Mar Vista Park.

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FYI - Our first official game is a week from this Saturday (9/25). Unfortunately, I've yet to receive a game schedule from the park, but rest assured, I'll forward the info' the moment I do.Please let me know which day(s) and time(s) your child is available for practice (after I get everyone's availability, I'll be able to pick the best day & time): -Wed 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No) -Wed 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No)


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-Fri 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No) -Fri 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No) -Fri 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No) Since time is very short, I'd like to know if we can meet for our first practice this Saturday morning (9/18). Please let me know which time(s) your son isavailable... -Sat 9:00 - 10:00 (Yes or No) -Sat 10:00 - 11:00 (Yes or No) -Sat 11:00 - 12:00 (Yes or No) Best regards, Deon Wilks (310.991.4978) -- dlw PS - I'll hand out team rosters on Saturday.


Yes Dan,Yes Dan,

I saw the people in your car and I know that there is no possible way that they could hear your words from inside aI saw the people in your car and I know that there is no possible way that they could hear your words from inside aclosed BMW SUV parked on the street while you were standing by the vending machines closed BMW SUV parked on the street while you were standing by the vending machines I'm sure that there are video cameras above the vending machines and if those tapes were to be produced and youI'm sure that there are video cameras above the vending machines and if those tapes were to be produced and youreviewed them you would hear yourself yelling at me, (I was standing at least 15 feet away from you), "you cannotreviewed them you would hear yourself yelling at me, (I was standing at least 15 feet away from you), "you cannotplan activities for the boys on MY weekends, etc.plan activities for the boys on MY weekends, etc.And if you did all that, then what?And if you did all that, then what?Who would care?Who would care?The boys would still suffer the same consequences.The boys would still suffer the same consequences.They want us to be nice to each other, they desperately want to feel ok and safe but they are always worried about us.They want us to be nice to each other, they desperately want to feel ok and safe but they are always worried about us.You did not "Talk" to me about the football, you did not behave in a normal nice decent way at all.You did not "Talk" to me about the football, you did not behave in a normal nice decent way at all.You said whatever negative words you said in a negative and not nice way.You said whatever negative words you said in a negative and not nice way.Believe me Dan I hope and pray that you do listen to your recordings and it would be great if you listened to theBelieve me Dan I hope and pray that you do listen to your recordings and it would be great if you listened to thepolice station recordings and if you do have any friends that are decent and capable of being honest with you it wouldpolice station recordings and if you do have any friends that are decent and capable of being honest with you it wouldbe awesome if you would let them listen with you or maybe even a professional person, and you could discuss withbe awesome if you would let them listen with you or maybe even a professional person, and you could discuss withthem about your behavior and how it is affecting your sons. them about your behavior and how it is affecting your sons. That would be wonderful.That would be wonderful.

On Fri, 09/17/10 at 10:15 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:

As you know I record interactions between you and myself to try to protect myself from your false allegations. there were two other people in the car with meand I have the recording and the police station records (look above the vending machines at the entance).

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On Fri, 09/17/10 at 9:25 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:

Dear whoever is writing Dan's e-mails,

Please try to explain to Dan that the custody sharing arrangment is exactly that, shared custody, what that means is during the time each parent is in custody ofthe child, it is their duty to care for the child as a parent should, for the child, it is the childs weekend.

Most of the flag football scheduled practices will be held during the week while I am caring for them.

In addition I never received an answer to the e-mail I sent a couple of weeks ago inviting Dan to step up and show up for his children any day of the week thathe wants to take them out for a physical activity. All he has to do is say the word.It is really easy to keep pointing fingers at me, but that doesn't help the kids. If you think the problem is that I don't provide physical activities and the childrenare suffering for it.Do something about it.Take them for a bike ride, a walk, a jog......I would welcome any ideas suggestions or efforts that will benefit our sons.For now, I have come up with a few ideas, one of which will require some weekend participation by the parents of Samuel and Theodore.It could be great for them in many ways, only one of which is the exercise.Make no mistake it is not about me. Or you (Dan).It has nothing to do with "making plans" to mess up "your" time.It is about teaching the boys to participate in an active social team experience, make friends, etc.If you refuse to participate in your childrens lives like any semi-responsible parent should, and you continue to act out in front of them the way you did at thepolice station tonight, when you were yelling at me because you don't want to have to take them to football because it is YOUR weekend, I will be forced totake any action necessary to reduce your time as custodial parent.

Any time I have the children is their time, not mine.

On Fri, 09/17/10 at 7:47 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:My primary concern is that the boys had no physical activity monday - friday. I believe this to be a major cause of their current wieght gain . On the weekendswhen they are with me they are getting nonstop excercise and plenty of outdoor activiies; which includes as follows- swimming, biking, hiking, playing at thepark... The time they spend with me is not whats in question here but the days they are with you and admiitedly so their lack of physical activty during theweekdays.May i suggest that you concider engaging them in some type of sporting activity during the week . I would also appreciate that you consult with me when it isregarding time spent during my scheduled visitation. My time with them is very limited and I feel it is in their best interest to spend as much time togetherduring the weekends.I do not agree with this arrangement. I do not feel that it is fair that you would make arrangements during mu scheduled visitation without consulting me inadvance . This is not your time to schedule things for the boys.This is my time with them.

On Fri, 09/17/10 at 5:56 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Flag FootballMessage:

I signed the boys up for flag football I gave the coach your e-mail address he contacted me yesterday about getting the boys team together to have the first meetthis sat. at Marvista park Please try to encourage the boys that this will be fun for them.They really need a physical activity as well as social etc. This should appeal to them based on the way they play etc. if they just try it........

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The following message is a copy of the one I forwarded to your personal e- mailThe following message is a copy of the one I forwarded to your personal e- mailit is from Theodore and samuels coach at mar vista parkit is from Theodore and samuels coach at mar vista park

message begins:message begins:FYI - Our first official game is a week from this Saturday (9/25).FYI - Our first official game is a week from this Saturday (9/25). Unfortunately, I've yet to receive a game schedule from the park, but rest assured, I'll forward the info' the moment IUnfortunately, I've yet to receive a game schedule from the park, but rest assured, I'll forward the info' the moment Ido.do.Please let me know which day(s) and time(s) your child is available for practice (after I get everyone's availability,Please let me know which day(s) and time(s) your child is available for practice (after I get everyone's availability,I'll be able to pick the best day & time):I'll be able to pick the best day & time): -Wed 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No)-Wed 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No) -Wed 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No)-Wed 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No) -Wed 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No)-Wed 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No) -Wed 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No)-Wed 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No) -Fri 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No)-Fri 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No)

-Fri 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No)-Fri 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No) -Fri 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No)-Fri 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No) -Fri 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No)-Fri 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No) Since time is very short, I'd like to know if we can meet for our first practice this Saturday morning (9/18). Please letSince time is very short, I'd like to know if we can meet for our first practice this Saturday morning (9/18). Please letme know which time(s) your son is available...me know which time(s) your son is available... -Sat 9:00 - 10:00 (Yes or No)-Sat 9:00 - 10:00 (Yes or No) -Sat 10:00 - 11:00 (Yes or No)-Sat 10:00 - 11:00 (Yes or No) -Sat 11:00 - 12:00 (Yes or No)-Sat 11:00 - 12:00 (Yes or No) Best regards,Best regards, Deon Wilks (310.991.4978)Deon Wilks (310.991.4978) -- -- dlwdlw PS - I'll hand out team rosters on Saturday.PS - I'll hand out team rosters on Saturday.

146 of 24309/17/2010 9:57 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/17/2010 10:16 PM)9/18 Flag FootballThe following message is a copy of the message I forwarded to your personal e- mail, it is from the boys coach atThe following message is a copy of the message I forwarded to your personal e- mail, it is from the boys coach atMar Vista Park.Mar Vista Park.

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FYI - Our first official game is a week from this Saturday (9/25).FYI - Our first official game is a week from this Saturday (9/25). Unfortunately, I've yet to receive a game schedule from the park, but rest assured, I'll forward the info' the moment IUnfortunately, I've yet to receive a game schedule from the park, but rest assured, I'll forward the info' the moment Ido.do.Please let me know which day(s) and time(s) your child is available for practice (after I get everyone's availability,Please let me know which day(s) and time(s) your child is available for practice (after I get everyone's availability,I'll be able to pick the best day & time):I'll be able to pick the best day & time): -Wed 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No)-Wed 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No) -Wed 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No)-Wed 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No)


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-Wed 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No)-Wed 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No) -Wed 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No)-Wed 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No) -Wed 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No)-Wed 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No) -Fri 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No)-Fri 4:00 - 5:00 (Yes or No)

-Fri 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No)-Fri 4:30 - 5:30 (Yes or No) -Fri 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No)-Fri 5:00 - 6:00 (Yes or No) -Fri 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No)-Fri 5:30 - 6:30 (Yes or No) Since time is very short, I'd like to know if we can meet for our first practice this Saturday morning (9/18). Please letSince time is very short, I'd like to know if we can meet for our first practice this Saturday morning (9/18). Please letme know which time(s) your son is available...me know which time(s) your son is available... -Sat 9:00 - 10:00 (Yes or No)-Sat 9:00 - 10:00 (Yes or No) -Sat 10:00 - 11:00 (Yes or No)-Sat 10:00 - 11:00 (Yes or No) -Sat 11:00 - 12:00 (Yes or No)-Sat 11:00 - 12:00 (Yes or No) Best regards,Best regards, Deon Wilks (310.991.4978)Deon Wilks (310.991.4978) -- -- dlwdlw PS - I'll hand out team rosters on Saturday.PS - I'll hand out team rosters on Saturday.


Dear whoever is writing Dan's e-mails,Dear whoever is writing Dan's e-mails,

Please try to explain to Dan that the custody sharing arrangment is exactly that, shared custody, what that means isPlease try to explain to Dan that the custody sharing arrangment is exactly that, shared custody, what that means isduring the time each parent is in custody of the child, it is their duty to care for the child as a parent should, for theduring the time each parent is in custody of the child, it is their duty to care for the child as a parent should, for thechild, it is the childs weekend. child, it is the childs weekend.

Most of the flag football scheduled practices will be held during the week while I am caring for them.Most of the flag football scheduled practices will be held during the week while I am caring for them.

In addition I never received an answer to the e-mail I sent a couple of weeks ago inviting Dan to step up and show upIn addition I never received an answer to the e-mail I sent a couple of weeks ago inviting Dan to step up and show upfor his children any day of the week that he wants to take them out for a physical activity. All he has to do is say thefor his children any day of the week that he wants to take them out for a physical activity. All he has to do is say theword.word.It is really easy to keep pointing fingers at me, but that doesn't help the kids. If you think the problem is that I don'tIt is really easy to keep pointing fingers at me, but that doesn't help the kids. If you think the problem is that I don'tprovide physical activities and the children are suffering for it.provide physical activities and the children are suffering for it.Do something about it.Do something about it.Take them for a bike ride, a walk, a jog......Take them for a bike ride, a walk, a jog......I would welcome any ideas suggestions or efforts that will benefit our sons.I would welcome any ideas suggestions or efforts that will benefit our sons.For now, I have come up with a few ideas, one of which will require some weekend participation by the parents ofFor now, I have come up with a few ideas, one of which will require some weekend participation by the parents ofSamuel and Theodore.Samuel and Theodore.It could be great for them in many ways, only one of which is the exercise.It could be great for them in many ways, only one of which is the exercise.Make no mistake it is not about me. Or you (Dan).Make no mistake it is not about me. Or you (Dan).It has nothing to do with "making plans" to mess up "your" time.It has nothing to do with "making plans" to mess up "your" time.It is about teaching the boys to participate in an active social team experience, make friends, etc.It is about teaching the boys to participate in an active social team experience, make friends, etc.If you refuse to participate in your childrens lives like any semi-responsible parent should, and you continue to actIf you refuse to participate in your childrens lives like any semi-responsible parent should, and you continue to actout in front of them the way you did at the police station tonight, when you were yelling at me because you don'tout in front of them the way you did at the police station tonight, when you were yelling at me because you don'twant to have to take them to football because it is YOUR weekend, I will be forced to take any action necessary towant to have to take them to football because it is YOUR weekend, I will be forced to take any action necessary toreduce your time as custodial parent.reduce your time as custodial parent.


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reduce your time as custodial parent.reduce your time as custodial parent.

Any time I have the children is their time, not mine.Any time I have the children is their time, not mine.

On Fri, 09/17/10 at 7:47 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Flag FootballMessage:My primary concern is that the boys had no physical activity monday - friday. I believe this to be a major cause of their current wieght gain . On the weekendswhen they are with me they are getting nonstop excercise and plenty of outdoor activiies; which includes as follows- swimming, biking, hiking, playing at thepark... The time they spend with me is not whats in question here but the days they are with you and admiitedly so their lack of physical activty during theweekdays.May i suggest that you concider engaging them in some type of sporting activity during the week . I would also appreciate that you consult with me when it isregarding time spent during my scheduled visitation. My time with them is very limited and I feel it is in their best interest to spend as much time togetherduring the weekends.I do not agree with this arrangement. I do not feel that it is fair that you would make arrangements during mu scheduled visitation without consulting me inadvance . This is not your time to schedule things for the boys.This is my time with them.

On Fri, 09/17/10 at 5:56 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Flag FootballMessage:

I signed the boys up for flag football I gave the coach your e-mail address he contacted me yesterday about getting the boys team together to have the first meetthis sat. at Marvista park Please try to encourage the boys that this will be fun for them.They really need a physical activity as well as social etc. This should appeal to them based on the way they play etc. if they just try it........

148 of 24309/17/2010 6:03 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/17/2010 7:23 PM)RE: raymond

WTF are you talking about?!!!!!!WTF are you talking about?!!!!!!

Again Raymond is not and has never been the kids babysitter......Again Raymond is not and has never been the kids babysitter......

I cannot believe that you are now stooping to this level of insanity, wait, yes I can.......I cannot believe that you are now stooping to this level of insanity, wait, yes I can.......

This is a full time job for you isn't it Dan?This is a full time job for you isn't it Dan?

Your time would be better spent trying to be a better man yourself...... for your children ofcourse.Your time would be better spent trying to be a better man yourself...... for your children ofcourse.

On Thu, 09/16/10 at 2:30 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: raymondMessage:Please confirm or deny that Raymond Olund is or is not the person that my sons told me has baby sat them and makes them childrens movies. if he is the sameperson that is listed on the meagans law web site as a sex offender, PLEASE keep him away from my sons at all times. Once again please confirm that he is oris not the same person that is listed on the sex offenders web site.



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I signed the boys up for flag football I gave the coach your e-mail address he contacted me yesterday about gettingI signed the boys up for flag football I gave the coach your e-mail address he contacted me yesterday about gettingthe boys team together to have the first meet this sat. at Marvista park Please try to encourage the boys that this willthe boys team together to have the first meet this sat. at Marvista park Please try to encourage the boys that this willbe fun for them.be fun for them.They really need a physical activity as well as social etc. This should appeal to them based on the way they play etc.They really need a physical activity as well as social etc. This should appeal to them based on the way they play etc.if they just try it........if they just try it........

150 of 24309/17/2010 5:52 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/17/2010 5:56 PM)RE: this weekend

I did plan to bring the boys to Pacific Division tonight to have this weekend with you because you asked me for thatI did plan to bring the boys to Pacific Division tonight to have this weekend with you because you asked me for thatwhen you said I coulkd keep them the weekend that my sister was in town.when you said I coulkd keep them the weekend that my sister was in town.

I do not have a home phone for you to call the boys on.I do not have a home phone for you to call the boys on.

As you are well aware the reception for cell phones in my house is very bad.As you are well aware the reception for cell phones in my house is very bad.I am aware of no attempts made by you to call my cell phone to talk to your sons, I have never had a missed callI am aware of no attempts made by you to call my cell phone to talk to your sons, I have never had a missed callfrom you.from you.

Let me tell you for what feels like the 500th time that I do not have internet and I do not access internet every day soLet me tell you for what feels like the 500th time that I do not have internet and I do not access internet every day soif there is something important on OFW you have to text me to let me know.if there is something important on OFW you have to text me to let me know.

On Thu, 09/16/10 at 6:21 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: this weekendMessage:I am assuming that I will have my sons this weekend since you kept the boys on the first weekend of this month without my approval. please respond as toavoid me waiting at the police station for no reason again.

151 of 24309/11/2010 10:21 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/11/2010 11:10 AM)RE: raymond

This is the last time I will address this issue with you.This is the last time I will address this issue with you.

Raymond is not a babysitter.Raymond is not a babysitter.

Have a nice day.Have a nice day.

On Fri, 09/10/10 at 9:18 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: raymondMessage:


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152 of 24309/10/2010 6:51 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/10/2010 7:49 PM)RE: camping

Raymond is not Theodore's babysitter. Raymond is not Theodore's babysitter.

He is a friend and I have the movie I believe he is talking about.He is a friend and I have the movie I believe he is talking about.

I think it makes much more sense to have Theodore call me in the future when he needs or wants something fromI think it makes much more sense to have Theodore call me in the future when he needs or wants something fromanybody that I am usually the one to be in contact with that person. anybody that I am usually the one to be in contact with that person.

On Fri, 09/10/10 at 8:09 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: campingMessage:for your information we were unable to secure camping for this weekend. also theodore has asked me to get his babysitters phone number so that he could askhim for movies that he said he was going to bring to him. theodore said his name is raymond. please forward that contact information to me.

153 of 24309/08/2010 9:42 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/08/2010 7:05 PM)RE: thursday pick up

10:30 is fine10:30 is fineplease do not feed them any chips or junk food this weekend please do not feed them any chips or junk food this weekend they have been doing sooooooo good this weekthey have been doing sooooooo good this weekTheodore already looks less bloated and his stomach isn't hanging downTheodore already looks less bloated and his stomach isn't hanging downthey have not even been asking for ice cream or mcdonalds or anything if you don't have it they won't eat it. If it'sthey have not even been asking for ice cream or mcdonalds or anything if you don't have it they won't eat it. If it'sthere they will eat it til it is gone. You don't even need to have bread around. there they will eat it til it is gone. You don't even need to have bread around.

Please do not make this about me and you please help me to help Theodore and Samuel, I am worried about themPlease do not make this about me and you please help me to help Theodore and Samuel, I am worried about themgoing for this long weekend and coming back stuffed and bloated looking. Last week was the worst evergoing for this long weekend and coming back stuffed and bloated looking. Last week was the worst ever

some kids at the pool were calling Samuel a Hippo. He was very upsetsome kids at the pool were calling Samuel a Hippo. He was very upsetand and

Do Not tell Them they are on a diet!!!!!!!!Do Not tell Them they are on a diet!!!!!!!!Do not tell them anything about their weight!!!!!Do not tell them anything about their weight!!!!!That is cruel and does more damage than good!!!!That is cruel and does more damage than good!!!!

Just don't have any junk food in their presence, now they arey are older you cannot hide it or put it up they will getJust don't have any junk food in their presence, now they arey are older you cannot hide it or put it up they will getto itto itplease!!!!!!!!!!!please!!!!!!!!!!!

On Tue, 09/07/10 at 10:00 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: thursday pick upMessage:I wiould like to get them at 10:00 am is that to early or to late?


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154 of 24309/07/2010 9:46 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/07/2010 9:47 AM)RE: this weekendYes what time?Yes what time?

On Tue, 09/07/10 at 9:39 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: this weekendMessage:Can i have the boys starting thursday the 9th till sunday. I am trying to secure camping at san elijo state beach or leo carrilllo or the next closest site.

155 of 24309/07/2010 9:37 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/07/2010 9:40 AM)RE: This weekHere is your e-mail to me sent on 9/2 Thursday: Here is your e-mail to me sent on 9/2 Thursday:

I will allow you to keep the boys this weekend if you promise that I will be able to speak to my sons before bed timeI will allow you to keep the boys this weekend if you promise that I will be able to speak to my sons before bed timewhen they are with you or whom ever you have watching them. and I want the weekend of the 17th. in return forwhen they are with you or whom ever you have watching them. and I want the weekend of the 17th. in return forgiving you this weekend.giving you this weekend.

So if you were sitting at the police station waiting for me to bring the kids after you sent me an e- mail stating that ISo if you were sitting at the police station waiting for me to bring the kids after you sent me an e- mail stating that Icould keep the kids that is your problem and it is proof that you have nothing better to do than try to createcould keep the kids that is your problem and it is proof that you have nothing better to do than try to createmisunderstandings and then pretend to be a victimmisunderstandings and then pretend to be a victim

same goes for your statement regarding seeing the children on this last week before school starts.... You tell them onsame goes for your statement regarding seeing the children on this last week before school starts.... You tell them onthe phone( I heard you) that you are taking them camping. Then you refuse to talk to me about it and you refuse tothe phone( I heard you) that you are taking them camping. Then you refuse to talk to me about it and you refuse tosee them at all for the whole week ( even though you know they will be with babysitters while I work). But you givesee them at all for the whole week ( even though you know they will be with babysitters while I work). But you givesome weak excuse like "why should I make plans to see them somebody will probably come from out of town thatsome weak excuse like "why should I make plans to see them somebody will probably come from out of town thatyou want them to see more than me..... Blah blah waah waah". Do you lie to the boys about how I keep you fromyou want them to see more than me..... Blah blah waah waah". Do you lie to the boys about how I keep you fromthem?them?It only matters to their future therapist bills and thier fucked up fathering skills, thanks Dad!It only matters to their future therapist bills and thier fucked up fathering skills, thanks Dad!Everyone else can see right through you Dan.Everyone else can see right through you Dan.

As for thier bikes, Gilbert bought Theodore that bike you are holding hostage you dumb ass.As for thier bikes, Gilbert bought Theodore that bike you are holding hostage you dumb ass.But it's fine because Gilbert and I are more concerned with Theodore exercising than playing petty games with you soBut it's fine because Gilbert and I are more concerned with Theodore exercising than playing petty games with you soGilbert or Danny Trejo will buy the boys new bikes todayGilbert or Danny Trejo will buy the boys new bikes today

On Mon, 09/06/10 at 12:22 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: This weekMessage:On friday sept 3rd @ 6:03 pm I read your text while I was at the police station that said that you were not bringing my sons. The exact text reads as follows(I'm not bringing them tonight because I already told them you agreed to let them see their cousins. I'm not going to disapoint them becuase you are so stupid toget angry about me not getting your e-mail after I told you three times I don't have internet,) it is called court scheduled visitation. not visitation when youdecide you want me to have it.

I dont want to schedule something knowing that at any time you could change your mind or someone would be coming by that you want to spend time withthe boys and I would just be waiting at the police station for no reason once again.

know you are texting requesting that I bring you their bikes. over the last year I have tried asking you for the campnig gear. and I have tried over and over again to be able to speak to my sons before bedtime.

On Sat, 09/04/10 at 2:36 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: This weekMessage:


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You never answered about labor day or this upcoming week the boys are not in school do you want to see them during this last week of vacation?

156 of 24309/05/2010 4:08 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/05/2010 11:55 PM)9/5 through 9/10

You have not answered my messages about the boys this week. And you never answered my message about what weYou have not answered my messages about the boys this week. And you never answered my message about what weare going to do with Theodore and his significant weight gain.are going to do with Theodore and his significant weight gain.Do you have any ideas or solutions?Do you have any ideas or solutions?You spoke to the boys about camping yesterday on the phone and they think they are supposed to go today but youYou spoke to the boys about camping yesterday on the phone and they think they are supposed to go today but youhave never said a word to me about it.have never said a word to me about it.When are you planning that so I can talk to them about itWhen are you planning that so I can talk to them about it

157 of 24309/04/2010 2:36 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/05/2010 11:56 PM)This week

You never answered about labor day or this upcoming week the boys are not in school do you want to see themYou never answered about labor day or this upcoming week the boys are not in school do you want to see themduring this last week of vacation?during this last week of vacation?

158 of 24309/02/2010 2:42 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/02/2010 5:17 PM)Re: this weekend

I am writing this to repeat what I sent you by text this morning.I am writing this to repeat what I sent you by text this morning.

Can I Please take the children this Sunday? My sister Maureen is staying at a Hotel near disneyland that has aCan I Please take the children this Sunday? My sister Maureen is staying at a Hotel near disneyland that has awaterpark in it, it would allow us to celebrate Samuel's B-day and the boys 2 cousins b-day's at the same time onwaterpark in it, it would allow us to celebrate Samuel's B-day and the boys 2 cousins b-day's at the same time onSunday at the waterpark, etc.Sunday at the waterpark, etc.

This is a long weekend and the boys are out of school this next week so you could have them back for as much or asThis is a long weekend and the boys are out of school this next week so you could have them back for as much or aslittle as you want them this next week.little as you want them this next week.They start school on the 13th of September.They start school on the 13th of September.

Please answer ASAPPlease answer ASAP

159 of 24309/01/2010 10:29 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/02/2010 5:18 PM)RE: weekends in oct

Initiated, regarding, spell check, use itInitiated, regarding, spell check, use it


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On Tue, 08/31/10 at 10:28 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: weekends in octMessage:will you please answer the question that you iniciated regauding weekend in oct.

160 of 24309/01/2010 10:27 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/02/2010 7:09 AM)RE: visitation schedule

It is just as upsetting to me as it is to you It is just as upsetting to me as it is to you I am not pleased with the fact that I have to be put in a situation to force my sons own father to spend time with themI am not pleased with the fact that I have to be put in a situation to force my sons own father to spend time with themwhile they are out of school just because I don't have money for babysitters. while they are out of school just because I don't have money for babysitters. I am not pleased that my sons father throws the time he spends with his sons, time that they would have been stuck atI am not pleased that my sons father throws the time he spends with his sons, time that they would have been stuck athome with a babysitter, in my face like it was such a chore for him.home with a babysitter, in my face like it was such a chore for him.

If I had access to any fun activities like camp or something else you better beleive I would choose it over you andIf I had access to any fun activities like camp or something else you better beleive I would choose it over you andyour bitter attitude toward your obligation to your sons.your bitter attitude toward your obligation to your sons.

You don't feel you should pay for childcare, but you won't watch them, how do you justify that to yourself?You don't feel you should pay for childcare, but you won't watch them, how do you justify that to yourself?

On Mon, 08/30/10 at 8:55 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: visitation scheduleMessage:on sunday the 29th at 1:12 pm you sent me a text stating that you were not picking up the boys as scheduled and that you would get them on monday. Irequested that next time I be given at least 48 hr notice of any changes regaurding visitation pick up times and it was to be done on the family wizard web site.you replied with a text at 1:54pm that stated (next time I will give you 48 hr notice sorry this time I didn't) and today you send me a message that you will notpicking them up tonight. so please inform me when do you intend to be getting the boys or not.

161 of 24309/01/2010 10:18 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 09/02/2010 7:07 AM)RE: weekends in October please answer

agree to what?agree to what?you refuse to help me by trading an insignificant weekend during the month but you are offering to take the weekendyou refuse to help me by trading an insignificant weekend during the month but you are offering to take the weekendthat has all the fun stuff as an extra weekend?that has all the fun stuff as an extra weekend?If that is a correct interpretation of your offer, No thank you.If that is a correct interpretation of your offer, No thank you.

On Mon, 08/30/10 at 8:40 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: weekends in October please answerMessage:PLEASE ANSWER IF YOU AGREE

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Sent: 08/29/10 11:07PM Subject: RE: weekends in October Message: Option 1- extra weekend- third weekend (yes or no) NO

Option 2 - switch weekends- you take 3rd and 5th instead of 2nd and 4th (yes or no)NO

I curently am entitled to the 1st 2nd and 4th weekends. I would like to take the 5th weekend also for the month of oct. I would like to state that by agreeing to this does not mean that I am forfitting any of my regurly scheduled visitations.

On Sun, 08/29/10 at 07:02 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: weekends in OctoberMessage:

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You must understand that the visitation with the children is not to be traded or negotiated based on other things. It is impossible to enforce such a trade.

Picture it, we agree to trade weekends based on you calling the boys before bedtime, I bring the children to give them to you, you don't show up, you say, ohwell, too bad I didn't get to talk to the boys on tuesday....I'm not coming to get them.....Or the shoe on the other foot, You go pick up the children, I don't bring them to you, how are you going to bring the police to my door to enforce your right tovisitation? You will say, I spoke to the boys before bed so now this is my weekend! I could say no I did not let him speak to the boys so he doesnt get to seethem this weekend.... it just doesn't make sense.

When you discuss visitation or changes with visitation The only subject is visitation.We make an agreement to have the boys on certain weekends put it in writing and then we are bound to it.if you came to get the boys on the 5th weekend and I didn't want to give them to you you would have my written agreement that we switched weekends.

I asked you to switch weekends or commit to extra weekend

Option 1- extra weekend- third weekend (yes or no)Option 2 - switch weekends- you take 3rd and 5th instead of 2nd and 4th (yes or no)

On Mon, 08/23/10 at 07:01 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: weekends in OctoberMessage: allright I will switch weekends with you with the following condition of being able to speak with my sons before bed time. If you can not except thiscondition then I will not negotiate any changes that you request regauding visitations. please respond with your answer on this web site only.

On Thu, 08/19/10 at 03:20 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: weekends in OctoberMessage:

The weekends in October begin on the following days,

1st----18th----215th---322nd--429th--5

I need to leave town on the 3rd weekend of October, I would like to know if you would be willing to switch weekends with me one way or another.

I can take the 2nd and 4th weekends instead of the 3rd and 5th, that way there is not any haggling over halloween and you would still have the 1st weekend

Or we can keep it the way it is and you can have an extra weekend if you want to commit to an extra weekend which is the 3rd weekend

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162 of 24308/30/2010 6:45 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/30/2010 6:50 PM)RE: Tuesday Sept. 31st

Yes, I am sorry I was talking about tomorrow August 31st.Yes, I am sorry I was talking about tomorrow August 31st.I am still waiting to find out if I can get someone who is available to watch them while I work Tuesday 8/31 andI am still waiting to find out if I can get someone who is available to watch them while I work Tuesday 8/31 andWednesday 9/1. Wednesday 9/1. I really want to get them home! I really want to get them home! All of the colleges start this week so it is tough for me, most of the people I relied on are busy some people I'veAll of the colleges start this week so it is tough for me, most of the people I relied on are busy some people I'vetalked to charge 18$ an hour that is $160 for one day of childcare on Wednesday.talked to charge 18$ an hour that is $160 for one day of childcare on Wednesday.

On Mon, 08/30/10 at 5:19 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Tuesday Sept. 31stMessage:do you mean tommorro august 31st

On Mon, 08/30/10 at 9:29 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Tuesday Sept. 31stMessage:

Dan,I have to work and cannot obtain childcare for Tuesday morning, I should be done working very early afternoon, I am having trouble for wednesday as well (Iwork my regular all day schedule wednesday).

So, I am hoping to be able to pick up the boys tuesday around 1:00 PM, (I really miss them!) if I haven't been able to obtain childcare it could be wednesdayevening.

I will keep you posted as soon as I find anything out so please check this site often.

I hope this isn't a problem for you, it's just that the boys are out of school til Sept. 13th, the camp sessions are done and good childcare is hard to find andexpensive.....I guess if you can't watch them you could give me the child support that you owe and I would have more bargaining power to find some one reliable for thisweek and next while I work......

163 of 24308/30/2010 9:29 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/30/2010 5:01 PM)Tuesday Sept. 31st

Dan,Dan,I have to work and cannot obtain childcare for Tuesday morning, I should be done working very early afternoon, II have to work and cannot obtain childcare for Tuesday morning, I should be done working very early afternoon, Iam having trouble for wednesday as well (I work my regular all day schedule wednesday).am having trouble for wednesday as well (I work my regular all day schedule wednesday).

So, I am hoping to be able to pick up the boys tuesday around 1:00 PM, (I really miss them!) if I haven't been able toSo, I am hoping to be able to pick up the boys tuesday around 1:00 PM, (I really miss them!) if I haven't been able toobtain childcare it could be wednesday evening.obtain childcare it could be wednesday evening.

I will keep you posted as soon as I find anything out so please check this site often.I will keep you posted as soon as I find anything out so please check this site often.

I hope this isn't a problem for you, it's just that the boys are out of school til Sept. 13th, the camp sessions are doneI hope this isn't a problem for you, it's just that the boys are out of school til Sept. 13th, the camp sessions are doneand good childcare is hard to find and expensive.....and good childcare is hard to find and expensive.....I guess if you can't watch them you could give me the child support that you owe and I would have more bargainingI guess if you can't watch them you could give me the child support that you owe and I would have more bargainingpower to find some one reliable for this week and next while I work......power to find some one reliable for this week and next while I work......


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164 of 24308/30/2010 8:43 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/30/2010 5:05 PM)RE: Theodore

Hello to whoever it is that is answering Dan's emails,Hello to whoever it is that is answering Dan's emails,As if there could be any situation more obvious.As if there could be any situation more obvious.

It is actually outrageous, exaggerated, preposterous, and astounding that Dan would have conveyed to you that he wasIt is actually outrageous, exaggerated, preposterous, and astounding that Dan would have conveyed to you that he wasforced from this house and separated from his sons. It is not surprising however considering his vacuous and vastforced from this house and separated from his sons. It is not surprising however considering his vacuous and vastneed to always be a victim.need to always be a victim.

It is also outrageous, exaggerated, preposterous, and astounding for Dan to assume that he knows what the childrenIt is also outrageous, exaggerated, preposterous, and astounding for Dan to assume that he knows what the childrendo when they are at my house, except of course to assume that they are not riding the bikes around the neighborhooddo when they are at my house, except of course to assume that they are not riding the bikes around the neighborhoodsince Dan has refused to return them in spite of being asked repeatedly over the last two months.since Dan has refused to return them in spite of being asked repeatedly over the last two months.

It is also outrageous, exaggerated, preposterous, and astounding to assume that I am interrogating the children basedIt is also outrageous, exaggerated, preposterous, and astounding to assume that I am interrogating the children basedon my statement regarding things they talk about, but it does fit the very victim oriented paranoia that consistentlyon my statement regarding things they talk about, but it does fit the very victim oriented paranoia that consistentlyexudes from Dan Cooper. This goes hand in hand with his extremely short memory capacity, he should recall all theexudes from Dan Cooper. This goes hand in hand with his extremely short memory capacity, he should recall all therecent times he has delivered the children to me from their visits with chocolate smeared faces, and bags of cheetos,recent times he has delivered the children to me from their visits with chocolate smeared faces, and bags of cheetos,etc. for me to see with my own eyes.etc. for me to see with my own eyes.Not to mention the fact that Dan has had the children for half if not a little more of this 3 month summer break, butNot to mention the fact that Dan has had the children for half if not a little more of this 3 month summer break, buteven if, as you say, he hardly ever has them in his care, then taking them to McDonalds even seldom as you said iteven if, as you say, he hardly ever has them in his care, then taking them to McDonalds even seldom as you said itwould still amount to 100% of the boys fast food intake and if he only has a couple of meals to give them why wouldwould still amount to 100% of the boys fast food intake and if he only has a couple of meals to give them why wouldany of them have to be McDonalds?any of them have to be McDonalds?

What is not at all surprising is the way Dan Cooper is committed to his efforts of turning every issue, everyWhat is not at all surprising is the way Dan Cooper is committed to his efforts of turning every issue, everydiscussion about the boys into a big conspiracy against him personally. discussion about the boys into a big conspiracy against him personally.

The entire reality gets to be skewed into some horrific plot against Dan and the real issue, the boys serious healthThe entire reality gets to be skewed into some horrific plot against Dan and the real issue, the boys serious healthissue in this case, completely falls away. issue in this case, completely falls away.

This is not some surprising or new subject between Dan Cooper and myself, and there are no allegations to made toThis is not some surprising or new subject between Dan Cooper and myself, and there are no allegations to made toanyone because no person other than me, apparently, and the boys when they are in puberty and beyond, for the restanyone because no person other than me, apparently, and the boys when they are in puberty and beyond, for the restof their lives, cares.of their lives, cares.

My letter was written as a desperate plea to the father of my sons to not ignore what is happening to the boys, not toMy letter was written as a desperate plea to the father of my sons to not ignore what is happening to the boys, not tolook at the situation as another opportunity to sling crap at each other, in the end nobody cares and nobody loses butlook at the situation as another opportunity to sling crap at each other, in the end nobody cares and nobody loses butthe boys. the boys. If Dan wants to be committed to helping the boys with the weight issue and he really believes I am the problem heIf Dan wants to be committed to helping the boys with the weight issue and he really believes I am the problem heshould be asking if he can pick them up every morning for an hour before work and school to take them for a jog, orshould be asking if he can pick them up every morning for an hour before work and school to take them for a jog, orat a set time in the evening. at a set time in the evening.

There are many ways this situation could be dealt with that would facilitate a good outcome for the boys. ForThere are many ways this situation could be dealt with that would facilitate a good outcome for the boys. Forinstance, last year I starting walking them to and from school on days that my work schedule would permit, I reallyinstance, last year I starting walking them to and from school on days that my work schedule would permit, I reallysaw a difference in them from that alone, Dan could make himself available to walk them to and from school on thesaw a difference in them from that alone, Dan could make himself available to walk them to and from school on thedays that I can't.days that I can't.

If I am unable to exercise the boys enough as you stated, it is because I am busy with all of the tasks that keep theirIf I am unable to exercise the boys enough as you stated, it is because I am busy with all of the tasks that keep theirlife going that don't involve running and playing so it makes sense that their father could step in to pick up that slack.life going that don't involve running and playing so it makes sense that their father could step in to pick up that slack.

He could do North Venice little league with them, they have been eligible since they were 4 or 5 years old, most ofHe could do North Venice little league with them, they have been eligible since they were 4 or 5 years old, most ofthe boys Theodore is friends with have been doing it for years.the boys Theodore is friends with have been doing it for years.

There is no secret that as a single mother I am too overwhelmed (especially a single mother in this area with noThere is no secret that as a single mother I am too overwhelmed (especially a single mother in this area with nofinancial support whatsoever, fact) to go to practices and all that baseball stuff. Dan played as a kid, in fact if youfinancial support whatsoever, fact) to go to practices and all that baseball stuff. Dan played as a kid, in fact if youtalk to him long enough you will hear as I did how deeply it hurt him that his dad wasn't more involved with himtalk to him long enough you will hear as I did how deeply it hurt him that his dad wasn't more involved with himover there at North Venice when he could have been, well here is the perfect opportunity to change that for his sons.over there at North Venice when he could have been, well here is the perfect opportunity to change that for his sons.

It's too easy to sit back, point fingers and feign injury over so called harassment, it's easy but not at all helpful,It's too easy to sit back, point fingers and feign injury over so called harassment, it's easy but not at all helpful,showing up and taking action is the only real way to effectuate a change.showing up and taking action is the only real way to effectuate a change.


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showing up and taking action is the only real way to effectuate a change.showing up and taking action is the only real way to effectuate a change.

Every day is another chance to work together to do what's right for the boys.Every day is another chance to work together to do what's right for the boys.

I would bend over backwards to accommodate any possible offers or suggestions from Dan.I would bend over backwards to accommodate any possible offers or suggestions from Dan.

On Sun, 08/29/10 at 10:52 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: TheodoreMessage:again another outrageous and exagerated allegation directed at me for no other reason i can see other than your desperate attempt at harrassement, abuse anddisplaced anger. how on earth can you possibly blame me when you are the primary caregiver. they are with me 2 days a week. they are with you 5 dyas aweek. as you are well aware weight gain is an accumualitve process. it is not possible for them to become overweight overnight. now if you would like to lookat the facts and not solely your twisted conjecture here they are- first the boys tell me when they are home with you they sit in the house all day and play video games or watch tv- no one takes them out to play at thebeach/playground etc.. i have no idea what you may be feeding them but clearly when they sit around all day they are most definately not getting any exerciseto burn off any calories. when they are with me we are at the beach, swimming, bike riding, playing from morning till evening. they are outside all day long getting plenty of excerciseand fresh air. since the doctor brought the weight issue to our attention I have made a conscious effort to make all necesary dietary changes to encourage a healthier lifestyle.they are served 3 well balanced meals a day. candy is a rare treat and we have taken to heathier sweets like fruit etc... they are children and do get treats fromtime to time which are well deserved.breakfast is served at home consisting of eggs, turkey bacon in order to cut down on fat.lunch is usually sandwhiches, and dinner is served at home. meat and vegeatbles- not only in my opinion but this is a healthy diet for growing boys- and by theway we seldom go to mcdonalds anymore.so your perposterous allegations seem to serve no other purpose but to try and annoy me. you are the one who must not be monitoring their diet and excercise.yet one more time you are accusing me of something you are in fact doing yourself.if you would like to accurately document their wieght gain a more precise measure would be the amount of weight they have gained since they are living withyou. im sure they figure would be astounding! the majority of their weight gain has clearly been since I was forced out of my house and seperated me from mysons. this is infact a reality. If you were to look at the pictures of the boys on the camping trips that I took them on in the final summer that I lived at brooklakest, or talk to any of the neighbors to ask them If the boys are seen outside playing/rideing their bikes around the neiborhood I am sure that they are rarly seen.yes i too have documentation which shows the real truth and where the real problem lies- not some fictious exageration of the truth. I have taken a parenting class where we were informed about the how imperative it is to not interagate the children after visitation. it seems that you are notconcerned for their emotional well being or you not be doing this. as you have no valid proof nor a leg to stand on ( since it is easily dteremined that theirweight gain has been accumualtive over the past 18 months while the boys have been in your care) i must insist that you stop any further harasment regardingthis issue.

On Sun, 08/29/10 at 7:33 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: TheodoreMessage:

I am very concerned that you are not paying attention to Theodore's weight.You promised that you would never let that happen to your sons. You said you would run them everyday if you saw them becoming obese.Theodore is 8 he is probably already going to have lifelong weight issues, it is no joke, excess fat on little boys creates excess estrogen which leads toformation of breast tissue and interruption of testosterone production for puberty, meaning inferior testes, etc., less male body characteristics,more female bodycharacteristics...It is a crime to buy their love or cooperation with junk food.You hated your love handles enough to LIPO them off and you were not fat as a young boy, that means that Theodore is more likely to look like your brotherDavid, LIPO can not help DavidHow can you turn a blind eye to the love handles on Theodore and the hanging stomach?If he keeps that going for a couple more years he will need a tummy tuck even if he loses weight.... not to mention a breast reductionHow do you justify constantly feeding them candy, chips, Mcdonalds, ice cream, and probably gobs of butter when you take them out for breakfast?They come home from your house talking about junk food you feed them constantly and they gained weight each week of visitation they spent with you I havedocumented it, it is abuseEspecially since you know your family history of obesity surgeries and your own struggle with weight, the lipo and all.....Please if you care about your son's please keep your promise of helping them to not have to be the fat boy in the school they both have enough to deal with!

165 of 24308/30/2010 7:32 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/30/2010 5:08 PM)RE: theodores therapy


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I don't remember the psychiatrist nameI don't remember the psychiatrist namecall information for the number I don't have it handy and the therapist is Janellecall information for the number I don't have it handy and the therapist is Janelle

On Sun, 08/29/10 at 8:52 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: theodores therapyMessage:please give me the names of the therapist and psychiatrist and a contact number. You never once supplied me with that information. so as to avoid this problumin the future please respond on this site.

On Sun, 08/29/10 at 7:12 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: theodores therapyMessage:

As I have told you more than once EDELMAN CENTER. He had two intake sessions, one with therapist and one with psychiatrist. His ongoing therapy wasto be decided some time in July but with the summer schedule, (at that time I had them in camp, which Theodore was really enjoying) and Theodore's visitswith you, it was too difficult to schedule regular appt.s yet.Hopefully by next week that will change. I gave them all of your contact information, they will be asking both of us to participate at some point I don't knowwhen.You are free to go to the Edelman Center and talk to them any time you want to do so. You are Theodore's father. They had me sign an agreement for a reduced rate of $50 a month based on my income, you can also feel free to pay some of that as well.

On Mon, 08/23/10 at 7:07 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: theodores therapyMessage:please inform me of the therapy that theodore has had or is receiving since the suicide threat at school. When I was trying to arrange therapy for him you hadinformed me that you had allready scheduled him for therapyplease give name, place and contact information.Thank Youplease give that information to me on this web site only.

166 of 24308/29/2010 7:33 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/29/2010 8:52 PM)Theodore

I am very concerned that you are not paying attention to Theodore's weight.I am very concerned that you are not paying attention to Theodore's weight.You promised that you would never let that happen to your sons. You said you would run them everyday if you sawYou promised that you would never let that happen to your sons. You said you would run them everyday if you sawthem becoming obese.them becoming obese.Theodore is 8 he is probably already going to have lifelong weight issues, it is no joke, excess fat on little boysTheodore is 8 he is probably already going to have lifelong weight issues, it is no joke, excess fat on little boyscreates excess estrogen which leads to formation of breast tissue and interruption of testosterone production forcreates excess estrogen which leads to formation of breast tissue and interruption of testosterone production forpuberty, meaning inferior testes, etc., less male body characteristics,more female body characteristics...puberty, meaning inferior testes, etc., less male body characteristics,more female body characteristics...It is a crime to buy their love or cooperation with junk food.It is a crime to buy their love or cooperation with junk food.You hated your love handles enough to LIPO them off and you were not fat as a young boy, that means thatYou hated your love handles enough to LIPO them off and you were not fat as a young boy, that means thatTheodore is more likely to look like your brother David, LIPO can not help DavidTheodore is more likely to look like your brother David, LIPO can not help DavidHow can you turn a blind eye to the love handles on Theodore and the hanging stomach?How can you turn a blind eye to the love handles on Theodore and the hanging stomach?If he keeps that going for a couple more years he will need a tummy tuck even if he loses weight.... not to mention aIf he keeps that going for a couple more years he will need a tummy tuck even if he loses weight.... not to mention abreast reductionbreast reductionHow do you justify constantly feeding them candy, chips, Mcdonalds, ice cream, and probably gobs of butter whenHow do you justify constantly feeding them candy, chips, Mcdonalds, ice cream, and probably gobs of butter whenyou take them out for breakfast?you take them out for breakfast?They come home from your house talking about junk food you feed them constantly and they gained weight eachThey come home from your house talking about junk food you feed them constantly and they gained weight eachweek of visitation they spent with you I have documented it, it is abuseweek of visitation they spent with you I have documented it, it is abuse


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week of visitation they spent with you I have documented it, it is abuseweek of visitation they spent with you I have documented it, it is abuseEspecially since you know your family history of obesity surgeries and your own struggle with weight, the lipo andEspecially since you know your family history of obesity surgeries and your own struggle with weight, the lipo andall.....all.....Please if you care about your son's please keep your promise of helping them to not have to be the fat boy in thePlease if you care about your son's please keep your promise of helping them to not have to be the fat boy in theschool they both have enough to deal with!school they both have enough to deal with!

167 of 24308/29/2010 7:12 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/29/2010 8:47 PM)RE: theodores therapy

As I have told you more than once EDELMAN CENTER. He had two intake sessions, one with therapist and oneAs I have told you more than once EDELMAN CENTER. He had two intake sessions, one with therapist and onewith psychiatrist. His ongoing therapy was to be decided some time in July but with the summer schedule, (at thatwith psychiatrist. His ongoing therapy was to be decided some time in July but with the summer schedule, (at thattime I had them in camp, which Theodore was really enjoying) and Theodore's visits with you, it was too difficult totime I had them in camp, which Theodore was really enjoying) and Theodore's visits with you, it was too difficult toschedule regular appt.s yet.schedule regular appt.s yet.Hopefully by next week that will change. I gave them all of your contact information, they will be asking both of usHopefully by next week that will change. I gave them all of your contact information, they will be asking both of usto participate at some point I don't know when.to participate at some point I don't know when.You are free to go to the Edelman Center and talk to them any time you want to do so. You are free to go to the Edelman Center and talk to them any time you want to do so. You are Theodore's father. You are Theodore's father. They had me sign an agreement for a reduced rate of $50 a month based on my income, you can also feel free to payThey had me sign an agreement for a reduced rate of $50 a month based on my income, you can also feel free to paysome of that as well.some of that as well.

On Mon, 08/23/10 at 7:07 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: theodores therapyMessage:please inform me of the therapy that theodore has had or is receiving since the suicide threat at school. When I was trying to arrange therapy for him you hadinformed me that you had allready scheduled him for therapyplease give name, place and contact information.Thank Youplease give that information to me on this web site only.

168 of 24308/29/2010 7:02 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/29/2010 8:44 PM)RE: weekends in October

Dan,Dan,

You must understand that the visitation with the children is not to be traded or negotiated based on other things. It isYou must understand that the visitation with the children is not to be traded or negotiated based on other things. It isimpossible to enforce such a trade.impossible to enforce such a trade.

Picture it, we agree to trade weekends based on you calling the boys before bedtime, I bring the children to give themPicture it, we agree to trade weekends based on you calling the boys before bedtime, I bring the children to give themto you, you don't show up, you say, oh well, too bad I didn't get to talk to the boys on tuesday....I'm not coming toto you, you don't show up, you say, oh well, too bad I didn't get to talk to the boys on tuesday....I'm not coming toget them.....get them.....Or the shoe on the other foot, You go pick up the children, I don't bring them to you, how are you going to bring theOr the shoe on the other foot, You go pick up the children, I don't bring them to you, how are you going to bring thepolice to my door to enforce your right to visitation? You will say, I spoke to the boys before bed so now this is mypolice to my door to enforce your right to visitation? You will say, I spoke to the boys before bed so now this is myweekend! I could say no I did not let him speak to the boys so he doesnt get to see them this weekend.... weekend! I could say no I did not let him speak to the boys so he doesnt get to see them this weekend.... it just doesn't make sense.it just doesn't make sense.

When you discuss visitation or changes with visitation The only subject is visitation.When you discuss visitation or changes with visitation The only subject is visitation.We make an agreement to have the boys on certain weekends put it in writing and then we are bound to it.We make an agreement to have the boys on certain weekends put it in writing and then we are bound to it.if you came to get the boys on the 5th weekend and I didn't want to give them to you you would have my writtenif you came to get the boys on the 5th weekend and I didn't want to give them to you you would have my writtenagreement that we switched weekends.agreement that we switched weekends.

I asked you to switch weekends or commit to extra weekend I asked you to switch weekends or commit to extra weekend


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Option 1- extra weekend- third weekend (yes or no)Option 1- extra weekend- third weekend (yes or no)Option 2 - switch weekends- you take 3rd and 5th instead of 2nd and 4th (yes or no)Option 2 - switch weekends- you take 3rd and 5th instead of 2nd and 4th (yes or no)

On Mon, 08/23/10 at 7:01 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: weekends in OctoberMessage:allright I will switch weekends with you with the following condition of being able to speak with my sons before bed time. If you can not except this conditionthen I will not negotiate any changes that you request regauding visitations. please respond with your answer on this web site only.

On Thu, 08/19/10 at 3:20 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: weekends in OctoberMessage:

The weekends in October begin on the following days,

1st----18th----215th---322nd--429th--5

I need to leave town on the 3rd weekend of October, I would like to know if you would be willing to switch weekends with me one way or another.

I can take the 2nd and 4th weekends instead of the 3rd and 5th, that way there is not any haggling over halloween and you would still have the 1st weekend

Or we can keep it the way it is and you can have an extra weekend if you want to commit to an extra weekend which is the 3rd weekend

Please let me know asap

169 of 24308/19/2010 3:20 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/21/2010 11:49 AM)weekends in October

The weekends in October begin on the following days,The weekends in October begin on the following days,

1st----11st----18th----28th----215th---315th---322nd--422nd--429th--529th--5

I need to leave town on the 3rd weekend of October, I would like to know if you would be willing to switchI need to leave town on the 3rd weekend of October, I would like to know if you would be willing to switchweekends with me one way or another.weekends with me one way or another.

I can take the 2nd and 4th weekends instead of the 3rd and 5th, that way there is not any haggling over halloween andI can take the 2nd and 4th weekends instead of the 3rd and 5th, that way there is not any haggling over halloween andyou would still have the 1st weekendyou would still have the 1st weekend

Or we can keep it the way it is and you can have an extra weekend if you want to commit to an extra weekend whichOr we can keep it the way it is and you can have an extra weekend if you want to commit to an extra weekend whichis the 3rd weekendis the 3rd weekend

Please let me know asapPlease let me know asap


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170 of 24308/04/2010 4:07 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 08/05/2010 6:14 AM)Friday August 6 th

I do not have child care for this Friday while I am working will you pick up children at 9:00AM instead of 6:30 PM?I do not have child care for this Friday while I am working will you pick up children at 9:00AM instead of 6:30 PM?

171 of 24307/24/2010 10:22 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/24/2010 12:23 PM)RE: Kids visit week of 19th

You re-sent me a message on the 23rd that you wrote on the 18th in which you promised to tell me the answer to theYou re-sent me a message on the 23rd that you wrote on the 18th in which you promised to tell me the answer to thevisitation question in 2 days or less.visitation question in 2 days or less.

How am I supposed understand this?How am I supposed understand this?

does it mean that you need another 2 days to tell me?does it mean that you need another 2 days to tell me?

or does it mean that the part where you said most likely it will be the second week, now means it is definitely theor does it mean that the part where you said most likely it will be the second week, now means it is definitely thesecond week?second week?

Please try to be more clear, I cannot read between the lines or read your mind, and I do not want to make my ownPlease try to be more clear, I cannot read between the lines or read your mind, and I do not want to make my ownassumptions of what you are trying to say.assumptions of what you are trying to say.

I will see you at 6:30 tonight for pick up at pacific division.I will see you at 6:30 tonight for pick up at pacific division.

Then I will return children to you at 6:30 Sunday night for the following week.Then I will return children to you at 6:30 Sunday night for the following week.

On Fri, 07/23/10 at 11:31 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:The second week

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Sent: 07/18/10 04:30PM Subject: RE: D. Cooper summer visitation schedule Message: I will tell you witch week in agust in two days or less. more then likely the second week.

On Fri, 07/23/10 at 11:27 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:

I can not get the children back on friday night. I will be in class until 10 pm. I can have them back saturday the activity I have planned with them is from the e-mail i cut and pasted in below. The boys need to work on pictures and letters ms. brown is taking to orphans in Haiti along with some donations of clothes etc.we are meeting with her sunday at a park to give them to her. I will return the boys to you sunday night at 6:30, I can not do it on monday night because I am in school that night.As I have told you several times before when I said the week of...... I thought it was understood that the week always starts that sunday night. we did this lastyear without this confusion, and spring break too. I'm sorry if I have added to the confusion by not being more clear.You promised to tell me which week of august you want the kids which you have not done yet.


You promised to tell me which week of august you want the kids which you have not done yet.

Hi Maeve,Please give Sam and Theo the names of these two boys (is Theo doing a letter/picture too?):

1. Michelson Geffrard (10 years old) (for Sam)2. Ronald Geffrard (11 years old) (for Theodore)

I think they are brothers and though it would be fun if Sam and Theo send their letters to them together since they are brothers, too. They can include a picture(photos) of themselves (maybe doing things they like to do here, maybe with their famiy and pets, etc.).

See you next Sunday ...

Ms. Brown

On Tue, 07/20/10 at 1:03 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:ok

then I soppose that you want them back on friday. We will not be able to go campng then. and until my income and my credit report gets better I need to makearrangments with the person that I share an appartment with.

can I plan on having them back on sunday night or monday morning or monday @ 6:30 pm at the pacific division?

On Mon, 07/19/10 at 3:46 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:

Your answer makes no sense whatsoever.I asked why you did not want the children on sunday night for the week and you said "those are the dates you gave me" Yes, I am aware of that THE WEEKof the 19th. Nothing about that says monday night, weeks do not start on monday night.By the way I have something planned for the boys next sunday and it is incredibly important for samuel, it has to do with Ms. Brown, he really wants to go.

On Sun, 07/18/10 at 5:04 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:those dates you set and I arranged my time on the dates you gave me. But I may be able to keep the boys over next weekend. we might be able to do some backto back camping. the boys I'm sure would be overjoyed If we could do that. but if that falls though I will make sure that they have a great time no matter wherewe end up. I will make sure that they are happy and tired from haveing fun. could you please reconcider getting the camping gear down. the big tent not the oldone the new one. the cooking gear, and the sleeping bags. one of the ice chest would be cool too. oh ya and the snokling gear, the big stove. and you should goup there and check because it has been two years since I left and the gas canisters could be dangerous they are getting old and it's going to get hot up in theattick. also take the oil based paints out of there.

On Sun, 07/18/10 at 12:39 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:

Why do you not want to pick up the children Sunday night for your visitation this week?Are you working tomorrow during the day?


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172 of 24307/23/2010 11:27 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/23/2010 11:28 AM)RE: Kids visit week of 19th

I can not get the children back on friday night. I will be in class until 10 pm. I can have them back saturday theI can not get the children back on friday night. I will be in class until 10 pm. I can have them back saturday theactivity I have planned with them is from the e-mail i cut and pasted in below. The boys need to work on picturesactivity I have planned with them is from the e-mail i cut and pasted in below. The boys need to work on picturesand letters ms. brown is taking to orphans in Haiti along with some donations of clothes etc. we are meeting with herand letters ms. brown is taking to orphans in Haiti along with some donations of clothes etc. we are meeting with hersunday at a park to give them to her. sunday at a park to give them to her. I will return the boys to you sunday night at 6:30, I can not do it on monday night because I am in school that night.I will return the boys to you sunday night at 6:30, I can not do it on monday night because I am in school that night.As I have told you several times before when I said the week of...... I thought it was understood that the week alwaysAs I have told you several times before when I said the week of...... I thought it was understood that the week alwaysstarts that sunday night. we did this last year without this confusion, and spring break too. I'm sorry if I have addedstarts that sunday night. we did this last year without this confusion, and spring break too. I'm sorry if I have addedto the confusion by not being more clear.to the confusion by not being more clear.You promised to tell me which week of august you want the kids which you have not done yet.You promised to tell me which week of august you want the kids which you have not done yet.

Hi Maeve,Hi Maeve,Please give Sam and Theo the names of these two boys (is Theo doing a letter/picture too?):Please give Sam and Theo the names of these two boys (is Theo doing a letter/picture too?):

1. Michelson Geffrard (10 years old) (for Sam)1. Michelson Geffrard (10 years old) (for Sam)2. Ronald Geffrard (11 years old) (for Theodore)2. Ronald Geffrard (11 years old) (for Theodore)

I think they are brothers and though it would be fun if Sam and Theo send their letters to them together since theyI think they are brothers and though it would be fun if Sam and Theo send their letters to them together since theyare brothers, too. They can include a picture (photos) of themselves (maybe doing things they like to do here, maybeare brothers, too. They can include a picture (photos) of themselves (maybe doing things they like to do here, maybewith their famiy and pets, etc.). with their famiy and pets, etc.).

See you next Sunday ...See you next Sunday ...

Ms. BrownMs. Brown

On Tue, 07/20/10 at 1:03 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:ok

then I soppose that you want them back on friday. We will not be able to go campng then. and until my income and my credit report gets better I need to makearrangments with the person that I share an appartment with.

can I plan on having them back on sunday night or monday morning or monday @ 6:30 pm at the pacific division?

On Mon, 07/19/10 at 3:46 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: Kids visit week of 19thMessage:

Your answer makes no sense whatsoever.I asked why you did not want the children on sunday night for the week and you said "those are the dates you gave me" Yes, I am aware of that THE WEEKof the 19th. Nothing about that says monday night, weeks do not start on monday night.By the way I have something planned for the boys next sunday and it is incredibly important for samuel, it has to do with Ms. Brown, he really wants to go.


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173 of 24307/19/2010 3:51 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/20/2010 12:49 AM)RE: Samuel Cast

For appt.s callFor appt.s call

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Orthopedic medical centerOrthopedic medical center2400 south flower street2400 south flower streetlos angeles, calif. 90007los angeles, calif. 90007

On Sun, 07/18/10 at 4:03 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: Samuel CastMessage:yes definatlly yes

how bad was the break, where was the break. your brother said that it poped out of the joint and then the phone went dead and I couldn't speak to him. sixweeks is a long time for his age. four weeks with a splint should be fine dont you think. if we could remove it and then put it in a splint that would be cool.

On Sun, 07/18/10 at 12:36 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: Samuel CastMessage:

I have left messages on the # I was given to make Samuel's follow up appointment for his cast, I have not gotten a return call.The only solution I can think of is to give you all the info from the clinic and you can take him there directly.They were very nice, they accept his insurance, there is a large state of the art Ortho Hospital were they do the follow-ups next door to the urgent care wherehis cast was put on.I could see just going to the urgent care and explaining that we couldn't get an appt. or just going to the follow-up place directly to be fit in to be seen.Let me know if you want to try this during the week.


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174 of 24307/19/2010 3:46 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/20/2010 12:50 AM)RE: Kids visit week of 19th

Your answer makes no sense whatsoever.Your answer makes no sense whatsoever.I asked why you did not want the children on sunday night for the week and you said "those are the dates you gaveI asked why you did not want the children on sunday night for the week and you said "those are the dates you gaveme" Yes, I am aware of that THE WEEK of the 19th. me" Yes, I am aware of that THE WEEK of the 19th. Nothing about that says monday night, weeks do not start on monday night.Nothing about that says monday night, weeks do not start on monday night.By the way I have something planned for the boys next sunday and it is incredibly important for samuel, it has to doBy the way I have something planned for the boys next sunday and it is incredibly important for samuel, it has to dowith Ms. Brown, he really wants to go.with Ms. Brown, he really wants to go.




175 of 24307/18/2010 12:52 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/18/2010 3:55 PM)3rd week of visitation/summer

I asked you in a separate e-mail but I am sending this to make sure that I get an answer about only this subject.I asked you in a separate e-mail but I am sending this to make sure that I get an answer about only this subject.I need to know which week between the dates of August 1st and aug 16th you want to have the children for the 3rdI need to know which week between the dates of August 1st and aug 16th you want to have the children for the 3rdweek of your summer visitation?week of your summer visitation?I am leaving town during that time and of course it would be great for the kids if they could be with you while I amI am leaving town during that time and of course it would be great for the kids if they could be with you while I amgone.gone.I need to know as soon as possible.I need to know as soon as possible.

176 of 24307/18/2010 12:39 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/18/2010 3:56 PM)Kids visit week of 19th


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Why do you not want to pick up the children Sunday night for your visitation this week?Why do you not want to pick up the children Sunday night for your visitation this week?Are you working tomorrow during the day?Are you working tomorrow during the day?

177 of 24307/18/2010 12:36 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/18/2010 3:57 PM)Samuel Cast

I have left messages on the # I was given to make Samuel's follow up appointment for his cast, I have not gotten aI have left messages on the # I was given to make Samuel's follow up appointment for his cast, I have not gotten areturn call.return call.The only solution I can think of is to give you all the info from the clinic and you can take him there directly.The only solution I can think of is to give you all the info from the clinic and you can take him there directly.They were very nice, they accept his insurance, there is a large state of the art Ortho Hospital were they do theThey were very nice, they accept his insurance, there is a large state of the art Ortho Hospital were they do thefollow-ups next door to the urgent care where his cast was put on.follow-ups next door to the urgent care where his cast was put on.I could see just going to the urgent care and explaining that we couldn't get an appt. or just going to the follow-upI could see just going to the urgent care and explaining that we couldn't get an appt. or just going to the follow-upplace directly to be fit in to be seen.place directly to be fit in to be seen.Let me know if you want to try this during the week.Let me know if you want to try this during the week.

178 of 24307/18/2010 12:28 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/18/2010 4:03 PM)RE: D. Cooper summer visitation schedule

Yes Dan, that is true I did say that the week of the 19th and the week of the 26th.Yes Dan, that is true I did say that the week of the 19th and the week of the 26th.A week is still 7 days no matter what.A week is still 7 days no matter what.I do not understand how it could be interpreted any other way.I do not understand how it could be interpreted any other way.The fact that you are having difficulties in securing camp sites and planning fun things with a child that has a cast onThe fact that you are having difficulties in securing camp sites and planning fun things with a child that has a cast onhis arm is not my problem.his arm is not my problem.It should be obvious to you that I am having the same problems with activities and managing schedules with them outIt should be obvious to you that I am having the same problems with activities and managing schedules with them outof school and me work/school schedule.of school and me work/school schedule.You complain about your living situation as if mine is so much easier. If I cannot work the children will not have aYou complain about your living situation as if mine is so much easier. If I cannot work the children will not have aroof over their head here either, if I cannot have proper and appropriate care for the kids I cannot work.roof over their head here either, if I cannot have proper and appropriate care for the kids I cannot work.You have all the time in the world to work or do whatever you want to do, as far as I can tell you have had all thisYou have all the time in the world to work or do whatever you want to do, as far as I can tell you have had all thistime to get a great living situation that would accommodate your kids.time to get a great living situation that would accommodate your kids.All I hear from you is that you cannot even take your kids for the time that you have a right to because you cannotAll I hear from you is that you cannot even take your kids for the time that you have a right to because you cannotfigure out how to do so unless everything works out perfectly, campsite, no cast..... that is not how life goes. figure out how to do so unless everything works out perfectly, campsite, no cast..... that is not how life goes.

I have to go to Mississippi to help pack up and move my father, he has had a stroke and needs to be in an assistedI have to go to Mississippi to help pack up and move my father, he has had a stroke and needs to be in an assistedliving situation.living situation.That means that I need to know from you which week you want for your 3rd week of visitation, the first or secondThat means that I need to know from you which week you want for your 3rd week of visitation, the first or secondweek of August?week of August?Please let me know ASAP.Please let me know ASAP.

On Fri, 07/16/10 at 7:03 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: D. Cooper summer visitation scheduleMessage:I'm sorry but I can not have them on this weekend. the problum is that I share a small two bedroom appartment with someone that has a child that is here. youinformed me back on 5/19 that I was to have them for the week of july 19th and the week of the 26th. I was not able to secure camp site for the week of the19th. but it's still possible to go to a KOA. but with samuels hand in a cast keeping them occupied without being able to go swiming will be won't be that funfor them. but we will make the best of it.

On Fri, 07/16/10 at 2:43 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: D. Cooper summer visitation scheduleMessage:

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I called you because you told me you would call and let me know if you were going to have the children for the full week that is allotted to you for summervisitation, which would have meant that you picked up the children tonight at 6:30 and kept them friday to friday.As Friday afternoon at 2:30 you still had not told me.

You informed me that you only want to have the children Monday night at 6:30 and return them Friday night at 6:30, which means that you only want thechildren for 4 days and 4 nights.

If I have misunderstood any of this, and you DO want to avail your self to the visitation time that you have a right to, please write me to clarify when youwould like to make that happen.

179 of 24307/16/2010 2:43 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/16/2010 6:29 PM)D. Cooper summer visitation schedule

I am writing this to summarize the conversation we just had on the phone.I am writing this to summarize the conversation we just had on the phone.

I called you because you told me you would call and let me know if you were going to have the children for the fullI called you because you told me you would call and let me know if you were going to have the children for the fullweek that is allotted to you for summer visitation, which would have meant that you picked up the children tonight atweek that is allotted to you for summer visitation, which would have meant that you picked up the children tonight at6:30 and kept them friday to friday.6:30 and kept them friday to friday.As Friday afternoon at 2:30 you still had not told me.As Friday afternoon at 2:30 you still had not told me.

You informed me that you only want to have the children Monday night at 6:30 and return them Friday night at 6:30,You informed me that you only want to have the children Monday night at 6:30 and return them Friday night at 6:30,which means that you only want the children for 4 days and 4 nights.which means that you only want the children for 4 days and 4 nights.

If I have misunderstood any of this, and you DO want to avail your self to the visitation time that you have a right to,If I have misunderstood any of this, and you DO want to avail your self to the visitation time that you have a right to,please write me to clarify when you would like to make that happen.please write me to clarify when you would like to make that happen.

180 of 24307/14/2010 11:59 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/15/2010 4:14 PM)RE: Summer

This coming weekend is the 3rd weekend of the month, my weekend, monday is the 19th, the next weekend is the 4thThis coming weekend is the 3rd weekend of the month, my weekend, monday is the 19th, the next weekend is the 4thweekend, your weekend,weekend, your weekend,

I believe the visitation for the next couple of weeks would make sense if you picked them up this weekend kept themI believe the visitation for the next couple of weeks would make sense if you picked them up this weekend kept themthrough the week then I get them the next weekend so to break up the time a little.through the week then I get them the next weekend so to break up the time a little.

the 19th to the 23rd is not a week, it is only 5 daysthe 19th to the 23rd is not a week, it is only 5 days

would you look at your calender and tell me how you would like to handle it.would you look at your calender and tell me how you would like to handle it.

On Sun, 07/11/10 at 9:14 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieSubject: RE: SummerMessage:YES

I plan on haveing them from the 19th to the 23rd.

On the week of the 26th cou;d I please get the boys early. could I pick up the boys by 12.30 pm in the afternoon insted of 6:30 pm.

On Sun, 07/11/10 at 9:03 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperSubject: SummerMessage:


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Please answer this question,WILL YOU HAVE THE CHILDREN IN YOUR CARE DURING THE WEEK OF THE 19TH OF JULY?

181 of 24307/11/2010 9:03 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/11/2010 9:06 PM)Summer

Please answer this question,Please answer this question,WILL YOU HAVE THE CHILDREN IN YOUR CARE DURING THE WEEK OF THE 19TH OF JULY?WILL YOU HAVE THE CHILDREN IN YOUR CARE DURING THE WEEK OF THE 19TH OF JULY?

182 of 24307/08/2010 3:13 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/09/2010 6:06 AM)RE: re-summer

Dan,Dan,

I just reread this e- mail from you, and I need to clarify something you said.I just reread this e- mail from you, and I need to clarify something you said.You said you are still working the week of the 19th.You said you are still working the week of the 19th.Does that mean that you do not want to take your children for that week of your summer visitation?Does that mean that you do not want to take your children for that week of your summer visitation?

I work every week and I have to figure out how to keep them entertained and safe while I am at work, I work every week and I have to figure out how to keep them entertained and safe while I am at work, That is also your responsibility during your scheduled visitation times.That is also your responsibility during your scheduled visitation times.

If you are not going to take them I need to know right away.If you are not going to take them I need to know right away.

On Tue, 06/22/10 at 6:39 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: re-summerMessage:My I please have the camping gear. please let me know as soon as possible. I have the week of 26th schedualed. ( can I get the boys sunday night for thatweek) and I'm still working on the week of the 19th. I think that If I can't get a spot then we will show up and wait in line for a cancellation, and If that does'ntwork then we will stay at the KOA camping site.

On Sun, 05/23/10 at 11:28 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: RE: re-summerMessage:

yours, and there may be more if i can not arrange for sumer school. Both children are supposed to have extended school schedule which means summer schoollast year the school for Theodore was no good so I took him out the first day This year I don't know what the school district has to offer but so far I have not been able to make the payments to the program I planned to have for theminstead.If you agree to pay some of your child support or some of the tuition I will get into more detail about it.

On Wed, 05/19/10 at 11:39 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: re-summerMessage:are these my weeks are yours

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The week of July 19th and the week of July 26th.

The third week I am not sure of at this moment.

On Wed, 05/12/10 at 7:40 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: re-summerMessage:From: Daniel Cooper To: Maeve Crommie (first view: 05/07/10 06:15AM) Sent: 05/06/10 05:00PM Subject: re-summer Message: From: Daniel Cooper To: Maeve Crommie (first view: 05/06/10 12:23AM)

Sent: 05/05/10 09:04PM Subject: re-summer Message: From: Daniel Cooper To: Maeve Crommie (first view: 05/05/10 06:10AM)

Sent: 05/04/10 10:42PM Subject: summer Message: I tried so hard to secure camping over the summer and I failed. everything that I was lucky enough to get was out of the county so I let them go. Iknow that you went ahead and scheduled so what are the times that I'm left with? please let me know so that I can keep on trying, it's possible someone maycancell. but doughtfull. if one does come up in san diego or at santa barbra will you let me take them?

you told me that you would let me know.

183 of 24307/06/2010 11:18 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/06/2010 6:24 PM)pictures

Thank you for the pictures of the boys on the 4thThank you for the pictures of the boys on the 4thThey had a great time!They had a great time!

184 of 24307/06/2010 12:55 AMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/06/2010 6:24 PM)July 6th, 7th, 8th and 9th

Would you keep the boys on Tuesday night from 6:00 PM, during the day wednesday, 6:00 PM thursday night, andWould you keep the boys on Tuesday night from 6:00 PM, during the day wednesday, 6:00 PM thursday night, andfriday during the day?friday during the day?

Those are the times that I have school and work and I will be paying for childcare.Those are the times that I have school and work and I will be paying for childcare.

Since you don't want to help financially maybe you would like to spend some time with them.Since you don't want to help financially maybe you would like to spend some time with them.


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185 of 24307/01/2010 3:45 PMMaeve CrommieDaniel Cooper (First View: 07/01/2010 8:06 PM)Samuel

Thankfully Samuel did not need surgery. But he has a cast on his arm that cannot get wet.Thankfully Samuel did not need surgery. But he has a cast on his arm that cannot get wet.

Please do not let him get it full of sand or anything like that, he has to wear it for 4 to 6 weeks.Please do not let him get it full of sand or anything like that, he has to wear it for 4 to 6 weeks.

186 of 24306/28/2010 7:55 PMMaeve Crommievisitation with Samuel & Theodore 6/29

I saw that you read my messages 2 or 3 days ago that I sent to you about Theodore and Samuel staying with youI saw that you read my messages 2 or 3 days ago that I sent to you about Theodore and Samuel staying with youTuesday and Wednesday of this week.Tuesday and Wednesday of this week.

I am writing this as a summary of our last few communications. I am writing this as a summary of our last few communications.

I told you that I had no day care for the boys on those days and I had to work, the boys have no school or camp.I told you that I had no day care for the boys on those days and I had to work, the boys have no school or camp.

You have refused to spend time with them (in spite of the fact that you cry about how much you miss them)You have refused to spend time with them (in spite of the fact that you cry about how much you miss them)

You have refused to take them to pitch in physically with their care even though you do not help financially withYou have refused to take them to pitch in physically with their care even though you do not help financially withtheir care.their care.

But, you said you would take them if I gave you the camping gear.But, you said you would take them if I gave you the camping gear.

Well we don't need to have that conversation because their brother and sister have stepped in to help, again.Well we don't need to have that conversation because their brother and sister have stepped in to help, again.

187 of 24306/27/2010 2:25 PMMaeve Crommiecommunication

When you are e-mailing me please do not cut and paste old e-mails onto it When you are e-mailing me please do not cut and paste old e-mails onto it or resend my email with your answer incorporated to the body of my textor resend my email with your answer incorporated to the body of my text

It is confusing and makes communication more difficult than it already is.It is confusing and makes communication more difficult than it already is.

188 of 24306/27/2010 12:33 PMMaeve CrommieRE: re-summer

Since you are working I expect to have a child support check from you immediately.Since you are working I expect to have a child support check from you immediately.

You have contributed nothing to your children's needs or child care expenses since Feb.You have contributed nothing to your children's needs or child care expenses since Feb.

I am too busy worrying about day to day supporting them and arranging for childcare and paying for it to thinkI am too busy worrying about day to day supporting them and arranging for childcare and paying for it to thinkahead to July camping issues.ahead to July camping issues.

You could alleviate much of that stress by getting caught up on your child support payments.You could alleviate much of that stress by getting caught up on your child support payments.

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On Tue, 06/22/10 at 6:39 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: re-summerMessage:My I please have the camping gear. please let me know as soon as possible. I have the week of 26th schedualed. ( can I get the boys sunday night for thatweek) and I'm still working on the week of the 19th. I think that If I can't get a spot then we will show up and wait in line for a cancellation, and If that does'ntwork then we will stay at the KOA camping site.

On Sun, 05/23/10 at 11:28 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: RE: re-summerMessage:

yours, and there may be more if i can not arrange for sumer school. Both children are supposed to have extended school schedule which means summer schoollast year the school for Theodore was no good so I took him out the first day This year I don't know what the school district has to offer but so far I have not been able to make the payments to the program I planned to have for theminstead.If you agree to pay some of your child support or some of the tuition I will get into more detail about it.

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189 of 24306/27/2010 12:26 PMMaeve CrommieRE: This week 6/29 and 6/30

I have given you an opportunity to spend time with your children while they are out of school and they have no otherI have given you an opportunity to spend time with your children while they are out of school and they have no otherobligations on tuesday 6/29 and wednesday 6/30.obligations on tuesday 6/29 and wednesday 6/30.

You complain about not seeing them or talking to them during the week, I am trying to give an opportunity to do so.You complain about not seeing them or talking to them during the week, I am trying to give an opportunity to do so.

Obviously your claims about spending more time with them are false.Obviously your claims about spending more time with them are false.

On Sat, 06/26/10 at 1:53 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: This week 6/29 and 6/30Message:I will give you an answer about tuesday and wensday when you give me an answer about the camping gear. I have been asking you for it for over two yearsnow.

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Can you keep the children on Tuesday and wednesday this week? I was able to get some overtime at work and Their summer programs have not started yet.

I do not have any one to watch them and I will not have time to figure out anything else because of all the stuff going on with the Dr.s for both kids

190 of 24306/26/2010 12:07 PMMaeve CrommieThis week 6/29 and 6/30

Can you keep the children on Tuesday and wednesday this week? I was able to get some overtime at work and TheirCan you keep the children on Tuesday and wednesday this week? I was able to get some overtime at work and Theirsummer programs have not started yet.summer programs have not started yet.

I do not have any one to watch them and I will not have time to figure out anything else because of all the stuff goingI do not have any one to watch them and I will not have time to figure out anything else because of all the stuff goingon with the Dr.s for both kidson with the Dr.s for both kids

191 of 24306/26/2010 12:05 PMMaeve CrommieRE: samuel

I called you from the ER on Thursday when I was there with Samuel. Samuel left a message on your cell phoneI called you from the ER on Thursday when I was there with Samuel. Samuel left a message on your cell phonetelling you about his finger.telling you about his finger.I guess this e-mail means that you never got these missed calls or messages, that is too bad the message he sent youI guess this e-mail means that you never got these missed calls or messages, that is too bad the message he sent youwas very cute.was very cute.

He had his dental surgery on Wednesday and thursday morning he felt better and he ran across the room slid caughtHe had his dental surgery on Wednesday and thursday morning he felt better and he ran across the room slid caughthis pinky finger the wrong way, Theodore thought that he hit his head but when I stood him up his left pinky fingerhis pinky finger the wrong way, Theodore thought that he hit his head but when I stood him up his left pinky fingerwas bent out at the middle joint in a L-shape. was bent out at the middle joint in a L-shape. I knew it was dislocated so I set it wrapped it and went straight to the ER where they x-rayed and it is broken.I knew it was dislocated so I set it wrapped it and went straight to the ER where they x-rayed and it is broken.

He was referred to a hand specialist because he may need surgery due to part of the joint that is broken.He was referred to a hand specialist because he may need surgery due to part of the joint that is broken.

I contacted the hand specialist that day and have been on the phone with many different people dr.'s and agency'sI contacted the hand specialist that day and have been on the phone with many different people dr.'s and agency's


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I contacted the hand specialist that day and have been on the phone with many different people dr.'s and agency'sI contacted the hand specialist that day and have been on the phone with many different people dr.'s and agency'sbecause the red tape is preventing anyone from giving him an appt.because the red tape is preventing anyone from giving him an appt.

I will get back to it on monday, Theodore has his first appt with a psych on monday as well. (his intake appt was 2I will get back to it on monday, Theodore has his first appt with a psych on monday as well. (his intake appt was 2weeks ago)weeks ago)

On Fri, 06/25/10 at 8:36 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: samuelMessage:I was told by your brother that samuels finger might be broken? please tell me how it happend and is his finger truely broken. Will he be in a cast or a splint? Iwasent able to talk to him because the battery on your home phone was going dead. I am going to send you an e-mail regaurding answering the messages.

192 of 24306/20/2010 12:39 PMMaeve Crommiekids wagon, kids bikesCan you use the wagon? Let me know if you want me to bring it when I pick them up. If you can use it at the beachCan you use the wagon? Let me know if you want me to bring it when I pick them up. If you can use it at the beachor whatever you can keep it over at your house.or whatever you can keep it over at your house.

I need to have their bikes for during the week and also for next weekend Will you please bring the bikes tonightI need to have their bikes for during the week and also for next weekend Will you please bring the bikes tonightwhen you drop them off.when you drop them off.

193 of 24306/16/2010 8:49 PMMaeve CrommieRE: fathers day

We are celebrating Danielle's birthday on Friday, Gilbert got tickets for El Capitan.We are celebrating Danielle's birthday on Friday, Gilbert got tickets for El Capitan.

The tickets were purchased for that day because it is supposed to be my weekend.The tickets were purchased for that day because it is supposed to be my weekend.

I will get them back as soon as possible, but can't get back by 6:30....... movie is at 4:00 and there is a carnival on theI will get them back as soon as possible, but can't get back by 6:30....... movie is at 4:00 and there is a carnival on theway out for the ticket holders.way out for the ticket holders.

I hope you will understand it was an honest mistake, I was not aware that Fathers day fell on my weekend and I hopeI hope you will understand it was an honest mistake, I was not aware that Fathers day fell on my weekend and I hopeyou will want the boys to enjoy themselves and not be upset about them getting to you late.you will want the boys to enjoy themselves and not be upset about them getting to you late.

On Wed, 06/16/10 at 6:14 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: fathers dayMessage:please have the boys at pick up and drop off point on time. last time you called when I was allready at the police station and then I had to go and pick them upnot untill it was about 7:30.

194 of 24306/16/2010 8:36 PMMaeve CrommieRE: this weekendWhy did you ask me if I wanted you to take the boys this weekend ?Why did you ask me if I wanted you to take the boys this weekend ?It was your weekend.It was your weekend.

On Wed, 06/09/10 at 5:04 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: this weekendMessage:do you want me to take the boys this weekend

195 of 24305/28/2010 7:17 PMMaeve CrommieSamuel tooth


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samuel has a broken tooth on the left upper side samuel has a broken tooth on the left upper side he will have to be seen by dentist immediatelyhe will have to be seen by dentist immediatelyI had his dental surgery scheduled for June 9thI had his dental surgery scheduled for June 9thbut last week I had to reschedule it because I had to take June 2 nd off for your restraining order court datebut last week I had to reschedule it because I had to take June 2 nd off for your restraining order court dateI have missed work too much and my job is in jeapordy because of it.I have missed work too much and my job is in jeapordy because of it.

Either way Samuel is having pain in his tooth as of today, the filling fell out last night and the tooth broke todayEither way Samuel is having pain in his tooth as of today, the filling fell out last night and the tooth broke today

196 of 24305/26/2010 3:38 PMMaeve CrommieRE: visitation

Dan,Dan,The e-mail you sent on 4/30 did not refer to any specific weekend.The e-mail you sent on 4/30 did not refer to any specific weekend.I am attaching the first e-mail that you sent in regards to any specific date in MayI am attaching the first e-mail that you sent in regards to any specific date in May

HERE IS YOUR E-MAIL, PLEASE REREAD ITHERE IS YOUR E-MAIL, PLEASE REREAD IT

At 05:07 PM on 05/06/10, Daniel Cooper wrote:At 05:07 PM on 05/06/10, Daniel Cooper wrote:To: Maeve CrommieTo: Maeve CrommieSubject: please respond to visitation and taxesSubject: please respond to visitation and taxesMessage: Please respond or my only choice is to cancell picking up the boys this weekend and we will continue asMessage: Please respond or my only choice is to cancell picking up the boys this weekend and we will continue ascourt orderd.court orderd.

The following weekend we can split it as well, Samuel was invited to a birthday party on the 16th which I have beenThe following weekend we can split it as well, Samuel was invited to a birthday party on the 16th which I have beenplanning to take him to. It's the first time either one of the boys have had an invitation all year. (now if that isplanning to take him to. It's the first time either one of the boys have had an invitation all year. (now if that iscontinued I would like to request that the weekend of the 28th day of may I would like to enjoy a full weekend withcontinued I would like to request that the weekend of the 28th day of may I would like to enjoy a full weekend withmay sons. and then I would like too resume back to regularly scheduled visitation schedule.) please agree or not.may sons. and then I would like too resume back to regularly scheduled visitation schedule.) please agree or not.

TaxesTaxes1. what happened to the tax returns?1. what happened to the tax returns?2. the issue of taxes has always started a war between us, and that was always something that was left to you. but I2. the issue of taxes has always started a war between us, and that was always something that was left to you. but Ijust needed to know how you came up with those numbers?just needed to know how you came up with those numbers?

AS YOU CAN SEE IN YOUR OWN WORDS YOU TALKED ABOUT WANTING THEM ON THE 28TH, YOUAS YOU CAN SEE IN YOUR OWN WORDS YOU TALKED ABOUT WANTING THEM ON THE 28TH, YOUNEVER MENTIONED THE 21ST AND FURTHERMORE CAN WE STOP BEATING THIS HORSE?NEVER MENTIONED THE 21ST AND FURTHERMORE CAN WE STOP BEATING THIS HORSE?NO MATTER WHAT IF THERE ARE 5 WEEKENDS I GET THE KIDS FOR TWO OF THEM NO MATTER WHAT IF THERE ARE 5 WEEKENDS I GET THE KIDS FOR TWO OF THEM I DID NOT GET EXTRA TIME, NOT EVEN A DAY I DID NOT GET EXTRA TIME, NOT EVEN A DAY

YOU CANNOT EVEN RECOGNIZE WHEN I AM TRYING TO BE CONSIDERATE (like letting you pickYOU CANNOT EVEN RECOGNIZE WHEN I AM TRYING TO BE CONSIDERATE (like letting you pickwhether you wanted to see the kids on the 21st or the 28th for the long weekend, or not keeping them all of motherswhether you wanted to see the kids on the 21st or the 28th for the long weekend, or not keeping them all of mothersday weekend, like offering to give you the present to take them to the party yourself on the 16th then you would haveday weekend, like offering to give you the present to take them to the party yourself on the 16th then you would havehad them the whole weekend, the party was not for me Dan, it was for them,)had them the whole weekend, the party was not for me Dan, it was for them,)

YOU MANAGE TO TWIST IT ALL AROUND UNTIL IN YOUR MIND I HAVE SOMEHOW DONEYOU MANAGE TO TWIST IT ALL AROUND UNTIL IN YOUR MIND I HAVE SOMEHOW DONESOMETHING BAD TO YOUSOMETHING BAD TO YOU

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE GET SOME HELP WITH THIS.PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE GET SOME HELP WITH THIS.

On Tue, 05/25/10 at 10:19 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: visitationMessage:OK once againat your request I had the boys starting on the 30th of april to may first (see e-mail sent 4-30-10 at 11:37 am)


I had the boys on the 7th of april to the 8th. I retuned the boys 8:30 pm due to mothers day(at you request)

I had the boys on the 14th till 10:00 am at your request to take them to a party.

we had an agreement that if you were to on the 9th and the 16th that I was to have them the weekend of the 21st. and then we would resume regaurlyscheduled visitation. and you agreed.

On Mon, 05/24/10 at 11:54 AM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: RE: visitationMessage:

I have no idea what you are talking about, none

It just makes no sense at all, is it from this week?

Last month? What are you even referring to........

What did I supposedly do?

Incredibly confusing and I consider this kind of e-mail harassment, because it wastes my time and I don't want to have to try so hard to figure out what youmean any more, it is irritating...

On Sun, 05/23/10 at 8:39 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: visitationMessage:just because you can write 500 words in a nimute doesn't mean its the truth. we had an agreement and you decided to once again to use my sons to attack andto try to provoke me. stop useing the boys. leave them out of your attacks on me.

On Fri, 04/30/10 at 4:02 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: RE: visitationMessage:Friday is not "the weekend". I assumed that because Saturday and Sunday, which are "weekend" days fall on May 1 and May 2, I thought this is the firstweekend of May.

If you don't want to pick them up it is fine. Just tell me.

Next weekend is Mothers day weekend.

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please confirm that you are letting have visitation this weekend even knowing that friday the 30this the start of the fifth weekend of the month. meaning that next month I will not be forfieting my reguarly schedualed visitations. any additional time that I canhave with my sons I will take. but by me takeing this additional time I am not by any means giving up my court ordered schedualed visitation.I will be texting you to please respond and confirm to this e-mail. and please respond to the previous e-mails. yesterday I text you regaurding this weekend andyou stated that this weekend was mine. I just do not want there to be any mis understanding.Thank You


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197 of 24305/24/2010 11:54 AMMaeve CrommieRE: visitation

I have no idea what you are talking about, none I have no idea what you are talking about, none

It just makes no sense at all, is it from this week?It just makes no sense at all, is it from this week?

Last month? What are you even referring to........Last month? What are you even referring to........

What did I supposedly do? What did I supposedly do?

Incredibly confusing and I consider this kind of e-mail harassment, because it wastes my time and I don't want toIncredibly confusing and I consider this kind of e-mail harassment, because it wastes my time and I don't want tohave to try so hard to figure out what you mean any more, it is irritating...have to try so hard to figure out what you mean any more, it is irritating...

On Sun, 05/23/10 at 8:39 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: visitationMessage:just because you can write 500 words in a nimute doesn't mean its the truth. we had an agreement and you decided to once again to use my sons to attack andto try to provoke me. stop useing the boys. leave them out of your attacks on me.

On Fri, 04/30/10 at 4:02 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: RE: visitationMessage:Friday is not "the weekend". I assumed that because Saturday and Sunday, which are "weekend" days fall on May 1 and May 2, I thought this is the firstweekend of May.

If you don't want to pick them up it is fine. Just tell me.

Next weekend is Mothers day weekend.


please confirm that you are letting have visitation this weekend even knowing that friday the 30this the start of the fifth weekend of the month. meaning that next month I will not be forfieting my reguarly schedualed visitations. any additional time that I canhave with my sons I will take. but by me takeing this additional time I am not by any means giving up my court ordered schedualed visitation.I will be texting you to please respond and confirm to this e-mail. and please respond to the previous e-mails. yesterday I text you regaurding this weekend andyou stated that this weekend was mine. I just do not want there to be any mis understanding.Thank You

198 of 24305/23/2010 1:46 PMMaeve CrommieRE: please answer

This site is for discussion of matters relating to our children and co-parenting I am not going to start debating otherThis site is for discussion of matters relating to our children and co-parenting I am not going to start debating othernonsense with you, either I did not file anything without your signature if it would have been returned or if I did filenonsense with you, either I did not file anything without your signature if it would have been returned or if I did fileit without your signature and your signature was not necessary for the filing.it without your signature and your signature was not necessary for the filing.


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it without your signature and your signature was not necessary for the filing.it without your signature and your signature was not necessary for the filing.

Either way I will not discuss it any more with you as it is completely irrelevant to anything that is going on, exceptEither way I will not discuss it any more with you as it is completely irrelevant to anything that is going on, exceptfor the fact that you still owe Don Watson for doing our taxes from the last year of our marriage 2008.for the fact that you still owe Don Watson for doing our taxes from the last year of our marriage 2008.

If you will please make the payment directly to him that would be great.If you will please make the payment directly to him that would be great.

On Sun, 05/23/10 at 1:26 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: please answerMessage:From: Daniel Cooper To: Maeve Crommie (first view: 05/23/10 11:37AM)

Sent: 05/19/10 11:47PM Subject: please respond to this question Message: one other question about the taxes is how were you able too file them without my signiture?

199 of 24305/23/2010 1:39 PMMaeve Crommieweekends

According to several of your court filings you have claimed that the weekend of Oct 31st I had the children and youAccording to several of your court filings you have claimed that the weekend of Oct 31st I had the children and youwere supposed to have themwere supposed to have them

If you refer to a calendar you will see that october 30th is a friday and october 31st was a saturday in my estimationIf you refer to a calendar you will see that october 30th is a friday and october 31st was a saturday in my estimationit was overwhelmingly an october weekend and it was the 5th weekend which is my weekend.it was overwhelmingly an october weekend and it was the 5th weekend which is my weekend.

In May I also believed that since friday was April 30th and saturday was may 1st and sunday was may 2nd I believedIn May I also believed that since friday was April 30th and saturday was may 1st and sunday was may 2nd I believedthat weekend was overwhelmingly the first weekend of Maythat weekend was overwhelmingly the first weekend of May

I personally believe 2 days out of 3 is a majority and that was how I reached my conclusion,I personally believe 2 days out of 3 is a majority and that was how I reached my conclusion,

I am not sure how you call that weekend of october 30th your weekend and the weekend of april 30th your weekendI am not sure how you call that weekend of october 30th your weekend and the weekend of april 30th your weekendas wellas well

This directly contradicts in reasoning.This directly contradicts in reasoning.

I went along with it this time because you made it so clear (in several of your e-mails) that it was important to you toI went along with it this time because you made it so clear (in several of your e-mails) that it was important to you tohave the kids on may 28th (which is a long 3 day weekend)have the kids on may 28th (which is a long 3 day weekend)

So I was being nice to you by going along with your calculations that this weekend was the 3rd weekend which madeSo I was being nice to you by going along with your calculations that this weekend was the 3rd weekend which madeit my weekend. so you could have them next weekend that you wanted.it my weekend. so you could have them next weekend that you wanted.

Otherwise next weekend would be the 5th weekend and I would have them next weekend.Otherwise next weekend would be the 5th weekend and I would have them next weekend.

From your text messages and your e-mails this weekend it seems you somehow came to the conclusion that youFrom your text messages and your e-mails this weekend it seems you somehow came to the conclusion that youshould have them every weekend no matter what.should have them every weekend no matter what.

I think that the fact that I have to spend this time on these conversations with you is further harassment of me, I doI think that the fact that I have to spend this time on these conversations with you is further harassment of me, I donot want this much contact and arguing over these details.not want this much contact and arguing over these details.

We are not married and I should not have to help you manage your calenders so muchWe are not married and I should not have to help you manage your calenders so much

why don't we use the calendar on this site and block out all the weekends for the year just to keep it clear and stop allwhy don't we use the calendar on this site and block out all the weekends for the year just to keep it clear and stop allthe unnecessary communicationthe unnecessary communication


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200 of 24305/23/2010 11:37 AMMaeve CrommieRE: weekend of 5/21,5/22

I do not know what you are talking about.I do not know what you are talking about.

This was not a negotiation.This was not a negotiation.

On Wed, 05/19/10 at 11:41 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: weekend of 5/21,5/22Message:I will take this weekend. please do not try to nagotiate anouther weekend again.

On Wed, 05/19/10 at 9:41 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: RE: weekend of 5/21,5/22Message:

So this is the third weekend, my weekend and next weekend is your weekend the 4th weekend.

why go on about all the other stuff what prevents you from answering questions directly?

On Wed, 05/19/10 at 4:04 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: weekend of 5/21,5/22Message:the 9th of may was mothers day so at your request we split weekends. meaning I had them 7th and dropped them of on the 8th and the following weekend youstated that you had a party scheduled for the 16th so I gave them back to you on the 16th at 10:00 am. I did that with the agreement that I would have them thefollowing weekend and we would return to regularly sheduled visitations. meaning that the 28th day of may is the fourth weekend of the month. I'm hopingthat you don't go back on your word.

On Wed, 05/19/10 at 3:36 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: weekend of 5/21,5/22Message:

Did you want to call this weekend the 3rd and next weekend the 4th weekend of the month?

Or this weekend the 4th and next weekend the 5th? Either way I get them one of the weekends so let me know.

201 of 24305/23/2010 11:28 AMMaeve CrommieRE: re-summer

yours, and there may be more if i can not arrange for sumer school. Both children are supposed to have extendedyours, and there may be more if i can not arrange for sumer school. Both children are supposed to have extendedschool schedule which means summer school last year the school for Theodore was no good so I took him out theschool schedule which means summer school last year the school for Theodore was no good so I took him out thefirst day first day This year I don't know what the school district has to offer but so far I have not been able to make the payments toThis year I don't know what the school district has to offer but so far I have not been able to make the payments tothe program I planned to have for them instead.the program I planned to have for them instead.If you agree to pay some of your child support or some of the tuition I will get into more detail about it.If you agree to pay some of your child support or some of the tuition I will get into more detail about it.

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202 of 24305/19/2010 9:41 PMMaeve CrommieRE: weekend of 5/21,5/22

So this is the third weekend, my weekend and next weekend is your weekend the 4th weekend.So this is the third weekend, my weekend and next weekend is your weekend the 4th weekend.

why go on about all the other stuff what prevents you from answering questions directly?why go on about all the other stuff what prevents you from answering questions directly?

On Wed, 05/19/10 at 4:04 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: weekend of 5/21,5/22Message:the 9th of may was mothers day so at your request we split weekends. meaning I had them 7th and dropped them of on the 8th and the following weekend youstated that you had a party scheduled for the 16th so I gave them back to you on the 16th at 10:00 am. I did that with the agreement that I would have them thefollowing weekend and we would return to regularly sheduled visitations. meaning that the 28th day of may is the fourth weekend of the month. I'm hopingthat you don't go back on your word.

On Wed, 05/19/10 at 3:36 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: weekend of 5/21,5/22Message:


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Did you want to call this weekend the 3rd and next weekend the 4th weekend of the month?

Or this weekend the 4th and next weekend the 5th? Either way I get them one of the weekends so let me know.

203 of 24305/19/2010 3:36 PMMaeve Crommieweekend of 5/21,5/22

Did you want to call this weekend the 3rd and next weekend the 4th weekend of the month?Did you want to call this weekend the 3rd and next weekend the 4th weekend of the month?

Or this weekend the 4th and next weekend the 5th? Either way I get them one of the weekends so let me know.Or this weekend the 4th and next weekend the 5th? Either way I get them one of the weekends so let me know.

204 of 24305/19/2010 3:33 PMMaeve CrommieRE: theodore

Samuel and Theodore both went to school tuesday and wednesday.Samuel and Theodore both went to school tuesday and wednesday.

When I have more info to give you about Theodore's care I will give it to you I don't know yet who he will beWhen I have more info to give you about Theodore's care I will give it to you I don't know yet who he will beseeing.seeing.

Would you be interested in helping with the cost of his Therapy and other medical bills?Would you be interested in helping with the cost of his Therapy and other medical bills?

On Tue, 05/18/10 at 5:41 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: theodoreMessage:please tell me what's happening with theodore? have you taken him to get counciling? If so where and who is he seeing. did he and samuel go to school today.please have him call me.

205 of 24305/19/2010 3:29 PMMaeve CrommieRE: today

I ANSWERED YOU ABOUT THE SUMMER SCHEDULE ON 5/12I ANSWERED YOU ABOUT THE SUMMER SCHEDULE ON 5/12

As for where the boys were when they were home sick was home that is where they were home, sick.As for where the boys were when they were home sick was home that is where they were home, sick.

On Mon, 05/17/10 at 2:47 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: todayMessage:Where were the boys today? please have them call me.Where were the boys today? I went to the school and both of them were not there. When I left samuels back pack on his hook I saw his wind breaker jacket onthe floor(at school) so I put it inside of his back pack. please have them call me.

PLEASE ANSWER ABOUT SUMMER SCHEDULE YOU SAID THAT YOU WOULD GIVE ME AN ANSWER. YOU SAID THAT YOU HADALLREADY MADE A SCHEDULE. PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT THAT SCHEDULE IS SO THAT I DON'T NEED TO CONTINUE ASKING.IF YOU HAD NOT MADE A SCHEDULE THEN LET ME KNOW. PLEASE


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206 of 24305/17/2010 1:12 PMMaeve CrommieRE: Boys jacket's

I would LOVE to stop asking you to be responsible with the boy's shoes clothing, jackets and school stuff.I would LOVE to stop asking you to be responsible with the boy's shoes clothing, jackets and school stuff.

Unfortunately, as long as you continue to not return shoes, jackets and all, I am forced to deal with you about it.Unfortunately, as long as you continue to not return shoes, jackets and all, I am forced to deal with you about it.

If you ever really get tired of hearing from me about it then I suggest you just return home with them what I haveIf you ever really get tired of hearing from me about it then I suggest you just return home with them what I havebought and provided for them and they are wearing when they go to you.bought and provided for them and they are wearing when they go to you.

If you do that we don't have to talk about it ever.If you do that we don't have to talk about it ever.

On Sun, 05/16/10 at 4:18 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: Boys jacket'sMessage:you just never stop

On Sun, 05/16/10 at 12:11 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: Boys jacket'sMessage:

Thank you for retuning two of the boys jackets that I referred to in the e-mail about the kids clothing that you had at your house, (the one where you answered and said I was a liar, because you dint have their jackets)Samuel went to your house friday with his back pack and a black and gray windbreaker, you still have his homework folder from last week,

Samuel came home today wearing the blue and gray windbreaker that is Theodore's (the one you said you didn't have)

He needs the black and gray windbreaker please return it inside the back pack with the folder to his school on monday morning

207 of 24305/16/2010 12:12 PMMaeve CrommieRE: Samuel home work folder and back pack

8:00 AM8:00 AM

On Sun, 05/16/10 at 12:08 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: Samuel home work folder and back packMessage:I will have his backpack and folder at his school on monday morning. what time will you be there so that I will not be there at that time as to avoid anyproblums.

On Sun, 05/16/10 at 12:01 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: Samuel home work folder and back packMessage:

You did not send Samuel's homework folder to him all week last week, now you have kept his backpack and his homework folder.Please have both of these things at his school monday morning.


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208 of 24305/16/2010 12:11 PMMaeve CrommieBoys jacket's

Thank you for retuning two of the boys jackets that I referred to in the e-mail about the kids clothing that you had atThank you for retuning two of the boys jackets that I referred to in the e-mail about the kids clothing that you had atyour house, your house, (the one where you answered and said I was a liar, because you dint have their jackets)(the one where you answered and said I was a liar, because you dint have their jackets)Samuel went to your house friday with his back pack and a black and gray windbreaker, you still have his homeworkSamuel went to your house friday with his back pack and a black and gray windbreaker, you still have his homeworkfolder from last week,folder from last week,

Samuel came home today wearing the blue and gray windbreaker that is Theodore's (the one you said you didn'tSamuel came home today wearing the blue and gray windbreaker that is Theodore's (the one you said you didn'thave)have)

He needs the black and gray windbreaker please return it inside the back pack with the folder to his school onHe needs the black and gray windbreaker please return it inside the back pack with the folder to his school onmonday morningmonday morning

209 of 24305/16/2010 12:01 PMMaeve CrommieSamuel home work folder and back pack

You did not send Samuel's homework folder to him all week last week, now you have kept his backpack and hisYou did not send Samuel's homework folder to him all week last week, now you have kept his backpack and hishomework folder.homework folder.Please have both of these things at his school monday morning.Please have both of these things at his school monday morning.

210 of 24305/13/2010 8:26 AMMaeve Crommiesamuel homework folder

Today is the 4th day that Samuel does not have his homework folder for school since you took it out of his backpackToday is the 4th day that Samuel does not have his homework folder for school since you took it out of his backpacklast weekend.last weekend.

You have had many opportunities to return it you even came to my house on tuesday why are you not returning yourYou have had many opportunities to return it you even came to my house on tuesday why are you not returning yourson's homework folder?son's homework folder?

Do you need a court order? Oh right that wouldn't help you don't follow court orders.Do you need a court order? Oh right that wouldn't help you don't follow court orders.

How about returning it because it is expected by the school that he has it and that his parents will help him to learnHow about returning it because it is expected by the school that he has it and that his parents will help him to learnresponsibility by having it.responsibility by having it.

211 of 24305/13/2010 7:22 AMMaeve Crommiecourt order

Dan,Dan,

Paying your child support is also a court order.Paying your child support is also a court order.

Paying me for the Disney Time Share is also a court order.Paying me for the Disney Time Share is also a court order.

Assisting in the transfer of ownership of 12618 brooklake by signing and handing over documents is also court order.Assisting in the transfer of ownership of 12618 brooklake by signing and handing over documents is also court order.

Like joining our family wizard that was an order that you chose to ignore for a year, a court order.Like joining our family wizard that was an order that you chose to ignore for a year, a court order.


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212 of 24305/12/2010 11:39 PMMaeve CrommieRE: re-summer

The week of July 19th and the week of July 26th.The week of July 19th and the week of July 26th.

The third week I am not sure of at this moment.The third week I am not sure of at this moment.





213 of 24305/12/2010 11:24 PMMaeve CrommieRE: visitation

Your message is not clear. Your message is not clear.

Please review past e-mails about the weekend of may 15th and get back to me when you can understand what wePlease review past e-mails about the weekend of may 15th and get back to me when you can understand what wetalked about for the weekend.talked about for the weekend.

On Wed, 05/12/10 at 5:34 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: visitationMessage:what time after the party will you have the boys to me this weekend. also please confirm that you will have the boys at the S.M.P.D. as per court order. I willbe sending your attorney an e-mail requesting that you bring the boys to the S.M.P.D. because the only court orders that we have are at the S.M.P.D.

214 of 24305/11/2010 9:32 AMMaeve CrommieToday 5/11/10

You came and pounded on my door and you still did not bring Samuel's homework folder!!You came and pounded on my door and you still did not bring Samuel's homework folder!!


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215 of 24305/11/2010 9:31 AMMaeve Crommie5/11/10

This is about you pounding on my door this morning at 9:26.This is about you pounding on my door this morning at 9:26.

I told you that I did not want to go to your house and I do not want you to come to my house.I told you that I did not want to go to your house and I do not want you to come to my house.

You had no valid reason for being here.You had no valid reason for being here.

You have brought me into court plenty of times on ex-parte for various things and you have never had to come andYou have brought me into court plenty of times on ex-parte for various things and you have never had to come andpound on my door to tell me about it!!!!pound on my door to tell me about it!!!!

216 of 24305/11/2010 7:47 AMMaeve CrommieWednesday Drama

See you wednesday for more of your drama.See you wednesday for more of your drama.

You deliberately do these things on wednesdays and fridays to make me miss work so that I can lose incomeYou deliberately do these things on wednesdays and fridays to make me miss work so that I can lose income

And YOU drag ME into court so you can whine about how I am always making you defend yourself in court againstAnd YOU drag ME into court so you can whine about how I am always making you defend yourself in court againstmy lies, my lies, you are stuck in backwards day AGAIN!!you are stuck in backwards day AGAIN!!

217 of 24305/11/2010 7:39 AMMaeve CrommieSamuel's homework folder

You still have Samuel's homework folderYou still have Samuel's homework folder

He doesn'tHe doesn't

day 2day 2

218 of 24305/09/2010 12:26 PMMaeve Crommiesamuel homework folder

Samuel said his homework folder is at your house.Samuel said his homework folder is at your house.

And the boys said that they went to the police station in your van.And the boys said that they went to the police station in your van.The lie about car problems and borrowing a car was for nothing.The lie about car problems and borrowing a car was for nothing.

All you had to do was tell me when you wanted to drop them off.All you had to do was tell me when you wanted to drop them off.

I didn't care what time it was, and you engineered a whole drama about your Car and SMPD and going to PacificI didn't care what time it was, and you engineered a whole drama about your Car and SMPD and going to Pacificdivision calling me and acting like i was supposed to know somehow that you were already there, DRAMA fordivision calling me and acting like i was supposed to know somehow that you were already there, DRAMA fornothing, that is how you do everythingnothing, that is how you do everything

Why can't it be simple?Why can't it be simple?

you agreed to drop them and you did, why all the drama? You must look at your constant desire to stir up problemsyou agreed to drop them and you did, why all the drama? You must look at your constant desire to stir up problemsor it is never going to stop.or it is never going to stop.


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You do the same thing in every single interaction you and I haveYou do the same thing in every single interaction you and I have

219 of 24305/08/2010 8:53 PMMaeve Crommiesaturday night may 8th

I sent you 3 messages in which I specifically asked you if you wanted the boys on friday to return them to me ATI sent you 3 messages in which I specifically asked you if you wanted the boys on friday to return them to me ATTHE PACIFIC DIVISION, THE PACIFIC DIVISION, go ahead and reread the plan YOU agreed togo ahead and reread the plan YOU agreed toNow at the last minute you tell me that you will only bring them to SMPDNow at the last minute you tell me that you will only bring them to SMPD

Just because it is mothers day and you know I want the boys does not mean that all of a sudden I am no longer scaredJust because it is mothers day and you know I want the boys does not mean that all of a sudden I am no longer scaredto be in an unsafe position with youto be in an unsafe position with you

I have told you again and again I am not going to put myself in those positions where you and your friends can attackI have told you again and again I am not going to put myself in those positions where you and your friends can attackmeme

I am not going to let you force me into by using the childrenI am not going to let you force me into by using the children

I am bringing another charge of contempt against you for not allowing me to have my children as agreed to by you atI am bringing another charge of contempt against you for not allowing me to have my children as agreed to by you atthe pacific division police department tonite so that I may spend mothers day with themthe pacific division police department tonite so that I may spend mothers day with them

It doesn't matter that you say you are having car trouble that is not my problem you have to figure out a way toIt doesn't matter that you say you are having car trouble that is not my problem you have to figure out a way totransport the children, get a ride take a cab take a bus whatevertransport the children, get a ride take a cab take a bus whateverYou arewrong for doing this and you know it!You arewrong for doing this and you know it!

220 of 24305/08/2010 6:12 PMMaeve Crommiesaturday may 8

I have been texting you for a couple of hours and you will not tell me what time you plan on meeting me to pick upI have been texting you for a couple of hours and you will not tell me what time you plan on meeting me to pick upboys tonite.boys tonite.

My guess is that you will do the same thing you did last week, never answer my text's to confirm a drop off then justMy guess is that you will do the same thing you did last week, never answer my text's to confirm a drop off then justgo to designated spot and call me and act like you are surprised I am not there.go to designated spot and call me and act like you are surprised I am not there.

221 of 24305/07/2010 6:43 AMMaeve CrommieRE: please respond to visitation and taxes

So, let me get this straight,So, let me get this straight,in your last e-mail you said that you wanted to start picking up the boys from school friday and bring them to schoolin your last e-mail you said that you wanted to start picking up the boys from school friday and bring them to schoolmonday........monday........

I suggested letting you pick them up from school today and have them through saturday night, so I can see them onI suggested letting you pick them up from school today and have them through saturday night, so I can see them onMothers dayMothers dayand I requested that they come home saturday night or sunday morning next weekend so I could take them to a littleand I requested that they come home saturday night or sunday morning next weekend so I could take them to a littlekids b-day party next weekend kids b-day party next weekend

So, I was trying to give you more time which is what you said you wanted and now you send me an e-mail sayingSo, I was trying to give you more time which is what you said you wanted and now you send me an e-mail sayingthat you want me to respond to something or you will not pick them up at all this weekend.....that you want me to respond to something or you will not pick them up at all this weekend.....

What do you want? It is not clear at all.What do you want? It is not clear at all.stop putting parts of my e-mail's in with yours....stop putting parts of my e-mail's in with yours....I do not know what you feel like you are threatening me about, it looks to me like you are trying to shoot yourself inI do not know what you feel like you are threatening me about, it looks to me like you are trying to shoot yourself inthe foot again.the foot again.

On Thu, 05/06/10 at 5:07 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:


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On Thu, 05/06/10 at 5:07 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: please respond to visitation and taxesMessage:Please respond or my only choice is to cancell picking up the boys this weekend and we will continue as court orderd.

The following weekend we can split it as well, Samuel was invited to a birthday party on the 16th which I have been planning to take him to. It's the first timeeither one of the boys have had an invitation all year. (now if that is continued I would like to request that the weekend of the 28th day of may I would like toenjoy a full weekend with may sons. and then I would like too resume back to regularly scheduled visitation schedule.) please agree or not.

Taxes1. what happened to the tax returns?2. the issue of taxes has always started a war between us, and that was always something that was left to you. but I just needed to know how you came up withthose numbers?

222 of 24305/07/2010 6:28 AMMaeve CrommieTaxes

Below I cut and pasted the portion of the e-mail I ALREADY sent you about the taxes. That is all I know, youBelow I cut and pasted the portion of the e-mail I ALREADY sent you about the taxes. That is all I know, youalready have a copy of them from Don and again you owe him for half of the cost of doing them.already have a copy of them from Don and again you owe him for half of the cost of doing them.I know nothing about your business license or what ever you owe the city, nothing, I have had zero contact withI know nothing about your business license or what ever you owe the city, nothing, I have had zero contact withthem. I only know what I did which was use the dollar amounts that you swore to in court.them. I only know what I did which was use the dollar amounts that you swore to in court.Without any communication from you that was all I had to go by.Without any communication from you that was all I had to go by.2009 I filed separately from you. 2009 I filed separately from you.

At 06:55 AM on 05/05/10, Maeve Crommie wrote:At 06:55 AM on 05/05/10, Maeve Crommie wrote:To: Daniel CooperTo: Daniel CooperSubject: RE: weekend of May 8,9Subject: RE: weekend of May 8,9

The only info I had for taxes was the numbers you put in your court filings, I had to go through and come up withThe only info I had for taxes was the numbers you put in your court filings, I had to go through and come up withwhatever you wrote over the course of the divorce in different statements you made in court and in your declarations,whatever you wrote over the course of the divorce in different statements you made in court and in your declarations,I had no other information to use and every time I asked you about it you ignored me.I had no other information to use and every time I asked you about it you ignored me.

By the way I still owe Don Watson approx. $300.00 for those taxes, you should send him a check for half of thatBy the way I still owe Don Watson approx. $300.00 for those taxes, you should send him a check for half of that

223 of 24305/06/2010 12:28 AMMaeve Crommiefriday may 7Do you agree to pick the boys up from school on friday after Star keep track of their clothing and backpacks andDo you agree to pick the boys up from school on friday after Star keep track of their clothing and backpacks anddrop them off to me on saturday night at Pacific division,( I don't care what time) with all of their things?drop them off to me on saturday night at Pacific division,( I don't care what time) with all of their things?

224 of 24305/06/2010 12:23 AMMaeve CrommieFriday 5/7Do you want to go to Samuel's spring show friday at 1:15?Do you want to go to Samuel's spring show friday at 1:15?I cannot go because I have to work.I cannot go because I have to work.The school gave two tickets if you want to go i will give you the tickets on friday in court.The school gave two tickets if you want to go i will give you the tickets on friday in court.

225 of 24305/05/2010 6:55 AMMaeve CrommieRE: weekend of May 8,9Last weekend Theodore was wearing a blue sweatshirt jacket with very small striped pattern and Samuel was wearingLast weekend Theodore was wearing a blue sweatshirt jacket with very small striped pattern and Samuel was wearinga black and grey wind breaker.a black and grey wind breaker.


A couple of weeks ago Samuel wore a black grey and red striped sweatshirt jacket and Theo was wearing a dark blueA couple of weeks ago Samuel wore a black grey and red striped sweatshirt jacket and Theo was wearing a dark blueand light blue windbreaker and light blue windbreaker

a week before that Samuel was wearing a black light weight warm minter jacket and Theo was wearing a blue anda week before that Samuel was wearing a black light weight warm minter jacket and Theo was wearing a blue andwhite striped sweatshirt jacket.white striped sweatshirt jacket.

These jackets along with a pair of pretty new grey converse velcro strap shoes (45$) and same style black converseThese jackets along with a pair of pretty new grey converse velcro strap shoes (45$) and same style black converseshoes are just some of the clothes that have not come back from your house when they have visited you in the last 6shoes are just some of the clothes that have not come back from your house when they have visited you in the last 6weeks.weeks.

Not to mention every pair of socks they wear every visit and underwear do not come back.Not to mention every pair of socks they wear every visit and underwear do not come back.

I don't know if it is stockpiled at your house or if you lose them and I don't care, all I am saying is I can not buyI don't know if it is stockpiled at your house or if you lose them and I don't care, all I am saying is I can not buythem clothes at this rate and if you do not take this seriously it will always be a problem.them clothes at this rate and if you do not take this seriously it will always be a problem.

I will do a trial run of you picking them up from school this friday after Star class at 4:00, but like I said you have toI will do a trial run of you picking them up from school this friday after Star class at 4:00, but like I said you have toshow some responsibility towards their needs that relate to school, that means back packs homework foldersshow some responsibility towards their needs that relate to school, that means back packs homework folderscommunications sent home from school and CLOTHES. communications sent home from school and CLOTHES. If you refuse to respect the basic needs of these kids, part of which is keeping track of clothing, school supplies etc. ItIf you refuse to respect the basic needs of these kids, part of which is keeping track of clothing, school supplies etc. Itcreates more of a burden on me.creates more of a burden on me.And since I already provide 100% of those basic needs every time you disrespect that my burden goes up to 110%-And since I already provide 100% of those basic needs every time you disrespect that my burden goes up to 110%-120% etc.120% etc.

They need to come home saturday night because i want to be able to sleep in with them and have a relaxing mothersThey need to come home saturday night because i want to be able to sleep in with them and have a relaxing mothersday with them.day with them.

The following weekend we can split it as well, Samuel was invited to a birthday party on the 16th which I have beenThe following weekend we can split it as well, Samuel was invited to a birthday party on the 16th which I have beenplanning to take him to.planning to take him to.It's the first time either one of the boys have had an invitation all year.It's the first time either one of the boys have had an invitation all year.

I am not committing to any regular agreement or change in the weekends because like I said I don't know yet ifI am not committing to any regular agreement or change in the weekends because like I said I don't know yet ifthings will be better or worse doing it that waythings will be better or worse doing it that way

The only info I had for taxes was the numbers you put in your court filings, I had to go through and come up withThe only info I had for taxes was the numbers you put in your court filings, I had to go through and come up withwhatever you wrote over the course of the divorce in different statements you made in court and in your declarations,whatever you wrote over the course of the divorce in different statements you made in court and in your declarations,I had no other information to use and every time I asked you about it you ignored me.I had no other information to use and every time I asked you about it you ignored me.

By the way I still owe Don Watson approx. $300.00 for those taxes, you should send him a check for half of thatBy the way I still owe Don Watson approx. $300.00 for those taxes, you should send him a check for half of that

On Tue, 05/04/10 at 10:28 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: weekend of May 8,9Message:You should be able to collect at least 4 or 6 jackets from your house and return them here.

It is extremely difficult on school mornings when the boys have to be appropriately dressed and all their jackets, underwear, socks, shorts, etc. have gone toyour house and not come back 1 and 2 at a time.

not true but I do have one jacket/wind breaker

yes i would agree to pick them up from school on friday and them drop them off on sunday morning.(where) but are you saying that i would not have them onthe 14th 15th & 16th?

from now on can I pick them up from school on friday and them drop them off at school on monday morning?

please respond about taxes I have asked don watson for a copy of the taxes you submitted for 2008 but I don't know how you came up with these numbers orwhat they mean. also I had cash advances from the citi card that year did you put that in. the city says that I owe about $2000.00 for business tax based on2008 income. that sounded excessive.


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On Tue, 05/04/10 at 1:50 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: weekend of May 8,9Message:This weekend is Mothers day so I could have the children all weekend and then you would have the next according to the court order, however, for the sake ofthe kids routine I want to know if you will pick them up from school on friday and return them to me saturday night or early sunday morning, that way they still see you and I get to spend mothers day with them.

Please let me know.

picking them up from school friday is not our usual plan, I want to try it if you are willing.

I will expect to get the backpacks and school stuff, shoes, clothes and share toys if there is any back when I pick them up.

The jackets they wore to your house did not come back last weekend those were the last two I had.

You should be able to collect at least 4 or 6 jackets from your house and return them here.

It is extremely difficult on school mornings when the boys have to be appropriately dressed and all their jackets, underwear, socks, shorts, etc. have gone toyour house and not come back 1 and 2 at a time.

I can't go out and buy new jackets if we wake up and it's an unusual cold morning.......

Please try to develop some consideration for the school day needs.

226 of 24305/04/2010 1:50 PMMaeve Crommieweekend of May 8,9This weekend is Mothers day so I could have the children all weekend and then you would have the next according toThis weekend is Mothers day so I could have the children all weekend and then you would have the next according tothe court order, however, for the sake of the kids routine I want to know if you will pick them up from school onthe court order, however, for the sake of the kids routine I want to know if you will pick them up from school onfriday and return them to me saturday night or early sunday morning, friday and return them to me saturday night or early sunday morning, that way they still see you and I get to spend mothers day with them.that way they still see you and I get to spend mothers day with them.

Please let me know.Please let me know.

picking them up from school friday is not our usual plan, I want to try it if you are willing.picking them up from school friday is not our usual plan, I want to try it if you are willing.

I will expect to get the backpacks and school stuff, shoes, clothes and share toys if there is any back when I pick themI will expect to get the backpacks and school stuff, shoes, clothes and share toys if there is any back when I pick themup.up.

The jackets they wore to your house did not come back last weekend those were the last two I had.The jackets they wore to your house did not come back last weekend those were the last two I had.

You should be able to collect at least 4 or 6 jackets from your house and return them here.You should be able to collect at least 4 or 6 jackets from your house and return them here.

It is extremely difficult on school mornings when the boys have to be appropriately dressed and all their jackets,It is extremely difficult on school mornings when the boys have to be appropriately dressed and all their jackets,underwear, socks, shorts, etc. have gone to your house and not come back 1 and 2 at a time.underwear, socks, shorts, etc. have gone to your house and not come back 1 and 2 at a time.

I can't go out and buy new jackets if we wake up and it's an unusual cold morning.......I can't go out and buy new jackets if we wake up and it's an unusual cold morning.......

Please try to develop some consideration for the school day needs.Please try to develop some consideration for the school day needs.

227 of 24305/01/2010 10:02 AMMaeve CrommieRE: Talks with Theodore's schoolYes Dan, Yes Dan, I am glad, very glad, that this web site will be monitored.I am glad, very glad, that this web site will be monitored.

I wrote a very in depth e-mail to you about real problems that our son is having in school.I wrote a very in depth e-mail to you about real problems that our son is having in school.

In the end of that e-mail I suggested you go meet with the principle and the behaviorists if you want to.In the end of that e-mail I suggested you go meet with the principle and the behaviorists if you want to.For that matter go ahead and schedule meetings with his teachers, behaviorists, principle and special ed coordinator,For that matter go ahead and schedule meetings with his teachers, behaviorists, principle and special ed coordinator,Ms. Ahearn.Ms. Ahearn.

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Nothing is stopping you from doing that, nothing has ever been stopping you from doing that.Nothing is stopping you from doing that, nothing has ever been stopping you from doing that.

Please go talk to the professionals that are spending 8 hours a day 5 days a week trying to help your son have aPlease go talk to the professionals that are spending 8 hours a day 5 days a week trying to help your son have achance at an education.chance at an education.

I promise you that if he does not receive intervention now he will not stand the chance of an ice cube in hellI promise you that if he does not receive intervention now he will not stand the chance of an ice cube in hell

This is not about defending yourself, it is about what is going on with your kid.This is not about defending yourself, it is about what is going on with your kid.

If your memory of that night is that night I came over there and just started screaming at your neighbors who I haveIf your memory of that night is that night I came over there and just started screaming at your neighbors who I havenever seen in my life I went and pulled them out of their house just to have a screaming fight and victimized you,never seen in my life I went and pulled them out of their house just to have a screaming fight and victimized you,poor Dan, who was just trying to send his children home like a great and responsible father would, you know fed,poor Dan, who was just trying to send his children home like a great and responsible father would, you know fed,clean and fully dressed and I called the police because that was my sunday night plan,clean and fully dressed and I called the police because that was my sunday night plan,even if this is how you remember it Dan, it does not change one single thing about what is happening in the last threeeven if this is how you remember it Dan, it does not change one single thing about what is happening in the last threeweeks with Theodore and your reply to me said NOTHING about THEODORE.weeks with Theodore and your reply to me said NOTHING about THEODORE.

If I am this lunatic that for absolutely no reason just starts screaming at you and your neighbors and you in front ofIf I am this lunatic that for absolutely no reason just starts screaming at you and your neighbors and you in front ofthe kids Then You should absolutely ask the court for a custody evaluation. You should be insisting on it. And Youthe kids Then You should absolutely ask the court for a custody evaluation. You should be insisting on it. And Youshould be at the school every week to make sure that your kids are not being affected by a crazy person.should be at the school every week to make sure that your kids are not being affected by a crazy person.

On Fri, 04/30/10 at 11:10 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: Talks with Theodore's schoolMessage:It is exhausting trying to deal with your lies. You started the all the problems that occurred that night. You hurt Theodore. You started fighting with myniebors. You screamed foul language and verbally attacked me in front of the boys. And you called the police. And just like always you twist the truth. Youattack and lie. You have no boundaries that you are not willing to cross. You attack and call the police and once again I am left in a situation of trying to defendmyself against all of your false allegations.I find completely frustrating trying to reply to your all lies. but I have grown accustumed to you attacking me and then you saying that I did it and then metrying to defend myself in a court of law against all of your lies. I want too remind you that this web site is in place so that all communications can bemonitored.

On Fri, 04/30/10 at 4:33 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: Talks with Theodore's schoolMessage:Theodore has completely regressed to the behavior that he was acting out last year before he started receiving services at school.His acting out has been escalating since the week after your neighbors attacked me at your house.I have been working with teachers, Star, etc. trying to get him back on track.I've been trying to not react much because I think he will get through it but....He has been fine at home..... but things he has done in school are spilling over and I have to carry out consequences for those school behaviors now at home.

Today he smashed a cupcake, called a couple of teachers bitches, ran away from class, crawled under the principle's desk would not come out, tore up a picturethat his classmate drew for him as soon as they gave it to him.

One of the teachers explained to him that there are a couple of birthday parties for kids in class and in spite of the fact that the kids may like him the motherswill not invite him because they witnessed his behaviors this week.He has also noticed the playdates other children have and he doesn't.That is so sad I don't know what to do.

When I picked him up today he was in the principles office, the principle and teacher had a long talk with me about the kids watching SouthPark at your house.They brought Samuel in who confirmed that they did watch it at your house.The school is taking this seriously as something to be concerned about.

they asked me to talk to you about it and ask to please monitor their TV and internet use.

The principle is having a "coffee and conversation session" on monday morning with any interested parents and she is going to discuss this as one of thetopics, you should go.

228 of 24304/30/2010 4:33 PMMaeve CrommieTalks with Theodore's schoolTheodore has completely regressed to the behavior that he was acting out last year before he started receiving servicesTheodore has completely regressed to the behavior that he was acting out last year before he started receiving servicesat school.at school.


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at school.at school.His acting out has been escalating since the week after your neighbors attacked me at your house.His acting out has been escalating since the week after your neighbors attacked me at your house.I have been working with teachers, Star, etc. trying to get him back on track.I have been working with teachers, Star, etc. trying to get him back on track.I've been trying to not react much because I think he will get through it but....I've been trying to not react much because I think he will get through it but....He has been fine at home..... but things he has done in school are spilling over and I have to carry out consequencesHe has been fine at home..... but things he has done in school are spilling over and I have to carry out consequencesfor those school behaviors now at home.for those school behaviors now at home.

Today he smashed a cupcake, called a couple of teachers bitches, ran away from class, crawled under the principle'sToday he smashed a cupcake, called a couple of teachers bitches, ran away from class, crawled under the principle'sdesk would not come out, tore up a picture that his classmate drew for him as soon as they gave it to him.desk would not come out, tore up a picture that his classmate drew for him as soon as they gave it to him.

One of the teachers explained to him that there are a couple of birthday parties for kids in class and in spite of theOne of the teachers explained to him that there are a couple of birthday parties for kids in class and in spite of thefact that the kids may like him the mothers will not invite him because they witnessed his behaviors this week.fact that the kids may like him the mothers will not invite him because they witnessed his behaviors this week.He has also noticed the playdates other children have and he doesn't.He has also noticed the playdates other children have and he doesn't.That is so sad I don't know what to do.That is so sad I don't know what to do.

When I picked him up today he was in the principles office, the principle and teacher had a long talk with me aboutWhen I picked him up today he was in the principles office, the principle and teacher had a long talk with me aboutthe kids watching SouthPark at your house. They brought Samuel in who confirmed that they did watch it at yourthe kids watching SouthPark at your house. They brought Samuel in who confirmed that they did watch it at yourhouse.house.The school is taking this seriously as something to be concerned about.The school is taking this seriously as something to be concerned about.

they asked me to talk to you about it and ask to please monitor their TV and internet use.they asked me to talk to you about it and ask to please monitor their TV and internet use.

The principle is having a "coffee and conversation session" on monday morning with any interested parents and she isThe principle is having a "coffee and conversation session" on monday morning with any interested parents and she isgoing to discuss this as one of the topics, you should go.going to discuss this as one of the topics, you should go.

229 of 24304/30/2010 4:03 PMMaeve CrommieRE: please look at a calenderI cannot confirm that because I don not believe it to be true.I cannot confirm that because I don not believe it to be true.Why would I say that May 1, and May 2, are a weekend in April?Why would I say that May 1, and May 2, are a weekend in April?

On Fri, 04/30/10 at 11:50 AM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: please look at a calenderMessage:please look at a calender to confirm that this friday begins on the 5th weekend of the month.

230 of 24304/30/2010 4:02 PMMaeve CrommieRE: visitationFriday is not "the weekend". I assumed that because Saturday and Sunday, which are "weekend" days fall on May 1Friday is not "the weekend". I assumed that because Saturday and Sunday, which are "weekend" days fall on May 1and May 2, I thought this is the first weekend of May.and May 2, I thought this is the first weekend of May.

If you don't want to pick them up it is fine. Just tell me.If you don't want to pick them up it is fine. Just tell me.

Next weekend is Mothers day weekend.Next weekend is Mothers day weekend.


please confirm that you are letting have visitation this weekend even knowing that friday the 30this the start of the fifth weekend of the month. meaning that next month I will not be forfieting my reguarly schedualed visitations. any additional time that I canhave with my sons I will take. but by me takeing this additional time I am not by any means giving up my court ordered schedualed visitation.I will be texting you to please respond and confirm to this e-mail. and please respond to the previous e-mails. yesterday I text you regaurding this weekend andyou stated that this weekend was mine. I just do not want there to be any mis understanding.


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you stated that this weekend was mine. I just do not want there to be any mis understanding.Thank You

231 of 24304/27/2010 1:03 PMMaeve CrommieRE: inhalerYou do not need to fill out any of the paperwork she gave you!You do not need to fill out any of the paperwork she gave you!

That paperwork is only if the school is going to keep the medicine and dispense it to the child!That paperwork is only if the school is going to keep the medicine and dispense it to the child!

The school does not need to give him the medicine!The school does not need to give him the medicine!

I only needed you to give it to them for me to pick up since you had it when you dropped the kids off at school I only needed you to give it to them for me to pick up since you had it when you dropped the kids off at school This should be very simple why are you making it so complicated!This should be very simple why are you making it so complicated!

Why did you not drop it in my mailbox like last time?Why did you not drop it in my mailbox like last time?

Now he is on day 2 without it!Now he is on day 2 without it!

On Mon, 04/26/10 at 5:56 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: RE: inhalerMessage:I did not check ourfamilywizard site last night. trying to prove my innocence from all of your lies and accusations is exhausting. for one I did go into the officeand they gave me a form to fill out and the lady in the office wrote down the fax # to send it back to the school. I suppose I could go there and see if she wouldsign a sworn declaration to that fact. but once again proveing my innocence to your manipution of the trurth is exhausting. but since you refuse to stop attakingthat is what I am left with to do. PLEASE STOP ATTACKING.

On Mon, 04/26/10 at 3:14 PM, Maeve Crommie wrote:Subject: inhalerMessage:This is what I wrote about the inhaler in my e-mail to you yesterday;

"Please send Samuel's inhaler with him with a note for teacher to hold it for me."

232 of 24304/26/2010 3:14 PMMaeve CrommieinhalerThis is what I wrote about the inhaler in my e-mail to you yesterday;This is what I wrote about the inhaler in my e-mail to you yesterday;

"Please send Samuel's inhaler with him with a note for teacher to hold it for me.""Please send Samuel's inhaler with him with a note for teacher to hold it for me."

233 of 24304/26/2010 3:12 PMMaeve CrommieRE: the boysI talked to them in the office they said you NEVER told them that you were giving it to them to hold for me to pickI talked to them in the office they said you NEVER told them that you were giving it to them to hold for me to pickup.up.They said, all you said was "Samuel needs this."They said, all you said was "Samuel needs this."

Of course that sounds like he needs this to be given at school, and there is no paperwork because he does not take itOf course that sounds like he needs this to be given at school, and there is no paperwork because he does not take itduring the day, which you should know because I gave you written instructions with the medicine to give it in theduring the day, which you should know because I gave you written instructions with the medicine to give it in theAM and The PM before bed!AM and The PM before bed!

He needs his medicine before bed tonight and in the morning please drop it off.He needs his medicine before bed tonight and in the morning please drop it off.I do not have another one to give him.I do not have another one to give him.


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Message:I took the boys to school. the office would not let me leave samuels breather unless there was confirmation on file for that medication from his doctor. also Idid not have their back packs nor their lunch boxes. please let me know before 11:00 am if you will bring their lunches.

234 of 24304/25/2010 8:45 PMMaeve CrommieChildren sun/monSince you chose not to bring the children to the Pacific Division police station to return them to me, i have assumedSince you chose not to bring the children to the Pacific Division police station to return them to me, i have assumedyou intend to keep the children overnight tonight.you intend to keep the children overnight tonight.

Make sure they are at school on time tomorrow morning, their bell rings at 8:11 AM. Make sure they are at school on time tomorrow morning, their bell rings at 8:11 AM. Please send Samuel's inhaler with him with a note for teacher to hold it for me.Please send Samuel's inhaler with him with a note for teacher to hold it for me.I will drop off Backpacks and snacks for them at their classrooms.I will drop off Backpacks and snacks for them at their classrooms.

I did not want to be involved in this struggle with you, but I cannot and will not allow you to corner me the way youI did not want to be involved in this struggle with you, but I cannot and will not allow you to corner me the way youdid the last time I picked up the children and the way you have down the street from the Santa Monica Police Stationdid the last time I picked up the children and the way you have down the street from the Santa Monica Police Stationin the past.in the past.

I am terrified of you, there is no telling what you have planned, but the fact that you are trying to force me into aI am terrified of you, there is no telling what you have planned, but the fact that you are trying to force me into aposition where I have made it so clear as to why I am afraid to go there just confirms to me what a Bully you are.position where I have made it so clear as to why I am afraid to go there just confirms to me what a Bully you are.

235 of 24304/25/2010 3:23 PMMaeve CrommieRE: please respondI do not know that Gilbert did text you.I do not know that Gilbert did text you.I did not have Gilbert text you for me.I did not have Gilbert text you for me.I do not control Gilbert, he is an adult.I do not control Gilbert, he is an adult.

I did not state to you in my last e-mail or any other form of communication with you that I was going to refuse to letI did not state to you in my last e-mail or any other form of communication with you that I was going to refuse to letyou have your scheduled visitation.you have your scheduled visitation.

What I did say to you (in summary) was;What I did say to you (in summary) was;I only feel comfortable and safe exchanging the children with you for your visitation at the LAPD Pacific DivisionI only feel comfortable and safe exchanging the children with you for your visitation at the LAPD Pacific DivisionPolice Station.Police Station.I will not go to your house because I do not feel safe there after being verbally attacked by your friends/neighbors.I will not go to your house because I do not feel safe there after being verbally attacked by your friends/neighbors.I do not want you to come to my house because I do not know if you will have any friends or other volatile peopleI do not want you to come to my house because I do not know if you will have any friends or other volatile peoplewith you, I am afraid of you bringing that to my house.with you, I am afraid of you bringing that to my house.I will not go to Santa Monica Police Station because the proximity of the parking to the front desk of the policeI will not go to Santa Monica Police Station because the proximity of the parking to the front desk of the policedepartment is a full city block and I am afraid to be that far away. department is a full city block and I am afraid to be that far away. In addition are some of the other reasons I will not go to SMPD;In addition are some of the other reasons I will not go to SMPD;When we did our exchange in the past at that location it did not offer any of the sense of safety that I had hoped itWhen we did our exchange in the past at that location it did not offer any of the sense of safety that I had hoped itwould, and it was a real hardship for me when I let you borrow the children's bikes or scooters etc. because I wouldwould, and it was a real hardship for me when I let you borrow the children's bikes or scooters etc. because I wouldbe left to carry two bikes (or whatever) and hold onto two boys while crossing the street and walking a block.be left to carry two bikes (or whatever) and hold onto two boys while crossing the street and walking a block.Or you would have the boys running across city hall grass area or riding their bikes and I would be left to wrangleOr you would have the boys running across city hall grass area or riding their bikes and I would be left to wranglethem together and get them and bikes in the car which is not safe or conducive to a sunday night routine after a visitthem together and get them and bikes in the car which is not safe or conducive to a sunday night routine after a visitto their dad's all weekend.to their dad's all weekend.

I also said that I want to have a custody evaluation, I think that it is imperative to have professional evaluation ofI also said that I want to have a custody evaluation, I think that it is imperative to have professional evaluation ofyour ability to keep the children safe and parent them effectively.your ability to keep the children safe and parent them effectively.

I informed you that I was going to ask an officer to check your vehicle for safety seats on Friday when you picked upI informed you that I was going to ask an officer to check your vehicle for safety seats on Friday when you picked upthe children at pacific division.the children at pacific division.The fact that you refused to allow that, and you said "They are too big for car seats" in spite of all the times you haveThe fact that you refused to allow that, and you said "They are too big for car seats" in spite of all the times you havebeen told they are required by law, confirms my suspicions.been told they are required by law, confirms my suspicions.

By taking the children and hurrying down the street (hiding your vehicle when there was parking directly in front ofBy taking the children and hurrying down the street (hiding your vehicle when there was parking directly in front ofthe station) while the children heard me ask you to please wait while the officer checked for safety, indicates to methe station) while the children heard me ask you to please wait while the officer checked for safety, indicates to meagain, that you are incapable of teaching them by good example, instead you encourage them to break the rules andagain, that you are incapable of teaching them by good example, instead you encourage them to break the rules andrun away from responsibility.run away from responsibility.

I will see you at the Pacific Division at 6:30 PM sunday night to pick up the children.I will see you at the Pacific Division at 6:30 PM sunday night to pick up the children.Please do not forget Samuel's inhaler and their shoes.Please do not forget Samuel's inhaler and their shoes.


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Please do not forget Samuel's inhaler and their shoes.Please do not forget Samuel's inhaler and their shoes.please send Theodore's nintendo ds as well.please send Theodore's nintendo ds as well.

On Wed, 04/14/10 at 9:15 PM, Daniel Cooper wrote:Subject: please respondMessage:please have gilbert stop texting me.

please let me talk to my sons.

I hope that you do not refuse my next scheduled visitation as you stated in your last e-mail to me.

236 of 24305/24/2009 5:22 PMMaeve Crommiesunday night 5/24/09I have texted you every hour and left voice mails for you asking you if you are bringing the children to Santa MonicaI have texted you every hour and left voice mails for you asking you if you are bringing the children to Santa MonicaPolice station tonight Police station tonight at 6:30 PM.at 6:30 PM.

You have not answered any inquiry, I have no way of knowing if you are bringing the children tonight, I have noYou have not answered any inquiry, I have no way of knowing if you are bringing the children tonight, I have noway of talking to you way of talking to you about the assignment that Theodore has to turn in to school on tues. 5/26/09.about the assignment that Theodore has to turn in to school on tues. 5/26/09.

You never said anything about keeping them on monday memorial day, he has to finish working on this projectYou never said anything about keeping them on monday memorial day, he has to finish working on this projectmonday.monday.

If you would communicate with me like a considerate parent, I could give you the assignment and you could work onIf you would communicate with me like a considerate parent, I could give you the assignment and you could work onit with him or it with him or return him in time to do it with me.return him in time to do it with me.

237 of 24305/19/2009 2:47 PMMaeve CrommieTheodore's dental needsI told you about Theodore's dental needs on May 5th. You said you would help and you have not gotten back to meI told you about Theodore's dental needs on May 5th. You said you would help and you have not gotten back to meyet.yet.

238 of 24305/19/2009 2:44 PMMaeve CrommieVisitationYou sent the children home Sunday night without their shoes.You sent the children home Sunday night without their shoes.Monday morning while I was trying to get the children ready for school and could not find their shoes, you wouldMonday morning while I was trying to get the children ready for school and could not find their shoes, you wouldnot answer the phone not answer the phone or text or e-mail.or text or e-mail.As you know the only shoes they want to wear are vans slip ons,which you had.As you know the only shoes they want to wear are vans slip ons,which you had.Those were the only pair of vans that fit them.Those were the only pair of vans that fit them.I finally convinced Theodore and Samuel to wear boots with their shorts.I finally convinced Theodore and Samuel to wear boots with their shorts.

You also sent them home in sweatpants that were too small for them that you cut off, while you kept the new shortsYou also sent them home in sweatpants that were too small for them that you cut off, while you kept the new shortsthat I recently that I recently bought them.bought them.

They are growing fast I have had to buy them all new clothes since you have been gone.They are growing fast I have had to buy them all new clothes since you have been gone.

I asked you to help out and buy them some clothes, you refused, the court ordered you to pay child support whichI asked you to help out and buy them some clothes, you refused, the court ordered you to pay child support whichwould help me buy would help me buy them clothes, you refuse to pay that.them clothes, you refuse to pay that.

Since you will not play an active role in providing your children what they need to go to school etc. Please don'tSince you will not play an active role in providing your children what they need to go to school etc. Please don't


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Since you will not play an active role in providing your children what they need to go to school etc. Please don'tSince you will not play an active role in providing your children what they need to go to school etc. Please don'tmake it impossible for make it impossible for me to provide for them!!!!!!me to provide for them!!!!!!

When you take their shoes and clothes they can not wear them!!!!!!!When you take their shoes and clothes they can not wear them!!!!!!!

Your irresponsibility affects your children's lives again!Your irresponsibility affects your children's lives again!

239 of 24305/10/2009 11:34 AMMaeve CrommieRE: mothers day weekend1) You would not answer my e-mails, texts, and voice messages I sent thursday and all day friday about returning the1) You would not answer my e-mails, texts, and voice messages I sent thursday and all day friday about returning thechildren saturday children saturday nite for me to have them on mothers day.nite for me to have them on mothers day.

Because you were communicating with Claudia during the same time frame I knew you had your phone and you wereBecause you were communicating with Claudia during the same time frame I knew you had your phone and you werechoosing to ignore choosing to ignore my request for assurance that you would give me the children back for mothers day.my request for assurance that you would give me the children back for mothers day.

2) I got home from work at 5:30 and looked at the actual court order which stated that we are to exchange the entire2) I got home from work at 5:30 and looked at the actual court order which stated that we are to exchange the entireweekend on weekend on mothers day and fathers day.mothers day and fathers day.

I was still going to let them go to you for the one day AS LONG AS we had communication that would assure meI was still going to let them go to you for the one day AS LONG AS we had communication that would assure methat they would come that they would come home sat. nite, because it has been a while since you've had them overnite, I was trying to be nice.home sat. nite, because it has been a while since you've had them overnite, I was trying to be nice.

3) You did NOT tell me that you would return the children to me sunday, until after 6:30 PM, AFTER you called me3) You did NOT tell me that you would return the children to me sunday, until after 6:30 PM, AFTER you called meand Claudia on the and Claudia on the phone screaming.phone screaming.

Even then you said you would give them back at 2:00PM on sunday. That was not very assuring.Even then you said you would give them back at 2:00PM on sunday. That was not very assuring.

At 07:24PM on 05/08/09, Daniel Cooper wrote:At 07:24PM on 05/08/09, Daniel Cooper wrote:

i told you you could have the chilren on mothers day - you need i told you you could have the chilren on mothers day - you need to bring my sons to the designated drop off now- you are in to bring my sons to the designated drop off now- you are in violation of my court ordered time again - please confirm now so violation of my court ordered time again - please confirm now so that i can return as soon as i finish with this family wizard!that i can return as soon as i finish with this family wizard!

At 07:16PM on 05/08/09, Maeve Cooper wrote:At 07:16PM on 05/08/09, Maeve Cooper wrote:

Dan,Dan,

When I sent you e-mails and text messages and left you voice messages today, it was very clear that I did not knowWhen I sent you e-mails and text messages and left you voice messages today, it was very clear that I did not knowyou had joined the you had joined the family wizard site yet.family wizard site yet.

In the text, e-mails and voice messages I asked for your assurance that you would return the kids on sat nite.In the text, e-mails and voice messages I asked for your assurance that you would return the kids on sat nite.

You obviously had your phone because you called me screaming at me and you called and screamed at Claudia.You obviously had your phone because you called me screaming at me and you called and screamed at Claudia.

240 of 24305/08/2009 7:16 PMMaeve Crommiemothers day weekendDan,Dan,

When I sent you e-mails and text messages and left you voice messages today, it was very clear that I did not knowWhen I sent you e-mails and text messages and left you voice messages today, it was very clear that I did not knowyou had joined the you had joined the family wizard site yet.family wizard site yet.


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In the text, e-mails and voice messages I asked for your assurance that you would return the kids on sat nite.In the text, e-mails and voice messages I asked for your assurance that you would return the kids on sat nite.

You obviously had your phone because you called me screaming at me and you called and screamed at Claudia.You obviously had your phone because you called me screaming at me and you called and screamed at Claudia.

241 of 24305/08/2009 6:29 PMMaeve CrommieMothers day WeekendI just read the original visitation schedule in regards to Holidays since the court order on May 5th changed theI just read the original visitation schedule in regards to Holidays since the court order on May 5th changed theweekends but the Holiday weekends but the Holiday schedule still stands, and it states that "if mothers day or Fathers day falls on a weekend that is scheduled with theschedule still stands, and it states that "if mothers day or Fathers day falls on a weekend that is scheduled with theother parent, the entire other parent, the entire weekend will be exchanged for the next weekend"weekend will be exchanged for the next weekend"

So, my offer of letting you have the kids friday nite returning them saturday nite was generous.So, my offer of letting you have the kids friday nite returning them saturday nite was generous.

I would have no way of knowing if you are rooming with men from Clare in some type of sober living situation orI would have no way of knowing if you are rooming with men from Clare in some type of sober living situation ornot unless you told me not unless you told me differently.differently.Since you refused to communicate about your living situation, I had no information other than what I was left toSince you refused to communicate about your living situation, I had no information other than what I was left toassume based on your assume based on your friends and acquaintances from Clare, I have seen you with in the past. The address you gave me is on the same blockfriends and acquaintances from Clare, I have seen you with in the past. The address you gave me is on the same blockas Clare.as Clare.

I did not steal anything from you, simple communication could have led to me feeling comfortable enough to sendI did not steal anything from you, simple communication could have led to me feeling comfortable enough to sendour kids there.our kids there.

I will not apologize for questioning your judgment. I do not feel that I know you at all, therefore I cannot presume toI will not apologize for questioning your judgment. I do not feel that I know you at all, therefore I cannot presume toknow what is going know what is going on with you.on with you.

242 of 24305/08/2009 5:58 PMMaeve CrommieRE: VisitationWhat time on Sunday morning?What time on Sunday morning?

I have plans with the children for breakfast.I have plans with the children for breakfast.

At 03:34PM on 05/08/09, Daniel Cooper wrote:At 03:34PM on 05/08/09, Daniel Cooper wrote:

this is my weekend, I've only seen my sons for five hours last this is my weekend, I've only seen my sons for five hours last sunday, you know perfectly well that this was not a clare sunday, you know perfectly well that this was not a clare facility, so I've only seen my sons since april 19th minus the facility, so I've only seen my sons since april 19th minus the five hours last sunday, please try not to use the boy's as a five hours last sunday, please try not to use the boy's as a weapon against me. I think that retuning them sunday morning is weapon against me. I think that retuning them sunday morning is fair since you stole my reguarly scheduled visit. court order is fair since you stole my reguarly scheduled visit. court order is 1st and 2nd and fouth weekend. as per court order on may 5th. 1st and 2nd and fouth weekend. as per court order on may 5th.

At 12:12AM on 05/08/09, Maeve Cooper wrote:At 12:12AM on 05/08/09, Maeve Cooper wrote:

Dan,Dan,I did not write down which weekends you were designated.I did not write down which weekends you were designated.

Please remind me.Please remind me.

If this weekend is yours, remember that it is also Mothers Day, so according to Holidays I get kids on Mothers day.If this weekend is yours, remember that it is also Mothers Day, so according to Holidays I get kids on Mothers day.You get them on You get them on Fathers day regardless of whose weekend it is.Fathers day regardless of whose weekend it is.

So please let me know if this is your weekend, if you are expecting to pick up kids this Fri. @ 6:30. So please let me know if this is your weekend, if you are expecting to pick up kids this Fri. @ 6:30.


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243 of 24305/08/2009 12:12 AMMaeve CrommieVisitationDan,Dan,I did not write down which weekends you were designated.I did not write down which weekends you were designated.

Please remind me.Please remind me.

If this weekend is yours, remember that it is also Mothers Day, so according to Holidays I get kids on Mothers day.If this weekend is yours, remember that it is also Mothers Day, so according to Holidays I get kids on Mothers day.You get them on You get them on Fathers day regardless of whose weekend it is.Fathers day regardless of whose weekend it is.

So please let me know if this is your weekend, if you are expecting to pick up kids this Fri. @ 6:30. So please let me know if this is your weekend, if you are expecting to pick up kids this Fri. @ 6:30.

Also let me know that you will agree to return them to me Sat. nightAlso let me know that you will agree to return them to me Sat. night


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