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Jesus – faithful monogamy – priorities – coffee
flavors
Absolute truth vs. personal preference: two
different categories
Classical definition of truth: what corresponds
to reality
New definition: whatever works for you (The
Emperor’s New Clothes!)
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Gravity doesn’t work for me
“Red means stop” doesn’t work for me
“$1 = one dollar” doesn’t work for me
“Jesus as the only way to God” doesn’t work
for me
Open marriage works for me
Making my own spirituality works for me
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“Some things are true whether you believe in them or not.” —City of Angels
The question is not “Does it work?” but “Is it true?”
Who gets to define reality? ◦ The Creator of reality
Belief, preference, or truth? Is it intolerance and bigotry to believe in
absolute truth?
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It feels like an indictment on you, but it has nothing to do with you.
Compartmentalization of the male brain
Spiritual warfare: ◦Easy access 24/7◦No fear of rejection◦No work (no relationship)
Brain chemistry (substance abuse)
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Ask him: “Would you be hurt if I had an
affair with another man? That’s what it
feels like. Betrayal and pain.”
Pornography is mental adultery.
“. . .but I say to you that everyone who
looks at a woman with lust for her has
already committed adultery with her in his
heart.” Matt. 5:28
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Every Man’s Battle
Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker SettingCaptivesFree.com
The Way of Purity online course
(free) Boundaries in Marriage
Henry Cloud, John Townsend Accountability is key
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What is God’s heart? (not the cold
measuring rod of a verse)
God hates divorce: it tears apart adult
hearts and children’s hearts
Purpose of divorce: grace for one in
bondage to a hard-hearted spouse
[Jesus] said to them, "Because of your
hardness of heart Moses permitted you to
divorce your wives; but from the beginning it
has not been this way.” Matt 19:8
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Some people are looking for an excuse, a
loophole
God doesn’t do loopholes
He judges the thoughts and intentions of
the heart
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Good definition of an affair: “secret
intimacy”
Would your husband be OK with what you
were doing if he sat next to you at the
computer?
Whether you’re married or not, aren’t you
being sexual with someone you’re not
married to? All sex outside of marriage is
sin.
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Wounded and deceived
Scars of rejection
How would Jesus treat them? "A bruised reed
He will not break, and a dimly burning wick He
will not extinguish;” Is 42:3
Brokenness manifests in a variety of ways
Jesus’ love is what they need to heal and grow
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You can accept and bless a person without
blessing their brokenness
Make a distinction between the person and
their behavior
The grace of acceptance is the safety net
that allows us to try something new and
frightening, like considering leaving a gay
life.
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Look at the big picture: what’s marriage for?
◦ Provides a safe, stable environment to grow a family
(basic social unit)
◦ Natural outgrowth of the complementarity of male
and female
◦ Earthly picture of the mystical union of Christ and
the Church
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Homosexual relationships and heterosexual
marriages are not equal and parallel
relationships
“A façade of normalcy”
Gay marriage is a way to secure society's
legitimization and approval of their
relationships
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The baby comes first
“Every child should be welcomed and
valued”
Celebrate the baby: the circumstances of
conception are not his/her fault
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In the beginning, God created the
heavens and the earth. Genesis 1:1
Evolution was invented as a means of
explaining life and its diversity without a
Creator.
Mechanistic theory without a mechanism
Cannot produce or explain much of life
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So much hypocrisy in the church
Jumping through hoops
Personal, intimate relationship with the
Trinity has been lost
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Change in the way we think about sexuality
Pickle principle Marriage changes people.
Cohabitation not the same “It's my body, why shouldn't I dress
the way I want?” Cost of sexual energies outside of
marriage
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Sexting and texting: the dangers
Balance: the more technology, the less
educated kids get
No silence, no solitude, no depth
Urgent vs. Important
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Gender spectrum
Understand gender differences and
celebrate them
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Spiritually dangerous
Turned from Christianity to New Age
beliefs
“Jesus is not the only way!”
Opinions shaped by the world, not
the Word
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Bio-technology: dominion over the earth
James: 5:14 seek medical help (anoint
with oil)
They help us function
I don’t believe in counseling. Isn’t God
my counselor?