1. 1. Organized by KIDZEE In association with A discussion on Child and Parents
2. 2. Know your child Very important is to know the temperament of child: What is TEMPERAMENT? General emotional state of a child. It permanently affects their behaviour. Child of different temperaments: The Easy Child The Difficult Child The Slow to Warm up child
3. 3. The Easy Child Just recognize the easy child: Cheerful Adaptable Can fit easily in routine structure Quickly establish relation with other children Has sharing approach Easily accommodate in new environment
4. 4. The Difficult Child Irregular daily routine-not willing to follow instructions Slow to accept new experience Always reacts negatively Intense emotion-forceful Not friendly with others Irritation without any serious cause Intolerance towards any change-of person around him/situation/environment
5. 5. Slow to Warm up Child Initially shy-slowly becomes friendly Low key reactions to environment Negative in mood Can adjust slowly to new experiences Bit fearful, but can overcome at time
6. 6. Parenting depends on Child Temperament as it has an impact on development of Childs Personality Parenting is an On Going process-starts at the BIRTH of child and will take back gear at the ONSET of adulthood There is some General aspects in parenting but most of the time it depends on the TEMPERAMENT of child Parents need to have good idea of their childs development: Physical and Emotional both step wise Parenting is a serious issue as : Child needs to be under the parents constant attention Responsibility of parents begins at the conception more you enjoy more you successful as parents-literally it is a journey
7. 7. Enjoy Parenting: It is another Identity given by your beloved CHILD Think positively, Bringing up Toddlers is not only a big Responsibility, it is also the source of JOY Parents needs to Enjoy Parenting-it brings happiness Be an Observer and also the Listener- Listening and Talking is the key to a healthy connection between you and your child-by any mean Keep a network with Paediatrician, Child Psychologist and the Caregivers- they can be helpful at crisis Mind that no two children are same-so causes of problem is also different-in any confusion-apply your intelligence instead of being conventional Till the childs adulthood priority is your Motherhood-as it is your decision to become parents.
8. 8. An IDEA of your pattern of PARENTING How is your Parenting Style? 4-Types of parenting are there. Please be sure what is your way of parenting and how you convert your style of Parenting for the betterment of your child. This is very Important if you find any difficulties in controlling your CHILD-start working on it
9. 9. Dominating/ Authoritarian Parenting Rigid Not listener Strict Demanding Likes to rule than becoming empathetic The guardian Prefers punishment instead of giving scope to explain Not responsive to the reasons of childs difficulties
10. 10. Permissive Parenting Too much friendly Permissive Giving indulgence Nontraditional and Lenient Less discipline Avoidance More responsive to the demand of Child Allow considerable self- regulation
11. 11. Positive/ Authoritative Parenting Assertive Flexible but not permissive Empathetic Democratic Listener Observer Nurturer & forgiving rather giving punishment Democratic nature-give important to listen to other Monitor and impart clear standards for their childrens conduct.
12. 12. Neglected/ Uninvolved Parenting Care free Neglect their child Detached Less communicative Low responsiveness Even reject or neglect the needs of their children.
13. 13. Part-I How to come out: My child and My Parenting Be observer both for you and your child Study effect of your parenting on child and also the type of your child In crisis or difficult situation/confusion take the help of related experts Knowledge about effect of different Parenting styles: Under Dominating Parenting: Children may become obedient and proficient, but they rank lower in happiness, social competence and self-esteem Under Permissive Parenting: Children rank low in happiness and self-regulation. These children are more likely to experience problems with authority and tend to perform poorly in school. Under Authoritative Parenting: Children are happy, capable and successful Under Neglected /uninvolved Parenting: Children tend to lack self-control, have low self-esteem and are less competent than their peers. There is another way of study above- this is PART II
14. 14. Part-II How to come out: My child and My Parenting from the SLANT of Handwriting
15. 15. Part-II How to come out: My child and My Parenting from the SLANT of Handwriting
16. 16. Samples of Original Writings of Children
17. 17. Part-II My child and My Parenting from the Handwriting Child is in Anxiety-The source of all difficulties No Curves-rigid and retraced writing
18. 18. How is the pattern of the strokes of A to Z in HW
19. 19. Part-III How to understand child is in Emotional Crisis from HW
20. 20. Part-III How to write- and what will be the direction of flow of HW
21. 21. Part-III How to write- and what will be the direction of flow of HW
22. 22. Part-III How to write- and what will be the direction of flow of HW
23. 23. How Parenting affects your Child's Personality Nowadays many parents complain about the personality and the behavior of their children without realizing that their parenting style is the main reason behind the child's undesired behavior. Genes has nothing to do with behavior but its the way parents raise children that affects their personality later on. The first person the child comes in contact with are the parent and so childs relationship with the whole world is determined by what happens between him and his
24. 24. How Appropriate Parenting positively affects your Child's Personality The good news is that you can positively affect your child's personality by learning how to deal with him the right way. The best way to deal with children is to consider them little adults. Don't lie to them, don't scold them in front of others and don't disrespect them. Be authoritative and not authoritarian, this means that you must set rules but in the same time be democratic enough to explain to your child the reason behind these rules when possible. Before you complain about your child's behavior put in mind that its your parenting style that either affects his personality positively or negatively.
25. 25. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD Writing should have pressure-Vitality-a fighter struggle r Child should be in receiving end-good listener Reasonable Friendly Balance in emotion Ascending BL-
26. 26. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD Child needs to write covering all 3-zones : UZ-for intellectual development MZ for friendly social gesture LZ for practicality
27. 27. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD Child needs to write, With rounded body structure-for non frictional approach Clear O-for having transparency No Starting and Ending strokes-get into the point appropriately
28. 28. Positive Child and Parenting Style from HW of CHILD The letters need to be the shapes given: The distortion means lacking of skill of being POSITIVE Positive child has devoid of all clumsiness described and
29. 29. Thank YOU for giving your Patient EAR Also thanks to KIDZEE for organizing a programme like Know Your Child & Your Parenting Styles By Courtsey