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Prominence Magazine is an upscale lifestyle magazine for urban professioanls.TRANSCRIPT
Carlos Watson
Summer 2010
It’s more than a way of living; it’s a state of mind.
DENNIS LA WHITE
LEAVING HIS MARK ON HOLLYWOOD
WHY YOU NEED A
SPENDING PLAN THE UMBRELLA FOR THOSE
RAINY DAYS
PAUL CARRICK BRUNSON THE MODERN DAY HITCH
POWER PLAYAS
People you
need to know
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Inspired
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CONTENTS
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6 PUBLISHER‘S LETTER
8 CONTRIBUTORS
9 PICTURE THIS
12 WHAT‘S HOT
23 THE GREAT ESCAPE
49 IN THE END
51 IN THE SPOTLIGHT
THE 411
15 Denzel Washington’s IT Factor is contagious as the
number one man in Hollywood has that longevity that only
some could only dream of.
17 The Reality of it All is that reality TV is taking over the
networks and providing the drama to go along with it. We
spotlight some of the popular shows and why they appeal to so
many.
20 Off the Shelf books are worthy of adding to your list of
must reads. Who’s Vagina is it Anyway, Rhythm without Blues,
The Substance of Hope, and Tumbling are our picks for this
summer and fall.
21 Giving it All She’s Got, Macy Gray has made her much
anticipated come back and we‘re all ears and waiting for
more.
FOR HIM/HER
23 The Basics: Are necessities that help us all stay fly,
polished, and on top of things. We‘ve went in search of
beauty and grooming products that can keep us on top of our
game.
27 Fashion in the City: All work and no play can keep us
from stylin and profiling, but this is why we‘ve found
simple yet stylish look for both work and play.
FEATURES
31 Power Playas
Those who have the guts and know how to follow their
dreams and make it happen have been termed in our eyes
Power Playas. Dr. Syleecia Johnson, the visionaries of
Blame it on Hip Hop, powerhouse Dottery Washington,
matchmaker, Paul Carrick Brunson, and the diversity of
Dwight Ali Williams and Shawn Luckey shows us how it‘s
done and how to play the game on our own terms.
43 Notorious Elevation
Actor Dennis LA White is creatively paving his way in
Hollywood. The Notorious film star sat down with us to
give us the 411 on his career and where he is headed next.
44 Who’s Vagina is it Anyway
Our Editor-In-Chief shares with us an excerpt of her latest
release, Who’s Vagina is it Anyway? Yours or Mine?
46 Why You Need a Spending Plan
Financial Expert, Shay Oliveria shares with us why a
spending plan is necessary in today‘s economic times.
48 My Poeticwisdom
The poetic wisdom of poet, Katherine Rodriguez will
empower you to step forward and your purpose.
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FOUNDER & PUBLISHER
Glenys C. Colclough EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Sandy Daley CREATIVE DIRECTOR Clarice Wright DESIGN & PRODUCTION
Evolve Media CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Shay Olivarria Sandy Daley Shawn Luckey Katherine Rodriguez INQUIRIES
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It’s more than a way of living; it’s a state of mind.
ON THE COVER
Paul Carrick Brunson The Modern Day Match Maker
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Publisher’s Letter
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A Journey worth the Trip After what seemed like a year in labor, I finally gave birth. Of course
we all know that the normal time for a mother to deliver her child can
be as long as forty-eight hours, if not longer in some cases. But for
me, this process was a little different. It was tiring and often times so
overwhelming that I wanted to give up and not go through the
process of labor and delivery altogether. But, I also knew that I was
chosen. I was chosen to bring something special to life and no matter
how tired I was of the birthing process; I knew I needed to continue
the journey of bringing what I conceived to life. I could not give up;
not on myself or on the vision of bringing a dream to life.
That dream is Prominence Magazine. A dream that I have held on to
as a little girl; as I flipped through the pages of Essence Magazine.
Not realizing half the battle at that time, I am nowhere close to where
I want Prominence Magazine to be, but I am surely not at the
beginning stages either. No matter how many times I have wanted to
throw in the towel, I can stand proud and say this journey was
definitely worth the trip.
On the following pages of this premier issue, you will come to know
nine power playas who in their own right are paving the way. Taking
into their own hands their fate and creating the lives they desire and
deserve. Their undying commitment to their passion has fueled my
desire and I hope it will for you as well.
You will also learn how to create a spending plan that can help you
save for that rainy day. We all know in these tough economic times
that having an umbrella to stand under is the best way to stay
shielded from the rain.
I was also fortunate enough to have a one on one conversation with
Notorious film star, Dennis LA White, about his career in Hollywood,
what’s next for him and his ultimate goal for his future. The
conversation was enlightening, engaging, and revealing.
While this is the premier digital issue for Prominence Magazine, the print version will soon be in your hands with the January
issue of 2011. When I dream, I dream big and therefore I do not stop until my dreams are fully realized; which is probably
why I could not give up on the commitment I made to myself in bringing Prominence Magazine to life. If I had given up, I
would not have only shortchanged myself, but God as well, for he knows my ability and trusted me by placing this seed; a
dream I held on to as a little girl within me to birth.
This is only the beginning. I invite you to take this journey with me.
Enjoy the issue,
Glenys
PROMINENCE a : readily noticeable : CONSPICUOUS b : widely and popularly known : LEADING
Contributors
Shay Olivarria is a motivational speaker, financial literacy coach, and author of 10
Things College Students Need to Know About Money and Money Matters: The Get It
Done in 1 Minute Workbook. As an ambassador for financial freedom, Shay travels all
over the country to educate people on responsible financial decisions.
www.biggerthanyourblock.com
Sandy Daley is an actress, radio and TV personality, and author. She lives for the
creative process and has most recently released her first novel, Who’s Vagina is it
Really? Her next project, Chocolate Dolls is a weekly television series that Sandy is
currently writing, is due out the end of 2010. She will serve as the executive producer
and writer.
www.sandydaley.com
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Shawn Luckey is Diversity Players of Harlem's artistic director, and he actively writes,
directs, and produces plays and screenplays. As a performer, he has appeared in a number
of commercials, plays and movies. His theatrical credits include: Charles Fuller's A Soldier's
Play; Pearl Cleage's Blues for an Alabama Sky; and Craig Lucas' Prelude to a Kiss. Shawn’s
film credits include Spike Lee’s Miracle at St. Anna, and the much anticipated Tyler Perry
release For Colored Girls.
www.shawnluckey.com
Katherine Rodriguez found a way to escape her immediate surroundings in New York
through the art of writing. Her ambition to write poetry was developed more so as a form of
expression and to achieve a sense of freedom through written word. More often than not,
writing became a driving force for her motivation and self-empowerment. Today she
shares her talents to deliver a message of power and hope to those who struggle and at
times lack the faith to overcome.
www.mypoeticwisdom.com
Picture This
Vision brought to life in pictures
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What’s Hot – Tech Gadgets
iPad
Is the Apple iPad the greatest thing since sliced bread? Well, we
seem to think so. With thousands of apps, a multi-touch screen,
vibrant color, and simplicity all in one cool, slick design; how could
one not become addicted to what it has to offer?
Apple is leading the pack in technology and will continue to set the
standard for providing consumers with what they need to stay
informed, entertained, and up on the latest. One should not wonder
what they will come up with next; for we all know it will something
many will desire and put to the test.
Zune
Zune is the premium digital experience that gives you
access to the latest in entertainment and technology,
allowing you to enjoy, connect, and discover content in
an entirely different way; the way you like it. When the
mood hits, you can browse, stream, buy, and play all the
music, HD videos, podcasts, games, and much more at
the touch of the screen. Gain the freedom to enjoy your
entertainment; the way you want to, on your terms.
Kindle
Reading just became trendy with the Amazon Kindle. Amazon
has given the avid book reader something to talk to about.
The Kindle gives you all you could ever need when it comes to
reading your favorite titles, all on one device. How genius is
that? Offering over 600,000 titles, the Kindle store has the
largest selection of the books, including New York Times®
Best Sellers and new releases from $9.99. There is no other
way to take reading the next level than with a Kindle by your
side.
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Charleston, SC
Loving the Carolinas
Charleston, SC is known as one of the most popular southern destinations in the
country. A perfect gem nestled within in the south is one of the most romantic
cities one will ever visit. Rich in history and pride, Charleston, SC offers a travel
destination that can fulfill expectations to overflowing.
The districts of the city contain a wide variety of interesting locations and historical
landmarks. While in Charleston you can expect to find a rich combination of
hospitality and charm resonant of the "Old South." Whether it is the historic
houses, churches, or attractions of the Downtown and Historic Districts, the fine
cuisine found in the Mount Pleasant District, or any of the alluring landmarks found
in this city, expect to be entranced by the romanticism of this southern city.
Charleston is a place of much historical significance as it was a major landmark
during colonial times. The Historic District is the oldest part of town and a lot of the
buildings and houses have been preserved, sparking much architectural interest.
If you have ever wanted to make Charleston a travel destination, it will surely be
one of the best vacations you have ever experienced. Make Charleston, SC your
next get away and watch new adventures unfold.
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Exploring all opportunities
Charleston Fun Facts
1.) Charleston boasts the first public college, museum and playhouse in the United States.
2.) George Gershwin composed his well known opera Porgy and Bess while living on Folly Beach, South Carolina. Porgy and Bess are buried in the James Island Presbyterian Church graveyard.
3.) The first game of golf played in the United States took place in Charleston, South Carolina.
THE 411 ENTERTAINMENT :: BOOKS :: MUSIC
Denzel Washington The IT Factor
The 411 ENTERTAINMENT :: BOOKS :: MUSIC
Denzel Washington‘s
IT Factor
enzel Washington has it. That it factor that
is so compelling in nature, that thousands across
the globe are drawn to the movie theaters to see
him in action. Men want to be like him, women
want to be with him; there is something about
him that has you curious and maybe even
daydreaming about his next move.
The A list actor, producer and director, continues
to add to his list of credible mentions as this
summer, he along with Viola Davis, appeared on
Broadway in August Wilson's play, Fences. With
each show nearing sold out capacity, it is very
clear that Denzel Washington has that it factor
that keeps fans coming back for more.
His start in film and television started like any
other actor seeking that big break, but it wasn‘t
until his role in the hospital drama, St.
Elsewhere, that his light in Hollywood began to
shine and pave the way.
We could not help, but take a look back at the
career of one of Hollywood‘s most recognized
faces and chronicle a career that will pave the
way for many to follow. What's next for Mr.
Washington, only time will tell, but here is a look
back at his extraordinary career in film to keep us
in awe of a talent that is worthy. May he
continue to follow the path that he was destined
to travel and provide us with more of that IT
factor.
Carbon Copy – 1981 A Soldier’s Story – 1984 Power – 1986 Cry Freedom – 1987 For Queen and Country – 1988 The Mighty Quinn – 1989 Glory – 1989 Heart Condition – 1990 Mo’ Better Blues – 1990 Mississippi Masala – 1991 Richochet – 1991 Malcolm X 1992 The Pelican Brief – 1993 Much Ado About Nothing - 1993
Philadelphia – 1993 Crimson Tide – 1995 Virtuosity – 1995 Hank Aaron: Chasing the Dream – 1995 Devil in a Blue Dress – 1995 Courage Under Fire – 1996
The Preacher’s Wife – 1996 Fallen – 1998 He Got Game – 1998 The Siege – 1998 The Bone Collector – 1999 The Hurricane – 1999 Remember the Titans – 2000 Training Day – 2001 John Q – 2002 Antwone Fisher – 2002 Out of Time – 2003 Man on Fire – 2004 The Manchurian Candidate – 2004
Inside Man – 2006 The Great Debaters – 2007 Déjà vu – 2006 The Taking of Pelham 123 – 2009 American Gangster – 2007 The Book of Eli – 2010
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BY GLENYS COLCLOUGH
une 20, 2010 New York, NY – In retrospect, I must
say that watching Fences on Broadway was like staring
myself in the mirror as I began to evaluate my
relationship with my own father. From the First Act,
Denzel Washington grips the role of Troy Maxson with
a dose of that ―Denzel‖ flavor; but never losing sight
of delivering to audiences the flawed nature of Troy
Maxson. On one hand, Troy is a loving husband and
provider for his family. Yet, he‘s the loose thread
strand that unravels his family structure because of his
selfishness towards his wife Viola Davis‘ Rose; and
transparent disconnect with his son, Chris Chalk‘s
Cory and, older son Hornsby‘s Lyons.
By the Second Act, the baton was handed to Viola
Davis, as she took the loose thread strands and made
blanket to protect what was left of a decaying family
structure. Davis‘ performance was riveting at best and
made audiences crave for more as she brought the
family to resolve at curtain. The rest of the cast was
rounded out by talented veteran actors Mykelti
Williamson and Stephen McKinley Henderson, also
alternating performances by child actors Eden Duncan-
Smith and SaCha Stewart-Coleman. Collectively, the
cast made it apparent why Fences received this year‘s
Tony Award for Best Play Revival.
This year‘s newly Tony Award winners Davis and
Washington both gave everything they had to bring
―truth and honor‖ to the roles that late playwright,
August Wilson so eloquently penned.
At press time, Fences on Broadway tickets were being sold at Cort
Theater until July 11, 2010.
Photo by Joan Marcus
Russell Hornsby (Far l.) explains to his father,
Washington’s Troy Maxson (l.), his life shortcomings as
Henderson’s Bono and Davis’s Rose look on intently.
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FATHER’S DAY TO FENCES FOREVER BY SHAWN LUCKEY
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The emergence of reality TV started in 1992,
with MTV setting up seven twenty-some things
in a trendy New York City apartment with
cameras to follow them and watch their every
move. That widely popular reality show, The
TV: The Reality of it All
Real World New York set the stage and foundation for many reality based television shows to follow.
Since that time, over eighteen years ago, reality TV has taken the networks by storm. If you are addicted
to reality TV, here are a few our favorite picks.
The Real House Wives of Atlanta
We have to give it to these Georgia Peaches, they know how to keep it real by giving thousands of fans
exactly what they want; a weekly dose of drama. Surely drama never looked so good as these five
fashionable, savvy and tell it like it is socialites turn Atlanta on its head and Bravo heading straight to the
bank.
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Fantasia for Real
American Idol winner, Fantasia allows us to have a
front row seat to her life as cameras show her life as
Fantasia the artist and Fantasia the mother, daughter,
sister and provider for her family. Fantasia has shown
a side of herself that is not often viewed behind the
cameras. She is caring, loving and supportive as she
strives to pull her family together and maintain her
singing career.
Kimora Life In The Fab Lane
Kimora Lee Simmons in all her fabulocity, is back
on the Style Network handling business like none
other. With the new addition to her family, husband
Dijmon and son Kenzo, Kimora proves women can
have it all.
Celebrity Fit Club
Heading towards its eighth season, Celebrity Fit
Club shows us that celebrities have weight issue too
and have committed themselves to shedding the
weight in front of the camera. What we like about
Celebrity Fit Club has nothing to do with Dr. Ean
Smith or Harvey‘s drill sergeant demeanor; it‘s the
inspiration CFC is giving others to take control of
their lives and weight.
Keeping Up With The Kardashians
Like them or not, you have to give it to them. The
Kardashians/Jener bunch knows how to keep us entertained.
With their over the top moments, jet-setting and family bonding
moments Keeping up with the Kardashians on the E! Network
will have you wanting to keep up with what‘s next.
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Notorious
Elevation A Conversation with Dennis LA White
Would like to Congratulate the Cast & Crew of Suzette Azariah Gunn’s
Spare Change
For admittance into HBO’s 11th Annual NY International Latino Film Festival
Rhythm Without Blues Dr. Syleecia Thompson Most of us only hear about the success stories of
those who’ve been fortunate to have made
it. But what did these artists have to go through
in order to reach fame and fortune? This tell-all
book exposes the dark side of the R&B music
industry; the greed, manipulation and deceit.
Everything comes to light in this book and it also
offers hope and sensible solutions to picking up
the pieces and saving the soul of R&B.
The Substance of Hope William Jelani Cobb The Substance of Hope, a deeply insightful,
paradigm-shifting examination of a new
generation of voters that has not been shaped by
the raw memory of Jim Crow and has a different
range of imperatives. Cobb sees Obama's
ascendancy as "a reality that has been taking
shape in tiny increments for the past four
decades." Elegantly written and powerfully
argued, The Substance of Hope challenges
conventional wisdom as it offers original insight
into America's future.
Who’s Vagina Is It Really? Sandy Daley One of the most prolific and modern-day writers,
Sandy Daley has put forward some solutions in
Whose Vagina is it really? The writer urges
women to “Love yourself before anyone else;
but love him wholeheartedly if you have chosen
him. If you want him and he is worth it and he is
the One then love him the right way.”
Tumbling Diane Mckinney-Whetstone
Sunday morning in South Philly,
according to McKinney-Whetstone, is
"like buttermilk," with "a quiet
smoothness to it." The same can be
said of this remarkable novel; a gentle
portrait of an African American
community in South Philadelphia in
the 1940s and '50s, the story probes
beneath its residents' lives to tell a
powerful tale of damage and healing.
Noon is a Florida preacher's daughter
too scarred from a secret childhood
incident to let a man touch her; her
husband, Herbie, is a redcap who met
her when he was a hepcat jazz
drummer touring with fiery singer
Ethel. When newborn Fannie and,
five years later, Ethel's five-year-old
orphan niece, Liz, are abandoned on
Noon and Herbie's doorstep, the
embrace of community allows the
creation of a family.
This novel first printed in 1996 is
coming back to life with a second
edition. Pick up your copy and
become apart of an era and family
you will very much feel apart of.
Off The Shelf
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After a three year hiatus, Macy Gray is back with her
highly anticipated album, The Sellout. Featuring 12
new songs, which were co-written and executive
produced by none other than Gray herself.
Collaborations with Bobby Brown, The Bodyrockers'
Kaz James and Slash, Duff McKagan and Matt Sorum
formerly of Guns N' Roses and Velvet Revolver, all
make her come back worthwhile.
From the opening cords on the first single, the
irresistibly "Beauty In The World", it is clear that The
Sellout is the work of an artist who has reconnected
with the essence of her creative gifts after a long,
soul-numbing journey through the music biz's star-
making machinery.
Filled with sparkling melodies and personal lyrical
insights, The Sellout is an authentic and confidently
delivered statement from one of contemporary music's
most skillful and creative voices.
Highlights throughout the album are rich and plentiful
including the alluring, soul-pop groove of "Lately",
"That Man" a mouth-watering slice of Ting Ting's
inflected 80's new-wave, the Joan Jett meets T- Rex
thump and screaming Slash guitar of "Kissed It", and
the beguiling, "Still Hurts", a vulnerable, emotion filled
keep-sake ballad.
Gray has kept her appeal and distinctive voice intact;
a gift that sets her apart from all the rest. She has
given it all she’s got and we gladly accept.
Macy Gray Giving it All She’s Got
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hat more can a woman do once she has done about everything within her field of work?
Anything, according to Dr. Syleecia Thompson. With three degrees, a BS in Economics, MBA and a
Doctorate in Business; Dr. Thompson is inspired and driven by the belief that anything is possible if
you work hard and think big. Based on these credentials and a ‗multi-task with a multi-purpose‘
mentality, Dr. Thompson set out to seek her greatest passion: teaching. She has taught everything
from Algebra, Public Relations, and Leadership; all at college level.
As the daughter of legendary soul singer Syl Johnson and older sister of Grammy-nominated R&B
singer Syleena Johnson, it was natural for Dr. Thompson to incorporate her teaching and leadership
skills into music. Dr. Thompson gained a deep passion for R&B music watching her father and sister
record, but became disturbed by the lack of respect for the genre and artists who contribute great
music to the art form. Driven by passion and fueled with a go-getter attitude, this scholar decided to
seek out the soul of a fading genre by authoring Rhythm Without Blues.
As a teacher, manager, president, and author Dr. Thompson shows no signs of slowing down. Dr.
Thompson recently wrote for the Encyclopedia of African-American Music soon to be published
under Greenwood Press. Her entry focused on black music in Chicago from 1942 through today and
covered several genres of music. She even looks forward to publishing another booked titled The Leader Who Follows: Successful Strategies for Leading in Any Capacity. Respectfully, Dr.
Thompson has proven she can apply herself to any situation with precision and win at all costs.
Dr. Syleecia Thompson
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W
o love Hip-Hop culture is to constantly be
playing defense. From right-wing radio hosts to
politicians in both parties, from hard-core white
racists to leaders within communities-of-color,
from academia, the media and beyond—Hip-Hop
is never lacking in both criticisms and critics.
And while some of that criticism is indeed valid—
and necessary—it can be exhausting for Hip-Hop
heads to have to defend the walls of our culture at
all hours. We can point out the positive, socially-
conscious Hip-Hop artists, we can illustrate the
impact that Hip-Hop arts programs have made in
communities across the world, and we can talk
endlessly about the culture‘s potential for positive
change, but it never seems to be good enough.
While BIOHH creates clothing designs that are
capable of sparking discussion in and of
themselves, they are not content at stopping there.
By speaking to students about the power of
entrepreneurialism, talking to teachers and parents
about the positive aspects of Hip-Hop culture and
even donating a percentage of their net profits to
active students, they have developed a business
that is generating a tremendous buzz in Hip-Hop
circles for all the right reasons.
While Hip-Hop clothing lines are a dime a dozen
these days, BIOHH continues to shine because, aside
from making fresh clothes, the brand is an example of
Hip-Hop entrepreneurs who are driven by something
much more than pure capitalism, they are about
action.
These five friends from Minneapolis are about
making an explicit, productive and powerful impact
through sparking dialogue, putting our money where
our mouths are, and making it okay to look good
while feeling good. Not unlike clothing, social
consciousness and Hip-Hop activism come in many
different styles; BIOHH is one that people must take
note of.
From left to right; James Cheatham, Johari Moten,
Richard Strong, Marcus Manning
BIOHH
Blame it on Hip Hop
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Dottery Washington
A Woman Who Dares to Dream or a woman who dares to dream in tough economic times, the odds can be stacked against her. But
for Dottery Washington, going against those odds is exactly what she needed to keep her dream alive
and her passion for bringing it to life on fire. Taking her vision; one that would scare many from
attempting it and stepping out on faith has proven to her that anything you put your mind to you can
achieve.
Based in Waldorf, MD, Washington‘s vision is the Charles County SportPlex and Learning Center. A
5.6 million dollar facility offering a first-class fitness and lifestyle center, two full-size basketball
courts, a food and beverage/lounge area, a learning center, teen center, competition and leisure
swimming pool, tennis court, racquetball, outdoor track, football, baseball, soccer field, and a host of
other amenities. The facility is bound to enhance the quality of life, promote health, and be an
exceptional place for all ages. Although still in the planning stages, Washington‘s vision is coming to
life; with several political and community leaders rallying behind her.
Having a love and strong desire to see her community flourish and offer a place where all can come to
maintain their health, learn and grow; Washington is paving a way for many who dare to dream, to do
something about it. She is surely an example of what stepping out on faith looks like and we‘re proud
to say she is surely a Power Playa.
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F
nown as the modern-day ―Hitch‖, for the past 10 years, Paul Carrick Brunson has played matchmaker
and relationship coach to various friends and family members. After numerous successes in helping those
close to him find happy and long lasting relationships, he decided to turn his hobby into a full-fledged
business, OneDegreefrom.Me.
Paul‘s unparalleled ability for successful matchmaking and coaching comes from really knowing and
understanding his clients and their needs. Like his clients, he is cultured, well-educated,
and trained. He holds a graduate degree from a top business school and is a certified life coach. His
professional career started as an investment banker and most recently included a senior position with top
international investment firm.
He is also a philanthropist who co-founded and chairs a foundation called the L10 Project, an
organization that leads school rebuilding and revitalization projects in the U.S. and Caribbean. Paul
believes that happy relationships are the foundation of a well-functioning society and has a personal desire
to reverse some of the dismal marriage statistics among many communities.
OneDegreeFrom.Me has been featured in Redbook Magazine, the Atlanta Journal Constitution,
Complete Woman Magazine, Clutch Magazine, on ABC News and in popular blogs including
The Black Snob, Very Smart Brothas and Naked With Socks On. Paul also developed the popular series
"The Modern Day Matchmaker" on YouTube as well as "The Modern Day Matchmaker LIVE: Real
Relationship Talk" tour.
Unlike many other relationship coaches and matchmakers who are single or ―serial spouses‖, Paul has been
happily married to his beautiful wife, Jill, for eight years. Not only does his knowledge of what it takes to
have a happy marriage influence his matchmaking ability, but he also leverages his professional network
to enhance the matches of his clients.
Paul Carrick Brunson
The Modern Day Matchmaker
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mong the hordes of theater companies that call New York City home, lies an organization that is on
pace to becoming a staple in the global arts community. The organization, Diversity Players of Harlem,
consists of producing co-founders Shawn Luckey and Dwight Ali Williams. This odd pairing of sorts
has successfully created a winning formula for dozens of productions. Williams, a former child actor
detoured into corporate America, however; he left Los Angeles for New York City to pursue his passion
for the stage. In 2005, after a chance meeting with former law school student Shawn Luckey, Williams
became one-third of a business venture that resulted in Luckey directing the company‘s first production.
After a former business partner parted ways, Luckey and Williams made DPOH Entertainment (the
company‘s moniker) an official general partnership. In five years, the dynamic duo has produced stage
plays, music revues, industry seminars and networking events, and more recently, short films. Many of
their stage productions have run the full gamut from classic plays like Charles Fuller‘s A Soldier Play
and Harold Pinter‘s The Birthday Party to an Off-Broadway stage production of Marq Overton‘s Die
Laughing, an original one-man dramatic play about a comedian‘s bout with breast cancer. According to
the theater company‘s mission statement, the pair plans to collaborate with more artists and
entertainment professionals to meet their objective of creating more lucrative opportunities for children
and non-traditional artist.
At press time, Diversity Players of Harlem‘s 2010-11 theater season was slated to open with Love’s
Gonna Get Ya! Tickets are being sold for this production and the season at diversityplayersofharlem.com
with special offers.
Shawn Luckey & Dwight Ali Williams
Dynamic Duo of Diversified Drama
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Notorious
Elevation A Conversation with Dennis LA White
career leads him to producing and directing. His quest is to
bring forth more classic films under his production company,
Riot Gear Entertainment.
Building a foundation to leave his legacy upon, Dennis‘
vision for where he ultimately wants to take his career leads
him to producing and directing. His quest is to bring forth
more classic films under his production company, Riot Gear
Entertainment.
When asked what advice he could give to aspiring actors, he
says with an assurance of where he‘s come from, ―seek
opportunities to build your body of work, surround yourself
with other actors, and use the three P‘s; prayer, perseverance,
and persistence.‖ By the end of our conversation, I was not
only impressed, but inspired by his determination.
Dennis‘s upcoming projects include the film, Changing the
Game and the play, Die Laughing. One can only hold on to
hope for having a career in Hollywood, and seeing evident
proof in White‘s career proves it can happen for anyone at
anytime.
budding star in the mist of experiencing his
career in full bloom, Dennis LA White is on the verge of
exploring new territory that is bound to move him to another
level in Hollywood; a level that many seek to explore, but
never gain the opportunity to have. On a recent trip to New
York, Dennis interviewed with Prominence Magazine to talk
about his career and what‘s next on his journey of breaking
barriers and staking his claim.
Unless you have held a conversation with Dennis, you will
never know how polite and well spoken he really is. Seeing
him on the screen, in a variety of roles, could never compare or
add up to whom he really is; a man with a desire for living what
he is passionate for, and that is using the talents he‘s been
blessed with to pave the way for those who come after him to
follow.
When one thinks of Dennis LA White, they may most recently
remember him from his role as Diamond ‗D-Rock‘ Butler in
the 2009 biopic Notorious. But, this North Carolina native has
formulated a career path that will place him among the rising
stars in the industry. Building a foundation to leave his legacy
upon, Dennis‘ vision for where he ultimately wants to take his
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Who‘s Vagina is it Anyway? Yours or Mine? BY SANDY DALEY
s he serious? Did he really just ask me, ―Whose is it
baby?‖ Tell me that it is mine! After all this time of not
hearing from him? Obviously I am going to tell him that
the vagina belongs to him at this moment in time. I was
certainly not going to ruin a good sex session! With this
question, which has been directed to me on numerous
occasions, it then got me thinking; if I was such a dynamite
chick, according to this lover on the phone, why am I still
single?
―Then again, did I really even want a man? I certainly did
not need one! To be quite honest, I have never met a man
that has done anything for me that I cannot do for myself.
Hence, ―Whose vagina is it really?‖ was born, and have
created nothing less than a phenomena. From gut busting
laughter, to outright shock at the title, this little book of
mine has stirred up strong feelings amongst both sexes.
Perfect! I am the king of the World!
Was I too independent? Too strong-willed? Too stubborn?
Why am I still single and I ―don‘t have a tree in my face,‖
as we say. ―Did I want too much? No, I did not,‖ I decided.
But I, like most women, want more out of life than just the
occasional, ―Whose is it baby?‖ I would sometimes answer
with a smart- assed comment, and ladies, try this as well,
―Yours baby, if you pay the light bill, the mortgage, the car
note and buy some groceries. Now do you still want it?‖
See what his response is and that will tell you what he
really wants from you.
Walking the streets these days is also a challenge, as my
male friends and associates only ask me one thing on the
very first sight of seeing me. ―So Sandy, a fi mi or what?‖
At least the men are talking right? If I have accomplished
getting a dialogue started between men and women, then
this book will serve its purpose, as we rarely communicate.
―This is not your typical sappy self help book for women,
where you are constantly looking for a Mr. Right,‖ I say to
my friends, while they lovingly ask me every day about its
release. ―I know that,‖ said my girlfriend Janice.
I ―If this book is anything like your articles, then I need to
pre-order mine right now! Its www.Sandydaley.com
right?‖ she queried. ―Yes, Janice, order right now,‖ I
laughed out loud, realizing that I had some neurotic, but
very supportive girlfriends.
Use what you have to get what you want out of life; of
course without losing your self-respect and of
maintaining control of your own life, is what I encourage
in this book. The funny thing though, is that we all have
the power but unfortunately, do not know how to use it
wisely. ―If only you ladies knew how simple men are,‖
said a male friend of mine recently. We are not as
complicated as women,‖ he went on to say. All you have
to do is rub our heads and you get all that you want.‖
―Which head was he referring to though?‖ was my inner
question as I wiggled my nose like Sabrina the teenage
witch.
―Whose Vagina is it really? asks the question but it is up
to the readers to answer for themselves. The best answer,
in my opinion that I ever received from a male friend of
mine is, ―Yours of course Sandy, but mine to play with if
you let me!‖ After a gut busting laugh and of course
almost choking on the gum that I had in my mouth, I
fully agreed with his statement. Needless to say, I still
converse regularly with this recognizes that I am in
charge and he really is just a squirrel trying to get a nut in
my world! Or am I the squirrel trying to get his to his
nuts? Now that is the million dollar question!
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ave you ever pulled a $20 out of the ATM and two
hours later you have no idea how you spent the money?
That‘s why you need a spending plan. Most of us spend
small amounts of money every day on things that we don‘t
even remember buying. That $1 soda at work takes up
$240 a year. How many times have you walked into a store
to grab 1 thing and come out with way more than just 1
thing? All this extra spending on small things is part of the
reason you may be in debt.
Having a spending plan is a way to help you recognize
what you‘ve been spending your money on and what
changes you may want to make. It works like this:
1) Go through your bank statements and credit card
statements. Put the money you spent in categories so you
can see what you spent your money on. I use a software
program because it‘s easier than writing everything down.
Notice all the money that you spent on non-essential items.
2) Don‘t freak out when you see how much money you
waste every month.
3) Make a list of your fixed expenses; the bills that you
have to pay every month. For example, your rent/mortgage,
lights, water, gas, car insurance, credit cards, etc.
4) Make a list of your variable expenses; the bills that you
have to pay sometimes. For example, your yearly payment
for your magazine subscriptions, your quarterly tax
payments if you‘re self employed, etc.
5) Make a line on your list that says, ―me‖. You are going
to start paying yourself every month just like you pay
everyone else. Creating, or adding to, an emergency fund is
one of the main reasons you need a spending plan. Take all
that money you‘ve been wasting and put it into an account
that you can use when you‘re in a jam. I suggest trying to
build up 6 – 12 month‘s worth of income. When an
emergency comes, and there will
always be an emergency, you‘ll be ready.
6) Make a line that says, ―retirement‖. I don‘t care if you
haven‘t even opened a retirement account and you can only
put $5 in it. You‘re going to start putting money aside for
your old age. As your account swells with cash you can
take time to think about where you‘d like to invest it. The
first step is to start. The more you put away now, the less
you‘ll have to worry later. Compound interest will make a
huge difference in your retirement lifestyle.
7) Whatever money you have left, go wild! You know what
your fixed expenses will cost every month, what your
upcoming variable expenses will be, you‘ve put money
away for your emergency fund, and you‘re started
contributing to your retirement account. The money left
over is called your ―discretionary income‖.
If you find that you don‘t have enough income to cover all
your expenses listed on your spending plan, then you have
two choices. You‘re going to have to increase your income
or reduce your expenses and no, cutting out saving for your
emergency fund and/or your retirement fund are not
options.
You are responsible for your life. You have the power to be
financially stable, or not, by making smart choices…… and
that‘s why you need a spending plan.
Why You Need a $pending Plan BY SHAY OLIVERIA
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My Poeticwisdom
By Katherine Rodriguez
I had to go through it
I had to loose it in order to find it
I had to fall to learn how to stand
I had to cry to learn the desire to laugh
I had to learn how to be a woman in order to appreciate a man
I had to humble myself to be exalted
I had to break down to figure out that something was wrong
I had to be in need to learn how to ask for help
I had to be weak to then be strong
I had to feel dumb in order to realize that there was more to learn
I had to feel defeated in order to learn that I was fighting a war
I had to loose the game to realize that I had to make more of an effort to score
I had to confront myself to take focus off of others
I had to stop laboring to understand how to work effectively
I had to struggle to appreciate the gain
I had to do wrong to learn how to do correctly
I had to go through some tests to have a testimony
I had to have trials to be triumphant
I had to fall to be in a position to pray
I had to feel like I had nothing to motivate myself to get something
I had to suffer consequences to learn not to do it again
I had to be ignored to learn how to give
I had to get tired of being tired
I had to die to my flesh in order to live
Katherine Rodriguez©
www.mypoeticwisdom.com
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In the End
iving life on purpose; this has been sitting in my
heart and mind a great deal lately. I for one am grateful,
I‘ve taken steps of faith and watched God do some great
things because of my faith action, one of which was the
establishment of the nonprofit I co-founded with my best
girlfriend, Theda Rose. Theda and I both have a passion
for young women and out of mere conversation and a
resonating of hearts we took a step of faith and
established S.A.V.Y-Successful and Victorious Youth,
Inc., a national nonprofit whose mission is to inspire girls
to reach their full potential and motivate them towards
excellence, www.savygirls.org.
I have always tried to live a purpose driven life, reflecting
on the specific gifts, talents and abilities that have been
deposited in me and then aligning vocational and even
entrepreneur aspirations with those gifts and passions in
mind. So Theda and I start our nonprofit and we have
touched the lives of hundreds of girls and are now
leaving a legacy to touch more; but make no mistake
about it, living the purpose driven life comes with a price
and you must be absolutely sure you are willing to pay it.
What‘s the price you pay for living this purpose driven
life? Quite often, it‘s maintaining your dreams and
aspirations when there is no one or nothing to affirm you
or motivate you and many times walking the road alone!
But I say and can attest to the fact that it is quite worth it.
It‘s important to be authentic to whom you are and how
you were created and living a purpose driven life requires
this. One thing I strive to do is keep in the company of
like minded individuals. It can be quite challenging to
maintain living a life of purpose if you constantly
surround yourself with individuals who don‘t know what
their purpose in life is and have absolutely no interest in
finding out. We have to live our days intentionally and
really stay focused on the purpose driven life we are
trying to achieve.
For each of us that will be something different; for me
it is pursuing and cultivating my skills and talents for
other entrepreneur ventures, as well as getting back to
the very simple things I so love to do and have gotten
away from. For you it may be starting that business
that has been sitting in your heart for years, taking
that dream vacation--even it means taking it alone,
moving to that city that just gives you a sense of
peace and rest every time you think about it,
volunteering or whatever it is.
After having breast surgery last year, because of a
fibroid tumor in my left breast, which was begin, so I
was cancer free; but there are so many others whose
story is different, I realized as much as I had
accomplished, I still wasn‘t maximizing living my life
on purpose. Now be clear this isn‘t a get yourself
high because it‘s the beginning of a new year and
then all is forgotten come mid March but truly, make
a conscientious decision to live your life on purpose,
whatever you feel that purpose is because days are not
given back to us, they are simply numbered!
Living On Purpose BY KIMBERLY NICHOLS
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In the Spotlight
Name: Terrence Zaahir AKA TZ Life
Date of Birth: August 15th
City: Philadelphia, PA
Occupation: Martial Arts Expert
His philosophy: To be the man God created
him to be and exhaust all capabilities.
Would like to extend Best Wishes to the Cast & Crew of Tony Clomax’s
New Romantic Comedy Webseries 12 Steps to Recovery