psychology presentation fnbe - jake's group
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IS IT DIFFICULT TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX?
48% - remained friends with their ex
18% - did not remain friends with their ex
AN AMERICAN AUTHOR, RELATIONSHIP COACH, AND A LAWYER FROM NEW YORK CITY.STATES THAT EVEN AFTER
AN AMICABLE BREAKUP, IT IS EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO BE FRIENDS,
AT LEAST ‘INITIALLY’.
Susan Jean Elliott (born November 19,
1956)
GETTING PAST YOUR BREAKUP: HOW TO TURN A DEVASTATING LOSS INTO THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO YOU
“MOST PEOPLE CANNOT REMAIN FRIENDS AFTER A BREAKUP, BUT IF IT WILL EVER BE, IT WILL BE LATER ... MUCH LATER. THE ATMOSPHERE IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING A BREAKUP IS TOO EMOTIONALLY CHARGED FOR IT TO HAPPEN RIGHT AWAY, IF AT ALL.”
(ELLIOTT, 2012, PARA. 2 )
WHICH STATEMENT IS CORRECT?
Difficult to be
friends?Not Difficult to
be friends?
‘COUPLES THAT BREAK UP WILL STILL REMAIN AS
FRIENDS’.
100 PARTICIPANTS
10 Questions
Excludingpersonal
details
THE TOTAL NO. OF PARTICIPANTS (SEPERATED BY GENDER)
Yes No0
5
10
15
20
25
30
MaleFemale
TOTAL NO. OF PARTICIPANTS THAT HAD A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE
IN THOSE 44 PARTICIPANTS WHO HAD A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE, IT LASTED:-
IF YOU HAVE AN EX (IF YOU DON’T, IMAGINE YOU HAVE ONE), YOU WOULD:
The questinos
Q.1SAYS ‘HI’ WHEN YOU MEET HE/SHE/THEM.
Q.1
strongly disagree7%
disagree13%
not sure26%
agree28%
strongly agree26%
Male
SAYS ‘HI’ WHEN YOU MEET HE/SHE/THEM.
SAYS ‘HI’ WHEN YOU MEET HE/SHE/THEM.
Q.2STILL THINK OF HE/SHE/THEM AS FRIEND.
Q.2
strongly disagree11%
disagree9%
not sure26%
agree28%
strongly agree26%
Male
STILL THINK OF HE/SHE/THEM AS FRIEND.
strongly disagree9%
disagree26%
not sure17%
agree39%
strongly agree9%
Female
STILL THINK OF HE/SHE/THEM AS FRIEND.
Q.3CONTINUES CHATTING LIKE FRIENDS.
Q.3
strongly disagree11%
disagree20%
not sure26%
agree33%
strongly agree11%
Male
CONTINUES CHATTING LIKE FRIENDS.
strongly disagree22%
disagree17% not sure
33%
agree20%
strongly agree7%
Female
CONTINUES CHATTING LIKE FRIENDS.
Q.4WISHES THEM ON SPECIAL EVENTS (EG. BIRTHDAY, CHRISTMAS).
Q.4
strongly disagree15%
disagree9%
not sure11%
agree39%
strongly agree26%
Male
WISHES THEM ON SPECIAL EVENTS (EG. BIRTHDAY, CHRISTMAS).
strongly disagree20%
disagree13%
not sure28%
agree26%
strongly agree13%
Female
WISHES THEM ON SPECIAL EVENTS (EG. BIRTHDAY, CHRISTMAS).
Q.5VOLUNTARY OFFERS HELP WHEN HE/SHE/THEY ARE IN TROUBLE.)
Q.5
disagree11%
not sure26%
agree22%
strongly agree41%
Male
VOLUNTARY OFFERS HELP WHEN HE/SHE/THEY ARE IN TROUBLE.)
strongly disagree6%
disagree13%
not sure44%
agree31%
strongly agree6%
Female
VOLUNTARY OFFERS HELP WHEN HE/SHE/THEY ARE IN TROUBLE.)
Q.6CONTINUES TO HANG OUT WITH THEM.
Q.6
strongly disagree15%
disagree26%
not sure33%
agree17%
strongly agree9%
Male
CONTINUES TO HANG OUT WITH THEM.
strongly disagree31%
disagree20%
not sure30%
agree13%strongly agree
6%
Female
CONTINUES TO HANG OUT WITH THEM.
Q.7WILL MENTION THEM IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS.
Q.7
strongly disagree30%
disagree17%
not sure41%
agree2%strongly agree
9%
Male
WILL MENTION THEM IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS.
strongly disagree19%
disagree17% not sure
46%
agree15%strongly agree
4%
Female
WILL MENTION THEM IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS.
Q.8KEEPS THINKING ABOUT THEM.
Q.8
strongly disagree17%
disagree22% not sure
33%
agree17%
strongly agree11%
Male
KEEPS THINKING ABOUT THEM.
strongly disagree30%
disagree35%
not sure20%
agree13%
strongly agree2%
Female
KEEPS THINKING ABOUT THEM.
Q.9Hopes to get back into a relationship with him/her.
Q.9
strongly disagree20%
disagree13%
not sure48%
agree9%
strongly agree11%
Male
Hopes to get back into a relationship with him/her
strongly disagree
39%
disagree24%
not sure31%
strongly agree6%
Female
Hopes to get back into a relationship with him/her
Q.10Not date another person.
Q.10
strongly disagree
46%
disagree20%
not sure24%
agree4%strongly agree
7%
Male
Not date another person.
strongly disagree
48%
disagree28%
not sure17%
agree6%
strongly agree2%
Female
Not date another person.
CONCLUSION
Out of 100 participants, 44 of them broke up before and 65% of those
who broke up, their relationship lasted less than a year.
CONLUSION: COUPLES THAT BREAK UP CANNOT REMAIN
AS FRIENDS
REFERENCEMcLeod, S. A. (2011), Psychology Research Report,
Retrieved from http://www.simplypsychology.org/research-report.html
The Lifescript Editorial Staff ( 2007, November 09 ) ,
Should You Be Friends with Your Ex? Retrieved from http://www.lifescript.com/life/relationships/wreckage/should_you_be_friends_with_your_ex.aspx
Elliott, S. ( 2012, May 15 ), Friends With Ex: Should
You Be Friends With Your Ex Post-Split? Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/15/friends-with-ex-should-yo_n_1516245.html
A ROUND OF APPLAUSE IS APPRECIATED ;)
THANK YOU FOR LISTENING~