purposefully positive
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Boleman Presentation Virtual Summit 2012TRANSCRIPT
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Dr. Boleman,
Centra is DOWN!
from Jill Hughson – 9:30 am, 11/6/12 YIKES
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Being Being Purposefully Purposefully
PositivePositiveDr. Chris Boleman
Texas 4-H and Youth Development Program Director
[email protected] 979/845-1211
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Plan for Today• Some activities you can do back home• Some leadership stuff
– Motivating Yourself– Positivity is Contagious– Staying focused with the naysayers– Return the favor – tell someone
they are doing good.
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The Power of Positive Thinking
• A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action.
"Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." Abraham Lincoln
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Staying Focused• Tennis Ball Exercise• Place in groups• Ask to pass the ball around• While speaking names• Repeat, change it up• Add to group• Put somebody in the middle to
districtWhen complete, remind them that the goal never changed. You may have been distracted, but the goal is still the same.
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Anger is an acid that
destroys the vessel in
which it is stored! Mark TwainMark Twain
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Maxwell, John (unpublished)Maxwell, John (unpublished)
1. POSITIONRightsPeople follow you because they have to
2. PERMISSIONRelationshipsPeople follow you because they want to
3. PRODUCTIONResultsPeople follow bc of what you have done for the organization
4. PEOPLE DEVELOPMENTReproductionPeople follow because of what you have done for them
5. PINNACLERespectPeople follow because of who you are
and what you represent
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It Starts with YOU!!!•The Secret of Success
is Determined by YOUR OWN AGENDA!!!
– John Maxwell
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#1 Law of Intentionality• Growth Doesn’t Just Happen
–You have to grow on purpose–You make a choice to grow–The choice you make – MAKES
YOU!
We have the tendency to want to change circumstances, NOT US
We have the tendency to want to change circumstances, NOT US
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SATISFACTION!!!!
• Autonomy• Complexity• Connection between effort
and rewardGladwell, M. (2008). Outliers. Hatchette Book Group: New York, NY
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What makes teams successful?
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Favorite Quotes from Miracle
• You pull on that jersey, you represent yourself and your teammates; and the name on the front, is a heck of alot more important, than the one on the back.
• You just focus on your own game! There’s enough there to keep you busy for awhile.
• Win, lose, or tie, you're gonna play like a champion.
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Components of Leadership• Inspiring the vision of the organization• Leaders must be a designer – of the
organization• Leader must have a personal and universal
purpose• Teach subordinates about purpose and
structure• Leaders generate and manage creative
tension
P. Senge, 5th Discipline
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•Leadership is about motivating a group of people’s
behavior to achieve a common goal bigger than
their own.
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Components of New Leadership• Inspiring the vision of the organization• Leaders must be a designer – of the
organization• Leader must have a personal and universal
purpose• Teach subordinates about purpose and
structure• Leaders generate and manage creative
tension
P. Senge, 5th Discipline
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99% of leaders communicate the same way!
What? Adapted from Simon Sinek
How?
Why?
They communicate from the outside in.
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Inspired Leaders Communicate from the Inside Out
• What – everyone knows what an organization does.• How – some know how• Why – few know why (organizational purpose,
belief, etc)
People don’t buy what you do, they buy WHY
you do it!
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Lets Try ItItem Apple 4-H
What We make great computers
???
How They have a simple design, user friendly
???
Why Everything we do – We believe in challenging the status quo, committed to thinking differently
???
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CHANGE
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Why?• Because often with change……
the heart (emotion) and the mind disagree (rational).
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Vision Skills Incentives Resources Action Plan
Skills Incentives Resources Action Plan
Vision Incentives Resources Action Plan
Vision Skills Resources Action Plan
Vision Skills Incentives Action Plan
Vision Skills Incentives Resources
CHANGE
CONFUSION
ANXIETY
GRADUAL CHANGE
FRUSTRATION
FALSE START
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• LEADERSHIP isn’t about embracing change! IT IS MUCH BIGGER THAN THAT!
•It is about:BEING THE
CHANGE!
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• "There are leaders you HAVE to follow and leaders you
WANT to follow." What type of leader will you be?
#leadership
@ctboleman@ctboleman
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• ‘Have You’ thanked an adult for a small act of helpfulness?
• ‘Have You’ called a friend… TODAY?• ‘Have You’ celebrated in the last week a “small”
milestone reached?• ‘Have You’ met with someone that works with you to
discuss what is going right?• ‘Have You’ discussed something interesting, beyond
work that you ran across or read?• Followed someone on Twitter that his happy?• Sent a text message to say KEEP PUSHING!• Liked someone’s status on Facebook that is making a
difference?
Have Yous?
Adapted from Peters, T. (2010). The Little BIG ThingsAdapted from Peters, T. (2010). The Little BIG Things
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DO NOT LET PEOPLE LIVE RENT FREE IN YOUR HEAD!!! – Mark Towers
DO NOT LET PEOPLE LIVE RENT FREE IN YOUR HEAD!!! – Mark Towers
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Control what you can CONTROL
•Attitude •Effort•Focus
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PASSION =
ENERGY
PASSION =
ENERGY
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The Power of Positive Thinking• Always use only positive words while thinking and while talking. Use words such
as, 'I can', 'I am able', 'it is possible', 'it can be done', etc.• Allow into your awareness only feelings of happiness, strength and success.• Try to disregard and ignore negative thoughts. Refuse to think such thoughts,
and substitute them with constructive happy thoughts.• In your conversation use words that evoke feelings and mental images of
strength, happiness and success.• Before starting with any plan or action, visualize clearly in your mind its
successful outcome. • Read at least one page of inspiring book every day.• Watch movies that make you feel happy.• Minimize the time you listen to the news and read the papers.• Associate yourself with people who think positively.• Walk, swim or engage in some other physical activity. This helps to develop a
more positive attitude.
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AND ONE LAST THING!Because it begins and ends with
YOU!
Because it begins and ends with
YOU!