quality parenting
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Parenting Guide
For Schools
An Initiative by Dr. Dheeraj Mehrotra
National Awardee
http://dheerajmehrotra.tripod.com
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Raising a child can be very difficult. Wesometimes forget that children need to learnhow to become adults from us and that theyare not little adults.
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A good parent accepts that they make mistakesand learns from them.
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In the archives of roles that havebeen attributed to fathers over the
should be a discipliner of his childrenhas often cropped up.
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A good parent appologizes when they are wrong.
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Being a Good Parent is GODLY A good parent takes care of themselves as well
as their children. If a parent is notmentally/physically/spiritually healthy they will notbe able to take care of their childrens mental
h sical/s iritual health.
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I REPEAT:
A good parent accepts that they make mistakes andlearns from them.
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Communicating with Your ChildCommunication and Emotion Coaching are Communication and Emotion Coaching are
essential to Positive Parenting.essential to Positive Parenting.
•To declare his/her independence or sense of self.
•To feel close or connected with his/her parent.
•To feel a sense of control over what happens to
him/her.
•To feel respected and heard.
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Keys to Positive Parenting
Positive Parenting teaches responsibility bymotivating our children internally, to build their
se -es eem an ma e em ee ove .
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Quality TimeYour child's self-esteem is
influenced by the quality of timeyou spend with him/her, not thequantity.
If we don't give our childdedicated quality time everyday, he/she will often start to
misbehave. Negative attention ina child's mind is better thanbeing ignored.
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Actions Not Words
Instead of nagging or
scolding, ask yourself,"What action could I take?”
Use actions to show the typeof behaviour you expect.
Actions speak louder thanwords.
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5 Ways to keep your child
Smiling:
•Ask your child if you can join her in herfavourite game. It will melt away yourstress too.
• Tell your child about a forgottenchildhood experience and your naughty
moments.
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• Browse and find a piece of
craft/ paining/ writing done byour children and exclaim
“WOW !” as you appreciateit.
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• Call your child’s friends over for a
quick evening party that can be setup in an hour which could include a
.
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Write her a note telling herwhy she is so special.
,watch your child smile
from ear to ear !
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Give Children Appropriate Ways to
Feel PowerfulIf you do not, they will findinappropriate ways to feel
their power. Ways to helpthem feel valuable are to ask their advice, give them
, .
We often do things forchildren because we can do
it with less hassle, but theresult is they feel unimportant.
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Natural Consequences
Ask yourself , “What would happen if
I didn't interfere in this situation?”
' ,rob children of the chance to learn from theconsequences of their actions.
In this way, we avoid disturbing ourrelationships by nagging too much. Allow
your child to find a solution on his/her own.
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Withdraw from ConflictIf your child is testing you
through…. a temper tantrum anger and sulking whinin and cr in
speaking disrespectfully
It is best if you leave the roomand tell your child you will talk to
him/her later when he/she isready to “try again."
Do not leave in anger or defeat.
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Separate the Deed from
the Person
Never tell a child that he/she is bad.
Help your child recognize that it isn't him or her as aperson, but the bad behavior that you are unwillingto tolerate.
In order for a child to have healthy self-esteem, hemust know that he/she is loved unconditionally.
Do not try to motivate your child by withdrawingyour love.
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Be Firm Yet KindWhen you set rules with your child, make sure
that you stick to them.
If your child does not follow your directions, be
actions.
Afterwards, ask yourself, did Imotivate through love or fear?
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Be Consistent and
Follow Through
When you set guidelines with
your child, stick to them at alltimes. Follow through withconsequences.
Do not give in to pleas, tears,demands or pouting.
Your child will respond betterin the future if he/she knowsthat you mean what you say.
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Positive Parenting withthe End in Mind
There is a tendency to parent with themindset of getting a situation under control
as soon as poss e.We are looking for an immediate solution.
But this often results in children who feel
overpowered and not heard.If we parent in a way that keeps in mind howwe want our child to be as an adult , we will
be more thoughtful in how we parent.
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Positive Parenting and Good
Communication Lead to….
* Self-motivation, self-direction, self-discipline,
self-confidence, and self-esteem in children.
* The development of good EQ in a child which.
* The growth of a child’s innate curiosity anddesire to learn, to explore, to experiment, to ask questions and to discover.
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Remember …..eachchild is unique emotionally and needs to
be treated individually, especially with
regard to his or her feelings.
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A good parent
apologizeswhen
they are wrong.
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A good parent isnot a child's friend.
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A
good parentloves their child for who they are not who they will
be.
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A
good parentallows their children to be responsible for their.
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As parents, we sometimes are quick
to judge our child's actions or choice
of words, that we do not hear theircries for love, attention, or help. We
should s ento their feelings, reactions, andopinions.
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Try to understand their point
of view. Look at them when they aretalking to show that you are hearingtheir ever word. Put down that book,
turn off that television, stop what youare doing and listen!
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Teach your child how to be
responsible, caring, a
, ,
characteristics within yourself. It's not too late foryou to do so.
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We should treat our kids as ourequals and not as
subordinates. The "do as I
say and not as I do" mentalitydoesn't work.
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It's true that many of us have to
work to provide our family withthe essentials. Your child shouldknow that they are important toyou. They should not have to
competeagainst your job. The positionand title that you hold and your
job cannot be passed on, but thelove, the traditions, and time putinto your family can be carriedthroughout generations
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Respecttheir interests, do not down
play them as mediocre. Share in some of the
activities you enjoy. Become familiar with thecurrent trends. It may be a little different thanwhat you're used to, but that doesn't mean you
can't learn to at least respect it.What a SON thinks about his Father ! ! !
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Love your child no matter what.
Never allow them to have a doubt in their mindsof your love for them. At times they maydisappoint you, anger you, or even disrespect
,
know that they are loved by you. No one isperfect, we've all made mistakes and will continueto. Shower those imperfections with love.
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FAMILY
for?
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Father
AndMother
ILoveYou
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