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AUTHOR

SHEHROZ BASHIR

Preface

This article is written on my own common observation, not saying that it would work for you 100%. There are points that you might love or maybe not. Obviously reading psychology is the one of the toughest thing of life.



Psychology is the science of different kind of Mentalities and behaviorsof Human race or any kind of living creature. It is most complex branchof Science having many categorical forms and people. ALLAH has gifted

mind to think and this mind thinks in many different manner so that onecan’t easily recognize completely the reality of the person and thethinking of the person and in actual this is the greatest blessing of

ALLAH and best thing to live dynamic life. There have been people inmy life who made me think about their psychology because their behavior were not just different but awkward as well which were gettingall my attention. Human psychology is the most complex science; onecan try to get close to it but can’t get every single tackle of thoughts. Inthis notepaper, I’ll be discussing some of my observations.

There are many people who love to have attention from other people, but categorically they divide further more in many branches.Some people are shy, some people are confused and some people aresuppressed by old thoughts etc. For gaining attention, people tryseparate and distinct ways to make other fuss over themselves. I have

got some of them. There is a person in my life, he tries to be different, heremains silent, doesn’t laugh, smile comes very rare on his face, and heshows as if he is busiest man on earth. It is ok that he is like this but the

problem is beyond it. While staying on his very own track of being felt distinct, he lost the careful and affectionate love for others, though wasbehaving more like robot than of human. He gazes at me but doesn’t tell a word; it seems like as if there is something going on his mind about me. And most important thing is his questions, which arise in not normalmanner, he asks questions in very inappropriate times as if we arespeaking about food, he would ask abruptly about your date of birth etc.that is at least better than not hearing from him. But the questions hecreates, whether he wants to talk or not. It is because when he asksquestions, we answer and it seems as if he wants to have conversation



but when we ask question he just gave shortest answer of earth. I remained with smile always whenever he was before me, but I planned to act different with him, I stayed silent this time, not even looking at him

so that he even when sees my face, I stopped myself from behaving and being frank with him and I became all the way I didn’t want to be. Nowhis response started being different, he was nudging me in bus and did thrice and when I saw him and I snatched my look away hurriedly, heagain nudged me. While taking class, he spoke to teacher and was tryingto joke and this was the great change in his behavior. He texted me theday after I changed my behavior and told, not to worry about manythings at the time and everything will be fine. Can you imagine, a personwith fine and all well condition is just living his normal life and suddenlysomeone messages like this, this directly shows that he wants to attain

your attention. It had been one year to give him full attention but now I was pissed off and I wanted to know what was in his mind, I replied hismessage and told him that I didn’t have to worry about anything; thevery next reply from his side was that what I had written in the text wasChinese? Anyways these all the things were stupid but I was doing.

(hoping, I’ll see changes more)

Psychological tip: - Whenever you find someone looking at you, it meanshe want you to speak to him and discuss things and share more.

Powered tip: - Don’t see what is right or wrong, see whether the way you are trying is working for you or not. (As I have done in the abovecase)

There are even many self praising people. These people glad, when theyhear something in their favor and just get upset when, they are named with wrong words. Even, within these people, there are more categories,in which tolerant and intolerant people are also found. Wrongs wordscan destroy their EGO of being fantastic and fantabulous, or may hurt



their EGO. EGO is the self-importance, when someone shows that he isbetter, the Ego of next person causes him to boil his blood within himself without saying a word, at that time he tries to find words and praises in

his very own favor but when he doesn’t find sensible praises in hi s favor,he speaks about irrelative talks to let other person know the quality inother things. These people are showy, they do for making people see, but they get happy too, not when good thing is done, but when they arebeing praised. For them, few deeds become the line of their tongue for entire life and they keep repeating and telling others their deeds to gainmore importance and to show that they are good. These people areusually full with EGO of having continuous talk and final say. These self

prais ing people if doesn’t change their habits, they stand all alone evenin their old age when they need someone.

People of Tension have few habits, like that of biting nails, looking hereand there or just stuck eyes before respectful people and when it comesbefore common people, people of tension usually discloses matter more

frankly and they abuse and curse very well the conditions. They rub nose

usually or may touch their chin mostly during the time of trouble.There are some people on earth who are really cool in sense of feelings.Some people try to look out for your favorite topics and they try to speak about that no matter whether they know about that topic or not and it can be seen very easily because when they talk, they seem less interested but still trying to speak about it.

There are some neutralized people in the fast moving race track world.Those people never look for challenges but challenges come to themthemselves. These people do not frown or show tension, they even don’t

find things to be wrong, they just try to look out for solution rather thanthinking and relating more topics of past with the topic of tension. Theyare mostly silent kind, they do not try to get into arguments, and they



speak few words and that to after finding best time to speak. They do not get themselves involved into matters; they listen when people tell themthings, and just not keep it for anger or time for taking revenge, but keepto think about different perspective of people and for experience. Theydo not think anything negative and try to get positive sense from thenegative taken talks of people so that they can show themselves light indarks. They stay with what they have, never try to fight, and they givesweet smile. They are not challengers but their kindness and their generosity makes some beautiful examples of history. These people donot carry extra thoughts like what would they be thinking or what should have done before and what shouldn’t have. These people never regret or repent keeping quiet and do not try to beat others through prolong

debate or argument. They while joking, they speak the truth, they do not use mind or try to give extra thoughts to tell lie mixed jokes. They do not back bite. To recognize them, the best point is whenever you ask them todecide things, they are fast at deciding or taking decisions because theyalways observe what they face in their life and also watch their deedsand tongue. These people do not let any enemy to bear for going against them. The most important thing in their lives is, they know how to loveout and let it come in. These people have the qualities matching with thenext line,

“Y ou have within you right now, everything you need to deal with what so ever the world can throw at you”

Male Ego is the dangerous thing on earth. That Ego causes many deathsand depressive lives. If husband hits wife, it seems okay to other males,

but if wife hits husband, it sounds absurd. Why is that? It is simply the Ego and common mentality of men. Ego can be hurt in many ways, aseven by just telling a single word against which could be truth or a lie.

Male Ego commonly doesn’t let to tell sorry, it confuses person and prevents for moving about telling sorry or just about confessing his



wrong deeds. The Egoist tries to prove him or get himself called pureand nice no matter how worst it is. Egoist people can easily be judged bytheir following actions:-

When you say that you can do this or that or someone else can do this or that, jealousy enlightens the behavior of Egoists. When they (egoists) domistakes, even after realizing, they (egoists) don’t come to tell sorry.When they tell lies, they try to prove them pure even after knowing that everyone knows that they are lying and they never agree by their wordswith the fact against them but they know are agree within their hearts.Those people keep that part of heart suppressed and the ego part to rule

over mind. Liars psyche, the most complicated or may be the most simplest. Liarshave distinct behavior than of normal times. They try to look somethingdown to touch or grab. When you ask something from them, they givedetails more than expected and they start speaking too much. They try tooppress the topic either by showing great anger or by beating about thebushes. They show absurd behaviors, they show two different

expressions at the time, if they smile they can have frowning scars ontheir heads at the very same time. They get angry faces with smile; twodifferent expressions show the great possibility of lying. They usually donot see with even open eyes when they are questioned because they put all energy and stress over mind to think rather than watching and

focusing around. They show small smile rather than usual normal smile.Their actions contradicts what they say, like if they are telling yes, but

their head would be shaking as if they are telling NO. They feel uneasyand try to look out the way to escape. These all the descriptions might work for you, but possibly it can also get failed.

There are also some people, who loves to earn your attention but they do this with annoying way. There are two ways to gain attention,



one is to tease him so that he can remain in your mind, and second is tosound different. Some people from starting try to speak against you but in reality they like you. When you say that you won’t speak to them, they

implore and ask for friendship again. Sometimes they show attitude togain attention. They do not look at face, they see all around, even whiletalking to their liked person, they do not see eye to eye. They sometimes

stay even silent so that he can be asked “what happened” or further more “so….” Some people are too shy for gaining attention. At time of need, people meet each other, that is different thing but besides need if they want to have friendship with any person, they think whether theyshould go to him or not, and even if they go, what would they say to himand what would they do. These all questions haunt their mind.

What is going on”. Actually two people can’t stay together without telling a word to each other, so this happens naturally.

Tip: - When someone says that he does not need any friend, in fact heneeds them.

Stubborn people are the most awkward people on earth. These people also stick over their EGO. They do not see, what is right or wrong, what should be selected or not, but they see, what they want and have said. Even if someone makes them realize, most of them won’t agree by expressions and will stay on their own liked choice. These

people are hot tempered because usually people do not like stubbornsand do not go according to other’s wish which causes them to get anger usually. This rebuke within them causes them to learn social evils and get it innate. Social evils may begin with abusing and last with usinghands for hurting or beating.

“What you don’t know , can hurt you”

TRY TO KNOW OTHERS

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