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Page 1: Recognizing your colleagues - Why, when and how to say Thank You in the workplace

SAYING

WHY, HOW, & WHEN

THANK YOU AT WORK

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PART ONEThe Preamble

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When it comes to corporate recognition programs…

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There are 3 types of employees in the wild

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10% of you love corporate recognition, and recognize

often

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80% are cool with the idea and recognize occasionally

(when you have a moment between fire drills)

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10% of you think that it is a bunch of sappy, Dilbert-

office cr@p

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Without wanting to bore the 90%...

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I want to quickly address the 10% of you who personally,

sometimes secretly, hate office recognition

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If you’re in that group

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If you’re really sceptical about all this

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appreciate that while you may not personally be

motivated by, or comfortable with, giving and receiving

recognition….

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It works for others around you

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It’s scientifically proven

(see Robert Cialdani’s book Influence)

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whether recognition works for you, is not the point

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the point is that recognition is a tool

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that you use to manage types of people other than

yourself

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up, down, and across

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so to be effective

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at managing many types of people

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you need to learn how to use the tool effectively

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so get on the bandwagon already and stop sniping

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PART TWOWhy Recognition?

• It’s good for you• It’s good for business• It’s good for them• It feels good• It’s the right thing to do

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Recognizing others is good for you1

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Your mother was right all along

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It’s just polite to say thanks

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And as our pal Machievelli teaches us…

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being polite is a great way to grease social wheels

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Build relationship capital, guan-xi, personal brands, or

fund reciprocity pools

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call it what you will

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but recognizing your colleagues just makes everything run more

smoothly

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From office politics, to project timeline

management, to motivating line staff, to just simply getting what you want

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giving recognition is good for you

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Recognition is good for business2

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As shown in industry study after industry study

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in firms where recognition is rampant…

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retention is up

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recruiting image is up

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productivity is up

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quality is up

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interpersonal trust is up

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engagement is up

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attendance is up

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collaboration is up

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profit is up

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and the daily reinforcement of corporate values and

behaviours

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that underlie and drive strategic objectives

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gets stuck in a virtuous loop

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in other words

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recognition is good for business

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Recognition is good for them3

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anyone who has represented someone in performance

roundtables for promotions or bonuses knows

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it’s a meat market

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and those with the right stuff don’t always win

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given a limited pool of rewards

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and the power of marketing

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to give your people the best shot at the brass ring

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you’ve got to be slick at promoting them

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and this is where kudos from across the firm make a big

difference

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recognition is not, in itself, enough

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but recognition can give your case enough umph that it can make the difference to

anyone on the borderline

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In other words, powerful, detailed, & relevant

recognition can make a tangible difference with

career advancement

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If you want more on the topic of marketing your

people at roundtables, check out

http://www.slideshare.net/selenasol/sample-talent-review-worksheet

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Recognition feels good4

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There is also a utilitarian angle

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recognition also makes people feel good

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research has shown again and again that primates feel good chemically when they

are thanked

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and when they thank others

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Don’t you feel good when someone thanks you?

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Well, that feeling is mutual

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Recognition is the right thing to do

5

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thanking someone who has accomplished something or done something for you, is

just the right thing to do

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that is, if recognition is deserved, then it’s deserved

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end of story

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Nothing embarrassing, self serving, or corporate

brainwashiness about that

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PART TWOHow to Recognize?

• Be SMART!• Use multiple media• Share!

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1 Be SMART

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Recognition can be delivered in a number of

ways

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Think about just saying “Thanks.”

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It’s free

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It’s easy

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It’s fast

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However, this doesn’t mean meaningless

“warm fuzzies”

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Good recognition is SMART!

(See the works by Jim Brintnall)

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SincereRecognition should be a genuine expression of

appreciation

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MeaningfulAlign recognition with the

values, goals, & priorities that matter

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AdaptableNo single recognition format

works for everyone.Recognition should be tailored

& valuable to the receiver.

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RelevantRecognition should be personal

& specific

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TimelyGive recognition when the

memory is still fresh

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2 Use multiple media

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consider any of these for your group…

(Greatly slimmed list taken from 1001 Ways to Reward Employees by Bob Nelson)

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Public Acknowledgements

Mentions in Townhalls or other meetings, status-reports, Wall

of Fame, etc

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Personal Thanks

Handwritten thank you note, plaque, phone call / voice mail from 1-up or 2-up (potentially

to family/spouse)

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Silly Perks

Use the boss’ office for a day, Free parking spot for a week, a

skive day, gift certificate, training budget, mementos/gifts

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3 Share!

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Whatever the case, if appropriate, share praise

as widely as possible

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For example, if you are thanking a peer, cc their

boss and other key stakeholders

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Each point of distribution adds value to the

recognition

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the person you are thanking looks good

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and you look good

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PART THREEWhen to Recognize?

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If you are using the SMART paradigm, you should focus on recognizing things that

are strategically Meaningful

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I would say, value-aligned behaviours in the workplace

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so the behaviours that you recognize should be specific

to your strategic context

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but here are some examples…

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BEHAVIOUR REFERENCE

Software Engineering http://mastersinsoftwareengineering.net/2012/15-qualities-every-software-engineer-should-have/

Intrapreneurship http://www.evancarmichael.com/Leadership/5155/34-Ways-to-Encourage-Intrapreneurship.html

Being a Manager http://www.phdinmanagement.org/25-qualities-and-characteristics-of-a-good-manager.html

Being a Leader http://www.examiner.com/article/the-25-most-important-leadership-behaviors

Collaboration http://amansingh316.wordpress.com/2012/06/15/top-10-collaborative-behaviors/

Integrity (about half way down the page)

http://www.wabccoaches.com/bcw/2008_v4_i2/print.html

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PART FOURFinal Note

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recognizing is easy to forget in the trenches of projects

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It’s OK. We’re all human

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just set yourself a KPI to recognize a colleague at

least once per week

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that shouldn’t even be a stretch target

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Heck. Schedule it into Outlook to make sure you do

it

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but please stop letting opportunities slip by

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