Cynthias Relationship ApplicationOnly for Worthy ApplicantsMay 2011@All Rights Reserved

Applicants

Name: ___Stephen Welch _____________________________________

Address: _7255 Amherst Ave A ____________________________________

Phone: HM (314) 735-5772___CELL (314)873-9606___________________

Marital Status: _Single_____________

Are you Divorced/Widowed? ___Divorced X 2________________________________

Date of Birth: ____9__/____9___/___1972_____ Age? ___38_____

Smoke/Drink/Drugs: __Occasional (not often) Cigar, glass of wine, beer. No drugs_____________

On Any Medication: (List them) ___No________________________________________

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What do you do for a living? __Computer technician for Real Estate Company and aspiring entrepreneur._______________________________________

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Where? ____Realogy/US Title_________________ How Long? __3 yrs____

Describe personality: Slow to anger, hard-working, committed, honest, selfless, strong,

Do you have Any Children? ___No________

Do you want any/more Children? _If The Most High provides, yes____

What type of Relationship are you seeking: __Monogamous, Long-Term or Marriage preferably__________________________

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What do you expect out of this Relationship? __Respect, honesty, reciprocity, a woman to play her role, No men friends___________________________

What interested you about me?: _The fact you are a educated, going back to school, attractive, spiritually grounded, seem to have some things in common. I can trust a woman of God._____________________________

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How many serious Relationships have you had? _2__________________________

How long was your longest Relationship(s) ___6 years___________________

What was the cause of the termination of the above Relationship(s)?

___My first marriage terminated due to getting married at 22 years old. My spouse turned out was much too immature. Shes 7 months older, but I was certainly much more mature at the time. We divorced after only a year and a half. No children, no animosity, domestic violence, etc. ______________________________________________________________________

Second marriage, I initiated the divorce. Spouse was irresponsible, sneaky and secretive, disrespectful towards me with other men and never caught on we were married. Same as above. No children, no animosity, no domestic violence, etc. Also, because of it, I did not love her early on. No residual emotional baggage. Im extremely happy it is over.

Have you ever been dumped? Why? __In high-school_________________________

____The girl I dated wanted to get pregnant. I told her, not with me. _

Have you ever cheated? _Almost_________

Explain: 1st marriage was coming to an end, but I couldnt bring myself to do it. I still loved her very much at the time. I assure you that was long ago. No residual emotions or feelings towards either. __________________________________________________________

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What is the relationship with your Babies Mother like? N/A___________

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Any felonies or misdemeanors? No

When and for what: ____N/A_________________________________________________

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What are your goals and dreams?: To live and be free to reach my fullest human potential in all that interests me and to protect and defend that right for myself, my family, my people and all of humanity. Id like to receive my MCITP Certification in IT, grow my custom jewelry business into a successful venture, meet the woman who can fill in and be my life partner in all things. To be in a position to give back to children by establishing computer labs and teach the youth how to fix hardware, write programs and remove malware and hacking skills. To someday maybe be blessed with children of my own (birth, adoption, etc.)____________________________________

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When was the last time you were test for HIV/AIDS? September 2006

Would you be willing to provide testing results? Yes

Would you be willing to get tested together? Yes

Are you A Christian? How long?: No I love God

What is a MANS role in a relationship? The problem solver, protector, the head of the household, the final word. A man is to bring balance to his woman; her compliment as they form one unit. His role is to be thoughtful in his opinions, suggestions and decisions, compassionate to his mate, their offspring and people in their lives. To show her what the love of God can be. Mighty but just. To bring assurance that no matter what, strength and courage are present. Manhood is not to be taken lightly.

Are you leader?: Yes

What does that mean to you? Stand alone if called to do so. Make decisions, take charge, solve problems, and be compassionate about others who arent leaders, steadfast and resolved. Be principled and follow a code, remain open and always learning. Trust in God and Self, God-like but not narcissistic.

What qualities in a woman attract you the most?

I absolutely love a woman who loves herself first. A woman who is considerate, vibrant, creative, confident, extremely intelligent, accomplished, feminine, sexy, well rounded, positive outlook and down to earth. Someone who wants to be in charge of her home and her family.

What do you like to do to unwind?: I like to read or listen to talk radio on the Internet from spiritual to political topics, listen to jazz and drink a glass of wine, spend romantic moments (anytime of day) with the one I love. Loving the one Im with. I love to make her laugh and smile act silly a lot. I also enjoy anything that has to do with being creative. Building websites, computer networks, jewelry, science projects, home improvement projects, etc.

What type(s) of music interests you?: Jazz trumpet is my FAVORITE, then jazz guitar, piano, trombone, some R&B (Luther Vandross), some underground Hip-Hop (Old Skool), and Ambient.

If necessary, would you be willing to relocate?: Absolutely

Define a Healthy relationship?: A healthy relationship is built on two people knowing themselves, telling their partner who they are and being up front and truthful at all times. A genuine desire to be with the other.

Absolutely No:1. Name-calling2. Gossiping with friends and family about private affairs3. Physical Fighting4. Cursing each other out5. Cheating6. Lying7. Being discourteous8. Using the police to settle squabbles9. Stealing from one another10. Respecting space and normal privacy of the other partner11. Undue suspicion and delusional behavior

Each person has a right to:1. Affection2. Genuine care and concern3. Help when in need4. Respect for one another5. Activities that bring harmony and balance6. The truth under all circumstances7. One relationship with one person at a time and no side flings8. Courteousness9. Push each other to grow spiritually, mentally and physically at all times.

This is just a few items. All-in-all, its about an unspoken understanding. That look in your eye that says, I get it

If I asked you to do something that is against your standards, would you do it for the sake of Love? As long as it brings balance and justice; yes.

If I choose to accept your application, will you be willing to forget the past and move on? Past relationships; absolutely yes.

If I reject your application will you still be my friend? I do not befriend women Im sexually attracted to. It doesnt work.

You have completed this application. I pray that all questions were answered honestly and truthfully. If there are any questions that cannot be answered state why. Any misrepresentation of answers will be totally disrespectful and will immediately terminate your application. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path. You will receive a response after I have carefully examined and verified all answers.Thank You for your interest! TTYS

Cynthia AldridgeInnercbs.comAKA Mz St Louis