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SACREDINNERDIALOGUE(SID)AtaanaBadilliPrintISBN:978-1-48359-519-1eBookISBN:978-1-48359-520-7© 2017. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, ortransmittedinanyformorbyanymeans,includingphotocopying,recording,orotherelectronicormechanicalmethods,withoutthepriorwrittenpermissionofthepublisher,exceptinthecaseofbriefquotationsembodiedincriticalreviewsandcertainothernoncommercialusespermittedbycopyrightlaw.
TABLE OF CONTENTSATAANA BADILLI
1. THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE SACRED INNER DIALOGUE
2. MEETING YOURSELF: ACKNOWLEDGING YOUR PROSPERITY BY GIVINGVALUE TO YOURSELF
3. EVERYTHING IS CONNECTED TO THE DIVINEA.HOWTOLEADASACREDINNERDIALOGUE(SID)
B.REFLECTIONS
C.AGENTLERSID-SCRIPT
D.FINDINGAPPROVAL
E.RECLAIMINGYOURSPACE(PARASITES)
4. PROTOCOL FOR SACRED INNER DIALOGUES: MODEL-SID FOR ADDRESSINGFEAR AND PROCRASTINATION
5. PAST LIVESA.PASTPERSECUTIONFORBEINGAHEALER
B.TRAUMAFROMOTHERPASTLIVESANDUNDERSTANDINGARCHETYPAL
PATTERNS
C.SIDANDUNDERSTANDINGHUMANEXPERIENCES
D.ENLIGHTENMENTTHROUGHSERVICE
6. LIST OF TOPICS AND AREAS IN OUR LIVES THAT WE CAN IMPROVETHROUGH SACRED INNER DIALOGUE
A.APPROACHESFORSACREDINNERDIALOGUES
7. LIVING YOUR PURPOSE AND RECEIVING PROSPERITYA.CREATINGSPACE66
B.DETOXING
C.CLEANSINGANDCLEARING
D.OURLIFEFORCE
8. WORKING WITH SACRED INNER DIALOGUEA.THEIMPORTANCEOFROOTANDCROWNCHAKRA
B.ACKNOWLEDGMENTANDUNCONDITIONALLOVE
C.ENERGYWORK
9. THE KEY TO TRANSFORMATIONAL WORK
10. FACILITATING SELF-HEALING
11. CASE STUDIES ON SELF-WORTH AND FAMILY PATTERNSA.CARRIE:SELF-WORTHANDFAMILYPATTERNS
B.CLAIRE:HEALTH,FAMILY,CAREERANDLOSS
C.LINA:FAILURE,MOTHERANDLINEAGEPATTERNS
C1.LINADIVESDEEPERTOTRANSFORMTHESEPATTERNS
D.GLORIA:LINEAGETRAUMAOFLOSINGPROPERTYANDWEALTH
12. STRUCTURES, BLUEPRINTS AND FRAMEWORKS
13. SID CHECKUP AND IMPROVEMENT PROTOCOLMODULE1:CALLINGBACKYOURLIFEFORCE
MODULE2:RECHARGINGYOURCHAKRAS
MODULE3:GROUNDING
MODULE4:CROWNCHAKRA
EXCURSUS:SPACEANDMULTIDIMENSIONALITY,EXPANSIONANDUSEOFLIFE
FORCE
MODULE5:ENTITIES,EARTHBOUNDSPIRITS,EXTRATERRESTRIALSAND
LETTINGGOOFPARASITICRELATIONSHIPS(THEEX)
MODULE6:BUILDINGTRUST
MODULE7:CLEARINGUPBLACKMAGIC
MODULE8:HOPELESSNESSANDHELPLESSNESS
MODULE9:SELF-LOVEANDSELF-WORTH
EXCURSUS:ASSESSMENTSYSTEM0-10
MODULE10:HEALTH
MODULE11:CANCERANDAUTOIMMUNE
EXCURSUS:WHYWEGETSICK
MODULE12:THEFIVEBODIES+TWO
MODULE13:LACKCONSCIOUSNESS&PROSPERITYPROGRAM
MODULE14:ATTRACTINGHEALTHYRELATIONSHIPS
EXCURSUS:INTUITIVETESTING
MODULE15:CHAKRAASSESSMENT
EXCURSUS:UNDERSTANDINGOURROLEASENERGYHEALERSANDTHENECESSITY
OFSELF-RECOGNITION
MODULE16:TOXINS
14. AFFIRMATIONS
15. IN CONCLUSION
ATAANA BADILLIAtanearlyage,AtaanaexperiencedanawakeningthatmadehimawareofGod’spresenceandtheOnenessinallofexistence.Heknewthathewould assist others in their awakening process and healing journey.Ataanaimmersedhimselfinstudyingandlearningabouthealing,worldreligions, shamanism,spirituality,psychologyandeverythingrelated tothemind, body, soul and themysteries of existence. Ataana awoke todeep inner visions that allowed him to see and understand future andpresentprojectionsbasedon energy flowandeverything andeveryonearound him.He also understood complexmulti-dimensional patterns,karma,andmorphogeneticfields.
HegainedaccesstotheOnenessandMultidimensionalityofrealities.ItwasperfectlynormalforAtaanatoseepastandparallellives.Itwasalsointrinsic for him to intuitively apply transformational energy whenrequired.Thedeepmysteries of life fascinated andguidedAtaana in awaythathebecameamystichimself,andhesooncombinedhisspiritualinsightswith learned knowledge. The definition for amystic describesAtaana’sjourneysubstantially:apersonwhoseeksbycontemplationandself-surrenderingtoobtainunitywiththeabsolute.
Attheageoftwenty,God’senergywasamplifiedinandaroundAtaanaforsevendays.Feelingthispowerfulpresence,Ataanadecidedtodevotehis life to healing work and to become a teacher and healer. On hisensuing journey, he experienced suffering, unhealthy patterns,
addictions, human trauma, feeling disconnected from source,dysfunctionalbehaviors,thebeautyoffriendship,life,love,andthequestandrealizationofEnlightenment.Aprofoundpurificationprocessattheage of twenty-seven led him to embark on formal studies in naturalmedicine.AtaanaattendedNaturopathicschoolsinBerlinandCologne,Germany, and was later initiated into Shamanism and other healingmodalities.Fromthenon,Ataanasupportedhealingandtransformationwherever he traveled and volunteered his services until he became aspiritualteacher.
AtthecoreofAtaana’steachings,itiscomprisedofencouragingtheriseof consciousness and living up to our fullest potential. Energy andtransformationalworkallowustorememberhowtoliveinbalancewithallofcreation.Ataanainspiresustotunein,activateandaccessallofourenergytounveilourhighestandunfeignedlight.Apartoftheprocessisconnectingone’s self consciously toSourceand topursueour spiritualjourney,atwhateverpointweare,andwhateverfaithwebelongto.Overtheyears,Ataanadevelopedauniquehealingmethod,calledTheAtaanaHealing Method, and established a Healing Center in Nashville,Tennessee,whereheshareshisgiftsinpersonalsessions,workshopsandon Energy Works Radio. More information can be found atwww.ataanamethod.com.
This book is the first publication in which Ataana Badilli shares hisspiritual wisdom and metaphysical experience, and one of his mostpowerfulandcathartictoolforself-healing:TheSacredInnerDialogue.
1. THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE SACREDINNER DIALOGUE
When I was nineteen years old, I did a Buddhist meditation. Whilechanting,Isawinfrontofmeaverybrightaquamarinetopazdiamond-shaped gemstone right in front of my third eye, spinning in a highfrequency. Itmade a sound by spinning really fast and that particularresonance had a vibration in it. It was a very high frequency sound.When it was right in front of my third eye, I had a feeling of beingunifiedwithmySourceandIwasfeelingawarmandsafesensationinandaroundme.
ThatwasthemomentwhenIintuitivelyunderstoodthedeeperlevelsofkarma, the karmic patterns and connections people have, and becametemporarily integrated with my Enlightenment. This lasted for tenminutes, then the diamond-shaped aquamarine topaz gem moved faraway to thehorizon.That’swhen Iunderstood the long journey that IstillhadtotaketobeinmyEnlightenment.
After this experience, I was really sensitized towards karma, andactivated in karmic knowledge. I understood karma and the laws ofkarmatransformation.This is thereasonthat Iknowtodaywhy it’s soefficientwhenwe engage in Sacred InnerDialogue. I knowwhat youractions are causing in the bigger picture of karmic relations. I see thereprogrammingof the blueprint,which SIDmakes possible, and I caninspireyouonthatpathbecauseIseethelong-termeffect.
Like an architect, I can support you to draw new energy pathways tocreateanewhealthierblueprintforyourlife.
It tookme years of experimenting to fine-tune themodality of SacredInnerDialoguetotheexceptionalhealingtoolthatitistoday.Now,IamusingSacredInnerDialogueinmysessionswithclients,andformyself,very effectively to shift patterns and balance blueprints with singularprecision.
Here,I’dliketosharewithyouhowitallcameabout:
Inmylatetwenties,IwasinGermanystudyingnaturalmedicineandonmywaytobeinganaturopathicdoctor.Acolleaguewasfascinatedwitha modality centered around celebrating a person’s feelings in smallceremonial sessions where time was dedicated to discuss emotions. Ifoundittobeinteresting.Overtheyears,Iappliedthatapproachoftenbutfounditnoteffectiveenough,becauseitwasaddressinganemotionwithout effectively creating or changing the inner structure of clients.Without changing their blueprint energetically, the same emotionswouldbere-livedoverandoveragain.
I realized that an understanding of the ins and outs of human’s innercommunication processes was needed to produce effective long-termresults.ThatwasthemomentwhenIbegantocreate,bytrialanderror,SID.Successattheearlystagesmeanttomealreadyconnectingapersontotheideaofenergyandinnerprocesses,creatingconnectionstohisorher deeper states, which serves as a precursor to creating physicalrealities. I noticed that there was a whole energy system andinfrastructuretosubconsciousintelligenceinallofusthatIcouldmake
visible. I developed that system over the next twenty years byexperimentingandapplyingmyfindings.ThisevolvedintoIDandSID,anadvanced self-empoweredquantumhealing system that supportsusto navigate through our inner worlds and facilitate change in a morelovingway.
EnergyworkandSIDaretheidealcombinationtoconnectwithinfinitepossibilities.It’slikeanx-raysystemthatutilizesallofoursensestoseewhatisreallyhappeninginsideofus.Byaskingspecificquestions,itcansupport us to access all of our inner and outer realities: past, present,future,andparallel.
SID can identify andmake visible the blueprint of any person and itoffersamapforanyonewhotrulywantstomasterthislife’sjourney.Itempowers us to redefine our reality by restructuring internal patterns.SID helps us to be more clear, connected, aware, responsible andaccountable, and it allowsus tounderstand thenatureofourpatterns.Wecantracethembacktotheiroriginsandrecognizewhyweputthesepatterns inplace.We’reable to findthecauseof thedifferent formsofstagnationwithSIDandlovinglysupporttheunderstandingofwhytheyhavebeencreated,whichthengivesusenoughfuel for forgivenessandhealingtotransformthemcompletely.
SIDshowsusthedepthsofourexistenceandthedeeperdialoguesthatare takingplacewithinus.Please forgivemyexcitement inmentioningSIDsoofteninthisbook.Also,forgivemy“Germanisms”asGermanismy first language and this comes through in the way I verbalize mythoughts. I am sohappy toworkwith this system thathelps somany,
thatIemphasizeitseveraltimesinthisbook,soyoucanreallyintegrateitdeeply. It’s a self-awareness tool that givesus recognition—andwiththe right approach—it gives us also a goodblueprint ofwhowe reallyare,includingallthewaydowntothelevelwherethedeeperandmostlyunconscious processes that shape our thoughts and actions take place.SIDhelpsustoacceptourowntruthandreality.Fortheparticipantandthepractitioner,itisimportanttomaketheunhealthypatternsvisible,soyoucanchoosetolovinglyreleasethemfromyourbeliefsystemsandfillthenewlyformedspaceswithhealthy,life-affirmingpatterns.
IfacilitateSID,workshopsandgroupsessions.Inaddition,IteachSID.Workingwithme in a group allows all participants to process similaraspects that need self-healing and of which they were previouslyunaware.Forinstance,onepersonmightbringupanunprocessedeventfromapreviousrelationship,andotherparticipantsmightrealizeinthatmomentthattheyhaveremainingresidueandworkonitaswell.
SIDbringsclaritytoanyonewantingtoknowone’sinnerlandscapeorinnermakeup.Theinnermakeupcreatesthe
outerreality,whichinlightofouroutsideexperiencesmakesiteasytoseewhatweneedtochangeforahappierandhealthierlife.Sinceoutsideexperiencesareconstantlymirroredbacktous,wecanwiththisunderstandingdecidewhichpatternstochangefirst,orinwhatordertoapproach
achangeofourpatterns.
Asapractitioner,duringSID,Iprovideclientswithscriptstoapproachanaspectorapatternthattheydesiretochange.SometimesIaskthemtonameitintheirownwords.Thesesentencescontainthefullspectrumstructureofwhatweare addressing inourwork. Sometimes Ibreak itdown into smaller pieces, if required. The scripts provide us with abridge to the issues and give us direct access to them. If we can stayfocused and complete the task, the scripts that we repeat, likeaffirmations,floweasyandcreatechange.
We can apply SID to facilitate improvements or change in all of theseareas: changes of profession, healing, letting go or improvingrelationships, raising income and prosperity levels, stress release,addiction-release, increasing Love and compassion levels, one’sapproachtolifeandimprovingouroverallqualityoflife.
SID,inconjunctionwiththepractitioner,cangiveyouareallygoodgripon themultitudeofdifferentpatterns that are simultaneouslyaffectingdifferent aspectswithin you.We can streamline and focus all patternsfromdifferent livesor life stagesandcan supportaperson to facilitateanychangeinthislifethroughtheuseofSID.
With SID we realize that there is an inner dialogue happening at alltimes. SID is almost like a speech recognition software that recognizessomethingthatwaspreviouslynotvisible,somethingthatmakessoundvisibleintowordsandviceversa,notestranslatedintosoundormusic,our sacred song. This is the inner dialogue that’s happening in oursystem at all times which creates our reality. Once we take time toobserve what’s happening in our spiritual, mental, emotional and
physicalbody,aswellasenergetically,likethethoughtsandfeelingsthatwe dismissedmany times in the past, wewill realize the depth of ourbeings.SIDwillprovideusveryvaluableaccesspointsforchange.
When I first started energy work, I was more connected to radicaltransformation, applying raw energy to change a disharmony in myclients.TheseweremiracleenergyhealingsinwhichIworkedintenselyon a person on all levels in one session. However, this spontaneoushealing cannot last if the person doesn’t change. The disharmony caneasily return unless a new infrastructure is in place. This is useful toremember:
Wecreatedisharmoniesinourlivestomakevisiblewhatisinternallyhappening
sowecanlearnfromitandchangeit.
TodayIrealize thereal transformation lies ineducating,remembering,andteachingwhatneedstobedoneorundonetoliveabetterlife.
Asapractitioner,Icansupportyoutonavigatetothedeepestpointsthataremeanstoclearingyourpatterns faster.Workingwithapractitionerdoesn’tmean you can bypass a lesson altogether or evade the process,but it’s rathercomparable to thedifferencebetweengoing thedistancelikeanaveragerunnerorlikeanOlympicrunnerwhoperformsatafarhigherlevelandhasalreadywongoldmedals.Youcanbeconnectedtothe system to understand the process more efficiently and have yourpatternslineduponastringsotheyarerightinfrontofyou.It’slikethedifferencebetweendiving forpearls in theocean, collecting themone-
by-one, and then stringing them to create a pearl necklace, or alreadyhaving thepearl necklacepresented to you in a gift box.Eitherway isfine,IloveSID.
SinceIamspeakinghereinthisbooktoyouasyourownself-healer,andalsotoyouasapotentialpractitioneroftheSIDmodalitywiththegoaltosupportothers,IfinditimportanttoshareonemoreprofoundbenefitofusingSacredInnerDialogue:
When I worked with clients without using SID, I would (just as youmightdotoday)giveenergyhealingsessionstomyclients.Duringthesesessions, I resolved things for my clients and they usually felt theimmediate benefit from my work. I returned home and had energyresiduefromtheirsessionslingeringwithmeforhoursorevenfordays.Ihadeffectivelytakenontheirenergies,andendedupworkingouttheirkarma.Ineededtocombinesessionsformyclientswithextensiveenergyworkonmyselfforthemerepurposetoclearmyselffromtheseenergiesagain!
Among the many people who are waking up at this time of ourevolution, thereareagreatnumberofempathswhoaredealingwithaverysimilarproblemonadailybasis: theypickupenergiesfromotherpeople and don’t know what to do with these energies. SID allowsempaths to clear themselves from energies that don’t belong to them,anditallowspractitionersnottopickupenergiesfromothersinthefirstplace!
OnceIintroducedSacredInnerDialogueintothedailypracticewithmyclients,SIDallowedme toguidemyclients to transformtheirenergies
themselves and to clear their own karma. Empowering my clients toworkdirectlywiththeirinnerSelfandtoadjusttheirenergeticblueprinttoahealthierandmorelife-affirmingstate,allowedthemtobeactivelyinvolvedintheirhealingprocess,andtoexperiencetheirownpowerascreatorsoftheirownexperiences.Besidestheseremarkablebenefitsformyclients,Iwasalsoabletosupporttheminthatprocesswithouttakingonanyunhealthyenergiesorkarma.
Wordshavehealingpower.
Finally, before concluding this section onhowSacred InnerDialoguescame into existence, Iwant to call attention also to themost essentialcomponentofthesedialogues:thewordswespeak.
IntheBibleweread,“InthebeginningwastheWord,andtheWordwaswith God, and the Word was God” (John 1:1). The word marks themomentofcreation; inthisverse thewordisequatedwiththeCreatorHimself, i.e. with the one creative force in the universe. Words, andbefore words, intentions and energy have transformational creativepower. They create something out of nothing, and transform what isalreadythere.First,thereisenergy,thenthereisanidea,andthenthereis the spokenword that calls thematerial counterpart of the idea intoexistence.
It is a power that is known tomany cultures and religions.There is asayinginIndiathatequally illustratestheuniquepoweroftheword.Itstates that the Indian word Brahma, which is the name of the HinducreatorGodandthefirstGodofthetrimurti,whenpronouncedintherightmanner,willgiveyouimmediateaccesstoEnlightenment,likethe
Buddhist mantras: Om Mani Padme Hum, Nam-myoho-renge-kyo.Also,likethe72NamesofGod.Theseareexamplesofthepowerofthewordandvibration,andIinviteyoutopayattentiontoallofyourwordsbecause they also have creative power. Especially, the words spokenduringSacred InnerDialogue canhave immense impacton aperson’slife. The SID scripts in the chapters to come will show clearly theirpotentialreach.
2. MEETING YOURSELF:ACKNOWLEDGING YOUR PROSPERITY
BY GIVING VALUE TO YOURSELFImaginebeing in a safe place and I’mwith you tonavigate you to thedepthsofyourbeing.Iamhelpingyoutoseeyourselfforwhoyoureallyare and what you’re really doing, supporting you to realize thateverything that is happening is inside of you, the chaos iswithin you,and that the vastitude, i.e. the unlimited possibilities of everythingpossible, is your very core. It is inside of you and also outside of yousinceitdoesnotknowanyboundaries,anditcanbeaccessedtofacilitatehealthychange.Anychaosyouareexperiencingcanneverbeasdeepasyour core, sacred, light consciousness.Knowing this, there is no otherintention than to allow your core light, your unlimited self, to expressitself in the most sacred and healthy way. This insight will mark theturningpointinresolvinganyproblemsorconflictsinyourlife.
Imagine yourself in a tiny submarine inside of yourself. There’s anadvanced sonar navigational system that’s showing you your mental,emotional,spiritual,physicalandenergystatesthatyou’rein,whatyourheartorlungslooklike,andwhatyourspiritlookslike.Thisnavigationalsystemisadvancedenoughtoknowthroughwhatlensyouseeyourself(positive, negative, neutral, current or from a past view point). Theselensescanbeclearedoradjusted.
It’sadvancedenoughtocreateanoverallroutewithpitstopsforyoutogoinandcomeoutinonesession.Youstarttoseeaninnerpathandtorealizewhatcanbedonetomodifyitandmaketheinsidebetter.Youseeasmuchasyouwanttosee,andyouarereadytoseemoreofwhoyouare and who you can become. You are now connected to the All-Oneness,andcanseeyourconnectionssparkingeternallyonthepathofAll-Oneness.Whatis importantis intentionallyconnectingyourselftothe infrastructure ofAll-Oneness because it illuminates a roadmap foryoutoactivateyourEnergyirrigationandnavigationalsystemsforyourjourneybacktowholeness.
Asyoudivedeeperintoyourself,youfindfishnetsondifferentpartsofyour chakra systems catching and trapping traumas and emotionalresidue.Youseethingsontheinsidethatyou’reunabletoseefromtheoutside.What isnot inordercannowbe identifiedandbalanced.Youseewhat roadblocks transpire, ready for you to see and clear them inadvance.
It’sasifyouseeyourselfinashipandthere’sareefaheadofyouandyouknowexactlywhereyou’reheadedandhowtohandlethereef.Wecanidentify the reef ahead of us as SID makes it become visible throughenergyandsoundlikeanadvancedsonarsystem.
Nowwecanseewhat’saroundusasifutilizingthemostadvancedradarand GPS system. Until you can fully see your inner world, a SIDpractitioner, and this book, can support you. It’s like you’re deep-seadiving,andifyoufeelyou’vegonetodeep,youhaveadeep-seadiving
instructor with you to bring you back to the surface, or to the rightdepth.
Understand,however,thereisnolimittohowdeepyoucango.You’reunlimited, not bound by time or space.You’re not limited to this life.You’re not limited to ten past lives or a million lives. You are anunlimitedbeingonlylimitedbyyourbelievedlimit,butsometimesyoufeel you can’t handle your vastitude—that is the limitation. I can gothrough your connections to yourOneness and support you to seeingwhatneedstobeseenandmotivateyoutotransformthelimitation.
Thisnavigationalsystemisnotonlyaddressingtraumaandlettingitgo,it’salsorealizingthecomplexityofexistenceandwhoweareashumanbeings. Let’s utilize thismodality to support the understanding of life.It’saboutrespectingeveryone—includingourselves—whereverweareintheprocess,andseeinghowfarwecanexpandintoourvastitude.
This way, we allow humanity to stop suppressing itself and startexpressing itself in ahealthyway.Oncewe stop suppressingourselves,westopsuppressingothers.Insteadoffeedingtheanxietyananxietypilltosuppressit,we’reabletoasktheanxiety,“WhatcanIdoforyou?”
By acknowledging the trauma, we have just done somethingrevolutionary.We’vechangedapattern thathumanityandourparentshave taught us and imprinted in us. We transform ignorance intowantingtoknow.Wetransformsuppressingintodecompressing.Thatisa formofEnlightenment.Wearemoving frombeingafraid to lookingdeeper into having healthy communication with ourselves.We realizeeverything is infinite, including all emotions, situations and aspects of
ourselves. It seems so simple that a child can do it. But once weunderstandthesystemwealsounderstandthecomplexityofit.Wecanseeandsupportourselvesbetterinunfoldingandchangingintowhowereallyareorwanttobe.
Whenwethinkour thoughtsarecrazyanddon’twant toacknowledgethem, we have to realize that this is suppression. Then we have toacknowledge the suppression and that the thoughts are a form ofexpression.When you think or say, “Well, I better not say this” or “Ibetter not share that,” and you start realizing this is a repetitiveexperiencethat’shappeningoften,thenyouhavetostartacknowledgingit.Onceyouacknowledgeit,youcanardentlychangeit.AcknowledgingyouralreadyexistinginnerdialogueistheessenceofeverySacredInnerDialogue.Acknowledgmentgivesitvalue:
Byacknowledgingtheseinnerprocesses,you’reacknowledgingprosperitybecauseyougiveyourselfvalue.
3. EVERYTHING IS CONNECTED TO THEDIVINE
Everything is connected to the divine so are our inner thoughts.Acknowledgmentactivatesyourprosperityandyougiveyourselfvalue,signalizingtotheuniversethatyou’revaluable.Therefore,theuniverseisgoing to sendmore valuable situations or things to you. At the sametime, acknowledging our inner processes provide us with theopportunity to rewrite them, to restructure them. We’re makingpreviouslyinvisiblestructuresvisible.It’snotaboutmeshowingyoutheinner structures—but embolden you to discover them, I’m shining aspotlight, and you’re starting now to see it for yourself and recognizedeeperprocesseshappeninginyouwhilebeforeyou,yourselfdismissedthem.Andhowdidyoulearntodismissthem?Peopleimportanttoyoumayhavedismissedthem:maybeyourparents,friends,sisters,brothers,or whomever you grew up with ignored your feelings and their ownfeelingsandyoulearnedtodothesame.
Howmanypeopleinyourlifehavebeenconcernedenoughwithyoutoacknowledge and respect every one of yourmost inner processes andlistentoallofthem?Mostlikelywhatyouhaveheardis,“Thisisstupid.Thisissilly.Shutup.Don’tdothis.Thisisnotimportant.Wedon’thavetime for that. We have to do that instead of what you want.” Thesemessages created patterns, that many people still have in their headsrunningonrepeatdeep intheirsubconscious.Thesearesomepatternswhichwegrewupwith.
Decades later, they often still suppress our creativity and freedom.Acknowledgingthem,acceptingtheirexistence,andattributingvaluetothem,asconstitutivepartsofourlifeexperiencesofar,allowsustobreakfreefromsuppressionandstuck-ness.Nowwecancreatewhatwetrulydesire.
When we apply SID, we stop telling ourselves, “Shut up. It’s notimportant.” Instead, we want to know exactly what we are thinkingbecauseweseethevalueinourundividedlifeforceandwerecognizeitsabilitytorewritethepatterns.
Think about it like this. It’s the same as having the most amazingcomputerandrunningasoftwareprogramonthatcomputerthatisnolonger up-to-date. SID is supporting you with the newest softwareupdatespossibleintheMultiverseinwhichwelive.
A. HOW TO LEAD A SACRED INNER DIALOGUE (SID)Whenwe talk about the energy of desperation, for example, it’s like asoftwareprogramthatisrunningonyourcomputer.Itmakesyoufeelacertain way. If you cannot connect to the energy of desperationimmediately, look deeper inside of you and youwill find it.Now thatbeing said, think about a situation in your life, whichmakes you feelhopeless, theonesituationthatyoufeelyoucan’tchange, thatyoufeeldesperate about. Now connect with it. With SID, we are basicallyaddressing that software inyour systembyasking it if it canhearyou.Thisishowweestablishcontact.
Wesay,“Theenergyofdesperationinmylife,canyouhearme?”
Try it for yourself. Close your eyes. Take a deep inhale then slowlyexhale.
Askoutloud,“Myenergyofdesperation,canyouhearme?”
Nowobserveifyougetanenergysensation,hearayesorno,seeacolororfeelsuddengoosebumps.
If you get a response, great. If not, try it once more until you get aresponse, because everyone feels, in certain moments, desperate.Withouteverclearingit,theenergyofdesperationisstillsomewhereinoursystem,anditwillrespondsoonerorlater.
Afteryougetaresponsesay,“Myenergyofdesperationpleasestartthetransformationalprocessandgivememorespace.”
Youreyesarestillclosedandyou’rebreathingdeeply.
Thesewords, spokenwith sincerity—“Myenergyofdesperationpleasestart the transformationalprocessandgivememore space”—willwipetheharddriveandgiveyoumorespacesoyoucanputnewsoftwareonyourcomputer.
We’re now replacing the software of desperation with a healthiersoftwareorbeliefsystembysaying,“Thespacethatwasoccupiedbytheenergyofdesperation,canyouhearme?”
Once you get an answer like yes, no or an energy response like goosebumps,itmeansitcanhearyou.
Then say, “I now fill the space that was occupied by the energy ofdesperationwiththeenergyofidealsolutionsandtrust.”
Wejusttransformedtheenergyofdesperation.Observetheenergyshift.The space that just became available through the transformationalprocessisnowfilledwiththeenergyofidealsolutionsandtrustthatwilltake care of any chronic problems. We effectively changed ourprogrammingfromdesperationtoidealsolutionsandtrust.Repeatthisprocessasoftenasneeded.Canitbethateasy?Love?Trustandflow!
We just transformed theenergyofdesperation.Thespace thatbecameavailable through the transformational process is now filled with theenergy of trust. We effectively changed our programming fromdesperationtotrust.
We can now focus on the next unhealthy software program or beliefsystem. For this demonstration, let’s take on another equally universalexperience, the experience of not feeling grounded and connected toMotherEarth.
Nowcloseyoureyesagainandbreathedeeply.
Sayoutloud,“Myungroundedness,canyouhearme?”
Once we get a response, like in the previous example, we say, “Myungroundedness,please start the transformationalprocessandgivememorespace.”
“Thespacethatjustbecameavailable,canyouhearme?”
Once we feel the transformational process starting and the spacebecoming available,we then ask the space,“Space, please be filledwithhealthygroundingandconnectednesstoMotherEarth.”
To reemphasize our connectedness, we say, “Me being fully grounded
andconnectedtoMotherEarth,canyouhearme?”
Oncewegetaresponse,wesay,“MebeingfullygroundedandconnectedtoMotherEarth,pleasebecomefullypresentinmyeverydaylife.”
It’s likeworkingwith the energy systemof a computer.The computerneedstobegroundedintheearth.Whenweplugitin,wewanttomakesure there isnooverchargeoroverloadofenergy.Ourphysical energysystemneedstobeconnectedtoMotherEarthinordertobehealthyandwell-balanced.Thekeyhereisthatweseewhythesystemisnotalreadyinthatstate,whyitisnotgroundedandhowtogroundit.Clearingouttheold,andinvitingwhatweperceiveasmissingtobecomefullypresentin our lives is frequently all that is needed to effect a fundamentalchange.
B. REFLECTIONSWhen I came to understand that energetic patterns are like softwareprograms that contain life force and are programmed by us, it didn’tmake sense forme to work on anything else anymore. That’s when Imadetransformationalenergyworkthefocusofmylife.
Each person’s blueprint is a network of learned software programscreatinginternalandexternalmanifestations.Inowfocusonobservinghowenergyisflowing,likeawaterirrigationsystem.Wheredoesitneedtobeuncloggedor redirected inorder to reach even themost remote,delicate plants in our system? I look deep into all of that throughmyMultidimensionalitylensandenjoythepossibilitiesandthevastnessofitall.
SID is designed to harmonize and balance the chakra system bybalancing ourselves with the earth, with stars, the Universe, God,Oneness,andourSource.
Weare to look inwardandquestionwhyself-worth, self-loveandself-acceptancearenotbeingallowedtohavemorespace inourbeing.Weinherit certain patterns and habits from our lineage or see as childrenfrom others what we then accept as reality. We say, “This must beimportantbecausesomanypeoplearedoingthis,”anditbecomespartofourbeliefsystemregardlessofwhetherit’sofalowfrequencythatwillcompromiseusorofahigh,life-supportingfrequencythatwillbringoutthebestinus.
Have you seen themovie thematrixwhenNeowasoffered the redorblue pill by Morpheus? He chooses the red one, so he can stay inwonderlandtoseedeeperintotheMatrixreality!Orthemovie,Danceswith Wolves? Kevin Costner was chasing the wolf and the NativeAmerican Indians were laughing and saying, “He’s crazy!” until theShamansaystothem,“Heisdancingwiththewolf.”
HewaschasingthewolfawaybutwhentheShamanwaslookingatthesituation,hesawabeingthatwasactuallydancingwiththewolf.
Asituationmaylookcrazyfromtheoutsidebutwhenwelookatitfroman aligned deeper understanding, it looks different. Such deeperunderstanding is required forus on adaily basis. SID is givingus thissacredinnerview.Thesacredinnerdialoguegetsustothesacredinnerview because we’re seeing so much more with the sacred eyes of theinitiateorShaman.
Itmightlooklike,“Heythisiscrazy!”He’sdoingsomethingthatdoesn’tmakeanysensebecausewehaven’tattributedanysense toaparticularbehavior.Wearenotlookingatitrightunlesswelookatitwithwonder,trueinterest,andthroughtheeyesoflovingOneness.Lookingatitfromthe mundane, boring lens of expectation is looking at it withoutsacredness.When theShaman looks at it, he is in aweof the situationand with curiosity says, “What is this guy really doing?”What is thesacredtruthhere?
And then theShamansays, “He’sdancingwith thewolf,don’tyou seeit?”
It’s like the Bible has it, Be like children. We are to look at life withwonder,throughtheeyesofchildren.Weoughttobelookingatourlifewithcuriosity,observationandexperimentation.
Sacred inner dialogue helps you identify what you’re truly seeing andwithwhatenergyapersonisinteractingwiththeMultiverse.That’showyou truly see the inner interaction that the person has with theMultiverse.Youseetherealenergyofthatperson’sblueprint.
There is a Native American Indian saying that describes us all asunlimitedstarsystems.Itsaystheonlythingwedon’tknoworhaven’texperienced is limitation. That is why we are here on this planet, tointegrate limitations, and to remember our vastness, because it’s not arealityforus.Inourheartsweknowlimitationisjustpartiallytrue.Ourstriving forunlimitedness isbest expressedhere inoneexampleof theMen’s100MetresSprintworldrecordprogressions.In1906,theworldrecordwas10.6sec.In2009,itwas9.58sec.Thatgivesyouanideahow
muchcloserwegottoourunlimitedness.Ittook100yearsforhumansinthe100MetresSprinttotakeabout1secoff.Iencourageyoutolookat the world record progressions of the different Olympic disciplines.Where is that going to end and what is the goal here? If the trendprevails,wearegoingtobe,in900yearsorearlier,alreadyatthefinishline by justmerely having the intention to be there. That’s immediatemanifestation. In other words, unlimited speed or infinite speed.Marathonworldrecordprogressionsareevenmoredramaticfrom1926,3:40:22to2:02:57in2014.Thatisawhopping1hour37min.fasterthan88yearsago.
When I refer toMultidimensionality, it’s a reference that parts of ourselves are present everywhere in this universe in all dimensions. TheOneness, for example, think of it as a pie,wherewe are present in allslicesofthatpieasingredients.Wearepresentinoneformoranotherinalloftheslices.WhenIaccentuateOneness,orMultidimensionality,itisbecausethewholeEnergysystemofAllofExistence(nowthinkBig)canbeaccessedbecausewearepartof it.Multidimensionality is tobefullyconsciouslypresentinthismoment,fullyexpandedintoallrealities,andfully aware. There is a theory that all actions are simultaneouslyunfolding into infinity on all levels and create everypossible outcome,each outcome is a different reality dimension. The question is, whatdimensions are we resonating with the most? We can adjust ourexperiencetothedesiredjourneyandoutcomebyenergeticallyaligningourselveswithit.
Whenyoulookatus,weareallunlimitedenergybeings,andweareallcreatorsofourreality,orco-creatorsat least.Thereisareasonwhywe
areexperiencingwhatweareexperiencing.Thatmeansweareinpowerandinchargeofunderstandingourrelationshiptoanyenergeticpattern.Byusmerelysaying,“Goaway.Justtransform.Justleavemealone.Justbegone,”weexpresswith thesepowerphrases thatwewant topush itawayanddonotreallywishtodealwithit.Thisisnotasolutionbecausewemanifestedthesituationforareason.Ifwejustwanttopushitaway,orbe impatientwith it, thismeanswehaven’tacceptedourrole in theco-creation.Itmeanswe’renotfullytakingresponsibilityforouractions,so,most likely,wehaven’t learnedwhatweneedto learn.Chancesare,it’snotgoingtobereleasedorgoaway.
C. A GENTLER SID-SCRIPTSometimes I apply a gentler script for a Sacred Inner Dialogue. Forexample, when asking pain to start the transformational process, Isometimesaskthepaintogiveyoumorespace.
Someproblemscanbeaddressedimmediatelywhileothersstillneedtoripen.Sometimesyoucan’t fullykarmicallyapproachaconditionuntilyoufeelandtrulyacceptit,ultimately,allthewaybacktoitsorigin.Westrive to totally understand our condition, which means frequentlyknowing in depth about a past life. Sometimes we need more spacebeforewecangothere.Wecan’tapproachaconditionfullybecauseit’snot fully approachable yet. There’s still too much going on for it tocompletelybereleased.
Forexample,ifsomeonehascancerandyouimmediatelyaskthecancerto start the transformationalprocess,without an introduction,withoutseeingitsbackgroundandtheoriginofitstoxicity(whetherit’sphysical,
mental,spiritualoremotional),thenitdoesn’tgiveyoufullaccesswhenapproachingit.Inthiscase,youdon’tevenhavethelevelofcompassionneededtoaccesstheissueifyousimplyaskitto,“Justtransform”.
You can’t just gowith themost powerfulwords—they’re not going tohelpifyou’renotgoingtolookforandacknowledgethereasonorcauseastowhyyoucreatedaconditioninthefirstplace.Aconditionistrulybeing resolved karmically when you say, “I’m approaching it with theutmostrespectandloveformyselfandforwhatIcreated.”
Then you have all the patience in theworld to deal with it and that’swhen the condition will respond to you. If you’re not patient with it,thenyouhaven’treceivedyourfulllearningexperience.We’reunlimitedtimelessbeingsandhaveallthetimeintheworldforeverythingwewanttodo.IlearnedmymajorlessonsfromthecrystalgemstonebeingswhenIapproachedthemwithopenness,loveandbyhavingmorethanenoughtimededicatedtounderstandthem.Thatwaswhenthesebeingsopeneduptome,forexampleOneHumanlifetimeinacrystal’sgrowthprocessisequivalenttoasneezeforthem.Theygrowinmillionsofyears;ifweapproachthemwithatimetable,pressure,orstress,theyarenotgoingtoanswerus.The samegoes forourkarmicpatternsandanyofourpastlife’s,theyareancientanddeeplyengrainedinthedepthofourbeings.Acrystalorapastlifehasbeenaroundforsometimeandwithoutpatiencewearenotreachingthepropermomentum,compassionorzeropointtoaccessthem.
Whenwegettoakarmicunderstandingofacondition,wesay,“Wow,thatcomesfromsuchadeepplace.Itdoesn’tcomefromthislifetime.It
comes from another lifetime.” In this way, you’re approaching it withmuchmorecare,respectandawideranddeeperunderstanding.”—Asifyouwantedtobringsomethinguptothesurfacefrombeneaththewater.Thedeeperitisinthewater,thedeeperthebreathhastobethatwehavetotaketoreachitinitsdepth.Bydoingthat,you’regivingitthespacetotransform—andyouhave,firstofall,enoughloveandcompassionforit.Inexchange, thisattitudeallows thepattern tobe fullyconsideredandrespected,andthenitwillinglywillworkwithus.
With the karmic realization experience that I had with the Buddhistmantra, and the enlightening moment, I felt all of a sudden warmth,wholeness,care,cominghome,andremembranceofmygifts.SimilartothetimewhenIsawtheEmeraldGreenDonut(EGD),whichisaformofexperiencingGod’spresence throughgeometrical shapesandcolors.With this knowledge, Iwas able to see energy infrastructures.All of asudden, I could see everything (the energy patterns, the karmicrelationships people had and the flow of their energy). That’s when Irealized the connectionbetweenour energyblueprint and thephysicalmanifestationsinourlives.
WhenIworkwithSacredInnerDialogue,I’mlookingdeepintowhat’sgoingoninaperson’spastlife,parallellife,andcurrentlifewithrespecttotheiroverallassociationtotheMultiverse.
Thepresenceofapractitioner isbeneficial, especiallyat thebeginning,when we wish to access deep patterns that might have originatedlifetimesago.However,everyonecandothis.Everyonecanlookintothedepthofthemselves,intotheirownorsomeoneelse’slife.
SIDallowsustoapproachnon-servingpatternsfromaholisticpointofview.Wecanconsidereverythingasaccessible(whatishappeningnow,current situations, opportunities, possibilities, past lives, future lives,business projects, relationships, personal life, and everything that wewanttochange).
We canheal our lives, andwe can experience our lives asmore joyfulandprosperous.Yet,healing isdifferent from“perfecting”our livesorourselves.Wearealreadyideal.Wearealreadycomplete.Wejusthavetorememberthatweareidealandcomplete.
SIDsupportsustorecognizewhatstructureisinplaceandsupportsustocreateanewhealthyinfrastructureandblueprint.Italsosupportsuswith the deeper aspects of shame, guilt and emotions that can beaddressedimmediately.ThisincludesabandonmentfromSource,feelingrejected,notbeingconnected,beingseparated fromone’spower,one’sSource,fromone’sGodorGoddessconnection.
D. FINDING APPROVALWe’regoingintoaplacewherewecanaddressourwholesacredsystem.Ifwelookatallthereligions,theyallsaywearemadeintheimageoftheCreator. Igoevensofaras tosayweare themirror imageof thesolarsystem.Ourphysical structure, thewayourorgans are laidoutwithinourbody,issimilartothelayoutoftheplanetsandofsunsandstars.WeareliterallymadeintheimageofthegalaxyandtheMultiverse.
For example, if you feel hopeless or powerless you can simply activateyoursunsysteminyoursolarplexuschakraandthesunpowercantruly
workandmanifestitselfinyouandbringbackhopeintoyourlife.That’sthepowerofconsciousnessthatwepossess.
WhenKrishnaandShivawereincarnated,theycouldtouchanareaontheir body, go to the corresponding counterpart in the galaxy and bepresent there, almost like by virtue of a beaming device. Parts of usresonateandrespondtopartsoftheMultiverse,andwecanbeanywherewe want to be. So lets be fully present here in this moment first tostrengthenourlifeforce.
Oncewecometothisplanetandweincarnateinthebody,wearepre-approved for unlimited amounts of abundance, opportunities,possibilities and happiness. The toughest part was coming here andbecomingincarnated.Onceincarnated,wearefullypre-approvedforallthingspossible.Wedon’thave todomuch in termsofgaining furtherapprovalexcept to loveandapproveofourselves.Oncewerealize this,wehaveaccesstounlimitedresources.
I’mnotsayingthisfromalazyperson’spointofview.Ofcourse,wehavetobewillingtodoeverythingneededforourpurpose,butwecomefromtheknowledgethateverythingisalreadyavailabletous.
Ultimatelyit’saboutusapprovingofourselves.Weputthestampofapprovalonourselves.
Letmebethequalitycontrolandapproveofyounowinthismoment.Ultimately, you have already approved yourself. If you weren’t pre-approved, you couldn’t come through thewormhole and be born intothisworld.Nobody is sneaking inhere.Youareenteringabigprocess
and you are focused on being incarnated. The stars have to be right.Everything has to be aligned. You are born within a specific staralignment. Ithas informationabout yourmeaningful life,makeupandgiftsyoubringwithyou.Canyouimaginethecomplexplanningthatisrequiredforallbeingstobebornwheretheyneedtobe?VerymuchlikeHisHolinesstheDalaiLama,toknowwhatfamilytobebornintoandtobefoundandrecognized?
It is as if all the stars are giving you specific energies (Star light). It’sinterestingtoseewhatpartoftheworldpeoplearechoosingwhentheyincarnate.Thedialhastobeputintotherightplaceattherighttimeandthen you can come in. There is no coincidence. Everything has to belinedup.Then,boomhereyouare.You’reborn.You’vealreadydonethefinemechanicalwork. The rest is actually living your life, being takencareof,andallowingyourgiftstobeshared.
Ourexistenceonthisplanetisnotaboutwondering,“WhatdoIneedtodo to be approved by others?” That type of thinking makes us veryvulnerable.Whenwe look for outside approval, we can be very easilycorrupted.Whenweapproveofourselvesbecauseweknowwhoweare,we will receive approval without having to do anything that we don’twanttodo.
Let’slookmoredeeplyatourfrequentattemptstogainapproval,whicharenotneeded. It’s likewhen you’re sitting in a restaurant and you’replacinganorderwiththepersonsittingnexttoyou.Theyrespond,“SureI can approve and take your order, but your order isn’t going to gothroughbecauseyouhaven’tputyourorderinwiththewaiter.I’mnot
the waiter, but I sure appreciate you giving me the opportunity toapproveordisapproveofyourchoice.”
Theyrespond,“SureIcanapproveandtakeyourorder,butyourorderisn’tgoingtogothroughbecauseyouhaven’tputyourorderinwiththewaiter. I’m not the waiter.” But I sure appreciate you giving me theopportunitytoapproveordisapproveofyourchoice.
People can say, “Yeah,we’re approving of you”, but the only approvalyouultimatelyneedisyourownapproval.Ultimately,youarethewholescenario:thewaiter,theowner,thechefandthepersonnexttoyou.Thechannel of approval is one’s self and the only approval needed is self-approval.
Infact,youneedtorecognizethatyou’realreadypre-approved.You’regoingaroundandlookingforapprovalfromeverywhereoutsideofyouandthatapprovalisnotdoinganythingforyoubecauseit’semptyandonly temporarily satisfying. You still don’t feel approved even if ahundredmillionpeopleapproveofyou.Theonlythingthat’shappeningisthatyouarefillingtheemptyspaceinsideyouforafleetingmomentuntiltheneedforapprovalarisesagain.Anditwillariseagainandagainuntilweapproveofourselves.
It’sthesamewithactorsandactresseswhogotoauditionstobecastforarole.Thedirectorandproducersitthereandsay,“Thispersonisnotagoodfitforthisrole.We’regoingtocastanotherpersonforthisroletoseeifthatpersonisabetterfit.”
Thissetsupactorsandactressestolearnaboutrejection.Theyarebeingrejected and rejected and rejected and ultimately becoming adept of
rejection and approval. By the time an actor receives one role, he hasauditionedforahundredroles,orwasluckywithconnectionstogetthefirst role. Anytime there’s an audition, there’s the huge risk of beingrejectedbecauseanotherhundredpeoplewantthesamerole.
You’restressedallthetimebecauseyouhavetoproveyourselfinfrontofahundredotherpeoplewhoalsowantthatjob.Whatmakesyoubetterthanthesepeople?
They are likely just as good as you are which means you are facingconstantly the risk of very serious and possibly even higher levels ofprobablerejection.
Actors and actresses experience this and becomemasters of rejection.Themoment theysay,“Idon’tcare if I’mrejectedornot,”and they’renot taking it as serious or personal anymore, that’s when they’rebecoming successful.Andguesswhat?They’re receivingapproval lateron in their careers by others because, at the same time, they becomemastersofapproval.
When you make a good movie and it’s successful, all of a suddeneveryoneisapprovingofyouandeveryonewantstobearoundyou.
It’s thesamewithstanding in frontof thepeoplewhosayyesornotoyouraudition.You’redoingyourbestbutyou’renotdependingonthatapproval.Onceyoustartapprovingofyourself,allgoodthingswillcometoyou.
Thatmeansyouhavetoapproveofyourselffirst.Whenyou’renotafraidofrejectionanymore,andyouaregoingafterapart,you’renottryingto
avoid thenegativechargeanymore.Youcanenjoy theexperience.Thesituation doesn’t have an emotional disappointment value associatedwith it because it doesn’t do anything for or against you. It’s like youdriving your car and are already late to a very importantmeeting, buthavetostopataredlight.Thisdoesn’thappentoyoubecauseyou’reabadperson,orthelightchosetosabotageorrejectyou.No,thesearethestepsofparticipatingintraffic.Letmeaskyou,isn’ttrafficsometimesanamazingteachertomirrortouswhereweareinlife?
Themore you audition, the better you get. The less you’re afraid, thebetteryoudealwithrejection,thelessit’sgoingtohurtyouandthemorerelaxedyou’regoingtobe.
Onceyougetbetterinlearningyourcraft,yougointhere,youshowup,and itmay fityouor itmaynot.Youmightmeetanotherpersonwhomakesyourdaybetter,ortheauditionisagoodexperienceinlife.Itcanbeagooddayevenifyoudon’treceivetherole.
Youremain inyourpower, rather thanparticipating inanyconflictbysaying,“IfIdon’tgetthis,it’sbecauseI’mnotgoodenough,orI’mnotlookingthiswayor thatway.”There’snoneedtostart the inner“loserdialogue”. Instead, enjoy being out there and enjoy having theopportunity to learn, to experience, and to be joyful, all while gettingbetter at the craft and instead of the “loser dialogue” start the SacredInnerDialogue.
Your art does not depend on anything else when you’re already pre-approved.Thegoodthingsarestartingtofindyoubecauseyouremovedtheobstacles, theangst isgone.Themomentyoustill feel theneed for
approval,you’regivingyourpoweraway.Themoreyougetoutthereinfront of the world (it doesn’tmatter what they think about you!), themoreyou’reapprovingofyourself.That’simportant.Youknowwhoyouare.You are subconsciously giving thepeople aroundyou instructionson how to approach and treat you. Start remembering your fullpotential,approveandimproveonadailybasis.
When you know who you are, another person’s judgment doesn’tnegatively affect you because no other person can define you. Youractions, your thoughts, your service, your love, your beingness isdefining you, not someone else.We carry this sense of unconditionaland unlimited approval in ourselves. When we recognize this andactivate it, we’re going to be approved by ourselves and by theMultiverse.
Whenyourealizethatyouarealreadypre-approvedandyouaresimplyfocusedonapprovingyourself,you’reletting
goofawholelotofstress.
It is about energy. The energy of approval is a high frequency.Whensomebody approves of you, lets say a bank or an Investor, access toFunds and resources for your projects are effortless. You now are inpossession of a beautiful certainty: You know that you don’t have towaste your energy with proving yourself constantly to the investor orbank.You’realreadyapprovedforthatloan.Thisfrequencyofapprovalis a bigdeal because it gives you access to experiencing awhole lot ofexpansion, space and leverage. Sooner or later, you will rejoice inyourselfandfillthisspacewithyourownapproval.
However, themorepeople impute approval on you, themore you cangainspace toapproveofyourself, too.Eitherway,youaregoingtogetthere,but it’sawhole lotmorework ifyouconstantlybelieve thatyouhave to do something for someone else first. That’s particularlytroublesomebecause there isnothingperfectyoucando long-termforanybody becausenobody canmake it better for themselves other thanthat very person herself or himself, and thatmakes gaining long-termapprovalfromothersamostunrealisticgoal.
Wecandosomethinginaperfectwayforsomebody,butapersoncanstill do it better on their own. Until one has done it for oneself, onecannotfullyshowhisownself-lovetoone’sself.Itdoesn’tmatterifyoulovesomeonedearlyanddoeverythingforthem,it’snevergoingtobeasvaluableasitiswhentheyarereallywithkindnesslovinglydoingitforthemselves.
You’regoingtogetclosebutit’snotgoingtobeperfect,andthus,you’renotgoingtobeeverfeelingsatisfiedorbefullyapproved.Thatpersonisgoingtojudgeandsay,“Itwasgood,butnotperfect.”
Whenpeopledependonotherpeople’sapproval, it’sneverreallygoingtopanoutbecauseultimately thatapproval isalwaysgoing tobesour.Youhearresponsessuchas,“Itwasgood,but thisandthatcouldhavebeen done better. I would have done it this way or that way. It’s notsatisfying.”
That’s why Sacred Inner Dialogue is one of the most powerful toolstoday in the healing world. It gives us an easy access to whatever ishappeninginthemoment.Wecanidentifyitandactuallyaddressit.As
we’readdressingit,wecanstartmodifyingandstreamliningour life totheideallifewewanttoexperience.
The key to understanding the protocolwith SID is to first understandhowitworkswhenthesystemworksonourselves,fromtheinside.Thenwe observe our responses to the questions, “What emotions are wefeeling?Whatenergiesarewefeeling?Whatphysical,emotional,mental,spiritual,astralsensationsdowehaveatthemoment,rightnow?”Thenwe start to acknowledge our thoughts, feelings and emotions.We firsthavetoacknowledgethembeforeSIDgivesusaccess.It’slikeacarthatrollsdown the street, forwhichwedon’thave thekey.The solution isfindingthekeytogetintoit,stopit,anddriveitinthedesireddirectionbytakingresponsibilityforourlives.
Bytakingresponsibility,weacknowledgethatwehaveaccesstoourowncar.Ifwejustholdthekeyinourhandsandthecarrollsdowntheroad,nothing happens. Themoment we take responsibility, acknowledge it,andstepforward,weutilizethekeyandsay,“Hey,IacknowledgeIhavethekeytomycar.”Thenwejumpintothecar.Weslamonthebrakes.And guess what? We stop the car and begin driving it in the rightdirection—whereverwewantittogo.
Themomentwetakeresponsibility,acknowledgeitandstepforward,weutilize the key and say, “This is my car.” Once we claim it, changehappens.That’swhenwe candrive it in a differentdirection.We firsthavetotakeresponsibilityandacknowledgethepattern,andthenwecanstartdirectingourlivesinabetterdirection.Ratherthanthinking,“Thisisanawfulpattern—let’s justtransformitandletitgo,”it isimportant
that we acknowledge the situation from a place of Oneness andcompassion.
Lookatit.Acknowledgeit.Lovinglyandrespectfullytransformit.
Why?Becauseloveisthekeyinthefirstplace.
E. RECLAIMING YOUR SPACE (PARASITES)Love(foryourself),loving,respectfultransformation,anddeterminationarethekeystodealwithparasites.Keepinmind,parasitismisaclassictype of relationship in the organic world. It denotes a one-sidedenergetic transaction that leads to the exhaustion of the host andhappens for the benefit of the parasite. Energetic parasitism, orparasitism,describessuchrelationships.Whenpeoplehaveparasitesandjust want to kill the parasites, they’re bringing death energy intothemselves.It’sbettertoclaimbackthespacethattheparasitesoccupiedandacknowledge that theparasites are there for a reason:becauseyouinvited them. You may say, “Well I’m probably not going to be anathlete,writer, actor, artist,musician, energyhealer or painter,” so theparasites respond, “Since she’s not going to be a famous painter ormusician or Energy Healer, that space (that part of her life force) isavailable,”andtheyasktheUniverseiftheycanbeinthatplace.
ThisisauserfriendlyUniverse.
TheUniversesays,“Sure,aslongasshe’snotusingthatspace,youcanbe there.”Then theparasitesoccupy the spaceandafter fiveyearsyousay, “I’m changing my plans. I want to be a musician,” but you are
lackingaccesstoyourownenergeticresourcesforrealizingyourdreambecausetheparasitesbogdownyoursystem.
Theparasitesreply,“Thatwasn’ttheplan.Youdidn’twanttobeanartistatall.”Nowyouhavetoconvincetheparasitesthatyoudowanttobeamusician. That means you want to put energy and resources intobecoming an artist. By saying it, you are claiming that space to be anartistoractivatingyourartisticabilities,whichmeansyou’replanningtoreclaimthatspace.Onceyouconvincetheparasitesyoureallywanttobethere,youwillgetthere.
Remember, the parasites are already established there, in your energyfield; it is theirhome, too.Let’s say they’vebeenoccupyingyour spaceforfiveyears.Theparasitesthinkit’stheirhomeforeternity.Onceyouproclaim with really strong intention, “I truly want to be that actor,actress or musician or whatever it is that you want to be and feelpassionatelyabout,”thenyouhavetostandyourgroundmorethantheparasitesthathavebeenestablishedforfiveyears.Say,“Youknowwhat?I’mgoingtostickitout.Ireallywanttodoit.”Thenyoureallyhavetostartclaimingthatspacebyactingonyourintention.
There’s no empty space in the Universe. The Universe says yes toeverything,includingparasites.
“Yeah,youcangothere,”theUniversesaystotheparasites,“aslongasyou’regivingbackthatspacewhenit’srequired,youcanhaveit.”
But what is the extent of space recall that is required? In order tosucceed,itneedstobeacompleterecallofallofmyspace.Whatdoyou
have todo toconvince theparasites thatyoureallywant tohaveallofthatspacenow?
Theparasitesthink,“No,you’renotserious.Youjustwanttodothisforoneortwoweeksandthenyou’regoingtostop.Wewon’tletyoupushusoutfortwoweeksofpassion.We’llbeoutofhereandthat’snotgood.Showmethatyoureallywantit!”
So how do you show it? With perseverance. Working on parasitesclearing,forexample,isreallymovingyourenergiesondoingwhatyourpassionis.ThefirstthingyoudowiththeSacredInnerDialogueisstarta dialogue with the parasites. Initially, the parasites are not going tobelieveyouandthenyou’regoingtosaywithmoreconviction,“I’mverycertainthatIwanttodoit.”Theparasitesstillsay,“Showus.”
Thenextdayyoutakepianolessons.Thefollowingdayyoutakesinginglessons.Theparasitessay,“That’siffy,let’sseeifyoucandothisfortwomonths.”Thenyourperseverancecomesthroughandyousucceed.Youbecomeasuccess,andsuccessfulatperseveranceandat followingyourpassion.That’swhen theparasites say, “We trust you.Webelieveyou.We will give you that space back.” And you will be moved to tears,realizinghowtheyactuallysupportedyoubychallengingyoutostepintoyourpower.
There’sawayandformofhowyoucansuccessfullycommunicate,“I’mtaking my power back.” This is an example of understanding why ascenario likethathappens.Inthebeginning,wefeelwe’renotgoingtouse the full potential of our being. That’s why there is candida, yeast,fungus or parasites in our system. They occupy space we wouldn’t
normallyuse.Mostof thetimewhenwehaveparasites,attachmentsofenergeticentities,andfeelalone,wefeelstrongerbyhavingthatkindofsupport.(Afterall,theyfillemptinessinsideus.)Whenweinviteentities,we are typically not cognizant of that fact that we are extending aninvitation to them. We simply don’t use our full potential, which issufficientforotherstofeel invitedtousethatpartofourlifeforcethatwe neglect. Or we wish to overcome emptiness inside us, and acceptparasiticalrelationshipstomeetthisneed.
Sometimeswedid itwhenwewerenineor tenyearsold;weattractedtheseentitiesintoourlivesortheywerepassedontousfromthefamilylineage.These entities areoftenwithusbecausewedidn’twant to feelalone, which is not a bad thing.We called them in becausewe didn’twanttobealone,butnowwejustwanttogetridofthem.I’mnotsayingalltheentitiesaresimilar,someentitieswantspace,someentitieswantlife force.Sometimeshavingentities reflectsabelief systemofpersonalinadequacy and this belief system invites entities to occupy our space.Thenwehavetoclaimourspacebackfromentitieslikeparasites.
Parasitesarea little smarter thanwe thinkandhave theability to startcommunicating, too. We start a dialogue with the entities to free upspacesowecantrulymoveforwardwithourlives.ThatmeansalsoSIDhelps to recognize and empower our unlimited self and the power ofcreation or co-creation of ourselves. We are not merely victims, butresponsibleandpowerfulco-creatorsofourreality.
4. PROTOCOL FOR SACRED INNERDIALOGUES: MODEL-SID FOR
ADDRESSING FEAR ANDPROCRASTINATION
Inthefollowing,IwillbetalkingaboutwhatIamdoing,andwhatyouneed to do during SID, and what we do and say. This structure isreflectiveofthefactthatyoucanengageinaSIDbyyourselforassistedbyapractitioner likemyself, anddependingon thesituation, itwillbeyouwhoasksthequestions,orImightassistyouindoingthat.
The protocol for SID asks you first to be relaxed. You can sit or laydown.Closeyour eyes for amoment,breathedeeply andgiveyourselfpermission to bring your attention to the center of your head. Thenyou’reaskedtobeopentoanyanswersthatcometoyouafteraskingaquestion.Forexample,ifyou’reaskingtheenergyofprocrastinationifitcan hear you, I’m also asking you to be very observant if there’s anenergy response, suchas aphysical response, amental response, or anemotionalresponsewithayesorno;perhapstherearealsogoosebumpsorevenacolorthatmightemergeinfrontofyoureyes.Youareaskedtoidentifyanytypeofresponseyouarereceiving.
Once you are getting a response in form of a sensation, you need toacknowledgethatresponse.Askthesamequestiononemoretimetoseewhetherthatresponsepersists.Thenaskathirdtimeandbeverycertainthat the issue is responding. Once it responds clearly, we can start
investigating.Wecanaskwithloveandrespect,“IsthereanythingIcandoforyou?”
If someone asks fear, “Fear, can youhearme?” and the energy of fearanswers,andthepersonfeelsapanicattack,thenaskthefeartogiveyoumorespacesothatwecanremedythemomentarysituation,allowingustostarttheuncoveringofthedeeperissuesandidentifyingthesourceoftheenergyresponse.
Wecan ask fear if there’s anything itwould like to sharewithusor ifthere’s anythingwe cando for it. “Fear, is there anything I cando foryou?”Fearisthereforareason.Whatisthereason?
Fearmight respondback and say, “Youneedme for yourprotection.”Thenyouwouldsay,“WhydoIneedyouforprotection?”
Fear:Becauseyou’regoingtobeconfrontedwiththisorthat.
Thekeyistoremainattentiveandfocusedonwhatevertherootcauseofourfearis.Thereforewecontinueourinvestigationandask,“WhatisitthatIneedtobeprotectedfrom?”Let’ssay,mysuccess,ifI’mafraidofsuccess because it can change my life, then I don’t want it seriouslybecauseof theunknownsituationthatsuccesswillbring intomylife. Imight be afraid of attributing great importance tomyself, and therebychanging the status quo. In that case, my fear is protecting me fromsuccessandfromthechangethatwouldcomewithsuccess.
Fearisnotreallytheissue.
“ForyearsIhavebeensufferingfromfearfornoreason.Therealcauseissuccessandchange.”
AsI’mgoingdeeper,I’maskingfear,“IsthereanythingthatIcandoforyou?”Andyouareaskingfearagain,“FearisthereanythingthatIcandofor you?” Then fear says, “Deal with success. Accept change.”Once itsaystome,“acceptchange,”Iamreadyforthenextstep.
Iwillnowconfrontmy fearwithmywillingness to accept success andchange (or accept whatever the cause for my fear might have been),whichwillallowforthedissolutionofthefear.OnceIfeelreadytofullyaccept and welcome into my life what I was afraid of before (asevidencedbythepresenceofmyfear),Ispeak:
“Myacceptanceofchangeandsuccess,canyouhearme?”Whenitsays“yes”,Icontinue:“Acceptanceofchangeandsuccess,comewithmetothefear.”
Why?
Becausethat’sthecodeforfeartodissolve.WhenIstandintheenergyoffullacceptancewiththeformerlydeemed“fear-inducing”issueinfrontofmy fear, then the fear starts transformingby it self.Withouthavingpushed the fear, without having created resistance, or doing anythingotherthandesiringtolearnaboutthedeeperaspectsofwhyit’sthere,Iam able to lovingly dissolve this fear by demonstrating that it is nolongerneeded.
Itisimportanttonotethat,inorderforthecodetobeeffective,ithastoberecognizingtherootcauseofwhytheissueisthere.Ithastoconnectandresonate.
Atthispoint,Irecommendyoutoimplementanaffirmation:
“Inowlovinglyacceptsuccessandchangeinmylife.”
Repeat this affirmation for the next sixty-five days to take care of anyremnantsofthefear.
5. PAST LIVESIt’safairlynormal—andtobeexpected—processforpastlivestocomeupduringaSIDsession.Theycomeupsothattheycanberecognizedaswell.That’soften thecasewhenweworkwithcrystalsorSacred InnerDialogue. The reasonwhy they come up is because you nowhave thetoolstoworkonthem;that’swhyyoursubconsciouspushesthemuptothe surface. As long as you don’t have the tools, your subconsciousdoesn’t give you access towork on them. Itmight be now that you’reopen to seeing past life issues because you’re contemplating energysystems. Because you are developing an understanding of the inter-connectednessofyourpresent,pastfuture,andparallellivesincludingofallthereis(Oneness).
Yoursystemsays,“Itstimenowtodealwithit,youhavetherighttools,lovinglychangedysfunctionalprograms.”
A. PAST PERSECUTION FOR BEING A HEALERAlmost all healers have experienced in one ormore of their past livesaccusation of wrongdoing and being persecuted because of their gifts.Forinstance,theymighthavebeenburnedonthestakeaswitchesunderthe Inquisition. Many have suffered discrimination, persecution, andloss of their lives for practicing healing, or they died for their beliefs.During the Inquisition, the Catholic Church didn’t tolerate what wasperceived as competition to or subversion of their authority andprinciples, which resulted in hundreds of thousands of people being
burnedatthestake.Therearemanyhealersalivenowwhohadpastliveswheretheywereeitherburnedasahealerorinvolvedinburninghealers.
That is a past life experience that is very traumatic. People werevictimizedbynotbeingabletospeakupfortheirbeliefsandconvictions.Manyhealersfelt,andmightstill feeltoday,thattheycouldnotopenlypursue their healingworkdue to such aharrowingpast inwhich theystillcarryasubconsciousmemory.Thetraumaisstemmingfrombeinglynchedforwhattheybelievedin,whichwashealing.Theywerehelpingandhealingthemselvesandothers,but insteadofreceivingrecognitionfortheirservice,theywerepersecutedorevenburnedatthestake.
Speakingtoyou,toacommunityofpresent-dayhealers,itissafeformetosaythateachoneofusgoesthroughpast lifeexperiencesandstagesthat involve thememoryof torture andpersecution.Most peoplewhoworkwithSacredInnerDialoguesandareexploringdeeperlevelsofthishealingtechniquetapintoexperienceswheretheysufferedtremendouslybecauseoftheirbeliefs.
The same happened to early Christians. They found themselves in asituation,inwhichtheydecided,“Wewillbecomemartyrsforwhatwebelieve in,”—similar to Jesus Christ who showed up to lead peoplethrough different stages of ascension. The stages were: You go. Youexperience.Youheal.Youwillbehated.Youwillbedisowned.Youwillbe tortured, crucified, killed—and then you’re going to be free. It’salmostlikea“comingoutofthecloset”-manual.Afterawhile,yousaywhoyouareandpeoplestarthatingyou,andthenyou’llgettothisplace
where you’re all of a sudden free of everything and youdon’t put anyimportanceonotherpeople’sapproval.
I’dalsowishtobringtomindthatoursubconsciousmemoryofthepastlifetraumacanhaveabroadrangeofimplicationsonourcurrentlife.Itishelpfulforustounderstandthem,andtobringhealingtothesepartsofourpersonality.For instance, in apast lifewhenaccusedofbeingawitch,apersonwasburned.Today,thispersoncouldbeafraidoffire.Inanotherpastlife,traumawasexperiencedbydrowning,whichcouldbewhyapersonisafraidofwaterinthislifetime.
Theseareallmemorizedpatternsandlimitationsinthesystemthatwecanaddress.
IfyouknowsomeonewasexecutedbytheInquisitionintheirpast life,you can imagine theyhaveproblemswith their throat chakra.Becausethey wanted to speak out for healing, but weren’t allowed to expressthemselves, and when they did they were executed. Projections weremadeontothem,castingthemasbeingmaliciousandotherthanhealers.Thispersonwantstohelppeoplebut inanother lifetimeheorshewastold you are a bad evil person. This can, in a current life, present aconflict because they feel resentment about utilizing their healingabilities anddon’t know if theywant to be a health practitioner at all.Theystrugglebetweennotknowingiftheyshoulddothisornotdothisbecauseinapastlifetheywereagonized.TheClashsongcomestomind,“should I stay or should I go?” Even if they’re suffering because theirinnercallingforhealingcomestotheforefrontoftheirlives,theydon’t
wanttotakeontheresponsibilityanymorebecausethey’retraumatizedfromthepast.
ThiscanshowupduringaSIDsessionorevenforsomewhoreadthisbook.However,SIDcaneasilybeutilizedinthesetotransformsuchpasttrauma, alsohealing crystals canbe added to speedup the self-healingprocess.
Here are some examples of affirmations to claim your Energy healingpower:
I’mnowreadytoclaimallofmypower.
I’mreadytotakeallofmypowerback.
I’mnowfullypresentinmypurpose.
Iamsafeatalltimes,Inowclaimmypowerandexpressallofmygifts.
B. TRAUMA FROM OTHER PAST LIVES ANDUNDERSTANDING ARCHETYPAL PATTERNS
Thesamemechanismofconditioningthroughpastlifetraumasthatwecould see with having been persecuted as a healer in the past, appliesequally to past lives of being the king, being the queen, being theempress, the emperor. It applies to having lived in a suppressed state,suchasaslaveorconcubinesetting.Itappliestothewarriorsetting,tobeingthevictoraswellastobeingsteamrolledbyanothercountry.Alloftheseexperiencesarepastlifeexperiencesthatwillshapeourcurrentlifeexperience.Togiveanillustration:Ithadbeensotraumatizingbecauseyoucanimaginebeingthekingorqueenofacountryandyouradvisors
say,“Youreallyneedtogotowarwithanothercountry,”butyouarenotup topar,and theothercountrywins.Youendup losinghundredsorthousandsormillionsofyoursubjectsorsoldiersandyoumightthenbeexiled or executed because of that advice. That’s a trauma that peoplehavewhodon’twantpowerinthislifetime;forexample,theyshyawayfrom power because they had been involved in the destruction ofcivilizationslikeAtlantis.
Ialsowant tobringyourattentiontoa traumathatsomemenhave inthislifetimebyhavingbeenkeptcaptivebyAmazonsinapastlife;theywere kept in cages and abused for reproductive purposes, what inexchangemadethemfearfulofpowerfulwomenandtheyconsequentlystrovetosuppressthesewomeninthislifetime.
Theabusethatisstillmemorizedfromapastlifeisabigdeal.Ithastobedealtwithsoonerorlater.Itcanbeasrecentas“WorldWarII”andbeasfar back as Egypt, Greece, Rome, Sumer, Atlantis, Lemuria orcivilizations that came long before us, as well as experiences inextraterrestrialworlds.
It’slikebeinginonemediaroomwithathousandscreens,whereoneorseveral of these past, parallel, future, multidimensional lives are beingplayedatthesametime.WithSID,wehaveaccesstowatchandinterceptanyoneofthesemoviesandcreateadifferentoutcome.Youknowhowyou can change outcomeswithmovieDVDs lately? You can basicallystopandselectadifferentending.Youcansay,“Thisisalittleviolent,Iwant to change the ending.”You can change anyof thepast lives in asimilar manner, and each change will effect a different experience
overall. Everything is like cogs feeding into each other, creatingmovement.Whatthenmovesinthislifetimecreatesadifferentreality.
That’s what I do when I practice my modality and assist my clients.Whenweworkona life,Iseetheoveralleffectsofeverylittleaction.Isee the rippling effect of each action unfolding while creating a newnarrativepicture. Like a spectator, you cannowpull back fromall thescreensandyouseethescreensalltogethercreatinganentirelydifferentimage, almost like a media puzzle. When you look at it, you have athousandsmallimagesofsomethingandallofasuddenyoulookfromadistanceanditlookslikeacathedral,oritlookslikeaveryclearoutlineofaperson’sface.
Butwhen you look closer, it looks like pieces and pixels of somethingelse. Icansee fromthe inside to theoutside fromthedistanceandthecloseness. I can see the transformation that occurs in the overallevolution, and how new harmony expresses itself. With Sacred InnerDialogue, I can support the overall transformation. That’s why it’s soimportant and beneficial for people to learn SID to the fullest, so thatultimately,thekeytonotonlychangingatinycornerofapixelfromtheleftortheright,buttheoverallpicturewillbeintheirhands.
In thatway,whenweallow thesepast lives to comeup—and they cancomeupautomaticallywhenwe’reworkingwithSacredInnerDialogue—wecantranslate themfromthereall thewaybacktousandsupporttheirtransformation.
Whenwelookintothesearchetypesandtheyrevealthemselvestouswecansupporttheself-healingprocess.
There are twelve common archetypes. Taking this seriously, werecognize:Anyoneinacivilizationcanmirrorbacktousapastlifethatweoncelivedorexperiencedourselves.Thedevelopmentofcivilizationsas well as our individual ascension process over multiple lifetimesdependsonexperiencingallsortsofarchetypeswhobecomeforuslikebuildingblocksforoursoul’sgrowthprocessandeducation.
Ultimately,anythingthatispartoftheexperienceofhumanityisaformof Archetypal past life experience.We all benefit from being open toexploreourownrelationshipstootherpeopleandtothearchetypestheyrepresent.
C. SID AND UNDERSTANDING HUMAN EXPERIENCESThere are people from all types of different places who have faced allkindsofstrugglesthathavehappenedinmanydifferentlifetimes.
This isnot toplaceblameandmakeus feel goodorbad, it’s knowingthere’samemorythatgoeswithanexperienceandthatitisthememoryofatraumaticexperiencethathastostartthehealingprocess.WhenweaskthesepastlivesinSacredInnerDialoguesandtheyrespondtous,wewant tomake surewe are approaching and addressing them in awaythat supports thehealingprocess. Iwantus to start looking at the fullspectrum of experiences and their consequences for our personaldevelopmentovermultiplelifetimesinordertounderstandwhatwearegoing through in this lifetime. The energies, events, experiences thatupsetus inoureveryday life,most likelystemfromapast life.Wecanaddress trauma througha simpleprocess that startswith the followingstatement:
“Mypastlife,canyouhearme?”
Then,whenitanswerswith“Yes”oranenergyresponse,wecansay:
“Mypastlife,starttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mypastlife,pleaserevealmoreaboutyourself.”
Thenwecangodeeperintothatpastlifeandapproachitinawaythatallowsus to really figureoutwhatwasgoingonat that time.Oncewehavemoreinsight,wecanstartapproachingitwithunderstanding,loveandcompassion,whichgivesusasenseofpowerratherthanperceivingourselves as victims of that past life. And in that moment, we havealreadybeguntotransformthetraumaticexperience.
When you find out, for example, that you lived a past life during theInquisitionandexperiencedtortureandhurtinsomanydifferentways,and still feel the pain of being tortured today, the experience needs tostartthehealingprocessonmanydifferentlevels.
Thismeansforusnotbeingafraidtolookatthewholepicturebecausethat’swhenyoucangainfulloverviewanddeepestinsight.ItmighthurtforamomentbutyouwillultimatelyhavefullinsightintoallaspectsofthetraumaticexperiencethatyouaretransformingthroughSID.
Youcanactuallygointoyourwholepastlifeandaskthepastlifetostarttheself-healingprocess.There’ssomuchtraumainthatpastlifeandit’snotjustonesingletraumaticexperience.You’vebeentortured,forcedtosay something you didn’t want to say, or forced to do something youdidn’twanttodo,youweremadetofeelguilty,youweresuppressed,oryoubasicallyboughtyourselffreebybetrayingyourbeliefs.
Evenifthatwasnotafirst-handexperience,butlet’ssayachildsawthishappening to theirmotherwhowasburnedat thestake.Doyou thinkthischildwantstogointoexperiencingmoreoftheirowngifts?Notinamillionyears!ButwithSID, it iseasy tounlockthesegiftsandactivatethewillingnesstowanttodoso.
If you’re being related in any way to a sacred healing circle and thathappened to someone in the healing circle, you can imagine the othermembers saying, “No, we don’t want to be part of that healing circleanymore.”
The samecouldbewitnessed atChrist’s crucifixion.Canyou imagine,you walk with Christ and have this amazing being and his amazingenergy rightnext to you, and the crucifixionbrings the sudden lossofyourconnectionwiththisbeinginthephysicalform.Youmusthavefeltan incredible sense of abandonment and loss. This trauma of havingbeen near spiritual Enlightenment and having it taken away must beintense.ThatcouldbethereasonforseekingoutspiritualEnlightenmentinanotherlifetime,orforstayingawayfromitasnottorepeatthatloss.
Onceyouunderstandthedynamicsofpastlives,wecanuseSacredInnerDialogue and ask, “Any torture that I experienced frommy past life,undertheInquisition,canyouhearme?”Onceweaddressitanditsaysyes, thenwecansay, “Theentire trauma that I experienced inmypastlife under the Inquisition, I now give you permission to start the self-healingprocess.”Oncethat’sbeingsaid,thesetraumaticexperiencesarebeing releasedorhealed.Effectiveuseof SIDcanbe as simple as that,
and from there, we can go to deeper layers, and bring healing to allaspectsofourbeing.
If you just ask my current life and past lives to start the self-healingprocess,it’sgoingtoworkbutit’sgoingtogoalittleslower.It’sgoingtoworkonthefullspectrumlevelwithoutknowingspecifics.That’swhyitisimportanttohavekeypointstoexpeditethetransformationalprocess.YoucanbenefitfromaSIDpractitionerwhocansupportyouinfindingthose key points. You can go into the specifics of a past life withoutgetting lostbecauseyourpractitioner isgoingwithyou.Ifyouwerebyyourself,yoursystemcouldsay,“Thisistotraumatic.Wecangetbacktothispointlater.”—Orwecandoitrightnow,withapractitioner,andyoucantrustthatyouwillbefine.Youcanclearthepastlife,inwhichtheenergyisstillstuckfromatraumaticexperience,andcallyourpowerback to you. In themedia roomwhere all these screens are running amultitudeofmoviesatthesametime,youcanchoosetheonesceneintheonemoviethatyouwanttotransformandwithsurgicalprecisionwewill change the eventwithout leaving you traumatized.You’re actuallycallingyourpowerbacktoyourselfandyouprevail.
During SID, we’re dealing with a full spectrum life experience cycle,which plays a big role. There are many dimensions to the depth ofhumanexistence.It’snotjustone-dimensional,it’smultidimensional.Asyougodeeper,youhavedifferentexperientiallevels.WhenwestartwithSacredInnerDialogue,westartonthesurfaceastoestablishfirstwhat’sgoingon,andwesay,“I’mworkingonthisrepeatingissueoverandoverto reach all of its levels.” And that’s something we can indeedsuccessfullyaccomplish.
Imaginehowharditmustbeifyouwereaqueeninapastlife,butnowhavetoliveanordinarylifeanddothethingsyourservantsoncedidforyou.Youmight feeldemoted,orresentful that life is forcingyoutodosomethingyoudon’tthinkyousignedupfor,andyouconstantlyrepeatexperiencesofresentment.
Beingindifferentrolesatdifferenttimesandacceptingwhereandwhowe are today is so important. Acknowledging is so important.Transformingissoimportant.Whenwegointoapastlifeandwehaveamemory of being a king, and we are suppressed all the time in thislifetime,wekeepwondering,“What’sgoingon?”Wewanttogetoutofthislifetimeandgetbacktoourotherlifetime,andthat’sobviouslynotgoingtowork.That’swhathappenswhenpeopleforgettoapproachthislifetimeasanopportunitytofillintheblanks.Therearepastliveswhenwe’vehadamazinglifetimesandpastliveswedidn’tconsidersoamazingandwewonderwhywehadtosuffer.
What’sgoingonisthatwearefillinginan“experiencewheel.”Wearebeings who are experiencing and integrating experiences, and that’swhere a big part of our learning originates. Whether we deem thempleasant or unpleasant, these are all great experiences that gave usinsights and ultimately created a full spectrum of who we are today.Insteadof seeing themas ahindranceor blockage, let us acknowledgethat we are given through them an opportunity to see life from adifferent perspective. It’s nothingdifferent from an actor or an actresswhodoesnotwishtobestuckwithonlyoneortworoles.Afterawhileyousay,“Icanplayaboutanyrole.”
Themoreversatileyoucanbecome,themoreofafullspectrumpersonyoubecome,andthemoreyoutapinto
yourfullspectrumoflightandpotential.
That’s the same as experiencing ever more lifetimes. We areexperiencing what we are experiencing so that we can become moreeffective. The more we can recognize and focus on our main soulpurpose,themorewecanspecializeinthesefields.
Inmycase,alotofpeoplesay,“Youhavesomuchwisdomthatyoucantapintoit.”WhenIlookatit,IseethatIhadalreadyaccesstoalotofwisdomwhenIcametothisplanet.AlotofmypresentwisdomiswhatIimplementedfrompastlives.Yet,regardlessofpastandpresentwisdom,I and you can still specialize because life is unlimited.You can still godeeperinyourhealingifthat’syourpassionandyoursoul’spurpose.
I supported throughoutdifferent lifetimescivilizationson theirpath tobecome more effective as an advanced civilization. What does acivilizationneed?Whatinfrastructureisrequired?Iwasbringinginanddeliberating on that infrastructure in many lifetimes, and that’s whatcomes easily to me today: how to arrange and to make energysubstructuresvisibleinaperson’slifeandstreamlinethem.Everyonehastheirowncyclesandexperiencestogothroughforvariousreasons.
Amemory isbeingmemorized inyoursystemand that’swhywehavecertainailments,experiencesorlimitations.Isthatgoingtodefineyou?Idon’tthinkso.Youhaveachancetoworkonailments,experiencesandlimitations as you encounter them. SID is as if you were watching a
documentary ormovie of your inner world. Besides having a visceralexperience,you’refeelingthefullfirsthandexperienceofit.SacredInnerDialoguegivesyouaverydeepaccess toyourpast,current, futureandparallellives.
D. ENLIGHTENMENT THROUGH SERVICEWhenBuddhacameintoexistence2,500yearsago,heremembersbeingawhiteelephant.Hehasmanylifetimes,ofwhichherecallscomingintothisworldasawhiteelephantoranotherbeing.
Buddha spoke about themore than fivehundred lifetimes thathehadlived. Five hundredmight seem a high number, yet it would bemoreappropriate to see those lifetimes in the context ofmany thousandsoflifetimesandeonsoflifecycles,sinceweknowthatlifedidn’t juststartsix thousand years ago. Evolution has seen mineral and organic livesdeveloping—being reborn into—evermore complex life forms, so thatwe are truly talking about eons of cycles of time and life. Each ofBuddha’s lifetimesmeans a thousandBuddha lives, and every past lifewas a whole cycle. Buddha has so many lifetimes. If we acknowledgehavingtenlifetimesorthousandsandeonsoflifetimes,wecansaythatintenlifetimeswehavetenfullcyclesmemorized.
One of Buddha’s stories is recalled in the Shakyamuni Buddha,whereBuddha is a rich Brahman named Sumedha. While being in fullincarnationinoneofthestupas(aplaceofmeditation),herealizesthatlife ischaracterizedbysuffering,andhechooses togobeyondwhathehad seen so far and to seekEnlightenment by becoming a hermit andlivinginacave.UponseeingtheBuddhaforthefirsttime,Sumedhaisin
aweandputshislongblackhairdownfortheBuddhatosteponsothathecouldcrossapuddleofmudwithoutsoilinghisfeet.ThisisjustoneofmanyofBuddha’sstorieshowhecametoEnlightenment.
BuddhaservedonthepathtohisownEnlightenment.
Oneofthemostmomentousreasonsexplainingwhyserviceorhealingwork is so important is because you can get to your own personalEnlightenment.WhenwearelookingatMotherTeresaorJesusservingsickpeople,weseeaformofservice.Throughyourenlightenedservice,youpaveyourwaytoyourownEnlightenmentbecauseyouunderstandthatservingyourselfandOnenessiseverything.Supportingthehealingofothersandassistingourselves inourself-healing is suchservice thatwill advance you on your personal path to Enlightenment. ThroughhealingyoucangettoyourownEnlightenment,evenifyoudon’tfeelasifyouwouldhavethequalifications,so-to-speak.
Servicecanhappeninsomanydifferentways.SIDisonepowerfulwaytoserveyourselfandothers.ByusingSID,youcangainunderstandingofyourpastlifetimes;youunderstandthatthroughourpastlifetimeswearegoing intocyclesof experiences thatallowus togain full spectruminsightintoallfacetsofwhatitmeanstobehuman.Alotofpeopledonotyetfullyunderstandthelevelsofpastlivesandtheirsignificancefortheir present existence and their development. Jesus was one of thosewhounderstood.UntilthebeliefinreincarnationwassuppressedbytheearlyChurchfromthe6thcenturyafterChriston,thereexistedamazingstoriesofevenJesustalkingaboutpastlives.
6. LIST OF TOPICS AND AREAS IN OURLIVES THAT WE CAN IMPROVE THROUGH
SACRED INNER DIALOGUEASacredInnerDialoguecanbeaboutanyaspectofourlives.ItisatooltocommunicatewithyourhigherSelf,withyourinnerdivineself,withthe seat of all knowledge, and it is also ameans of connecting toAll-Oneness.Thepossibilitiesofitsuseareinfinite.Inthefollowing,IwishtoshowyoualistingofsomeofthetopicsandareasinourlivesthatcanbegreatlyimprovedandsupportedthroughSID.
Thesetopicsandareascanbenefitusthemostincreatingahealthylifethat we enjoy living and that is filled with those experiences we trulydesire:
ExcellentHealth
Soul-SatisfyingProsperity
Prosperity
HigherLevelsofAbundance
HigherLevelsofMoney
HigherLevelsofTime
HigherLevelsofSpace
HigherLevelsofLove
HigherLevelsofPsychicAbilities
HigherLevelsofMetaphysicalUnderstanding
HigherLevelsofHealingAbilities
HigherLevelsofStarFamilyConnections
HigherLevelsofEnergy
HigherLevelsofEmotionalFulfillment
HigherLevelsofSpiritualFulfillment
HigherLevelsofPhysicalFulfillment
HigherLevelsofMentalFulfillment
SpiritualHealing
TransformingPovertytoAbundance
TransformingHopelessnesstoHope
TransformingUnhealthyRelationshipstoSoul-FulfillingConnections
TransformingtheImpossibletoPossible
TransformingUnhealthyNutritionPatternstoHealthyNourishmentHabits
TransformingtheFeelingofBeingStuck
TransformingDepression
TransformingProcrastination
SteppingintoOne’sPurpose
CreatingHealthierBoundarieswithFamilyandFindingYourTribe
LettingGoofWhatNoLongerServesOurSoul
LettingGoofthePastandTraumaticExperiences
BecomingAwareofBeinginDenialandSteppingintoHealing
MovingForward
TransformingDisconnectednesstoFullConnectednesswithLife
CreatingaSenseofBelongingandFittingIn
EntityRelease
RemovalofImplants
RemovalofUnhealthyAttachments
A. APPROACHES FOR SACRED INNER DIALOGUESThere aremanyways of conducting Sacred InnerDialogues.Here aresometestedformulasforeffectiveworkwithSID:
Start out by naming whatever you wish to work with, i.e., “My soul-satisfyingprosperity.”
“Mysoul-satisfyingprosperity,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers,wecanaskit:
“Mysoul-satisfyingprosperity,pleasebecomefullypresentnow.”
The next example addresses the experience of not being in healthyalignmentwithourserviceinlife:
“Anyunhealthypatternsofmisalignedservicefrommylineageaffectingme,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers,wecanaskit:
“Unhealthypatternsofmisalignedservicefrommylineageaffectingme,pleasestartthetransformationalprocessandgivememorespace.”
Thenwemovetoaddressingmisguidedbeliefsystemsbyfollowingthisexamplehere.Knowthat“better”or“healthier”representsmanythingssuchasmoremoney,perfecthealth,abetterhouse,betterappliances,anicercar,morespace,moretime:
“Mybeliefsysteminwhichbetter isnotavailable forme,canyouhearme?”
Once it answers with “Yes,” then we ask it to be transformed andreplacedwithahealthierbeliefsystem:
“Mybelief system inwhichbetter isnotavailable forme, it is time foryou tobe transformedandreplacedwithahealthierbelief system.Thenewhealthierbeliefsystemis:Betterandhealthierisavailableformeatalltimes.”
Inthissituation,aswellasingeneralwithSID,pleaseutilizethedualityaspectofthepositiveandnegative,ofyinandyang,forsolutionfindingandkeyinsights.Forexample,herewewentfromthebeliefsystemthatbetterisnotavailabletousto“Betterandhealthierisavailableformeatalltimes,”resultingintheexactopposite.
Observehere,oftenIuse“pleasestartthetransformationalprocess”andoftenIaddressitdirectly,thechoiceofwhichdependsonthewillingnessoftheissuestowanttostartthetransformationalprocess.
ReturningtoourSID,wenowaskthecauseofourbeliefsysteminwhich
betterisnotavailableforme:
“Causeof thebelief system thatbetter isnot available forme, canyouhearme?”
Assoonasitanswers“Yes,”weask:
“Causeofthebeliefsysteminwhichbetterisnotavailableforme,pleasestartthetransformationalhealingprocess.”
EmployingSIDpriortosurgeriesisalsoagreatsupportforyou.
Nowask:
“Myhigherself,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”thenask:
“Myhigherself,pleasecoordinatemysurgeryandorganizemyrecoveryinthebestwaypossible.”
Ifyouarethepersonperformingthesurgery,say:
“Myhigherself,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”ask:
“Myhigherself,pleasecoordinatethesuccessfulsurgery.”
Use a more individualized form of SID to increase self-love and thefeeling of self-worth whenever you experience negative programsrunning on your inner hard drive, or when someone is projectingnegativityatyou.Iwould likeustousetheprogramof increasingself-loveandthefeelingofself-worthtoloveourselvesstrongerthanpeople
hateus.Sowecanstayinthepowerofself-loveandmotivateusinourself-healingthroughit.
“Myself-love,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”weaskourself-love:
“My self-love, please raise yourself to the highest level possible andinfuseallofmybeing.”
Nowwemoveontoourcompromisedself-worth:
“Mycompromisedself-worth,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”weask:
“Mycompromised self-worth,please start the transformationalhealingprocess.”
Thenweask:
“Myself-worth,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”wesay:
“Myself-worth,raiseyourselftothehighestlevelpossible.”
Here are somemore topics to work on transforming using the beforementionedscript:
“MyCompromisedInnerChild,canyouhearme?”
“MyCompromisedImmuneSystem,canyouhearme?”
“MyCompromisedAuthenticSelf,canyouhearme?”
“MyCompromisedSuccess,canyouhearme?”
“MyCompromisedLibertyfromOrganizedReligion,canyouhearme?”
“MyCompromisedSelf-approval,canyouhearme?”
“MyCompromisedEnergyField,canyouhearme?”
“IncreaseofConfidenceand“Confidancing”(dancingwithconfidence),canyouhearme?”
Hereisascripttotransformnegativeprojectionsfromyourenemies:
“I love myself more than my enemies hate me” (knowing that theyultimately hate themselves). You can transform any self-hatred in thesamemanner.
The key to a successful Sacred InnerDialogue is to acknowledgewhatthereisthatneedstobeaddressed,toappreciateit,thenlovinglyaskittotransform.
Acknowledgewithwords,andalsowithyourinnerintention,whatyouhold towards the issue that needs to be addressed. Appreciate it(whatever “it” is), even though you might perceive it as a problemcurrently,becauseitisthereforareason(rememberwhatwediscoveredinthatrespectearlierabout“fear”).Finally,commanditstransformationfirmlyyetwithloving-kindness.ThroughSID,youaretakingcommandofyourlife.Yousetthetermsforyourhealthandwellbeingonalllevelsofyourexistence.Therefore,yourgrace,youdon’thavetobegbecauseyouhavethepoweranddutytocommand,likeaQueenoraKing,withhonorandwithgrace.
Whenever you feel unsure as to which direction your Sacred InnerDialogue should take, surrender to the stream of your consciousness,andallowyourselftobeguidedbyyourinnerwisdom.
Usethefollowingphrasesasyoufeelguided:
“Myhigherself,canyouhearme?”
“God/Goddess,canyouhearme?”
“Jesus,canyouhearme?”
“Healingangels,canyouhearme?”
“Universe,canyouhearme?”
“MyEnlightenment,canyouhearme?”
“Multiversalfatherenergy,canyouhearme?”
“Multiversalmotherenergy,canyouhearme?”
“Meowningandexpressingmyfullpotential,canyouhearme?”
“Everythingthat’sblockingmetostayhealthy,canyouhearme?Everythingblockingmetostayhealthy,Inowgiveyoupermissiontotransform.”
7. LIVING YOUR PURPOSE ANDRECEIVING PROSPERITY
Livingandservingyourpurposeleadsautomaticallytomoreincomeandprosperity.
In order for us to bring in and activate the right energy to becomereceptive for prosperity, we have to look at lack consciousness andtransformit.Why is thereabeliefof lackof time, space, friendship,ormoney, and why is that frequency still in our system? That has to beaddressedinorderforittobetransformedandreplacedwithahealthier,moreabundantbeliefsystemandcorrespondingexperiences.
Lack can manifest in many forms. Often it manifests in our job orthrough other activities we engage in or “have to do”, and we canrecognizewhetherwe are in a spaceof abundanceor lackby thinkingaboutthefollowing:Insomeinstances,itdoesn’tmatterhowmuchtimeyou’rededicatingtoanactivitybecauseyoulovewhatyou’redoing,andwhenyoudon’tlovesomethingthatyou’redoing,thenyou’recountingeveryhour.That’slack.Wheneveryoudosomethingthatisburdensomeand exhausting and no fun, you are experiencing lack. When you’redoing something and it’s a loving joy, you want to go deeper into it.That’sabundance.Whenyouunderstandthat,yougettoaplacewherewhatever you want to do and love to do becomes an effortlessmanifestationofprogress.
Wededicatetime,wededicatespace,andwededicateenergytoacertainprojectbecausewelovewhatwedo.
Thatisthefoundationforsuccess.
Success and career is paired with loving what we do. When we aretalking about it, we are looking at how many times we’re doingsomethingwedidn’t love todo.Wehave to lookat finding somethingwelovetodothatdoesn’trequireustolookatitaswork,butratherlikea hobby. That’s why so many people start in their later years withperforming music or painting or doing something else that’s highlycreative.They startdoing it because that’swhat they alwayswanted todo. Some start very late to turn to music, painting, energy work orsomethingelse,andfindthenewactivityhighlyenjoyableandsomeofthembecomereally successful.A lotofpeoplechangewhat theydo inlifetowhattheyreallywanttodo,andthat’swhentheyreapthegreatestsuccessintheirlives.Alotofpeoplelovetheirhobbyandturnitintoaprofession because that is what they love to do and their passionautomatically takes over. Somebody, for example, collects coins orstampsheorshestartstotradethemandmakesalivingwithit.Anotherperson likes to cook, all of a sudden starts cooking for friends and isbeingaskedtocaterforentireparties.
Somepeoplelovetodohealingwork.Somepeoplelovetowrite,sotheybecome writers. We have to bring that love and focus of loving intoeverything thatwedo so that it canbecomeprosperous, andbe fueledwith the energyofprosperity andeffortlessness.That’s abigpartof it.How do we change what we are doing? At a later point in life, for
instance,alotofpeoplewishtobecomeEnergyhealers.Howaboutthatsuddenurge,whereisitcomingfrom?Iknowpeoplefromallwalksoflifewhosay,“I’mreadytobeanEnergyhealer,”Youwonderhowintheworld they came from being an accountant or any profession tosuddenly wanting to be a healer. Typically, the answer is, “I feel mycalling, Iwant tobeahealer.”Theychange theirprofessiontobecomean energy healer, massage therapist, nurse, or they take up anotherhealingprofession.Whatanobleandcompassionateintention.
Instead of self-serving they’re starting to serve humanity, animals orwant toplant trees to support the environmentandMotherEarthandtheoverallraisingofconsciousness.
A. CREATING SPACEEventhoughitisbylivingourpurposethatwereceivemostprosperity,weareoftenafraid tomakewhatmightseemtobearadicalchange inour professional lives.We face fear or anxiety of not having enough.Thatfearstemsfromlackconsciousness.
When we desire major changes in our lives, we are often beingchallengedby theuniverse. It isas ifwe’dawokenallkindsof sleepingdogs and we are suddenly challenged to demonstrate whether we areserious about our desires through stumble stones on our paths.Addictionsareone typeof thesestumblestones.Whenpeoplewant totransform stress in their lives (which is another form of lack sincewebelieve in that moment we are not enough), they typically feeloverwhelmedbythethoughtoflettinggoofpasthabitsoraddictionsinanyformsuchasalcohol,food,sex,orgambling.
Whenpeopledecide to let goof addictions, it’s important for them toutilize theSacred InnerDialogues,because that is already the first steptowardsachievingsuccessevenwhentheystillfeellikebeinginthegripoftheiraddiction.Theystartcommunicatingandeducatingthemselvesratherthanbeingvictimsoftheirinnervoicethattellsthemtheyhavetoconsumeaspecificsubstanceorengageinacertainaction.WithSID,westart by simply saying to the addiction, “Just giveme a little bitmorespace.”
Whenwe talk about havingmore space, it’s not for pressuring youorpushingyoutodoanythingrightnow,itsimplygivesyoumorechoices.Ifyouhavetodosomethingrightnow,thenyoudonothavespace—youcannotaskaquestion—andaremostlikelybeingsuppressed,orfeelingsmotheredbytheissue.
Justonesentence,“Hithere,myaddiction,pleasegivememorespace”ismore than enough to address the addiction. It doesn’t have to betransformedandbegone—justaskitgentlyforalittlebitmorespace.
SID is created to create sacred inner space. Themore inner space wehave,themorewecanexpandourconsciousnessintothislife.Thelessspace we have, the less we can be present, because our habits, ouraddictions,ourprogrammingfrompastlivesandfromourlineage,andour belief system from growing up are all active in ourminds, in ourhearts,inourbodies,inourentiresystem.Ifweaskformorespace,wecanbringinmoreconsciousness.Whenwehavemoreconsciousness,wecan express more of who we really are instead of just functioning onautopilotandexpressingourselvesinautomatedwaysthatarenotevena
reflectionofwhowereallyare.That’swhySacredInnerDialogue is soimportant: It creates space forus.Oncewehave space,wecan start toutilize this space, harness it, and fill it with something that’sstrengtheningus.
Insteadoftheaddiction,wecannowbringinhealthierhabitsofeating,sleeping,andthinking.
B. DETOXINGWhen people come tome and theywant to detox, there are somanylevelsoftoxinsinthesystemthatwehavetolookat,includingemotionaltoxins,mentaltoxins,spiritualtoxinsandphysicaltoxins.Thelastextentofinnertoxicityisphysical,sothebodygetstoxic,too.Alloftheseareinterrelated. It’sgoodtohavea footbathtophysicallydetoxbutpeoplehave to go through detox on all levels because they are constantlyexposed to negativity and toxicity. It is important for them to startcultivatinghealthyemotionsandbeliefsystemsonthelevelsrequiredforahealthylife.
WhenyouworkwithSacredInnerDialogueyoucanaskthesetoxinstostart the releasingprocess,oryoucan say, “Givememore space.”Youcanalsoask,“Toxinsinmysystem,canyouhearme?”
See if you receive a response in form of an energy sensation, physicalgoosebumps,whetheryouheara“Yes”or“No,”orseeacolorinfrontofyour eyes. Any response is important to acknowledge. Also, don’tquestion yourself and think, “Am I just thinking this or is this reallyhappening?” Relax and trust in yourself. Instead of doubting whether
something is happening, take it for what it is, and acknowledge thesensationyoureceivedasagenuineresponse.Oncethetoxinsrespond,askthemtogiveyoumorespace,ifyoudon’tknowyetwhattodonext.Atleastyounowhavemorespaceandarenotcrowdedwithtoxins,andthiswillallowyoutobeabletoreflectanddecideonthenextstepwithmoreease.
After creating more inner space, you can start utilizing your innersystem.
Now you are ready to say, “Whatever I can do to support thedetoxificationofmysystem,Inowinvitethisin:“Healthydetox,canyouhearme?”Thenweaskthehealthydetoxtoenterthetoxicspace,orthetoxins,andtoreleasethemgracefully.
You can also talk to the toxins directly, “Mymental toxicity, can youhearme?”Or:“Mytoxicthoughts,canyouhearme?”Soonyouwillhearthetoxicthoughtssaying,“Yes,Icanhearyou.”Whenthetoxicthoughtscanhearyou,yousay,“Toxicthoughts,pleasegivememorespacesoIcanimplementhealthythoughtpatterns.”
Then the toxic thoughts say, “OK”.—Why do they say OK? BecauseeverythinginyoursystemissmallerthanTheSystem.Yourlifeisbiggerthan any of this. Your life is the house these toxic thoughts live in.Withoutyou, theyarenotthere.Theywanttomakesuretoworkwithyou,otherwise,youarejustgoingtogetridofthem.That’swhytheyaregoing to cooperate sooner or later. In the beginning they may notcooperatebecausetheymightbethinking,“I’mmorepowerfulthanyoubecauseyougavemealotofpower.”Whenyoustartcallingyourpower
back, they will realize they are smaller than you are and start tocooperate.
Know: It’s amirage.They cannot be bigger than youbecause they aresmallerthanyou,that’swhytheyareinyou.Theywouldn’tneedyouifthey were bigger than you. They would go and just be living bythemselves. They will eventually cooperate, and once you understandthat, you can start harnessing the richness of your inner world. Itbecomes a sacred inner world followed by sacred inner space, whichbecomesasacredinnerlifethatturnsintoasacredouterlife.
That’ssomethingthatyouwanttoobserveandthenharness.
“Gentledetox,canyouhearme?”Thenaskthatgentledetox,“Flowintoall aspects ofmy toxicity.” Then you have already put it intomotion,gently, without having to go through a healing crisis all the time foreverything.Youcanjustslowlydetox.
In a like manner, you can effect changes towards more healthfulnutrition.
Remember, detoxing and changing habits is a fun tug of war gamemeasuredininches,inch-by-inch-byinch,untilyoutakeyourlifeback.
As a practitioner, I have encountered people whose systems are socrowded by unhealthy behavioral patterns and beliefs that I talked tothem about their personal inner dialogue for years. I assist them inguidedSacredInnerDialogues,untiloneday,theyallofasuddendoitthemselves.Theycometomeandsay,“WhenIfeltanxietycomingon,Ijustaskeditforalittlebitmorespaceanditworked!”
It’s not just about space and being less crowded, this is about puttingsolutionsintoplacetofilltheemptyspacewithinformation,programs,patterns, thoughts and energies that aremoreuseful for a person thanthepriortoxicmaterial.
C. CLEANSING AND CLEARINGThere’s so much sophistication going on in our system. Sacred InnerDialogueallowsustocleanseandclearinnumerableaspectsofourbeingandourexistence.Hereareafewmoreexamplestoillustratethebreadthofitspossibleuses.
If you look at entities, for example, andgo into clearingyourself frompast relationships or past life attachments, you’re going into a placewhere you have the opportunity to start an inner dialogue with theentities orwith peoplewho passed over.You can start the dialogue atanymoment,evenifyoudidn’thaveachancetoreleasesomebodyinthephysicalworld.You can ask them in their stateofpassingover if theycanhearyou,andif there’sanythingyoucandofor them.Mostof thetime,Irecommendtoburnacandleforthemwhenpeoplepassover,sotheycanbeconnectedwiththelight.ThenIsuggesttoaskthem,iftheycansupportyoutoreleasewhateverattachmentortraumalinksyoutothem,sothatyoucanfreelymoveforwardinyourlife:
“Anyentitiesthataredrainingmylifeforce,canyouhearme?”
Oncetheysay“Yes,”askthem:
“Any entities that are drainingmy life force, givememore space andreturnmylifeforce.”
ThisispartofthehealingbeingdonewithSacredInnerDialogue.
Whenitcomestosuccess,callintheenergyofsuccesstocreatesuccess.Ifyouaretryingtodosomethingandyouareconstantlyfailing,thenaskthe energy of failure to give youmore space so you can introduce theenergyofsuccess.
Ifyouarefoggyinyourmind,thenaskthefogginessformorespacesoyoucanintroducemoreclarityintoyourlife.
If you feel drained or exhausted, then ask the exhaustion to give youmorespacesoyoucanstartrechargingandhavingyourenergybackandhaving your energy available to start doing the things you wish toaccomplish.
Ifyousuffer fromchronic fatigue,andfeel totally fatiguedall thetime,then that’s apattern that you can addresswithSID.Ask the energyoffatiguetogiveyoumorespacesoyoucanfullyrechargeandhavemoreenergyandlifeforce.
D. OUR LIFE FORCEAs a practitioner, a lot of what I do with Sacred Inner Dialogue issupporting people to become more fully present in their lives. It is acommonphenomenonthatpeopleliterally“checkout”whenthingsgetreallychallengingintheirlives.Mostprominentlysowhenpeoplereacha point at which they don’t want to live anymore. Even if theymightmake it through theworst of this challenging experience, their energyremainscompromised.Theirlifeforcebecamelessandlessavailableto
themastheygrowolder.Theirsystemisnoticeablydepletedoflifeforce,andtheyarenotfullypresentintheirlives.
ThroughSID,weaskthelifeforceoutsideoftheirbodies,mylifeforcethat is not currently accessible tome, if it can hearme.Once this lifeforcesays“Yes,”weaskittofullyreturnintothisbody,intothiscurrentlife, so thatwe canbeour fully recharged selves andbe able to attractwhateverweneedtoattracttoliveourpurpose.Lifeforceisthesourcethatattractseverythingintoourlivesbecauselifeforceismagnetic.Themorelifeforceisinourbodies,thelesswehavetodobecauseitattractswhateverweneed, likeamagnet.Whenwecheckedoutor committedsuicideinanyofourpastlives,ourpresentlifewillbecharacterizedbyacompromised life force.Weneed tocallour life forceback tous, so itcanbecomeavailableforus,sowecanstartlivingallaspectsofourlivesfully.
It’simportantthatwegetourpowerandlifeforcebackwithoutfeelingthatwehave togiveourenergyaway toothers,but feelinggoodaboutkeepingour energy for ourselves.Thenwe can attractmore andmoreopportunities.Thisisbynomeansselfish.Abigpartofrealizingthisisteachinghowtokeepourlifeforcebutsendingourunconditionallovetothepeopledear tous.Whatdrainsus is sendingourown life force tosomeoneelse.Unconditionalloveisthehighestenergywecansendanditisthehighestgifttoreceive.
Everyoneisafterloveandloveisthehighestfrequency.
Alotofpeopledenythemselvesinordertobeloved.Whenyougetintoanunderstandingthatsendingunconditionalloveisthesameassending
thefreelyavailableenergyofunconditionallovethatisinexistence,youwillneverdepleteyourself.Ratherthandrainingyourownlifeforceandgiving personal energy to your parents and family members, you cansendthefreelyavailable,infiniteenergyofunconditionallove.I’musingthe example of giving your energy to parents and family membersbecause ninety-nine percent of us give our parents our life force aschildren. This creates more energy in them so they can make moremoney tosupportusandputa roofaboveourheads, feedusand takecareofthefamilyneeds.Whenthathappens,weareconditionedtogiveourenergyaway inexchangeof themproviding forus.Thatpattern isstillactivewhenweleavethehouseofourparents.However,ifwedon’tcollectively change this pattern, we’re still giving away our energy toparentsandfamilymembersinsteadofunconditionallove.Whenweliveour lifemoving forward,we’re stilldoing thesame thing.We’regivingawayourlifeforceandthatdepletesus.
Somepeopleouttherewilltakeyourlifeforcewithoutblinkinganeye.Theywouldn’tevenfeelbadaboutit.What’simportantistochangethatpattern inourdigestive systemor solar plexus chakra andunhook thefaucetsandhosesinstalledbyfamilymembersandpeopleclosetous.
Whenwe’re feeling thatdeficiencywehave to shift it tounconditionallove. When we shift it to unconditional love, we cannot be depletedbecause there’s enough of it in us and in theUniverse.Unconditionalloveisthesubstancewhichwearemadeof.Drawingfromit,wearenotgettingexhausted.
Icallallofmylifeforcebacktometostaywithme.
I now send unconditional love into all aspects of this multiverseincludingmyself.
8. WORKING WITH SACRED INNERDIALOGUE
First we want to know what the person wishes to work on. As apractitioner, I energetically tune in onmy client, then I utilize SacredInner Dialogue and create sacred space to check and balance eachchakra,whichrepresentsacertainarea.Thisallowsmetotuneintotheenergeticneedsofaperson.
If youwant to godeeper into energywork itself, I recommendyou toreadmybooktheAtaanamethod.
A. THE IMPORTANCE OF ROOT AND CROWN CHAKRAThefirstchakraisrelevanttoourMotherEarthconnection.Wheneveryoudon’tflowwellinyourfirstchakra,thenit’sduetoanissuerelatedto mother problems, roughly speaking. Our physical energy systemneeds to be grounded and connected withMother Earth because anyoverloadwehaveinoursystem,canthendispeltoandthroughourfirstchakra.Thekeyhereistoseewhythesystemisnotgrounded.Wethengroundour system and implement a better software on the computer.Once thecomputer isgrounded it isable toachieveabetter long-termperformance.
Whensomeonesaystheyarenotgrounded,itgivesmeaclearsignalthatthere is something going on between that person and their mother.Whenwe have something going onwith ourmother that gives us an
interference with Mother Earth because our mother is our closestconnection toMother Earth. Even if any abuse took place, we wouldhaveexpectedourmothertoprotectus.
Parentsdowhattheycando.Sometimesit’sexcellent.Sometimesit’snotenough.Whatmatters is that it affectsour first chakra.The feelingwehaveoffeelingdisconnectedwithourmotheristhesamefeelingontheearth,inourwork,inourlife.Ittransferredfromourmothertothenextbiggermother,which isMotherEarth.Then thenextbiggermother istheMotherDivine,MotherMary,ortheGoddess.
That’sthedisconnectednessthatwewillthentransfertothenextbiggerissue because that’s our experience. The subconscious program is thatMotherEarthisthesameasourownmother.Ifwehaveimbalancesinour first chakra,we are conditioned tobelieve that she isnot going toshowupwhenweneedHer.Oursystemthinks,“It’sarepeatingpattern.Mother Earth acts the same way as my own mother.” One way oranotherwe’redrawingtheconclusion,“Ifmymotheristhisway,soarethe restof the femaleson theplanet.Gettingalongwith the females isnotgoingtobeeasybecausetheyjusttake,don’tgiveenough,orarenotpresent.”
However, our biological mother or mother figure who raises us hasnothingtodowithMotherEarthinthesensethatshedidn’tshowupforus.MotherEarthguideseverystepwetakebecauseMotherEarthisrightunderneath our feet. She supports and carries us, including ourbiologicalmother.
Another key check besides the first chakra, is checking how well theseventhchakraflows.TheseventhchakraisourmaleconnectiontoGod.Iftheseventhchakraisnotflowing,there’samale-relatedproblem.
Wecaneasilydetectwhetherthere’sadeficiencyinthechakrabyputtingourhandsonthecrownchakra.Icantellwherethereisadeficiencyintheenergy fieldandwork throughwhat thechakrasrepresent toguideyou through the healing process. The samemechanismworks for anyotherchakra.
Therootandcrownchakraareofeminentimportance.Wecan’tsayoneis the highest and the other is the lowest because some say there areotherchakrasabovetheheadandunderneathourrootchakra.Thefirstchakraandseventhchakraaresimpleaccesspointstoourenergysystem.Wecantelliftherearedeficienciesandapproachthesedeficienciesveryeasily through the first and seventh chakra.This iswherewe start ourenergeticmapping.
Let’s say we discover a deficiency in the root chakra.We ask, “Whathappened between you and your mother?” “Were you not breastfed?Were you abandoned? Neglected?”When the first chakra doesn’t feelconnected to earth, that’s a sign of separation. It’s the same with thecrown chakra. We ask, “Do you feel emotionally rejected from yourfather?” If he was unavailable, that’s an absence, a form of rejection,abandonment at the core, feeling separated, undernourished, andunsupported.Disconnection ineitherof these twochakrasneeds tobemended.To liveahealthy life,weneed tobereconnected to these twoprincipal,life-givingsources.
The fatherand themotherhereonearthare smaller representativesoftheGreaterGodandGoddessMotherEarth. Ifwehaveaconflictwithourmotherorfather,we’reprojectingthisontoourmainMale,FemaleSource.Itmeansweareharboringseparation.
When thathappens, it’s adeficiency.Weareautomatically agreeing tothedeficiencyoffeelingmalnourished,rejectedandabandonedandfeelGodisdoingthesamethingtous.OurparentsabandonedusandwearetemptedtothinkthesamethingaboutGodorourSourcebecauseofourexperience, and the subconsciousprojects this to thenexthigher level.It’s like having a diplomat in your country and that diplomat in thecountry doesn’t want to talk to you, and you automatically think thePresidentdoesn’twanttotalktoyoueither.
Everyone isadiplomatandeveryone isareflectionof the infinite.Thenexthigherpartisaconnectiontoinfinity,andthesubconsciousputsablocking pattern on it, where you block the bigger picture. Yoursubconsciousdoes it automaticallybecause itdoesn’t think in termsofhigher levels of wholeness. It sees what has happened and remains inlimitation instead of unlimitedness. That’s why it is so important toconsciouslyconnectyourselftothehigherlevel.
Whenwegiveenergytothedeficientchakrasandbalancethem,thenwearereadytogodeeperintoSacredInner
Dialogue.
B. ACKNOWLEDGMENT AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Ifsomethingisnotacknowledged,itdoesn’tmatterhowmanytimesitisbeing communicated, a dozen or million times, communicating thepatterndoesn’tchangeit—itactuallyreinforcesthepattern.Ifyoudon’tacknowledge it, it doesn’t mean anything. That’s why people repeatpatterns.Youare still fosteringapattern fromchildhood, and it isnotbeingacknowledged.It’sbeingrepeatedatthismomentwithpeopleandyoudon’tknowwhy.It’sassimpleasgoingbacktothemomentwhenitwascreatedandacknowledgingit.Aslongasitisnotacknowledged,thatpatternstillrunsuncontrollably.
WhenIsayacknowledge,youhavetoaskme,“HowdoIacknowledge?”That is very significant because you can acknowledge something,acknowledge something, or truly acknowledge something. It’s not meacknowledgingit,it’snottheoutsideworldacknowledgingit,itiswhenyouacknowledgesomethingthat’shappeninginsideofyou,right?Somepatternsyoucanacknowledge,and“poof,”theyaregone.Somepatternsrequireyoutoreallyunderstandthemintheirfullcomplexity.Wasitapastlifeexperience?Didthepatternstartinthislife?Doesitstemfromchildhood?Whenwastheexactmoment?Alotofpeoplealreadyknowthey had, for example, a traumatic experience of sexual or verbal oremotionalabuse,let’ssay,attheageofseven.Wecanthendirectlytravelbacktothatmomentintime.
I like these types of consultations because you already knowwhat youwanttoworkon.Yousay,“Iwanttoworkonthisabusepattern,”or,“Iwant to changemy approach of how Iwant to do something.”As thepractitioner, I ask, “When did you start doing it thisway?” So far,wehavebeenexperiencingpatternsofsuppression.Nooneinyourlifehas
everbeentrulyinterestedinknowingwhat’shappeningwithyou.Yourpatternsaremoreinterestedinnotbeingacknowledged.Sometimesitisnoteasytorememberandeventorepeatthewordssincethepatternstrytoprotectthemselves.Wearechangingtheneuronsandarelayingnewpathways inyourbrain.That’swhyit issometimesbetter torepeat theproclamationsseveraltimes.Andbyustrulysayingthesewords,weareacknowledging and accepting these new pathways. There are infinitedefinitions of acknowledgment. Everyone’s definition ofacknowledgement is different—this iswhy it’s important that you, notme, fully acknowledge your pattern. True healing happens as theacknowledgment happens. You are actually confronted with the lifeenergy of the event, with the core dynamic that was present at thecreationofthispattern.That’sastraumaticandasintenseasitwaswhenyouwererightinthatmomentwhenitactuallyhappened,butyouknownowthatyouaresafebecauseI’mrighttherewithyou.
That’s why you can go deeper in a Sacred Inner Dialogue that youengage inunderprofessionalguidance.That’salsohowyouareable toacknowledgeat thesametimethepatternin its fullenergeticpresence.I’mtheresupportingyoutoredirectthatenergyinahealthyway.That’swhatmakesthedifference.Toacertainextentitismyacknowledgmentaswell,andthroughmyconnectednesstotheOneness,allofexistenceiswitnessingwhat’shappeningandmore importantly thananythingelse,you are actually acknowledging what’s happening without feeling youhavetosuppresstheexperience.
Have you heard the saying, sunlight is the best disinfectant by LouisBrandeis?Ifnot,youhavehearditnow.Onceyoubringanyexperience
up to the surface, it is already part of the transformational process. Itoccupiesspace.Littlerootsgoallovertheplacebecauseitfindsperfectsoil in our subconscious. With SID, we are really diving into thesubconscious,intothefertilegroundofourinnerexistence,andhereweare deciding which plants are healthy for us and which ones are not.From there, we can break through to the super conscious, to all themulti-dimensionalityofexistence.Butitreallystartsinthesubconscious,that’swhere the seedling breaks through the soil, and bywatching thesprout,weseehowbigitspotentialforgrowthisthere.Thenwecansay,“Hey, I want that space in there to plant a good seed instead of atraumaticseed.”
Aftertheacknowledgmentandobservingthefullextentofthedepth,wecan see whether we really are in theOneness. If you are not, you seedualitiesasgoodorbad.TheOnenessisanacceptanceofaphenomenonbeyond its appearance. InOneness, youdon’t judge if it’s goodorbadbecause it’s energy. Some duality is necessary. We are not so muchjudgingorcondemningthedualityasweareallowingit tosupporttheOneness. It’salmost likeplayingapiano. Ifyouplayapiano,youhavetheblackandthewhitekeys.Whenyouplaythepiano,thesongcannotbeplayedwithouttheblackkeysorwithoutthewhite.Theybothhavetoworktogetherinbalancetomaketheidealsong.Thesongismadewhenboth typesofkeysareplayed toget theperfect songout.Thedifferentnotesgrounded indualitycreate thisOneness song.That’showwearecreatingOneness.
Dualityisbeingintheconflictstage.FromtheplaceofOneness,thatconflictisalreadyresolved.
ThereisalsoaninterestingconnectionbetweenSIDandsoundhealing:
Thefrequencyofaddressinganissueandcommunicating,resettingandreplacing a dysfunctional pattern with a healthy program, rewires theneuronsof thebrain. Inorder togauge themomentof this rewiring, Ioften let the clients repeat the SID protocol until I feel the soundfrequencyisaligned.Ihighlyrecommendtolookintosoundhealingandcymascopetolearnaboutthefascinatingstructureofsound.
PleaselookupandpracticemyProsperityHealingMantrasoniTunestogaindeeperinsight.
Icomefromaplacewherethiswholethingisalreadyresolved.Idonotfocus too much on duality. When you speak about duality, don’t beafraid because it’s an aspect of the overall Oneness. Duality explainsOneness,butnot sufficiently (because theexplanation is taintedby theillusionofseparationbetweenthesetwosides).InOneness,everythingisandisnot.It’snotashortcutorillusion.Understandingtheseconceptsistheavenuetoutilizethefullpotentialforacknowledgment.WhenIsayacknowledge,Imeanlovingeverythingunconditionally.Understandingtheword “acknowledge,” and following this approach, is an importantingredient to self-healing. If you do not love yourself and all of lifeunconditionally,itdoesnogoodtodesiretobesomewhereelsebecausethe lackof lovewould followyou there.The firstpriority is toactivatetheunconditional lovewithinyourheart.Unconditional love isagoodmeasuringdevicetoseewhereyouareinyourlife.You’llgofrom“Lookathowdysfunctionalhumanbeingsare” intotheunconditional loveofOneness, and say, “Everything has the right to be, even the worst
patterns,otherwisewhywouldtheybethere?Also,whywouldyoubaskin the experience that you don’t love when you could instead createeverythingyouwishfor inthisMultiverse?”IntheOneness,allcanbe.Nowchoosewhatyouwishforyourself.
ThisiswhatmakesSIDsoeffective:Acknowledgmentandunconditionallove.
TheBeatlessongAllYouNeedisLovereflectsbacktousafoundationalprincipleof life itself:Our love is themain ingredient forcreationandtransformation.Allingredientsareintheheart.Thistoolissoeffectivebecauseitisactivatedthroughacknowledgementandunconditionalloveisthefrequencyrequiredtochangeanythingwedesiretochange.
You created something because you love it, otherwisewhywould youcreate it? Love and hate are really close and both are very powerfulenergies. When you hate something you have a very intensedisharmonious energy. When you apply it to sound level, you couldcomparehate to chaotic disorganizednoise versus love toharmonioushealingsounds.Certainloveharmoniesarerequiredtocreateapatternbecause a pattern just doesn’t happen on its own. These patterns areformedbyenergyandsound,astheimpressiveworkbyMasaruEmotoontheformationofwatercrystalssoclearlyillustrates.Wearemadeofapproximately sixtypercentofwater,andour reactions toenergiesarequitealiketothereactionofwatercrystals,oreventhatofquartzcrystalsmadeupofsilica,whichisinitselfamaterialfoundinthehumanbodyand needed for the preservation of its functions and youthfulness.Traumaoraharmoniouspatternhappensbycertainactionsthatleadto
us either into high frequency stress or into high frequency ecstaticsituations.Theexperiencesyouhavearerecordedbythebrainormusclememory,andthesememoriesbecomeembeddedinthesystem.
Before they show up in the brain system or muscle memory system,experiences are in your energymemory system.Thatmeans that yournon-physical self holds recorded the intense energy of traumaticexperiences from past lives, in which you might have died on thebattlefield. Your Self recorded the energy of these disharmonioustraumatic experiences like a sound recorder, like a black box from aplane.Theseexperiencesarepickeduponbyamicrophonethatrecordall levels of noise. Upon our next incarnation, these patterns areimpressed on our body,mind and spirit. They oftenmake themselvesvisibleasmoles,irregularitiesandbehavioralpatterns.Molesoftenmarktheplacewherewehadbeenshotorseverelyinjuredinapastlife.
You take that recorded memory with you and create a similarexperience, maybe not as strong because it was so far away and therecordingfades,butsimilartoit.Thenitdependsonyourawarenesstorecognize the pattern and change it. Once you know you have atraumaticexperiencethatyoucarrywithyou,youhavetheopportunity(and duty toward yourself) to startworking on it. If you are a personwho died on the battlefield or have posttraumatic stress disorder, it’saboutunderstanding theconflict, finding forgivenessand transformingthetraumaticdeathexperience.
Seeing it in theenergysystemand travelingback to the source iswhatallows me to fully observe the pattern and support you to rewrite it
throughSID.
This is why this modality is so effective, because you don’t need totorment yourself for hours to relive a traumatic experience. You canautomatically express it.Youdon’thave to jump throughhoops togetthere.Requirementsare:awarenessandwillingness.
It’salmostlikeyouarehandedakeythatallowsyoutogobacktothatmoment or situation and enables you to say, “It doesn’t matter whatyou’re showing me, I’m not resenting it. I love it.” All the negativepatternsthatcomeupinyourmind,you’renotresentingthem,andthatmeans you’renot filtering them toomuch.Thismethod is so effectivethatitcanopenthefloodgatetoradicaltransformation,orasIliketocallitnow:gracefultransformation.
With this map, I can guide you to past lives and any other places tosupportyouinrecognizingandchangingapatternwithincomparativelylittletime,andtoenableyoutoliveyourmosteffectivelife.
C. ENERGY WORKThe ultimate expression of self-love is doing energywork on yourself.Whenyoudoenergyworkonyourselfyouarehealingyourself.
Ifyouwereaghostwithoutabody,you’dsay,“Personinabody,canyoudothisforme?Thatwouldbegreat.”
Whenyougetintoaplacewhereyouhaveabody,youultimatelydeclarethat youwant to participate in life.When you show theUniverse andMultiverse,God,andalldivineenergiesthatyoulovebeinghere,that’swhenyoustartdoingsomethingpositivewithyourbodyinthislife.
Thisisthemomentwhenyousay,“Iwanttoserve.Iwanttodothis,Iwanttodothat,”andyoureceivesupportfromtheUniverse.
Butwhen you hear someone say, “I don’twant to do this. I hate this.Ugh,bah,thiscouldbebetter”,itmeanssomebodydoesn’treallywanttobehere.Thatisnotanattitudeofgratitude.Itisanattitudeofbeingfedup with something instead of appreciating every second of ourexperience on this planet. When we are in this space of lackingappreciationforourlives,that’swherewehavetoimproveandapproveofourselves.That’swhenweneedtogettoaplacewherewecansay,“Ifullyappreciatemyselfandmylife,andIfullyapproveofmyselfandmylife.”
How can you say this with conviction?Onlywhen you know you aredoingtherightthing.Ifyouarenotdoingwhatyourecognizeasright,you cannot fully approve of yourself. Of course, that gives youmotivationtodotheright thing.Even ifyouhavenotalwaysdonetherightthingsofar,youcameintothisworldfullyequippedfordoingtheright thing—whatever that service, your purpose, your personal “rightthing”mightbe.
Youcanalwaysfindandrefineyourpurpose.Itwillnotgetlost.Youcanalwaysrealignyourselfwithyourpurpose,youcandoitinthismoment,immediately,andyouwillexperienceimmediateresults.
The tool for doing so—the Sacred Inner Dialogue—is such a strong,transformationaltoolthatitwillautomaticallyhelpyoutodealwithanyissues and question that might come up, as long as you keep themomentumgoingandaresincereinitsapplication.
ItisimportanttonotethattheAtaanaMethodcombinedwithSIDasatool for healing and self-healingwill result in an experience as uniqueandindividualaseveryindividuallifeonthisplanetisinitself.Everyoneis going to respond differently to transformational work. If you havealreadybeenworking in the field for some time, a lot ofwhat you aregoing to encountermight resonatewith experiences youhadbefore. Ifyou are just starting out in the field of energy work, your experiencemightbeunlikeanythingyou’veeverexperiencedinthislifetime.
Anotherimportantaspectofenergywork,whichIwanttobringtoyourattention, is that nearly all cultures train us to suppress emotions andenergies and do not allow for the occurrence of certain events orexperiencestocometothesurfaceandbeingexpresseduntilwefeelwearecapableofdealingwiththem.—Icallthatsuppressionorintentionalhidingof your true emotions “noshow;” theopposite of it, thehealthyexpressionofyouremotions,whichIcall“emoshow,” isrecommendedtotransformpatternsfaster.
Whenwecametotheplanet,welearnednottospeakourtruthbecauseno one really wanted to hear the truth.We got used to an enormousamountofsuppressionandself-denial,whichisverydifferentfromthestance we will take when we do energy work in form of the AtaanaMethodwithSID.Weconsciouslyevokekarmicconnectionsandkarmicburdensso-to-speaktoallowfortheirhealing.Weneedtolearnhowtokeepourenergyworkgoingoncewebringkarmicpatternstothesurfacesothatitcanstarttransforming.Forinstance,ifwedealwithapastlifetrauma, itmight first appear tobeveryheavyandchallenging,but the
AtaanaMethod and SID are going to lighten the load, sowe can startdealingwithit,andultimatelybeabletohealit.
Youmightwonderinwhichmannerpastlifetraumascouldbebroughtupagaininourcurrentlifetime.Itwillhappeninawayinwhichwearefacingthesametraumaticsituationasithadbeeninourpast,butwithourtuned-inawarenessandwithenergywork,wewillbeabletoofferadifferentresponsetoit.Wearenotgoingtoreacttoitanymoreaswedidin the past.With theAtaanaMethod and SID, wewill overcome thattrigger point for that specific pattern and by overcoming the triggerpointwewillbeabletoultimatelytransformthepattern.
Maybeitseemsasifweweretobringthroughenergyworkunnecessarydifficultiesintoourlives.That’snotthecase.Weareconditionedtore-live traumatic experiences over many lifetimes until trauma issuccessfullymastered,andhenceresolvedforgood.Ifweweretochoosenot to engage in energy work, we would merely encounter the sametraumatic experiences sooner or later without the tools to break thecycle.
Ourmomentumthatneeds topersist resides inkeepingup theAtaanaMethod and SID. Keep clearing and keep the momentum. Our dailyenergy work is like bolstering up a hovercraft that allows us to hoverabovetheground.Wecanfloatabovetheground,wecangooverwater,over oceans and land without touching the ground, we overcomeobstacles,yetwearealwaysinasafespace.
Byusdoingso,weputourselvesinasafeplacewheretransformationalissues that are coming up are not working as blockages against us
anymorebecausewecanfloatoverthemorthroughthem.That’swhatenergyworkdoesforus:evenifyoufaceobstaclesinfrontofyou,youarelikeahovercraft,youarefloatingthroughthem,orhoveroverthem.Youcanseethemforwhattheyare.Oncetheydon’tholdyoubackanylonger as a problem, you can appreciate them for the learningopportunities that theyare,andonceyouappreciate them, theywillbetransformingevenfaster.
9. THE KEY TO TRANSFORMATIONALWORK
Thekeyoftransformationalworkiskeepingthemomentum.
Iwishtorepeatitwithallintensity:Thekeytotransformationalworkiskeepingthemomentum.—Imyselfneededabouttwentytotwenty-fiveyears to build up the momentum of applying daily energy work onmyself. There is a part ofme that feels like once we feel energeticallyawesomeandgreat, andweare super-charged,we should just stay likethisforever.Wearekindofinthisplacewherewebecomeunrealisticinour expectations. It is almost as if we were to decide we are so cleantodaythatwewillnotneedashoweranymoretomorroworeveragain.It’slikerevelinginourstatethatfeelsgreattousanddeducing,“Ishouldbecleaneverydaywithouthavingtodoanythingforit.”Onceyoucomeoutoftheshowerandareclean,andputoncologneoressentialoils,yousuddenlyfeelconvinced,“Ishouldalwaysbelikethat.”
Reality is there isdust on thisplanet andall kindsofpollution. If youdon’t keep clearing yourself, you’re going to bedusty.The clearer andcleaner you are, the clearer and cleaner themanner inwhich you candeal with obstacles. Keeping your energy clear is energy hygiene, andthatmeansdoingenergyworkeveryday.Youstartclearingyourenergy,and themoreyouclearup, themoreyou stay clear, andyouwill startapplying it to all other areas of your life as well. Instead of worrying
aboutasituation,findthesolution.Youcanstartdoingenergyworkonthatsituation.Forexample,ifyouhavebillstopay,youshouldbedoingenergyworkonthesebillstofindtheidealsolution.Youshouldnotbeworryingaboutthesebillsbutmerelydoenergyworkonthemandallowprosperityenergytoenterthesituation.Youcangetacitrine,prosperitystone,fromus,orfromanotherspiritualsource,andputacitrineonthebillssothattheycanbeenergized,andtheycanbepaidoff.Dothesamewithcredit cards. Insteadofworryinghow topayyourbills andcreditcards,puttheminonestackanddoenergyworkonthemuntilyoufindaway.Of course, Ihighly recommend to look also intomyProsperityHealing Mantras if you work on improving your prosperity. As anenergy and crystal healer, I often recommend clients toworkwithmyCrystals and Gemstones to facilitate a speedy clearing of issues or toreachspecificgoals.
Youcan,bytheway,laythecitrinealsoonyourbody.Isuggestformostofmyclientstoplaceaspecificgemstoneondifferentareasoftheirbodytoworkoutspecific issuesorreachgoals faster.Here isoneofsomanyexamplesthatIcansharewithyouaboutaddingcrystalstothesessions.Two years ago, in Nashville, after several SID and Energy-healingsessions
I instructedPeter,arealtor, toworkwithaspecially-from-meactivatedcitrine for90 consecutivedays tohelphimovercome stagnation inhisbusiness.Hewasstuckforquitesometimewithnodealsonthehorizon.
Hedid successfully complete the 90days as promised.Twodays later,the92nddayafterIgavehimthestone,heattractedafairlybigdealthat
put into motion what would become his most successful year so far(overall sales of $68 million dollars that year). I work with manyRealtors, who are just jewels of human beings, who improve theirperformancesandapproachtolife.Iobservehowtheyreachthehighestlevelsofself-healingandsuccesswiththehelpofEnergywork,SIDandCrystalhealing.
You can apply the same method to projects you have to accomplish.Write them all down and start doing SID, energy work and crystalhealingoneachprojectbeforeyoudoanythingphysicallyaboutit.Youshould always do energy work first. By doing so, you bring healingenergytoanyprojectorsituation,andthatmeansraisedconsciousness.You will see that the action follows much easier after having appliedenergyworkthanifyouhadtodoitallbyyourself.
You can do energy work on everything that you are working on ordealingwith inanycapacity.Fill theprojectupwithenergywork first.SimilartowhatIamdoingwiththisbookhere.Iamdoingenergyworkon it.Weareputting energy into thisbook and thatwill speedup theprocess. It will make it more complete. On top of that magnificentrewardofcompletion,youhavealsochargedwhateverobject,projectorsituationwithmagneticenergy.Theenergyismagneticenoughtoattractsolutions,whichbenefitsyouandeveryoneelsewhocomesintocontactwith it. If youwant togodeeper and learn theAtaanamethod formofenergy work, my online course is available atwww.ataanamethodclass.com, or find my certified Ataanamethodteachersclosetoyou.
10. FACILITATING SELF-HEALINGIconsidermyselfanenergyhealer,andthatiswhatImeanbysayingIdoenergywork:Ultimately,whenI—oryou—doenergyworkonothers,allwearedoingisrechargingthemsotheycanattracttherightsolutiontowhateverchallengetheyarefacing.Theirissueisbeingenergized,soitattracts the right solution. The right solution might be a differentattitude,orfindingtheperfectpersonortherapistorsurgeonordoctoror holistic practitioner or chiropractor, acupuncturist or massagetherapist. For the energy knows. The issue in itself knows the rightsolution, so that’s what we are energizing. Energy work is alwayssolution-basedhealing.
At this point in my life, I ammore of a self-activating healer than ahealer.Infact,Iconsidermyselfaself-healerbecauseI’msupportingmyclientsintheirself-healingprocess.I’msupportingyoutostarttheself-healingprocess.
Onceyourecognizethatthepersonthatyouareworkingwithstartstheselfhealingprocessyouseehisbodyandsystemcanselfheal.Then,youwillstarttorecognizethatyouareinaself-healingprocessaswell.Self-healing is the key.When you hurt your little finger, your body is notsaying, “Why did you hurt yourself?How dumb!Why didn’t you usethatpairofscissors?Whydidyouusethecarpet-knife?”Itdoesn’tstopthe self-healing process. No. When you are bleeding, your system isconcernedwithonethingandonethingonly:howtohealyourselfand
stop thebleeding.Healingworkof thiskindyields the leastamountofkarmicimpactforthepractitioner.
That’swhatI’mactivatinginyou.Allowingtheself-healingtotakeplace.There is some parts in the system that say, “You don’t deserve thishealing. You don’t deserve to be well. You don’t deserve to beprosperous,” but the self-healing that I am helping you to funnel willrespondtotheself-healingrequest,andactivatetheself-healinginyou.Then you are giving yourself permission to activate the self-healingability in you. Themoment you give yourself permission, the healingprocessstartstakingplace.
That’sreallywhatmyworkisabout.Inthepast,Iwasratheramiraclehealer.My approachwas, “Letme heal you.”Now I am like, “Letmerespect you and activate your self-healing so you can heal yourself”because you know best what you need. You know best what you aredealingwith,andwhattheperfectresponsetoyoursituationis.
Ican tellyou thatyouaredealingwith thisor that,but Icanalsogiveyou the tools and activate the self-healing in you, and once the self-healing is activated, you can start taking care of yourself.That’swhy Igiveyou this toolofSacred InnerDialogue, soyoucan startyour self-healing.
Iamremindingyou.Byremindingyouofyourownhealingpower,itismaybe not the most spectacular healing, like a Christ Angel healingwould be where I am moving my arms and levitate in front of you.Activatingyourself-healingisnotspectacular.Healingandwellbeingisbasicallytheexpressionofharmonyandbalanceinyoursystem.
Mytaskissupportingyoutostarttheself-healingprocess,andwhatIamdoingwith a lot of people ismonitoring their self-healing.Then I say,“This is great.Can youput some energy in this area?” or “What ifweconcentratea littlebiton thisside?Whatwould that look like?”That’sreallywhatIamdoing.IamhelpingpeoplewithenergyworkandSID,with themethod that Ihave, to activate their self-healing,which is theultimate healing. When another system applies their healing on you,yoursystemisnotconsideringthisasafullyacknowledged, integrated,and understood experience. It remains unsatisfying and incompletebecausesomeoneelsediditforyou.
Untilyouchangethatpiece,youhavenotreachedatruebreakthrough.That’swhatisatthebaseofmyhealingmodality.IthrowtheballbacktoyouandIsay,“Whatdoyoufeelneeds tohappen?”Then,yougotoapsychicandtheygiveyouinsightsandtellyou,“Dothis,thisandthat.”I’mnotdissingpsychics,Iampsychicandclairvoyantmyself.Theyhavetheirplaceandneedtobeappreciatedintheirownrightbecauseofthesupport theygive.However, youhave to figure itout foryourself, andtherefore come toyourownconclusions.They tell you, “Do this,” andthen there’s a specific outcome. Ultimately, you still haven’t come toyourowntrustconclusionandmadeyourowndecision.Youhavetobein the driver’s seat, not in the passenger seat of your life.Youhave todriveyourvehicle,your life,andmoveforwardbysaying,“I listenandfollow my own intuition, this decision right now, I am feeling goodaboutandIammovingforward.”
Everyone can be weakened at some point and ask for help. In somesituations,that’sthebestthingtodo.Itotallyunderstand.Butmywork
isself-empowerment.Iacknowledgethateveryonecanrealizetheir fullpotentialandispartofthedivine.Everyonehastheabilitytoaccesstheirfull unlimitedpower. I helppeople to get there.That is the key tomyworktodayandtothismodality. Itmightbedifferentwithotherswhowanttolaytheirhandsonsomeoneandsay,“Everythingisgoingtobefine.Youaregoingtobebetter.”That’sokaytoo,Ididthatmyselfforalongtime.
However,untilyoudotheessentialgroundworkandmaketheessentialdecision, it isnotgoingtobedoneforyou.DoyouandIhavemiracleandhealingpowers?Ofcourse,weallhavethat.Formeitisnicerwhenyoustepintoyourpowerandyouultimatelyhealyourselfbecausethatiswhen you acknowledge your full potential. My work is more for theawakenedpersonwhoisawareoftheirunlimitedpotentialandwanttoaccess it.With SID you “Discover your inner voice, your inner truth,yourintuitionandpsychicabilities,whicharethengoingtoleadyouonyourpath.”
When you come to me, there is a sense of self-activation and ofliberation.Youtrulygrowintoyourpowerandacknowledge,acceptandappreciateyourfullpotential.CouldItellyouwhattodo?SureIcan,butyouwouldnotfully integratethe“Why.”MostlyIwouldtellyoutodomoreenergyworkwithmymodalitytofindyourownanswers.
Onceyoudo something and say, “I’mdonewith this. I’mgoing todothat”,youknowwhyyouaredonewithsomething,andyouknowwhyyou are going to do something else.You are changing your actions tohaveadifferentexperience,tohaveadeeperinsight:youreally“getit.”
You totally understood that the old route is not getting you anywhereandyouarereadytogoanotherrouteandapproachyourprosperity,oranyaspectyouworkedon,inadifferentmanner.
Observe through energy work where you have a deficiency in yoursystem, and balance it out energetically, balancewith energywork. Bybalancinganyimbalancesanddeficienciesthroughtheenergywork,youare already starting to feel better. As you feel better, you don’t feeldeficient or have a weird feeling in the stomach, and it is easier toapproach the problematic subject. Since you don’t feel deficient, youhave enough energy to go into a past life, to look at whatever aspectwantstobeseenandacknowledged,becauseyoufeelitdoesnottakeatoll on you.That iswhy you cannowdirect your consciousnessmoreeffectivelytoanegativeexperienceofyourpastwithoutitturningintoatraumaticexperiencealloveragain.
Iwillnotmakeyoureliveatraumaticexperience.Iamsimplytakingyoutheretoseeandunderstandit.ItisasifIwastakingyouinaspaceshiportime-machine,butyoudon’thavetostepoutsideofit.Itdoesn’ttakeanyfueleitherbecauseyouarenotinaplaceofdeficiency.Iprovideyouwithmorethanenoughenergyandenergyboosts.Youareshieldedfromtraumaticeffects.
For instance, you can go back in time onto the battlefield and seeyourself being butchered, but say, “Woah, thatwas a tough life”with-outfeelingitinanegativeway.You’restillfeelingawarm,fuzzyfeelingofhavingenoughenergythroughoutthesession.Youareinanicewarmcocoon to feel love and energy, content like a baby in a crib, just
breathing.Thenwegointothesepastlives,andIaskyou,“Doyouthinkyoucanaddressyourpast-lifeexperienceandaskitifitcanstarttheself-healing process?” or, “Whydon’t you ask the cause of this conflict? Isthereanything I cando foryou?”or, “Whydon’tyou takea stepbackandasktheconflicttogiveyoumorespace,soyoucanlookatthispastlife?”
Iinformyou,“Wearegoinginatimecapsuleandeachtimethereisanyform of discomfort, we can immediately shift to a different place.However,don’tgobeforeitgetsuncomfortablebecauseIcanrecognizeitandprotectyoufromit tohappen.”Ifyoudare togothere,youwilllearn,understandandheal.
Youareinasafespace.You’renotfeelingtheconflictofthattimeorthepain of being attacked, so you can release stress and trauma withouthavingtoendureanythingadverse.Wecanask,“Whoisfightingyou?”Mostpeople recognize in theirpast life antagonist aperson from theirclosecircleofthelifetheyarelivingnow,orsomeonewhomtheyhaveencountered sometime earlier in their life, or someone whomight beclose based on family relations or other social constellations, but withwhomtheyhavehadalotofconflictsofarorlotsofinteractionsofanykind.
11. CASE STUDIES ON SELF-WORTH ANDFAMILY PATTERNS
Inthefollowingcasestudies,wecanobservetheSacredInnerDialoguesunfolding and see how SID is neutralizing, dissipating and ultimatelytransforminganyharmfulpatterns.Byaddressingthefeelingattachedtoanunhealthy thoughtpattern,wecanalso seehow the system isbeingreprogrammed.Theconversationwithclientsdoesnotonlyfocusonthestoryofwho,what,where,andwhy(althoughthatishowweareabletopinpointthefeelingandunhealthythoughtpatternwhichmanifestedachallengingepisodeintheclient’slife),butwetalkdirectlytotheinnersubconsciousenergy.Wetalktotheinnersubconsciousenergybecausethese thoughts have grown energetically from the unconscious intomental,emotional,spiritualandphysicalmanifestations.Ourconsciousmind can grasp these manifestations but the root still resides in thesubconscious, whichwe now address directly.Whenwe address theseenergies at their root and ask them questions as if talking to anotherperson,theseinnerthoughts,feelingsanddeprivationpatternsarebeingaddressed,sotheyfeelacknowledgedandrespondtous.Theanswerswereceivefromthemaregreaterclues,andprovideuswithinformationonhowtosolvetherootproblemsofanyissues.
Thisprocessworksacrossallpatterns,issuesandlifetimes.
A. CARRIE: SELF-WORTH AND FAMILY PATTERNS
Carrieisinhermid-fortiesandshehadfeltthroughoutherentirelifealack of self-worth whenever the suffering of her mother andgrandmotherarementionedbyher,shefallsintoasenseofdespairthatis characterized by a lack of self worth.When she tells her story, thedeprivationpatternthataffectshercanbefelt inherheart.Iaskhertorepeatthefollowingoutloud:
“The deprivation pattern that is affectingmy family andme, can youhearme?”Itanswers“Yes.”Atthispoint,weacknowledgeit.
I ask her where she feels the energy. She says she feels it around herheart.BasedonCarrie’sstory,Iknowthatisexactlywheretheenergyisbeingfelt.Itisbecauseshehasunmetdesiresandaspirations,thesamefeelingshermotherandgrandmotherhad,buttheyhadtodosomethingelse in life, which felt compromising. Carrie suffers from this samefamilypattern,however,shehastheopportunitytotransformitnow.
I now ask Carrie to say out loud, “The deprivation pattern that’saffectingmy family andme, please start the self-healingprocessnow.”Wehavetorepeatthisoutloudafewtimes,butafterwardsashiftintheheart is felt.Thisbringsusdeeper intotheroot issueofaddressinghercompromised feeling of self-worth. I ask her to say out loud, “Mycompromised self-worth, can you hear me?” Again, we see if sheacknowledges it and receives some sort of response.When she does, Iaskher tosayout loud,“Mycompromisedfeelingofself-worth,pleasestart the transformational process now and raise my self-worth to ahigherlevel.”
B. CLAIRE: HEALTH, FAMILY, CAREER AND LOSS
Claireworkssixty-fivehoursaweekatacar-dealershipfinancingloansforpeople.Shehasmultiplesclerosis(MS)andfeelsshehastocontinueinherjobforawhileuntilsheaccumulatesenoughmoneytomakethetransition into something more creative, such as realizing her long-standingideaforabookthatshewishestowriteandpublish.
She already believes that everything in existence is energy and it is amatter of figuring out what the energy is that she is working with inordertotransformit.Shehastriedalotofdifferentthings.
Sheexplainsherjourney,“Yougraduateatonelevelandfindsomethingelse.You still don’t feelwhole. Idon’tknow if ithasbeena longdarknight of a soul, but it’s been about fifteen years of focus and workdedicatedtofiguringoutwhatisgoingonwithme.Ididn’tmeanforthistoturnintoacareer.”Intheendsherecognizesitisjustenergy,whichiswhatledhertome.Shesays,“Ifeeltherearetwothingsthatareatplay,whichareinterconnected,butIcan’tseemtofigureoutwhattheenergyis.Still,Iknow,everythingisenergyandyourlifeexperiencedependsonhowyouworkwithitandhowyouovercomecertainenergeticblockagesandobstacles.IreallythinkthatmyMSissomehowrelatedtothetimewhen I started healing a long-term eating disorder. I think the energydidn’thaveanywheretogoanditturnedintoMS.That’smytheory,mygut instinct. I am in therapyand trying tohealwhat started theeatingdisorder.Ithinkit’stheenergypatternwithmymomandonlyrecently,in the last year, I’ve been working with a therapist that works witharchetypalenergy,whichmakessense.”
Shecontinues to sayhermom is awesome,yet thinkingofhermothertriggershertogointoaplacethatholdsalotofnegativeenergy.Itseemstobeanarchetypalenergy,andatthecoreoftheeatingdisorderresidesthewishtodie.Clairebelievesifshecanonlyfigureoutthepattern,thenshe can shift it. However, it is her experience that it is also oftenchallenging to figure out your personal issues because you cannotcontinuouslybeawitnessofyourownlifewhenyouareinthethickofit.
Clairewasalsoaffectedby the financialcrisisandrecessionof2007/08and was dealing with the death of her brother, who—like her—hadsuffered frommultiple sclerosis formany years.He died from a heartattack.Shewants to liveahealthierandeasier lifewithoutscrutinizingeveryminisculeaspectofit,andsometimesshethinksitiseasiertotakemedication,regardlessthesideeffects,andliveaslongandashappilyasshe can. What she is potentially prescribing for herself is a life ofnumbnessthroughthelong-termconsumptionofsignificantamountsofmedications that would compromise her in various ways. That isparticularlyofconcerngiventhatshehasalreadyreachedahigherlevelofconsciousness.
ItellClairethatwearegoingtotalktoeveryemotion,oratleastidentifyeveryemotionwewanttocommunicateto,asifwewouldbetalkingtosomeone outside of ourselves. She has many emotions and feelingscomingupatonceandwecanbegintoaddressthemonebyoneinthissession. I can tell that it is first necessary to clear the passing of herbrotherandaskhertoobserveinternally,inhermindandenergyfield,ifshereceivesaresponseofayesornoorfeelsanenergysensation.
Iaskhertosayoutloud,“Mygriefaboutmybrother’spassing,canyouhearme?”Shefeelsasensationlikehearingascreamingnoise,andstatesshedoesnotwanttodealwithitrightnow.Itistoopainful.Shedoesnothavetheenergyforit.Shesays,“Iwanttodealwiththestuffaboutmymom.”Sheexplainsthatshereallythinksthatthisiswhereherpersonalproblems correlate. She doesn’t know why. Claire thinks it might bebecause her mother had four children and she didn’t have time foreverybody,andalsobecausethemotherhasshownherselftobementallyunstable.ShecamefromaverydifficulthomeasdidClaire’sdadandherparentstriedtocontaintheirownpainoverneverhavingreceivedwhatthey needed, both ending up living in their own worlds. Her parentswere narcissistic in their own ways, and they just couldn’t really seeanybodyelse.Claireconcludes,“Ithinkithastodowithnotbeingseen.”
Clairecannotunderstandhowawomansuchashermother,whosuffersfrom paranoia and an eating disorder, could have kids. She wonders,“Howcananunhealthypersonraisehealthychildren?There’snoway,right?” But I want to knowwhat feelings this thought triggers in her.Claireresponds,“Ifeelragewithher.Frustrationandrage.”
Iaskhertosayoutloud,“Thefrustrationandragetowardsmymother,canyouhearme?”
Claire repeats this out loud, “The frustration and rage towards mymother,canyouhearme?”andthensheanswers,“Yes,Icanhearit.”
Then I ask her to say out loud, “The frustration and rage towardsmymotherpleasegivememorespacesoIcanhavehealthythoughts.”Iaskhertoobserveherbodyandseewhat’sgoingon.
Clairenowpicturesherselfwith abat trying to release the energy. Shefeels she can control the energy flow by beating it with a bat. This issuppressed anger and rage. I askher to sayout loud, “Any suppressedangerandragethatisstillinmysystem,canyouhearme?”
Sherepeatsthisandanswers,“Definitely.Forsure.”Webegintoseethedifferentlayersoffrustration,anger,andragewithinher.Itellhertoletthefrustrationandrageknowit’stimeforittostartthetransformationalprocessandgivehermorespace.
Shesaysoutloud,“Frustrationandrage,it’stimetogivememorespaceandstartthetransformationalprocess.”
Shedoesn’tquitegetthewordsrightandhastorepeatthesentencethreetimesbeforeshesensesherenergyiswillingtoshiftintothisnewspace.Shefeelsveryexhausted.Sheacknowledgesitonadeeperlevelbysaying,“Ifmostofyourenergyisgoingtoexhaustion,howcanyouhaveenergytowards the day, towards what you want? My trauma is constantlycompetingformyenergy.”
Iaskhertosayoutloud,“Myexhaustion,canyouhearme?”
Shesaysitoutloudandreceivestheresponse,“Yeah,veryweary.”
Itellhertoaddressherexhaustion,“Myexhaustion,pleasegivememorespacesoIcanfullyrecharge.”
Sherepeatsthestatement,andthenhears,“Sure.”
Shebeginstofeelmorerelaxedandsensesherenergylevelsrising.
Nowthatshehasmoreenergy,wecanaddressdeeperissues.Iaskhertosay out loud, “The dysfunctional energy in my lineage that’s alsoaffectingme,canyouhearme?”Sherepeatsit.Shedefinitelyhearsit.Shethensays, “Thedysfunctionalenergy inmy lineage that’salsoaffectingme,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
Thenextstepsaremoreautomatic.
“Mybeingtiredoflivinglife,canyouhearme?”
Sherepeatsit.
“Mybeing tired of living life, please start the transformational processandgivememorespace.”Sherepeats itand feelsablackcloud. Ihaveherrepeatthecommandseveral timesuntil it feelsright.Shefeelsnowmorelifeforcecomingbacktoher.
“Anyhopelessnessorhelplessnessthat’sstillinmysystem,canyouhearme?”Sherepeatsit.
“Anyhopelessnessorhelplessness that’s still inmy system,please startthe transformational process and give memore space.” She repeats itthreetimes.
I askher if she can feel the energy flowon the left side. She lightsup.“Yes,”shesays.Clairefeelsshehasputherselfinatrickysituationinlife.She says, “Becauseofmy level of exhaustion, I truly soldmyself short.Youknowthestuffthatgivesyoupassionandlightsyouup,yougottohave some energy for it. I go to a job that depletes allmy energy anddepletesmylifeforce.Idon’twanttobethere.It’satrickythingbecauseyoustillhave tosupportyourself,andyoudon’t feel secure in thenew
space(thespacewhereyoucouldpotentiallybelivingyourpassions)totakeon your goals anddreams.On adaily basis, I amhurtingmyself.YouseewhatImean?It’stricky.HowcanIgetoutofthat?”
Irespond,“YourmotherissymbolicallyspeakingarepresentationofthefemalesupportingenergyintheUniverse.Andyourragetowardsyourmother indicates that youhave rage towards your supportive energies,sinceyoudidnotfeelfullysupportedneithertheseenergies,norbyyourmother.”
Claire confirms that she has never thought of that. I continue to say,“Since she is the female representation of the caring and nurturingenergy, even though she never lived up to that, that’s how you feeltowardsher.
And that’s what shaped your feeling of being, or rather not being,supported, for example, by Mother Earth. Mother Earth is also a bigmother, theGoddessenergy intheUniverse.Thecaringandnurturingenergiesareoftenfemaleenergies.”
Claire acknowledges thatwhen it comes to trust, shedoesn’t trust thatthingswilleverbeokay.“AlotofpeopleturntoGodorwhomever,”shesays.“Idon’tfeelalackoffaith,it’sratherlikeIcannottrust…probablybecauseofwhatyou’resaying.”
“Exactly,”Isay.“Andthat’ssomethingyoucanshift.Youhavetolookatit in termsof you getting stuckby yourmother.Every time you thinkaboutyourmother,yougetstuckandthispreventsyoufromaskingforthebiggerpicture,fromaskingforthebiggersupportfromtheUniverse,becauseyoufeelyou’renotgoingtogetitanyway.”
Sheresponds,“Ialwaysfeellikethat.IfeellikeIdon’tneedanybodyoranything.Ihadtolearntobeself-reliantlikethat.ButactuallyIdoneedothers.”
I’ve seen thispatternwithmanypeople. I tellher, “Here’showwecanbypassyourmother.”
Iaskhertosayoutloud,“Caring,motheringandnurturingenergiesintheUniverse, can you hearme?”Claire repeats it and acknowledges a“Yes” response, but she feels no relationship to the source of thisresponse.
I understand she received a faint response, which is positive for hersituation. I then ask her to repeat out loud, “Caring, mothering andnurturing energies in theUniverse, please become fully present inmyeverydaylife.”
“That was amazing,” she says, after repeating it three times. “I canphysically feel thesupport. It’salmost likeyouare inaswimmingpoolandyouhavea life-raft,andnowIcanfeeltheenergyexpanding.”Shefeelsshe isno longerpartof the livingdead,which ishowshehadfeltmostdayswithherlifesituation—withhermotherandthehighnumberofworkhours.
I tell her she just reached a place where the picture changed for herfundamentally.Clairehadbeenupset thathermotherwas standing inthewayofher full expansionbynotgivingher the support shewouldhave needed. Metaphorically speaking, the eating disorder was amanifestation of feeling energetically starved. Claire being the caring,loving mother in her own life is now able to draw from the caring,
motheringandnurturingenergiesoftheUniversethatareabundantlyallaroundandinher,andshedoesnotfocusanylongeronhermother,thesourceofherformerdisappointmentsandlackoftrust.
AlthoughClairehadaroofoverherheadandhadfoodonthetable,shewasatthesametimeenergeticallystarvingbecauseofthedysfunctionaluseofenergyinherfamily.Theenergywasnotutilizedanddistributedcorrectly.Her self-absorbedparents,whohadnot been able to resolvetheirownunhealthypatternsandtocreateapositivewayofhavingtheirownneedssatisfied,basicallyhadtakenClaire’slifeforce.Clairegaveherlifeforcewillinglyinthebeginning.Shedidn’tworkwhenshewasborn,soshegaveherparentsenergy inorder for themtocreatea livingandfeedher.Whensheleftherparent’shomeyearslater,thousandsofmilesaway,shetookthefeelingswithher.Theystilllivedinsideofher,whichmeans her energy was being sent to her family and into those familypatterns.
Wenowfocusonreturningallherenergy,herlifeforce,backtoher.
Sheisaskedtosayoutloud,“Allofmylifeforcethatiscurrentlynotinmybody,canyouhearme?”
Shereceivesaresponse,andthenIinstructhertospeakafterme:“Allofmylifeforcethatiscurrentlynotinmybody,pleasefullyreturntomeandstaywithme.”
Sherepeatsit.Herenergyisjumpingforjoy.Shefeelsreallygoodrightnow. I tellher there is still energy, a frequency, apartofher life forcethat isstillnotfullyaccessibletoher,ornotfullypresent.It’snicethatshe’s feelinga littlebitbetter,butwearegoingthefullmonty,not just
beinggratefulthatwearefeelingalittlebitbetter.Wearenotgoingforexistinghere,we are going for thriving.Claire feels fascinated becauseshe feels her energy, her thoughts and her vibrantly alive body. It is acompletely different frequency that resonates peace and joy. There isnothingcausing it fromtheoutside. It iscoming fromthe inside. I tellherthatwearegoingafter thetriggerthateffects thechangesfromtheinside. That’s really what we are going after. We are going after thatdynamicandthatpatternthathavecausedherpain.Itisalmostlikeanimplant.Whenthetriggerisactivated,itislikethefrequencyturnsintosomething else. Such trigger remindsmeof amega-large faucet;whenyouturnitonitdrainsyourlifeforceveryfast.
Itellherthere’sonemorethingofwhichIwanttomakeheraware:
“Remember themomentwewere talking about the faucet installation,and once it is open, it drains your life force really fast? That wassomethingthatwas installedinyouwhenyouwereyounger.Youwerelyingthereinacribandbasicallygivingallyourlifeforcetoyourparentswhoweretakingcareofyou.Theyneededlifeforce.Theyneededenergybecausetheydidn’tfeeltheycouldgoonallthetimeeither.”Clairesays,“That’swhatI’vecometobelieve.”
I continue to explain, “Your parentswere in a placewhere they couldbarelymake endsmeet, and they said, ‘Ohmy goodness, how are wegoingtotakecareofallthesechildren?Howarewegoingtomakethisall happen?” They got totally overwhelmed. It’s understandable.Whattheydidhappenedbecause theydidn’tknowanybetter.Theybasicallyinstalledineverychildanenergyfaucet.”
Thisisanormalprocess.Don’tmisunderstandme:Theyarenoteviloranything.Childrencan’t livebythemselves,sotheyemploythemotherandfathertoworkforthemandinexchangesendtheirparentslifeforce.What’s unfolding is a subconscious contract, where the parents areinstallingenergyfaucetstotakelifeforce.
That faucet connects throughahose to theparents.Once the faucet isopened, the life forceof a child isbeing sent to them.For the child, itdoesn’treallymatterbecausethereissomuchenergy,likecrazyenergy,a whole lot. The child feels like, “ That doesn’t matter. I have 100%energy, and 25% down leaves me still 75% with what is like a 100%percentofanormalhumanbeingslifeforce.Ihavesomuch.”
What happens when you’re growing up is that the parents are notfollowing through with their part of the contract, namely to removetheseinstallations,thesefaucets.Althoughtheyarenotworkingforthechildren anymore, they are still taking the life force from every child.Nowthechildisthirtyyearsoldandneedstomakealivingforhim-orherselfbutcannotdoitbecausealotofthelifeforceisgettingzappedbytheparents.Thatistheinstallationthat’sstillactiveinClaire’ssystem.Itellher,“Ithinkyouareangryatyourmotherbecausetheinstallationisstillactive.Sotodaywearegoingtoremovethatinstallationandthatwilltake care of a whole lot of that anger you feel toward her, and it willregulatetheenergyimbalancebetweenthetwoofyou.”
Iaskhertorepeatoutloud,“Anyfaucetsthatarestillinmysystemthatmyparentsinstalledinme,canyouhearme?”
Clairehastosayitthreetimesbeforeitcomesoutcomplete.Shefeelsalittleenergy.
Iobserveandaskher,“It’sinyourrighthandandinyourrightshoulder.Doyoufeelthat?”
She does. Her mind is somewhat racing because she is now thinkingbacktoherearlytwentieswhensheneededguidancebuthadtogivehermotherguidanceinstead.Itellhertosayoutloud,“Anyfaucetsthatarestill in my system that my parents installed in me, it is time to betransformedandtobecompletelyreleased.”
She begins to lose focus and I remind her to keep this string alivebecauseit’slikeweareperformingethericsurgeryrightnow.Wehavetokeepthisclear,sanitizedanddon’twantanythingelseinthere.
“Let’s get your full focus here,Claire.Oncewe remove these faucets Iwant you to fill the empty space with pink magenta light. This pinkmagenta light is like a ceramic filling that you put in your teeth. It isgummy and then it hardens like ceramic so it actually closes thatopening, so nothing else goes in there.” She gets through it andmorespacebecomesavailablewithinher.Iaskhertofillthatopeningwiththepinkmagentalight.
“Nowyou’re going to seehowmuch easier you are going todealwithyourmotherbecauseshe’snotgoingtozapyourenergyrightaway.Youare not feeling a deficiency immediately and you will not have anyreasontogetangryatheranymore.”
Clairesays,“That’ssocrazybecauseshehasbeenlikemykryptonite.I’vebeenrunningfrommymother,andIdon’twanttorunfromher.Iwanttospendtimewithher.”
Isay,“Withthispatterninplace,youcouldbetwothousandmilesawayanditwouldstillbedrainingyou.Nowyoucanbestandingnexttoherand she won’t drain you. It is going to be a whole new experience.”Claireisfascinatedbytheenergeticsandmyattunementtowhat’sgoingonwithher.
MyattentionwithClairehasbeenpurelyontheenergeticsbecausethatiswhere everythingelse comes from.Myattention is alwayspurelyontheenergeticsbecauseIknowonceyoushiftyourenergeticfrequencyalittlebit,itmakesadifferenceintheoutermanifestationandinhowyoufeelandwhatyouexperience.
C. LINA: FAILURE, MOTHER AND LINEAGE PATTERNSForthe followingcasestudythat includesworkonpatterns fromone’slineage, Iwill sharewith you thedialoguebetweenmyclientLina andmyself.
Lina:Iintendtoworkonthepatternofnotexpectingmoreastoavoiddisappointment.Istillfeelexcitement,butthenitiseasilysquashedevenbeforedisappointmenthappensalmostasinanefforttobracemyself:sothatwhen disappointment happens, it’s anticipated already. So I don’tfeeldisappointment.It’saformofself-protection.
A: We know that pattern; we know you saw this pattern from yourmother.
L:Yes.Shewasgettingincrediblyexcitedabouteverything.Asachild,Iwaswatchinghersoofteninhighhopesforsomething,andwhenitdidnot come through, I saw her disappointment, so I needed a place toprotectmyselffromthat.
A:Yourmotherwas already expecting results. She expected them as acertainoutcomeofagivensituation,andwhenthesituationdidn’tyieldthatoutcome,shewasmorethanfrustrated.
L:Itwasincredibledisappointmentthatshefelt.
A:Thiswasamostprofounddisappointment.
L:Herexpectationswerenevermet.
A:Herexpectationswerenevermet,andasweknow,shewasdealingatthe time also with addiction. Shemasked the extreme highs and lowsexperienced throughher addiction ashernot gettingwhat shewantedafter she had been anticipating it with such excitement and the“understandable”disappointment.Sheusedthisstrategytodistractfromheraddiction.Youwerewatchingherbehaviorandsawthatmostofthetime,yourmotherdidnotgetwhatshewanted,anditcausedprofoundlowpointsinherlife.Byyouseeingthat,yousubconsciouslydecidedtoprotectyourselffromthesamedramabyonlynotstayinginthemiddleof life’s joys and satisfactions, but below themiddle. So you have themonotoneexperienceofnotcreatingtoobigofanexpectationever foryourself,soyouwillneverexperiencetoobigofadisappointment.
A healthy anticipation would be to forcefully declare, “I want this.Regardlessoftheoutcome,Iwillputmyallintoit.I’mstillgoingforit.”
Andby going for itwith all of your desire,willpower andpersistence,you’dbecreatingtheoutcomethatyoudesire!
L:Butmymotherwentforitanddidn’tgetit,andthat’swhatIhadbeenseeing.
A: But your mother didn’t go for it 100%, otherwise she would havegotten it. Shewentpretty farbut if shehadgiven100% to it, itwouldhavemanifested.Shewentprobably99%andmostlikelyshegaveup,orforwhateverotherreason,itdidn’tcomethrough.Ifsomethingdoesnotcome through, it’s not becausepeopledo everything they cando, theyprobablyfallshortinsomewayorform.Therecanbesomethingsyoutryandtryanditjustdoesn’twork.That’salmostlikeyouputallofyourenergyintoit,andthenyoupray,andyouarefullyopenandsurrendertowhathappens.Thenyou’renotinastateofanydisappointment.Yousimplysay,“Iknow.Ididmybest.Ifitdidn’thappen,itdidn’thappen.”
Incontrast to that, youwouldonlybuildupanunrealistic expectationwheneveryoudecidetogooutoftheblueforacertainoutcome,andyouwishforit,andthenyouputalotofenergyintoit,andyouexpectforitto come through with that exact amount of energy. In that case, youdon’treallyshowpersistence.Followup,andfollowupagain,andwhenitdidn’thappenatthefirstattempt,followup,andfollowupagainuntilithappens.Utilizetheresistanceasstrengtheningtraininglikeresistanceworkout until you get stronger, you are not stopping the training justbecauseyoucouldbenchacertainweight,goalorreps,orranacertaindistance,oftenwearegoingevenfurtherandwhynotifwelovewhatwedo?
That’s what you have to understand. As a child you integrated thisunhealthy pattern when you saw your mother in vain trying to getsomething,whateveritwas.
L: That’s true. I saw that happening with everything mymother everwanted.Relationships.Money.Everything.
A:Ifyougointoalloftheseaspects,andyoureallystayfocusedonthesubject,andputyourselfoutthereallthetimewiththefirmpurposetogetwhatyouwant,andyoumakeacommitmentandyoupersistinyourbeliefandefforts,thenit’sgoingtohappen.Butyoudidn’tseeitcomingthroughin thepast,andyourmothermadeyoubelieveshegave itherall.That’s themisunderstanding. “Hey I’mtrying thebest Icando,” iswhatshewouldhavesaid,butactuallyshedidn’t.Becauseifshewouldhavelefteverythingelsebehindthatcouldhavebeenahindranceonherpathofbeingthebestpersonshecouldbeinordertomanifestwhatshewished for, she would have most likely achieved it. That means heraddictionwasobviouslyintheway.
Thesameholdstrueforothercharacterflaws.Theyareofteninthewaywhen we fail even though we think we nearly gave our all. If youapproach any internal flaws first and then your goals, you will startattracting it, or transforming in suchway that what you desire comesintoyourlife.That’swhenonecantrulysay,“ItriedeverythingIcould.”Onlythenyoucansay,“Iunderstand.Iputmywholebeingintoit.”
Ifyoudidn’tputyourwholebeingintoitandthenitdidn’thappenbutyouexpectedittohappenandyouadoptthisasyouroutlook,thenyoucreatedforyourselfaformulaforsettingyourselfupforfailureoverand
over again, if thatmakes sense.That’s the pattern you’re dealingwith.You’redealingwith,“IamnotputtingmywholebeingintoitbecauseIhadnot seenherputherwholebeing into it.”You just adapted to thepattern because that pattern was a reality for you when you watchedyourmotherasachild.Nowyou’rethinking,“Well,Ireallykindofwanttodoeverythingtoachievemygoal,buthowtoputmywholebeingintoit?Whoshowedmeeverhowtoputmywholebeingintoit?Iwasonlybeingshowntodoalottowardsagoal,andthensay,“ThisiseverythingIhave”andfail.
Ibelievethat’sthepatternthat’srunning.Noonewantstohear,“I’mnotdoingenough.”It’snotreallyaboutthat.It’saboutthefactthatthereisacertainmeasure of effort that you invest in establishing the ultimatelyunsatisfyingrealityforyouthatsays,“IdideverythingbecauseIdidjustasmuchasmymother.”
Yousay,“Hey,mymothertriedthisuptothispoint,andthenshewasdisappointedbecause itdidn’thappen.”It’s like learninganinstrumentandyousay,“I’mgivingmyselfsixmonths.BythenIwanttoplaythisinstrument likethebestviolinist,orguitarplayer.”If itdoesn’thappenafter sixmonths, then it’s a disappointment. And then you throw theinstrumentawayorbreakit.
WhydoIdwellonthissomuch,Lina?It’sareallygoodpatternforustounderstand crucial aspects of ourselves, and of how we can makechangesinourlives.
Ifyouseethefullspectrumofsuchingrainedpatterninsomebody’slife,it’s easier for you to approach it. If youwouldn’t talk about this, Lina,
youwould just let goof thepatternof “doing everything you can, butresultsstilldon’tcomethrough.”That’snotthereality.Therealityisthatyourmother didn’t try everything she could have done, and then shefailed.That’sthereasonwhyshefailed.Thepatternisnotright.
L:It’saself-imposedceiling.
A:Itgivesyouamarkerthatsays,“Look.Whenshetriedtobrainwashyouandsaid,“IdideverythingIcould,butseethatitdidn’thappen”—i.e. in situationswhenyourmother feltunjustlyneglectedbyGodandtheUniverse,itwasactuallyneverthecasethatshewasneglectedatall.Lina, that’s the pattern you’re transforming because you are nowwithSacred InnerDialoguegoing intoa systemwhereyou say, “Ido it andI’mgoing to give itmybest.”Once you give it yourbest, it’s going tohappen. You can look to about any self-help book, or to about anyreligion: If you try and you give it your best,most likely it’s going tohappen.
Whatthismeansisthatperseveranceisneeded.Gettingitdonewithjustonepush,that’smagic.RealityisthatyouarelikeanapprenticefortheUniverseandtheCreator,andyoukeeponlearningandintegratingandgrowing in this process of facing challenges with perseverance andultimatelywith success.That’s your journey that is unfolding.A lot ofpeopledon’twanttobeonthisjourney.Theysay,“eithergivemewhatismineor Iwant to get out of here.”However, that’s like a givingup, afailure program. It’s like putting stipulations on the Universe. TheUniverse says, “Sure. If that’swhatyouwantandyouwant that frame,let’sdoit.Butit’sgoingtounfoldinitsownreality!”Anytimelimitation
you’reputtingontheUniverse,isjustawayoflimitingyourself.Ifyouapproachanythingwith,“Ilovethis.Icandothisfortherestofmylife.Itdoesn’ttakeanyeffort.Icoulddothisforthenextonehundredyears.Itdoesn’tmatterifmydesiredoutcomecomesabouttodayorintwentyyears from now, or even whether it happens at all.” Most likely theUniverse is going tomanifest for youwhat you desirewithmore easethanyoucouldhaveeverimagined.
Evenwhenpeopleknowit,theystilldon’tdoit.
L:It’scounterintuitivetoactthiswaywhenyouwantsomething.
A:Ifyougoaboutitin3-Dreality.Abigpartofthisisapproachingitinawayinwhichyoucanloveit.Inthisreality,it’scounterintuitivetosayIlove givingmy all to somethingbecausemost people areworking in ajob,oronprojectsthattheydon’tlove.Solovingsomethingisnotevenanoptionbecause theyhatewhat theydo.Mostof thepeople fall intothiscategory.Veryfewpeoplelovewhattheydoandtheyaresuccessfulfor some reason. A lot of people would rather hate what they do andmaintaining that paradigm insteadof going into something they reallylovetodo.Ideally,thefirstthingwewanttoestablishisthatwhateverwewanttodo,weshouldbeconnectingtotheenergyof lovefordoingit,andthatconnectionhastobe(re-)established.
Enough of, “If I get this, then I love life. If I don’t get it, I hate life.”That’sablackmailprogram.Whenyousay to life, “Itdoesn’tmatter. Idon’tcareifIgetitornot.God,whateveryouwantisokwithme.”Onceyou accept that, you can start effectivelyworking on goals and attractthem,ornot.Itdoesn’treallymattertotheUniverse.Letmerephraseit.
ItdoesmattertotheUniverseinthesensethattheUniverseisgoingtolistentoyouandprovideyouwiththeexperiencesforwhichyouseemtoask: You’re putting out there something that you don’t love, so theUniverse thinks what you don’t love is what you want more of. TheUniversewants to serve you so it brings youmoreof it.—If you startlovingwhatyou’redoing, theUniversewants togiveyoumoreof thatbecause obviously that’swhat you’re loving.Whateverwe represent inthe Universe or send out to the Universe as our reality on a 24-hourbasis, or 7-day basis, that’swhat theUniverse thinks iswhatwewant.Whywouldwe otherwise choose it, sincewe can just as easily chooseanythingelse?
That’stheideaofusfocusingonwhatwelovetodo.Onceweestablishedourfocusonwhatwelovetodo,that’swhenwe’regoingtoattractmoreofthatwhatwelove.
Let’snowtransformthispattern.
C1 . LINA DIVES DEEPER TO TRANSFORM THESEPATTERNS
Wearenowreadytotransformthispattern,andIaskLinatospeakthefollowingwordstobeginaSID:
L:Mybelief system that I can’t get excited aboutwhat Iwant becauseotherwiseIammetwithdisappointment,canyouhearme?
A:Letmybelief system that I can’t get excitedaboutwhat Iwantnowknow that it is time to be transformed and replaced with a healthierbeliefsystem.
L:MybeliefsystemthatIcan’tgetexcitedaboutwhatIwant, it istimenowforyoutobetransformedandtobereplacedwithahealthierbeliefsystem.
A:This newhealthier belief system is, “I givemyself permission to beexcited about opportunities and I give myself permission to haveeverythingthatIdesire.”
L: This new healthier belief system is, “I givemyself permission to beexcited about opportunities and I give myself permission to haveeverythingthatIdesire.”
A:Icanachieveandaccomplisheverything.
L:Icanachieveandaccomplisheverything.
A:Inowinvitetheenergyofexcitementintomylife.
L:Inowinvitetheenergyofexcitementintomylife.
A:Theinstallationthatprotectsmefromdisappointmentcanyouhearme?
LI:Theinstallationthatprotectsmefromdisappointmentcanyouhearme?
L:Yeah.
A:Pleasestartthetransformationalprocessnow.
L:Pleasestartthetransformationalprocessnow.
A:Menothavingtofeeldevastatedfromdisappointmentanymore,canyouhearme?
L:Menothavingtofeeldevastatedfromdisappointmentanymore,canyouhearme?
L:Yeah.
A:Pleasebecomefullypresentnow.
L:Pleasebecomefullypresentnow.
A:MYexcitementaboutlife,canyouhearme?
L:MYexcitementaboutlife,canyouhearme?
L:Yeah.
A:Pleasereplaceanyformofdisappointmentinmysystem.
L:Pleasereplaceanyformofdisappointmentinmysystem.
A:Anyofmymother’sprogramsthatarenothealthyformeandarestillactive,canyouhearme?
L:Anyofmymother’sprogramsthatarenothealthyformeandarestillactive,canyouhearme?
L:Yeah.
A:Pleasestartthetransformationalprocess.
L:Pleasestartthetransformationalprocess.
L: I knew that one was going to come up in this one. I was thinkingaboutthatonthewayoverhere.Ithinkit’salineagething.It’snotjustmymom.
A:Anyprogramminginmylineagethatheldusbackfromlivingourfullpotential,canyouhearme?
L:Anyprogramminginourlineagethatheldusbackfromlivingourfullpotential,canyouhearme?
A:Askittostartthetransformationalprocessnowandtobecompletelyreleased.
L: I ask you to start the transformational process now and to becompletelyreleased.
A:Melettinggoofmymother’smeasureofeffort,canyouhearme?
L:Melettinggoofmymother’smeasureofeffort,canyouhearme?
A: Please start the transformational process and be replaced with ahealthymeasure.
L: Please start the transformational process and be replaced with ahealthymeasure.
A:Thehealthymeasureis,“Igiveitmyall.Iamreceivingitall.”
L:Thehealthymeasureis,“Igiveitmyall.Iamreceivingitall.”
A:ThehealthymeasureisI’mgivingitmyallandIreachmygoal.
L:There’sablockagebecausemymomworkedsohard that I said I’mnevergoingtodothat.There’sablockagebetweenwhatIknowIcandoandwhatIactuallydo…
A:We’regoingtorefinethatalittlebitmore.It’snotimplyinggettingtothe point of exhaustion when you’re giving it your all. When you’re
giving it you’re all, you’re planning it, you’re all. You’re preparing all.Theworkpartisjust25%ofit.Another25%istiming,planning,etc.
L:Becausegivingitmyall,tome,isseeingherbeingwipedout.
A:No,that’snotwhatthisisabout.Wehavetorefinethisinwords.
A: My new program is now, “I’m planning accordingly to reach mygoal.”
L:My new plan?What is it? Somehow theword healthy has to be inthere…It’slikehealthyplanningorhealthyorganization….
A:My new healthy program is, “I plan according to my resources toreachmygoal.”
L: My new healthy program is, “I plan according to my resources toreachmygoal.”
D. GLORIA: LINEAGE TRAUMA OF LOSING PROPERTYAND WEALTH
AsthefollowingcasestudyillustratesevenmoresothanLina’s,weneedtogobackintoaperson’slineageforthetransformationofanypatternsthathavebeenpassedonfromgenerationtogeneration.Inthiscase,thegrandfather of my client Gloria had his properties, homes, land andwealthtakenawayfromhimbytheCubangovernmentpriortoCastrobecomingthecountry’sleader.Thereareathousandstoriesinthefamilythathavebeenemergedbasedonthisprogramming:Gloriabelievesshecannothavewhatshewantsanditdoesn’tmatterwhatshehas,itcanbe
takenaway fromher.Thismakesherverycareful increatinganythingbecauseanythingbeingcreatedisbeingtakenaway.
Hersystemisverycarefulinaccumulatingwealthinanyform,whetheritisrichnessinrelationships,health,wealthorinanything.Sheappearstobetiptoeingaroundthemarkofthebeginningstagesofevenbeingonthestart lineofcreatingwealth.This iswhatwehavetotransformandthe reason why we go into the pattern that created this belief system.This belief system was formed after a corresponding reality had beenexperienced. In Gloria’s case, her belief system is based on hergrandfatherhavingsomethingthatwastakenawayafterthegovernmentchanged. Her family had to come to another country where her dadwasn’t really accepted. He had to work hard and did not receive thepromotionsheshouldhavegotten.Evenininstanceswhenherdadwassuccessfulandgoteverythingthatheneeded,hestillsomewherehadthisprogram runningwhere he didn’t trust society.Hedidn’t trust societybecauseeverythingheownedwastakenawayfromhisfamilybefore,soit’sreallyhardforhimtotrustpeoplenow.
This programming had been passed on to Gloria. Without trustingpeople,shecan’tsuccessfullyengageinteamwork.Shecreatesanimosity.Whenevershedoesn’ttrustwhat’shappeningaroundher,sheintroducesmistrust.There is enoughof a challenge tomake things run smoothlywhenyoutrusteveryoneandeverythingaroundyou.Onceshetrustsshecan let go of themistrust that creates an enormous energywaste. Shedoesn’t have to constantly check, “Is this going fine?” and she canputher energy into doing what she needs to be doing. That’s somethingthat’sveryimportantforGloria,ortrulyforanyone,becauseitsetsinto
motion tobeas successfulas shecanbe. Inorder toovercomewhat ishappening inher lifenow, it is required togoback into the lineage toclearthedysfunctionalenergythathasbeenpresentforgenerationsandhasbeensofarshapingGloria’sexperience.
I ask Gloria to say out loud, “My belief system that I’m not fullysupportedbyGodandtheUniverse,canyouhearme?”
Shegetsaresponseandsays,“Yes.”
Weinformthisbeliefsystemthatitistimeforittobetransformedandreplacedwithahealthierbeliefsystembyhersaying:“MybeliefsystemthatI’mnotfullysupportedbyGodandtheUniverse,itistimeforyoutobetransformedandreplacedwithanewhealthierbeliefsystem.”
We both come to the conclusion that the new healthier belief systemwouldbe“Iam fully supportingGodand theUniverse,and Iam fullysupportedbyGodandtheUniverseatalltimes.”
Thenwesay:“Mynewbeliefsystem,withwhichIreplacemyoldone,is“IamfullysupportingGodandtheUniverse,andIamfullysupportedbyGodandtheUniverseatalltimes.”
NextIaskGloriatorepeatoutloud“IamfullysupportingGodandtheUniverse,andIamfullysupportedbyGodandtheUniverseatalltimes”andtorepeatthisaffirmationfiftytimesadaytocreatethisnewreality.Onceitbecomesherrealitywecanstartgoingdeeper.
12. STRUCTURES, BLUEPRINTS ANDFRAMEWORKS
Noonereallyhasever started talking to themselvesandacknowledgedthemselves as unlimited systems.Wedon’t evendiscern that there areaspects inourselves likepatterns,belief systems, and structures.SacredInnerDialogueshelptomakethesestructuresvisibleandtoshowustheblueprints of our lives. The word blueprint is very significant herebecause everything thatwe are experiencing in our lives is part of ourblueprints.Therearesystemsandprogramsinplacethatdetermineourlife experience, and that’s why I make frequent comparisons to acomputerprogram.Blueprintsprogramus; likeamasterprintingplateof a banknote that turns blank paper intomoney, they turn our dailyenergy into certain experiences. They make us experience certainsituations.Themorewe can identify our internal blueprints, themorewecanidentifywhyweareexperiencingcertainsituations.Thefirststepis not just knowing that there is something wrong with us, it’s moreabout being investigative and wanting to know what our specificblueprint looks like. That’s the prerequisite to even go into a SacredInnerDialogue.
SacredInnerDialoguesareself-revelatory.SIDisnottherighttoolforpeoplewhodon’twanttolookatthemselves.
Peoplewhodon’twant to lookat themselves,don’twant togodeeper.Theywillrefusetogodeepernomatterfromwhichangleweapproach
theissue,nomatterwhattheirparticularholdupaboutgoingdeeperortheirbeliefsystemis.
Beforeyoubuildaskyscraper,youbuildametalossaturewithpolesandstruts,sothattheycansupportthefuturebuilding,aswellasascaffoldaround it. Looking at the site, you see a crane up there. You see anemergingstructure.Thereisascaffoldsothatpeoplecangoupandputthebuildingblocksontopofeachother.Thescaffolditselfisastructure.Youfirstraiseascaffold,andthenyoustartbuildingthecorestructure.
You can compare this building process with the way in which peoplecreate, consciously and unconsciously, the structures, blueprints andframeworksoftheirlives.Peoplehavescaffoldsthathelpthemtoputupthemainframeoftheirlives.Beforethereisanythingsolidbeingmade,it’sscaffoldsallovertheplace,untilitbecomesarecognizablestructureas themain structure isbeingcreatedover aperiodof time.Whateverthe pattern or belief system is, it becomes now a reality. It becomesingrained,likeyou’rewalkingapathoftenandallofasudden,thatpath—orpattern,forthismatter,becomesmoredistinctandlargerasmorepeoplekeepwalkingonit.Wehavethesepathwaysandscaffoldsalloverthe place internally. Some of them are in place to create a strongerskyscraper,buteitherway,theframeworkissomethingthatwehaveinplaceforeverythingthatweexperienceinlife.Wehaveaframeworkthatis built up internally from different aspects of qualities of life that weconsider important or part of our life. For example, good habits, badhabits, perseverance, procrastination, whatever it is, there’s always aframeworkforit.
Seeitasahouse.Thehouseisyourlife.Yourlifeismadeupofdifferentbricks that contain different qualities of energies that we’re creatingeveryday over long periods of time. These energies might be earningmoney,goingtowork,makinggooddecisions,etc.Ourlifeisbeingbuiltupbythesequalities.Thatisourframeworkforourlife.Wecantraceitback toour frameworkhowour livesplayout.SIDhelps tomake thatframework visible. Once you understand the blueprint, then theframework, then the structure, you can imagine that youhavenowallthe components to create a new building, to un-create an existingbuilding, or to add another structure on to it. You have all theconsciousnessrequiredtomakeanyofthesethingshappen.Butfirstyouhave to understand the blueprint. You have to understand theframework.Youhavetounderstandwhatthisbuildingismadeupof.Isthereasbestosinit?Isitmasonry?Isitsteel?Whatitismadeupof?SIDhelpsyoutoanswerthesequestions.
Thisisveryimportanttounderstand.Thefirstandforemostimportanceof SID is understanding what the blueprint or framework of thestructure of your life is. What is our life made up of? What is thatperson’slifemadeupof?Thenyouseepatternswiththefather,withthemother,with family,withGod,andpatternswith theUniversesuchasnobeliefinahigherpower.Whateverthebeliefsystem,nobeliefsystemis still abelief system.Belief systemsareput intoplace so lifebecomeseasier.It’slikehabits.Youdon’tthinkabouthabitsyou’rejustdoingit.
Habits don’t knowwhether they’re goodor bad, they’re just beingputintoplace.
There is no judgment of that habit prior to you going into theidentificationoftheframeworkwiththehelpofSacredInnerDialogue.That’swhySIDisveryimportantbecauseitmakesvisibletouswhattheinternalstructureis.Thenwecanlookattheoutside:whatexperiencesare going on in the outside world? Now we can translate theseexperiences back to our blueprint. We can also decide to change theblueprint,andthensomething in theoutsideworld isgoingtochange,too.Onceyouunderstandthat,youunderstandwhythisissoimportant.The more you know about your internal structure, the more youunderstandwhy it’s being put into place, and themore consciousnessyou have about this, themore you can create the perfect life that youdesire. That requires internal communication and most of the peopledon’t even think about talking to themselves and identifying theirblueprint because most of them don’t even know that they have ablueprint.
This is something for everyone. All of a suddenwe recognize that wehavetheinfinityoftheMultiverseinourselvesandthroughourchannelsfromourDNA,fromtheconfigurationof thepatternsthatwecreated,lifeenergyflowsandcreatesexperiencesthatwehaveinlife.Whenthesebuilding blocks are played in a different way, we have differentexperiences. It’s like having a xylophone: each xylophone stick has adistinctsoundlikeG,A,B,C,D,E,Fandwecanplaytheminvariouscombinations.
In whatever way you play them, determines the difference in theirharmonics, and the type ofmusic experiencewe are having.Now youunderstand the principle of how life force is flowing through us.
Observing and listening to ourselves, we can also detect how high,strong,or lowourself-love is,whichmakesabigdifference inhowweexperienceourlives.Ifweloveourselftothehighestdegreepossible,isthere then another higher degree of howwe could love ourselves? I’mnotposingthisquestioninanegotisticalway,butisthefrequencymaybesolowthatitisalmostself-hate?Thishastobeidentified.Everyonehasself-love, but the question is how high or low is our self-love? Is it atzero,minustenorpluseight?Wecanobservethatandonceweidentifythe answer to this question, we can start adjusting it. But by us notknowing what is in there, there is no way we could be attentivelylistening to ourselves andmake adjustments to create different, betterandhealthierexperiences.Wehaven’teven takenclaimofour internalprocesses.Mostofthepeopledon’twanttolookintothemselvesbecausetheyareafraidofwhattheyaregoingtosee.Foryearsandyearspeoplehavesuppressedtheiremotionsandenergies.
Generally,peopleweretaughtnottoshowemotionsandwhenemotionscomeup,thefirstthingtheyareconditionedtodoistosuppressthem.Our work here as healer and self-healer is to allow ourselves tounderstandthepowerofemotions,thepoweroftheinternalworld,thepoweroftheinternalstructure,ofthemind,thespiritandthephysicalbody. Our work is to make all internal structures visible. This meansstructuresonalllevels:mental,physical,emotional,spiritualandastral.
This means that all levels are working independently within theirrespective environments and then they alsoworkunified, alignedwitheach other. When they are in alignment, they create beautifulexperiencesthatallowustoflourishinlife.Iftheyarenotinalignment,
ourexperienceswill reflect that lackofharmony.Evenwhenwemeanwell,itwillthenberatherlikeawhisperinthetelephonegame:yousayonethingandsomethingtotallydifferentcomesout.
SID helps us to create an internal alignment of our mental, physical,emotional,spiritualandastral levelsbecausewearemakingallofthesesystems,frameworksandscaffoldsvisiblesothatitiseasytoarrangeorrearrangethem.Oncetheyarevisible,weacknowledgethem.Wedon’teven think about changeyet, let’s just acknowledge them first.Occupyyourselfentirelywithmerelyacknowledgingthem.Befullypresentwiththe energy that comes to fore when you apply SID. Ask: By whichexperiences am I affected right now? —I might be affected byprocrastination, by exhaustion, by feeling tired, by feeling I’m notqualified enough, not adequate enough, not confident enough, notstrongenough,ornotbeautifulenough.Alltheseperceiveddeficiencieshavetobeacknowledgediftheycomeup.Ifyoudothis,itisnotgoingtobelikeinthepastwhenyoumightnothavewantedtolookatsomethingand you were thinking, “I don’t want to look at this because nothinghappenswhenIdidthisbefore.”Thistimeit isdifferent.Acknowledgeeverything but instead of feeling disempowered by what you see, youratherrecognizethatthesearestructuresandframeworksthatwereputintoplace.Theywereputinplacebyourselvesorbysomebodyelse,andtheycreateacertainoutcomesuchas,forinstance,notgettingwhatwewant.Nowoncewerecognizedthis,wecanaskthesequalitiestogiveusmorespace,orwecangodeeperandaskwhat it is thatwecando forthesequalitiesandaskthemtostartthetransformationalprocesssowecantrulyexperienceahealingorthatwecanbelivingahealthierlife.
Thathastobedonewithanunwaveringdesireof investigatingwhat ishappening inside ourselves. Our attitude has to be one of not gettingtiredof lookingintoourselves,notbeingfedupwithwhat’s inside,notbeing overwhelmed with what’s inside, not feeling tired or beingexhaustedjustbylookingintoourselves,butratherfeelingexcitedaboutit:Themorewerecognizeourunlimitedness,themoreweseethatthesestructures had been put in place, for some reason, to limit and teachourselves.
Themore we understand that we set out to transform limitation, themoreexcitedweget.Wetruly liveanunlimited life.Nowwecanopenourselvesuptoliveanexpanded,rich,excitinglife.SIDmeanswe’reatthepulseoftime:werecognizewhichpartofusiscreatingwhatineverygivenmoment.Werecognizewhatwearefeelinginthemoment.Wegetmorealignedinexperiencingtrulywhatwearedoingatthatmomentinrealtime.Werecognize,“I’mfeelinglimited.”—Thatmarkstheturningpoint!NowIcanask:WhydoIfeellimited?
Icanmakeadjustments:“Limitation,canyouhearme?”Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”Icontinuethedialogue:“Mylimitation,pleasegivememorespace.”WeactuallyobserveourselvesanduseSIDasagauge:WhereamIdoingwhatoutofhabit,becauseofimprintingthroughmyparents,mygrandparents,mylineage,orwheredoIfeelIhavetolimitmyself?Then,asIstayfocusedonmytransformation,Icangointotheexperienceofmyunlimitedness, intomy expansion, into contactwithmyunlimitedSource. Clear observation combined with Sacred Inner Dialogues canmake thishappen forus.Wewill recognize thatweareall channelsofthe infiniteandwearechannelingour infiniteselveswithmillionsand
billionsofqualities,allofwhichwecandrawuponinordertoputthemintobuildingblocksandframeworksforourlives.
WithSID,wecanalsochannelourlovedoneswhohavepassedover.Wecansupportthemontheirtransformationalpath,aswellasaskthemtosupportusinourlivesordissolveanyunresolvedissuesrelatedtothem.
13. SID CHECKUP AND IMPROVEMENTPROTOCOL
Thisnextsectioncontainsenrichedprotocols forSID:Wearegoingtolook at a standard session, and I will show you what needs to beconsideredinthatsituationaslongasnothingelseiscomingupandasksforourattention.Ifnothingelsecomesforth,youwillstartasessionbyfollowingthisoutline.
SIDisanoverallwellness,assessmentandimprovementtool.
It considers all aspects of a person, including our energetic wellbeing.Keep inmind that not every personwill be immediately ready to divedeep into her unconscious and explore all facets of her energeticmakeup.SIDisawellnessimprovementprocedurethatallowsforoverallconsideration of whatever is going on in a person’s life. For example,somepeoplewhoarenot(yet)willingtogoasdeepasmightbeneededtoexploretherootcausesforanyunfavorablelifeexperiences,buttheycanstillreceiveaverygoodclearingorprocedurewiththisprotocolandfeel somethingreally shiftedduring their session.Theymightnothavehadthedepthtogotherebuttheyfelt,“Wow,somethingshifted.”That’ssomething we have to consider. This process can take place either inperson or over the phone. Each approach is slightly different. Thedistance approach is going to be a little different than the in personsession,yetbothfollowthesamegeneraloutline.
Iwant tomake itvisibleso that itcanbe trulyaprocedure thatallowsyou, as a practitioner, to support the healing process of a client in astructured and meaningful manner. The first step would be theimprovementofgenerallifeforceintake.Thatmarksalreadyanincreaseintheenergyflowoftheclient.Itcanbeaprocedurethatensuresthatallchakrasare inharmony.Thatall thechakrasarebalancedandthat theclientgetsenoughenergy.Itincludesaclearingofdenseenergies.Letmegoastepfurtherandshowyouhowitisdoneforyourclientsaswellasforyourself.
MODULE 1: CALLING BACK YOUR LIFE FORCENote:
You or your clients need to feel the desire to live life fully. If you areworkingwithaverydepressedpersonwhodoesnotwant to live, thenthisprocedurewouldnotbeagoodapproachsince thatpersonwould,presumably,notwanttohaveallhislifeforcebacktofullyembracelife.Theunderlyingconflictbetweentheprotocolandthetruedesireoftheclientwould turn the session ineffective. (Energywork always respectsthewillofeveryoneinvolved.)
Get a statement fromyourself or theotherperson that youworkwiththatamountsto“Iwanttofullylivemylife.”
Themost importantparthere is that thepersonwants to live.A lotofpeoplehave in their life experienceswhere theydidn’twant to live forsome reason. Nearly everyone has this experience more or lessprominently in their life stream: there is a moment when they didn’t
want to live, or couldn’t handlewhat presented itself in their lives, sothattheydidn’twanttoliveanylonger.Thiscanoccursubconsciously,withoutthinkingaboutthis,orapersonmightbealmostatthevergeofgiving up. It could even be something that they were not directlyinvolved inbut theirparents,or someone theygrewupwith,had it intheirsystemsandtheypickedituptoo.Inthatcase,thereareafewstepsthatneedtobedonebeforeanysessioncanreallystart.Thesestepsareasfollows:
“Iaskallofmy life force that’scurrentlynot inmybody if itcanhearme.”
“Allofmylifeforcethat’scurrentlynotinmybody,canyouhearme?”Onceapositive response is received,wecontinue: “Allofmy life forcethat’s currently not inmy body, please fully return intomy body andintomylifenow.”
Ifclientsareonly20percentintheirbody,theyarenotevengoingtofeelasessionbecausetheyarenotevenhere.Themostimportantthingyoucandoistogetyourclientsfirmlybackintotheirbodies,intotheirlives,andmake that improved state a new commitment for them now. Foreveryonewhoreadsmybooknow,inthismoment,say,“Inowcommitallofmylifeforcetothis,mybodyandmylife.”
Committothisstatementandnowallyourlifeforcecanreturn.
Wantingtoliveyourlifeandcallingallyourpowerbackisthestartingpointforallfurtherenergyworkthatwillthenallowyoutogodeeper.Ifyourclientsarereadytogodeeperafterthis,thenyouprobablyhavetoworkwiththerootchakrabecausemanypeoplearenotfullygrounded.
(Anyone whose life force has been fragmented lacks in being fullygrounded in this life.) Sooner or later, if that’s the case, you as apractitionerwanttoworkonyourownandtheirrootandcrownchakrasbecausesomeoftheirenergywentoutandsomeotherenergyoccupiedtheirchakras.Thesameholdstrueforotherchakras:yourclientsdidnotwant to be fully on the planet, and as a result, they have usuallysomething going onwith their lower backs or their legs orwith otherchakras.
We canutilize it for us andour clients tomove forward and start thehealing process. If your clients are not fully there, then they can’texperiencethefullhealing.That’swhya lotofpeoplearenumb,takealotofmedication,orare“checkedout”ingeneral.Lookaroundyou.Alotofpeoplearecheckedout.Thisprocedureisdesignedtobringpeopleback into their livesandbodies, and then,wecan reallyanalyzewhichpartoftheirchakrasisopposingthefullenergyofbeinghereinthislife,on this planet. Is it the heart, the solar plexus chakra, is it the throatchakra, the root chakra?Might it be because of sexual abuse that thispersonischeckedout?Orisitbecauseofanotherformofverbal,mental,emotionalorspiritualabuse?Didthissituationfirstemerge inthis life,orisitrootedinapastlife?Didyourclientsnotwanttolive,diditgettoo hard for them and did they just not want to be on the planetanymore?Partof theirenergy ischeckedout.Thatmeanspartof theirsystemdidn’tgetenoughlife forcetobemaintained.Wewantthemtocomebackintotheirlives,sowecanmosteffectivelyworkandsupportthem.That’sthefirstandmostimportantstep.
Ifallofourlifeforcewouldbefullyinourbodies,we’dallbelevitatinganddoingthewildest thingsbecauseweareunlimitedenergies.Weallwouldbe fully tuned intoour lives andnot tunedout.Wewant everypartofourlifeforcethat’snotavailabletousrightnowtoreturntous.Themorelifeforcewehaveinourbodies,themoremagneticwearetoattractwhateverweneedanddesire.Themoremagneticweare,thelesswe have to use effort to create and attract anything in our lives. Themorewedwell in thepastor in the future, themorewearenot in thepresent.Thisiswhyitissoimportanttocallallofourpowerbacktous.Itneedstobethefirstthingtorememberthatwearepowerfulbeings.Icallallofmypowerbacktome.Iamwholeandcomplete.—ThisnowallbecomingpartofourmakeupthroughtheconscioususeofSacredInnerDialogue.Yourclients,youyourself,arecallingallofyourlifeforcethatiscurrentlynotinthebodybacktoyourself.Whenwearecallingitback,what is happening? Our root chakra has enough energy. Our secondchakrahasenoughenergy.Wefeelenergized.Wedon’tfeellikeweareonlookers in our own lives, but we are in full command of our lives.Once we are on the commander bridge of our lives, we can startchanging directions. That’s when we are back in charge of our Spaceship.That’swhythisfirststepissoimportant.
Startwithyourself:“Icallallofmylife forcethat’scurrentlynot inmybody back to myself and into my life.” Then ask the person you’reworkingwithtospeak:“Icallallofmylifeforcethat’scurrentlynotinmy body, can you hear me?” Once your client receives a positiveresponse,askhertospeak,“Icallallofmylifeforcethat’scurrentlynotinmybodybackintomybodyandintomylife.”
Note:
In the following, you will encounter additional fourteenmodules thatallow you to apply Sacred Inner Dialogue virtually to all areas of oursystem and experience. I recommend you to work through thesemodules step by step to see results manifest in your life. A pace thatyieldsformostpeoplethemostbeneficialoutcome—withoutriskingofgettingoverwhelmedbytheprocess—isworkingoneachmoduleforoneweek beforemoving to the nextmodule, start reading through it andthenapplyit.
MODULE 2: RECHARGING YOUR CHAKRASThisisanessential,yetverysimplestep.Followthisprotocoltoworkonyourself,aswellaswithothers:
“Allofmychakras,canyouhearme?”
“YES”
“Allofmychakras,pleasespininthehighestfrequencypossible.”
MODULE 3: GROUNDINGLookalsoupMULADHARA—IHAVEinMODULE15.
The root chakra represents our connection to our mother (MotherEarth).
“Anythinginterferingwithmygrounding,canyouhearme?”
“YES”
“Anything interfering with my grounding, please start thetransformationalprocess.
“Mycompromisedgrounding,canyouhearme?”
“YES”
“My compromised grounding, please start the transformational andhealingprocessnow.”
(Whyis thisnecessary?—Becauseyourstateofbeinggrounded in thislife and in this world is compromised. As a practitioner, I want yourcompromisedgroundingtostarttheself-healingprocess.)
“Myfullyintactgrounding,canyouhearme?”
“YES”
“My fully intact grounding, please become fully present and fullyactivatednow.”
“Me being fully grounded and connectedwithMother Earth, can youhearme?”
“YES”
“Me being fully grounded and connected with Mother Earth, pleasebecomefullypresentnow.”
MODULE 4: CROWN CHAKRALookalsoupSAHASRARA—IKNOWinMODULE15.
The crown chakra represents our connection to our Creator, to theFatherSource.
“Anythingthat’scompromisingmycrownchakra,canyouhearme?”
Asanextstep,weaskanythingthat’scompromisingthecrownchakratogiveusmore space: “Anything that’s compromisingmy crown chakra,pleasegivememorespace.”
Onceitgivesusmorespace,wecanaskit tostartthetransformationalprocess:
“Anythingcompromisingmycrownchakra,pleasegivememorespaceandstartthetransformationalprocess.”
EXCURSUS: SPACE AND MULTIDIMENSIONALITY,EXPANSION AND USE OF LIFE FORCE
Whenever the situationgets too sticky,or tooheavy,or too tough, theintention is: “Please givememore space.” That phrase is sufficient togentlyaskandtoreceivejustenoughspaceforournextmove,whateveritmightbe.
Whywouldwedesiremorespace?Sothatwecanunfoldintothatspace.Thetiniestbitofspaceisbetterthannothing;itgivesusmorespaceforourenergy.
Themoreofourenergywehaveinourenergyfield,themoremagneticweare,andthemoreconsciousnessweattract.Atinyamountofspacecan be an infinite space in the reality of Multidimensionality sinceeverythingisfractalingoutuptoinfinity.
Thathastobeunderstood.Everythingisafractal.WitheverylittlespaceIget,Igaininfinitespacethatgivesmenewfreedomforaction.Alittlebitof space is all the space in theworld.One space is connected toallspace.OneAllnessorAlonenessisconnectedtoallOneness.(Readthislastsentencecarefully!)So ifwegeta littlebitof space,wecango into theunlimitedspaceofallspace.
Multidimensionality is built like this: It consists of fractals, infinitelycomplex and never-ending patterns into infinity that are self-similaracrossdifferentspaces.WhateverIamabletodotochangeapatterninone space, even if itmight be a small space, affects the patterns in allspaces. Multidimensionality is an infinitely complex, dynamic systemthat allows us far greater freedom of action, a far greater power ofhealing,andmoreagencyincreatingofourbestlivespossiblethanmostof us dare to imagine. Everything in a multidimensional universe, orrathermulti-verse,isalreadyexpanded.Everythingturnsintoexpansion.Everythingisexpansionandeverythingisunlimited.
Acting in multidimensionality means connecting the frequency oflimitedspacewiththefrequencyofinfinitespace.Thisisaprocessthatfollowsexact laws.Youcouldcompare it toquantumphysicsor stringtheory. I am accessing reality holographically.What I’m doing at thismomentismerelyallowingittobecomevisible.Iallowforspace,whichisalreadythere,tobecomevisible.Iamshiningalightonthespacethatisalreadythere,aspacethatmerelywasnotvisible.Thatspacebecomesenlightened, and its truly unlimited qualities come forth. That’sEnlightenmentandexpansion.
Ultimately, expansion means not making a space bigger, but makingyour consciousness bigger, i.e. you expand in your consciousness.Youare expandingyour awareness. Space is space forhealing,wellness, forcreating abundance, for the creation of whatever you desire, and forservingyourlifepurpose.
RememberforamomentwhatIsaidaboutlifeforce.Ourlifeforceissooften and easily wasted or compromised: by being in a boringconversation, by someone who is suppressing you or bothering orblamingyou,orsomeonewhoismakingyoufeelguilty.
Wheneveryoucompromiseyourself,that’slifeforcethatiscompromised.
The same life force that you coulduse to runamarathon,walk,drinkmore water, drink wheatgrass juice, prepare a vegan meal, go to theconveniencestoreandgetyourselfthelotteryticketthatwinsyou$365millionmightbe completely lost for suppressivepurposes. It is the lifeforcefortheideaforthenextgreatinvention.Itisthelifeforcethatyoucouldutilizeforwritingthesongthatwouldmakegenerationsofmusicloverstaptheirfeetandhumalongeachtimeitisbeingplayed.Yourlifeforceandspaceitselfareunlimitedinpotential.
Whatyoudowith that life force,andwith the space inwhichyoucanunfoldyourlifeforceistrulyunlimited.Youcouldstrikearockandhaveaspringcomeoutofit.Or,yousitonthecouchandnothinghappens.Oryoujustgoandtakeashower.Eitherwayit’sthesamelifeforceandit has encapsulated in itself infinite and unlimited potential. In thatspace,youcouldcreateanythingyouwanted,youonlyneedtodecideto
doso.See:Howlongdoesittaketogointheconveniencestoreandgetyouthatticket?Maybefiveminutes.That’s fiveminutesoftimeandofspace.Howlongdoesittaketocomeupwithagreatinvention?Maybejustoneminute.Thenyouwriteyour ideadownandyougot it.That’sthespacethatyouhave.That’sthepowerofspace.Howandwhatyoudowiththatspaceandhowyoufillitwithyourlifeforceisuptoyou.That’swhycreatingspaceissoimportantforyourselfandforallofyourclients:Creatingspacewillremindusthatwecanstartexpandingourownlifeforcesothatwemayliveourfullpotential.
MODULE 5: ENTITIES, EARTHBOUND SPIRITS,EXTRATERRESTRIALS AND LETTING GO OF
PARASITIC RELATIONSHIPS (THE EX)Frequently, our life force is compromiseddue to attachmentsofheavyenergiesorentities that feed fromit,and therebydepriveusof the fulluseofourlifeforce.Thefollowingprotocoladdressesthissituation:
“Anyentitiesthataredrainingmylifeforceinunhealthyways,canyouhearme?”
—Theentitiesthatarepresentwillrespond.
“Entities,pleasegivemeenoughspacesoIcanintegratemorelifeforceintomysystem.”
“Entities, I give you now permission to start the transformationalprocess, and please go into the greater central sun, into your owntransformation.”
It’saformofsupport.
When I declare, “Entities, I give you permission to start thetransformationalprocessandgointothegreatercentralsun,”Iextendaformofsupporttotheseentities.Thegreatercentralsunisthemotherofallthesuns,andentitiescanfindtheretheirownhealingtransformation.Theywill be transformed into a raw energy formwhere they can startrealizing theirown fullpotential, rather than feedingon someoneelse.Mostentitieswerenottheretodousanyharm.Someofthemyes,butalotof themcamebecausewedidnot feelstrongenoughalone.Sotheycameandkindofhangoutwithus,untilwedecidewe’restrongenough.Itissufficienttoendthisalliancebygentlythankingthemandpointingthewayforthemtoabetterplacetobe:“Thankyou.Icanhandlethis.Thankyouforhavingbeenthere.NowIgiveyoupermissiontostartthetransformational process and go into the greater central sun for yourowntransformation.”
Thesameappliestoearthboundspirits:
“Anyearthboundspiritsdrainingmylifeforceinanunhealthyway,canyouhearme?”
Theearthboundspiritssay“Yes.”Thenweasktheearthboundspiritstostart the transformationalprocessbygoing into thegreatercentral sunintotheirowntransformation:
“Any earthbound spirits drainingmy life force in an unhealthyway, Igiveyoupermissiontostartthetransformationalprocessandgointothegreatercentralsun.”
Earthboundbeingsarestuck.Theyhaven’tgottenthenewsyetthattheyare dead.They are still going towork or doing their own little things,
anddon’tknowthattheyaredead.Theyarenotconsciousoftheirdeath,andare stuck, that’s all. Sometimeswhen theyare stuck, they candealwithyouasifyouwereinvadingtheirspace.Ifaspiritisstillinaplacewhere it thinks it still needs to work, and its workspace is not thereanymore,itwillcreatedisturbancesinonewayoranother.Ifithappensthat youare living in thatdeceasedperson’shousebut you redesignedthehouse, or theirworkplace is nowan apartment complex, then thatperson—that earthbound spirit—thinks you are invading theirworkplace.
Thatgivesyouanideaaboutwhatisoccurringwhenyou’rewalkingintooldbattlefieldsfromtheCivilWar,orintoanIndianburialground,oraplacewheretragicthingshadhappened.Someofthesebeingswhowerealivethenandpartofatraumaticexperiencethatledtotheirdeathcan’tget over the shockbecause it happened so fast that theydidn’t get themessage.Withoutawarenessofthat,youmightjustbewonderingwhyitfeelssoheavytobeinaspecificplace.Havingawarenessofwhatistrulygoing on, all you need to do is to give them an alternative to theexperienceinwhichtheyfindthemselvesstuck.Theywillgladlytakeit!Oncetheymoveonfromtheplacewheretheywerestuck,theyaregivenachancetotransform.
Itisthesamewithextraterrestrial(ET)beingsiftheyareaffectingyou.
YouneedtostartbyaskingtheETbeingsthatareattackingyoutopleasegive youmore space. First of all you ask formore space because youmightwanttobeagreathostbutyoudon’twanttobedrained.Theyare
draining you in an unhealthyway.No one has the right to drain you.Youhavetherighttoyourownspace.
“Anyextraterrestrialbeingsthataredrainingmylifeforce,canyouhearme?”
—TheETbeingsthatarepresentwillrespond.
“Extraterrestrial beings that are draining my life force, I give youpermission to go into the greater central sun, into your owntransformation.”
Next we address life-force that is still taken from us by ex-partnerswithoutourpermission,i.e.,duringtheseparationordivorceprocess:
“All of my life-force that my ex is still taking from me without mypermission,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”weask:
“All of my life-force that my ex is still taking from me without mypermission,pleasefullyreturntomeandstaywithme.”
Next,wesay:
“Allofmylife-forcethatIstillfreelygivetomyex,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”weask:
“Allofmylife-forcethatIstillfreelygivetomyex,pleasefullyreturntomeandstaywithme.”
Inconclusionofthismodule,Iwishtoremindyouthatthisisallaboutenergy.Noonehastherighttodrainyou,anditisyourrightanddutyto
yourself to ask these beings tomake space and leave you, and to starttheirowntransformationalprocess.
Youmight wonder why anyone could ever be draining another beingsincewe—includingthebeingswhomightdrainyou—areallunlimitedbeings.Weareindeedunlimitedsourcebeings.Weareallconnectedtoour unlimited source.Despite this fact, some beings choose to receiveenergy parasitically. In these situations, you need to take your powerback,andletthemknowthatyouareaskingformorespace.
Youhave theright toyourownspace.Youarecompromised forsomereason—inyourownprogramorlineageprogram.Whateverthereasonwas,younowask foryourspace(“Pleasegivememorespace”).That’swhenyoucantakeabreathanddevelopgreaterconsciousnessandstartreally working on any given situation in your life that you wish toimprove.Remember space is also connected to theunlimited vastness,whenyouaskforspaceitcanbealittlebitorawholelot.
MODULE 6: BUILDING TRUSTThe sixthmodule is tobuild trustwhenworkingwithpeoplewho losttheirtrustintheuniverseormultiverseorinGodorinthemselves.
“Myshatteredtrustinmyself,theuniverse,Godandhumanity,canyouhearme?”
Once we get an answer we ask, “My shattered trust in myself, theuniverse,Godandintohumanity,pleasestartthehealingprocess.”
“My trust in myself, the universe, God and humanity, please becomefullyaccessibleandfullyintegratedintomylife.”
“Trustinginmypurpose,canyouhearme?”
Once we receive an answer, we ask, “Trusting in my purpose, pleasebecomefullypresentinmyeverydaylifeaswell.”
MODULE 7: CLEARING UP BLACK MAGICThe following protocol assists youwhen you or your clients dealwithpsychic attacks, blackmagic, jealousy, spells, curses, dense energies, orEntities.
“Anyjealousyprojectionsthatareaffectingmyenergiesinanunhealthyway,canyouhearme?”
Onceyoureceiveananswer, say, “Pleasegivememorespace, start thetransformationalprocessandbedeflectednow.”
Inanextstepyouwishtoclearyourselforyourclientfromanyformofblackmagic:
“Anyformofblackmagicthatisaffectingmeinanunhealthyway,canyouhearme?”
Onceyoureceiveananswer,maybeinformofanenergyresponseinthedifferentareasofthebody,say:
“Any form of black magic that is affecting me in an unhealthy way,pleasestartthetransformationalprocessandgivememorespace.”
Thisaddressesanythingthatmighthaveoriginatedinthislifetimeorinapast lifesinceit is likelythatpeoplewhoengagedinblackmagicinapast lifeareexperiencingrepercussions in this life. If thatmightbe thecase,usethefollowingprotocol:
“Anyblackmagicfrommypastlives,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“Anyblackmagicfrommypastlives,Inowgiveyoupermissiontostartthetransformationalprocessandtobecompletelycleared.”
When we don’t have any blackmagic in our system, we don’t attractblackmagiceither.
Whenweapproachthetransformationalaspectofthesethings,wehaveto consider our own relation to the subject in question. For instance:HaveIattractedblackmagicinthislife?DidIengageinblackmagicinapast life? It doesn’t matter whether this relation is big or small, andwhetheritstemsfromapastorcurrentlife.Wehavetoacknowledgeandaddressit.
Notethatthisisaparallelprocesstowhatwehaddiscussedwithrespecttoentities:Weattractedthemandgavethempermissiontobewithus,becauseit’slikethesayinghasit,“miserylovescompany.”Ifwearenotmiserable,wedon’tfeelalone.Wecanthenmoveforward.Ifwearebusymovingforward,wewillhavenotimetocomplainortobeburdenedbyanothergroupofentitiesthatdon’twanttomoveforwardintothelight.
Next,let’sfocusontheclearingofanydenseenergies:
“Anydenseenergiesthatareslowingmedown,canyouhearme?”
Once they answer, ask them to start the transformational process andgiveyoumorespace:
“Any dense energies that are slowing me down, please start thetransformationalprocessandgivememorespace.”
“Anydenseenergiesthataremakingmefeelheavy,canyouhearme?”
Once they answer, ask them to start the transformational process andgiveyoumorespace:
“Any dense energies that are making me feel heavy, please start thetransformationalprocessandgivememorespace.”
“Anydenseenergiesthatareholdingmebackfromseeingmylight,canyouhearme?”
Once they answer, ask them to start the transformational process andgiveyoumorespace:
“Any dense energies that are holding me back from seeing my light,pleasestartthetransformationalprocessandgivememorespace.”
“Any dense energies that are holdingme back from seeingmy light, Inow give you permission to be transformed and be replaced withmylight.”
Finally,focusonyourpsychicprotection:
“Mypsychicprotection,canyouhearme?”
Ifthepsychicprotectionsays“Yes,”thenask:
“Mypsychicprotection,pleasebecomefullypresentinmyeverydaylife.”
MODULE 8: HOPELESSNESS AND HELPLESSNESS
Helplessness is the feeling that you can’t do it—whatever “it” mightrepresent—onyourown.Hopelessnessisthefeelingthatyoudon’twanttolive,oryoufeellikeyoucannotdoanythinganylonger.Whenyouoryourclientsfeelhopelessandhelpless,thefollowingprotocolwillassistyoutoconducttheSacredInnerDialogue.
“Myhopelessness,canyouhearme?”
onceitanswers
“Myhopelessness, please givememore space so I can fully connect tomylifeforce.”
“Myhopelessness,pleasegivememorespacesoIcanfullyconnectwithhopeagain.”
“Myhelplessness,canyouhearme?Onceitanswers,say:
PleasegivememorespacesoIcanconnectwiththeenergyofsuccessfulsolutionsandsupport.”
MODULE 9: SELF-LOVE AND SELF-WORTH“Mycompromisedself-love,canyouhearme?”
Onceitsays,“Yes,Icanhearyou,”thensay:“Mycompromisedself-love,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
Thenweask,“Self-lovecanyouhearme?”—withoutthecompromised!If your self-love says, “Yes, I can hear you,” then say: “My self-love,pleaseincreasetothehighestlevelpossible.”
If you or your client doesn’t feel a response, you might still feel anenergy.Itisonlythecaseinraresituationsthatwedonotfeelanything.Ifyouoryourclientdoesn’tfeelanyenergy,itmeansthatyouarealittletoo detached from your energy body or the aspect that you areaddressingisnon-existent.However,itismoretypicaltoreceivea“Yes”or“No.”“Yes”and“No”aregreatanswers.Iftheanswerisa“Yes,”that’sideal. If the answer is a “No,” thatmeans the aspect also heard it, butdoesn’twant tocooperate.When it answers “No,” theaspectyouwerecallingbasicallysay’s“Idon’twanttohearyou,”whenitactuallyhearsyoubecauseotherwiseitwouldn’tsay“No.”
If it says “No,” then you say, “I know exactly that you heard me,otherwiseyouwouldn’tsay‘No.’”
Once it knows you can hear it, it has to answer you. You knowwhy?Becauseyouaretheownerofyoursystem.Itisjustalittleprogramthatruns in your system because you gave it permission and you are theownerofyoursystem.
Ifyoudon’t receiveananswerwhenaddressingself-love, thengobackintocompromisedself-love.
Onceyouaddressedcompromisedself-love,andithearsyouanditstartstheself-healingprocess,thenmoveontoself-love,
“Self-love,canyouhearme?”
It will now hear you because obviously you transformed thecompromisedself-love.Nowthatyourself-lovecanrespondhere,ask:
“Self-love,pleaseincreasetothehighestlevelpossible.”
Next,wearegoingtofollowthesameprotocolwithself-worth.
“Mycompromisedself-worth,canyouhearme?”
Once it answers with “Yes,” say: “My compromised self-worth, pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
Havingaddressedthecompromisedformofself-worth,wenowaddressself-worth:
“Myself-worthcanyouhearme?”
Once it answerswith “Yes,” say: “My self-worth,please increase to thehighestlevelpossible.”
—Since your compromised self-worth has already started the self-healing process, your self-worth will increase to the highest levelpossible.
Observe the intensity of your self-worth and locate it on a scale fromzerototen,whichmarksthehighestlevelpossible.Observewhereitis,thenaskittoraiseitselftoleveltenifitisnotalreadythere:
“Myself-worth,pleaseraiseyourselftoalevelten.”
EXCURSUS: ASSESSMENT SYSTEM 0 - 10Pleaseapply thissameassessmentsystemtoraiseotheraspectsofyourbeing,i.e.,healing,prosperity,wellbeing,success,happiness,compassionandlove.
The aspect that you addresswill start increasing andmanifest itself intermsofself-appreciationandappreciationthatyouwillreceivefromthe
worldandfromothers.
MODULE 10: HEALTH“Mycompromisedhealth,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”pleasesay:
“Mycompromisedhealth,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.
“Mycompromisedimmunesystem,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”pleasesay:
“Mycompromisedimmunesystem,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
Ifwehavesomethingspecificgoingoninourbody,wecanaddressthis,i.e., we can address our compromised liver, our compromisedgallbladder,orourcompromisedinternalorgans.
FollowthisSIDscript:
“Mycompromisedinternalorgans,canyouhearme?”
Oncetheyanswerwith“Yes,”say:
“My compromised internal organs, I now give youpermission to starttheself-healingprocess.”
WestartourSIDwithaddressingallcompromisedinternalorgans,andthenwecontinuebyzoomingintotheexactorgansandaspectsthatwewishtoimprove.
Weaskourorgansandaspectsindividually:
“Mycompromisedliver,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedliver,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromisedgallbladder,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedgallbladder,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromisedheart,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedheart,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromisedlungs,canyouhearme?”
Oncetheyanswerwith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedlungs,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromisedkidneys,canyouhearme?”
Oncetheyanswerwith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedkidneys,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromisedpancreas,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedpancreas,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromisedbrain,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedbrain,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromiseddigestivesystem,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“My compromised digestive system, please start the self-healingprocess.”
Ifthereisanythinginadditionthatyouwishtoaddress,pleasefeelfreetoaddittothisscript.
We conclude by focusing on our compromised body and ourcompromisedlife:
“Mycompromisedbody,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedbody,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
“Mycompromisedlife,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”ask:
“Mycompromisedlife,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
MODULE 11: CANCER AND AUTOIMMUNEThis module deals with cancer and autoimmune diseases, which—whenever present—tend to cause major disruption and suffering.Although energetic shifts often occur instantaneously, be prepared torevisit these topics over a longer period, and to support your client oryourselfintheself-healingprocess.
“Anyformofcancerthatisinmysystem,canyouhearme?”
Afterapositiveresponse,continue:
“Any form of cancer that is in my system, please start thetransformationalprocess.”
“Thecauseforthecancerinmysystem,canyouhearme?”
Afterapositiveresponse,continue:
“Thecauseforthecancerinmysystem,starttheexpeditedself-healingprocess.”
Asking for the start of an expedited self-healing process, is a veryimportantstepinordertogetourselvesorourclientsbacktolife.Thisispossible as long as the person battling cancer is not in a necessarilyterminalstate,orhasalreadymadethedecisiontogo.
Next,weaskthecauseforthecancer inourpast lives if itcanhearus,and we ask it to start the transformational and expedited self-healingprocess.(Potentiallylife-threateningdiseasescanhaveverydeeprootsinoursystemfromfiveyearsagotolifetimesago,whichcouldmeanthatweneedtogooneormorelifetimesbacktolocatetheirorigin.Luckily,thisissomethingSIDallowsustoaddresseffectively.)
“Thecauseforanycancerinmypastlife,canyouhearme?”
Afteraresponse,continue:
“Thecauseforanycancerinmypastlife,startthetransformationalandexpedited self-healing process.” This goes also for chronic illnesses,
allergies, viral/bacterial infections, genetic diseases, injuries,HIV/AIDSandotherailments.
EXCURSUS: WHY WE GET SICK
Thefollowinginformationisessentialtounderstandingwhywegetsick,andbyimplication,thisknowledgehelpsustohealourbodiesandourlives.Thetheorybehinddiseasesisthatwearecreatingthesediseasessowecanlearnsomethingfromthem.
Ifyourclientsoryouyourselffacespecificissues,whichcanberealoratheoryyouhold,youasapractitionerandself-healerwant to integratethat knowledge. If there is something you can learn from this disease,incorporate it into your identity. Sometimes disease slows us down,sometimesitmakesusreachfasterforourgoals,itmakesuswittierandshows us that we can overcome greater challenges than we had everbelievedwecouldface,andbeactuallystrongerthanwethoughtweevercouldbe.
Wearealsoco-creatorsofourreality.Everythingweexperience,weco-created.We are not helpless victims and life just happens to us. It isratherthecasethatwechoose—evenpriortoourincarnation—thatwewillgothroughspecificphasesinourlives,sowegrowfromthem.
Ultimately,allofourlifeexperiencescomedowntochoices.There’sthe0.1% mystery from the divine, and nobody knows what’s going tohappeninthatrespect,butbesidesthat,wehaveahugechancetorealizeour function in the creation of patterns or diseases and to makesuccessfuladjustments.Wecanstarttransformingourharmfulpatterns
and our diseases. For example, we know if someone smokes for fiftyyears, itcanyieldbadhealthconsequenceseventhoughtherearesomesmokerswholiveuntiltheyareonehundredandtenandtheyareokay.Either way, there’s no “one size fits all” when it comes to the bestindividuallifedesign.Still:Factis,ifyousmokeless,youhaveagreaterchancetolivelongandhealthfully.Iwantustotaketheresponsibilityofknowing that we are able to clarify and understand what our part isenergetically in theprocessof co-creatingour lives.Then,wecanstarttransformingenergeticallyanydensemanifestationofadisease.Tosomeextent it is true to say that we can’t transform everything in ourexperience,however,someaspectswecanimprovegreatlywithashiftinemotional,mental,spiritualorphysicalattitudetowardslife.
Seeingourpart in thisandseeinghowwecanstart transforming thesepatterns is essential and SID allows us to do exactly that.We can goimmediatelyintoseeingthecauseofadiseaseandstartaskingifthere’sanythingthatneedstobedone.
Forinstance,youmightaskthecauseofyouracnetorevealitselftoyou,and get as a response—which can come to us in form of a suddenintuitionorafeeling—thatthecauseforyouracneissuppressedanger.Youcanaskthenyoursuppressedangerwhatyoucandoforit,sothatitwillnotneedanylongertomanifest informofacneonyourskin.Theanswerthatcomestoyoumightsimplybetoexpressangerrespectfullyand without harm to anyone else, so that it won’t need to sit literallyunderneathyourskinandcausebreakouts.
It is a wise approach to check in with your immune system, liver,gallbladder, internal organs, entire physical body, limbs, bones,ligaments, muscles, skin, cells, DNA, energy and brain, emotional,mentalbodyandyour spiritualbody, askingwhatyoucando for it tooptimizeitsworkings.
MODULE 12: THE FIVE BODIES + TWOThe next part is intended for addressing anything in our mental,physical,emotional,spiritualandastralbodies.
“Mymentalbody,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“Mymentalbody,pleasestarttheself-healingprocessinallareasofyourbeing.”
“Myspiritualbody,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“My spiritual body, please start the self-healing process in all areas ofyourbeing.”
“Myemotionalbody,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“Myemotionalbody,pleasestart theself-healingprocess inallareasofyourbeing.”
“Myastralbody,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“Myastralbody,pleasestarttheself-healingprocessinallareasofyourbeing.”
“Myphysicalbody,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“My physical body, please start the self-healing process in all areas ofyourbeing.”
Mostofusarefairlyfamiliarwiththesefiveenergybodies.Besidesthem,thereexisttwomorebodies:ourpainbodyandourlightbody,whichweboth need to address for our full self-healing. Similar to the sevenchakras,wehavesevendifferentbodies.Weaskallthesebodiestostarttheself-healingprocessonalllevels.
“Mypainbody,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“Mypainbody,pleasestarttheself-healingprocessonalllevels.”
People hold pain in their system.—Here’swhat’s happeningwhenwedecidetotalktoourpainbodyandaskittostarttheself-healingprocess:Itstartstheself-healingprocess,notimmediatelysuper-fast,butit’slikea detox that you put into motion, which builds up into a healthierenvironment that allows for healing. The next thing is a small healingcrisis, which is perfectly normal. That crisis in itself is already animportantsignofmovingforward.Nowweaskthefollowingofthepainbody,sinceitisstillgroundedinthisexistence:
“Mypainbody,pleasestartthehealingandascensionprocess.”
Wehaveonemorebody,wehaven’tconsidered,whichisourlightbody.Afterthepainbody,wehavetoworkwiththelightbody.
“Mylightbody,canyouhearme?”
“Yes.”
“Mylightbody,pleasestart theself-healingprocess inallareasofyourbeing,onalllevels,andbeactivatednow.”
Ifweaddressallofoursevenbodies,weachievedtrulya full spectrumactivation.
MODULE 13: LACK CONSCIOUSNESS & PROSPERITYPROGRAM
Beforewe can start addressingour lack consciousness and replacing itwithaprosperityprogram,weneedtostartwithself-loveandself-worth(seeModule9).Onceweaskself-loveandself-worthiftheycanhearusandwe receive apositive response,weask them to raise themselves totheirhighestlevels.Afterworkingonself-loveandself-worth,weturntogenerationallineageprogrammingthatisholdingusback:
(A) First we support the lineage by addressing lack consciousnessprogramming that is present in our lineage even though it might notdirectlyaffectus:
Ask:“Anylackconsciousnessprogramminginmylineage,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Any lack consciousness programming in my lineage, please start thetransformationalprocessnow.”
(B)Nextweaddresslackconsciousnessprogrammingfromourlineagethatisalsoaffectingusdirectly:
Ask:“Thelackconsciousnessprogrammingfrommylineagethatisalsoaffectingme,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“The lack consciousness programming from my lineage that is alsoaffectingme,pleasestartthetransformationalprocess.”
(C)Nowwegointotransforminganyformoflackconsciousnessthatisstillholdingusback:
Ask:“Anyformoflackconsciousnessthat’sholdingmebackfromlivingmyfullpotential,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Anyformoflackconsciousnessthat’sholdingmebackfromlivingmyfullpotential,pleasestartthetransformationalprocess.”
Now address dysfunctional energies from your lineage that are alsoaffectingyou:
“Anydysfunctionalenergiesfrommylineagethatarealsoaffectingme,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Anydysfunctionalenergiesfrommylineagethatarealsoaffectingme,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
(D)Nowweworkwithourfeelingofworthiness:
“Myfeelingofnotbeingworthy,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“My feeling of not being worthy, please start the transformationalprocess.”
Andwecanadd:
“Myfeelingofworthiness,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”say:
“My feeling of worthiness, please raise yourself to the highest levelpossible.”
Nowaddressdeservingtheverybestinlifebysaying:
“Deservingtheverybestinlife,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”say:
“Deservingtheverybest in life,pleasebecomefullypresentandrealitynowinallareasofmylife,includingmycareer.”
(E)Thenwegointobalancinggivingandreceiving.
Mostpeoplewhohave lackconsciousness feel that theyarenotgettingenoughandthattheyaregivingtoomuch.Thesentimentis:“WhateverIdoisneverenough.”
“TheprogramofwhateverIdoisneverenough,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“The program of whatever I do is never enough, please start thetransformationalprocessandbereplacedwithahealthiernewprogram.”
“Thenewprogramis,‘EverythingIdoisamiracle’and‘EverythingIdoismorethanenough.’”
Thenweturntothebalanceofgivingandreceiving:
“Mybalanceofgivingandreceiving,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Mybalanceofgivingandreceiving,pleasebecomefullypresentinmyeverydaylife.”
IfIaminbalanceofgivingandreceiving,Iamperfectlyprosperous.
(F)Nextweturntoprosperity:
“Myprosperity,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Myprosperity,pleasebecomefullypresentnowandalwaysinmylife.”
Nowwecontinuebyasking:
“Allofmybeliefsystemsthatarestillsupportinglackconsciousness,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Allofmybelief systems that are still supporting lackconsciousness, Inowgiveyoupermissiontobetransformedandreplacedwithahealthiernewbeliefsystem.”
“Thenewhealthybeliefsystemis:‘Inowsupportprosperityinmylife.’”
Nowaffirm:
“Mynewhealthybeliefsystemis:‘Inowsupportprosperityinmylife.’”
Continuebyasking:
“Mynewhealthybeliefsystem‘Inowsupportprosperityinmylife,’canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Mynewhealthybeliefsystem‘Inowsupportprosperityinmylife,’beinitializedandactivatedtosupportprosperityconsciousness,prosperitybeliefsystems,andprosperityexperiencesinallareasofmylife.”
Irecallasessionwithaclientwhohadapast lifeexperienceofbeingaFrench soldier in the Napoleonic War of 1812 in Russia, where hesufferedfromthisimmensesenseofstarvationwhentheRussianwinterdecimated large parts of Napoleon’s army. He felt like he never hadenoughofanything.HisexperiencecouldevenbecomparedtolivinginFranceinthetimesleadinguptotheRevolution,descriptionsofwhichyoumightrecall fromLesMisérables byVictorHugo.Peoplehad suchunbearableexperiencesoflackofnearlyeverythingfromfoodtoclothesandfirewood.OrapastlifeexperienceinaNaziconcentrationcamp,or
a past life during the Great Depression. These can result in deeplyingrained programs of lack consciousness. These programs of lackconsciousness generate a feeling of not being able to fully trust in life.The personwho is affected by these programswill feel that he cannottrustlifetoprovideforhim,andtherefore,hecannottrustanyformofabundance and prosperity in his life. That’s why it is important toaddresspastlivesandaddressanyformoflackconsciousness.
“Anylackconsciousnessfromtraumainpastlivesinmysystem,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”say:
“Anylackconsciousnessfromtraumainpastlivesinmysystem,pleasestart the self-healingand transformationalprocessesandgivememorespacesoIcantrulyexperienceabundanceinallareasofmylife.”
MODULE 14: ATTRACTING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS“Thehigherselfofmyideallifepartner(soulmate,twinflame)canyouhearme?”
Repeatoutloud:“Thehigherselfofmyideallifepartner(soulmate,twinflame)canyouhearme?”
Ifwegetaresponse,thenwesay:“Thehigherselfofmyideallifepartner(soulmate,twinflame),pleasefindmeandbecomediscoverabletomestartingtoday.”
EXCURSUS: INTUITIVE TESTING
It’s important that you understand that Sacred InnerDialogue can beusedsimilarlikemuscletesting.Youknowhowyoucanmuscletestwithkinesiology—whenyouask thebodyaquestionand thebodygives ananswer, i.e. literally an answer in form of a physical response. In thesamemannerasmuscle testing, there’saway thatwecanuseSIDasatoolformentaloremotionalorspiritualtesting.Itcanprovideuswithinformation, similarly to the information you receive through muscletesting. Sacred InnerDialoguemeansbasically that you ask a questionrelated to the person and the person (itmight be yourself or a client)becomes the channel for receiving an answer. You become literally achannelor amedium thatmakesyour innerbelief systemsandenergypatternsvisible.Thismodalityissoimportantbecauseittrulyempowersyou tobreak through your limitations.Ultimately, youmake a changebecause you started to address the issue, you began the dialogue withyourself.Byyoudoingallof thisbyyourself, youhavea full spectrumoutcome insteadof the experienceof someoneelsedoing thework foryou. You raise your consciousness and become a better channel andmediumeverytimeyouworkwithSID.
Ultimately,weall createdourownreality.Whenwe recognize thatweareconstantlyengagedincreatingourreality,wecanconsciouslycreateand recreate, remodel and change at will what our reality looks like.That’swhenweare truly (re-)harnessingourpowerof creation.WhenwestartcommunicatingwithSIDandlearntobeconnectedtoourinnerworldandembracewhoweare,wearere-emphasizingourpower.Weare re-emphasizing our co-creations becausewe created these patterns
andeverythingelseinourlivesinthefirstplace.That’swhatgivesusthepowertochangethem.
When we use SID, a lot of questions can be asked. For example, it’sJanuary,apersonwhoisnotemployedanddoesn’texactlyknowwhenthenextemploymentwillmaterialize, cansimplyask, “Mestartingmynew work in June, can you hear me?” If the answer is a “No,” shecontinues: “Me starting my new work in May, can you hear me?”Whenever there isno energetic responseor evenphysical goosebumpsoramentalimagecomingup,oremotionally,spiritu-ally,ormentallyatleast a light response, then there is obviouslyno energy response to it,which isdifferent fromreceivinganegative response, i.e., “No,”whichindicatesaclearanswer to thequestion“YesorNo?”This isnot tobemixedupwiththeregularSIDprotocolsinwhichyoujustwanttheissueaddressed tomake itself visiblewith an answer that the questionwentthrough and was heard. “Yes or No” are great because both areconsideredapositiveresponseinSID,becauseitdidrespond.
You canmove the date closer or further away to find out when yourclient will be employed again. This is similar to kinesiology, muscletesting.
Withsomeclientsyoumightgetresponsesquicker,andwithotherstheresponses take amoment.When you go into themental testing it is agoodstrategytozoomin.Forinstance,iftherewasapositiveresponsetothequestion,“MestartingmynewworkinMay,canyouhearme?”andyouarenowasking,“Mestartingmynewworkatthe25thofMay”andyour client does not get another positive response, I would expand it
back intoApril.Next I instructmyclient to ask, “Me startingmynewwork in earlyMay or end of April, can you hearme?” until we get aresponse.Oncewegetaresponse,wecanstartnarrowingitdown:“Mestartingmy new work by the 10th of April, can you hear me?” If nopositiveresponse,continueasking:“Mestartingmynewworkbythe5thof April, can you hearme?” and suddenly your client feels an energysensation!Itgetsalittlebitwarmer,sowecontinueourfine-tuning:“Mestartingmynewworkbythe3rdofApril,canyouhearme?”Iftheclientstarts feeling a tingling sensation in her body and the feeling getsstronger, then that’s a pretty strong response already. Itmeans there’salreadyalotofgreatfeedback.Observealsoyourownenergyresponsesas a cross-reference. Sincewe as practitioners are usually empaths,wecanfairlyeasilyresonatewiththefeelingsofourclients,whichallowsustoaccompanyandguidethemintheirprocess.Nowwearegoingfurtherinto determining the exact date. We instruct our clients to say: “Mestartingmynewworkonthe1stor2ndofApril,canyouhearme?”andnow the energy gets stronger and nears its peak.We ask our client toinquireonemore time:“Mestartingmynewworkat the2ndofApril,canyouhearme?”andthentheenergyresponseisnotasstrong.ThenIaskhertoaffirm:“MestartingmynewworkonApril1st,canyouhearme?” and that generates an energy response so powerful, far morepowerfulthanthepriorresponses,sothenIknowthisislikelythedatebywhichsheisgoingtostarthernewwork.AprilFool’sDay,interestingdatebutsobeit.
There are no limitations with respect to the topics to which you canapply SID. It is a very powerful intuitive tool that gives us great
possibilities to work with information on our energetic physical,emotional,mentalandspiritualwellbeing.
Ultimately,rememberthatSacredInnerDialogueisnotsomuchtheretodiagnose,buttosupportyoursystem
energetically.
MODULE 15: CHAKRA ASSESSMENTForachakraassessment,westartwiththefirstchakra,andwefollowthescriptasdescribedhere:
“Myfirstchakra,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”wecangofurther.
Wecanask:
“Myfirstchakra,isthereanythingIcandoforyou?”
Thatquestionwill reveal important informationtoyou.Followingthatstep,youcanaskyourfirstchakratooptimizeitsworkings:
“Myfirstchakra,pleasespinatthehighestfrequencypossible.”
Youcanalsodecidetosupportallchakrasatonce:
“Allofmychakras,pleasespinatthehighestfrequencypossible.”
Ideally,youspendalittletimetoaddresseachchakraseparatelyandtoassess it (“What can I do for you?).Conclude each timeby asking therespectivechakratospinatthehighestfrequencypossible.
Ifyouhavesomechakras thatdon’twant tospinrightawaywhenyouaskthemtodoso,youknowthattheorgansandglandsrelatedtothatchakra also play a role in the way the chakra reacts to SID since thatchakra serves us as an energizer for these organs. In these cases, theremightbeaphysicalimbalancethatneedstobeaddressed.
Herearesomekeycorrelationsbetweenchakrasandorgansandglands,aswellaskeyphrasesthatcanbeusedtoactivateeachchakra:
1st / rootchakra“I have”
male/female reproductive organs, testes, kidneys, spine, reproductive glands
2nd / sacralchakra“I feel”
bladder, prostate, ovaries, kidneys, gall bladder, bowel, spleen, adrenalglands; regulates immune system and metabolism
3rd / solarplexus“I can”
gall bladder, intestines, pancreas, liver, bladder, stomach, upper spine;regulates metabolism
4th / heartchakra“I love”
breasts, heart, lungs, thymus gland; regulates the immune system
5th / throatchakra“Icommunicate”
bronchial tubes, vocal chords, respiratory system, all areas of the mouth,including tongue and esophagus; thyroid gland; regulates body temperatureand metabolism
6th / third eyechakra“I see”
eyes, brain, pineal and pituitary glands; produces hormones and governs thefunction of the previous glands
7th / crownchakra“I know”
spinal cord and brainstem, pineal gland; regulates biological cycles, includingsleep
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Eachchakrahasalsoaphrasethatallowsyoutodirectlycalluponandenergizethatchakra.For instance, ifapersonindicatesaproblemwiththe third chakra, our assessment of the chakra will likely show acompromised situation in that person’s life relating to the “I can” -statement.Atthesametime,usingthesestatementscannotonlyrevealstuckenergyorsomekindofissuerelatedtothatchakra,butalso—whenusedasaffirmations—helptoovercomesuchcompromisedsituation.
Below are the phrases that go with each chakra. I decided to list thechakrasherewith theiroriginal,Sanskritnames, starting fromthe firstchakraandendingwiththeAura:
Muladhara—Ihave
Svadhisthana—Ifeel
Manipura—Ican
Anahata—Ilove
Vishuddha—Icommunicate
Ajna—Isee
Sahasrara—Iknow
Aura—Iam
Let’ssayyouoryourclientfacesblockagesinthethirdchakra,youcanworkwiththecorrespondingphrase:“Manipura,Ican!”
Ablockageindicateswhatthepersonbelieves,orratherdoesn’tbelieve.Someonewith problems in the third chakra, does not believe that shecan do whatever it is she has to do in her life (whatever her purposemight be). The moment I—as a practitioner—find out about thisthroughSID,Icanimmediatelyworkwiththethirdchakra.
A person who has a blockage in the first chakra, has a problem withowning,evenwithowninguptosomething.Thisconcernsallaspectsofhaving aswell: having time, having space, havingmoney, having land,having a home, having anything goes with that. As a practitioner, Iwould be made aware of this, when there is no response, no energywhatsoeverinresponsetothebasicquestion:“Firstchakra,canyouhearme?”
It is important to know that whenever one chakra is not workingproperly, theothers arenearly alwaysoutofbalance aswell, andneedthereforeappropriatesupport.
So,whatcanIdowhenIdetectablockageinanyofthechakras?
Let’s stick with the example of the first chakra. The Sacred InnerDialoguewouldevolvelikethis:
MULADHARA—IHAVE
PleaselookalsoupModule3:GROUNDING.
“Firstchakra,canyouhearme?”
—Noresponse.
Iwouldthenaskmyfirstchakra(orencouragemyclienttoaskhisfirstchakra):
“IsthereanythingIcandoforyou?”
Ifthere’sstillnoresponse,weask:
“Anythingblockingthefirstchakra,canyouhearme?”
Oncewegetaresponse,wesay:
“Anythingblockingmyfirstchakra,pleasegivememorespaceandstartthetransformationalprocess.”
Irepeat this,until there isenoughspacesothat thechakracanstart toanswer. Once that chakra starts to answer, that’s when we can startworkingwithit.Thenwecanusethephrasethatgoeswiththatchakrainordertoenergizeit(“Muladhara,Ihave!”).
Theblockageinthechakraismostoftencausedbyabelief.Forinstance,with respect to the first chakra:Whatever it is, a person believes shedoesn’thave isofcourseexactlywhat shedoesnothave.Thisbelief, ifleft unchecked in the system, is bound to manifest its physicalequivalent. (In the same manner, it holds true: Whatever someonebelievestohave,soonerorlater,sheisgoingtohaveit.)Ifyoucankeepan uninterrupted thought internally and externally alive for a certainamountoftime,thentherealityisthatithastomaterializeinsomewayorform.That’sgreat,ifitisinthehighestinterestforeveryoneinvolved.If the thought is of a low frequency though, unfortunately, it canmaterialize too and can cause much harm. In consolation: a lowfrequencythoughtmaterializesslowerandwithmoreeffortthanahigh
frequencythought.Ifthethoughtisawishthat’snotinterferingwiththerestof theworld,or if it’sabig thought that is inalignmentwithyourSelf and with creation, the Multiverse will look into creating it andbringingittoyouswiftly.
Inthisinstance,withthefirstchakra,Icouldnowgointothesexorgans,the lower back, and into grounding,which are all tied together in thefirstchakra.Icouldworkonmotherissues,Icouldworkongrounding,and on the earth connection. All of these have to be considered andworked on in order to get good results. More than anything, it isimportanttogettoaplaceofhaving,ofknowing,andoftrustingMotherEarththatwe’repartofthisplanetandwehaveourproperspace.
Wecouldevengo into theorgans fordeeper self-healing, and into thelegs, the femur, the knees—everything that is in the first chakra,everythingthatitstandsfor.That’sthefullspectrumapproach.
Being able todo so throughSacred InnerDialogue is greatlydifferent,and in a way more direct and efficient in leading to a harmonioussolution,frommerelyaddressingthesameissuepsychologically.Thefullspectrum approach allows me to recognize that a “mother issue”—tostickwithourexamplehere—isalsoaMotherEarthissueandafemaleenergyissue,andwefurtherknowthatinthatcase,weneedtobalancethemale/femaleenergyinthepersonaswell.Thisgivespeopleachancetostarttransformingthingsonawholeotherlevel.
Itgivesusopportunitiestoaccessandsupportthebodyinanadvancedmannerwithout feelingthatwearedisconnected.It’sonesolutionthatcan be applied anytime. Once you mastered this tool to bring about
solutionstoasituation,youcanusethissametooloverandover,anditbecomeseasierandeasierforyoutodoso.
Next, we move up to the second chakra, and then upward to theremainingchakrasuntilallchakrasareproperlyaddressedandcleared.
SVADHISTHANA—IFEEL
Iask:“Mysecondchakra,canyouhearme?”andthatchakrasays,“Yes.”
At this point, I can even decide to assess the exact level at which thischakra works at that moment. I can ask: “My second chakra, what isyourcurrentfrequency?”andaddforclarification:“Highis10andlowis0.” If there is no immediate clear response, I ask further: “My secondchakra,isyourlevel2orabove?”“Isita2?”“Isita3?”Icouldevenstartmyaskingatzero,whichisextremelyunlikely,butitcouldbesolowsothat I would want to ask: “Is your frequency a zero?” If there is noresponse,Imoveon:“Isita1?”MaybeIsensenowthatsomeenergyisbuilding up and it is getting a littlewarmer. Fromhere, I’d go on: “Isyourfrequencya2?”or“Isyourfrequencya3?”WhenIcometo5,thechakragivesmeasignal. Icontinueandask:“Isyourfrequencya6”—thenitgetscold,andIknowthatthefrequencyofthechakraisata5atthismoment.
Inanextstep,Iaskthechakratooptimizeitsworking:
“Mysecondchakra,pleaseraiseyourfrequencytoalevel10.”
Eventhoughmychakrahadnotbeenata10tobeginwith,Iknownowatleastthatithadbeencompromised,andIcanimmediatelyadjustmychakraandaskittorisetoa10.
Ultimately,Idonotonlywanttoknowwhereitisbutaskitalso,“Whywasyour frequencyon5 insteadof10?”—This iswhen thechakrawillrevealinformationthatIcanthenutilizeforself-healing,andofcoursethe sameholds true if it isnotmychakrabut Iamgoingwithaclientthroughthatprocess.Imightlearn:“Oh,it’sthatlowbecausethechakrawasaffectedbyabusefromchildhood.”ThenIcangointotheabuseinthechildhoodandask the traumafromtheabuse inchildhoodtostartthehealingprocess.
We are our own barometer.We can fully gaugewhat’s going onwithourselves.That’s themechanism.SID isour toolbecause ithelpsus togetthere.
MANIPURA—ICAN
WecanapproachourManipuraasweapproachedtheotherchakras,orwecansimplifythescript.
“MyManipura,canyouhearme?
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”weaskourManipuratospinatthehighestlevelpossibleandstarttheself-healingprocess:
“MyManipura,pleasespinatthehighestlevelpossibleandstarttheself-healingprocess.”
ANAHATA—ILOVE
We can do the same with the heart chakra. We can ask: “At whichfrequencyareyouspinning—froma10hightoazerolow?”Thechakramightanswerimmediately:“I’mona3or4.”Thisprocessdoesnotneedto be long or painstakingly; the chakra will give you right away the
informationifpossible,whichisdependentonhowconnectedapersoniswithherowninnerself.Ifyouencounteraclientwhodoesnotappeartohavea strongconnectionso thatSIDwouldyieldprompt reactions,doinsteadofSacredInnerDialogueenergyworkonthatperson.Somepeople are responding better to energy work, some people areresponding better to SID and somepeople are respondingperfectly toboth. These are truly tuned-in people. Themore they are tuned-in totheir inner selves, the faster they can change and can attract majorbreakthroughs.
If the heart answers: “I am at a level 4,”we can ask: “Why aren’t youspinningata10?”Itmightsay:“BecauseI’mstillhavingpaininmyheartfromarecentbreak-up.”Thenwesaytothepainintheheart:“Paininmyheart,canyouhearme?”
Thenweask thepain in theheart tostart the transformationalhealingprocess:
“Paininmyheart,pleasestartthetransformationalhealingprocess.”
Thenwecanaskthehearttostarttheself-healingprocess.
“Myheart,pleasestarttheself-healingprocess.”
Thenwecanasktheheartchakra:“Pleaseraiseyourfrequencytoatenbecausethere’snothingtoholdyouback.”Ultimately,wehavearighttobeatatenwithourlife’spresence,sothisisanimportantandjustifieddemand.
VISHUDDHA—ICOMMUNICATE
Thesameapproachcanbeusedwiththefifthchakra:Youwouldspeak:
“Myfifthchakra,canyouhearme?”
Once we receive a positive answer, ask: “At which frequency are youspinning?”
Youmightreceivetheresponse:“I’mspinningata7.”
So,youwouldask:“Whatneedstohappenforyoutospinata10?”
Your Vishuddha might explain to you: “I need to be allowed tocommunicatemytruthbecauseIwasnotallowedtodosointhepast.”
Thenweask:“Givingmyselfpermissiontocommunicatemytruth,canyouhearme?”
Once it answers “Yes,” we say: “Giving myself permission tocommunicatemytruth,pleasebecomemyrealitynow.”
ThenweasktheVishuddha:
“MyVishuddha,canyouinitiatetheself-healingprocess?”
—Onceitanswersaffirmatively,thenweask:
“MyVishuddha,pleaseinitiatetheself-healingprocessnow.”
ForbringingourVishuddhatospinatalevel10,weask:
“My Vishuddha, please raise your frequency to a ten and spin at thehighestlevelpossible.”
AJNA—ISEE
Thesameapplies to thesixthchakra, the thirdeye, theAjna.Here isaguidelineforapossibledialogue:
Say:“Ajna,canyouhearme?”
Onceitanswers“Yes,”ask:
“Atwhatlevelfrom0to10areyouspinning?”
TheAjnamightanswer:
“Ata3or4.”
Thenask:
“Why,Ajna?Whyaren’tyouspinningata9or10?Whatisholdingyouback?Whatiscompromisingyou?”
The sixth chakramight say: “It’s a past life.”—Or itmight reveal thatthereissomethingelsethat’sblockingorcloggingthethirdeye.Inthatcase,you’dliketoaskthepastlifeexperienceorwhateveriscloggingthethirdeyetopleasebetransformedandreleasedsothethirdeyecanspinat its highest level. Whatever disturbing image there might be, orwhatever might be blocking the third eye, ask it to start thetransformationalprocessandaskittobecompletelyreleased.ThenasktheAjnatospinata10,thehighestlevelpossible:
“Ajna,pleasespinata10,atthehighestlevelpossible.”
Themereactofgoingtoa10,thehighestlevelpossible,givesthechakraabetter spinand improves seeing.This canalsobedonewheneverwemightnotreceiveaclearanswerfromtheAjnaorfromanyoftheotherchakras.
Note:
AsthephrasethatIsharedabove,“Ajna,Isee!”indicates,thethirdeyehastodowithseeing.Startingfromthephrasethatcorrespondstothechakraonwhichyouwanttowork,youcouldalsoinitiatethedialoguebyasking:“Ajna,whatisitthatyoudon’twanttoseeorwhatisitthatyousaw?”
SAHASRARA—IKNOW
PleaselookalsoupthedeeperexplanationofthischakraunderModule4:CROWNCHAKRA.
WeapproachourSahasrarabyusingeitherthefollowingsimplifiedSID-script,orby
expandingthisscriptwithspecificquestionsthatallowusbesttozoomintoourneeds(orourclient’sneeds)withrespectto“knowing”inourlives.
“MySahasrara,canyouhearme?
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”weaskourSahasraratospinatthehighestlevelpossibleandstarttheself-healingprocess:
“MySahasrara,pleasespinata10,thehighestlevelpossibleandstarttheself-healingprocess.”
AURA—IAM
We approach our Aura, our entire energy field in its totality, also byusing either the following simplified SID-script, or by expanding thisscriptwithspecificquestionsthatallowusbesttozoomintoourneeds(orourclient’sneeds)withrespectto“being”inourlives.
“MyAura,canyouhearme?
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”weaskourAuratoraiseitselftoalevel10andstarttheself-healingprocess:
“MyAura,please raiseyourself toa level10, thehighest levelpossible,andstarttheself-healingprocess.”
TheSacredInnerDialogueisthefirststeptowardhealing.
EXCURSUS: UNDERSTANDING OUR ROLE AS ENERGYHEALERS AND THE NECESSITY OF SELF-RECOGNITION
Ifyouworkwiththethirdeye,youwouldtypicallywanttoleaveitopensothatyouoryourclientcangetabetterinsightandanswerquestionsthat comeup indaily life in a betterway.Teaching your client SacredInner Dialogue as described allows them also to initiate their owndialogues,toaskthemselvesinthefuture,andiftheygetananswerandcansolveissuesbythemselves,thenyouhavelesstointerferewiththeirinnerprocesses and theybenefit evenmore since you canutilize thesenew revelations for progress and you have more fun since its reallymovingforward.Themoretheycomeupwiththeirownepiphanies,themorevaluetheir transformationalworkhas,andthefurther theycomeinlife’stransformationingeneral.Themorewebecomeanassistantofthe Creator with this process, the more we all benefit. For you as apractitioner,itisessentialtoguideyourclientstoapointwheretheydothe work themselves, so that they can really undergo transformation.Havingyourclientsdotheworkthemselves,allowsyoualsotogodeeperintoyourself-healing.
That’showpeoplegettheirpowerback.
Theyreachaplacewheretheyareabletosay:“Iamreadytotransformthis. Iamreadyto lookat this. I’mreadytotakemypowerback.Iamreadytotakeresponsibility.”That’showapersonbenefitsthemost.(Ofcourse, thismeansalso for thehealers, foryouasapractitioner,not tostrive to be the miracle magic healer, and say, “Oh look, I just did agesturewithmyhandsandthethingistransformed.”)
Such miracle healing wouldn’t help that person because that personcreated the stagnation in their system in the first place. If that persondoesn’t know—or learn—how to transform that stagnation, thatstagnationcancomebackandthatpersoncan’tfixitalone.
It is important to teach and empower your client in a healthy way.Ultimately,wehavenotyetreachedourfullpotentialasenergyhealersuntil we are facilitating the self-healing of a client in awaywhere it’shappeningby itself,byusmerelyprovidingthespace. It’salmost likeaspawherethepersonreachesthroughrelaxationthelevelsanddepthsofa problem and then starts transforming it with help of their higherselves.Asenergyhealers,ourrole is in that situation toactivateall thehealing abilities and qualities of our client. We support our client indeveloping their self-healingabilities so that thatpersonstarts the self-healingprocess.Thefirststepofthisprocessis,obviously,tomakethat—any—stagnationvisible.
It’s like the immune system that doesn’t even know that it’s beingcompromised.Onceyoumakeitvisibletotheimmunesystem,itstartsto recognize what is wrong with itself. That’s comparable to a urine
therapy,wherepatientsdrinkafewdropsoftheirownurineinaglassofwatertoreflecthomeopathicallybacktothemselvesandtotheirsystemwhatever is in their system. Their system starts to recognize what’swronginthesystem.Yoursystemstartstheself-healingprocessjustbydoing that. Just by raising awareness. This works because you arereflectingbacktoyoursystemsomethingofwhichyoursystemdoesn’thave any idea since it had gotten so used to it that it became literallyblindtoit.
Wehavetheseperfect,unbelievablyamazingsystemsinourbodiesthatcanbasicallycreateanything.Soonceweknowwhatitisexactlythatwewanttotransform,wewillstart
creatingtheantidoteforit.
Amorecommonexampleof thevery sameprocess ishowwe react tofood.Ifyoueatsometypesoffood,ourbody—likeaperfectalchemist—findstheexactenzymestobreakingdownthefood.Ourbodyproducestheseenzymes.Producingtheseenzymesrequiresimmenseenergyfromthebody.That’s basicallywhat yourbodyhas todo each timeyou eatcookedfood.Let’ssayyoueatacookedpotato,yourbodyfindstheexactenzyme that’s breaking down that potato. Everything that you havecooked as well as any type of processed food, require immense effortfromyourbodytoproducetheenzymesneededfordigestingyourfood.However,let’ssayyou’veeatenapieceoffishorrawkale,orspinach.Aslongasitisraw,ithasitsownenzymesandoursystemdoesnotneedtoproduceenzymestodigestit.
Onceyourbodystartsbreakingdownfood,i.e.digestingit,youcanstartgettingtheenergyfromit.That’swhyit’sbeneficialtoeatrawfood,preferablyrawveganfood.
Whenyou look intonature,youwill see thatanimalswaita littleaftertheykilled theirprey.During that time, theenzymesof thekilledpreystarttowork.Itisaruleinnature:Ifyouleaveanaturalpotentialsourceoffooduntouched,itstartsdissolvingbyitself.Ifyougiveitsometime,it is going to dissolve. It has its own enzymes that carry their ownprogramtodissolveit,toneutralizeit,so-to-speak.
That’swhyit’simportanttohaveenzymerichfoodsbecauseithelpsusto contain rather thanwasteourownenzymes.Themore enzymeswehave,themorelifeforcewehavebecausewedon’thavetoproducetheseenzymesjusttousethemupagain.
If you eat processed food, the energy needed to break it down is evenmorethanwhat isneededforbreakingdownnaturalbutcooked food.Thinkabout it:Firstofall, youpay for that food, thenyoueat it, thenyourbodyhastomakeenzymes,andyoupayontopofwhatyoualreadypaidinmoneynowinformofenergythatyouneedtospend,andonlythenyoufinallyhaveyour foodasnourishment. Incontrast, ifyougetsomething that is raw, you pay once for it and eat it, that’s it. Withcookedandprocessedfood,youpaytwiceoreventhreetimes.Withrawfood,youjustbuyitandit’sjustyours.
Oursystemsaredesignedtofunction,healandthrive.
Oncewerecognizethis,wecanstartveryeasilyoursystem’sself-healingprocess. It’s working for us, so we naturally work with it and do notresist it. Every time we cater toward this feeling, it will immediatelyaccess it.Theremightbea learningcurve, similar towhenpeoplewhousedtosmokestopsmoking,andthen,afterawhile,theyalmostfeellikethrowing up if they have a cigarette. At that point, their system hadalreadybeguntheclearingprocess.Theperiodneededtoclearuptheirsystem depends how much they taught themselves not to be healthy.Anysystemwillnaturallystarttogotowardhealthandharmony.
When you are a smoker, for example, you smoke and feel really goodwhen you are having a cigarette even though in reality you should bethrowingupbecauseyoujustpumpedtarinyoursystem.Yoursystemistotally overwhelmed. You stamped down your system with so muchforce, that it doesn’t recognize any longer a toxin. Your body doesn’tknow anymore that cigarette smoke isn’t good for you because youintroduced that into your body every day for a prolonged period, andoutofself-protection, thebody foundfinallyawayaround itandsaid,“Okay, we’re just going to accept it and store the toxins, e.g., in aprotectivefattytissue,asnottooverwhelmoursystem.”
It is exactly the same with toxic thoughts and toxic habits that areintroduced into your system. Your Self says after awhile, “Okay, weprobablyjusthavetogetusedtoitandlivewithit.”Wemanipulatedoursystemstoaccepttoxicenvironments,toxicexperiences,toxicmoments,toxichabits.Wedon’tevenknowthatwehavetheminourmindsandinour hearts or in our physical bodies. When we give our system acheckup, basically mirroring back to our system what is inside, the
reactionofoursystemislike:“Whoa,whatjusthappened?”Wehavetoclear ourselves of these toxic energies, thoughts, entities or habits(addictions).
Ifyouareasmokerandstartonadetoxprogram,youaregoingtofeelreallybad.Ifyoudoafootbathasasmokeroraheavymetaldetoxasaheavysmoker,youareprobablynotgoingtofeelgood.Peoplecallthisahealingcrisis.Ontheotherhand,ifyoudoaheavymetaldetox,andyouarenotasmokerandhavefewtoxins inyoursystem,yourbodyisnotgoingtorespondmuchtoit.
Alotoftimeswhenpeoplegointoenergywork,orSID,theymayhaveastrongerresponsethanexpectedbecausetheyhavemoretoxicityintheirsystemthantheythoughttheyhad,wheretheywerenotevenawareoftheirtoxicity.Emotionaltoxins.Mentaltoxins.Spiritualtoxins.Physicaltoxins. Then, once you start the clearing process, it becomes visiblewhereyouareatonthescale.
Ifyouareasmokerandstopsmoking,thefirstcoupleofweeksyouaregoingtofeelalmostnauseatedifyoujusttakeadeepbreathofairwhileyou should feel happy and be jumping for joy about the fresh air.Instead, you feel nauseated or like throwing up. Why? Because yoursystem was used to the toxic smoke and you have to first undergo ahealing crisis that makes you experience the healthy initially as whatyour system seems to reject. After a while, your system cleanses itselfsufficientlyandovercomesthatstage.
With this illustration of how detoxingworks, I don’t want to criticizesmokers. In the past, I was a smoker myself. It’s more about
understandingtoxicity,understandingwhattoxinsdotooursystemandunderstandinghowoursystemrespondstocleansing.
SacredInnerDialogueisacleansingprocessthatworksonalllevels.
MODULE 16: TOXINSHavinglearnedintheprecedingpassageabouttoxicityandtheeffectsofcleansing, I share here a SID protocol for detoxing our systems. Youdeclare:
“Allofthetoxinsthatareinmysystem,canyouhearme?
Oncetheyanswerwith“Yes,”say:
“Allofthetoxinsthatareinmysystem,Inowgiveyoupermissiontobereleasedfrommysysteminahealthy,gracefulandlovingway.”
Thismeanswearenotoverwhelmingoursystem.Wearenotdumpingall of our toxins into our bloodstream at once, as could happen on aphysicallevelwhenyoucarryalotoftoxinsandyoudecidetogetfreshbeet juice andyour system startsdetoxing rapidly, andyouare saying,“Ohmygoodness,whatjusthappened?”
Somethingsimilarhappenswithwheatgrassjuice.Ifyoustartdrinkingtwoouncesofwheatgrassjuice,it’slike,“Whoa.That’sbitterandthenalittlebitsweet.”Dothiseverydayandafteracoupleweeksormonths,maybeyoucantryfourounces.Thenyousay,that’sawholelot,that’salotofwheatgrass.Ultimately,wheatgrasshaseverythingthatyouneed—proteins, amino acids, vitamins, it’s basically the liquid greenblood. It
has everything to refresh the blood. If you then go after seven eightweeks up to six ounces to eight ounces, that’s the timewhen you canmeasure your success and fully assess the condition of your system:“Unbelievable!Icanhandleeightouncesofwheatgrass?IamdefinitelyinadetoxingprocessandI’malmostthroughwithit.”
Ifyoudoajuicefastforamonth,youknowyoursystemisprettyclearifyoumakeitthroughit,andstillfeelgoodamonthafterendingyourfast.Ifyoucandoanotherjuicefastafteramonthandahalf,youobviouslycleared something out.However, if you have some fresh organic juiceeveryday,youwillbeabletomaintainaconsistentlyhighlevelofhealthandenergyeffortlessly.
Ifyoustartinaratherradicalmannerwithextremelyhealthyhabits,youmight create a drastic, intense response in your system that might beoverwhelming.That’swhyyouwanttogentlyworkonyoursystem.Doitwithgrace.Expressingyourintentioninagracefulandlovingwayandactingaccordinglyisthebest.
It’sthesamewithSacredInnerDialogue:
WhenyouworkwithSID,itcausesaverydeepcleansingprocess.
Tocleansemajoraspectsofyour life,proceed in small incrementsandrepeattheprocessfrequently.
SID causes a cleansing process because we are going into deep corepatternsofaperson’slifeandweaskthesepatternstoshift.That’sabigdeal.Thesepatternswereinplaceforalongtime,maybelifetimes,and
all of a sudden they shift.The shiftingof thesepatterns can lead themveryfasttoapointclosetoEnlightenment.Itcanalsocreateatemporaryhealingcrisis.
Theshiftingofthesepatternscangetthemtoaplaceofexcellence.Itcanget them to a place of full functioningOneness-consciousness. Even iftheygetglimpses,it’sareallygoodstartfortheirsystemtorememberallofthat.That’swhySIDissoimportant.SIDisexploringtheinnerworldsandouterworldsandenablespeopletoreallytaketheirpowerback.
HerearesomesuitableSIDscriptsfordetoxing:
“Any toxic thoughts and parasites in my system, I now give youpermissiontobelovinglyandrespectfullytransformedandreleasedandthenreplacedwithhealthierthoughtsandhealthierprograms.”
“Mytoxicemotions,canyouhearme?”
Oncetheyanswerwith“Yes,”wetellthemtostartthetransformationalprocess:
“My toxic emotions, I now give you permission to start thetransformationalprocess.”
“Mytoxicspiritualprogramming,canyouhearme?
Onceitanswerswith“Yes,”wesaytoourtoxicspiritualprogramming:
“Mytoxicspiritualprogramming,Inowgiveyoupermissiontostartthetransformationalprocessandbereplacedwithahealthierprogramthatfullysupportsmyspiritualawakening.”
We now address the physical toxins and parasites that are in oursystems:
“Anyphysical toxinsandparasites thatare inmysystem,canyouhearme?”
Oncetheyanswerwith“Yes,”wesay:
“Anyphysicaltoxinsandparasitesthatareinmysystem,Inowgiveyoupermissiontobereleasedinalovingandrespectfulwayandwithoutanydamagetomysystem.”
—Inthisway,we’reallowingthesetoxinstobereleasedbutinalovingand respectful way that does not hurt our system. Drinking enoughwaterandsweatingbyworkingout, areways inwhichwecan supportourselvesthroughoutthatprocess.
Detox principles go as far as the parasites in the colon, we are askingthem to lovingly and respectfully give us more space and to betransformedandreleased.Thatbyitsowncanbesopowerfulthattheystartthetransformationalprocessandleave.
Toxic thoughts and habits that are still holding us back have to beconsideredaswell.
“Anytoxichabitsinmysystem,canyouhearme?”
Oncetheyanswerwith“Yes,”wesay:
“Inowgiveallofmytoxichabitspermissiontobetransformed,releasedand to be replaced with healthier habits, with habits that are lifeaffirming”.!!!!!!
WellDone!!!!!!!!!!
Goodwork,youtrulyaremovingforwardandclearingyourlife.!
14. AFFIRMATIONSIwishtoleaveyouwithsomeSIDapproachesandaffirmations:
Self-LAW:Aquick,smart,shortwordforall thesethree:self-love,self-appreciation,self-worth.
Inowincreasemyself-love,-appreciationand-worth
Inowincreasemyself-LAW.WhenIincreasemyself-LAW,Iincreasemyself-love,myself-appreciationandself-worth.
Inowincreasemyself-worthandmovefearlesslyintomypurpose.
Fromnowon,Iseemyselfinthehighestlight.
InsteadofsettlingforlessIchoosesuccess.
I am pre-approved. Today I am fully approving of myself. I am fullyapproved.
Inowactivatemypsychicprotection.
ThelessIwork,themoreIearn.
Thereisclarityinmyprosperity.
IdeasforSIDapproach:
Lovecanyouhearme?
Healingcanyouhearme?
Claritycanyouhearme?
Happinesscanyouhearme?
MynewHousefortherightpriceattherightplacecanyouhearme?
Mystrengthcanyouhearme?
Mylightcanyouhearme?
TheenergyofForgivenesscanyouhearme?
Mypsychicabilitiescanyouhearme?
Mypurposeinlifecanyouhearme?
Myenlightenmentcanyouhearme?
Pickone,thenask:Pleasebecomefullypresentinmyeverydaylife.
15. IN CONCLUSIONIwishyousuccesswithapplyingSIDinyourpersonalandprofessionallife. It has helped myself and many, many people with whom I haveworkedandcontinuestobeoneofmygo-totoolsonadailybasis.ThisiswhyIhavesharedthismagnificenttoolwithyou.Pleaserespectitandapproach it with humbleness. It will teach you so much about therichness of life and support you in your overall process of becomingwholeagain.
Seeyousoon,traveler!
DedicatedtotheCreativesourceweallcomefromandweallreturnto.
ThankyouTammyBadilli,KathrinSeidl,SadiquaHamdan,andHannahColeman.
ThankyoutoalltheAngelsthatareconstantlysupportingmywork.
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