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Insight of Blissful Life


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Lessons of Life Leading To Joy...

Arundeep Singh

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A Dedication to

Adiyogi

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Preface

When I started writing this book I wasn’t sure that I

would be publishing this book one day. As this book

wasn’t much more than something that I grasped from

life every day. One thing that I want to share with my

readers is that in your life you experience a lot of things,

different kind of events takes place in your life but the

thing that matters much is what you learned from those

events and how you are going to use it to make your

future better. This book is nothing much more than what

life has taught me. But just realizing the fact that a lot

can be learned from life isn’t enough. As the fact that

matters is the moment when one starts acting on the

belief that a lot can be learned.

The moment I started learning from my own life

experiences a tremendous amount of changes started to

happen and life started getting simpler and simpler every

day.

The problems in everyone’s life is increasing

everyday not because what we call stress, tension,

anxiety, etc. these type of things are increasing in our

life, but because we are not able relate and rationalize

the very basic things in our own life.

Life of an individual isn’t messed up due to some

external factor completely. If one try to seek, one will

responsible not completely but in some way less or more

for the complications in his or her own life.

So these are a few lessons I want to share with you,

that life taught me and made my life much simpler and

blissful than it was. Hope it may give you a spark of

bliss that may lead to tremendous possibilities.

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Acknowledgements

W A debt of Gratitude and love to my Mom and Dad for

making me what I am today, as without them it wouldn’t

have been possible to even think about writing this book.

No doubt we had perspectives that were different but

still they showed an enormous amount of faith and

helped me in every way they could.

I am also grateful to have such a great family that

always was standing by my side. All my cousins,

nephews and elders were so encouraging that the journey

of writing this book was no less than an adventure. I

remember how Jaipreet(my nephew) used to do mock

interviews of mine asking me funny but challenging

questions as if I was a famous writer and how

Tejinder(my cousin) always kept encouraging me not to

stop with what I’ve started.

I would also like to thank my teachers from whom

I’ve learned great lessons in my life. The lessons that

have made me a far better person than what I was in my

past.

Not to forget my dear friends, all over the world! I

can’t deny the fact that I have most epic friends.

Friends like Arjun with whom I done great things in

life and he helped me in writing this book in numerous

ways from explaining how things work and what type of

things I should keep in mind. I don’t know how to thank

Umesh for how he was there listening to the challenges

that I had and helped me in resolving them. Not to forget

Deedar, Tervinder, Shivam and Pradeep as they are the

people who showed me mirror of potential that I had

within me, and a few nice ladies; Jill, Surabhi and

Bhumika who were always motivating me to fulfil my

dream of writing a book.


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In the end I want to pay a huge amount of gratitude

to my life as each and every experience in my life has

taught me something great that hold a great value for me

and more is to be learned in future.

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Contents

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1.

Dreams You Hold In Your Eyes–

Turn Them Into Reality

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2. Self-Underestimation–A Lethal

Venom

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3. Dealing With Setbacks In Life

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4. Small Is Beautiful

26

5. Emancipate Yourself From Mental

Slavery

34

6. Take A Break And Make Sometime

For Yourself

42

7. Acceptance Of Reality – Path To

Liberation

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8. Balancing The Use Of Social Media

In Life

57

9. Devotion-Aspect Of Life Beyond

Simple Intellect

66

10. Gratefulness Towards Life

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11. Learning From Mistakes

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12. Taking Responsibility For Our

Actions

88

13. Learn To Be Motivated By Insult

And Failure

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“The dreams that reside within realm of

your mind can only be brought into realm.

For the inception of path is done with

ignition of belief of one on one’s own

individuality.

With willingness to withstand every

disappointment and obstruction.

In the darkest corners of time when even

your very own shadow might leave you in

isolation.

Don’t be reluctant to walk as lone wolf on

the path you chose, as sometimes walking

alone is the only solution.

Accept and work on your very own flaws so

they might not act as a barrier.

As learning lessons taught by mistakes is the

best the best way of embracing failures.”



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Chapter 1

Dreams You Hold in

Your Eyes–Turn Them

into Reality

W “Dreams aren’t the ones you see while

you’re asleep, but one that won’t let you

sleep” is really well said by some

anonymous personality and that

determination is what will lead you to chase

the dream you hold in your eyes.

Now each of us has a dream to achieve

something or to attain certain position, no

doubt some people realize very soon what is

their dream some people take bit longer, but

honestly that’s not an issue as according to

me everything has a right time and so does

ones realization of what one has to do out of

this precious life that one has got. Now the

most important thing is once you realize


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what your dream is, you must start working

on it and must not stop until you achieve it.

Basically to achieve any goal in your life

the first and the foremost thing you must

have is belief, that you can achieve that

dream what you have dreamt no matter how

strange or different it is. As it was belief of

mine that I can write a book no matter how

much people going to say that it isn’t my

cup of tea but if I have faith in me that I can

write a book I will no matter what odds life

will throw at me I have tackle them and

keep moving. It works same for you too,

always remember “belief of one in oneself

can change the perception of one’s for the

life one is living”. That dialogue of Will

Smith from the movie “The Pursuit of

Happiness” where he says “Don’t let ever

somebody tell you... you can’t do

something” is a real inspiration for those

who listen others and think that they are

aiming too high, if you have a dream than

who has got the right to stop you, nobody

not even that demon who resides within you.

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your God damn gut, as unless you don’t

believe in yourself, you have no right to

expect someone else to believe in you. Once

you have got that faith in you that you have

the potential to achieve your goal you have

crossed the biggest hurdle that was stopping

you to start walking on the path that you

yourself had chosen for you.

Once you have laid a path and have

started the journey in order to reach your

destination all you require is proper focus as

it is clear once, no matter what path you

have chosen and how you going to chase

your dream you are going to face a hell lot

of distractions in your pathway in many

forms. The biggest problem with them is

their process of distracting you from your

path is so slow that even you won’t be able

to understand that you are being distracted

and when the realization comes it has priced

you a tremendous loss, it works just like a

malignant tumour that doesn’t gives any

symptom until cancer has invaded whole

organ or multiple body organs. All you can

do is before you go to sleep ask yourself are


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you still focused and determined the same

you were when you started the journey to

achieve the dream and if your inner

consciousness is not responding then

probably you have to worry about the fact

maybe you are distracted and your focus is

deviated towards something else. The

moment you realize that you have to work

on yourself, analyze who you are “creation

of nature with limitless potential, with no

hold bar.” Once you have realized that

again put all the efforts and concentration

you have to focus and come back on the

path to the success.

One thing that you have to keep in mind

that you are going to face failure a hell lot of

times and you have to learn to embrace them

and stand up again and keep moving in the

right direction. What actually come to the

mind of people is that failure is a warning

that the path followed by them isn’t actually

meant for them but to be honest you need to

think the other way round, instead of

questioning your ability become curious of

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comma, not full stop. According to Ronnie

Screwvala “failure must fascinate and

intrigue your mind” if we are afraid of

failure we won’t be able to reach our

destination that we have set for ourselves

just because our faith wasn’t determined

enough, so never let that determined passion

break even in those hard times of failure.

Keep motivating yourself as you are one

who can understand yourself completely as

in hard times we need someone who may

understand what we are going through and

can motivate us to rise again, so why don’t

we ourselves bring out that inner motivation

as an angel resides within you.

Also keep this fact in mind that there

will be times when people wouldn’t be

standing by your side or leave you or may

betray you that will make you feel

heartbroken, lonely and alone and maybe it

can also deviate you from the path that you

chose for yourself “yes I know it’s not easy

to walk alone but if you keep going and be

true to yourself, it will be worth in the end”,

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makes you strongest. The more hard it gets

the greater your destiny is going to be, so

even if everyone leaves you alone don’t stop

stay strong and keep moving and keep

your faith strong. If you will be true to

yourself right people will show up you

won’t be alone forever in this journey

forever and never ever settle in order to fit in

world if you are destined with greater

heights as that would be the worst thing you

could have ever done to yourself. Everyone

is not capable to understand the real

potential that is within you so if you are

surrounded by the people who can’t

understand what you actually are capable to

do it’s better to be alone at that time and

wait for the right people to show up.

Also there will be people who are going

to de-motivate you not because you aren’t

on the right path or you are not worth of

being on the path you are right now, but

because they don’t have they don’t have the

ability and potential that you had to be on

that path. So never be de-motivated by the

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going to loose your inner faith and belief

that you had made while you set this dream

for yourself as have to be different and face

every odd that comes in order to stand out of

the herd and reach your destination. Always

remember it’s not easy to stand out and

follow your God damn gut even when so

many people are intentionally or

unintentionally de-motivate you as if it

would have been people instead of de-

motivating you would have worked on their

own dreams instead of settling down for less

than what they deserve.

Moreover we are human and are full of

flaws and Tyrion Lannistor is 100% true

when he says “Accept your flaws so they

can't be used against you”, as until we don’t

accept our flaws we can’t work on them and

we know flaws are weaknesses which

hinders the growth of person which

ultimately brings a lot of hurdles between

you and your dream. So it’s better to accept

the flaws you have and start working on

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Lastly you should also keep the fact in

your mind that you are going to make a lot

of mistakes while you are going to chase

that dream but never ever sit and regret as it

will be a waste of time, instead of wasting

time learn from your mistakes as everything

happens for a reason and the best reason of

you committing mistake is to make realize

that you were wrong somewhere and you

need to improve on it.

Hence it isn’t that you have to follow

any complex equation to achieve your dream

but belief in yourself, determined focus &

passion, ability learn from mistakes and

failures to rise again and keep moving until

you have reached your goal where that

dream has turned into a reality.

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“Undeniable truth what one must accept,

the tendency of humans being judgmental

towards one’s situation time and again.

When one will hit the rock bottom, for sure

they will underestimate till the very last

moment things are against the grain.

Though it isn’t the matter of concern for

human nature is something that can’t be put

to blame.

But a lethal seed of self-underestimation

sown within will be an inception of affliction

of one’s own mind.

The fire of confidence burned within will

bring the light of motivation in the shadows

of dark times.”


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