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    SASSAEmotional Intelligence

    Workshop

    Presentedby

    Quantum Flow Coaching

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    What is Emotional Intelligence?

    Emotional intelligence refers to an ability torecognize the meanings of emotion andtheir relationships, and to reason and

    problem-solve on the basis of them.Emotional intelligence is involved in the

    capacity to perceive emotions, assimilateemotion-related feelings, understand the

    information of those emotions, andmanage them.

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    What is Emotional Intelligence?

    Mayer, Salovey & Caruso defined emotionalintelligence as the ability to:

    1. accurately identify emotions

    2. use emotions to help you think

    3. understand what causes emotions

    4. manage to stay open to these emotions in

    order to capture the wisdom of our feelings

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    What is Emotional Intelligence?

    Definition of Intelligence:

    The ability to make finer distinctions.

    Emotional Intelligence is the ability to

    distinguish between emotions and managethem appropriately.

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    Placement

    BehaviourEmotion

    ThoughtsDrives

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    In this workshop we will look at:

    1. Profile dynamics

    2. The Brain

    3. The Emotional Brain4. Six insights of Neuroscience

    5. Thinking Tools

    6. Complete communication

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    Profile Dynamics

    Profile Dynamics is not a test, there are no right or wrong answers! Profile Dynamics doesnt measure brains, character or sense of

    humor Profile Dynamics isnt about changing you, its about learning how

    to adapt

    Profile Dynamics is intended to be used as a tool in understandingdifferences, however no theory can fully explain the complexity ofhuman behavior!

    Profile Dynamics measures drives in your working environment Also the resistance towards specific environments will be analyzed Profile Dynamics gives you insight in how your drives are relevant

    for certain tasks or environments

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    Emotional Intelligence Workshop

    The Brain

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    1.4 kg

    2% uses 20% 25 watts of power

    The Brain

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    100 billion neurons

    Brain plasticity

    The Brain

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    The Emotional Brain

    Three Part of the Brain

    1. Brain Stem/Lizardbrain

    2. Limbic System/OldBrain

    3. Neocortex/New

    Brain

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    The Emotional BrainThe three parts of the brain - lizard, emotional and rational - in a nutshell

    Part ofbrain

    Organ Who Logic Emotions

    Lizard brain Brain stem Lower animals(including reptiles),

    mammals andhumans

    Reflex action No emotion, just instinctualdrives and reactions

    Old brain Limbic system includingamygdala

    Mammals includinghumans

    Associative,Black and white,

    personalised, self-confirming

    Automatic, fast, unreasoned,gut reaction e.g. lust

    Can hijack the neocortex.

    New brain Neocortex Humans Cause and effect,Can think

    probabilistically& take impersonal

    viewpoint

    Relatively slow, reasonedemotional reactions e.g. love

    http://www.timlebon.com/neuroscience.html

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    The Emotional Brain

    The AmygdalaAn almond shaped mass located

    deep within the old brain

    Function:

    Arousal Controls AutonomicResponses Associated withFear

    Emotional Responses

    Hormonal Secretions

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    The Emotional Brain

    Emotions are simply hormones in yourbloodstream translated to energy

    Each emotions has a survival function

    If we understand this function we canmanage them.

    Emotions can be grouped into families

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    The Emotional Brain

    FearProtection form threats

    Freeze Flight

    AngerProtection from injustice

    Fight Create

    SadnessDealing with loss

    Withering Healing

    LoveGenerating growth

    Smothering Nurturing

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    1. The brain is a connection machine2. Up close, no two brains are alike3. The brain hardwires everything it can

    4. Our hardwiring drives automatic perception5. Its practically impossible to deconstruct our wiring6. Its easy to create new wiring

    I acknowledge David Rock the CEO of Results Coaching Systems for the intellectual capital I use

    6 Insights from Neuroscience

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    The brain is aconnection machine

    6 Insights from Neuroscience

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    Up close,

    no two brains

    are alike

    6 Insights from Neuroscience

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    The brain hardwireseverything it can

    6 Insights from Neuroscience

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    Our hardwiring

    drives our automatic

    perception

    6 Insights from Neuroscience

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    Its practically

    impossible todeconstruct our

    wiring

    6 Insights from Neuroscience

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    Its easy

    to create new wiring

    6 Insights from Neuroscience

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    Discussion in group how tointerpret and apply

    information

    What 3 insights did you

    have? What 3 things are you

    going to do differentlyfrom now on?

    Exercise

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    Emotional Intelligence Workshop

    Thinking Tools

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    Activating event

    Thinking Tools

    Belief System

    Consequence

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    Thinking Tools

    Drama

    Problems

    Detail

    Planning

    Vision

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    Thinking Tools

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    Exercise

    Discuss in group on how apply information

    What 3 insights did you have?

    What are you going to

    start doing, stop doing and

    keep on doing?

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    Complete communication

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    Complete communication

    Speak and listen for:

    Facts Feelings

    Thoughts

    Expectations

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    Exercise

    Choose a partner in the group and discusswhat you have learned during thisworkshop.

    Use the complete communication model asguideline.

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    "Persons of high self-esteem

    are not driven to make themselves

    superior to others;they do not seek to prove their value

    by measuring themselves

    against a comparative standard.

    Their joy is being who they are,

    not in being better than someone else."

    Nathaniel Branden