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United Presbyterian Church PO Box 808 Jamestown, ND 58401-0808 CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED Elder of the MonthElizabeth Sherfy Elizabeth Sherfy was born in Bethesda, Maryland. She has a sister 2 ½ years younger. Af- ter growing up in Maryland, she went on to Virginia Tech where she graduated with a BS degree in Biology. She lived in Maryland until she attended college in Virginia and married Mark Sherfy on August 3, 1991. They have three children, Jacob, Braden and Karla. She has held a variety of inter- esting jobs including a laboratory specialist both at a medical college and a veterinary college, ani- mal caretaker for the National Zoo, cardiovascular research, emergency veterinary medicine, day- care provider, youth leader and Menards. She lived in Maryland, Virginia and New Hampshire before moving to North Dakota. Favorite places she has visited are Alaska, British Columbia, Nova Scotia, Steamboat Springs and Vermont. Her Hobbies are gardening, yard work, creative arts- sewing, drawing and painting. She loves to be active outside but on what she calls ‘those yucky days’ enjoys watching the DIY (do it yourself) Network. She is very involved with children’s activ- ities. Elizabeth is on the Figure Skating Board and Show Producer, Post Prom Entertainment Com- mittee, Soccer Boosters, Music Boosters, Member of PEO, and Clearwater Forest Board Member. Festival of Music The Festival of Music will be held on Sunday, September 25 at 4:00 PM at the Presbyterian -United Methodist Church of Ellendale. Please save the date! Frequently Asked Questions Our website features a page with Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) which answers ques- tions about the life of the church at United Presbyterian Church of Jamestown. We will be includ- ing a few of these questions as space allows in future issues of The Communicator. What is worship like? The Sunday morning service is about 1-hour long. The order of worship is traditional, but with an informal, relaxed spirit and “feel.” The centers of wor- ship are readings from the Bible, and a sermon which strives to explain the Bible readings and apply them to daily life. The sermon is usually about 15 minutes long. Other parts of the service include music, prayers, a children’s talk, and the sacraments (Baptism and Communion). Sharing Christ’s Love Through Service UNITED PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH 302 2nd Avenue SE Jamestown, ND 58401 Phone (701) 252-1748 website: www.upcjamestown.org e-mail: [email protected] FALL WORSHIP HOURS Sunday School 9:00 AM Worship Service 10:30 AM SECRETARIAL HOURS 10:00 AM-2:00 PM Monday-Thursday For corrections or additions to the newsletter please call the church office—252-1748 SEPTEMBER WORKMONTH FAMILIES Chairpersons: Chisholm, *Della 320-5539 Dunn, *Duane & *Kathie 952-4778 or 269-0982 Austin, *Flory 252-4821 Bossingham, *Kevin 320-0458 Koehn, *Steve 252-7374 Lindbo, *Jonelle 952-8306 Lindbo, *Pat 952-7863 Matzke, Kevin & Melissa 269-1233 or 269-4712 McIntyre, *Brittany 368-9783 McIntyre, Mike & Cheryl 252-4260 McIntyre, *Tony 368-9784 Muhs, *Dave & *Stacey 320-3048 Nelson, *Dick & *Colleen 252-5936 Parries, *Bill & *Sue 252-5219 cell (320-2199) Pringle, *Roger & *Sylvia 252-6617 Schoeler, *John & *Maurine 952-1051 Spitzer, *Selmer & *Phyllis 701-327-4295 (Dawson) *Member **High School Student The Communicator United Presbyterian Church of Jamestown, ND Volume 43 No. 9, September 2016

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United Presbyterian Church

PO Box 808

Jamestown, ND 58401-0808

CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED

Elder of the Month—Elizabeth Sherfy

Elizabeth Sherfy was born in Bethesda, Maryland. She has a sister 2 ½ years younger. Af-

ter growing up in Maryland, she went on to Virginia Tech where she graduated with a BS degree in

Biology. She lived in Maryland until she attended college in Virginia and married Mark Sherfy on

August 3, 1991. They have three children, Jacob, Braden and Karla. She has held a variety of inter-

esting jobs including a laboratory specialist both at a medical college and a veterinary college, ani-

mal caretaker for the National Zoo, cardiovascular research, emergency veterinary medicine, day-

care provider, youth leader and Menards. She lived in Maryland, Virginia and New Hampshire

before moving to North Dakota. Favorite places she has visited are Alaska, British Columbia, Nova

Scotia, Steamboat Springs and Vermont. Her Hobbies are gardening, yard work, creative arts-

sewing, drawing and painting. She loves to be active outside but on what she calls ‘those yucky

days’ enjoys watching the DIY (do it yourself) Network. She is very involved with children’s activ-

ities. Elizabeth is on the Figure Skating Board and Show Producer, Post Prom Entertainment Com-

mittee, Soccer Boosters, Music Boosters, Member of PEO, and Clearwater Forest Board Member.

Festival of Music The Festival of Music will be held on Sunday, September 25 at 4:00 PM at the Presbyterian

-United Methodist Church of Ellendale. Please save the date!

Frequently Asked Questions Our website features a page with Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) which answers ques-

tions about the life of the church at United Presbyterian Church of Jamestown. We will be includ-

ing a few of these questions as space allows in future issues of The Communicator.

What is worship like? The Sunday morning service is about 1-hour long. The order of

worship is traditional, but with an informal, relaxed spirit and “feel.” The centers of wor-

ship are readings from the Bible, and a sermon which strives to explain the Bible readings

and apply them to daily life. The sermon is usually about 15 minutes long. Other parts of

the service include music, prayers, a children’s talk, and the sacraments (Baptism and

Communion).

Sharing Christ’s Love Through Service

UNITED PRESBYTERIAN

CHURCH 302 2nd Avenue SE

Jamestown, ND 58401

Phone (701) 252-1748

website: www.upcjamestown.org

e-mail: [email protected]

FALL WORSHIP HOURS

Sunday School 9:00 AM

Worship Service 10:30 AM

SECRETARIAL HOURS

10:00 AM-2:00 PM

Monday-Thursday

For corrections or additions to the newsletter

please call the church office—252-1748

SEPTEMBER WORKMONTH

FAMILIES

Chairpersons:

Chisholm, *Della 320-5539

Dunn, *Duane & *Kathie 952-4778 or

269-0982

Austin, *Flory 252-4821

Bossingham, *Kevin 320-0458

Koehn, *Steve 252-7374

Lindbo, *Jonelle 952-8306

Lindbo, *Pat 952-7863

Matzke, Kevin & Melissa 269-1233 or

269-4712

McIntyre, *Brittany 368-9783

McIntyre, Mike & Cheryl 252-4260

McIntyre, *Tony 368-9784

Muhs, *Dave & *Stacey 320-3048

Nelson, *Dick & *Colleen 252-5936

Parries, *Bill & *Sue 252-5219

cell (320-2199)

Pringle, *Roger & *Sylvia 252-6617

Schoeler, *John & *Maurine 952-1051

Spitzer, *Selmer & *Phyllis 701-327-4295

(Dawson)

*Member

**High School Student

The Communicator United Presbyterian Church of Jamestown, ND Volume 43 No. 9, September 2016

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September 2016

Sun Mon Tue Wed Thur Fri Sat

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AA 7:00 PM

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Worship 9:30 AM

Communion

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Reading Ministry 3:00 PM

7 Wednesday

Evening Service 6:00 PM Christian

Nurture 6:15 PM

8 Session 6:00 PM

AA 7:00 PM

9 PW Board Meeting 9:30 AM

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SS 9:00 AM Worship 10:30 AM

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13 Reading Ministry 3:00 PM

Deacons 6:00

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Wednesday Evening Service

6:00 PM Choir 7:00 PM

15 AA 7:00 PM

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18 SS 9:00 AM Worship 10:30 AM

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20 Reading Ministry 3:00 PM

21 Wednesday

Evening Service 6:00 PM

Choir 7:00 PM

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PW Circles 1:00 PM

At the home of Nancy Fletcher

AA 7:00 PM

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25 SS 9:00 AM Worship 10:30 AM

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Reading Ministry 3:00 PM

28 Wednesday

Evening Service 6:00 PM

Choir 7:00 PM

29 AA 7:00 PM

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More Dates To Remember. . .

September 7 Wednesday Evening Service 6:00 PM

October 30 Relay for Life Silent Auction and Potato Bar after Worship

We sing together with the birds as we continue to bask not only in God’s blessings but in

the beautiful warm weather as well. This is what makes North Dakota precious.

My heart goes out in gratitude as I thank you all for celebrating my birthday after the

worship service on August 7 with an ice cream social. I really enjoyed it.

Speaking of celebrating let me list a few things we can be celebrating as a church.

First, on June 10 our Relay for Life team raised over $10,000 to find a cure for cancer. Second,

for our Deacons hosting activities like the church picnic on June 26 and the Tri-Church fellowship

on June 19 among other activities. Third, we had women represent us at the Synod Women’s

gathering in Sioux Fall, South Dakota in mid-June. Fourth, two of our members, Sylvia Pringle

and Adam Allmer represented us and the Presbytery of the Northern Plains at the General

Assembly meeting in Portland, Oregon. Both of them gave a good presentation at the Wednesday

service on July 27. Fifth, Jennifer Allmer represented us at the Youth Triennium at Purdue

University the week of July 18. Sixth, Kayla Thoele and Kenny Allen were married on July 30.

Seventh, we had an exciting Vacation Bible School with attendance of between 35 and 40

children. Thanks to our leader Elizabeth Sherfy and all who helped to make this a great event.

Eighth, for all the men, women, youth and children who in one way or another helped our worship

services and all the committees and session members in making the summer fun and spiritually

fulfilling by Sharing Christ’s Love Through Service.

Finally, we received the good news that our DREAM grant application was recommended to

receive $10,000. We will hear finally in mid-September. The DREAM grant addresses two

issues: Human Trafficking; and Hospitality and Relationship Building with Immigrants, Refugees,

and University of Jamestown (UJ) International Students in the community. The oil boom in

Western North Dakota and growth of available jobs in the whole State brought prosperity, along

with ethnic diversity, and an increase in crime, including human trafficking. Two UPC members

were motivated to address the needs in our community while attending the 2015 PW Gathering in

Minneapolis, MN, and both are participating in planning the HERRB (Hospitality, Education,

Relationship, and Recognition Building) Project. Over the summer we hosted anti-human

trafficking meetings with people from different relevant agencies in the Jamestown area. Please

prayerfully get involved.

Sunday, September 11 begins our fall schedule. Sunday school for all ages is available starting

at 9:30 am. We will ask the Lord to be there before this event and prepare everything so we can

all attend. The Sunday worship service will resume at 10:30 am.

We praise God for His faithfulness as we go about seeking His will as we continue to pray for

the continuing search for a Christian Education Coordinator. We humbly pray for God’s choice.

Through it all, God’s faithfulness is enduring and in this very faithfulness we continue to carry

on God’s work until that time when God will bless us with our own ‘burning bush’ experience

somewhere in another shore.

Pastor Bob Boyar

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SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAYS

Thomas Allmer 1

Marie Van Dyke 8

Kim Thoele 9

Brenna Thoele 13

Medora Pringle 14

Ruth Hoherz 16

Dick Nelson 17

Scot Sloan 17

Karla Sherfy 21

Scott Bennett 22

Lori Miller 22

Neil Barkus 23

Penny Gengler 23

Jenny Korynta 23

Hannah Muhs Goehner 24

Edna Brown 25

Sylvia Williams 27

Bryan Miller 30

Bdecan Presbyterian Church 5K Fun/Run Walk

The Bdecan Presbyterian Church is sponsoring a 5K fun/run walk around Woodlake on

Saturday, September 17 at 10:00 AM. Physically uniting to support health and living well—

physically, mentally and spiritually. Registration begins at 9:00 AM at Bdecan Presbyterian

Church (8194 34th St. NE, Tokio, ND). Registration fees are: $15.00 for adults and $5.00 for

students. An open house with food and a few health booths will be at the church until 2:00 PM.

Call Joe at 701-294-2283 for more information. Pastor Bob will be participating in the run/walk

and encourages anyone who is interested to participate.

Deacon dialogue. . .

The Deacons are a group of men and women from our congrega-

tion that have a heart to serve those in our church and community. The

Deacons organize a variety of activities by which they share the love and

joy of Jesus Christ.

Fall worship hours resume on Sunday, September 11. What better way to celebrate

the opening day of Sunday School than with a little fun and fellowship. The Deacons along

with the Worship Committee have planned an all church potluck after worship. Bring a dish

to pass, invite a friend and join us for a great time. See you there!

October is Deacon’s month. During this month the Deacons offer assistance to those

who may need a little help in their home and/or yard. Call the church office if you would

like to be put on the list. October is also the month when the semi-annual Deacon offering is

received. The proceeds are used for needs in our church family along with those in our com-

munity.

Watch the Sunday bulletin and upcoming issues of The Communicator for more Dea-

con activities.

Those currently serving as Deacons include:

George Barnes Kathy Buchholtz Vicki Enger

Dixie Lee Tony McIntyre Janet Miller

Bev Schaack Kim Thoele Maris Thompson

Pam Van Dyke Yvonne Wegner Cindy Wermager

Worship

The Worship Committee recently met to make a compilation of and describe the

roles of the church during worship. As space allows we will be sharing this with the congre-

gation in future issues of The Communicator.

Our worship services are the single most important thing we offer at United Presby-

terian Church. Donald McKim defines worship as a human response to the divine. Wor-

ship is giving “worth,” “praise,” or “honor” to what is greater than we are. As Christians

we are called together by the Holy Spirit to respond to the God revealed in the Old and New

Testaments and supremely in Jesus Christ. We proclaim God’s greatness for who God is.

And with this knowledge, we worship God not in fear but in awe and reverence. Join us at

10:30 AM for weekly Sunday worship.

Children in worship: Children of all ages are welcome in worship. A children’s

chat is part of every service. Activity bags for children are located at the front entrance and

if you feel a need to step out for a moment, try our fully staffed child care room for infants

and preschoolers, which has a speaker for the worship service.

Anniversaries in September

Roy & Edna Brown 17

Our Church Leadership

Elders

Diane Weispfenning, Clerk of Session

Class of 2016 Class of 2017 Class of 2018

Mark Lee Delbert Bossingham Angie Allmer

Robert Martin William Parries Pat Lindbo

Mary Reed Elizabeth Sherfy Lynn Van Dyke

Diane Weispfenning Jackie Tarpinian

Deacons

Class of 2016 Class of 2017 Class of 2018

George Barnes Janet Miller Kathy Buchholtz

Vicki Enger Kim Thoele Dixie Lee

Bev Schaack Pam Van Dyke Tony McIntyre

Yvonne Wegner Cindy Wermager Maris Thompson

Church Leadership Team

Pastor: Rev. Robert Boyar (814-937-9225) email: [email protected]

Commissioned Ruling Elder: William Weispfenning (320-1739)

Secretary: Sharon Watson (252-1748) email: [email protected]

Financial Secretary: Tammie Skari email: [email protected]

Organist/Choir Director: David Morlock (252-4572)

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Financial Update (General fund activity as of July, 2016)

General Fund Revenue for July $16,256.20

General Fund Expenses for July $11,751.32

Excess Income/Loss for July $ 4,504.88

Year to Date Revenue $122,415.76

Year to Date Expenses $ 20,502.27

Year to Date Excess Income/Loss $ 15,430.31

Per Capita Payments: We encourage all members to pay their per-capita as a gift above and beyond their annual

pledge. Our per-capita is based on $42.40 for each active member of our church. To submit a check for per-

capita, simply write “Per-capita” on the memo line of your check. Thanks!

Christian Nurture Committee

September 11 marks the beginning of a new Sunday school year. At 9:00 AM classes

for those age 2 years through adult will begin. So, are you wondering - Is Sunday school real-

ly valuable? The answer is YES!! And here is why.

Sunday school provides a nurturing environment and offers knowledge, skills and val-

ues to help participants to grow into followers of Jesus Christ. Participants are learning how to

be disciples of Christ.

In Sunday school, attendees encounter and interact with adult Christian role models,

beyond parents or a clergy person.

For our children, Sunday school teachers do much more than just read. They introduce

our children to the great Biblical dramas, connecting God’s Story with their own. They teach

our children prayers, showing them the reality of an inner realm where God speaks to them

and through them. They sing with our children and they nurture creativity through crafts, pro-

jects, skits, and more.

Sunday school is a place of nurture. A place where, if nothing else, our children are

taught and shown that God loves them more than they can ever imagine, and that Jesus is with

them, always. And as adults, it is a place where we continue to discover and grow with God.

As appealing as some extra pillow time may be, making Sunday school a priority

shows that God’s Word really does matter! And an extra bonus – attending Sunday school is

the easiest way to avoid being late to church.

We thank the following people in advance who give of their time and talents to teach

Sunday School:

Pre-School: Ruth Bossingham

Grades K-5: Marcy Szarkowski

Jenny Korynta

Grades 6-8: Bryan Miller

Grades 9-12: Rev. Bob Boyar

Adults: Jeff Enger

Dr. Steve Reed

We currently have two Adult Sunday School classes led by Jeff Enger (boardroom)

and Steve Reed (parlor). Steve states, “The class is started with prayer after taking prayer con-

cerns. We often go consecutively through a Biblical book or sometimes address selected Bibli-

cal texts on a theme. Then we address questions of interest from those texts. All who attend

are encouraged to participate and share observations with the group. This fall we will look at

stories in the book of Daniel.”

Jeff describes his class as a discussion based class in which DVDs are viewed to pro-

vide a basis for discussion. “We explore a wide variety of topics and issues as presented by

Adam Hamilton, Lee Strobel, R.C. Sproel, Max Lucado and others. It offers an informal time

when everyone can share their questions and thoughts.” All are welcome!

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ATTENTION ALL UNITED PRESBYTERIAN WOMEN! On September 22 at 1:00 p.m. both Faith and Hope Circles meet at Nancy Fletcher’s

cabin to start the PW year with Bible study Lesson # 1 “WHO IS JESUS”.” Meet at the

church at 12:30 to share rides. If you would like to start this Bible study by joining one of

these circles, call Edie Prentice at (952-3882) or (269-7605.) If you would like to study this

topic on your own, call Yvonne Wegner (952-2399)for a study guide.

LESSON #1: WHO IS JESUS ACCORDING TO MARK?

In preparation for this lesson, read the first 8 chapters of Mark . The key scripture is

Mark 8: 27-33. Jesus is not the messiah the people of that time were expecting but he IS IN-

DEED God’s Son.

Question: after reading Mark, did it influence any change as to who Jesus is? The

leader at the September meeting will expand on the discussion of this question and others.

Summer activities for Presbyterian Women included members of Hope Circle host-

ing a birthday party at Ave Maria in July, along with women from the First Baptist Church.

Four of our members, Char Enger, Yvonne Wegner, Susan Bond and Deb Hornung

attended the Synod Gathering in Sioux Falls, SD. At our September meeting we will hear

some of the highlights of this meeting.

The beautiful large quilt hanging on the east wall in the Fellowship Hall is owned by

Bethyl Lueck and was made by her niece.

If you have a quilt you would like to share with the church family, call the church

office and get on the schedule. We all appreciate these lovely handmade treasures.

Submitted by Edie Prentice and Jackie Tarpinian

Session Highlights for June 2016

*Diane Weispfenning made a motion/2nd, “to move member #1862 Jeannine D. Carlascio from

the Active Roll to the Roll of the Deceased.” MOTION CARRIED

*Diane Weispfenning made a motion/2nd, “to add Charlotte Enger to the list of substitute

nursery attendants.” MOTION CARRIED

*Diane Weispfenning made a motion/2nd, “to add Marge Nething to the Membership/Church

Growth Committee.” MOTION CARRIED

*Diane Weispfenning made a motion/2nd, “to approve the June Human Trafficking meeting to

be held on June 22, 2016 from 9AM to 11 AM in the UPC Fellowship Hall.”

MOTION CARRIED

*Dr. Robert and Kathryn Bates have requested affiliate membership in UPC. A report of good

standing was received from Fourth Presbyterian Church, Chicago, IL.

*Diane Weispfenning made a motion/2nd, “to receive Dr. Robert and Kathryn Bates into Affili-

ate Membership in UPC.” MOTION CARRIED

*Diane Weispfenning made a motion/2nd, “to add Kathryn Bates to the Stewardship Commit-

tee.” MOTION CARRIED *$600 will be given to Jennifer Allmer for her trip to the Youth Triennium. Mark will make an an-

nouncement at the next worship service.

*The weekly Bible Study with those who preach—Steve Reed, Bill Weispfenning, and Sylvia Prin-

gle is going well. Rev. Rick Raum joined the group for their last meeting. Normally, the group

meets at 9:30 AM on Tuesdays in Rev. Boyar’s office.

*PW Report: A monthly report of PW will be included on the session agenda when PW meetings

resume in the fall.

*Rev. Boyar reported that the search for a Christian Education Coordinator is in process.

*A motion from the Worship Committee/Sanctuary Circle, “to purchase an Advent banner,

“Peace, Love, Joy,” in the bigger size for around $200 with money from the Joos Fund.”

MOTION CARRIED

*Financial Review: Mary Reed reported that the 2016 Financial Review is completed, and the re-

port is favorable. The report will be shared with the Property and Finance Committee and the Ses-

sion after Rev. Boyar has had an opportunity to meet with the individuals named in the report. Mary

read the Summary to the Session. Summary: Our committee found the financial activity of the

church is well documented and accountability is evident. The working relationships of all positions

seem satisfactory. Some positions could be utilized better, for example, The Treasurer, as supervisor

of the Financial Secretary, should regularly be reviewing the general ledger, financial statements,

bank reconciliations, and any documents that go to third parties (payroll reports, etc.), and docu-

menting these actions on a more consistent basis. We feel the Financial Secretary is doing a com-

mendable job, but segregation of duties in the current world we live in is very important for transpar-

ency and security. More documented involvement in reviewing and signing documents (where nec-

essary) by the treasurer, as well as documented financial statement reviews by the Finance Commit-

tee and the Session will aid in achieving a workable segregation of duties.

*Diane Weispfenning made a motion/2nd, “to separate the Sanctuary Circle from the Worship

Committee, allowing each to operate separately.” MOTION CARRIED

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Women’s Ministries

Connecting women to God and one another

Joys & Concerns of Our Church Family

Take note of the two new beautiful usher tables that now grace the sanctuary. We were

blessed by Mark Lee who made them for us. Great job Mark! Congratulations to Mitchell Erickson and Sarah Schmidt upon their engagement.

Mitchell is the son of Leroy and Cynthia (Reimers) Erickson. Cynthia, daughter of Vi

and Laurence Reimers, was a member of this church until moving to Roseville, MN. The Worship Committee plans to extend the Wednesday Evening Service through Octo-

ber beginning Wednesday, September 7 at 6:00 PM. All are welcome!

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Recipe Corner

We would like you to share your favorite recipes with us.

Send a recipe by email or just drop it off at the church

office. Maybe a potluck favorite?

Yummy recipes below submitted by Vicki Enger.

CRISP RAISIN COOKIES

Cream well: 1 c. butter 2 c. sugar

Add: 2 eggs 1 ½ c. oatmeal

1 tsp. vanilla 1 ½ c. raisins

2 ½ c. flour ½ c. nuts

1 tsp. soda ½ tsp. salt

Roll in balls and flatten with glass dipped in sugar. Bake for 10 minutes at 350°.

PEACH DESSERT

Mix and pat into a 9x13 pan: 2 c. crushed cornflakes ½ c. butter, melted ½ c. sugar

Melt 48 marshmallows in 1 c. milk and cool. Add 2 c. whipped cream. Cut in 6 peaches.

Pour on crust, sprinkle a few cornflake crumbs on top. Refrigerate.

Coffee Hour Caution

Avoid saying,

“How old are you?”

Why: Is age so important? There’s no good

answer. Just avoid this one altogether.

Say instead:

“What did you think of the service today?”

****

Avoid saying,

“What do you do? What year are

you in school?”

Why: For those who are un-or underem-

ployed, work is a tricky question. And assum-

ing someone is a student implies you think

they are a certain age. Give them the chance

to talk about whatever is meaningful, which

might not be school or job.

Say instead:

“So tell me about yourself.”

***

Avoid saying,

“When are you planning on having kids?”

Why: Having or not having kids is a private

matter and not one people may want to dis-

cuss. This implies you only value young

adults for their future children, not as a peer

adult, here and now.

Say Instead:

“What brought you here today?”

Avoid saying,

“Are you new here?”

Why: A young adult may have been attending

for years; you just haven’t met them. This im-

plies you think they don’t belong in the

church.

Say instead:

“I don’t think we’ve met. My name is…”

****

Avoid saying,

“We need more young people!”

Why: Like everyone else, young adults want

to be seen for who they are rather than as a

token for their age group.

Say instead:

“Great to meet you!”

***

Avoid saying,

“Have you met our other young adults?”

Why: Young adults enjoy friends of all ages.

Welcome them into the community of

faith and fellowship.

Say instead:

“Can I introduce you to my friend?”

Do: Introduce yourself. Make friends. Be

interested. Reach out. Respect boundaries.

Relay for Life Silent Auction and Potato Bar

Save the date—October 30, 2016 for the United Presbyterian Church Annual Relay for Life Si-

lent Auction and Potato Bar. We had another successful year realizing over $10,000 from our team

this year. Monies raised go toward helping you, your friends and family in finding a cure for Cancer

as well as funding in-state expenses for treatment. Donations of items for the Silent Auction are

gladly accepted—see any team member. We always welcome new members to join our team. Team

members include: Ruth Bossingham, Vicki Enger, Carol Erbele, Pat Lindbo, Dixie Lee, Jan Miller,

Randy Miller, Bill Parries, Jackie Tarpinian, Becky Taylor, Pam Van Dyke, Cindy Wermager and

Sue Parries, Captain.