skill: decision making decision making - the process of making a choice or finding a solution values...
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Skill: Decision Making
Decision Making - the process of making a choice or finding a solution
Values – things that are important to use and guide the choices we make
Evaluate – to determine if we made the correct choice: Would we make the same decision again?
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Closer Look: Evaluation
Evaluation
Ask yourself the following:1) What was the outcome?2) How do I feel about my decision?3) Did my decision effect others?4) What did I learn? 5) Would I make the same decision
next time?
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IBEAR Decision Making
I : Identify the situation B: Brainstorm options E: Evaluate the
outcomes/consequences A: Act on your decision R: Re-evaluate – Did you make a good choice?
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Common Decisions:
What to wear to schoolWhat to eat for lunchWhich homework to do firstWhat to do on the weekendsWhat to do during study hallWhat movie to see
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More Serious Decisions
- What classes you want to take in high school
- Who you want to date- If you will experiment with
drugs/alcohol- What career path you want to take
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Skill: Goal Setting
What is goal setting?Working toward something you want to
accomplish
Why set goals? To help identify what you want from life
Help you use your time and energy wisely Goals in one area will help you with goals in
another To feel a sense of accomplishment
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Buzz Words
SMARTPlan
BarriersProgressEvaluate
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Short Term vs. Long Term
Short Term Goals:Goals you want to achieve in the next
few days or weeks.
Long Term Goals:Goals that may take weeks,
months, or years to achieve.
Is there a connection between the two?
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Steps to Reaching Goals
1) Set your SMART goal. 2) What’s your plan?
3) What are your barriers? 4) Create solutions to the barriers. 5) How will you reward yourself?
6) How are you progressing?
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Everyday Goals:
Getting homework done earlyWinning a game/competitionGoing to the gym/exerciseHousehold chores
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Bigger Goals
Raising your averageGraduatingGoing to collegeMaking a high school teamSuccessful careerHaving a family
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Health Goals!
Going to the gymWeight loss/dietsRemain abstinent from sexual activityRemain drug freeTime management
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Remember SMART!
Goals Should Be:Specific: who, what, where, when?Measurable: how much, how many?Attainable: Do you have the skills to reach it?Realistic: is it something you are actually
capable of doing?Timely: when will you be able to reach this
goal by?
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No-no words for goals
MoreLessManyBetterworseGoodFewerMostLeast
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Skill: Communication
Communication: to effectively get a message across using words and/or actions
Assertive Communication: stand up for yourself and what you want, while still respecting the rights of others
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Communication Buzz Words
Aggressive: bullying or intimidating others into thinking like you or
doing what you want
Passive: unable or unwilling to express thoughts and feelings, a “push over”
“I don’t care”
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“I” Statements – Buzz Word!
Focuses on how you feel or your opinion as opposed to blaming others or making demands
Uses the model:
I feel ________, when you __________, because ___________________________________.
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You are going to a movie with a friend and trying to decide what to see. You really want to see the new
Batman movie.
Assertive: “I would like to see the new Batman movie, what do you think?”
Aggressive: “We are seeing Batman for sure, don’t really care what you want to see!”
Passive: “I don’t really care, whatever you want to see is fine.”(but really you want to see Batman)
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Body Language
Communicating a message without words, only through actions or expressions
Verbal
Tone of Voice Body Language
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Refusal Skills – Buzz Word!
Say “No!” and make it loud and clear.Give a reason for saying no.Make up an excuse.Joke about the situation.Suggest something else to do.Leave the situation.Ignore the person pressuring you.
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Active Listening – Buzz Word!
Providing 100% attention to the person who is communicating with you so that you truly understand what they are saying Eye contact Learning forward Asking questions Not interrupting
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Everyday Uses
Sharing your opinionsGroup/partner projectTalking to your teammates during a gameTraffic police
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Serious/Health Uses
Suicidal friendSomeone is being bulliedRefusal skills – substance abuseRelationshipsTelling a doctor your symptoms