slides on strokes
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POSITIVE STROKEHEALS THE WOUNDS,
MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.
HELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE HITHERTO UNKNOWN HIDDEN
TALENTS.PERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMS
AND CHANNELIZES HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS GOALS.
GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM TO
RAISE UP AGAIN.
POSITIVE STROKEHEALS THE WOUNDS,
MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.
HELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE HITHERTO UNKNOWN HIDDEN
TALENTS.PERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMS
AND CHANNELIZES HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS GOALS.
GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM TO
RAISE UP AGAIN.
POSITIVE STROKEHELAS THE WOUNDS,
MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT
THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.
POSITIVE STROKEHELAS THE WOUNDS,
MAKES PEOPLE ACCEPT
THEMSELVESAND OHTERS.
POSITIVE STROKEHELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE
HITHER TO UNKNOWN
HIDDEN TALENTS.
POSITIVE STROKEHELPS ONE TO DISCOVER THE
HITHER TO UNKNOWN
HIDDEN TALENTS.
POSITIVE STROKEPERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMSAND CHANNELIZES
HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS
GOALS.
POSITIVE STROKEPERMITS ONE SELF TO HAVE DREAMSAND CHANNELIZES
HIS ENERGY TO ACHIEVE HIS
GOALS.
POSITIVE STROKE
GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE
FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM
TO RISE UP AGAIN.
POSITIVE STROKE
GIVES COURAGE TO FACE THE
FAILURES AND MOTIVATES HIM
TO RISE UP AGAIN.
POSITIVE STROKEMAKES PEOPLE:
RELAXED,TRUSTING AND TRUSTWORTHY,
LOVING AND LOVABLE,JOYFUL AND POWERFUL,
ENERGETIC AND ENTHUSIASTIC,CHALLENGING AND CREATIVE.
FREES PEOPLE FROM ALL KINDS OF ADDICTION.
NEGATIVE STROKE
DESTROYS THE SELF WORTH OF THE RECEIVER.
NEGATIVE STROKE
DESTROYS THE SELF WORTH OF THE RECEIVER.
NEGATIVE STROKE
CONDITIONS PEOPLE TO REACT TO THE
EXTERNAL SITUATIONS BECAUSE OF THE
UNHEALED INTERNAL WOUNDS.
NEGATIVE STROKE
CONDITIONS PEOPLE TO REACT TO THE
EXTERNAL SITUATIONS BECAUSE OF THE
UNHEALED INTERNAL WOUNDS.
NEGATIVE STROKE CREATES
A FALSE SELF IN THE GIVER WHICH IN
TURN CREATES A PSEUDO HAPPINESS
AND POWER IN THE GIVER.
NEGATIVE STROKE CREATES
A FALSE SELF IN THE GIVER WHICH IN
TURN CREATES A PSEUDO HAPPINESS
AND POWER IN THE GIVER.
NEGATIVE STROKE CREATES
A FALSE SELF IN THE RECEIVER
WHICH IN TURN MAKES HIM UNHAPPY,
POWERLESS AND BOUND.
NEGATIVE STROKE CREATES
A FALSE SELF IN THE RECEIVER
WHICH IN TURN MAKES HIM UNHAPPY,
POWERLESS AND BOUND.
FIVE TYPES OF STROKES:
U+= UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE
C+= CONDITIONAL POSITIVEC-= CONDITIONAL NEGATIVE
U-= UNCONDITIONAL NEGATIVE
I= INDIFFERENCE.
FIVE TYPES OF STROKES:
U+= UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE
C+= CONDITIONAL POSITIVEC-= CONDITIONAL NEGATIVE
U-= UNCONDITIONAL NEGATIVE
I= INDIFFERENCE.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIRST LAW:
STROKES ARE AS ESSENTIAL AS AIR, WATER AND FOOD
FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EVEN
PHYSICAL EXISTENCE.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIRST LAW:
STROKES ARE AS ESSENTIAL AS AIR, WATER AND FOOD
FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EVEN
PHYSICAL EXISTENCE.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
FIRST LAW REPHRASED:
IN THE ABSENCE OF STROKES PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL DEATH
OCCURS.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
FIRST LAW REPHRASED:
IN THE ABSENCE OF STROKES PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL DEATH
OCCURS.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
SECOND LAW :
WHEN SUFFICIENT STROKES ARE NOT PROVIDED GROWTH AND
DEVELOPMENT IS STUNTED IN ALL AREAS OF PERSONALITY.
NAMELY: PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, PRANIC,
RELATIONAL, SOCIAL AND SPIRITUAL.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
SECOND LAW :
WHEN SUFFICIENT STROKES ARE NOT PROVIDED GROWTH AND
DEVELOPMENT IS STUNTED IN ALL AREAS OF PERSONALITY.
NAMELY: PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, PRANIC,
RELATIONAL, SOCIAL AND SPIRITUAL.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
THIRD LAW :PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED
TOWARDS POSITIVE STROKES.THEY GO AWAY FROM NEGATIVE
STROKES. IF CONTINUOUS STREAM OF NEGATIVES STROKES POUNCES ON THEM EITHER THEY
RETALIATE OR HARM THEMSELVES.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
THIRD LAW :PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED
TOWARDS POSITIVE STROKES.THEY GO AWAY FROM NEGATIVE
STROKES. IF CONTINUOUS STREAM OF NEGATIVES STROKES POUNCES ON THEM EITHER THEY
RETALIATE OR HARM THEMSELVES.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
FOURTH LAW :NEGATIVE
STROKES AREBETTER THAN NO
STROKES..
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
FOURTH LAW :NEGATIVE
STROKES AREBETTER THAN NO
STROKES..
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
FOURTH LAW REPHRASED :
IN THE ATMOSPHERE OF INDIFFERENCE PEOPLE
UNCONSCIOUSLY PROVOKE OTHERS AND GET NEGATIVE
ATTENTION TO SURVIVE.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.
FOURTH LAW REPHRASED :
IN THE ATMOSPHERE OF INDIFFERENCE PEOPLE
UNCONSCIOUSLY PROVOKE OTHERS AND GET NEGATIVE
ATTENTION TO SURVIVE.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW :
WHAT YOU STROKE
WHAT YOU GET.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW :
WHAT YOU STROKE
WHAT YOU GET.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW REPHRASED :
ANY BEHAVIOUR (BOTH POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE) WHICH GETS CONSTANT
ATTENTION IS AFFIRMED AND A PATTERN IS FORMED IN THE
LONG RUN.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.FIFTH LAW REPHRASED :
ANY BEHAVIOUR (BOTH POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE) WHICH GETS CONSTANT
ATTENTION IS AFFIRMED AND A PATTERN IS FORMED IN THE
LONG RUN.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SIXTH LAW :
THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN STROKED
DETERMINES THE WAY YOU STROKE
OTHERS.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SIXTH LAW :
THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN STROKED
DETERMINES THE WAY YOU STROKE
OTHERS.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SEVENTH LAW :
FAULTY MECHANISM.
IN THE ABSENCE OFGENUINE POSITIVE STROKES PEOPLE EITHER GO FOR NEGATIVE STROKES OR GET INTO
FAULTY MECHANISMS WITH THE FALSE HOPE OF GETTING
THEIR STROKE NEEDS MET.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SEVENTH LAW :
FAULTY MECHANISM.
IN THE ABSENCE OFGENUINE POSITIVE STROKES PEOPLE EITHER GO FOR NEGATIVE STROKES OR GET INTO
FAULTY MECHANISMS WITH THE FALSE HOPE OF GETTING
THEIR STROKE NEEDS MET.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SEVENTH LAW :
NATURE OF FAULTY MECHANISM.
IN FAULTY MECHANISMS PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT THEY WILL BE FILLED AND FEEL HAPPY IF THEY
CONTINUE TO DO THESE BEHAVIOURS (FMS) BUT UNFORTUNATELY THEY DON’T REALIZE THAT THE SAME BEHAVIOURS INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS. WHEN THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS HURTS, THEY INSTEAD OF REALIZING THAT THERE
IS A NEED TO CUT DOWN THESE BEHAVIOURS THEY INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF THESE BEHAVIOURS
AND WALLOW IN SELF INFLICTED MISERY.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SEVENTH LAW :
NATURE OF FAULTY MECHANISM.
IN FAULTY MECHANISMS PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT THEY WILL BE FILLED AND FEEL HAPPY IF THEY
CONTINUE TO DO THESE BEHAVIOURS (FMS) BUT UNFORTUNATELY THEY DON’T REALIZE THAT THE SAME BEHAVIOURS INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS. WHEN THE INTENSITY OF EMPTINESS HURTS, THEY INSTEAD OF REALIZING THAT THERE
IS A NEED TO CUT DOWN THESE BEHAVIOURS THEY INCREASE THE INTENSITY OF THESE BEHAVIOURS
AND WALLOW IN SELF INFLICTED MISERY.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SEVENTH LAW :
NATURE OF FAULTY MECHANISM.
FAULTY MECHANISM=BLIND
ADDICTION.
BASIC LAWS OF STROKING.SEVENTH LAW :
NATURE OF FAULTY MECHANISM.
FAULTY MECHANISM=BLIND
ADDICTION.
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STROKE BANKS.STROKE BANKS.
HIGH SELF WORTH LOW SELF WORTH.HIGH SELF WORTH LOW SELF WORTH.
BASED ON THE NATURE, INTENSITY, FREQUENCY, QUALITY OF STROKES
WE RECEIVES WE DEVELOP LIFE POSITIONS.
THERE ARE FOUR LIFE POSITIONS:I AM OK YOU ARE OK: GET ON WITH
I AM NOT OK YOU ARE OK: GET AWAY FROM OR GET EVEN WITH
I AM OK YOU ARE NOT OK: GET RID OFF YOU OR I WILL DO IT FOR YOU
I AM NOT OK YOU ARE NOT OK: GET NO WHERE.
c+, c-, c+ c-, c+
Match the stroke banks with life positions.Match the stroke banks with life positions.
c+, c-, c+ c-, c+
c+, c-, c+ c-, c+u+,u-
u+, u+, u+, u+, u-c+, c-
u+, c+, c-, u+, c+, c-u+,c+, c-
U-
U-,u-, u-, u-, u-, I I, I, I, I, I, I, u-, u-
FIVE POISONOUS MESSAGES.
1) DON’T ASK FOR STROKES2) DON’T ACCEPT STROKES
3) DON’T GIVE STROKES4) DON’T RJECT -VE STROKES5) DON’T STROKE YOUR SELF.
FIVE POISONOUS MESSAGES.
1) DON’T ASK FOR STROKES2) DON’T ACCEPT STROKES
3) DON’T GIVE STROKES4) DON’T RJECT -VE STROKES5) DON’T STROKE YOUR SELF.
THREE MAJOR SOURCES FROM WHERE WE GET STROKES.
THREE MAJOR SOURCES FROM WHERE WE GET STROKES.
SELF
SELF O
THERS
OTHERS
NATUREYOGAMUSICETC.
NATUREYOGAMUSICETC.
SCRIPTS(LIFE’S FUNDAMENTALOPERATING PRINCIPLE.)
SCRIPTS(LIFE’S FUNDAMENTALOPERATING PRINCIPLE.)
INCIDENTS--THE STROKES GIVEN AT THAT TIME-- --THE ENVIRONMENT--THE WAY YOU HAVEEXPERIENCED THE STROKES--THE WAY YOU
HAVE INTERPRETED THESITUATIONS--THE UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS--
LIFE POSITIONS--RACKET SYSTEMS--THE GAMESYOU PLAY.
INCIDENTS--THE STROKES GIVEN AT THAT TIME-- --THE ENVIRONMENT--THE WAY YOU HAVEEXPERIENCED THE STROKES--THE WAY YOU
HAVE INTERPRETED THESITUATIONS--THE UNCONSCIOUS DECISIONS--
LIFE POSITIONS--RACKET SYSTEMS--THE GAMESYOU PLAY.