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Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence
© 2011 - Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
What’s Your Change Style?What’s Your Change Style?Leverage Your Change Style During Your TransitionLeverage Your Change Style During Your Transition
ASTDNorthern New Jersey Chapter
Career Transition Special Interest Group
October 13, 2011
Sara Jane RadinManaging Principal
Performance Advantage SystemsPeople. Purpose. Profit.
Executive Leadership Coaching & [email protected]
201.224.8848
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Unexpected or Planned ChangeUnexpected or Planned Change
Externally Imposed Self-Imposed
● Down-sized ● Education● Family Situation ● Family Situation● Weather ● Weight
What can I do now? How can I maintain my determination?
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
It is your response to changethat makes the change situation
an obstacle OR
an opportunity!
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Perception of ChangePerception of Change
When you change the way you look at things,the things you look at change!
Max Planck(Circa mid 20th Century)
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
The Key Change IssueThe Key Change Issue
THE TRANSITION
FutureFutureStateState
CurrentCurrentSituationSituation
TRANSITIONTRANSITION
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Preferred Work Environment Preferred Work Environment
ProtectorsProtectors PragmatistsPragmatists ProducersProducersStable, structured,
orderly, predictable.
Group oriented
problem solving &
decision making.
Secure.
Flexible, adaptable structure.
Harmonious and
participative atmosphere.
Responsive to the needs of the moment.
Non-bureaucratic: Unconstrained by rules and policy.
Work independently.
Future and risk oriented
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Aligning PreferencesAligning Preferences
ProtectorsProtectors PragmatistsPragmatists ProducersProducers♦ Government
♦ Education
♦ Historical
Preservation/
museums
♦ Regulated utilities
♦ Large stable
companies
(insurance)
♦ Routine/repetitive
positions
♦ Companies that
tend to change in
response to need
(Pharma, Oil, Health
Services/hospitals,
consumer products,
retail,
manufacturing, not-
for-profit.)
♦ Venture Capitalists
♦ Start-ups (GreenGreen)
♦ Entrepreneurs
(sales, consultants)
♦ Dynamic, fast-paced
companies that are
continually in
growth mode (M &
A, Financial
Services)
♦ Venture Capitalists
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
The Challenge of ChangeThe Challenge of Change
FutureFutureStateState
CurrentCurrentSituationSituation
TRANSITIONTRANSITION
Feelings of FEAR(False Evidence Appearing Real)
Loss of control, confusion, disorientation, stress, anger, frustration, anxiousness, depression
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Change CurveChange Curve
……Stages people move through during a transition…Stages people move through during a transition…Stages
Stag es
TimeTime
SHOCK!SHOCK!
DenialDenial
ANGERANGER
RESISTANCERESISTANCE
SearchinSearchingg
ACCEPTANCE!ACCEPTANCE!
SolutiSolutionon
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
ResilienceResilience
Resilience is the internal capacity to rapidlyrecover from adversity, setbacks, and
change so that you can be fully focused and engaged to continue to persevere your
goals.
Being resilient gives you a competitive advantage to
PROFIT from CHANGE!PROFIT from CHANGE!
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Let Go...Let Go...
● Overestimate the value of what is being given up.
● Underestimate the value of potential opportunities - what might be getting.
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Pick Up...Pick Up...
● Be curious = “Up until now...”.
● Reframe self-talk to create empowered attitude = “I’m never going to get a job”: “I’m making progress in getting a job”.
● Leverage your strengths.
● Create balanced days (physical, pleasure, productive)
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Pick Up...Pick Up...
● Observe how you respond when you are emotionally triggered so you can manage/ strengthen your EQ:
- Self awareness- Self management- Social awareness- Relationship management
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Pick Up...Pick Up...
● Peer Coaching
Daily: Accomplishments - - 5 minute call to list commitments met.
Weekly (Friday): Accomplishments + Process - - One hour call to establish upcoming week/daily commitments & issues where guidance is needed.
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Pick Up...Pick Up...
● Maintain Optimism Daily:Daily: - Acknowledge one thing you appreciate about yourself and also someone you know. - Make a list of 10 things that make you feel good and commit to doing one each day. - Keep up-to-date list of your gifts and talents. - Read letters of appreciation, etc. - Journaling – 3 positives – 3 sentences = SAR (Situation, Action, Response)
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Move On...Fearless AssessmentMove On...Fearless Assessment
What’s preventing you – internally - from moving forward?
TRANSITION GOAL: Get a research job as a scientist in a pharma company BY December, 2011.
1) Describe one situation that is not going well in your life/transition. No traction/success in my job search.
2) What are the counter-productive behaviors which you are not/doing which are contributing to and perpetuating the one behavior in #1
above? Complaining about being let go.
3) What are your worst fears that keeps you stuck? I’m not worthy/lack experience/skills/knowledge.
REPEAT questions 1, 2, 3 for additional behaviors. REVISIT this Fearless Inventory every week...with your Peer Coach!
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Move On...Resilience AlternativesMove On...Resilience Alternatives
High Medium Low Protector Pragmatist Producer
STOP
DOING
Let go of:
1) Focusing on the past
2)
3)
START
DOING
Pick-up:
1) Asking relevant ‘how to’ questions
2)
3)3)
CONTINUE
DOING
Maintain:
1) Exercising 5 days/week
2)
3)
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Move On...Strategic Success PlanMove On...Strategic Success Plan
TRANSITION GOAL: Get a research job as a scientist in a pharma company BY December, 2011.
WeeklyACTION MONITOR MEASURE ROADBLOCKS MITIGATION5 face-to- Calendar List No one to meet Ramp upface net- Peer Coach with! networkingwork mtgs/wk
WeeklyACTION MONITOR MEASURE ROADBLOCKS MITIGATION
WeeklyACTION MONITOR MEASURE ROADBLOCKS MITIGATION
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
Points of ChangePoints of Change
◦ Change is always the name of the gamebecause it is inevitable.
◦ ◦ People don’t resist change - People don’t resist change - they resist being driven into change.they resist being driven into change.
◦ ◦ People don’t resist the change that they choose People don’t resist the change that they choose to createto create
(marriage, career advancements).(marriage, career advancements).
◦ ◦ People change as they go through change!People change as they go through change!
Strengthen Your Capacity To Influence© 2011 – Performance Advantage Systems – 201.224.8848
ResourcesResources
Change Your Questions Change Your Life by Marilee G. Adams
Work Arounds That Work. How to Conquer Anything That Stands in Your Way at Work by Russell Bishop
Managing Transitions: Making The Most of Change by William Bridges
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
The Next Level by Scott Eblin
10 Must Reads On Managing Yourself - Harvard Business Review
Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson
The Real Reason People Won’t Change by Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey (HBR)
Resilience at Work by Salvatore R. Maddi and Deborah M. Khoshaba
Failing Forward: Turning Mistakes into Stepping Stones for Success by John C. Maxwell.
The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch
The Resilience Factor: 7 Keys to Finding Your Inner Strength and Overcoming Life’s HurdlesBy Karen Reivich and Andrew Shatte
Managing Personal Change by Cynthia Scott and Dennis Jaffe