the attire club look book
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Welcome to the Attire
Club!
Dear elegantologist,
It might sound strange to be called an “elegantologist”, as
many people do not know what that word actually means.
That’s because this word doesn’t actually exist. It was
invented by French novelist and writer Honoré de
Balzac, who wanted to create a term to describe a man
who is interested in elegant living.
And, since you are reading this letter, you are an
elegantologist. Elegance, we believe, does not reside only
in clothes and accessories; it is something that can be part
of any aspect of your life. This is the reason why we
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created the Attire Club concept: to deliver a full
experience to the modern gentleman. Being a Man (with
an intentional capital “m”) is a choice and can be easily
cultivated. Being a Man means having attitude and
attitude comes from within. If you feel good, you look
good. And sometimes, looking good can make you feel
good.
In our vision, having a sense of style does not mean
abiding to a standard you don’t believe in, but expressing
and developing your own way. Style, however you want to
define it, is something personal and not something that is
dictated. Style is the way you do things, not the way
someone else does them. This is why our concept is to
offer you style guides and fashion inspiration that are
general and can be applied to any taste and way of life.
The men’s fashion world needs a reboot and while we are
launching the new wave, it’s up to all of us to contribute:
from the beginners to the experts, from those who can
spend a little to those who can spend fortunes, and from
the worker to the musician. Wherever you are in life, if
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you believe that elegance comes from within and that
style is an expression of originality, you are part of the
Attire Club.
At the beginning of the 21st century, we can’t deny that
things are not connected: everything in life is connected
to something. Just imagine: the way you sleep can affect
your mood and posture, which is why you should sleep in
the right conditions; the music you listen to or movies
you watch influence your mood and therefore, your
relations with others. These are the things we like to call
“metafashion”. Any act that you do before or after
dressing up, whether it’s taking a shower or taking a walk:
that’s metafashion.
The reason someone should look their best, given that
real beauty comes from the inside, is because looking
well does not only make you feel good, but the way you
look is an expression of who you are. Therefore, using
clothes as a mean of expression will place you in a state of
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harmony with yourself. The way we look is the first thing
someone sees when they first meet us. Your look is a way
of talking without actually speaking.
In the modern world, style can be found anywhere and
can be expressed through everything, which is why we are
fans of finding new ways to incorporate beauty in our
lives, whether these are technology and devices, art forms
or even astronomy and sports. The time has come to
build a new culture of style: one that matches the new
world we live in! Welcome aboard!
Fraquoh and Franchomme
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General style ‘rules’
A man’s wardrobe needs to be similar to a symphonic
orchestra. Every element needs to have a function and
the conductor must know with precision when and how
to make use of it in order to express himself the best and
get the best effect.
This is why you need to learn the characteristics, we will
begin with the basic ones, any piece of clothing must
have.
These are: shape, cut and fabric.
For example, the right shape means that dress shirt
should look like a dress shirt, and not like a sack. Sacks
are supposed to looks like sacks, not clothes.
The cut refers to the way the piece is constructed. You
will notice the difference between a carefully-crafted piece
and one that is not cut very well when you wear it. Well-
cut clothes frame your body better and align with the
wearer’s natural shape.
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Thirdly, we will break down fabrics just a little. The
fabrics you are wearing should be natural, unless they
have a purpose that is best fulfilled by synthetic fibers
(this case usually appears in the case of sports gear).
Good fabrics make the wearer feel comfortable and
should be in a way a second skin. It’s not great to get
itches, irritations and even to get electrocuted by your
own clothes. Being comfortable will deeply impact the
way you feel and see the world around you.
There are many types of fabrics and usually they go best
with different occasions. Smooth, fine fabrics are perfect
for formal occasions, while stronger, more versatile
fabrics, such as cotton are more appropriate for casual
settings.
When you are reconstructing your wardrobe, you should
keep in mind that you need to have clothes for all
occasions: it’s useless to have a lot of tuxedos and formal
suits if you don’t have anything to wear when need to go
in the woods.
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Accessories are a great way to express who you are, and
to add a twist to any outfit. It’s useful to have ties, bow
ties, cufflinks, pocket squares, watches and other pieces in
your wardrobe. Accessories can really make or break an
outfit, regardless if it’s formal or casual, so make sure to
always wear the appropriate ones. If you are not sure, just
say “no”. You don’t have to have all types of accessories,
simply choose what types you like and feel that represent
yourself, but we recommend that you get out of your
comfort zone every so often and try something new.
PATTERNS, PRINTS AND TEXTURES
If the old world thought of patterns, prints and textures as
something reserved for women, that is not the case
anymore. If some men find that wearing patterns is quite
a challenge (more mentally than physically), there is one
question that keeps on rising: How to mix striped shirts
with striped ties?
It is really important to know the rule of how to properly
do this, as otherwise you risk looking like an optical
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illusion! Here’s how it’s done: If one piece comes in thick
stripes, the other one must come in thin stripes and the
other way around! This rule also applies for any other
pattern: a bold, rough pattern goes with a soft, smaller
one! You can mute down a pattern by adding a piece in a
neutral color over it. For example, a floral shirt can be
toned down with a brown vest.
If you want to stand out by wearing patterns, you can
choose patterns that use contrasting colors like blue and
orange, but if you don’t want to stand out because of your
patterns, choose a more subtle one: a pattern made out of
colors that are close to each other on the color wheel,
about which you can read in the next chapter.
HOW TO LAYER CLOTHES
Layering your clothing is a great way to ensure your
comfort and style when it comes to both everyday casual
outfits and formal wear. We have put together a few tips
you can follow when you are putting an outfit together.
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In our opinion, having multiple layers of clothing is
something that really improves your appearance, as
adding layers of different clothes creates visual interest.
So, if you want to give a layered outfit a shot, here are a
few guidelines you can follow:
1. Establish the main piece and color. When it comes to
putting any outfit together, you have to have a main piece
that will be star. All other pieces should be supporting the
main actor. Usually the main piece is something in a bold
color, bold pattern or print. Make sure you don’t wear
two main pieces, it will look unbalanced. After you have
established the main piece, look for other pieces that go
with it, whether it’s in terms of color, shape, pattern or
any other factor. It’s all about finding the connection!
2. The first layers should be the thinnest layer. Go from
thin to thick: start with a shirt, add a vest and only then
the jacket. This seems obvious, but we have seen people
not following this rule. Why this is important is because,
not only it establishes an organic depth of field in the
outfit you are creating, but it also helps you keep your
body at a proper temperature. A vest and a jacket are
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better than just a big sweater; they keep your body at a
right temperature better. Also, if you get too hot, you can
take one layer off and still look well.
3. No matter how many layers you have on you, comfort
is the rule. Even if you have two layers or seven (what
would that look like though?), you should be
comfortable. Not being able to move or feeling restrained
is something that needs to be remedied immediately.
4. Each layer should go on its own. We want you to wear
fine pieces that are strong in their own, but go great
together as well. Also, each layer should have its function.
5. Keep the patterns in a line. If you decide to wear
patterns, place them gradually on your body. Don’t mix
them at random or have neutrals between them. Think of
the outfit as of an in-depth gradient. Whether you go
from the outside to the inside or the other way around,
you should go gradually from one pattern to the other.
6. Do accessories count as layers too? We can debate
this, but we think accessories can also be considered
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layers to a certain regard. Add a nice watch and a nice
pair of shoes a great pair of socks, and don’t leave any
part of your body unattended. Accessories that count as
layers are also scarves or belts.
7. Don’t use clothes to hide parts of your body you don’t
like. As we said, make sure each piece is great in its own
way; and emphasizes the good parts rather than
camouflaging the not-so-good-ones. The difference is that
if you know you are hiding something, you will be aware
of it, rather than being happy that you are pointing out
the good parts!
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A look at colors
You don’t need to be a designer or a professional stylist
to learn a few basic rules when it comes to choosing the
colors of your clothes! Paying attention to a few details
will change the way you see clothes forever.
First of all, what you need to know is that there are colors
that are called "neutrals" which basically go with any other
color. Neutral colors are: black, white, beige, navy, gray,
brown and khaki. The only two neutral colors that go
together are black and white.
Generally, these colors can be matched with any other
colors: red, orange, blue, teal, yellow etc., it’s up to you!!
When it comes to accessorizing, you need to know that
gold and silver are both neutrals, so they can be worn
together! It’s not the 70s anymore!
Going more in-depth, we can talk about how you can
make colors go together! First of all, you might want to
wear a maximum of three colors. If you wear more, you
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might be hard on the eye, and if you only wear one, you
might look boring. If you choose to wear three colors,
here’s how you can do it:
► Choose a color as your most important color. This
color will occupy the largest area of your outfit. Choose a
second and a third color. The third color is usually a
color which contrasts more with the primary and
secondary colors, and therefore, it should be used with
moderation. Here’s how to find out which color goes with
which:
► You can make an analog color combination: analog
colors are colors that are near one from the other on the
color wheel (picture). For example, red and orange.
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► You can make use of complementary colors.
Complementary colors are colors that are on opposite
sides one from the other on the color wheel, for example
yellow and violet.
► Make use of a split complementary colors scheme.
Split complementary is a color and the analog colors to its
complement color. Using split complementary colors can
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give you an outfit with a high degree of contrast, yet still
not as extreme as a real complementary color would. For
example yellow, violet and blue are split complementary
colors.
► Another way to combine colors is to use triad colors.
Triad colors are three hues equidistant on the color
wheel. When you want an outfit that is colorful and still
balanced, a triad color scheme might be the way to go.
For example, blue, violet and yellow are triad colors.
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CHOOSING THE COLORS OF YOUR CLOTHES
ACCORDING TO YOUR SKIN TONE
Have you ever wondered what colors go best with your
skin tone? Of course, this is a thing that is personal and
relative, as the best clothes for you are the ones you like.
But some colors/shades of colors go better with different
skin tones. The colors we wear can make us look tan or
pale. Colors can help hide our flaws or make them more
noticeable.
Of course, we encourage you to wear the clothes you like,
because with the right attitude, you can make anything
work. Our tips are just a little orientation in case you
don’t actually know what goes best and want to take your
skin tone as reference.
Choosing the colors of your clothes according to your
skin tone can be helpful when you don’t know what to
wear or want to try something new.
First of all, what you need to do is to determine your skin
tone. There are more ways to describe skin tones. A first
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classification is warm - cool and sometimes you will find
“neutral“.
It’s important to keep in mind that anybody can be a
neutral, regardless of the color of your skin. A “neutral”
person is a person on whom most colors look well. Some
people are like that, others are not.
This being said, we need to say that “neutral” as a term
does not refer to a standard of color to which all other
colors relate to.
Next, you need to notice whether you have a warm or a
cool skin tone. The most recommended trick is to put a
golden jewel or fabric next to your skin and then a silver
one and see which one looks best. If gold flattens your
skin tone, then you probably are a warm type, and if
silver flattens your skin tone, you probably have a cool
skin tone. This however, can be a little hard to establish.
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Also, you can check your veins: If they’re blue, then
you’re a cool skin tone. If they’re green, and you’ve got
yellow undertones, then you a warm skin tone.
Warm toned skin tends to have a golden or apricot
undertone. People with this skin tone tend to have hair
with hints of orange, yellow, red or gold. The eye color
tends to be amber, dark brown, hazel, or green.
Cool skin tones are the most common skin tones to have,
and the easiest to dress. Cool toned skin has a pink or
rosy undertone. Cool tones’ hair often contains blue,
blue-violet, silver, drab, and ash undertones. The eye
color tends to be light blue, gray-green, blue-green,
turquoise, gray-blue, black or cool brown.
There are several scales in the scientific world on which
you can relate, such as the Fitzpatrick scale, which you
can see in the picture.
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This scale puts all skin tones into 6 large categories,
ranging from pale to dark. Number one is very light,
while number six is the darkest.
Another classification, going deeper than just warm-cool
is spring-summer-autumn-winter. The difference between
the Fitzpatrick scale and the ‘season’ scale is that the
‘seasons’ scale does not measure how dark or pale you
are, it is based on your undertones and establishes if you
are a warm type or a cool type.
Summer and winter are cool skin tones, while spring and
autumn are warm ones. We will break each down and
note what colors flatter each type best.
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First of all, there are a few colors that go with all skin
tones: bright red, pale pink, eggplant and teal.
Now, let’s get to the ‘seasons’:
Summer is one of the two cool tones. Summer tones
have blue, red or pink undertones. If you are a summer
tone, you should wear lilacs and pale blues and should
choose pastels and soft neutrals with rose undertones.
Summers differ from Winters in that their skin tends to
contrast gently with their hair and eye color, and
therefore seem softer and less intense. This is why
Summers should wear softer colors. Cool-toned people
can pull off white, ruby, sapphire and aquatic blues very
well. Generally, cool tones go better with the blue half of
the spectrum. Their metal colors are silver and white
gold.
Winter is the second cool tone. Winters have blue, red
or pink undertones. Their skin can be pale white, olive
(Mediterranean or Asian), or dark (Black). A person who
is a Winter should wear colors that have blue undertones.
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Winters should wear colors that are sharp for example
stark whites, black, navy blue, red with pink undertones.
Silver and grey work good on Winters as well. Winters
differ from Summers in that their skin tends to contrast
dramatically with their hair and eye color, and therefore
seem more intense, so they can wear clothes with high
contrasts. Best metals for winters are silver or platinum.
Spring is one of the two warm skin tones. Springs usually
have golden undertones and are usually creamy white or
peach. Spring people generally have straw-colored or
strawberry red hair, freckles, rosy cheeks, and blue or
green eyes. The main difference between Spring and
Autumn color palette is that the Spring’s colors are based
on yellow, in contrast with Autumn’s colors which are
based on deep gold. This is why Springs should wear
colors that have yellow undertones. Springs look best in
warm orange-based colors like peach, ochre, and coral in
chalky shades.
Autumn is the second warm type. Autumn types have
golden, warm or yellow undertones. Autumns should
wear colors that have yellow undertones. Usually, the
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autumn colors are warm, soft, and deep. Some of the
Autumn colors are coffee, caramel, beige, tomato red,
and green. Autumns should avoid colors with blue tones,
like navy or indigo. Warm skin tones go great with yellow
too! Also, colors like olive, moss or jade enhance your
beauty. Warm tones go better with the yellow half of the
spectrum. For autumns, in terms of metals, gold, bronze
or copper work best.
In case this is a little much, we can make it shorter by
saying that light skin tones look better in dark colors,
medium skin tones look best with the primary colors and
darker skin tones pull off whites and pale colors quite
well.
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The Suit
Every man needs to have at least one suit! One suit is
better than no suit! The male suit is the one piece of
clothing that has been around for a very long time and
remained unchanged. A good suit can go a long way and
you can wear it at practically any occasion needed! A fine
tailored suit can be worn at a job interview, at work, at the
theater, when going out or wherever you can think of! It
can also be broken down into pieces: one day you might
want to wear just the jacket, or the pants!
If you decide to get one suit, it does not necessarily need
to be a black suit; it can be a more casual looking suit,
like blue, grey or beige. We recommend that unless you
have a ton of suits, you should keep it in a neutral color,
which you can mix with a colorful shirt or tie or both!
When you buy a suit, you might want to choose a good
fabric, even though you might find it to be more
expensive. Wool is the best fabric out there, but if you
can’t afford a wool one, you can choose another fabric, as
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long as you keep in mind that there are other important
factors that make a good suit.
A right suit needs to have proper sleeves. Try it on and
let your arms hang on your sides, your sleeves should end
where your hand meets your wrist.
The sleeves of the shirt should be one-quarter longer
than the jacket ones.
When it comes to buttons, we can say that you might
want to choose a one or two-button jacket. One-button
jackets fit better on men with a slimmer physique.
When it comes to the pants, try putting a finger in your
pants, if you can do that, your pants are ok. Not more
fingers, not less!
You can rarely go wrong with a white shirt or a shirt with
small stripes or checkers. Also, your tie should go with
your shirt, they must not necessarily match.
When it comes to maintaining a suit, dry clean it as
infrequently as possible. This will maximize the
preservation of the fabric’s strength. If you need, have it
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professionally steam-pressed or, and hang it in the shower
with the door closed in case of emergency.
ESSENTIAL SUIT RULES
1. The width of your lapel should be the same size as the
width of your tie. While you might not be able to get
them exactly the same size, you can approximate and
have them rather similar. This will make your look more
balanced and harmonious, compared to what it would
look like if your tie was a lot wider or narrower than your
lapel. Generally, thin lapels are more modern, while
wider lapels are more classic. This being said, the best
way to choose your tie is to make it proportionate to your
whole body.
2. Choosing to wear a pocket square is a great idea which
we encourage. However, a pocket square should not
match your tie in either fabric or tie. Wearing a pocket
square is a great idea to funk out an outfit, even a
conservative one, and still look serious and professional.
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3. The number one thing you should make sure looks
well when you are trying a suit on, are the shoulders. If
they do not match your shoulders well and stay bulky or
are too tight, you need to change the jacket.
4. When you keep your jacket buttoned, you should be
able to slip your hand between your jacket and your
chest. It should feel snug, but it should also have some
room to move.
5. When you are sitting down, always unbutton your suit.
Always, in any situation, regardless if the occasion is
causal or formal, do not sit down with your suit buttoned.
Keeping it unbuttoned, you risk ruining it.
6. If you wish to have a more casual, youthful look, pick
out a single-button peak-lapel jacket. These jackets really
look different from other types of jackets and can give
you a whole different look.
7. In case you are wearing a vest, leave the lowest button
open. The same rule applies to the jacket as well. This
being said, the rule is more flexible when it comes to
vests. Some men button all their buttons and still pull a
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great look off. A vest is also very practical and functional,
as it can add a layer of warmth to your outfit and keep
you warm on cooler days.
8. The cuffs of your shirt sleeves should be exposed only
about 1/2 inch / 1,30 cm. For a more balanced, elegant
look, match the visible cuff to the amount of visible collar
from the back of your neck.
9. Generally, your tie should be darker than the dress
shirt you are wearing. However, if you break this rule
consciously, we encourage you to do so.
10. Your jacket should be long enough to cover your
zipper and tush. Checking this is also a good way to
determine if a jacket fits well.
11. Your pants should begin at your waist and not at your
hips. Also, if your pants are having pleats, you should not
go for more than one.
12. Your shoes and belt should always match. And in this
case, we really mean they should be the same color.
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13. In general, suits are made out of wool. Of course,
there are exceptions and sometimes they are of wool
mixed with cashmere. Sometimes suits are made just out
of cashmere. But we would recommend going with the
wool.
14. To test a suit’s strength, you need to take a piece of
cloth and squeeze it. If it bounces back quickly and with
little wrinkles, then it means it’s a good quality. If it has
structure, then it’s also a good sign. Tailors call this
having “guts”. Suits also have a super number. The super
number is an indicator of the suit’s fineness. If the
number is high, the fabric is thinner and better. Rule: the
bigger the number, the smoother and silkier the cloth.
Some suits have for example 150. If you find a suit that
has 180, it’s very good (but it will also be expensive).
15. Make sure your pants cover half of your shoes.
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HOW YOUR SHIRTS SHOULD FIT
The button-up shirt is a
must-have in any man’s
wardrobe. A good shirt
has the following
characteristics: it is simple,
functional, and versatile
and gives any man an
edge! This being said,
many men have trouble
choosing the right shirts
for themselves, but we
want to bring some light
on the matter and spread
the thick clouds of
confusion.
We have broken the guide down into sections, so that
you can memorize it better and make the best of it! We’ll
start with the cut and end with general tips and tricks!
This Simon + Simon shirt is a good example of how a shirt should fit: not too tight, but not too loose.
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Cut
Traditional fit shirts are usually cut more like a square, or
a box if you will, and are rather standard-looking.
Regular fit shirts are usually similar to traditional fit shirts,
just that the sides are more tapered, making them frame
your body better.
Slim fit shirts are usually tailored in the chest, waist and
arms for a leaner, sharper look. This has nothing to do
with being “slim” as opposed to “large”. It simply means
that is it very tailored on your silhouette. There are also
“extra slim” shirts, which are a more extreme version of
slim fit shirts.
These are the main types of cuts, and you will sometimes
find them under another terminology, but the concept is
basically the same.
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Length and sizes
Shirts are usually supposed to be tucked in your pants, so
the lower part
won’t be visible
most of the
time. It is
supposed to be
long enough so
that it doesn’t
come out of
your pants when
you move, but it
should be short
enough so that it does not feel like a second pair of pants.
If you decide on wearing a more casual shirt and keep it
untucked, it should not go lower than the bottom part of
your pants’ zipper.
The problem with shirts is that most guys buy shirts that
are made in standard sizes, thought to fit the majority of
the population. This can be an issue, as if a shirt is
tailored to fit a very wide range of men, it means that it
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does not fit almost anyone perfectly and we are striving
for perfection!
Next, we focus on what you should know about the body,
the waist, the sleeves, the neck, the collar and the pockets
of a shirt. Once you get what it is you should be looking
for, the search for the right shirt will be done from
instinct.
Body
A good shirt should frame your body but it should not be
skin tight. To see if it’s too loose or too tight, try pinching
your shirt at any point you wish. You should be able to
pin about 1-3 inches / 2,5- 7,6 cm of fabric from your
shirt. If you can pull more, it means that your shirt might
be just too big, while anything tighter might make you
very uncomfortable when pinching.
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The armholes should be as high as they can go, but they
should not cut into your armpit or cause any discomfort.
Also, try to lift your arms in order to test the armholes.
You need to be able to make any movement in a shirt!
When it comes to the shoulders, the seams of the
shoulder should simply hug your shoulders and lay at the
corner of your shoulder joint.
Waist
A lot of shirts are too full around the waist, so make sure
that when you sit down you don’t feel any discomfort or
that the fabric doesn’t simply add around in a bulky,
unpleasant matter. If you can’t find a shirt that meets all
these criteria, you can always buy one that is a little bigger
and have a tailor change it a little, according to your body.
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Sleeves
Proper sleeves
should be slim,
so that you
avoid billowing,
but they
shouldn’t be
skin tight either.
Try testing the
tightness of a
shirt by bending
your arm. If
you feel like
the shirt is going to crack, then you are wearing a shirt
that is too tight.
In terms of length, the cuff is supposed to end 1 inch /
2,5 cm past your wrist or where your wrist meets your
palm. Make sure that you can’t pinch more than 1 inch /
2,5 cm of fabric near the cuff when your arms are
hanging. This extra fabric is useful because it allows you
A shirt that fits well needs to fit well on all levels.
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to bend your arms comfortably. The cuff should be tight
enough not to move down your hand, but you should still
be able to feel comfortable.
Neck and collar
When your shirt is
buttoned all the way to
the top, there should be
enough space for you to
slip your index and
middle fingers between
your neck and the collar.
This should be
comfortable and you
should not feel that your fingers are being pressed tightly
against your neck. Remember that if the collar fits this
way before you wash it, it might be too small for your
neck, as shirt collars tend to shrink about 1/2 inch / 1,27
cm after washing. This is why you should go up half an
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inch in size. A shirt that is too tight from the start will not
be wearable.
Normally, the collar’s size should be proportionate to the
size of the wearer’s head. A good collar should be big
enough to make proper room for a tie. Some shirts have
smaller collars, but these are thought to be worn with
similarly tailored suits, which play with proportions.
Pockets
When it comes to pockets, look at their number! Guess
what: Zero is the right way to go! A good dress shirt
should have no pockets! Shirts that have only one pocket
are considered just a little more formal than those that
have two pockets. Shirts that are supposed to be worn
with a vest or with suspenders should have no pockets. If
they do, your chest might look a little bulky, and not in a
good way! Please note that shirts with pockets are not
work-appropriate, they are for extremely casual occasions
only! The only way pockets on a shirt can be elegant is
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when they have a function and a purpose (for example
military men’s shirts sometimes have pockets, air pilots
also have shirts with pockets and so on).
Having a well-fitted shirt is very important, regardless of
your size or body frame. Also, as an additional tip, if you
want your shirts to last longer, you should opt for the
right undershirt! Doing so, you will be able to save a lot of
money and time! You should also know that most dress
shirts are usually sold by neck size and sleeve length.
To get the best results, make sure that the shirt you are
wearing is properly ironed!
Most guys will need to have their shirts modified by a
tailor in one way or another, but this is definitely worth it,
as good shirt can improve your look by a lot and go a
long way in what’s regarding your attitude and feelings
about yourself! A right-fitting shirt will make you feel like
you’re the boss!
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PANTS PLANET
Going a little lower, we will continue by looking at some
short tips on how your pants should fit.
• Try to buy pants that fit you right from the start! It is
not recommended to alter pants because after tailoring
them, they might not resemble the original pants.
• Your pant size is the same as your waist size. So, if you
have a 35" waist, you are a 35!
• The crotch needs to be where your crotch is, not lower
and not higher (if that’s possible).
• One pleat at the bottom is enough. None is alright too,
for more casual and modern pants!
• Your socks are should not show when you are walking.
• Men should wear their pants slightly above or under
their hips. Wearing pants lower normally conveys a
younger and more modern feel while wearing them too
high looks like... (We couldn’t find the right word)!
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• When it comes to buttons or zippers, there’s not much
to say except that they need to work!
THE BUTTONS RULE
Many men ask the question regarding the buttons of a
suit jacket: should you unbutton, one button or two, what
is the right way to go?
It seems that the rule of having an open button first came
to be around in the 1900s in England. At that time, suits
were quite new, so their structure was not as defined as it
is today. Apparently, King Edward VII was rather a larger
guy and couldn’t close all the buttons of his jacket, so he
left the lower button open. Of course, everyone started to
follow the trend of the king; not so much because they
thought it was trendy, but because they didn’t want to
offend him. This “fashion” became later incorporated in
the way suits were built, so it’s not just a fad to follow this
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rule, it’s a way to make sure that the suit you bought looks
it’s best.
Today’s suits are created with the idea in mind that when
having a button left open, it ensures proper fit and drape
of the jacket.
Before explaining which buttons you need to open
depending on the type of jacket you are wearing, we need
to remind you that the suit needs to be buttoned when
you stand, and completely unbuttoned when you sit.
So, here are the types of jackets there are and the way you
should consider to open/close your buttons.
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One button jackets
A one button jacket
One button jackets are derived from tuxedos and give
you a more elegant feel. They emphasize your shoulders,
but because of the low positioning of the button, they also
draw attention your waist.
The rule regarding these jackets is easy: when standing
close it, and unfasten the button when sitting down. One
button, one option.
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Two button jackets
A two button jacket
Jackets with two buttons are very wide-spread and are
very modern. When you are wearing a two button jacket,
you should keep the upper button fastened, while the
lower button should remain unbuttoned.
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Three button jackets
A three button jacket
When it comes to three button suits, you have more
options. You can button the two upper buttons and leave
the lower one unfastened. On suits that have a flat lapel, it
generally looks better to button the two upper buttons.
But if the lapel has a softer roll that extends after the first
button, you should only fasten the center button.
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More than three buttons
If you have a jacket that has more than three buttons, it’s
probably because you are making a fashion statement.
Many advisers would not recommend them, but we think
they’re amazing. Jackets with more than three buttons are
definitely for someone who is not afraid to stand out and
draw attention, so if you don’t want this, you should
probably stick to a more classic jacket. However, if you
choose to wear a multi-button jacket, you should leave the
bottom button undone.
Double-breasted jackets
All the jackets we mentioned until now are, of course,
single-breasted jackets. When it comes to double-
breasted jackets, the rule is very simple: button all the
buttons besides the bottom one. But this rule is also not
mandatory.
What we need to say about double-breasted jackets is that
you need to pay attention to the button configuration.
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Button configurations are, for example: 6×2, 6×1, 4×2,
4×1 etc. What this means is: the first number is the
number of buttons the jacket has and the second number
is the number of buttons that are buttoned.
4×2 is versatile and very elegant, 4×1 might magnify your
midsection while 2×1 was fashionable around 30 years
ago.
A double breasted jacket with the configuration 6×2
So, whatever you like, now you know the whole thing!
The rules are actually easy to follow and make a big
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impact. Now, if you want to break the rules, it’s up to
you! Or, who knows, you might invent a new one.
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The Tie
HOW TO CHOOSE A GOOD TIE
If there is one thing that is globally associated with men
and style, that is the tie. The tie is the thing
that confers man elegance. It’s important to
make the best of your ties because and wear
them with pride. Ties can be an indicator of
who you are and what your interests are,
they can speak about your personality and
convey messages you want to convey. This is
why picking the right tie is probably one of the most
important steps of wearing a tie!
Ties and fabrics
When we are talking about ties and the fabrics they are
made of, we need to talk about understanding the
differences between the textures of ties. Most ties are
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made of a printed or woven silk. A woven silk, as it has
more texture, will usually be less formal, though satin is
the most formal silk – as it is the shiniest (don’t forget, the
shinier the fabric, the dressier it is)! Woven silk comes in
lots of different variations, but the only alternative you
really need to be aware of is grenadine, which is a thicker
weave – and comes in large and small knots. Then comes
knitted silk, which is a yet chunkier texture. You will find
it most in thin, squared-end ties.
Then, besides silk, there is wool, linen and mixes of the
two with silk. Although the weave may be somewhat finer
than a knitted silk, for example, any wool or linen tie is
more casual than any silk one, because of its matte
texture. The same goes for madder.
What you should keep in mind is that a silk mix is the
best choice (the heavier and tighter the silk fabric is, the
better), followed by cashmere and chunky wool.
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Ties and collars
Different collars are appropriate for different tie knot
types, which is why you should be paying attention the
collar of the shirt you are wearing in relation to the tie
you want to put on. So, for example if you wear a shirt
that has a spread collar, you should match it with a wider
tie and a bigger knot. Button down collars and point-
collars usually go with any other tie knot type, although
button-down collars look better with thinner ties and
smaller knots.
Ties and size
One thing that is really important when it comes to ties is
the length of the tie: a tie should always hit right the line
of your belt, not lower, not higher. Most ties are 57
inches long, that is about 145 cm. Going shorter or
longer, you might have problems when tying the tie.
In terms of width, we can say that the most modern ties
today measures 2.5 inches, that is 6.3 cm. Ties that are
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wider than that are seen as wide and ties that are narrower
as seen as skinny.
But, ties also need to match the size of your body: men
with a larger body frame might want to wear wider ties,
while men with thinner body frame might prefer to go
with a skinny tie or a thinner one.
Ties and colors
Choosing the color of your tie and making it match your
suit and shirt might be tricky, but there are a few simple
combinations you can keep in mind. If you want to go for
more complex combos, you can check the chapter about
colors.
It’s very important to know that you can wear a tie that
has a pattern, like stripes with a shirt that has patterns.
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Ties and tie bar
Bar ties (also called tie clips) do not only fasten your tie,
they also fasten your tie to the placket of your shirt! Also,
what you need to know is that a bar tie must not be wider
than your tie, that’s a big no-no!
Note that the tie clip is traditionally placed between the
fourth and fifth button of the shirt placket, midway
between the pectoral and abdominal muscles.
In the end, we can say that there are more ways to wear a
tie. You can tuck it, for example, between your third and
fourth buttons (something like Frank Sinatra in “From
Here to Eternity”).
HOW TO MATCH YOUR TIE TO YOUR SHIRT
When it comes to dressing up, even though men’s
fashion has really taken off lately, men have fewer options
than women. Maybe it’s because men usually wear shirts
and ties when they want to dress up, and the suit is an
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outfit that can only go so far, compared to gowns and
other women’s clothes, for example. This is why wearing
a shirt and tie that make a statement about yourself is very
important.
You can really express your personality through the tie
and shirt you are wearing. Moreover, you can express it
through the combination of tie and shirt you wear you
choose to make.
Great ties by Peter Field
We have some guidelines for you, which are not
unbreakable rules, but are sure to help. We want you to
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create your own style, and not blindly follow some rules,
invented by… who?
Accessories such as ties are a great way to be creative and
not too ostentatious. Here are some short but useful tips
you can follow to match your tie to your shirt and look
great:
1. If you want a more conservative look, your tie should
have at least one color the same as the shirt.
2. If you want to match patterns, you can do this, but the
patterns should be in different sizes.
3. For a more formal and sophisticated look, you can go
for a tie that is a solid, darker color. If you want to have a
more relaxed or creative feel, you can wear a patterned
tie or a more colorful one.
4. If you are in doubt about what shirt to wear, wear a
solid-colored shirt. To play it safer, you can go for a white
shirt, a light blue one or a dark one (such as brown) as
they go with anything. If you don’t want to be so “safe”,
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you can mix colors using different color schemes we will
link to lower.
5. A very colorful tie you don’t want to draw attention to
can be toned down with wearing a vest.
6. Certain fabrics complement each other, others don’t.
For example, a casual shirt won’t go with a really fine silk
tie, as it will be obvious that the tie is from a different
world. Try to combine fabrics that complement each
other: a cotton shirt goes with a wool tie for example.
Dressier fabrics usually go together well.
7. Decide what is appropriate for the occasion: usually a
solid color tie on a solid color shirt is for more formal
settings, while patterned ties on solid colors go for casual
work days and patterned ties on patterned shirts is the
most casual combo.
8. Larger men go better with bigger ties, while thin men
go best (visually) with thin or skinny ties.
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CHOOSE THE BEST TIES FOR YOUR BODY AND
FACE TYPE
Whether you wear a tie at work, on a formal occasion or
in any other place, there are a few things
you need to know. We have already
discussed how to choose the best tie. It’s
up to you what type of tie you choose, the
fabric, the pattern etc., Now we want to
discuss how to choose a tie according to
your body.
Of course, these are not unbreakable “style rules”, they
are guidelines that will give you a step forward to an
optimal look.
What we are discussing today are your body type and
your facial features. If you determine these two, you can
choose the right knot, the right color and the right length
and width of your ties.
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Ties and body types
It’s very easy to determine what type of tie fits you best
according to your body type. Men with average bodies are
fitted best by average-size ties, both in terms of length and
width. If you are a wider guy though, you should wear a
wider tie, in order to keep a balance, while thinner men
should wear thinner ties or even skinny ties. You will look
your best if you keep the size of your tie proportional to
your body.
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When it comes to the length of your tie, you should
know that ties come in different lengths too. Generally,
average ties will do it, only very tall or very short men
should go an extra mile finding a tie in another size. We
don’t want to give you numbers, because the best way to
see if a tie is the proper length, you need to try it on.
Even if in theory some ties go better than others, the way
it looks on your body is the best indicator.
Don’t forget the rule we keep stressing: when wearing a
tie, the tie’s tip should touch your waistline.
Ties and Facial Features
Ties are not only to be picked according to your body
type, they can be chosen according to your face too. We
will first speak about colors and then about face types and
tie knots.
What you need to know is that in order not to look
washed out, you should wear colors that contrast with the
color of your skin, the color of your hair and eyes. So, for
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example, if you have dark hair and a darker complexion,
a bright tie will make your features pop, while a man with
a light color hair (such as blond) and a light complexion,
should opt for a darker tie to have his features placed in a
great light. Some men are a combination: their hair and
skin color contrasts. In this case, the tie should be in
contrast with your skin tone.
The knot you tie can be chosen according to your face
type. There are many face types, but they all fit in one of
the big categories.
Here are the 4 face types: which one are you? If you have
long hair, don`t forget to pull your hair back when
studying your shape.
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If your face’s length is bigger than its width, and the line
of your cheekbones is wider than rest of your face, it
means that you have an oval face.
If the width of your cheekbones is almost equal to the
length of your face, and your forehead and chin are
tapered, you might have a round face.
In case your forehead is almost the same width as, or a
little narrower than your cheekbones, and your chin is
tapered, you probably have a heart-shape face.
If the width of your forehead, cheeks, and jawline are
approximately equal, then your face is square.
A Windsor, a Half-Windsor and a Four-In-Hand knot
Oval, square, and heart-shaped faces are best flattered by
larger knots, such as the Windsor knot. If you have a
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longer face shape, you should choose a wider knot, such
as the Half-Windsor, the Cavendish, or the Saint
Andrew. This goes if you have a longer neck too.
If you have a round face, you should try to avoid very
small knots, as they will tend to disappear while
contrasting with your face. You can choose narrower,
longer knots, like the Four-in-Hand. These tips go for
men with wider necks too.
Now you possess a lot of tips that will sure make a
difference the next time you get dressed! You can find
out more from other AC articles. If you liked them, don’t
forget to subscribe to our site!
A QUICK LOOK AT KNIT TIES
Knit ties are in a class of their own, even though they are
part of the big category of men’s ties. What is special
about them is not only the way they are made, the way
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they look and feel due to the
manufacturing process, but
also the fact that they are
generally square end ties. A
knit tie can add a touch of
sophistication to your
wardrobe because of its
interesting fabric and texture.
Knit ties are very versatile
themselves, but you can also
change the feel of your outfit
by changing your tie. There are many knit ties out there
on the market.
The right tie
Square end ties, also called flat-end ties are ties which
from the point of view of the design look just like a
regular tie, but instead of ending in a “sharp” tip, they end
in a straight line. Some men have issues wrapping their
heads around this idea and around the idea of wearing a
A knit tie by Salt+Dapper
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knit tie, but there are many advantages to knit ties. Knit
ties come in cotton, wool and silk, just like any other tie.
So, if you decided to step out of the box and wear a
different tie, there are some things you should know
about these ties. Flat bottom ties became fashionable in
the 1950s and 1960 and rapidly became a popular
alternative to the classic tie. Knitted ties look great when
they are around 2 to 2.5 / 5 – 6 cm wide. You will also
find ties which are wider. These ties, which are about
3.25 inches/ 8 cm wide, are great to be worn with double
breasted suits and jackets that have wider peak lapels, as
narrow ties usually go with narrower lapels.
When you are buying a knit tie, a factor you should take
into consideration is the weave density. Pieces with a
bigger density are, as the name says, denser, while ties
with a lower weave density can even be see-through. We
would recommend that you get one with a bigger weave
density.
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The when
Knitted ties and flat-end ties in general are on the casual
side of men’s fashion. Even if you are wearing a silk
knitted tie, it’s still considered to be very casual. If you are
wearing clothes that you feel are too formal for the
moment you are wearing them, consider wearing a knit
tie to dress down the outfit. You can change the feel of
your outfit by simply changing you ties. Say you are
wearing a causal suit with a formal tie. You can change
the whole feel of the suit, by simply changing the formal
tie with a knit tie. This way, you can easily transition from
a formal look to a look that is more appropriate for a
casual setting.
Knit ties are appropriate when going out, and other semi-
casual occasions. They are not the best choice you can
make when you are going to a job interview.
When it comes to the seasons, some say that knit ties are
to be worn only in the warm seasons. Why that is,
remains a mystery. To clarify this, we need to say that knit
ties can be worn during any season and on any day of the
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week. If you want to use the seasons as your style
statement, you can choose to wear muted, darker shades,
such as black, brown or green during the fall and winter,
while brighter and more vivid colors, such as orange,
yellow or red during the warm seasons.
The most popular patterns knit ties have are simple
horizontal lines or polka dots. This is something you can
definitely work to your advantage, as wearing a tie with a
pattern might make you feel less worried about wearing
other patterns. Wearing a tie with a pattern will definitely
add more depth and volume to your outfit therefore
making it more visually appealing.
The how
Of course, since knit ties are casual, they
go best with casual outfits. Never wear a
knit tie with a formal suit or with shoes
that are considered to be very dressy.
Chinos, casual shirts and even jeans are
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the things that go best with these ties. Many men choose to
wear knit ties with denim shirts, which make for a good
combination, but to be honest; we have our doubts about
denim shirts in general.
Our recommendation is to wear a knit tie with a shirt that
feels and looks a little different from the tie. If your shirt
and tie are blending, the effect created by the texture of
your tie will be diminished. Because knit ties differ from
regular ties by having a different feel and more physical
depth, these are the features you want to showcase.
Since knit ties are the perfect accessory for a casual
environment, the way you tie them is also very important.
To complement the casual fabric texture of your tie,
knots that are slightly asymmetric and casual are the best.
We think that one of the best ways to go is of course,
the Four-in-Hand.
Knit ties go great with spread collars as well as with point
collars, so you have your options laid out for you!
In short, knit ties are perfect to be worn with casual
outfits on casual occasions. They can be paired with
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almost anything and add texture to any outfit. Knit ties
can be worn anytime, anywhere, as long as it’s not a
formal setting.
HOW TO MAINTAIN A TIE
When talking about men’s clothes it’s always talked about
how to maintain and keep your suit in its best shape.
Often, you will find posts that discuss how to keep your
shirts, shoes and other things, but what’s rarely discussed
is how to take care of a necktie. We don’t know why that
is, as a well-maintained tie can be good many years after
you bought it! And, let’s be honest, sometimes a good tie
can be quite expensive. Learning how to maintain a tie is
easy and anyone can do it!
So, here’s what you need to do and know:
One thing that you need to watch out is stains. It`s
recommended that you don`t wear your best silk tie
when you go to lunch break as it might get dirty, and silk
ties don`t do well with repeated cleanings.
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If you do get a stain on your tie, blot the stain with cold
water. Club soda works the best! If you get grease or
something similar on your tie, sprinkle the stain with a lot
of talcum powder, as it will absorb the grease. After a few
hours, brush off what`s left.
Try not to wear the same tie two days in a row. Just like
with shoes, letting them “breathe” for at least a day helps
your ties to keep their shape and crisp.
Carefully untie the knot when you need to. Don’t pull
your tie in any weird direction, as it might stretch and go
bad. Just do what you did when you tied it, but in reverse!
Ties should be stored upright, so it would be
recommended to have a tie rack in your closet.
Keeping your ties stored like this, due to gravity they
won’t have wrinkles and the darkness of your closet will
keep the colors bright (yes, sunlight does wash away the
colors of your clothes, it happens even to the best of us).
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Never iron a tie! If you don’t know what to do, just hang
it in the shower (don’t get it wet, just let the steam do the
work). Keep it like that for about 15 minutes.
If you do need to iron a tie, because its wrinkles are way
too deep, iron it on the part that is not visible when you
are wearing it. You’ll need a cotton cloth to lay over the
tie, for example a napkin or pillowcases are OK.
Even though most ties are dry-clean only, you should do
that as rare as you can, as the chemicals used in the
process can damage your tie too.
Well, we all apparently learned that ties are really difficult
to maintain, but in the end it’s not that hard and it’s worth
it!
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Other Accessories
HOW TO CHOOSE ACCESSORIES
Accessories are an important part of any outfit, as they
complete any look and really make you stand out. It’s
important to know how to choose accessories that flatter
you the most, regardless if you are picking a bow tie, a tie,
a chain, a watch or a pocket square.
The trick to picking out just the right accessories is to
make sure that they are always proportionate to your
body. People with big body frames can wear bigger
watches, wider ties and bolder necklaces, while men with
more slender physiques should wear smaller accessories.
Have you ever seen a thin guy wearing a very big bow tie
and felt that there’s something wrong, but couldn’t tell
what it was? It was probably that the bow tie was too big
for him and this is why he looked disproportionate. The
hard part about the process of choosing accessories is that
you need to be very well aware of the way you look.
Sadly, too many men struggle with knowing where they
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place in terms of body size. What you also need to pay
attention to is what accessories you place where. This
means that if you want to appear thinner, wearing small
accessories will only make you look bigger, you won’t be
fooling anyone but yourself. Accessories have a way of
attracting people’s views, so wear them where you want
people to look. Choosing the right accessories also has
the advantage that your overall look will be more framed
and structured. Accessories always add structure to an
outfit, which is why it’s very important to wear them.
HOW TO CHOOSE POCKET SQUARES
Picking out a pocket square is very easy and wearing one
with your jacket is definitely something you should be
doing in order to get a more put-together look. Pocket
squares have the advantage that they can
add something visually interesting to any
outfit and that, even if you are wearing
something conservative, you will still be
able to express your personality through
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your pocket square. The “rule” of pocket squares is that
they don’t have to match the rest of your outfit, they
simply need to go. For example, a pocket square can
have complimentary color to your main color. According
to some people, a pocket square should not match in
terms of fabric as well, but we think that if your pocket
square comes from the same fabric family as your other
pieces, it will look very well too!
BOW TIES
• Bow ties are usually the right thing to wear at a formal
event or in an academic surrounding. It is very important
to know that bow ties do not replace ties, so don’t wear a
bow tie to a job interview or a regular job meeting.
• Classic bow ties come in black, white and silver.
• You can also wear a colorful bow tie, like an orange or
green one.
• Colorful bow ties need to match your pocket square!
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• Bow ties with patterns, although not so common, are
really are usually worn by people who wear bow ties quite
often, and do not make very formal attire.
• The fabric is also embedded with a message: the
shinier the bow tie, the more formal it is.
• Most common bow ties have a spread of 2.25 inches –
2.75 inches / 5,7 – 7 cm. Smaller, skinnier bows, also
called bat-wing bows, look best on men that have
narrower and longer necks. Larger bow ties, known as
butterflies, look best on men with wider and shorter
necks.
• Free-style or pre-tied bow ties are both ok, but free-
style bow ties are more sophisticated and have a personal
touch to them!
THE THING WITH SUSPENDERS
When they appeared, suspenders were considered
underwear, so it was not customary for them to be visible.
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Times have changed, and suspenders became a very
common (and great-looking) fashion accessory.
They are highly versatile and go with pretty much any
type of outfit. What you will learn is that it’s not the
suspenders that set the tone of the outfit, but it’s the outfit
that sets the tone of the suspenders.
Suspenders were most fashionable in the midcentury, but
as most classic men’s fashion items they are making a
come-back. And, let’s face it, suspenders didn’t actually
go out of style (they probably never will), they just let the
belt take the spotlight.
Suspenders and occasion: From casual to business
The great thing about suspenders is that they go with
almost every type of outfit. They are perfect for a casual
everyday outfit, but also for a business one. They look
just as great on a bartender as they look on a Wall Street
guy. Formal suits well with suspenders and look really fun
and elegant at the same time.
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Casual outfits and suspenders
To obtain a certain look, it’s not the suspenders in
themselves that make the outfit, they are just an
accessory, and it’s the overall vibe that sets the tone.
A casual look With Suspenders
So, if you wear them with chino pants and an informal
shirt with its sleeves rolled up, you will definitely get an
amazing casual look.
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A casual look where the suspenders are not visible all the
time.
Wearing a business-oriented outfit, with a tie and dress
pants will grant you the Wall
Street with suspenders look.
Extremely casual wear and
suspenders
Speaking of casual looks, you
can get even more casual. If
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you’re the kind of guy that wears a tank top on a daily
basis or a rugged t-shirt, suspenders can also give you an
extra edge, and in this case the tone will be rather punk
than just casual.
Very casual outfits with suspenders.
Formal wear and suspenders
If you wear a formal shirt, a tie and dress pants, the
suspenders will become the accessory that will add a lot
of personality to your outfit.
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Formal suspenders. Actually, it’s the outfit that’s formal
while the suspenders only support it.
Suspenders are also an important part of black tie outfits.
You should know that there is no such thing as a very
formal belt. Usually, suspenders worn with black tie
outfits should black or white, and are not supposed to be
seen beneath your jacket. Quality formal suspenders
usually end in braided silk ends rather than leather tabs.
Tabs are, perfectly acceptable as well, but clips are not.
And, even though it’s not the suspenders that set the vibe,
we highly recommend keeping the tone of the suspenders
within the tone that you wish to convey. A formal,
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business-oriented outfit will not look its
best with suspenders with a pineapple
print.
If you are wearing suspenders that
have leather parts or are entirely out of
leather, they should match your shoes.
Many men will normally fasten their
suspenders in the back, then put their
trousers on, and then fasten the suspenders in the front.
Some suspenders designs use a metal clasp that pinches
the fabric of the trousers, while some have small buttons
at each end of the suspender. The second type are, in our
opinion, better because they do not compress and in the
end damage the trouser fabric, but the thing is that you
can only wear them with trousers that feature button-flaps
for suspenders (these are usually situated on the inside of
the waistband to either side of the central button and fly).
Trousers that are not made with button-flaps for
suspenders can only work with clamp-style suspenders.
They will usually be made with belt-loops.
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The golden rule
Whatever you, don’t wear suspenders with a belt. Your
pants won’t fall off!
Suspenders are really an amazing piece, but sometimes
belts are better. Try them both and see which works best
for you. Including suspenders in your wardrobe will only
give you more tools to use when you are dressing up
every day.
THE GUIDE TO SOCKS
Socks are an important piece of clothing, even though
most men don’t pay much attention to them. They are
not only a visible part of our outfit, but are also important
because they are functional. They absorb our
perspiration; protect us from abrasion and so much
more. A bad pair of socks can harm your feet and mood,
while a good one can go a long way.
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In this guide, we have a look at socks from different
angles, such as design, length, functionality and other
factors.
Brief history
We will start with a brief history of this piece to
understand some background info and then we will go in
the details.
Socks have been around for a lot of years. The Ancient
Greeks wore them, the Romans wore them too, but the
exact date of their appearance can’t be known, as the first
pairs of socks probably “dissolved” by now. We know
that in ancient times though, socks were made out of
animal skins and hair, in order to offer protection and
keep warm. The socks history has seen a huge change in
1589, when the knitting machine appeared. Until then,
socks were knitted by hand. After this year, machines and
workers worked together until 1800. The introduction of
nylon in 1938 also changed the way people saw socks, as
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until then, they were made out of wool, cotton and
silk (which, as you will read, are still preferred fabrics).
Socks have also become part of different stories or
holidays, such as Christmas, as it is celebrated in the
Western world, where Santa brings gifts and places them
in people’s neatly arranged socks. Socks also have
different variations, such as the Koren beoseon.
But socks are more than just a functional piece; they can
also be a fashion statement. We have a few “rules” as we
like to call them and pieces of information that might
help you learn about socks. Of course, we want you to
create your own style and follow these “rules” just as
guidelines.
It’s important to know more about socks as it this will give
you better insight into the world of fashion, style, and
clothing, and you might discover things you didn’t know
and which you can use in different situations.
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The “Against the Stream” socks by Soxfords
General rules
Let’s start with the general rules.
1. First of all, the socks you are wearing must match your
pants. This is a guideline that will give you a look you
won’t go wrong with. However, once you know your style
and want to express your identity through socks, and
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clothes in general, you can break this rule and be more
personal. You can get socks that are colorful, have
patterns or are different in other ways and even pair them
with your tie or shoes.
2. It is said that socks are to merge the shoe and the pants
(if you are wearing long pants of course), and you are not
supposed to show skin between them. Of course, we
don’t believe in rules and think that if you can pull it off,
you should do it.
3. Socks, like the rest of the pieces you are wearing, must
go with the whole outfit and the occasion. Don’t wear
sports socks at a black tie event or vice versa.
4. Try to avoid socks that have holes in them. Unless
that’s your trademark look. Of course, then you are
probably weird in a weird way.
5. Learn you sock size, as otherwise you will be either
having your circulation stopped by your socks or you will
be swimming in them. If you’re not sure, try several socks
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on until you know exactly what your size is, but mind the
fact that sizes can vary by manufacturer.
Types of socks
Let’s talk about the types of socks there are according to
the size and the occasion you want to wear them at.
By length
1. Regarding the length aspect of the sock, there are three
types of socks: low-cut sport, ankle-dress, and knee-length
socks. Of course, the low-cut type is for sports, relaxation,
very casual dressing, and occasions at which you wear
short pants, while the other types are for dressier
occasions. We need to mention that knee-length socks
are rarer, as they cost more to produce, so finding them
will be harder and they are probably going to be more
expensive. However, you don’t need to panic (we hope
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you were not in a fashion panic), as ankle-dress socks will
do the job really well.
From left to right: low-cut sport, ankle-dress, and knee-
length socks
By use
When it comes to purpose, there are more types of
socks:
1. Dress socks. This type is made to be worn at most
occasions where you need to wear a suit or a casual outfit.
Usually these socks are made in neutral colors, mostly
dark colors, and if they have a pattern, this is usually the
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classic argyle. Usually, if you wear light-colored dress
socks, you should wear them with a light outfit.
Socks with argyle pattern
2. Sports and Athletic Performance Socks. These are the
socks you wear at the gym, while hiking and so on. They
can be low-cut socks or very high socks (depending on
the sport you wear them for). Some socks are made to
enhance a man’s athletic performances, using techniques
that wick sweat, trap in heat (for winter sports usually) or
increase comfort.
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3. Protective socks. This type of socks is not very
common, as it is not created to be worn casually.
Protective socks are usually designed to help the wearer
in extreme conditions, such as mountain expeditions or
swimming (there is a type of socks that can be worn while
swimming, that protect the feet from getting too cold even
though they are wet).
Socks and design
Socks usually come in three types when it comes to color
1. Neutral. Neutral socks are perfect for formal events. If
you want to have a good look for this type of event, we
recommend that you match your socks to your pants and
not to your neckwear. What’s also a rule we go by is to
match the textures as well: shiny pants go with shiny
socks, while a tweed suit doesn’t go. Neutral socks can be
worn with casual outfits too. But when you are wearing a
casual outfit, you can match your socks (for example if
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they are navy blue) to your jacket or another piece on the
upper half of your outfit.
It is said that white socks are to be worn only when doing
physical activities. If that is a rule to live by is up for you
to decide.
Solid color socks
2. Sold color. It is quite a modern thing for men to wear
colored socks, but we encourage it, like it and think that
it’s a safe experiment you can try. Block colors mean
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chalky or non-chalky colors that don’t fall under the
neutral spectrum (beige, black, blue, khaki, etc.). In our
opinion, socks shouldn’t be the main focus of your outfit.
Of course, it is fun to do so once in a while. They should
be a supporting piece of everything you wear. Usually
colorful socks are to be worn when you already have
another colorful piece, otherwise, if you are wearing a
rather neutral outfit, the socks will be the only thing
people will remember about you.
3. Patterns. Nowadays socks with patterns or prints are
more widespread, which is a very good thing. It is highly
recommended that the pattern of your socks should be
matched to a color on the upper part of your outfit. We
also would say that it is best not to match your patterned
socks with another pattern that you are already wearing.
Meaning, you can have two patterns, but you shouldn’t
match them. Wearing funny socks can be tricky, as the
message that comes across needs to be in tandem with
the context you are wearing them in, for example, when
are Bart Simpson socks appropriate for a 40 year old
dude?
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Purple striped socks
Fabrics
When it comes to fabrics, socks are being made out of a
variety of materials, each having its own particularities:
1. Wool. The classic material for socks, wool is the fabric
that socks have been made out of for a lot of time. Wool
socks come in all prices and they go great for all types of
guys.
2. Cotton. Cotton is also a very popular fabric when it
comes to men’s socks. It is often blended with man-made
fibers to improve the fit and strength of the sock. It is very
durable and conforms to the shape of the foot, offering
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excellent fit. They are easily washed (you can use pretty
much any type of washing product) and are easily
maintained.
3. Cashmere. Cashmere is, of course, a luxury fabric and
its properties, although similar to wool, are a lot finer.
The thing with cashmere is that it needs to be maintained
with a lot more care than other fabrics. We think it is
recommended to avoid a washing machine or dryer when
it comes to cashmere. So, washing socks by hand requires
not only the skill, but also the time and patience that
come with this.
4. Silk. Silk is also a fine fabric that you can consider
when it comes to socks. It is often blended with high-
quality wool in order for the sock to keep you warm in
the winter and cool in the summer. And how nice is that,
to have clothes that change their properties by the
season? Silk, like cashmere, is lighter than wool and will
make the socks be almost bulk-free.
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What if you do not want to wear socks?
Sockless is the way to go for many men. Not wearing
socks is hard to pull off in winter, so for most men there
is a limited time in which they can be sock-free. Going
sockless is a trademark of casual occasions, so of course
you should not go sockless at a black tie event, or at least
that’s what’s recommended. The problem with going
sockless is that you need to have really, but really good
shoes, otherwise you will sweat, slip and be really
uncomfortable. Not to mention blisters and other
surprises that might come along. In this case, we have a
tip for you: If you like the look of being sockless, but still
want to get all the comfort socks provide, go for no-show
socks. They are a great option and feel just like normal
socks.
No show socks
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There you have it! Now, you can use this information to
get the pair of socks that fits you, your budget and needs.
And even if socks are not such a big part of your
wardrobe, make sure they are a well-taken-care-of part.
Having the right pieces will improve your mood and will
help you do everything better!
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Watches
HOW TO CHOOSE A WATCH
Watches are one of the most worn pieces of accessories
by most men, who, when they pick their accessories,
choose to wear a watch or a tie. Waistbands, pocket
squares and all the other accessories men can use are
generally left for the second or third place. The watch
you are wearing speaks a lot about your personality and
taste. The reason watches are such a powerful reflection
of one’s inner being is because they are a conscious
choice. Mostly everyone today has a cell phone they can
check to see what time it is, so wearing a watch is a
deliberate choice and a style statement.
So, basically, the main task of the watch can be fulfilled
by other gadgets we own. So, why wear a watch then? It’s
said that men are obsessed with their watches, and we’re
not sure that’s so true. Because watches are a 100%
voluntarily item, they are probably the most important
item that speaks volumes about your personality.
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So, here are a few questions you need to ask yourself
before buying a watch:
When and where am I going to wear it?
Just like clothes, your watches need to match the
occasion: a sports watch is appropriate for informal
occasion, and it definitely doesn’t go at formal occasions.
You will stand out, and not in a good way, if you wear a
watch that is too casual at a formal party or event.
There are three types of watches: Analog, digital and
analog/digital. Of course, analog watched are the most
formal ones, while digital watches are appropriate for
casual environments. Analog/digital watches have both an
analog and a digital face. They are usually work-
appropriate but not highly formal.
Is it age appropriate?
You know, we’re not saying you shouldn’t like Spiderman
in your 30s, but we’re saying you shouldn’t wear it on
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your wrist. We want you to look young, and there’s ways
to achieve this, you will see some example watches later
which will make you look young, but we don’t want you
to look immature.
What do I need it for?
Nowadays, watches don’t just show the time, some show
the temperature and other features as well, so you might
want to consider getting a watch that’s appropriate for
your lifestyle. When it comes to need, you also need to
wonder whether your need a watch that is just a
chronograph, which means that it just measures the time,
or whether you need a chronometer, meaning a watch
that is able to measure how much something lasts.
Can I afford it? How can I get the best price/quality
ratio?
Watches are one of the few remaining pieces that actually
say “wealth” and “status”. But we don’t want that to be
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your goal. There are watches that cost more than a
Ferrari, like the Patek Caliber 89, which is worth more
than $5 Million, but even if you have such a watch, we
don’t want you to show off. You can get amazing watches
for under $100 and the rule we want you to go by is
authenticity. We would rather wear a cheaper watch
which is authentic and the best quality you can get for a
price, than a fake.
There are three types of watches, according to the way
they function: battery, quartz or mechanical, sometimes
referred to as hand-wound. Battery watches work on
batteries, quartz watches work on an electrified quartz
crystal and are very accurate, and mechanical watches
have a complicated mechanism made out of gears and
springs.
What size watch do I need?
The number one rule of choosing accessories is that the
size of your accessories needs to be proportionate to the
size of your body. Average-size watches look really small
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on big men, whereas thin men look handcuffed with huge
watches.
What color should I go for?
We love colors and your watch must match your clothes.
Most worn watches are black, even though they are being
produced in all colors. This means that a colorful watch is
more likely to stand out.
Also, on another note make sure you maintain your
watch properly: you can keep it in a case or a drawer and
don’t “test” it to see if it scratches and breaks.
HOW TO MATCH YOUR WATCH TO YOUR
CLOTHES
To choose your watch wisely, you need to make sure that
both your outfit and your watch are appropriate for the
occasion for which you are wearing them. One watch
cannot fit all occasions: there will be at least one occasion
where your watch is not appropriate. What you need to
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know is that there is a wide variety of watches on the
market and that you can learn what a good watch is and
what is a bad one either from experimenting or from
recommendations (the second way will definitely save you
a lot of money).
Your watch and the occasion
Very elegant
Beautiful designer watches we found on The Watch
Gallery website
Elegant watches are usually characterized by simplicity.
Because simplicity is something that’s so hard to obtain, a
simple, yet sophisticated watch is the best option should
you be wearing a suit. Depending on the occasion, an
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elegant watch can be made out of gold, white gold or
silver for a very upscale event, or it can be more colorful
and have leather strap, but still look “well-mannered”. A
simple, elegant, yet colorful watch can be the pop of color
you can add to a very formal outfit. Note that there are
different degrees of formal clothes: a tuxedo should never
be worn with a watch, but a formal suit can go with a
watch very well.
Very casual
We assume that you are not a guy who is wearing
sweatpants on a daily basis outside of your work-out place
when we discuss what an appropriate casual watch is. The
right casual watch has fine lines and a carefully crafted
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design, but it also leaves room to playfulness and
creativity. You will notice that most watches fall in this
category. Sometimes, a casual watch can be stricter than
another, but, again, it all depends on the circumstances.
For example, both working at the office and traveling are
casual occasions, but they are different types of casual.
The more laid back the situation, the more relaxed you
can be when it comes to your watch: we don’t
recommend that you wear a too colorful watch when you
are in a business-casual environment, but this does not
mean that you can’t wear a more formal watch when you
are hanging out with your friends.
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Very sporty
Sport watches are just the right thing to wear when you are
hitting the gym, going for a jog or meeting up some people at
your local sports bar. These can have a lot of buttons and
switches and work very well even if they have a digital display.
By mixing layers, lines, and by using dynamic shapes, a sport
watch has all the features of an active accessory. Some watches
are even made resist underwater, so they are just the right thing
to wear on your wrist when you go swimming or diving. This
way, because you will probably also have a chronometer, you
will know how much time you’re spending in the water.
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Your watch and your body frame
To get the best effect you should always pick your watch
according to your size as well. As any other accessories,
watches should be proportionate to your body: thin men
can work slim watches, while bigger guys can carry
watches that are boxier and more robust. If you are a
small guy and you wear a big watch, it won’t make you
look bigger; you will appear to be wearing handcuffs.
Also, a bigger man wearing a thin watch is most likely to
look “arm-strangled”.
Just like in the case of glasses, a watch can harden of
soften your look if needed. For example, a watch with a
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boxier shape can compensate a more slender figure,
while a very round watch can soften a very “square look”.
Sometimes, watches can be in tandem with your shape.
This is why the golden rule is to see what looks best on
you and which trick results in the most harmonious look
you can get.
Your watch and the colors of your clothes
A very important aspect of wearing a watch is its colors.
To cut right to the chase and answer the most burning
question, whether gold and silver can be paired, we need
to say that the answer is: yes, you can mix gold and silver,
as they are both neutrals.
Usually black watches are the most formal, while brown,
gray or khaki watches tend to be more casual. Very
colorful watches should be kept for casual occasions only.
Very bright colors are usually the right choice when it
comes to sport watches, while darker colors are reserved
for more formal watches. If you choose to wear a
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colorful, watch, you can put together a color scheme by
using the color wheel and integrate the watch within your
concept.
To conclude, we can say that the variety of watches
matches the variety of occasions and people in the world:
you just need to use some time to think whether the
watch you wear is an external reflection of the message
you want to convey and the context in which you will be
wearing it.
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Shoes
HOW TO CHOOSE SHOES
Shoes are very important and are one of the fashion
things that have the most direct impact on the way we
feel. Shoes that hurt are not going to work well for the
way you feel and act.
The number one golden rule of shoes is that they need to
be comfortable. The second rule is that they need to be
appropriate for the occasion. There’s no point in going
hiking in the woods wearing Oxford shoes, or going to
the opera in sneakers.
Choosing the right shoes does not only mean picking
them up from the store, but also from your wardrobe.
Make sure that the shoes you own are kept in the right
conditions. For example, keeping them in a too moist
environment will make them go bad, which not
something you want. Why would you? Your shoes also
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need to be clean and polished, and when they are
unwearable, throw them out. A hole in your shoes (we
have seen that too) doesn’t work and you will probably
not create a trend.
Here is what you need to look for when picking out
shoes:
Your shoes should be a little darker than your pants!
Your shoes should go with your socks (we are going to
discuss another time how to choose socks).
Shoes should not only match your pants, but your belt
also, if you wear one.
If you wear jeans, you can go with almost any kind of
shoe, they just not too shiny!
Black shoes go of course with blue, gray, navy or,
obviously black pants.
Brown shoes go with brown or beige pants
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If you wear more colorful shoes, like burgundy ones you
can match them with blue, browns, lighter browns etc.
If you have new shoes, don’t forget to try on your shoes
for a few hours around the house after you have bought
them, to make sure they are not constraining or too
loose.
THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF MEN’S DRESS SHOES
There are many people today who want to look and feel
their best but don’t have the necessary tools to do so, and
who would like to know the difference between different
types of shoes but are lost in the details and give up. This
is why in what follows, you can read a quick and smart
guide to men’s dress shoes and see examples for the main
groups of shoes.
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Oxford shoe by Gucci
Oxford shoes originated in Scotland and Ireland and are
laced shoes characterized by shoelace eyelet tabs that are
stitched underneath the vamp. Historically, these shoes
were plain and made out of leather, but now they have
many embellishments and colors. These are shoes that
can be worn at formal occasions and usually have an
elegant feel to them. They are timeless, versatile, go great
with suits and are formal.
Monk strap shoes are shoes that have no lacing, closed by
a buckle and strap. In terms of formality, monk strap
shoes are between oxford shoes and derby shoes. Monk
strap shoes have either one strap or two straps. There is
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no rule to wearing one or two, but we would consider the
strap in this case an accessory, so the bigger the guy, the
bigger and more the straps, and the thinner the guy, the
thinner the strap and strap number.
Monk strap shoe by Gucci
Derby shoes have the shoelace eyelet
tabs sewn on top of a single-piece
vamp. They are considered to be a little
less formal than oxfords, because the
open laces allow the shoe to open
much wider and as a result, are easier
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to put on. We would argue that derby shoes are the
definition of “business casual”.
Brogues and Wingtips are similar shoes, but they’re not
quite exactly the same. Actually,
they are not similar, but many
people can’t see the difference, so
here we are to clarify: brogues are
any shoes that have perforations
on it. These perforations have, of
course, decorative purposes.
Historically, these perforations used to let the water out
which would flood the shoes in the Scottish and Irish
weather. Wingtips are any shoes that have a W shape
design on the toe cap. A shoe with the W design minus
the perforations is also a wingtip. There are also full
brogues and semi-brogues. Full brogue is a combination
of the W design and perforations, while a semi-brogue is
mostly characterized by perforations on the toe cap and
some serration on the edge of the cap.
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Loafers & Moccasins are slip-on shoes and are one of our
favorites. The difference between loafers and moccasins
is that they have different origins and are slightly cut
differently. The big difference is that loafers have a
distinct heel, so many would argue that the difference is
basically in the sole. The cool thing about this type of
shoes is that they come in such a huge variety that it’s
hard to say precise if they are to be worn at formal
occasions or at casual ones. It really depends on the
fabric and the color of the shoe. Dressier loafers can be
worn at formal occasions, while colorful ones that come
in more casual fabrics, should be worn at work or casual
occasions.
A Moccasin shoe
Loafer by Louis Vuitton
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HOW TO POLISH YOUR SHOES
Having perfectly polished shoes is a great detail that
makes any outfit complete. Polishing shoes is easy and
can be done by anyone quickly, easily and correctly. Here
is a guide that will walk you through the steps of an
optimal shoes polishing experience: from the set, the
tools you need and how to do it to make it effective and
the least dirty it can get.
In this article we discuss how you should polish dress
shoes, such as black or brown leather shoes, since
different types of shoes need to be maintained in
different ways.
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Set (How to make preparations)
Here is the set you need to put together when you want to
polish your shoes.
First of all, you need a newspaper or an old towel on
which you will work on.
Then, bring your shoes and take the shoelaces off.
Gather all the tools you need (you will read about them in
the second step) and place them on the newspaper or
around it. Things tend to become dirty when someone
polishes shoes, so it’s best to keep the things that make a
mess on the paper.
Don’t decide to shine your shoes after you are all dressed
up or anything like that. You might get… you guessed it,
dirty! On another note, you can polish your shoes even
after you’ve bought them and generally try to polish them
a little while before wearing them. It can be a good idea
to polish your shoes at least once a week and if you get
them wet or dirty, more often.
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Ready (What you need)
Here is what you need to give your shoes a great shine:
horsehair shine brush
buffing cloths
shoe polish
all-purpose leather cleaner and conditioner
Tips:
Make sure that you have a different brush for each color;
you don’t want to mix the brown equipment with the
black one.
Also, make sure that the color of the polish is as close as
possible to the color of your shoe. When you first test a
cream, apply it to an area of your shoe that is not very
visible. This way, you can decide whether the color is
good or not without issues.
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Go (How to do it)
1. Use the horsehair brush to remove possible stains, dirt
or dust from the shoe. Pay attention to the heel and sole.
In case your shoes are very dirty, use leather cleaner. To
make sure it all goes well and you don’t affect the shape
of the shoe when doing this, keep the shoe tree in the
shoe while you polish it. This is the step where you can
also use conditioner if you choose to do so. Conditioning
your leather shoes reacts on the leather by softening and
moisturizing it. This also protects it from drying out and
eventually cracking. Some types of leather, and generally
shoes used in dryer climates might need to have
conditioner applied more often.
2. When the shoes are clean and dry, apply a good
amount of polish using your shoe polish brush.
Afterwards, spread it at a level on the whole surface of the
shoe. If you have trouble getting to some areas, use a
toothbrush or a cotton swab. Afterwards wait around 20
minutes until the polish is dry. Remember this say when
applying polish: “Thin coats + Many coats = The highest
of high shines.”
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3. When the shoe is completely dry, take the shoeshine
brush and carefully wipe off the polish. Make sure to use
a clean cotton swab or a toothbrush in case you have
issues with some harder to reach areas.
4. The last step is the buff job. For this, you need a clean,
lint-free chamois or a shine cloth so that your shoes shine
in all their glory. When doing this, use both long strokes
as well as smaller circular strokes.
Cream, paste or wax polish?
There are several types of products you can use to shine
your shoes. What you need to know is that they act in
different ways. Cream or paste polish for example soaks
and moisturize leather but also allow the leather to
breathe. Wax leather usually results in a finer shine but it
seals leather and might cause dryness. Liquid polish
usually offers shine but it can crack leather.
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Why you should keep your shoes polished
There are a few reasons which we think are big enough
for which you should keep your shoes polished. First of
all, we all know that looking good is a good part of feeling
good in everyday life. Second, keeping your shoes in
shape will make them last longer and third; having a good
pair of shoes ready at any time will save you the “which
shoes should I put on” problems.
So, have a look at your shoes and if they’re not in shape,
go ahead and shine them; we’re sure you’ll enjoy the
results.
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Grooming: Shaving,
perfumes and more!
SHAVING DONE RIGHT
Here are some shaving tips any man can use the next
time he needs to look smooth and refined!
• It’s good to have a properly hydrated face when you
start shaving. Take a shower before you start!
• Shaving gel is better for you if you have sensitive skin.
• When you are shaving, use light strokes and don’t
force the blade too hard.
• It’s best to shave with your grain first.
• There is an ongoing debate about shaving in the
opposite direction of the direction your hair is growing in.
Some say it’s the best way to get a smooth shave, other
say it will only irritate you! Try it and see if works for you!
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HOW TO CHOOSE A PERFUME
• Many men use the word cologne to describe perfume.
There is actually a big difference! Cologne is basically just
a weaker blend of essential oils. It is a lot more diluted
than perfume.
• All fragrances consist of three notes-the top note, the
middle note and the base note--that are "uncovered" in
layers as time passes, so you must be careful what you
choose. Don’t go with what you feel when you try it in the
store!
• When you try a perfume, test it on your skin, and not
on the tester, as different scents smell differently on
different people.
• We recommend that you should own at least two
different scents: one for day and one for night.
• With most traditional spray bottles of cologne, one or
two short sprays is usually enough to get the job done.
Spray it in areas where the blood vessels are elevated
beneath the skin, such as your chest, neck and wrists, for
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fine results. Also try to put on your cologne before you
get dressed, as the oils can stain your clothes.
To conclude this part, we can say that you must not
forget, as a general rule: keep it simple! Looking stylish
does not mean to put tons of stuff on. Combining all the
tasty flavors in the world will not give you the best food; it
will result in a bizarre dish! Choose the right things and
the outcome will follow!
CHOOSE THE BEST HAIRCUT FOR YOUR FACE
TYPE
Before we begin, we need to say that you can establish
yourself what type face you have, by just looking in the
mirror and pulling your hair back, so that it doesn’t cover
your face. Look at your forehead, your chin and your
jawline and try to see the category you fit in. (More on
pages 57 – 58)
The oval face is very common and flexible. Usually, the
chin of an oval face is a little narrower than the forehead.
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Proportions are usually balanced. Oval faces have high
cheek bones. Being so flexible, this type of face goes with
pretty much anything. You can comb it to one side, do
spikes or anything else, as pretty much anything goes.
However, you might want to not cover your face with
hair, so avoid heavy bangs.
Round faces usually have full cheeks and sometimes a
rounded chin with few angles. This type of face also has
an equal length and width. If you have a round face, you
can keep your hair in such a way that it balances your
features. Stay away from round hairstyles, and try to keep
the sides leaner and style the hair a little higher at the top
and front so that you provide balance. An off-center part
for example or some waves at the level of the eyes will
help minimize roundness. You can look for inspiration at
actor Elijah Wood.
Heart-faces have a broad forehead and wide and high
cheek bones that will narrow to a small chin. This type of
face normally has a narrow jaw line. I you have a heart-
face; you might want to choose a longer hairstyle, as it will
add volume under your cheekbones. Try not to go too
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big on the upper half of your head, as it will exaggerate
your features. Also, slicked back is a bad idea, so try to
avoid it!
Square faces have a strong jaw line, a broad forehead and
a square chin. Width and length are also proportional.
You need to go for a look that will soften your features.
Haircuts in layers are best, but make sure you don’t go
for something with bangs or that needs parting in the
middle. This will only bring more lines to your features.
Knowing what your face type and what goes best with it
can be a little difficult, so we recommend that you consult
with your barber or stylist before making a big change.
Also, make sure that whatever hairstyle you have, keep
your hair in order and always clean.
Also, look at the features you like about your face, and try
to make them stand out. You can also camouflage the
features you don’t like. For example, if you have bigger
ears, avoid a tight haircut that will emphasize them. This
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does not mean to cover them, but adding a little volume
on the sides will help balance your look.
If you have a slim neck, avoid haircuts that have a high
taper, as they will make you slimmer. If you have a big
nose, you can go for a fuller haircut.
In the end, it’s all about the attitude! Think about the fact
that we are all perfect the way we are and therefore we
should feel good! So, rock that haircut and own your face
type and you are already a better man!
GENERAL GROOMING TIPS
When it comes to you overall look, it’s important to pay
just as much attention to your clothes and other big items
as it is to pay attention to a lot of small details. These
details are not only the accessories you wear, they are also
the simple rituals you do to groom yourself.
Being well-groomed will complete your look, regardless
of the style you adopt.
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We are breaking down some of the most important
things you should (or shouldn’t) be doing when you are
polishing yourself.
So, here they are, 25 grooming tips for men, broken
down into several categories: face, teeth, hair and other.
Face
Shaving & facial hair
When you are shaving, always shave in the
direction in which your hair is growing.
To have a better shaving experience, do it after
you have taken a shower, as your pores will be
open and your skin a little more moist.
It’s important to know that the characteristics of
your facial hair are directed by genetics, and not
by how often you shave. You can’t control you
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beard’s thickness and natural color, as much as
you try.
Also, it is a myth that using more shaving cream
will result in a better shave. This does not mean
that you should use a little. Finding the right
amount for yourself is key. Once you found it,
you can keep it as you own rule.
While this is not something directly related to
shaving, it’s still somehow correlated with your…
facial hair: we advise you to trim your nose hair
for a younger, fresher look.
Speaking of nose hair, the same goes for the small
hair in your ears.
Make sure you take at least minimal care of your
eyebrows. While younger guys usually have more
structured eyebrows, older men to have more
rebel hair up there. Make sure your eyebrows
look their best and don’t be afraid to ask a
professional for help (or someone who knows
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their thing), as doing it by yourself might end up
in a disaster.
If you choose to trim your eyebrows by yourself,
never use a razor, as you might end up in shaving
it all off or taking down a big chunk.
Skin
Make sure that you always moisturize your skin.
And this goes for your whole body, not just your
face. Men’s skin is usually by 20% thicker than
women’s skin, and as we age, it tends to become
less elastic and more prone to wrinkles and
dryness, which is why we need to take care of it
well.
You can use the moisturizing product of your
choice, as you know your skin better, but there
are also other things you can do that can help
your skin keep its elasticity. You can drink a lot of
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water or go into more exotic things, such as face
yoga.
To help your skin, you can get a facial once in a
while. Even though facial used to be something
associated with women’s care, now they are
available for men as well and can help you look
younger and more toned.
Use exfoliators, but not more than twice a week.
Cleansing too much, and especially with abrasive
exfoliators can cause dryness to your skin and
leave red marks. The skin becomes irritated, and
to compensate, it will produce even more oil that
you will want to remove. In short, you should find
the right routine that works best for your skin type
and cleansing program.
Make sure you moisturize the skin around your
eyes, as this will help prevent potential bags under
your eyes to appear.
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Teeth
Make sure your teeth are white and always
brushed well. You are technically able to keep
your teeth for as long as possible if you brush
them at least two times a day and you can keep
them white if you go to the dentist and have them
checked (and do a teeth whitening) at least twice a
year.
Also, drinking coffee and red wine or smoking
will only make your teeth darker and more
stained.
If you brush your teeth after every meal (which
would be ideal), you shouldn’t wash them right
then and there. Waiting around 30 minutes is
optimal, as brushing your teeth directly after a
meal, especially if you had acidic foods and drink,
can increase enamel erosion.
Flossing your teeth will also help the health of
your teeth a lot, as some particles can’t be
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reached easily with a tooth brush. This note
should be taken into consideration by everyone,
but especially by guys who have really close teeth.
Make sure you change your toothbrush at least
twice a year, as they wear out and get filled with
bacteria.
Hair
Make sure you wash your hair whenever you need
it. There is no standard for frequency. Some men
need to wash their hair more often, while others
can even go a few days without washing it. As a
rule of thumb: don’t let it get very dirty before you
wash it.
Don’t forget to trim your hair as often as possible.
We always say that a buzz cut is better than
unattended hair. If you can’t get a haircut very
often, try at least to take care of your sideburns
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and the hair on your neck. These details really
make a difference.
Dying your hair has become more accessible to
men in the last years, but if you choose to dye
your hair, make sure you do it professionally.
Most men’s hair coloring creams are made to
look natural and to go with your natural hair color
current state of going grey, but choosing a color
without professional advice is risky, since getting a
color that’s too dark or too bright might end in a
shock of contrast.
Some men believe that stress causes white hair.
While this is true, stress is only a very small part
of what causes someone to go grey. Also, another
myth is that wearing a hat can cause baldness.
Baldness is caused by genetics, and even if there
are a lot of exterior factors that influence it (which
we will discuss in another article), wearing a hat is
not one of them.
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Other
When it comes to fragrances, less is
more. Perfume is such a person thing, that it
really should be done in a subtle and fine matter.
It’s important to always have good nails, so always
consider your nails a first priority! You don’t need
to get special, professional care if you don’t have
the time or the money, but always make sure they
are properly clipped.
You can get a fresher look by doing Botox, which
can be very easily be made today. However, make
sure you don’t overdo it!
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You now see how so many small details can actually
make you look more put together and polished. Next
time you look in the mirror with a critical eye, see which
one of these things you should be working on and don’t
be afraid to make a change!
Seeing yourself with a critical eye does not mean under
any circumstance that you should put yourself down for
not looking a certain way. It is crucial to make yourself
look your best to feel good and not to try to get
somewhere where you can’t. Of course, you should strive
to be the best possible version of yourself and to any
measures you can to achieve this, but what is more
important is to never lose yourself along the way!
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Table of contents
Welcome to the Attire Club 1
General style ‘rules’ 5
Patterns, prints and textures 7
How to layer clothes 8
A look at colors 12
Choosing the colors of your clothes according to
your skin tone 16
The Suit 23
Essential suit rules 25
How your shirts should fit 29
Pants planet 38
The buttons rule 39
The Tie 47
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How to choose a good tie 47
How to match your tie to your shirt 51
Choose the best ties for your body and face type
55
A quick look at knit ties 60
How to maintain a tie 66
Other accessories 69
How to choose accessories 69
How to choose pocket squares 70
Bow ties 71
The thing with suspenders 72
The guide to socks 79
Watches 94
How to choose a watch 94
How to match your watch to your clothes 98
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Shoes 106
How to choose shoes 106
The different types of men’s dress shoes 108
How to polish your shoes 113
Grooming: shaving, perfumes and more! 119
Shaving done right 119
How to choose a perfume 120
Choose the best haircut for your face type 121
General grooming tips 124
Table of contents 134
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The Attire Club Look Book – 2014 edition
By Fraquoh and Franchomme
Published in Vienna, Austria by
Attire Club (http://attireclub.org)
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