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Here comes the bride and with her – lots of things on the to do list! Whether you are a bride, a mother of the bride or a supportive friend, The Bride Guide lists only vendors who have been recommended by busy, Lowcountry women. Exclusive content, including a Wedding Workbook, is available at EveryBusy-Woman.com. Be sure to sign up for the Busy Bride Buzz eNewsletter to stay up to date as the big day approaches. Enjoy! Betty

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Ashley Bakery1662 Savannah Highway, Charleston, SC 29407

tel 843.763.4125www.ashleybakery.com

WildFlour PastrySpecialty cakes and desserts available for all occasions.

73 Spring Street, Charleston, SC 29403tel 843.327.2621

www.wildflourpastrycharleston.comSee our ad page 30

BARTENDING SERVICES

ICEBOX Bar Services Outstanding, high quality event bar services offering fresh, innovative and exciting beverage ideas. Our many packages offer the ability to customize bar service to accommodate your every need. We are committed to delivering the best quality service and products with expert bartenders trained in the latest techniques of mixology, speed techniques, and

customer service. Now offering free beverage consultations and client cocktail tastings.

Professional & Friendly • Fully InsuredStandard & Tailored Bar Packages

2220 Old School Drive, Charleston, SC 29405 tel 843.407.0473

email: info@iceboxbar.comwww.iceboxbar.comSee our ad page 44

BEAUTY

The Spa at Charleston PlaceLocated on the 4th Floor of Charleston Place Hotel,

in the heart of downtown Charleston.205 Meeting Street, Charleston, SC 29401

tel 843.937.8522www.charlestonplace.com

See our ad page 6

Stella Nova Salon Spa Esthetique & Make-Up Studio

Stella Nova is the bridal expert, let us prepare you for the aisle.Bridal Gifts, Bridal Suite. Outcall Hair & Make-Up.

292 King Street, Charleston, SC 29401tel (Spa) 843.723.0909, (Salon) 843.577.2500,

(Store) 843.722.9797or 800.577.NOVA

www.stella-nova.com

BUSY BRIDE TIPS

Little Wedding Guests If you have invited children to be guests at your wedding, consider

the following: • Hire a babysitter to watch them during the ceremony.

• Set up a children’s table or room at the reception, complete

with favors, crayons, coloring books, small toys and games.

• Consider hiring special children’s entertainment, such as

a caricaturist or clown. • Ask your caterer to prepare kid

meals or options. • Toss a candy bouquet for the kids in addition to your

flower bouquet.

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Cru Catering Eclectic Modern American Cuisine

Cru Catering offers full-service customized catering, including weddings, meetings, special events and private parties. We coordinate pre-planned menus for groups of

all sizes. Find out why we’ve been voted Charleston’s Best Caterer for more than a decade.

Voted Best Caterer 2001 - 2012 by Charleston City Paper readers. Voted the Best of Weddings 2010 - 2012 Pick by The Knot Chef John Zucker, 1st in Class, Cordon Bleu Graduate

1784 Harmon Street, Charleston, SC 29403tel 843.534.CHEF (2433)

www.crucatering.comSee our ad page 46

Granville’s CateringOne-of-a-kind menus for weddings, rehearsal dinners,

corporate events and more. We are committed to excellent food, interesting wines and spirits and warm, inviting service

at reasonable prices. We source fresh local produce, meat and seafood whenever available and we believe in recycling and

contributing to our community in a positive way.Contact Trae Wilson, Chef Owner

730 Rutledge Avenue, Charleston, SC 29403tel 843.224.5873

email: Trae@GranvillesGroceryandCatering.comwww.GranvillesGroceryandCatering.com

CHILDREN’S WEAR

Southern Belles Exquisite and Unique Children’s Attire & Gifts for

Weddings and Special Occasions280 W. Coleman Boulevard, Mt. Pleasant, SC 29464

(Northcutt Plaza Specialty Shops)tel 843.881.1741

www.southernbellesonline.comSee our ad page 34

JEWELRY

It Fitz Jewelry by Nikki Fitzgerald Wood

We specialize in customized jewelry for the bride, mother of the bride/groom and the bridal party that captures

the essence of your special day, creating a timeless, one-of-a-kind keepsake. Visit the online gallery and

contact Nikki for a design consultation. tel 843.343.3242

email: nikki@itfitzjewelry.com www.itfitzjewelry.com

See our ad page 45

BUSY BRIDE TIPS

Registry Do’s & Don’ts

Do: • Include your partner in

the process. • Register for items in a

range of prices to give your guests options.

• Let people know where you’ve registered by setting up a

Web site and telling shower and party hosts.

• Revisit and update your registry often.

Don’t: • Wait until the last minute;

register with time for showers and engagement parties. • Select items you will

never use. • Overlook the details. Read the

fine print and know what the store’s policies are for shipping,

returns and exchanges. • Make things hard for your

guests by only choosing stores with local-accessibility. Include at least one large chain or store

that has online shopping.

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Carolina Queen Make your wedding a truly special occasion aboard the

Carolina Queen – one of Charleston’s most unique eventlocations. Whether you’re planning a rehearsal dinner,wedding ceremony or wedding reception, delight your

guests with exceptional service, delicious food andthe ever-changing views of Charleston’s picturesque harboras you cruise on Charleston’s only Paddlewheel Riverboat.

tel 843.722.1112 or 800.344.4483 email: sales@charlestonharbortours.com

www.charlestonharbortours.comSee our ad page 49

Harbour ClubLocated in the heart of historic Charleston, the 200-year-old

building and rooftop terrace offer an atmosphere symbolic of southern hospitality for parties of to 250. Allow us to create a

day to carry you through forever.35 Prioleau Street, Charleston, SC, 29401

tel 843.723.9680www.harbour-charleston.com

See our ad page 46

Lighthouse on the CreekNestled in the heart of Mt. Pleasant, SC on historic

Shem Creek, our unique waterfront facility features a stunning sunset vista, spacious porches and a sensational

Lowcountry backdrop your guests will love. Perfect for weddings, rehearsal dinners, executive retreats, corporate

meetings and other elegant events.tel 843.881.7384

www.shemcreekevents.com

Tides Hotel on Folly Beach Your Wedding. Your Way.

We have everything you need to make your big day everything you’ve ever imagined and as original as you are. From casual, intimate ceremonies on the beach, to elegant,

formal affairs, Tides is the only full-service oceanfront hotel in the Charleston area that has a setup to match any wedding style. With the beach right outside our doors and over 4,000 square feet of banquet space inside, the Tides Hotel on Folly Beach can accommodate everything from a casual buffet to

a formal dinner. To start planning your one-of-a-kind Charleston oceanfront wedding, contact one of our friendly

wedding professionals today.Tides Hotel on Folly Beach, 1 Center Street, Folly Beach, SC 29439

tel 843.588.6464 www.tidesfollybeach.com

See our ad page 49

BUSY BRIDE TIPS

Wedding Why’s?

Wedding rings are worn on the third finger of the left hand

because it was once believed that the “vena amori” or vein of love ran from the ring finger to

the heart.

The veil was originally worn by Roman brides to disguise

themselves and outwit malevolent spirits.

Bridesmaids were used to confuse evil spirits by dressing

alike and surrounding the bride.

In medieval times, men wore their swords on their right side, thus would keep that side free in case they needed to draw.

Therefore, if escorted, the bride walks down on the left and the bride’s family and guests sit on

the left side of the aisle.

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Body of the tip.

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WEDDING CHECKLIST12 MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING❏ Set a budget❏ Select a theme, colors, etc.❏ Ceremony date, time and site❏ Book officiant❏ Reserve the reception site❏ Select your attendants❏ Caterer, Florist, Wedding Consultant❏ Photographer and Videographer❏ Music - ceremony and reception❏ Wedding dress, headpiece and accessories❏ Bridesmaid’s dresses❏ Begin compiling guest list❏ Be sure to sign contracts!

9 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Register for china, gifts, etc.❏ Plan the honeymoon!❏ Send out save the date cards

6 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Order bridesmaid’s dresses and flower girl’s dress❏ Current visas and passports?❏ Discuss rehearsal dinner with groom

4 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Finalize guest list❏ Order invitations, programs and stationery

❏ Order formal wear for groom and attendants❏ Book hair and makeup❏ Wedding cake and groom’s cake

2 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Final dress fitting❏ Finalize ceremony details: procession, seating chart, etc.❏ Gifts for bridal party❏ Cake knife and champagne glasses for toast❏ Guest registration book❏ Wedding rings❏ Select who will be in charge of what on day of❏ Plan your getaway - car, carriage, etc.

6 - 8 WEEKS BEFORE❏ Mail invitations❏ Photo list for photographer and videographer❏ Send announcement to newspaper

2 WEEKS BEFORE❏ Pick up wedding gown❏ Marriage license❏ Put all necessities in one bag or container for easy transport

1 WEEK BEFORE❏ Guest count to caterer❏ Check in with all service providers❏ Inform attendants and family where to be and when

WEDDING RENTALS

Event DRS Dining Rental Solutions

Providing you with a complete resource for all your event rental needs. Known throughout Charleston for our amazing selection,

great customer service, and can-do attitude. We pride ourselves on providing quality products at a reasonable

price. We have all the rental equipment to make your next event spectacular!

Farm Tables + Benches + Custom BarsChina + Flatware + Glassware

Tables + Chairs + Specialty LinensNow offering Free Rental Consultations for our Monarch Crystal

Glassware and Customizable Fine China. 2220 Old School Drive, Charleston, SC 29405

tel 843.407.0473email: info@eventdrscharleston.com

www.eventdrscharleston.comSee our ad page 44

BUSY BRIDE TIPS

A Busy Bride’s Best GirlPrior to the day, arrange for one

reliable person:• Carry your lipstick & powder - and tell you when you need it!• Make sure you have drinks

& food.• Keep a comfy pair of

ballet-style slippers for you to change into.

• Help you to the ladies room. Trust us, you’ll need it.

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WEDDING NOTES

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BRIDAL Buzz: EmErgEncy WEdding day Kit

No need to say, “If only I had my _____” on your big day! Gather the following things together to make your own wedding day “emergency kit.”

For the Bride…

❑ Band-Aids

❑ Any medications you may need

❑ Bobby pins

❑ Make-up

❑ Hairspray

❑ Clear nail polish (for pantyhose runs)

❑ Brush

❑ Tissues

❑ Baby powder or white chalk (for covering stains)

❑ Comfortable shoes

❑ Safety pins

❑ Spare pantyhose/stockings

❑ Cell phone & a list of vendors numbers (see our Wedding Workbook p. 23 – 32)

❑ Water & spirits for a pre-wedding toast with the gals (don’t overdo it)

For the Groom…

❑ Rings

❑ Spare, white shirt (leave unopened so that you can

return if unused)

❑ Large, black umbrella

❑ Hair styling products

❑ Razor & shaving cream (just in case you miss a spot)

❑ Tooth brush & tooth paste

❑ Breath mints

❑ Cologne & deodorant

❑ Camera

❑ Cash for tipping & emergencies

❑ Local map and/or directions to your honeymoon escape

❑ Water & spirits for a pre-wedding toast with the guys (don’t overdo it)

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Download this list at EveryBusyWoman.com

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Every bride needs an organizational tool for planning a wedding. You can use this workbook as a start. Turn the page and find

at-a -glance worksheets for a month by month checklist, registry and budget checklists, a vendor contact list and more. You

can also download and print these pages at our Web site www.EveryBusyWoman.com.

your wedding workbook

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your BudgEt cHEcKlist

SERvicE BuDgEtED Amount vEnDoR EStimAtE Amount SpEnt

ReceptionVenue

Baker

Caterer

Beverages

Miscellaneous fees

AttireWedding gown

Veil or headpiece

Shoes

Jewelry

Hair & make up

Groom’s attire

Groom’s accessories

Miscellaneous fees

Flowers and DecorationsFloral arrangements for ceremony

Floral arrangements for reception

Bride’s bouquet

Bridesmaids’ bouquets

Corsages and boutonnieres

Flower girl’s buds

Ring pillow

Reception decorations

Lighting

Miscellaneous fees

musicCeremony music

Reception music

Miscellaneous fees

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SERvicE BuDgEtED Amount vEnDoR EStimAtE Amount SpEnt

photographer and videoBridal portrait

Photography – rehearsal dinner

Photography – wedding day

Videography

Additional prints & albums

Miscellaneous fees

Favors & giftsGuest bags

Bridal party gifts

Parting favors

Miscellaneous fees

ceremonySite fee

Officiant fee/donation

Miscellaneous fees

StationerySave the date cards

Invitations

Thank-you notes

Programs

Seating & place cards

Postage

Miscellaneous fees

Wedding RingsBride’s ring

Groom’s ring

transportationLimo or car rental for bride & groom

Transportation for wedding party

Transportation for guests

Miscellaneous fees

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rEgistry cHEcKlist

FoR tHE KitcHEno 1 set of pots and pans (1 stock pot, 2 sauté pans, 1 sauce pan)o 1 set of knives (one of each: paring knife, chef’s knife, bread knife and serrated knife)o 8 steak kniveso 1 standing mixero 1 blendero 1 coffeemakero 2 cutting boards o 1 set each of measuring cups and spoonso 1 set of mixing bowlso 1 set of cooking utensils (spatula, whisk, slotted and wooden spoons)o Salt and pepper shakerso 2 covered casserole disheso 3 baking sheetso A cake pan, a pie pan and a bundt pano Oven mittso 2 sets of kitchen towels

FoR tHE Dining Roomo 12-piece set of formal chinao 12-piece set of everyday dinnerwareo Set of serving dishes and bowls to match the aboveo 2 serving platterso 1 gravy boato 12 water glasseso 8 white wine glasses, 8 red wine glasseso 8 high ball glasseso 8 old-fashioned glasseso 12 Champagne glasseso 8 mugso 12-piece set of silvero 12-piece set of everyday flatwareo 1 tea service (tray, pot, sugar and creamer)o Serving utensils (large forks, spoons, cheese knives)o 12 placematso 12 napkins and ringso 2 table cloths

Depending on what you and your hubby-to-be already own, you can use portions of this checklist. You may have a well-stocked kitchen, but desperately need new bed linens (yours are too girly and his so not?). Also, remember that you can register for large-ticket items as well.

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FoR tHE BEDRoomo 2 sets of sheetso 1 comforter and duvet covero 1 bedskirto 2 blanketso 4 sleeping pillowso Set of decorative pillows and shamso Decorative items

FoR tHE BAtHRoomo 4 – 6 bath towelso 4 – 6 hand towelso 4 – 6 wash clothso 2 bath sheetso 2 bath matso 1 shower curtain and linero 1 trash basketo 1 soap dish and toothbrush holder

FoR cHARitYMake your wedding day gifts give to others as well by signing up with one of the following organizations. A portion of your gift purchases can go to a favorite charity!www.idofoundation.org www.JustGive.org’s www.changingthepresent.org

miScEllAnEouSo Picture frameso Candles and holderso Mirrorso Vaseso Decorative pillows for living roomo Decorative blanketso Travel items: suitcases, garment bags, etc.

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VEndor/EmErgEncy contact cHEcKlist

BakerName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Band/DeejayName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

BankName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

BartenderName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

calligrapherName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

catererName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

ceremony venueName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

FloristName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

gown BoutiqueName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Hair StylistName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

make up ArtistName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

musiciansName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Put all of your wedding contact information in one spot for at-your-fingertips ease.

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VEndor/EmErgEncy contact cHEcKlist

officiantName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

photographerName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Reception venueName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Registry locationsName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Name: __________________________________Address: _________________________________Phone: __________________________________Email: __________________________________

Name: __________________________________Address: _________________________________Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Rehearsal Dinner venueName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

SeamstressName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

StationerName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

transportationName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

videographerName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Wedding plannerName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

Wedding RentalsName: __________________________________

Address: _________________________________

Phone: __________________________________

Email: __________________________________

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gEtting READY□o Bride having her hair styled and make up applied

□o Bridesmaids helping the bride get dressed

□o Bride’s mom helping with a detail like adjusting the

veil or zipping the dress

□o Close ups of the Bride’s bouquet

□o Still shots of the Bride’s gown, shoes, something

borrowed…

□o Bride with attendants

□o Bride with the flower girl

□o Bride with her parents and siblings

□o Groom getting ready with his father and groomsmen

□o Groom with his parents and siblings

□o Groom with the best man

□o Groom with the ring bearer

□o Groomsmen putting on boutonnieres or ties

FoRmAl SHotS□o □ Bride and Groom together

□o Bride with her mother

□o □ Bride with her father

□o Bride with her siblings

□o Bride with her grandparents

□o □ Bride with her bridesmaids

□o □ Bride with entire immediate family

□o □ Groom with his mother

□o Groom with his father

□o □ Groom with his siblings

□o □ Groom with his grandparents

□o □ Groom with groomsmen

□o □ Bride and Groom with Bride’s family

□o □ Bride and Groom with Groom’s family

□o □ Bride and Groom with flower girl and ring bearer

□o □ Bride and Groom with the entire wedding party

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tHE cEREmonY□o □ Exterior and interior shots before guests arrive

□o Groom walking down the aisle with his mother

□o □ Bridal party walking down the aisle

□o □ Bride with escort before walking down the aisle

□o Close up of Groom’s face when he sees the Bride for

the first time

□o □ Bride’s father giving her away

□o □ Bride and groom together

□o Close up shots of the immediate family watching the

ceremony

□o Wide shots of the audience

□o Special moments such as readings

□o Close up as Bride and Groom recite their vows

□o The kiss

□o Close up of Bride and Groom walking up the aisle

tHE REcEption□o The exterior and interior of reception site

□o Still life shots of details: flowers, lighting, dance

floor, food, Champagne glasses, centerpieces, guest

book

□o The cake

□o □ Guests arriving

□o □ Bride and Groom arriving

□o □ The first dance

□o □ Bride and Groom with guests

□o □ Bride and her father dancing

□o □ Groom and his mother dancing

□o □ Wedding party dancing

□o □ Toasts

□o □ Bride and Groom cutting the cake

□o □ Bouquet toss

□o □ Garter toss

□o □ The getaway vehicle

□o □ Bride and Groom leaving the reception

NOTE: Ask a reliable friend or relative to point out important people to your photographer. And let your photographer know if you want something very specific like Aunt Betty danc-ing her famous Charleston.