The CAUSES and EFFECTS of broken

families to the Children.

EFFECTS

Divorce is the hardest challenge that can be happen to a couple especially, if they kids. Not only that it is painful for them on that moment that their parents are getting a divorce.

1. A broken home can make a child insecure. Insecure in a sense that he no longer had a complete family, he can call his own.

2. The insecurities , self-doubt, and lack of confidence in a child can eventually make him uninterested in school.

3. Sometimes a child’s reaction to his parents announcement of a divorce is not visible.

EFFECTS

4. Although, lets say one parent is still guiding his child , sometimes the traumatic of a divorce is just to much for a child to handle that he may even lost interest in life itself.

CAUSES

1. Parents divorce: In anytime, anywhere, and anyhow, divorce is not healthy for a family . But it happen divorce is claimed to be the main reason behind broken family.

2. Death: It is obvious that death reduces the family strength.

3. Misconception between family members: Apart from divorce parents and death, their can be a family problem cause by misconception between the members in the home.

4. Unconditional administration

Failure in administration in the family is one cause for the breaking up of the family .

CAUSES

Parental or friends influence

another reason why family has broken up because of parental or friends influence.

Helpful tips on how to avoid and overcome conflict in the family

Step one

Resolving conflict requires knowing accepting, to your difference.

- One reason we have conflict in marriage is that opposite attracts. Usually a task oriented individual marries someone who is more people-oriented.

Step two

Resolving conflict requires defeating selfishness.

All of our differences are magnified in marriage because they feed what is undoubtedly the biggest source of the conflict our selfish, sinful nature.

Step three

Resolving conflict requires pursuing the other person

Romans 12:18 says “ It is possible as much as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men”. The longer I live the longer I realize how difficult those words are for many couples. Living peaceably means pursuing peace.

Step four

Resolving conflict requires loving confrontation.

Wordsworth said, “He who has a good friend needs no mirror. “ Blessed is the marriage where both spouses feel the other is a good friend who will listen, understand, work through any problem or conflict, to do this well takes loving confrontation.

Step five

Resolving conflict requires forgiveness

No matter how hard two people to love and please each other, they will fail. With failure comes hurt. And the only ultimate relief for hurt is the soothing solve of forgiveness.

Step six

Resolving conflict requires returning blessing for an insult

First Peter 3:8-9 says “ To sum up all of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kind-hearted, and humble in spirit, not returning evil for evil or insulting for insulting, but giving a blessing instead, for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing.

13 tips on how to strengthen family

relationship

Tip #1All families can be strong and healthy

In 1950, the typical family consist of a working father, at home a mother, and at least two children. But conditions have change and so many families. Most still have the picture of the “ideal” family as the kind existed in the 50’s.

Tip #2Healthy families spend “prime time” together

Strong families set aside “prime time” to be together, families build up a reserve of good feelings.

Tip #3Strong families build connections with other families an people.

The extended family – grandparents and other relatives is a significant source of support for most families.

Tip #4Strong families plan for change.

A family does not have to wait for things to happen. They can make them happen some conditions are beyond our control –weather, disasters, and disease.

Tip #5In healthy families, members are committed.

Are you proud of your family? Another indicator of a strong family is that members are proud to be the family. They are committed to each other and the family as a unit.

Tip #6Healthy families share responsibility.

It is important that all members of the family be involved in decision making. Children need to be given opportunities to make decisions to participate in family decision.

Tip #7Strong families have shared values and beliefs.

It is important in family members to sort out and clarify the things they prize, cherish, and believe.