the family presentation
TRANSCRIPT
![Page 1: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/1.jpg)
The Bottom Line
![Page 2: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/2.jpg)
Nothing Flies Without
Parental Permission
No Matter What!
Period.
![Page 3: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/3.jpg)
Equity Institute of California
![Page 4: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/4.jpg)
Rethinking
Repositioning
Calibration
Resolution
New Knowledge
![Page 5: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/5.jpg)
1.What is the Goal you would like to achieve ?
10 Questions
a.What solutions have you attempted so far?b.What was it about these attempts
that didn’t work?
2.What is your feeling about the situation?
3.What is your attitude regarding the situation?4. What benefits do you receive from having this
situation?5.What is the reality of the
situation?
![Page 6: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/6.jpg)
10. What one thing are you willing to change to makethis be what you would like it to be?
9. How would your life be different if this situation changed?
8. What do you need to do at this time?
7. What else would you like to see happen?
6.What would you like to see happen?
![Page 7: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/7.jpg)
![Page 8: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/8.jpg)
![Page 9: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/9.jpg)
![Page 10: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/10.jpg)
![Page 11: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/11.jpg)
![Page 12: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/12.jpg)
![Page 13: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/13.jpg)
Data
![Page 14: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/14.jpg)
Approximately 84% of custodial
parents are mothers
![Page 15: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/15.jpg)
Approximately 84% of custodial parents are mothers
Of The 84%, 44% are currently divorced or separated
33% have never been married
79% are gainfully employed
29% work part-time or part-year
74% work full time, year round
![Page 16: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/16.jpg)
16% of custodial parents are fathers
Of those fathers:
57% are divorced or separated
18% have never married
![Page 17: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/17.jpg)
According to Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2005, released by the U.S. Census Bureau in August, 2007, there are approximately 13.6 million single parents in the United States today, and those parents are responsible for raising 21.2 million children (approximately 26% of children under 21 in the U.S. today).
![Page 18: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/18.jpg)
13.6 million
21.2 million
Single Parents
Children
![Page 19: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/19.jpg)
Parenting
Practices
![Page 20: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/20.jpg)
Four Parenting Styles
1.Authoritarian
2. Authoritative
Strict RulesDo As I Say, Not As I DoWhy ? Because I Said SoHigh Demand, Low Response
Rules & GuidelinesHighly ResponsiveNurturing & Forgiving
Assertive, Forgiving, & Supportive
![Page 21: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/21.jpg)
3. Permissive
4. Uninvolved
Very Few DemandsRarely Discipline
Lenient, Avoid ConfrontationMore of a Friend than Parent
Few Demands
Low Responsiveness
Little CommunicationDetached From The Child’s Life
![Page 22: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/22.jpg)
Children Children Children Children
Authoritarian
obedientlow self-esteem
Authoritative
capable supportive
Permissiveauthority
issueslow academic performance
Uninvolvedlack self-control
low self-esteem
Impact of Styles on Children
![Page 23: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/23.jpg)
![Page 24: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/24.jpg)
![Page 25: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/25.jpg)
![Page 26: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/26.jpg)
![Page 27: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/27.jpg)
culture attempts to provide the answerbefore the question is asked
![Page 28: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/28.jpg)
The Family’s RoleEducational Research
has demonstrated that
parent involvement in a
child’s education is the
most important factor
for a child’s academic successLawrence Hall of Science
Berkeley
![Page 29: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/29.jpg)
Interests!!!
![Page 30: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/30.jpg)
When I don’t do well, it HURTS !
![Page 31: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/31.jpg)
If you think one year ahead . . . plant a seed. If you think ten years ahead . . . plant a tree. If you think one hundred years ahead . . . Educate the People. ~ Chinese Proverb
![Page 32: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/32.jpg)
Education woes: Parents get most blame, not teachersBy Alan - Posted on December 13th, 2010
![Page 33: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/33.jpg)
Virtually every issue that we deal with, be it education… be it human services, gang problems or drugs, we find ENGAGED FAMILIES the ultimate solution. ~ unknown
![Page 34: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/34.jpg)
TimeManagement
![Page 35: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/35.jpg)
14,400 hours
![Page 36: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/36.jpg)
168 hrs a week
30 hrs of school per week
138 hrs per week
-
![Page 37: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/37.jpg)
Life Time
104,832 hours Time from K-12
14,400 hours In School Time
90,432 hours Out Of School Time
-
![Page 38: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/38.jpg)
Themes
![Page 39: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/39.jpg)
OrientationOrientation is more than a physical context and
placement. In its deeper meanings it is about mindset, ways of
thinking and knowing, origins of communication and sense of direction.
It is about how the human spirit manifests itself.It is also a way of learning and understanding
where you are,your place,
and your relative level of development
![Page 40: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/40.jpg)
CHILDREN TEND TO IMITATE AND IDENTIFY WITH THE BEHAVIOR OF THE PARENT
![Page 41: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/41.jpg)
Children
tend to identify and imitate
the behavior of the parent.
![Page 42: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/42.jpg)
If you want to change your child’s behavior,
you’ve gotto (be willing)
to change yours first
![Page 43: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/43.jpg)
Tellin’ Isn’t Teaching and Tellin’ Isn’t Teaching and Sittin’ Quiet Isn’t Learning!Sittin’ Quiet Isn’t Learning!
![Page 44: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/44.jpg)
If you don’t have a purpose then someone may give you one,
but it may not be the one you want
PurposePurpose
![Page 45: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/45.jpg)
Never leave home without itand
it’s the first thing you checkwhen you return.
![Page 46: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/46.jpg)
![Page 47: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/47.jpg)
THERE IS NO GUARANTEE ON TIME. IF YOU DON’T USE IT, YOU’RE GUARANTEED TO LOSE IT.
![Page 48: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/48.jpg)
When we struggle alone,we die alone...needlessly
![Page 49: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/49.jpg)
YOU MAY NOT GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION, BUT YOU MAY GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE THE BEST IMPRESSION
![Page 50: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/50.jpg)
the child and the parentare often born at the same time.
![Page 51: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/51.jpg)
IF YOU EVER WANT YOUR CHILD TO CHANGE,
YOU WILL HAVE TO CHANGE FIRST
![Page 52: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/52.jpg)
Visual CV
Math,Engineering, Science, AchievementProgram
![Page 53: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/53.jpg)
![Page 54: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/54.jpg)
![Page 55: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/55.jpg)
![Page 56: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/56.jpg)
![Page 57: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/57.jpg)
![Page 58: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/58.jpg)
![Page 59: The family presentation](https://reader031.vdocument.in/reader031/viewer/2022013011/5553c0c0b4c905d4448b52e8/html5/thumbnails/59.jpg)