the illusionary reality
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The Love DamperTRANSCRIPT
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IllusionaryReality
The Love Damper
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Reality: I wish you can read my thoughts and know how I feel.
Looking From The Other
Side
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Illusionary: He doesn't enjoy my company. He’s inviting his friends over again.
Reality: Isn’t she wonderful? I want all my friends to know she is mine.
…how do you feel?
When you know,…
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Illusionary: He has been coming home late. I don’t think he is working overtime. I don’t see any extra savings.
Reality: I have promised to take them on a cruise. Boy, will they be surprised this Christmas.
You doubted him! Will he be hurt?
Would you put
her through
these emotions
again?
The Turmoil
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Reality: It is very important that I project the image of a successful business man. I can’t let my competitors know that I am down.
Illusionary: His company is in trouble but he is acting like nothing is wrong.
What’s going on?
TALK
TO ME!
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Illusionary: He is so quiet lately. Is he hiding something from me? Is there someone else in his life?
Reality: I don’t want her to know about the problems I am facing at work.
Would it be better
if she knows the
truth?
Should you
hide the
facts?
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Reality: The company is not doing well. Executives will not be getting their full wages again this month.
Illusionary: He has not deposited his pay cheque again. What has he been spending on? Is he in trouble?
How long can you hide a fact?
Rememberthe vows: For better, for worse…
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Reality: I have been feeling so depressed and tired lately. Maybe I should see a doctor.
Illusionary: Why is he always angry at me? We don’t do the things we used to enjoy doing, anymore. He is no longer the man I married.
Consult Your Doctor
Don’t Wait
impatient, irritability,fatigue, low libido, depression,
complete lack of emotion or motivation,loss in interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed
Symptoms of Hyperthyroidism (An overactive thyroid)
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Illusionary: Who is she always dressing up for lately? Could she be seeing someone else?
Reality: My friend said that I should perk up my marriage. She said that I should start paying attention to the way I look.
…even when it’s not real!
Trust Betrayed? It hurts…
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Illusionary: Why is she always criticising me? I don’t think she loves me.
Illusionary: It hurts when she upsets me. Why does she hate me?
The Colours In Your Life
Go green!
Reality: Is white your favourite choice of colour? It is the colour of critical thinking . Maybe you should introduce more colours in your home.
Seeking love and harmony?
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Illusionary: How could my friend do this to me?
Reality : Your friend told me what happened. I promised her that I won’t tell you. She was only trying to help you.
Is there a right time to
break a trust?
Assuming The Worst
Is it because
that’s how you would have handled the same situation?
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Illusionary: Why is my Mom always calling me to complain about something.
Reality: They have not been visiting us for a while. I have to find reasons to get them to come over.
You won’t
do this to your childre
n.
Can you promise?
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Illusionary: My son is going to be a great builder like I am.
Reality: Dad, your high expectation is killing my interest. Help, Mom! I am stressed out.
Whose dreams are you building on?
All we need are mentors to boost up our confidence and enthusiasm.
Ask me, “What are
you interested
in?”
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Communication
is important
Build the foundation…
…in resolving issues.
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WHAT?
I NEEDHELP!
Did you read/see/feel/
hearme right?
GET BACK TO ME, PLEASE!
Are you talking?
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What would move you to act?
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