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The Leadership

Path To “Greatness”

Calling

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Character

COACHING

C O A C H I N G

COACHING

C O A C H I N G

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INTRODUCTION Today we Today we will be… will be…

Reflecting On Where You Are In Reflecting On Where You Are In Relationship To The Five Key Leadership Relationship To The Five Key Leadership Traits.Traits.

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Shining The Light On Five Shining The Light On Five Leadership Traits that “Great” Leadership Traits that “Great” Leaders Consistently Reflect In Leaders Consistently Reflect In Their Leadership Style.Their Leadership Style.

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““Remember The Remember The Titans”Titans”

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for His Kingdom

comes from…

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“Leadership is probably the most misunderstood word in our vocabulary today. Leadership is not personality, not a position, not endowed to a certain few. Leadership is that certain something that is ‘bought with a price.’ It is bought with a price that can be paid by anyone, anytime, anywhere and YOU are as much a leader today as you are going to be, because the price you are paying today is determining the leader you will be tomorrow. Everyone has an obligation, as well as the privilege, of leading in something. Leadership begins with a simple decision to pay the price and ends the moment you cease to pay it.”

Charles T. Jones

Leadership Greatness

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Jesus Anointed

at Bethany

During supper, a woman came in with a jar of expensive perfume. She broke the seal and poured the perfume over His head. Wherever the Good News is preached, this woman’s deed will be talked about in her memory.

Mark 14: 3,9

Leadership Greatness

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John The Baptist

I tell you, among those born of women there is no greater than John.

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He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.

John 3:30, Luke 7:28John 3:30, Luke 7:28

Leadership Greatness

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DavidDavid

Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.

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He cared for them with a true heart, and led them with skillful hands.

Psalm 78:72; I Samuel Psalm 78:72; I Samuel 16:716:7

Leadership Greatness

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Follow the Follow the LeaderLeader

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L E A D E R S H I PG R E A T N E S S

Through

“So Abraham rose early in the morning and saddled his donkey, and took two of his young men with him, and Isaac his son…and went to the place of which God had told him.”

Genesis 22:3Workbook

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ANSWERING HIS CALL

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is God’s invitation to join is God’s invitation to join Him in accomplishing His Him in accomplishing His purpose through each of purpose through each of us.” – us.” – Henry BlackabyHenry BlackabyIt is a unique and individually It is a unique and individually based invitation that is…based invitation that is…

““Calling…Calling…

Personally Personally AddressedAddressed,,

Personally Personally WrittenWritten,,

Personally Personally DeliveredDelivered

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Answer His Call

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Abraham …Genesis 12:1-4 Moses …Exodus 3:1-4:18

Mary …Luke 1:26-38 Peter …Matthew 4:18-20

Paul …Acts 9:1-18

Just as God called these heroes of the faith by name, He has called you by name.

Answering His Call

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As a leader As a leader within the body within the body of believers, our of believers, our primary calling is primary calling is by Himby Him, , to Himto Him, , and and for Him.for Him.

So then, just as you received So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught and faith as you were taught and overflowing with thankfulness.overflowing with thankfulness.

Colossians 2:6-7Colossians 2:6-7

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p. 8

Person – His Son

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His Calling,To His LeadersIs First To A…

What’s in a Calling?

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We are called We are called to serve God’s to serve God’s

purpose. purpose. Scripture clearly Scripture clearly

links our calling with links our calling with God’s purpose.God’s purpose.

Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord . . . who has saved us and called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace…

II Timothy 1:8-9II Timothy 1:8-9

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Purpose - His Agenda

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You can measure your

connectivity to God’s calling by

its link to your passions.

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• God has uniquely called you to accomplish a unique task.

• You can be passionate while not enjoying everything about your assigned task.• But if God has called you to it… and you do it you will have a passion for it.

Passion – His desire in your heart

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• Calling is unique…and His path for you includes the preparation needed to succeed in your unique calling.

•God’s calling will always push you beyond your comfort zone.

• What we learn and how we grow can be a tool in our hands to distract us from answering our calling…

or a tool in God’s hand to equip us

for our calling.

Path – His map for your journey

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God places God places each of us in each of us in leadership leadership rolesroleswithin and for within and for His kingdom.His kingdom.

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Your role in your Your role in your family…family…

Your role in your Your role in your ministry…ministry…

Your role in your Your role in your community…community…

If you are faithful with His current assignments for you, He will trust you with future assignments.

Position – His roles in your life

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We are We are called…called…

to a person to a person (Jesus),(Jesus),for a purpose for a purpose (God’s),(God’s),

with a passion with a passion (He (He provides),provides),

down a path down a path (He (He directs),directs),

in positions in positions (He (He assigns).assigns).Workbook

p. 10

What’s in a calling?

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How do you know How do you know His calling on your His calling on your life at this life at this moment?moment?

Answer His Call

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1) God confirms your calling 1) God confirms your calling through His through His SonSon, His , His SpiritSpirit, and His , and His WordWord..2) God gives you a 2) God gives you a passionpassion for for your calling.your calling.3) God uses those who 3) God uses those who know you bestknow you best to to confirm confirm your calling.your calling. 4) God reveals your calling to you 4) God reveals your calling to you through a through a specificspecific and and individualindividual assignment. assignment.

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Answer His Call

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How do you know if you How do you know if you are centered in His are centered in His calling?calling?

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Centered in His Calling

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1) Your calling will create an openness on your part to allow God to move you from where you are to where He wants you to be.2) Your calling will also involve moving people from where they are to where God wants them to be.

Centered in His Calling

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3) You will be completely 3) You will be completely dependent upon God.dependent upon God.4) You will discover a peace that 4) You will discover a peace that cancanovercome the frustration found overcome the frustration found in ministering to difficult people in ministering to difficult people and ministering in difficult and ministering in difficult circumstances.circumstances.

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When you are on God’s agenda, you will passionately desire to minister not passionately desire a ministry.

Centered in His Calling

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5) You will find yourself 5) You will find yourself lookinglookingto God and to godly people to God and to godly people forforcounsel and direction.counsel and direction.

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p. 13 Leaders in the center of God’s calling seek to accomplish the goals and ambitions set by God, not their own goals and ambitions.

Centered in His Calling

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““The The Rookie”Rookie”

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L E A D E R S H I PG R E A T N E S S

Through

“…for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances…I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation…I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:11-13

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Contentment

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ExternalExternalSourcesSources

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ClimbingClimbing

Contentment

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ClimbingClimbing

“Contentment is a decision, an act of the will, grounded in the grace of God.”-Abraham Lincoln•When I am When I am restlessrestless, I create an atmosphere of , I create an atmosphere of

confusion.confusion.

““God is not the author of confusionGod is not the author of confusion””•When I am When I am self-drivenself-driven, I use people to , I use people to accomplish and receive their applause and accomplish and receive their applause and approval.approval.

““God desires our hearts…hearts of God desires our hearts…hearts of personal obediencepersonal obedience””•When I am focused on When I am focused on performanceperformance, I often , I often measure my success in human form and crave measure my success in human form and crave human approval.human approval.

““God is not measuring God is not measuring your success through your success through

someone elsesomeone else””

External Sources

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ClimbingClimbing

ContentmentContentment

Position, Position,

Prominence, Prominence,

PossessionsPossessions • Pharaoh had the title…but Moses had the Pharaoh had the title…but Moses had the testimony!testimony!• Nebuchadnezzar had the title…but Daniel had Nebuchadnezzar had the title…but Daniel had the testimony!the testimony!• Jezebel had the title…but Elijah had the Jezebel had the title…but Elijah had the testimony!testimony!• Pilate had the title…but Jesus had the Pilate had the title…but Jesus had the testimony!testimony!

What will it be for What will it be for your life?your life?

The more obedient we are with what we are given, the greater testimony God creates through us.

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External Sources

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ClimbingClimbing

Desire for position…Desire for position…Matthew 20:20-28Matthew 20:20-28

Desire for prominence…Desire for prominence…Matthew 23:11-12Matthew 23:11-12

Desire for possessions…Desire for possessions…Ecclesiastes 5:10Ecclesiastes 5:10

Jesus desires us to be ambitious in accomplishing His purpose, not ours.

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External Sources

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• If we are always desiring to serve If we are always desiring to serve somewhere else, we never serve those we somewhere else, we never serve those we

have.have. • If we never serve those we have, we don’t If we never serve those we have, we don’t deserve to serve somewhere else.deserve to serve somewhere else.• Sometimes, somewhere else is worse than Sometimes, somewhere else is worse than where we are!where we are!

External Sources

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ComfortableComfortable

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ExternalExternalSourcesSources

Contentment

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ComfortableComfortable

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When I am When I am immovableimmovable, I create an , I create an atmosphere of apathy.atmosphere of apathy.

God may choose to move you away from your most God may choose to move you away from your most comfortable position to birth in you a most uncomfortable comfortable position to birth in you a most uncomfortable

growthgrowthWhen I am When I am lazylazy, I lead others to see no urgency , I lead others to see no urgency or passion in the Great Commission or the Great or passion in the Great Commission or the Great Commandment.Commandment.

There is no room in the Kingdom’s work for lazy leadersThere is no room in the Kingdom’s work for lazy leadersWhen I am focused on When I am focused on maintainingmaintaining, I stop , I stop fishing and stop growing.fishing and stop growing.

If you’re not fishing, you’re not following. If you’re not If you’re not fishing, you’re not following. If you’re not growing, you’re not leadinggrowing, you’re not leading

“Happiness is a warm blanket!”

- Linus, “Peanuts”

External Sources

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ComfortableComfortable

ContentmentContentment

ComplacencComplacencyy

Paul’s Contented Attitude:Paul’s Contented Attitude:

• Attitudes are not about circumstances Attitudes are not about circumstances Phil 4:11Phil 4:11• Attitudes can change, just like Attitudes can change, just like circumstancescircumstances Phil 4:12 Phil 4:12• Attitudes can be improvedAttitudes can be improved Phil 4:12 Phil 4:12• Attitudes have a source for their Attitudes have a source for their strengthstrength Phil 4:13 Phil 4:13

Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-Nego-Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-Nego-

“0ur God is Able, But if Not…” Daniel 3:16-18Daniel 3:16-18

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External Sources

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ComfortableComfortable

Contentment

Complacency

The Apostle Paul…A Leader Who The Apostle Paul…A Leader Who Could Not Be StoppedCould Not Be Stopped

• “ “Pressing On…”Pressing On…”• “ “I can do all things…”I can do all things…”• “ “I will become all things…”I will become all things…”

Paul endured incredible suffering, persecution and pain on his

mission…Yet, his state of heart,

mind and attitude made him God’s kind of leader

External Sources

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Jesus =

Contentment• Contented leaders realize they are set free by Contented leaders realize they are set free by

surrendering.surrendering.“Submit to God and be at peace with Him; in this way prosperity will come to you.” Job 22:21

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• Contented leaders surrender to Him without a fight. Contented leaders surrender to Him without a fight.

“Not as I will but as You will…” Matthew 26:39

• Contented leaders seek to empty themselves Contented leaders seek to empty themselves and allow God to fill them up. and allow God to fill them up. “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.” Matthew 5:6

Internal Source - Jesus

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ContentedContentedLeaders…Leaders…

•Desire to please Christ II Corinthians

5:9

•Desire to blaze new trails for Christ

•Desire to be content in Christ

Romans 15:20

I Thessalonians 4:11-12

We cannot do what God alone can do, but God will not do what we alone must do.

Internal Source - Jesus

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FulfilledFulfilled

FocusedFocused

KingdomKingdomMotivatedMotivated

Comfortable

ImmovableImmovable

LazyLazy

MaintenanceMaintenanceMotivatedMotivated

PerformancePerformanceMotivatedMotivated

Self-Self-DrivenDriven

RestlessRestless

Climbing

Internal Source - Jesus

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L E A D E R S H I PG R E A T N E S S

Through

“Choose a good reputation over great riches, for being held in high esteem is better than having silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

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Character

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“Character is the sum of all my behaviors, public and private, arranged as patterns across the entire spectrum

of my life.” A Case For Character - Dr. Stephen Graves & Dr. Thomas Addington

- It is based on our It is based on our behaviorsbehaviors..- It is under our - It is under our controlcontrol..- It can be It can be torn downtorn down and and built built upup..- It is continually It is continually testedtested..

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Character

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““Every legitimate survey done by Every legitimate survey done by pollsters in the last few years pollsters in the last few years consistently shows that consistently shows that integrityintegrity, , honestyhonesty, and , and credibilitycredibility are are common characteristics of common characteristics of superior leaders.”superior leaders.” Man in Man in the Mirrorthe Mirror, Pat Morley, Pat Morley

How do we ensure we continuously and consistently reflect Godly character?

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Character

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Four Four

Constantly search His Word, seek His face in prayer and glorify Him in praise and worship.

““Unless you are intensely Unless you are intensely devoted to continually devoted to continually cultivating your relationship cultivating your relationship with Christ, people have no with Christ, people have no valid reason to follow you and valid reason to follow you and you have no business striving you have no business striving to lead God’s people.”to lead God’s people.”

Fish Out Of Water, George Barna

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cornerstonescornerstonesFor reflectingFor reflecting

GODLYGODLYcharactercharacter

Relationship with the Master

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Faithfully shepherd and serve the family members that He has placed in your care.

Proverbs 12:4, 31:26Proverbs 12:4, 31:26

Ephesians 5:25Ephesians 5:25

A worthy wife is her husband’s joy A worthy wife is her husband’s joy and crown… When she speaks, her and crown… When she speaks, her words are wise... words are wise...

You husbands must love your You husbands must love your wives with the same love Christ wives with the same love Christ showed the church. showed the church.

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Relationships with Family

Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Faithfully shepherd and serve the family members that He has placed in your care.

Would your Would your mate say mate say

he/she feels he/she feels lovedloved or or lonelylonely??

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Relationships with Family

Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Faithfully shepherd and serve the family members that He has placed in your care.

““Children are a gift Children are a gift from the Lord; they from the Lord; they are a reward from are a reward from Him.”Him.”

Psalm Psalm 127:3127:3

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Relationships with family

Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Faithfully shepherd and serve the family members that He has placed in your care.

Would your Would your children say they children say they feel like feel like rewardsrewards

ororrentalsrentals??

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Relationships with family

Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Faithfully shepherd and serve the leaders and ministries that He has placed in your care.

““Care for the flock God Care for the flock God entrusted to you. Watch entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not over it willingly, not grudgingly-not for what you grudgingly-not for what you will get out of it, but will get out of it, but because you are eager to because you are eager to serve God.”serve God.”

I Peter 5:2I Peter 5:2

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Relationships in Ministry

Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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“An average level of effort takes a lot less

time and most ministries won’t notice the difference until it’s

too late.”

Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Be completely sold out to maintaining a morally pure mind, body and spirit.

Titus 1:15aTitus 1:15a

““Everything Everything is pure to is pure to

those whose those whose hearts are hearts are

pure.” pure.”

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Purity Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Be completely sold out to maintaining a morally pure mind, body and spirit.

““At any given moment, every At any given moment, every one of us is only one step one of us is only one step away from stupid…God’s away from stupid…God’s desire is for us to be truthful desire is for us to be truthful enough to face our life as it enough to face our life as it really is rather than how we really is rather than how we paint it to be.” paint it to be.” Beneath The Surface – Bob Reccord Beneath The Surface – Bob Reccord

Purity Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Lead the family, the leaders, and the ministries that He has given you with complete integrity.

Have you noticed my servant Have you noticed my servant Job? He is the finest man in Job? He is the finest man in all the earth-a man of all the earth-a man of complete integrity. He fears complete integrity. He fears God and will have nothing to God and will have nothing to do with evil. And he has do with evil. And he has maintained his integrity.maintained his integrity.

Job 2:3Job 2:3

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Integrity Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Christians are much more Christians are much more concerned with a leader’s concerned with a leader’s character than his character than his competency.competency.

Lead the family, the leaders, and the ministries that He has given you with complete integrity.

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Integrity Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Lead the family, the leaders, and the ministries that He has given you with complete integrity.

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Godly wisdom knows the Godly wisdom knows the right path from the wrong right path from the wrong

path.path.

Godly integrity takes the right path.Godly integrity takes the right path.

Integrity Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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Be humble. Honor and respect are given by and achieved through Him. They are not infinite rights that you’ve earned.

“So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and in his good time He will honor you.”

I Peter 5:6I Peter 5:6

Humility Four Four cornerstonescornerstones

For reflectingFor reflectingGODLYGODLY

charactercharacter

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- It reveals who you It reveals who you trulytruly areare..- It will make or break your - It will make or break your relationshiprelationships.s.- It is more important than your - It is more important than your talenttalents, s, educationeducation, , skillsskills and and networksnetworks..- God is more concerned with your - God is more concerned with your charactercharacter than your than your circumstancescircumstances..

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Godly character is about doing what is right, as God defines right, regardless of the circumstances and consequences.

Character

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L E A D E R S H I PG R E A T N E S S

Through

“He cared for them with a true heart, and led them with skillful hands.” Psalm 78:72

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Crafting

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Who is primarily responsible for your Who is primarily responsible for your development?development?

YOU ARE!YOU ARE!

1. The first step towards being a “great” leader

is to have a desire, a passion and an aspiration to become a “great” leader.

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Aspiration

Great Leaders:Great Leaders:a)a) have a teachable mind and spirit.have a teachable mind and spirit.b)b) are constantly increasing their knowledge and are constantly increasing their knowledge and

understanding.understanding.c)c) turn knowledge and understanding into visible action.turn knowledge and understanding into visible action.d)d) are constantly changing.are constantly changing.

Proverbs Proverbs 15:215:2

““The wise person makes learning a joy;…”The wise person makes learning a joy;…”

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When leaders surrender their willingness to learn, they surrender their right to lead.

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Assessment

2. The second step is to honestly and sincerely assess where you are against where you need to be as a leader.

a) How strongly do you reflect the five a) How strongly do you reflect the five leadership traits of:leadership traits of:

Calling, Contentment, Character, Calling, Contentment, Character, Crafting, Coaching?Crafting, Coaching?

Here are some questions to ask yourself and Here are some questions to ask yourself and others close to you.others close to you.

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b. Do you know your spiritual gifts and are you using b. Do you know your spiritual gifts and are you using and strengthening them?and strengthening them?

c. Do you know your personality strengths and c. Do you know your personality strengths and struggles?struggles?

d. What leadership skills and/or knowledge do you d. What leadership skills and/or knowledge do you need to acquire and/or strengthen?need to acquire and/or strengthen?

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e. How are you doing spiritually… are you e. How are you doing spiritually… are you growing or have you reached a plateau?growing or have you reached a plateau?

f. Do you value the gifts and personality traits f. Do you value the gifts and personality traits that you (by God’s design) don’t have?that you (by God’s design) don’t have?

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Action

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p. 363. The third step is to take action;plan the work and work the plan.

Steps To Take…Steps To Take…a. Identify and focusa. Identify and focus on your most critical on your most critical

areas for improvement. Start slow; finish areas for improvement. Start slow; finish strong.strong.

b. Write out a development plan that includes b. Write out a development plan that includes objectives, time lines, and check points.objectives, time lines, and check points.

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Action

Mission, Vision, ValuesMission, Vision, ValuesWhat are Your Personal Mission, Vision, and Values?What are Your Personal Mission, Vision, and Values?

GrowthOpportunities

Where Do YouNeed To Be As

A Leader?

GrowthObjectives

How WillYou Get There?

GrowthOutcomes

What Will YourLeadership Look

Like OnceYou’ve AchievedYour Objectives?

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Action

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c. Take time to reflect on what you have learned. Receive feedback and support from others. What is going well? What is not? What do you need to adjust? Be kind and patient with yourself. Remember: it is a life-long journey. God is not finished with you!

d. Celebrate accomplishments. Keep sharp by continually practicing what you have learned. Regroup and adjust your plan to focus on new opportunities, objectives and outcomes.

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““Princess Diaries”Princess Diaries”

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Achieve

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Assess

Act

Transforming ourselves into “great” leaders does not occur overnight. It is a journey that starts and ends with the Master and requires a continuous learning attitude.

Aspire

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L E A D E R S H I PG R E A T N E S S

Through

“Then He appointed twelve, that they might be with Him and that He might send them out to preach...” Mark 3:14

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Coaching

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Jesus’ strategy for His leaders was simple yet Jesus’ strategy for His leaders was simple yet powerful!powerful!

BRING THEM BRING THEM ON!ON!

COACH THEM COACH THEM UP!UP!

SEND THEM SEND THEM OUT!OUT!

Coaching

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“Coaching is the process of equipping people with the knowledge, tools, and opportunities they need to develop themselves and become more effective.”

Bob Logan Leader As Coach, pg. 14

Coaching

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Bring Them Bring Them OnOn the leadership the leadership mountain by building trust and mountain by building trust and understanding.understanding.

Bring Bring them them on!on!

How do you build up someone’s trust in you?

Coaching

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The beatings will The beatings will continue until continue until morale improves.morale improves.

Here’s one Here’s one approach.approach.

Coaching

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Here’s how Here’s how some of us some of us

feel.feel.

Coaching

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Bring Them On the leadership mountain by building trust and understanding.

Bring Bring them them on!on!

1. Focus on 1. Focus on understanding understanding theirtheir values, values, passions, goals, passions, goals, strengths, gifts strengths, gifts and experiences.and experiences.

ListenListen

AskAskConfirmConfirm

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Bring Them On the leadership mountain by building trust and understanding.

Bring Bring them them on!on!

2.2. Seek out opportunities to build Seek out opportunities to build up their trust in you.up their trust in you.

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Consistently Praying For Them

Constantly Encouraging Them

Following Them

Honoring Your Commitments To Them

Selflessly Serving Them

Coaching

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You know that in this world kings are tyrants, and You know that in this world kings are tyrants, and officials lord it over the people beneath them. But officials lord it over the people beneath them. But among you it should be quite different.among you it should be quite different.Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must become servant, and whoever wants to be first must become your slave.your slave.For even I, the Son of Man, came here not to For even I, the Son of Man, came here not to be served but to serve others.be served but to serve others.

The greatest The greatest leader the world leader the world has ever known has ever known

said…said…

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Matthew 20:25-Matthew 20:25-2828

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Bring Them On the leadership mountain by building trust and understanding.

Bring Bring them them on!on!

3. 3. Be authentic and transparent.Be authentic and transparent.

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The leader’s level of The leader’s level of authenticity and transparency authenticity and transparency is reflected in the leaders they is reflected in the leaders they

lead.lead.

Coaching

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Coach Coach them them up!up!

Coach Them UP the leadership mountain.

CreateCreateA ClimateA Climate

For For ContinuousContinuous

LearningLearning

Seek Seek Out Leader Out Leader

DevelopmenDevelopment t

PartnershipsPartnerships

InspireInspireLeadersLeaders

To Develop To Develop ThemselveThemselve

ss

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Coach Coach them them up!up!

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CreateCreateA ClimateA Climate

For For ContinuouContinuou

ssLearning.Learning.

• Ensure the availability of continuous learning Ensure the availability of continuous learning resources (books, workshops, conferences, resources (books, workshops, conferences, education, etc.).education, etc.).

• Create an environment where failure is not Create an environment where failure is not fatal. Fear of failure will shut down continuous fatal. Fear of failure will shut down continuous learning efforts.learning efforts.

• Set the example by being a continuous Set the example by being a continuous learner…walk the talk. Remember: actions learner…walk the talk. Remember: actions speak louder than words.speak louder than words.

“People seldom improve when they have no other model but

themselves to copy.”- Oliver Goldsmith

Create…

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Coach Coach them them up!up!

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leadership when they seek to learn rather than when

they seek to teach.”

InspireInspireLeadersLeaders

To Develop To Develop Themselves.Themselves.

• Seek out opportunities to learn from those Seek out opportunities to learn from those you lead.you lead. Find ways to participate in mutual learning Find ways to participate in mutual learning experiences.experiences.

• Be sure leaders are constantly given Be sure leaders are constantly given assignments and responsibilities that challenge assignments and responsibilities that challenge and stretch them.and stretch them.

• Be an encourager by complimentingBe an encourager by complimentingtheir effort and recognizing their their effort and recognizing their improvements. improvements.

Inspire…

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Coach Coach them them up!up!

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person from where they are to where they want to be.”

SeekSeekOut LeaderOut Leader

DevelopmentDevelopmentPartnerships.Partnerships.

• Seek out leaders that have a strong desire to Seek out leaders that have a strong desire to improve themselves.improve themselves.

• Help them identify and close the gap Help them identify and close the gap between where they are (skills, gifts, talents, between where they are (skills, gifts, talents, etc.) and where they want to go (purpose).etc.) and where they want to go (purpose).

• Seek opportunities for reflection, feedback, Seek opportunities for reflection, feedback, and transfer of key knowledge.and transfer of key knowledge.

Seek…

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Send them Out on the leadership mountain.

Send Send them them out!out!

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SServeerve

TrustTrust

PatiencePatience

EquipEquip Serve the leader by Serve the leader by trusting their trusting their

style, style, equipping and encouraging equipping and encouraging

their efforts, and their efforts, and practicing practicing patience as they develop patience as they develop themselves through theirthemselves through their leadership opportunities.leadership opportunities.

Coaching

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AGAIN, Jesus’ strategy for His leaders was AGAIN, Jesus’ strategy for His leaders was simple yet powerful!simple yet powerful!

BRING THEMBRING THEM ON!ON!

COACH THEMCOACH THEM UP!UP!

SEND THEMSEND THEM OUT!OUT!

A primary responsibility of every “great” leader is to bring on, coach up, and send out “greater” leaders.

Coaching

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