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The Myth of “The One” @nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

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The Myth of “The One”

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Why is there so much pressure to find “The One”?????

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Thiscrapisallovertheplace

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Common Myths About Love(that make me barf a little)

1. There is one perfect person out there for everyone2. Sexual chemistry means you’re perfect together3. Being single is the worst4. If I “Secret” it, I’ll meet The One, right?5. We’re soulmates. We don’t have to work at our

relationship because we’re just meant to be6. This ONE person can be my everything

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Common Myths About Love(that make me barf a little)

1. There is one perfect person out there for everyone2. Sexual chemistry means you’re perfect together3. Being single is the worst4. If I “Secret” it, I’ll meet The One, right?5. We’re soulmates. We don’t have to work at our

relationship because we’re just meant to be6. This ONE person can be my everything

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Common Myths About Love(that make me barf a little)

1. There is one perfect person out there for everyone2. Sexual chemistry means we’re perfect together3. Being single is the worst4. If I “Secret” it, I’ll meet The One, right?5. We’re soulmates. We don’t have to work at our

relationship because we’re just meant to be6. This ONE person can be my everything

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Common Myths About Love(that make me barf a little)

1. There is one perfect person out there for everyone2. Sexual chemistry means we’re perfect together3. Being single is the worst4. If I “Secret” it, I’ll meet The One, right?5. We’re soulmates. We don’t have to work at our

relationship because we’re just meant to be6. This ONE person can be my everything

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Common Myths About Love(that make me barf a little)

1. There is one perfect person out there for everyone2. Sexual chemistry means we’re perfect together3. Being single is the worst4. If I “Secret” it, I’ll meet The One, right?5. We’re soulmates. We don’t have to work at our

relationship because we’re just meant to be6. This ONE person can be my everything

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Common Myths About Love(that make me barf a little)

1. There is one perfect person out there for everyone2. Sexual chemistry means we’re perfect together3. Being single is the worst4. If I “Secret” it, I’ll meet The One, right?5. We’re soulmates. We don’t have to work at our

relationship because we’re just meant to be6. This ONE person can be my everything

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Common Myths About Love(that make me barf a little)

1. There is one perfect person out there for everyone2. Sexual chemistry means we’re perfect together3. Being single is the worst4. If I “Secret” it, I’ll meet The One, right?5. We’re soulmates. We don’t have to work at our

relationship because we’re just meant to be6. This ONE person can be my everything

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

What IF there’s more than one … “ONE”?

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

What IF they end up being a giant, massive dick?

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What IF they DIE?

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What IF you like more than one person at a time??

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

What IF you like more than one person at a time??

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Some Cupid Truth-Bombs

1. Everybody has flaws2. Despite the song, it will never rain men (or women)3. Love and lust can be short-lived and still be valid4. Your love life’s (lack of) success, is nobody’s business5. Relationships are WURK and about choice & chemistry6. Soulmates can be lovers, friends, family … anyone

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Some Cupid Truth-Bombs

1. Everybody has flaws2. Despite the song, it will never rain men (or women)3. Love and lust can be short-lived and still be valid4. Your love life’s (lack of) success, is nobody’s business5. Relationships are WURK and about choice & chemistry6. Soulmates can be lovers, friends, family … anyone

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Some Cupid Truth-Bombs

1. Everybody has flaws2. Despite the song, it will never rain men (or women)3. Love and lust can be short-lived and still be valid4. Your love life’s (lack of) success, is nobody’s business5. Relationships are WURK and about choice & chemistry6. Soulmates can be lovers, friends, family … anyone

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Some Cupid Truth-Bombs

1. Everybody has flaws2. Despite the song, it will never rain men (or women)3. Love and lust can be short-lived and still be valid4. Your love life’s (lack of) success, is nobody’s business5. Relationships are WURK and about choice & chemistry6. Soulmates can be lovers, friends, family … anyone

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Some Cupid Truth-Bombs

1. Everybody has flaws2. Despite the song, it will never rain men (or women)3. Love and lust can be short-lived and still be valid4. Your love life’s (lack of) success, is nobody’s business5. Relationships are WURK and about choice & chemistry6. Soulmates can be lovers, friends, family … anyone

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Some Cupid Truth-Bombs

1. Everybody has flaws2. Despite the song, it will never rain men (or women)3. Love and lust can be short-lived and still be valid4. Your love life’s (lack of) success, is nobody’s business5. Relationships are WURK and about choice & chemistry6. Soulmates can be lovers, friends, family … anyone

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

What if I’ve met “The One”?

It’s totally cool to be happy with one partner for life.

It’s also totally cool if you want more. Or less. Seriously.

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Kindred Spirits & Soulmates

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Are EVERYwhere

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

@nympsam // www.notyourmothersplayground.com

Final Thoughts

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Be picky

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Be flexible

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Know yourself

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Eff the haters

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Get in touch with Samantha

@[email protected]

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