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December Holiday Magid! Issue 2010 Volume 11, Issue 135

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To the best present I ever had. Merry Christmas Anthony! Love, Mom

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010

I wish everyone a healthy and happy new year. I am blessed with two daugh-

ters and wonderful son in laws. I have five awesome grandchildren. My

mom who is 89 is still alive. That makes us a four generation family. Who

could ask for anything more? Life is good....smile. Love, Mom, Grandma

and Daughter Barbara

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My favorite elves: Sarah & Emily

Love, Grandma Beth

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The submission deadline for the January 2011 issue of

THE PEOPLES PRESS is January 2nd.. Email your stories, news

and events to [email protected]. Email your photos and

celebrations to [email protected] we can help in any way please call 203-235-9333.

My Christmas tree, Nathaniel

This year I found my near perfect Fraser fir at the North Farms Volunteer Fire Department. One man was ever so

kind to transport it to my apartment, carry it up to the second floor, and help me get it into the tree stand, something

that alone would have taken me probably two hours to accomplish. So bravo to that Volunteer Fire Department!!

I was just sitting with my tree, which I decorated yesterday, and asked its name, and got Nathaniel, but it was okay

to call him Nate. I have occasionally gotten names before, but this one came through loud and clear. I am not sure how

much people think about the trees that are chopped down for us and the sacrifice the tree has made for us. The chop-

ping down is the beginning of the end of that particular tree's life, and I am compelled to talk to the tree about it. I

have done this before with other trees, but I sat down tonight with Nate and discussed this sacrifice he has made to

make me happy. Some trees have more souls than others, no fault of theirs, but this tree is vibrant with energy. I

thanked him so much for letting me adorn him with lights and ornaments, and remarked on how beautiful he is. Nate

was beautiful to begin with, but in the season of Christmas we do kind of shiny him up. My Nate has a beautiful pine

odor, which Fraser firs are known for, and I am so enjoying that too. My cats love to play with the ornaments, and they

also love having life inside, a real t ree which they admire. I spoke to Nathaniel tonight about death, and how I know

he gave his life to be in my apartment, and how very much that meant to me, and perhaps neighbors who could view

the tree in my window as well. It's not much of a stretch to compare this to Christ and how he died for us, willingly. If

we could for a few moments just think about the tree we have bought or cut down and maybe compare it to Christ's

death, and revel in the remarkable nature of a tree all adorned with ornaments and bright lights and think about Jesus.

He gave us these trees. He gave us everything. And He gave His life for us.

I so love this tree, and I know in a few weeks, it will inevitably die. But the sacrifice was made knowing this. Nate

knows this. God knows this. It may sound silly to you, but if you have a live tree in your house, I would encourage

you to sit around it and ask it for a name and see if you get one. And then thank that tree for gracing your home, for

you to be fortunate enough to able to decorate it and enjoy all the happiness it gives to you. See if your tree smiles in

response. Nate did. He says not to worry about the death part. His branches will fall back into the earth and will be

part of it. More trees will grow. God's love will continue to be here; we just have to look for it.

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MERIDEN CHILDREN'S LIBRARYWinter Preschool Programs will start registration beginning the week of

December 27th.

Don't be SHUT-IN for the winter. Come have some fun with us at the

Meriden Public Library. Our story hours will begin the week of January 10th

for ages 0 to 7! Our schedule will be as follows:

Mondays-Kindergarten to 2nd grade (stories & crafts), Tuesdays- Independent

2 year olds at 10:15 am., 3-4 year olds at 11:15 am., 1:15 pm, and 6:30 pm.

Wednesdays-2-3 years old with parents, grandparents, or caregivers at 10:30

am, 3-4 years old and 2 years old with parent at 6:30 pm.

Start On Stories for children under the age of 2 and their parent or caregiv-

er are invited to join us for stories, finger plays, music and socialization at

10:30 am. on the following Thursdays: January 6, 13, 20 & 27 February 3, 10,

& 17.

Martin Luther King Annual Scholarship Breakfastonday, January 17, 2011

The Martin Luther King/Albert Owens Scholarship Fund, Inc. will hold its annual scholarship breakfast to help young

eople to continue their education. The CCCYO and the Black Friday Brass Band have again been invited to play for

e breakfast.

aloney High School located at 121 Gravel Street, Meriden, CT

all 203-235-5571 for more information.

New Year's Eve Galahe Hungarian Community Club is sponsoring a New Year's Eve Gala on Friday December 31st at the club, 147 Ward

, Wallingford. Festivities begin at 7 pm and include a full course meal (appetizers to dessert, and wine on the table),

Champagne Toast at midnight and of course - l ive music to dance the night away! Admission per person is $75 for

embers and $80 for non-members. Space is limited and RSVP's are REQUIRED!!!! Send RSVP and check

ayable to HCC) to Linda Kata, 12 Sachem Circle, Meriden, CT 06450 before December 24, 2010. For more infor-

ation, call Linda at 203-634-0602 or email [email protected]. Babysitting service will be available for5 per child if arranged in advance.

Wallingford WE CARE News and EventsHIRD ANNUAL PRESCHOOL INFORMATION FAIR

he Wallingford Public Library and WE CARE [Wallingford Early Childhood Alliance Resource Education] will spon-

r the Third Annual Early Education Fair on Saturday, January 22, 2011 from 9:30 - 12:30 in the Library's Community

oom. This event will feature representatives from most all of Wallingford's licensed preschool providers and other

cial services groups. This is a great way for families with preschool children to come and meet with preschool teach-

s to see what opportunities are being offered to help them get their child ready for school. The child care and

eschool programs cover a variety of options such as full day programs to part time experiences. The program is free

nd open to the public. For more information you can call the Wallingford Public Library at 203-284-6436 or the WE

ARE Family Resource Center at 203-284-4019.

AISING READERS PARENT CLUBS

aising Readers Parents Clubs are being set up in Wallingford in 2011. Thanks to a grant from the Liberty Bank

oundation, WE CARE is partnering with the Wallingford Public Library to offer these 8 week programs for parents,

andparents and family members who are interested in bringing this national literacy program into their homes. The

ubs are open to parents and grandparents who have children ages 2-6 and will be forming and running this winter andring. During the 8 week program adults will learn the best way to support children's literacy through a love of sto-

es, books and activities. It's time to turn off the laptop and open your lap for this great experience. The programs are

ee but registration is required. If you are interested in joining a club, please contact the Children's Library at 203-284-

436 or the WE CARE Family Resource Center at 203-284-4019.

ur hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred, and we are better throughout the year for

having, in spirit, become a child again at Christmas-time. ~Laura Ingalls Wilder


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ong Lost Brother.K, so he wasn't "really" lost, but it felt that way to me all these years. Back in the Summer

f 1982, I remember standing at the end of my driveway watching my brother, Steve, social-

e with all sorts of well wishers. Why you ask, because early the next day he was flying

own south to start boot camp in the United States Air Force. This was the way his friends

d him farewell, since our family did not "do parties". Purposely, I was memorizing his

mile, his laugh and just his overall presence, because I felt as if I was never going to see him

gain. Regardless, of the four year age difference, he never made me feel like I was just the

d sister tagging along. On the contrary, Steve was always including me in parts of his life

nd was always my back bone when I needed one, where other brothers might not bother. I

as extremely happy for him and proud that he made such a grown up decision, but I was

sing my best friend. Since then, I have always felt a part of me was missing. For the first

me, I felt real heart ache.

Of course we kept in touch via letters, phone calls, care packages, gifts, etc. Eventually, as

ith many long distance relationships, the communication between us began to dwindle. No

ne to blame, its just life moving along as it should. That is what we were supposed to do,ght? Still, I know Steve blames himself for not coming home for 28 years, but has no rea-

n to. He had good reason for leaving home, which had nothing to do with me.

nfortunately, in the weeks that followed, me being a shy 15 yr old, I had a really hard time without his support.

owever, life moved on and within 3 years of his leaving, I had graduated high school moved out on my own. Steve

as traveling all over the world doing his USAF thing by then. Over the years, we attempted to reconnect a few times,

ut to no avail.

So, why am I telling this story? Well, after all these years, Steve finally came home to visit. Unfortunately, it took

e recent loss of our father to do so. Despite the fact that it took a family tragedy to bring us back together, I choose to

ways believe that everything does happen for a reason, good, bad or indifferent. You see, just as I mentioned in my

st article "Guardian Angels", Steve too had become estranged from our father. Call me crazy, but I feel it was my

thers' spirit that actually pushed us back together to be family. Growing up, our whole family had it problems, not

nlike many others. As a result, one by one each family member abandoned the rest. Love, affection and support is a

wo way street. A friend once said "My theory is-if there are people in my life that are not "life fulfilling" is some way,

ape or form, then I don't want them in my lifeperiod"! Since then, I have implemented that within my life and have

ways come out happier because of it. Therefore, anyone who does not fit into that mold, is a waste of my precious

me and energy. Also, while I agree that relationships take hard a lot of exertion and stamina, it only works if all parties

volved are equally working towards that same goal.So, last Sunday morning, in the darkness of 5am (see current photo), I drove "Trench" as he prefers to be called, to the

rport. He lived with us for the entire week and it was the most wonderful, amazing week ever. It was simply PRICE-

ESS!! Ironically, we did not do anything terribly exciting either. No attractions or museums. Nope, nothing like that.

e and I just did regular things, hung out, he adored my kids (and they too adored him) and talked A LOT!! We both

greed that it was as if we had never been apart all these 28 years. It was if they just melted away. We discovered that

e think the same way, have the same life theories, like the same things from dark chocolate, honey mustard and

ountry Music!! It even got to the point we were finishing each others sentences. Some really neat things happened by

ear luck, or was it fatehmm? When I first picked him up, we went to lunch. Trench wanted food you cant get in

exas. So, we ended up at an old fashion Polish Diner on the Berlin Tpk complete with a friendly staff, mini juke boxes

every table and the BEST perogies. His first morning here, God granted his first wish by covering the ground with

st enough snow for him to enjoy with his niece and nephew, before school. We took LOTS of pictures and he even

ulled them around in the sled. By 10am, it had all melted. While reliving his little league glory days at Parker Farms,

e each found a baseball. It was really neat having an official souvenir.

OK, so this story really could go on and on, but I digressyea finally. Steve I know that you will be reading this and

etting teary eyed, as I have writing it, but I know that they are happy tears. You will always be a part of my life, no

atter how far apart we are geographically and as you said to me, many times during your visit, I am NEVER going to

t you go again!! I love you so much; my heart aches, but for the good reasons now. Love "Your Favorite Sister, forev-".Michelle "Trench" Scianna


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To all the heroes of our armed forces - thank you. May you have the best

of holidays and may you return home safely

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Holly Jolly Holidays Grandma Philbrick! Love, Lily and Luc

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Have a Merry Christmas Brett !

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010Mayor's Corner - Wallingfordear Friends,

appy Holiday Greetings to Everyone! I came across a question recently that fits right into

is season. What did the litt le girl present say to the little boy present? All kinds of things

nd answers come to mind. Does she want the partridge in a pear tree, the seven geese alay-

g or perhaps all twelve days of gifts? Is she asking for something she wants, like a

acelet or even a ring? Maybe she just would like a new Lady Ga-Ga ring tone on her cell

hone. Actually, what she says could reveal something about herself or the season in gener-

.

What did the little girl present say to the little boy present? She said, "You're my beau."

he was asking him to be a close friend, someone to care, someone to be helpful and supportive. This is the season for

veryone to be someone's and everyone's beau or bow. We should all try to beautify each other and be a gift to the

eople around us.

Have a wonderful holiday. Happy Hanukkah and Merry Christmas.Let's be jolly!

William W. Dickinson, Jr. - Mayor

A Message From The Superindent of Meriden Public Schoolsear Friends, I wish you a safe and happy holiday season! As our students prepare to celebrate the holidays with their

milies, I encourage them to continue their learning. Completing long-term assignments, reading a book, practicing

eir multiplication tables, and writing in their journals are all ways to help our students stay in the learning groove

uring their vacation. Authentic learning occurs at home, as well as in the classroom.

Thank you to City Councilor John Thorp and the Police Benevolent Association (P.B.A.) for reaching out to the

hools in support of the continuation of the Youth and Government program. I would also like to extend a special

ank you to City Councilor Dant Bartolomeo and all the individuals who sponsored events and made personal contri-

utions to support our students. A quality school system provides learning opportunities that challenge all students.

uring these difficult economic times, we must make sure that our brightest students remain challenged and all our

udents are supported.

Thank you to our hard working teachers, administrators, and staff. Facing increased accountability measures, state

nd federal mandates, and new responsibilities and demands, they find a way to always put student learning first. I

ank them and wish them and their family a most happy holiday season.

In closing, the holidays are a special time to be with our families, especially our children. Our own children, Bria

nd Blake, are so excited for Santa's visit. Let us not forget those children and families who may not be in a position

make the holiday time so special. Giving to others and sharing the holiday spirit is the magic of the season.njoy! Thanks for all your support, Mark D. Benigni, Ed.D.

The Whaleyou read a recent front page story of the San Francisco Chronicle, you would have read about a female humpback

whale that had become entangled in a spider web of crab traps and l ines. She was

weighted down by hundreds of pounds of traps that caused her to struggle to stay

afloat. She also had hundreds of yards of line rope wrapped around her body, her

tail, her torso, a line tugging in her mouth.

A fisherman spotted her just east of the Farallon Islands (outside the Golden

Gate ) and radioed an environmental group for help. Within a few hours, the res-

cue team arrived and determined that she was so bad off, the only way to save

her was to dive in and untangle her. They worked for hours with curved knives

and eventually freed her.

When she was free, the divers say she swam in what seemed like joyous cir-

cles. She then came back to each and every diver, one at a time, and nudged

them, pushed them gently around as she was thanking them. Some said it was the

most incredibly beautiful experience of their lives.The guy who cut the rope out of her mouth said her eyes were following him

the whole time, and he will never be the same.

May you, and all those you love, be so blessed and fortunate to be surrounded

by people who will help you get untangled from the things that are binding you.

nd, may you always know the joy of giving and receiving gratitude.

I pass this on to you, my friends, in the same spirit.

appy Holidays to you and yours! - Michael Bermudez

Annual Community Christmas Dinner at the Meriden YMCAn Christmas Day the Meriden YMCA is hosting our Annual Christmas Dinner at 12:00 p.m. It is free and open to the

ommunity. We will also be delivering dinners to those who are in need and are unable to attend. Donations of food

nd toys are needed as well as volunteers to serve and deliver meals. Volunteers begin at 10:00 a.m. Please call us at

03-235-6386 for more details and to sign up. Thank you in advance for your generosity.

Christmas is a necessity. There has to be at least one day of the year to remind us that w

e're here for something else besides ourselves. ~Eric Sevareid


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Traditions

JoAnne Grabinski

Traditions are the stuff memories are made of. They are those repetitive, sometimes lame, rituals that we partake in

and somehow, somewhere along the way they morph into a fondness and become the basis of cherished memories.

Holidays are the prime season for these traditions and rituals: everything from getting the tree, decorating the tree,

making cookies or gifts, shared activities, and even opening gifts. Many revolve around the selection, preparation and

consuming of food.

When some friends of mine were younger, there was a cardboard fireplace that was put up along with the tree. Thei

dad even went as far as creating footsteps from the fireplace going around the tree and then back to the fireplace, indi-

cation that indeed, Santa truly had stopped by. As the older ones grew wise to this, they kept silent to let their younges

sister experience the magic of 'Santa's visit. I'm sure their was a time when every one was in their teens this seemed so

dumb and surely they had out grow this childlike ritual, but wisely their parents continued on. Now that they all have

children of their own this has become a wonderful story to pass along to their children about what it was like growing

up. And with the passing of their father, the one who made Santa's footsteps for so long, the long held tradition means

so much more. I'm not sure if that cardboard fireplace is still around, maybe it is, maybe it isn't, but it holds a special

place in the hearts of four little girls.Another friend of mine started a tradition when her girls were lit tle. After Thanksgiving, they gather twenty-four

Christmas books, wrap them up and put them in a basket. Every night one child selects a book, unwraps it and together

as a family they read the book. The collection is varied in theme as well as size of the book and on Christmas Eve the

always read 'Twas the Night before Christmas'.

I started a tradition of my own, twenty years ago. My sister and I hold a cookie swap in the beginning of December

for family and friends. What started out as a suggestion in a recipe book has now turned into a long standing holiday

event that kicks off the Christmas season. Sure, it took a few years to get the event to where it is today, much like a

pendulum swinging back and forth to find its center, so we too, have found our center. We get together with family an

friends, exchange, six dozen prepackaged cookies, hold a grab bag, collect canned goods and eat sweet and savory

snackies along with wassail, or spiced hot cider. The highlight of the event is the presentation of the cookie swap

awards. The awardees receive a cookie lollipop for numerous and sundry reasons: oldest baker or farthest baker to

freshest cookies, (those that made them that day), the celebration of new house, job, husband or baby, or the tongue-in-

cheek of new body parts. But the most coveted are for the cookies: best looking cookie, most original recipe and best

packaging. At times we have had as many as twenty-five bakers participate in our cookie swap.

Aside from the food and fun, not to mention the cookies, the underlying purpose is to connect with family and friends.

It's an opportunity to catch up with one another and to celebrate our friendships and the bonds of family.

Traditions and rituals don't necessarily have to be complicated or expensive. The essential theme is the repetitivenature tied to and creating a shared experience. So as we move through life people come into and leave our lives and

we adjust these traditions. But that is all part of l ife, sharing and shifting of roles to ensure the continuance of these

well loved traditions.

FOLLOWING THE STAR

A probable story of Baltar, a youth in ancient Persia.)

y Dorothy Gonick

For years, ever since I came to serve Caspar, I'd heard the prophecy about a

ar that would guide people to the birthplace of a new king. Overhearing

natches of Caspar's talk with other Magi, and hearing their excitement as

ey studied old manuscripts and searched the heavens by night, made me

onder how a star could possibly guide men. Stars are beautiful and I loved

atching them as they traveled across the heavens each night, and I wondered

hich one would glow brightly and lead the Magi. Time passed, yet no star

ad appeared. Other wise men were also searching the heavens for the sign

nd each had vowed to meet when the star appeared; then travel together to

eet the new king. Caspar had purchased a gift of expensive myrrh, and

fter showing it to me had secreted it from prying eyes. I marveled at the

eauty of those gleaming golden droplets of sweet smelling hardened resin

at were nestled in the silver filigreed box. Caspar told me of the signifi-ance of those droplets: they were the lifeblood of the tree, the essence of the

ee's life.

"Then came the night I was awakened with a shout of joy from Caspar.

Awake, Baltar! Make ready my robes-the star has appeared!' Years of wait-g spurred much activity, and my pleas to accompany Caspar on this journey

ere accepted. Quickly I gathered clothing and hurried to the shed where

amels were waiting. Jugs of water and parcels of food were snugly secured

n a waiting camel. Caspar nodded approval and majestically mounted his

amel, nodded for me to mount the burdened beast, and we set out just as the

un was rising. The shining star guided us forward. I rode in awe of the God

ho created this star to guide travelers on their journey to see the fulfillment

f the prophecy He'd given many years before.

"Along our journey, two of Caspar's Magi friends, Melchior and Balthazar

om other countries, joined us. We found rest and refreshment in the occa-

onal oases, and after seeing to my master's needs, I listened to the awesome

les of the Magi and watched the camels nibble the sparse grasses as dusk

ll. Stars began appearing and soon the wide crescendo of the Milky Way

panned the heavens in musical waves. Our special star was a burst of stacca-

echoing through the spheres, giving majesty to the night sky overhead, and

sense of peaceful protectiveness as we took our rest. In the very early

awn, I gathered clusters of dates for us travelers to enjoy on our middayreak. As the nighttime stars faded from view, our plodding camels again

egan the steady onward course, still following the star.

"Traveling through the Judean hills near the approach to Jerusalem, a rose

ush bloomed in a rock crevice. I gathered six of the fragrant roses to be my

ft for the new king. The streets of Jerusalem were wide and filled with for-

gners, merchants, and beggars. We wondered why there seemed no excite-

ent about the birth of a new king. Didn't they know, or were we wrong and

ad followed the star in ignorance and futility? The three Magi made their

ay up to the palace of Herod. I held the camels as the Magi entered the

alace with their gifts safe in the folds of their robes. Soon the three Magi

ame back down the steps with their gifts for the newborn king still within

eir robes, saying 'We must be on our way to Bethlehem, where the prophecy

as foretold the birthplace.'

"Dusk was falling as we approached the tiny village of Bethlehem. The

ar hovered and sent a shaft of bright light down toward a humble dwelling.

he three Magi dismounted and reverently held their treasures as they entered

e home. In the aura of light, a young couple welcomed them; the motheras cradling her young son. As they knelt before Him with their gifts and

orshipped, the child smiled and reached out to them as in a blessing.

As the magi were solemnly returning to the camels, I bravely entered the

ome and knelt before this holy child. The gift of roses I had gathered yester-

ay was still fresh and with a big smile for the mother, I laid them among the

easured gifts of the Magi. When the child met my gaze, I became

nveloped in a wave of great love. While in this aura of majesty I vowed to

turn someday to serve this new king. For now, my duty was to honorably

rve Caspar, my Magi, as long as he had need of my services

"While on the way from Jerusalem, an angel had warned the three wise

Magi not to return to Herod's palace, but to leave by another way, so

Melchior and Balthazar soon departed for their own countries. As we trav-

ed, Caspar continued to teach me many of the stories that led us on this

wesome expedition to find the Son of God, our Lord Jesus Christ

"I never tired of telling my story to others in the household, and of my

opes to someday find this chosen king and serve Him."

RONALD MCDONALD COMING TOMERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY

Come to the Meriden Public Library for a special program featuring Ronald

McDonald. This program which talks about the importance of reading is

alled "It's Book Time". A family fun program for all ages will take place on

ecember 29th at 10:30 am. Come pick up your FREE t ickets as of

ecember 1st in the Children's Library. Don't forget to bring your cameras!

or more information call us at (203) 630-6347. Hope to see you at the show.

Happy, happy Christmas, that can win us back to the delusions of our

childish days; that can recall to the old man the pleasures of his youth;

that can transport the sailor and the traveller, thousands of miles away,

back to his own fire-side and his quiet home! ~Charles Dickens


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Find A Friend At TheWallingford Animal Shelter!

Maggie -female pointer

Bear -Male Staffie mix

Kitty -male tuxedo

Fluffy -female poodle

Kiki -female

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To visit any of these wonderful pets stop by theWallingford Animal Shelter located on Pent Roador call 203 294-2180

The Reynolds Family would like to wish all of our family and friends a

wonderful holiday season and a New Year filled with only Good News!

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010

Take A Motor Coach Trip With

The Wallingford Family YMCAnuary 17 & Jan. 22: Mohegan Sun

nuary 21-23: Atlantic City Weekend at the Hilton

ebruary 12th: Newport Winter Festival

ebruary 13th: Mohegan Sun

*Pre-Registration is required. For more information on these trips and future

ps; please contact Lisa Hoover @ [email protected]

MAX E. MURAVNICK MERIDEN SENIOR CITIZENS' CENTERThe Max E. Muravnick Meriden Senior Citizens' Center is open to all Meriden residents age 55 and over. Membership

is free of charge and new members may sign-up any weekday between 8:30 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. by presenting a driver's

license or other proof of age. New members receive an information package about senior services and a coupon enti-

tling them to one complimentary lunch in our Senior Community Caf. Sign-up today and find out about all that is

offered for Meriden seniors at the Max E. Muravnick Senior Center!

Season's Greetings from the members and staff of the Max E. Muravnick Meriden Senior Center! We are pleased to

announce that a new "City of Meriden Senior Service Directory" has been printed and is now available free of charge

to the public. The directory has been printed as a resource guide for use by senior citizens, caregivers, family members,

service providers and others. It is primarily intended to inform Meriden's older residents about the many services

available to them in the community. The twenty-eight page booklet provides information on more than one hundred

agencies, clubs and organizations serving the elderly in the Meriden area. Information in the Senior Service Directory

is current as of December 1, 2010.

The directory was compiled by staff from the Meriden Senior Center, Meriden Health Department and MidState

Medical Center. Community partners who helped sponsor the printing of the directory were Hunter's Ambulance, the

Village at Kensington Place and Assisted Living Services, Inc. Free copies of the "Senior Service Directory" are now

available at the Senior Center, the Health Department and the LaPlanche Clinic. The directory may also be viewed on-

line at www.cityofmeriden.org, click on senior services.

Best Wishes for a Happy Holiday Season and a Healthy New Year! John F. Hogarth, Director

WALLINGFORD SENIOR CENTER News and Events Late Dec./Early Jan.WSC Gift Certificates Available - Looking for that perfect holiday gift? Consider purchasing a Wallingford Senior

Center Gift Certificate for a family member or friend. Our gift certificates, which are available at the front desk, may

be used toward senior center classes, trips, special events, and Lake View Caf meals.

Mobile Mammography Van - Wednesday, December 29, 8:00 - 2:30

A mammogram is a vital step in a woman's overall health care. Early detection is key in the fight against breast can-

cer. The Yale Digital Mobile Mammography Van will be at the Wallingford Senior Center on December 29 from 8:00

AM to 2:30 PM. If you have not had your annual mammogram, call 203 688-6800 to schedule your appointment.

WALLINGFORD SENIOR CENTER EARLY JANUARY 2011 News and Events

All signups begin the first of each month. January signups begin Monday, January 3.

Single Mingle Dance Thursday, January 6, 6:00 - 9:00 PM- Social Singles presents its monthly "Single Mingle

Dance" featuring pizza and soda, on January 6. Dancing music will be provided by Keith Alan Productions. Single

adults aged 55+ are welcome. Tickets are $10.00 if purchased in advance, or $15.00 at the door. Come meet, eat,

dance, and have fun!

Book Signing Event Tuesday, January 11, 11:00 AM- One of our members has published a book and the

Wallingford Senior Center will host the book signing! Dr. Melinda J. Riesing, author of "Put the Blame on Eve: What

Women Must Overcome to Feel Worthy", will sign books beginning at 11:00 AM. A question and answer session with

the author will be held at 12 Noon. Books will be available for purchase.

Free Seminar: Computer Security Thursday, January 13, 1:00 - 3:00 PM- Learn how to make your computer and

your identity more secure at a free seminar presented by Kevin Ozer and our Computer Learning Center. Learn how to

better protect yourself and your computer from various forms of malicious software. Please sign up i f you plan to

attend.

Do You Need To De-Clutter Your Home? Wednesday, January 12, 10:30 AM- Are you looking to downsize or do

you want to eliminate that feeling of disarray throughout your home? Elaine Turek, The De-Clutter Specialist, will

present a program designed to help you get organized and "de-cluttered." Discover steps you can use to deal with

many types of clutter including mail and paper clutter, storage clutter, and closet, cabinet and drawer clutter. Please

sign up to attend.

SOCIAL SERVICES - IN ORDER TO SERVE YOU BETTER, PLEASE CALL TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINT-

MENT WITH THE SOCIAL WORKER, EILEEN FLYNN, AT 265 7753. THANK YOU.

New Social Services Walk-In Schedule - On Tuesdays beginning this month, the Social Worker will take walk-ins on

a first come basis (sign in & number distribution) for one-half hour sessions ONLY (30 minutes). Sessions are on thehalf-hour from 9:00 AM to 12 Noon and 1:30 PM to 3:00 PM. No regular appointments will be scheduled on Tues.

CT Energy Assistance Program - 2010-2011 Heating Season

**Important Note: New Opportunities of Greater Meriden has 45 days from the date of application to send a letter of

certification to the individual. Please keep this in mind when considering when to schedule an appointment.

Appointments for assistance with fuel continue to be scheduled at the Wallingford Senior Center. Anyone 60 years of

age and over is encouraged to apply. Income limits are $30,485.00 for a single person and $39,865.00 for a couple.

Applicants MUST bring (2) photocopies of the following checklist documents:

1. Most recent bank statement (All pages FRONT AND BACK) 2. Verification of Social Security check or Social

Security "Your New Benefit Amount" letter for 2010; 3. Most recent checking, savings, CD, annuity, stock, bond doc-

uments; 4. 2010 year-to-date pension or annuity dividends and/or interest income; 5. Four most recent pay stubs, if

employed. 6. Rental Income - rent stub or copy of check deposited into bank account. 7. Most recent heat utility bill

Applications are by appointment only. To schedule an appointment, call 203-265-7753.

Questions about Financial Decisions? Monday, January 10 1:30 - 3:00 PM- Brendan Toomey, Certified Financial

Planner of Toomey Investment Management, Inc. will be available to answer financial questions about investments,

IRA's and annuities. To schedule a fifteen (15) minute appointment, please call 203-265 7753.

Help with Snow Removal - Need assistance with snow removal? The YOUTH JOB BANK of Wallingford's Youth &

Social Services Department can help. They will find a student from Wallingford to shovel snow for a fee you negotiatdirectly with the student. You can call the JOB BANK to request assistance before it snows, this way a student will be

assigned to assist you prior to a snowfall. To request a student or additional information, please call (203) 294 2175.

Diabetes Support Group - Wednesday, January 12, 1:00 PM

How Do I Get There? Transportation Guide - Sources of transportation for Wallingford, Meriden, and New Haven

County

Senior Community Resource Guide - Alphabetized business and community resource listings for Wallingford and

North Haven

Resource Center - Kiosk located in the library lounge of the Senior Center; filled with a wealth of information!

Volunteers Needed for Computer Center - The Computer Learning Center relies entirely on volunteers. Our volun-

teers come from all walks of life, and share the desire to assist older adults with their interest in computers. As a

Computer Learning Center volunteer, you will work in a challenging and inspiring state-of-the-art environment and

meet new people who share common goals. Volunteer opportunities include: instructing and coaching classes; hard-

ware and software installation and maintenance; public relations; and administration. Call Debby Voelker to learn

more and/or to volunteer!

Memory Lane - What is Memory Lane and where is it located? Memory Lane is an adult day program located within

the Wallingford Senior Center, designed to promote and maintain independence for seniors with mild memory loss,

cognitive, and/or physical impairments. This program offers a variety of pet-therapy, music, and baking activities aswell as monthly day-trips, and physical activities. Hours of operation are 9:15 a.m. to 2:15 p.m., Monday through

Friday. Handicapped-accessible transportation is provided for residents of Wallingford at no extra charge. Eligibility

is based on an assessment, interview, and medical clearance. If you are interested in an affordable, fun, and stimulat-

ing way to keep your loved one safe and independent during the day, stop by the reception desk for a brochure and tour

of the center, or contact Melinda Welch, Program Coordinator, at 203.265.7753 for more information. *There are

many benefits to adult day programs: caregiver respite, daily socialization with peers, integration into the community,

and avoiding premature institutionalization. * Source: http://www.caring.com/articles/benefits-of-adult-day-care-pro-

grams.

Inclement Weather Notice - In the event of inclement weather, we urge you to watch WVIT-Channel 30, WTNH-

Channel 8 or WFSB-TV Channel 3 for information on the cancellation of activities at the Wallingford Senior Center.

If the Center should remain open in questionable weather and you are unsure as to whether you should venture out, we

urge you to consider your own safety and well being and remain at home. We will make every effort to reschedule to a

later date any event or activity that may have to be postponed.

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"Lazzari's Sports Roundup - - - - 12-11-10Gotta love WFAN's Steve Somers--who recently called the disappointing 2010

Dallas Cowboys squad the "Arlington Afterthoughts"..........TRIVIA QUESTION:

The 1995-'96 Minnesota Timberwolves--who finished a disappointing 26-56

under coaches Bill Blair and Flip Saunders--were led in scoring by a player who

was a member of five different teams over his nine-year career. Can you name

this individual? Answer to follow..........ITEM: Former NFL lineman Keith

McCants is arrested AGAIN--this time for crack cocaine possession outside an

exotic dance club in Florida; it was his SIXTH drug-related arrest since 2008.

The ironic part of this latest bust has to do with the name of the establishment

where this low-life criminal had been hanging out that evening just prior to his

arrest: "Tina's House of Angels"..........In my next lifetime, I DO NOT want to be

in the same foxhole with Washington Redskins defensive lineman Albert

Haynesworth..........This week in sports history, December 20, 1979: The

Philadelphia Flyers extend their unbeaten streak to an NHL record-tying 28 games; they get a third period power play

goal from Behn Wilson that results in a 1-1 tie with the Pittsburgh Penguins. Over 17,000 fans at the PhiladelphiaSpectrum saw Wilson put the puck past Penguins goalie Greg Millen with 4:08 remaining. The tie allowed the Flyers to

match the 28-game unbeaten streak put together by the 1977-'78 Montreal Canadiens.........If you're putting together a

new football team and you want guys on your squad who play the game the way it's SUPPOSED to be played, can you

go wrong by picking New England's Wes Welker on offense and Pittsburgh's Troy Polamalu on defense?..........I've been

hearing all year long from some fellow NFL fans that sooner or later the "roof would cave in" on the Vikings season--

due to Brett Favre's advancing age, etc. And YES--last weekend it caved in LITERALLY..........If Joe Paterno had aged

HALF as well as actress Teri Hatcher, then Penn State would be playing for a national championship in a few weeks;

just sayin'..........The insanity continues: I see that pitcher George Sherrill recently agreed to a $1.2 million contract with

the Atlanta Braves; in 65 games last year with the Dodgers, Sherrill pitched to an ERA of 6.69. Yes--in my next life-

time, I DO want to come back as a below-average, left-handed relief pitcher..........Great stuff from color guy Dan

Dierdorf during last weekend's Steelers/Bengals game. He pointed out that Cincinnati LB Dhani Jones was recently

asked how is he still able to play so hard for a team that's now 2-11. Jones simply answered, "Because my mother and

father are watching." Yes, pride STILL matters to some..........Answer to trivia question: ISAIAH "J.R." RIDER--who

averaged 19.6 ppg while appearing in 75 games..........ITEM: Former MLB player Gary Sheffield has partnered with a

New York lawyer and plans to advise clients in the player representation business. Yeah, JUST the kind of guy I'd want

overseeing MY career--surly, confrontational, linked to steroids, and uncooperative. Sheesh--what's this world comin'

to, folks?..........I'd love to see Debra Grand--a VP at the Bank of America--hook up with PGA golfer Fred Funk. If theyever tied the knot, fans of a great American band would surely delight in her full married name of Debra Grand

Funk..........Happy birthday wishes go out to former major league pitcher Paul Swingle--who blows out 44 candles on

December 21st. The most avid baseball aficionado out there may not be familiar with this native of Inglewood, CA--

who attended Grand Canyon University. Swingle played just ONE season in the majors--1993 with the California

Angels. In just nine career appearances (all in relief), Swingle pitched a total of 9 2/3 innings, gave up 15 hits, and

allowed nine earned runs--thus rendering him a li fetime ERA of 8.38. Hey--they ALL can't be Nolan Ryan, right? Best

wishes and happy holidays, Paul..........Finally, condolences go out the family of a special man who passed away recent-

ly--Frank Pergola of Ansonia, CT. Frank was a member of the Silver Sluggers Baseball Club--a close-knit group of

individuals who meet weekly down in southern CT during the baseball season to discuss the happenings in major

league baseball. Frank was a long-time friend to my father; whenever I'd see Frank at the weekly meetings, he'd kindly

shake my hand and ALWAYS ask how my Dad was doing. Frank was simply a soft-spoken individual with a smile that

could truly light up a room. I've met bigger BASEBALL FANS in my life than Mr. Pergola, but few nicer PEOPLE;

he'll truly be missed. May you rest in peace, Frank Pergola.

Stay up to date on Lazzari's Sports Roundup at http://boblazzari.blogspot.com/

Please Help The Wallingford Animal Shelter!

Along with everyone feeling the effects of the poor economy the worst is the animals. I guess I can understand whenpeople loose their homes, but to just give up their beloved pets because times are bad I don't understand. The children

especially need those pets to comfort them. I say this because the Wallingford Animal shelter is overloaded with dogs &

cats. How can you help, of course adopt always adopt before buying and donate canned dog food especially. It doesn't

take too much out of your dollar under 65 cents each. I can't imagine giving up my wonderful dog(adopted from the

shelter) or my 2 beautiful cats(also adopted) The joy & comfort they give me is hard to explain. So please open your

heart & provide some love in the form of canned food if you can't do anything else & they always need blankets, tow-

els wash clothes to give a warm place on that cold concrete floor. Thanks Carole Golitko

Happy Holidays to all of our friends and family! Love, Jessica and Alyssa

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010

Happy Holidays from The McNeff Gang, Jerry, Gary, Larry and Carrie

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010

Dear Mommy - thanks for the early Christmas present! Ive always want-

ed a plane! You rule! Love, Neal

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ACROSS

1. British streetcar

5. A Scottish cap

8. Views

12. A dull person

13. Spanish for river

14. ABC Entertainment Tonight

hostess

15. When he was a child, "CitizenKane" rode one of these named

"Rosebud"

16. Acronym for an address that

identifies a particular file on the

Internet

17. Operatic solo

18. Tablelands; grasslands

20. Route or course that turns at a

sharp angle

22. Small wheel on a swivel, set

under a piece of furniture

24. This present time or age

27. Craftsmanship; creativity

28. Lard

31. Egg-shaped

32. "____ and hers"33. Outdoor equestrian sport played

during time periods called chukkers

34. Insane

35. " ____ the cows come home"

36. Before the appointed time

37. Estimate or judge the value of

39. Punctual

43. Achieve; accomplish

47. Rescue

48. Famous Canadian born hockey

player

50. Dog who is owned by Sgt.

Snorkel at Camp Swampy

51. A mixture of meat or fish and

vegetables cooked by simmering

52. To operate or function

53. Roads; passages (abbr.)54. U.S. currency denomination fea-

turing Alexander Hamilton's face

(plural)

55. An affirmative reply

56. Identical

Down

1. Recipe measurement (abbr.)

2. Revolve; turn over

3. Scope of a surface

4. Therapeutic; aesculapian

5. To tie or secure (the body) closely

or tightly

6. To broadcast or televise

7. Someone who uses specific forms

to shape or fabricate objects

8. In baseball to retrieve and throwback fly balls in batting practice

9. British nobleman below the rank

of marquis and above the rank of vis-

count

10. One of the Great Lakes

11. An adult male deer

19. A negative vote

21. Small scrap or morsel of food

23. "Heads or ______"

24. "A peeping ____"

25. Female reproductive cells

26. Mom's partner

28. In favor of

29. Each and everyone

30. Plaything

32. A record of past events33. Clergymen

35. Strike lightly

36. One of the standard times used

in North America, 5 hrs behind

Greenwich Mean

Time (abbr.)

38. Acquires through merit

39. Interjection (used to attract

someone's attention in a quiet man-

ner)

40. Degree of speed or progress

41. Baking chamber

42. Tiny, high-pitched sounds made

by kittens

44. Race horse named, " ______ Boy

Roy", was the first Washington-bred

horse to run inthe November 2010 "Breeder's

Cup"

45. A separate piece of information

or news

46. Olfactory organ

49. Regret bitterly

Peoples Press Crossword by Ruth GordonLook for the answers in this issue.

Happy Holidays to the best cousins and aunt and uncle there is!

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010Traditions that Matter

olleen Totz Diamond

celebrate Christmas the way I clean house -- erratically. I have little sense of tradition and less still of posterity. I dec-

ate differently each year. I set up the tree in different rooms. I buy greenery on a whim or not at all. I buy gifts for

veryone or for no one. One thing always remains consistent, however: my mom's lasagna. Until now.

This year, my mom is breaking a decades-long tradition and cooking beef tenderloin instead of lasagna. The kids are

inging the sides. Instead of pulling names from a hat, we're exchanging gifts with everyone. We think so, anyway. We

ver discussed the gift-giving. The gifts are beside the point. We thank the good Lord for another year together. We do

silently, but we do it.

My father died in 1988, when I was 19 years old and living in the Midwest. The first thing my mom did was pull the

mily together. Within two hours of his passing, she arranged a plane ticket to have me home by late afternoon. My

ster was six years old. My aunt picked her up from Parker Farms School. My brother was at Sheehan. Monsignor, the

astor of Our Lady of Fatima Church, brought him home.

The first Christmas without our dad was pretty lonely. Talk about a break in tradition. My mom lit seven candles in

e fireplace, as a remembrance of his presence, and we did our best to carry on without him. To be honest, I don't

member that Christmas very well. I just know that my family changed. Christmas changed. We held onto each other atle tighter that year, and we still do.

For every good-bye in life, there are new beginnings. In the decades since my dad's passing, we've welcomed new

mily members, some who were born into the family, and some who arrived by chance. My mother is a proud "Nana."

y brother and his wife are proud parents. There is "Jimbo," our new father. There is my husband, Dave. And my sis-

r is a focused grad student, with an expanded family to cheer her on.

Our story is not unique. We all face a time when the ground shifts under our feet. What do we do? We adjust our

ride. My family anchors itself to the traditions that matter, and lets go of the ones that don't.

We don't light candles in the fireplace anymore, but we do keep our dad in our hearts. We might tell a "remember

hen" story or two, but we also live in the present.

When I clean house, the excess clutter - trash bag after trash bag - goes out the door without a second thought. I

ever miss the stuff. That stuff is then; my clean house is now.

My mom's lasagna was not a casualty of impulsive thinking. The decision was years in the making. The courage to

t go of a longstanding tradition, at least for this one year, took much deliberation.

I can't speak for her, but I suspect that without the support of our expanded family, she may not have had the

ourage to make the break. This year will be unlike other years, at least at the dinner table.

This year will also be just like every other year. As she does every year, my mom will pull us together for a celebra-

on of each other. I expect that we'll see that at the end of the day, it's not really the food that matters.

Adult Basketball League at the Meriden YMCAeady to shoot some hoops? Get your team together and come on down to the Meriden YMCA starting in January.

his league is open to the first 16 teams who register. The cost is $650 per team. For more information please call

eve Markoja at 203-235-6386 or visit us on the web at www.meridenymca.org

One of the most glorious messes in the world is the mess created in the living room on Christmas day.

Don't clean it up too quickly. ~Andy Rooney


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Give Your Child the Gift of

a Healthy Environment!From birth to age three, babies have a LOT to learn.

High levels of lead in the blood can hurt a child's ability

to learn and damage your child's brain

Steps to take to make a Lead-Safe

and Healthy EnvironmentFind the potential sources of lead:*Lead paint in your home or in toys*Lead in the dirt outside your home or your child's daycare,*Lead in some health supplements (even those labeled "organic")other than those that a Medical provider prescribes

Provide foods that may lower the amount of lead the bodytakes in:*Foods that contain calcium (milk, cheese, yogurt, broccoli)*Foods that contain iron (lean red meat, chicken, turkey, spinach)*Foods with vitamin C (oranges, strawberries, green peppers, andpotatoes)

Watch to see how your child is learning.*Is your child missing some important skills expected for their age?*If your child is younger than three years old and is not developingwell, you may request a Free developmental evaluation from theConnecticut Birth to Three System.

For more information on lead,talk with your child's doctor or call:

Child Development Infoline at 1-800-505-7000

Or call Wallingford Health Dept at 203-294-2065

Or visit the CTDPH website: www.ct.gov/dph

Merry Christmas Stephen! Love always and forever, Mom

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LocalMotion - Local Business! To advertise with Wallingford and Meridens

Community NewsMagazine, The People's Press - Call Andy Reynolds at

203.235.9333 or email him at [email protected]. Experience the

power of positive for the readers and writers you will sponsor as well as the

return on your investment. Check out the paper in its many forms at

www.peoplespressnews.com!

NEWS AND EVENTS FROM WALLINGFORD PUBLIC LIBRARYate December - Early January

ll Programs, Movies, and Events at the Wallingford Public Library are free and open to the public! The Library is

cated at 200 N. Main Street, Wallingford, CT 06492

ne-On-One Computer Tutoring - Thursdays 6:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Computer novices are encouraged to sign

p to learn keyboard or mouse skills, word processing, Internet searching, online job applications, or e-mail. Please

all the Library at (203)265-6754 or stop by the Information Desk for more details or to register for a session.

anuary Programs

aturday Mornings with Poetry: Looking forward, ever changing, ever growing!

aturday, January 8 and January 22 10:00 a.m. - 12: 30 p.m. Board Room

et the Poetic Story Told series continues this month with the following topic: Using imagery to create poetry.

oet of the month: Robert Frost

his month the poems of Robert Frost will be read and discussed. P

ets and would-be poets are invited to attend and share their poetry and writing experiences. SMWP meets semi-

onthly with the exception of July and August and is open to teenagers and adults.

ive Blood - American Red Cross Blood Drive - Wednesday, January 5 11:00 a.m. Community Roomive a pint, get a pound: Free Dunkin' Donuts coffee when you donate. Come prepared:

Have a light meal and plenty to drink.

Bring your donor card, driver's license or two other forms of identification.

* Bring the names of medications you are taking.

ew Year's Resolution: Clear the Clutter! The Declutter Specialist

hursday, January 6 - 7:00 p.m. Community Room

he New Year is a great time to reorganize those home and office files and implement new strategies for staying orga-

zed. Come to Wallingford Public Library on Thursday, January 6 at 7:00 p.m. and learn some de-cluttering basics

om local resident Elaine Turek, the De-clutter Specialist. This program will cover the basics of getting organized and

ve practical advice for staying that way. Find out how less stuff can mean more clarity. Learn how you can get your

ome and/or office organized to start the New Year off on the right foot.

ove the Literature, Don't Have the Time? 6-Part Short Story Discussion Series Begins January 13

hursday, January 13, 27 7:00 p.m. Collins Room

ake advantage of a wonderful opportunity to explore a variety of American Writers at the Wallingford Public Library.

eginning January 13 at 7:00 p.m., Brooks Appelbaum, Ph.D., will lead a discussion of two short stories: Ernest

emingway's Hills Like White Elephants and F. Scott Fitzgerald's Babylon Revisited. Dr. Appelbaum will lead a dis-

ussion that focuses on the diverse writing styles of the two authors. The stories have been chosen and paired to illus-ate the importance of style and its impact on theme and content.

Dr. Appelbaum is a theater director, actress, drama

itic for the the New Haven Magazine, and Writing

ellow at Quinnipiac University where she teaches writ-

g. Copies of all of the stories are available from the

brary's Information Desk. Please contact the library for

ore information: 203-265-6754.

REE MOVIE EVENTS

riday Night Flicks

ridays at 6:30 p.m. except Inception (6:00 p.m.)

ommunity Room

nuary 7: Knight and Day Rated PG-13 Run time 109

inutes

nuary 14: Dinner for Schmucks Rated PG-13 Run time

14 minutes

et E-books and Audio Books On Your Smartphone

verdrive Media Console now supports e-books as wellmp3 audio books on iPhone and Android. Download

e app from iTunes or the Android Market. Contact the

formation Desk with any questions.

ew E-Reader? - If you received a new e-book reader

is holiday season, be sure to check out the Library's

ownloadable ebooks. To take advantage of this service,

heck the compatibility of your device on the library's

eb site by clicking on Downloadable Media, then on

braries on Line Downloadable Media, then on List of

ompatible Devices.

IBRARY NEWS -

ffective January 1st - Library Property is Smoke-free

lthough the library building has always been a no-

moking facility, now the entire library property is a

moke-free zone.

brary Open Sundays beginning January 9 from 1:00

m. to 5:00 p.m.brary Closed January 1st and 2nd for New Year's and

nuary 17th in observance of Dr. Martin Luther King

ay

EEN ZONE! Mother - Daughter Book Club

Wednesday, January 5 7:30 p.m. Board Room

his month we will be discussing the book, Fixing

elilah by Sarah Ockler. Our discussion will feature a

ecial telephone call-in with author. All teen girls and

eir mothers, or other adult female companion are wel-

ome to attend. Refreshments are served. The February

lection is Mazerunner by James Dashner and the dis-

ussion is February 2. Please reserve your copy through

e library catalog or ask for assistance at the library

formation Desk.

ar2Club - Saturday, January 8 1:00 - 3:30 p.m.

ommunity Room

he STAR Club is a perfect way to feed your passion forience and technology. This free program is open to all

Wallingford students in grades K-12. Join us as we make

Morse Code Telegraph Machine. Please register to

nsure that we have enough materials for everyone.

OOK SELLER

isit the Book Seller for gently used books, videos, CDs

nd other items for children and adults. The entrance to

e store is located at the back of the Wallingford Public

brary, next to the garage. Look for the green awning.

ll proceeds from the Book Seller benefit the library.

ours: Monday 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. Wednesday

00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Friday 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

aturday 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. Holiday Closings:

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We love you Grandma! Merry Christmas!

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Merry Christmas Trenton! Love, Mommy and Daddy

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OnChristmas!day of celebration

he birthday of the Messiah

ow it's shop till you drop

ruising the aisles in the middle of the night

argains last for only an hour

ores open 24 hours - $99.00 Flat Screens

d inserts create pounds of recycling

V spots more annoying than those of silly season

hopping centers overrun; parking is impossible

ines at checkouts challenge ones ire

iscounts on everything - buy something, get one free

Remember the reason for the season"

Keep Christ in Christmas"

et's tone down the crass commercialism - return to

ncomplicated timesWouldn't that be lovely?

uon Natale! - Ernie Larsen

The First Snowhe first flakes tickle my cheeks,

oak my hair . . . fresh ground

lences each footstep, eating it

ke a favorite breakfast food.

s I chip through ice, I remember

ur dad and how he yearned for wintry days

ark mornings to run the plow,

bright clouds of breath at the pump,

evenings speeding though town

on snowmobiles. . . .

These metaphors, the reason of his life,

keep me close when nature shaves

her sky, fluttering her icy long into

my hands.

For Dad, Christmas, inevitable in its noise,

punctuated the winter like an em dash

in a snowy field. This winter beehive lives

to distract us from a quiet that begins

with first snows, each newer than the last,

longer than the first. -Colleen Totz Diamond

Happy Birthday Jesus -Janet AlthouseJesus was born in a manger bare

So He our humanness could share.

He came to earth to help us see

Just how beautiful life can be,

If we just let Him take control

And give to Him our heart and soul.

He asks so little and yet so much,

He wants only our lives to touch,

To experience our joy and our pain,

His suffering and dying become our gain.

If we but have faith and believe,

Eternal life we will receive.


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"Sheltering an Animal's Perspective"by Gregory M. Simpson

What's in a name? For cats, it should be a lot! T.S. Eliot wrote that, "Cats must have three names - an everyday nam

such as Peter; a more particular dignified name, such as Quaxo, Bombalurina, or Jellylorum; and thirdly, the name the

cat thinks up for himself, his deep and inscrutable singular Name."

Our Siamese cat is regal, and comes from the long line of cats originally from Siam. The first documented export o

a Royal Siamese was to President Rutherford B. Hayes' wife, Lucy Webb Hayes. As a kitten, our Siamese was as

white as freshly fallen snow, so my wife named her Polar Bear or Polar for short. To fit her royal demeanor, her fully

dignified name is Her Royal Highness, Precious Princess Polar Bear. She has not yet shared with us her other name,

the one she thought up for herself.

"Lucky" was so named when we rescued him from the outdoors one frigid January night. He made i t perfectly clea

what he wanted as he wrapped his two front legs around my leg and would not let go. After that, he wanted nothing to

do with going out. He taught us about being a survivor.

Another of our cats was discovered at ten days old in someone's back yard, covered in dirt. Hence, her name

became "Dusty." She was found with a puncture wound in his neck due to an animal bite. Hand fed around the cloc

until adopted, Dusty taught us that there's a lot to be said about being in the right place at the right time.Our orange tabby was adopted from a local animal shelter after he was found starving and unable to move due to his

entanglement in a flea collar. Depressed at the shelter, he routinely faced the back of his cage. When brought home,

though, he bounded up on the sofa between my wife and me, all but beaming with satisfaction over his new home.

Between the color of his coat and his sparkling disposition, he could only be named "Sunny."

Our petite, gray and white cat has antics as funny as a cartoon kitty, so we named her "Garfield." Then there is

"Sesame". He was so named because he always seemed to be waiting for a door to open. One day, as he waited by a

door, my wife called out, "Open, Sesame," and the name stuck.

Petfinder.com, the on-line database of adoptable companion animals, has revealed the ten most popular names for

animals awaiting adoption in 2009. The name "Lucy" took the number one spot for cats, with "Smokey" coming in

second. For the first time in recent history, the name "Bella" made both the cat and dog lists of popular names. The

names "Kitten," "Princess," "Tigger" and "Misty" of years past were replaced by names like "Midnight," "Daisy," and

"Charlie" for 2009. The name chosen by Petfinder.com as the most unusual moniker for 2009 was "Shyanne Thailand

Moo Goo Guy Pan," followed by "Mr. Tomfoolery Scardeycat Eliot." There appears to be a definite trend of people

giving their companion animals middle names.

Mark Twain, who kept many cats at his home on Farmington Avenue in Hartford, commented that, "My cats died

early - on account of being so overweighted with their names, it was thought - 'Sour Mash,' 'Apollinaris,' 'Zoroaster,'

'Blatherskite,' names given them, not in an unfriendly spirit, but merely to practice the children in large and difficultstyles of pronunciation. It was a very happy idea - I mean, for the children."

Yes, as T.S. Eliot observed, "The Naming of Cats is a difficult matter." Cleveland Amory, founder of Fund for

Animals, and author of The Cat Who Came for Christmas, elaborated that, "A cat who dislikes his name can - and I am

reliably informed, often does - go through his entire lifetime without ever, even by a careless mistake, acknowledging

that he has ever heard it before, let alone recognizing, in any perceptible manner known to mankind, that it would in

any way have any possible connection with him." My favorite words about the naming of cats come from my favorite

author about cats - the French writer, Colette, who wrote, "There stands before youshe who rejects the names of

queens, the childish diminutives, and is called - as if she were the only one in the world - Cat."

For the animals, Gregory M. Simpson

Mike,Matt & Alex. Have a Merry Christmas.

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010

Antonio Sgambati (Michael & Josephines son) wishes everyone a Merry

Christmas and a Happy New Year!

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010

have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round, as a good

me; a kind, forgiving, charitable time; the only time I know of, in the long

alendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open

eir shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really

ere fellow passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound

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ICTIONAL SEASONShort Stories by Janet Cipolli

AKE, NOT FAKE"

eth and Walter Chester were doing their annual holiday

owsing through Home Depot. Beth enjoys looking at the

asonal displays of brightly lit trees and holiday decora-

ons. Walter doesn't mind as long as he can check out the

ndless supply of switch plates, indoor thermometers and

rdfeeders.

"What a beautiful tree! Walter, look." Beth pointed to

n eight-foot-tall white artificial tree with multi-colored

ghts.

"I hate white trees. Especially fake white trees."

"You paid $150 for the fake tree we bought here two

ars ago. You love that tree."

"It's not white sweetie." he debated in his bull-headeday. "And I don't love it. I think we're going to get a real

ee this year." He stood tall breathing in an imaginary

oma. "A lush pine-smelling eight-footer."

Beth turned to him, arms crossed, anticipating the

mminent battle of dealing with her husband's stubborn

ature.

"Oh no, we're not spending any more money on a new

ee. The one we have in the basement is just fine."

"Nah, I want a real tree. I want to wake up on

hristmas morning and smell the outdoors, the Alps, the

ocky Mountains--all those big hills."

Beth turned away with a huff.

"I am not dealing with the mess of a real tree," she

sisted. "Falling pine needles and spilt water all over the

ace? Uh, uh."

She already knew it would be pointless to continue her

gument because of the faraway blank stare on her hus-and's face. At that very moment, Walter was skiing down

e Matterhorn with someone named Jean Philippe amid

e fresh scent of pine trees. She could only hope one of

ose eight-footers was directly in his path-he could use a

ood reality whack.

A week later, Walter was getting ready to drive over to

ne Acres, a local purveyor of Xmas trees, and was excit-

d about it. Beth had already made it quite clear that she

anted nothing to do with shopping for his "dream tree"

nd that was fine with him. 'A few fallen needles and some

ilt water, big deal,' he thought to himself. He could han-

e that. As he reached for the car keys he looked to see i f

s wife had perhaps emerged from her mood.

"Do you think we need a t ree stand sweetie?"

Beth's facial expression was sufficient.

On his way down the street, Walter noticed all the holi-

ay decorations on his neighbor's houses. He stopped ate corner of the street.

"Now that's a tree!" he said out loud. On the front lawn

f the corner house stood a brightly decorated Blue

Spruce. He knew an elderly couple lived there but in all

the years he could remember this was the first time they

had ever decorated that tree. Boy, it looked good.

As he turned the corner, the station wagon hit some-

thing-big enough for Walter to bang the side of his head

against the door. From the sound of crunching metal under

the car, it wasn't hard to imagine what had just happened.

"Mommy!" a little boy shouted. "My bike!"

Walter got out of the car to see the boy's mother storm-

ing out of her house.

"I'm sorry kid," Walter offered, looking under the car.

"I didn't see your bike. What's it doing in the street any-

way?"

The boys' angry mother rushed towards him. "I just

bought that bike for him now look what you did!"

"Whoa, lady" Walter leaned back. "Back off! I really

didn't see it. Here," taking his wallet out of his back pock-

et "is fifty-dollars enough to replace it?"

The woman stuck her nose in the air, grabbed the cash

and shoved it inside her top. "You're just lucky my old

man isn't home or it might have cost you more than just

your money, mister."

"Yeah, okay," Walter smirked. "You have a nice day

too." He took his time, moseying back to his car to let her

know he wasn't afraid of her, her imaginary old man or

starring in an episode of COPS.

Back on the road, he arrived at Pine Acres to find it

crawling with people and their kids fighting over which

tree to buy.

"Daddy, Daddy! Get this one!" one kid shouted as the

tree he was holding fell on top of him.

Walter steered his way through the rambunctious crowd

to an area towards the back. There, under a hand-painted

sign that read NORTHERN BLUE SPRUCE, he spotted

his tree. It was beautiful-just like the luscious eight-footer

he had imagined. He shoved his face between the branches

and inhaled the fresh aroma.

"Get your face out of the tree," said the worker.

Walter jumped back causing pine needles to stick to his

hair, "I'm buying this tree," pulling out his wallet. "How

much is it?"

"100 dollars."

Walter pulled out his cash and counted sixty-five.

"Here, I'll write you a check for the difference," handing

the money to the young man.

"Cash only mister," pointing his finger to a sign that

read NO CHECKS.

Perturbed, Walter envisioned the face of the angry

mother with the bike and silently cursed her before reach-

ing for his ATM card, "Hold this tree. I'll be right back."

The worker handed Walter back his sixty-five dollars.

"Can't hold trees mister. First come, first served."

Walter began to get agitated and flustered. "Well then

take my cash as a down-payment. I want this tree."

The young man pointed his finger towards another sign that read NO

DOWN PAYMENTS ACCEPTED.

Walter impatiently looked around at the increasing number of tree shoppers

headed toward the area of his Northern Blue Spruce.

"Oh look Marvin, what a beautiful tree!" a woman's voice caught his atten-

tion. "That's the one I want." She was pointing right at Walter's tree.

"Oh no you can't buy this one," Walter told her. "I already bought it. Go

away," waving them to move on. She looked suspiciously at Walter before tak-

ing hold of her husband's arm and turning away.

Walter shoved his wallet back into his pant pocket and with both arms out-

stretched grabbed the Northern Blue Spruce and picked it up. Boy, was it

heavy! He put it back down and t ried to figure out a way to get it to his car. He

thought "if I could just get it to the station wagon, I can tie it to the roof and

have Beth bring me the rest of the cash." He set it down on the ground, picked

it up by the stump and began dragging it along towards the parking lot.

"Hey! Put that back!" a worker yelled.

Walter picked up his pace and yelled back. "That's okay, thank you, I got

it!"

Just as he caught site of the station wagon, a strong yank backwards made

him lose his footing. He looked up from the gravel to see two men hoisting up

his Northern Blue Spruce. Walter jumped up and with the help of his flowing

adrenaline, he thrust his arms between the branches and matched the formida-

ble force of the two men. For a minute there he thought he had them and if it

weren't for the distracting sounds of the approaching police sirens-he would

have.

"So, how much has this dream tree cost us so far?" Beth taunted as she and

Walter left the police station.

"Don't ask," was his reply.

After they got home and much to Beth's chagrin, Walter headed down to

the basement and came up carrying their artificial tree. Ten minutes later,

Walter walked back into the kitchen and put on his jacket.

"Where are you going now?" Beth asked.

"To get our tree."

"You just brought it up from the basement."

"I told you we're getting a real tree this year, get with the program sweetie."

"What did you do with our fake tree?"

"I gave it to the old couple down the street." grabbing the car keys, "Oh

and I promised them all our ornaments and lights so we'll have to pick up

some new ones."

"Why the hell did you do that?" crossing her arms yet again.

"Because that's what they wanted for the Blue Spruce on their front lawn."

It was now Beth who stood with a blank stare. As Walter began to leave he

stopped and turned to his wife.

"Do we have an axe sweetie?"


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The light of the Christmas star to you

The warmth of home and hearth to you

The cheer and good will of friends to youThe hope of a childlike heart to you

Thank you for the 30 wonderful years together. Love, Chuck

HOLIDAY MAGIC 2010

'Twas Christmas broach'd the

mightiest ale;

'Twas Christmas told the merriest

tale;

A Christmas gambol oft could

cheer

The poor man's heart through half

the year.

Meriden Public Library News and Events

Late December - Early JanuaryMERIDEN LIBRARY HOLIDAY HOURS - Meriden Public Library will be closed on the following days:

riday, December 24 and Saturday, December 25 for the Christmas holiday;

riday, December 31 and Saturday, January 1 for the New Year's holiday.

Normal business hours - Monday through Wednesday, 9:30 a.m. to 8:30 p.m.; Thursday through Saturday, 9:30 a.m.

5:00 p.m., closed Sunday.

Contact the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349 if you have questions about our holiday schedule.

FOOD FOR FINES" MONTH AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY - Meriden Public Library will hold its annual

Food for Fines" month beginning Friday, November 26 through Thursday, December 30. You may "pay" for your

verdue fines by contributing one non-perishable food item for each dollar you owe in fines. For example, if you owe

3.00 in overdues, you must bring in 3 items. Food donations do not cover lost or damaged library materials. Bring in

ose long overdue DVD's cd's, books, etc. and clear up those fines. Borrowers must visit the Circulation Desk in per-

on to take advantage of this opportunity. Please do not donate out-dated food items. All food collected will be deliv-

ed to local food pantries. Food items most needed are tuna and other canned meat, dry milk, canned vegetables anduit, rice, dry and canned beans, canned soups and stews, boxed pasta products, tomato items, juices and cereals.

ontact the Meriden Public Library at (203) 238-2344 or (203) 630-6349 if you have questions.

CRABBLE SESSIONS AT MERIDEN LIBRARY - Meriden Public Library is hosting afternoon and evening ses-

ons for people who enjoy playing Scrabble. The evening sessions will be held on and December 28 in the Friends

oom. All skill levels are welcome. Scrabble boards will be provided, but people are welcome to bring their own

oards. Contact the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349 if you have any questions about the library

rograms.

UNCHTIME BOOK CLUB - The Meriden Public Library's lunchtime book club meets on Thursdays at noon in

e Friends Room. Bring your lunch and enjoy the discussion.

anuary 20 -Juliet: a novel by Anne Fortier

ebruary 17 - I Still Dream about You by Fannie Flagg

March 17- Distant Hours by Kate Morton

pril 21 - Freedom by Jonathan Franzen

ll are welcome. The books are available in a display across from the Information Desk. Contact Laura at (203) 238-

346 to sign up.

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