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The Power of RelationshipsPreventative & proactive ways with children
and youth who are intense & challenging
Dr. Sally A. Baas
Professor, Concordia University, St. Paul, MN
2020 Center for School Mental Health ConferencePresenter
Dr. Sally A. Baas
Professor, Concordia University, St. Paul
Past President of National Assn. of School Psychologists
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Grow some connections
Hugs, Hand Shake, High Fives, Smile… All Free
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Reflective of NASP Model for Effective Practice: Domain 6
Using knowledge of risk and protective factors to address problems such as truancy, bullying, youth suicide, and school violence
Developing, implementing, and evaluating prevention and intervention programs that address precursors to severe learning and behavioral problems.
Participating in school crisis prevention and response teams
Participating and evaluating programs that promote safe and violence-free schools and communities.
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Objectives
The participant will be able to describe the interaction of adult and children/youth’s behavior (relationships) and its impact on successful mental health.
The participant will be able to describe how the concepts of awareness, recognition, actions, and transformation (ARAT) are the keys to mindful, resilient, and authentic teaching and service given to children/youth.
The participant will be able to list the three stands of the Nurtured Heart Approach®.
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Research framework Relationships in the school setting increases academic
engagement, and learning.
Many curricula for students to increase social emotional learning; however, direct explicit instruction in key relationship skills can significantly change the interaction of teachers and parents.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (NHA) is a promising evidence based practice indicating when adults learn to interact differently with children and teens, they rate them as having less symptomology, and rate their perceptions of their own stress as decreasing.
This presentation will share research and theoretical framework and skills to take back to schools and communities working with intense and challenging youth.
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Foundational to Student Success is Teacher/Professional Well-Being
Teachers and other professionals are healthy and more engaged with students when classroom management is effective and students are focused on their studies. Relationships between professionals and students are dependent on both having a sense of well-being (Roberts & Kim (2019) and (Zee & Koemen, 2016).
German Teachers also indicated poor classroom management increased emotional exhaustion, (Dicke, Stebner, Linninger, Kunter & Leutner (2019).
Research with teachers on social emotional well-being supports positive student results (Jennings &Greenburg (2009).
Five predictive well-being factors include: optimism, emotional awareness, goals setting/hope, resilience and empowerment (Reivich, 2010).
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The Teacher Within: A mindful journey toward well-being for teachers in the 21st Century
“Teachers are the single most important at least as important factor, accounting for nearly one-third of the variance in students’ achievement,” according to Roderick D. Fraser, Round Square Board of Trustees.
“World class schools are vibrant, creative, and an inspirational environment to learn and work in… where proactive habits are recognized as having positive activities such as mindfulness and happiness habits are recognized as having positive benefits for all concerned,” according to Colin Bell, Council of British International Schools.
“Giving teachers the support they need to pursue their noble calling is at least as important as giving students access to education,” according to Irina Anghel-Enescu, Member of the Academy of Global Teacher Prize.
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Characteristics of Effective STAR Teachers
Impressive oral and written communication skills
Prior teaching experience and excellent command of the content
Caring student relationships with high expectations for learners and themselves
Engaging learning environment
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Characteristics of STAR Teachers
• Remarkable organization and planning astuteness (good judgement)
• Exciting learning experiences for learners that provide a medium for critical thinking, problem solving, and high-level questions
• Formative and summative assessment that adjusts to meet the needs of all learners.
Strong, J.H. and Lindman, J.L The Teacher Quality Index)
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YET…
Students and Teachers will be more successful if both student and teacher(s) have a GREAT sense of well-being.
It is important to
• Acknowledge youth experience and perceive a range of emotions.
• Emotional wellness is promoted through positive interactions.
• Having appropriate expectations of youth's development is critical.
• When we support youth properly, it enables them to be resilient.
• All must be mindful of our own emotional well-being
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The Nurtured Heart Approach ™
Research supporting use of the Nurtured Heart Approach in schools
and other settings to build students capacity for response to
difficult behavioral and mental health needs
• In the United States K-12 Schools
• In the UK, Australia, Japan, China
• Personally, at Concordia University, St. Paul (Hmong Culture and
Language Program and with pre-service teachers.)
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Touching Children Around the World
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The Nurtured Heart Approach
®
For Transforming the Intense Child& Helping All Children to Flourish
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A FEW WORDS FROM HOWIE
Howard Glasser
Creator of the Nurtured Heart Approach®
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Why does an approach make a difference?
The Evolution of NHA
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Now it helps all
children to flourish
NHA started as a way to heal challenging children…
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Is intensity the enemy?
Symptoms do exist;
however, symptoms
get labeled as
pathology.
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Medications give the appearance of moderating intensity.
Conventional methods can inadvertently make situations worse.
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{
To use intensity well,
students need to be
stronger on
the inside
Building Inner Wealth®
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Frame by Frame
Make every moment an opportunity for success.
See what the child is doing in each moment.
Recognize them: Say it out loud…in detail!
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Building Inner Wealth Begins with You!
I am (NAME)
and I am…
(character quality)
I am (NAME) and I am…
(character quality) because I …
(name what you do)
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HORSE WHISPERER
The Horse Whisperer
Create an experience.
“It isn’t a question of whether you can or can’t, you are.”
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We know who we are by what people tell us. What did people tell you?
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When was the last time you recognized the
positive qualities in yourself, a child or an adult?
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I refuse to energize
negativity.
I will not reward negativity
with my energy,
connection, or
relationship.
I set and enforce clear limits and
clear consequences in an un-
energized way.
I will always provide a true
consequence.
I relentlessly create and
energize positivity and
success. I energize and nurture
firsthand experiences of
success.
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CRYING GAME
Is This What You Want to Energize?
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Ignoring is Counter Productive
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Still Face Baby
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Video Game Theory
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Defense Against Vague Praise:
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Intention 1:
Baby Steps
Reverse-engineering
the high bar of high
expectations.
Creating successes
that would not
otherwise exist.
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CELESTE ELSEY – BEN
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Story of the Toll TakerIntention 2: Choose How You See Things
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BASEBALL –GREATEST HITTER
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“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change”
Wayne Dyer
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Intention 3:
Make Miracles from Molecules
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What qualities does it take for a child to sharpen a pencil?
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We are the directors, producers, and editors of every moment
We choose, by where we put our energy, what moments get the dramatic music and the camera zooming in… and which frames get left on the editing room floor.
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What is happening?What could be happening?
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NHA Recognitions
The intention of giving recognition is to
Be truthfully appreciative.
Be authentically acknowledging.
Build Inner Wealth™
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Active recognitions
Kodak Moments; Watch, Describe, Document
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Active recognitions
Profound Noticing
“I see…”
“I heard…”
“Here is what I just noticed…”
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Active recognitionsWhat do you see?
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Let’s try it!Active Recognition
What do you SEE? HEAR?
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Experiential recognitionsPolaroid Moments: Help kids interpret and upgrade their
experience of value and being valued
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How do we typically teach values and life
skills?
When things are going awry. We lecture.
How receptive are children to learning the lesson then?
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Experiential recognition:
Behavior + Appreciation of Related Character Quality
“I see you (action/emotion)… and that shows that you are
(character quality).”
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EULANDA – HAILEY & DAMIAN
EXP REC & WELCOME BACK
Experiential recognition:What do you see, and what does it say about who they are?
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Let’s try it! What do you
see?What does it say
about who they are?
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proactive recognitionsCanon Moments: Don’t wait until there is a problem
to teach the rules.
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What kind of rules help intense children?
Can more clarity lead to more opportunities for success?
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PROACTIVErecognition:
Appreciation of Rule Not Broken + Experiential Recognition
“I see you not (action)…even though the truth is that you
could be, and that shows you are
(character quality).”
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Recognizing healthy power and control:
Give recognition to the power and control it takes to follow the rules.
“Wow…I can see you are angry and you totally could have just hit your brother but you didn’t! What amazing control you have.”
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EULANDA – YOU COULD
HAVE BEEN FUSSING
Proactive recognition:What is not happening that could be?
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Let’s tryit! What do you
see?What could be happening
that isn’t?What does it say about
who they are?
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Conventionalmodel:
advertisesoptions
How do we normally make requests of our children?
Could you? Would you, please…
Challenging kids will “opt” for non-compliance in the
hopes of getting juicer connectivity.
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Make clear requests:
Eliminate the options and the confusion.
Build a pattern of making requests that demonstrates to the child that cooperation and complying get more connection.
“It is time to . . .”
“I need you to…”
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CREATIVErecognition:
Making Clear Requests +
Noticing and Appreciating
What is happening in the
right direction?
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PUSH YOUR B AWAY
CREATIVE recognition:Clear requests + celebration of movement in the right direction
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NHA ®recognitions:
What do you see?What is happening?
What is nothappening?
What does it say about who they are as
a person growing ingreatness?
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NIKE GREATNESS JOGGER
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TANYA – CARLY
SELF-CONTROL
INNER WEALTH IN ACTION
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build the foundation
first
No energy to negativity, or
positives cannot have the intended impact.Create “time-in” that
is juicy and established, or “time-outs” cannot have the
intended impact.Then, limit setting
can be effective.
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stand 3:
absolutely clear!I set and enforce clear limits and clear
consequences in an un-energized way.
I will always provide a true consequence.
Remember: Video Game Logic
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TANYA – CARLY
SETTING LIMITS
PICK UP ROOM
THE EVOLUTION FROM UNCLEAR TO CLEAR:
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“Negative” Rules, Positive
Experience:
Be highly appreciative when a rule is not being broken.
Then the “negative” rule (No Hitting) is really an asset in creating exquisite clarity.
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Juicy time-in!
Time-In that is emotionally
rewarding is the key to
successful Time-Outs.
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Warnings are not compassionate
Don’t give warnings.They keep
children off balance and uncertain if
rules are to be taken seriously.
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The speed
limit story
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Reset:The Key to Consequences
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You & resetsThink of a moment when you were really
escalated…
What helps you to reset yourself?
What doesn’t help you reset?
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v
the profound
truth of resets:
In order for your child to really reset,
the adult needs to know
how to really reset
themselves.
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Reset- with STUDENTBest Practice:
Adult uses a key word like “Reset” or “Pause.”
Adult unplugs his energy from the child and turns away.
In moments, the adult turns back and acknowledges child for achieving their consequence.
Adult now focuses on success-acknowledges rules not broken.
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The 3 r’s of RESET:
Reset: Consequence.
Restart: Welcome Back, Appreciation for NOW.
Restore: An action of restoration, not an apology, only when absolutely needed.
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CELESTE ELSEY – DYLAN
INTENSE BEHAVIOR
INTERVIEW
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TransformationNo longer anything to be gained by
breaking the rules.
The big responses are now only for the positives.
Breaking a rule now only gets a true consequence- not a payoff.
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Notching it UP…Skills, Grace and Time
Put yourself in the place of your student: If my friend, husband, leader, etc. said “RESET” to me how would I feel, react, respond??????
How would I like to be reminded that I was needing to change my behavior?
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To Your Greatness!
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Sarah How‘s Books:
Greatness crosses languages, cultures and borders
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Our collaborative
effort to spread
greatness!
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WHAT IS THE NURTURED HEART APPROACH®?
A set of strategies for helping
children (and adults) use their
intensity in successful ways…
and awaken to their greatness!