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    Surpassing Marital Fidelity

    Matthew 5:27-30

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    The Sermon on the Mount, a ruler:

    Unless your

    righteousness, by far,

    surpasses that of the

    Scribes and the

    Pharisees, you will

    certainly not enter the

    Kingdom of Heaven.

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    Divorce: A hard subject

    Divorce is so prevalent and widely

    accepted

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    Divorce: A hard subject

    Divorce is so prevalent and widely

    accepted

    The Scriptures regarding divorce are

    complex

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    Divorce: A hard subject

    Divorce is so prevalent and widely

    accepted

    The Scriptures regarding divorce are

    complex

    Marriages are complex and unique

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    Divorce: A hard subject

    Divorce is so prevalent and widely

    accepted

    The Scriptures regarding divorce are

    complex

    Marriages are complex and unique

    Divorce is deeply painful

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    The twisted traditions of the

    Pharisees:

    If a man marries

    a woman and isdispleased with her

    because he finds

    something indecentabout her . . .he writes

    her a certificate of divorce

    Deut. 24:1

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    Something Indecent?

    The original meaningsexual infidelity

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    Something Indecent?

    The original meaningsexual infidelity

    The original intentto limitdivorce and toprotectwomen and children from abuse

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    Something Indecent?

    The original meaningsexual infidelity

    The original intentto limitdivorce and toprotectwomen and children from abuse

    The Pharisees twisted Deut 24:1 into alicense to divorce for any and every

    reason!

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    Two Schools of Interpretation:

    Both the conservative and liberal schools

    agreed on 5 just grounds for divorce:

    Infertility, Gen 1: 22, 28

    Infidelity, De 24:1

    Withholding emotional & physical affection

    Failure to provide food

    Failure to provide clothing, Ex 20:10

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    Two Schools of Interpretation

    The liberal school interpreted something

    indecentbroadly to mean anything at all!

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    Two Schools of Interpretation

    The liberal school interpreted something

    indecentbroadly to mean anything at all!

    Both schools agreed that Moses

    COMMANDED divorce in the case of

    infidelity

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    Two Schools of Interpretation

    The liberal school interpreted something

    indecentbroadly to mean anything at all!

    Both schools agreed that Moses

    COMMANDED divorce in the case of

    infidelity

    Joseph determined to [break the engagement]

    because he was a righteous man.

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    What does Jesus teach about

    marriage?1. Marriage is between one man and one

    woman

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    What does Jesus teach about

    marriage?1. Marriage is between one man and one

    woman

    2. The essence of marriage is a spiritual

    union in which God creates one new

    entity out of two people

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    One Flesh

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    What does Jesus teach about

    marriage?3. Marriage is monogamous

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    What does Jesus teach about

    marriage?3. Marriage is monogamous

    4. Marriage is permanent

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    What, then do Jesus and Paul

    teach about divorce (andremarriage)

    1.T

    he cause ofeverydivorce ishardheartedness (spiritual stubbornness)

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    What, then do Jesus and Paul

    teach about divorce (andremarriage)

    1.T

    he cause ofeverydivorce ishardheartedness (spiritual stubbornness)

    Has not [the LORD] made them one? In

    flesh and spirit they are his . . . So guardyourself in your spirit, and do not break faith

    with the wife of your youth.

    Mal 2:15

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    What, then do Jesus and Paul

    teach about divorce (andremarriage)

    2. Sometimes, there is an innocent party whena marriage fails

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    What, then do Jesus and Paul

    teach about divorce (andremarriage)

    2. Sometimes, there is an innocent party whena marriage fails

    Adultery (and other forms of infidelity)

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    What, then do Jesus and Paul

    teach about divorce (andremarriage)

    2. Sometimes, there is an innocent party whena marriage fails

    Adultery (and other forms of infidelity)

    Abandonment

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    What, then do Jesus and Paul

    teach about divorce (andremarriage)

    2. Sometimes, there is an innocent party whena marriage fails

    Adultery (and other forms of infidelity)

    Abandonment

    Abuse

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    What, then do Jesus and Paul

    teach about divorce (andremarriage)

    2. Sometimes, there is an innocent party whena marriage fails

    Adultery (and other forms of infidelity)

    Abandonment

    Abuse

    Divorced/Remarried B.C.

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    What should we do as followers

    of Jesus?

    1. Do not enter marriage lightly

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    What should we do as followers

    of Jesus?

    1. Do not enter marriage lightly

    2. If you are married, you mustdo

    everything you can to make your

    marriage succeed!

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    What should we do as followers

    of Jesus?

    3. If your actions have lead to the failure of

    your marriage, repent and receive theLords cleansing!

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    What should we do as followers

    of Jesus?

    3. If your actions have lead to the failure of

    your marriage, repent and receive theLords cleansing!

    My dear children, I write to you so that youwill not sin. But if anybody does sin, we

    have and Advocate with the FatherJesus

    Christ, the Righteous One. 1 Jn 2:1-2

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    What should we do as followers

    of Jesus?

    4. If you are divorced and remarried, do

    everything you can to make your currentmarriage succeed!