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The simple system for sustainable success
Goal Mapping
Success is learning how to steer the natural changes of life towards the things that you desire
Brian Mayne
Some Goal Mapping Fans
Swedish Goal Mapping Students
Katalin Konya – World Champion
The Winds of Change
• The world is changing faster then ever before
• People fear uncertain change
• Change is like the wind that blows –
we cannot direct it nor stop it, but
we can adjust the set of our sails
• Goals are our beacons of light to help us stay
focused on while riding the winds of change
My Learning Journey
My Learning Journey
My Learning Journey
Disco Daze
If you think you can…
“Whether you think you can or think you can’t you’re right.”
- Henry Ford
The Power of Positive Thinking
We each have a hundred billion brain-cells
The Power of Positive Thinking
Thinking positive helps make connections
Goal
Setting Goals help you stay Positive
The Power of Positive Thinking
The Effectiveness of Whole-Brain Thinking
Right-brain map using pictures
Left-brain map using words
The Seven Steps of Goal Mapping
1. Dream = what do you want
2. Order = which goal is the priority
3. Draw = create right-brain imagery
4. Why = identify your motivating reasons
5. When = over what period of time
6. How = what actions will be needed
7. Who = whose help will you require
Help Lift 7 Million Lives
Be a life lifter
Give the gift of a little lift
My Mission
The DAC Factor
The Bike of Ability
Your ability
Who we are being
Direction, goals and purpose
Knowledge and skills
Getting along with people
Drive
Attitude
Confidence
The Winning Edge
• 20% of what you do makes 80% of the difference in your life
• What’s the 20% that gives you 80% in: your wellbeing? your relationships? your career?
Ascending the Lift Ladder
7. Involve to Evolve
6. Maintain a Positive Focus
5. Become Fully Response-Able
4. Be On Purpose
3. Find Balance
2. Develop Possibility Consciousness
1. Raise Your Awareness
1: Raise Your Awareness
Opinions, attitudes, actions and (ultimately) results all spring from our paradigm
What is your current paradigm:
1. Your self ……………………
2. Your life ……………………
3. The world ……………………
4. Success ……………………
5. Failure ……………………
What is your desired paradigm:
Your self …………………….....
Your life ……………………......
The world ……………………...
Success ……………………......
Failure ……………………........
2: Develop Possibility Consciousness
The Map of Meaning
Experience
DefineNavigate
Belief
Belief
Belief
Belief
ParadigmPicture
The world
Filter
Subconscious Command
Conscious Awareness
Paradigm
Filter
• We do not see the world as it really is –
we see the world as we are
• A distorted paradigm creates distorted attitudes and actions
• Setting a compelling goal helps create a
positive paradigm of possibility
2: Develop Possibility Consciousness
3: Find Balance
• Success is balance and balance is success
• Life balance is not static, it is active and dynamic
• Score yourself between 1 and 10 in each area:
Mental ……
Emotional ……
Physical ……
Financial ……
Social ……
Spiritual ……
6
8
5
7
5
7
X
X
X
X
X
X
3: Find Balance
• Leadership Management •
• Emotion Logic •
• Pictures Words •
4: Be On Purpose
• Having a sense of purpose for your life is like fuel for an engine
• Motivation, goals and purpose are different points on the same continuum
• Purpose is like a path
• Goals are the milestones
• Motivation is the reason to make the journey
I believe my main motivation strategy is to move
…………………………………………………..…..
4: Be On Purpose
• Ego driven Heart led •
• Fear based Love centred •
• Move away from pain Move toward pleasure •
5: Become Fully Response-Able
Self
Thought
Feeling
Action
Habits
Results
Re-Act
5: Become Fully Response-Able
Conditioned Habit
5: Become Fully Response-Able
Self
Thought
Feeling
Action
Habits
Results
Re-Act
Motivating
Purpose
Feedback
Design
Aligned
Conscious
6: Maintain a Positive Focus
Conscious
Subconscious
Master of the Lamp
Genie
• Your subconscious is always seeking a target
• Your subconscious does not make value judgements
• In the absence of a goal, your subconscious will automatically select your dominant thought
• Command your subconscious genie for success by setting a compelling goal
7: Involve to Evolve
7. Involve to Evolve
6. Maintain a Positive Focus
5. Become Fully Response-Able
4. Be On Purpose
3. Find Balance
2. Develop Possibility Consciousness
1. Raise Your Awareness
The Seven Fundamental Laws of Creation
1. Believe in your self and your goal
2. Goals are purely personal
3. Set a balance of goals
4. Live in the moment
5. State your goals in the present tense
6. State your goals in positive tense
7. Allow for lag-time
The Seven Empowering Questions
1. If you won £1 million pounds on the lottery, what would you
do differently in your life?
2. If you only had six months to live, but would live that time in perfect
health,
what would you do differently with your time?
3. What have you always wanted to do, but have maybe been
afraid to attempt?
4. If you could be granted any one skill or ability, what would you choose?
5. What gives you your greatest feeling of pleasure and satisfaction?
6. What legacy would you like to leave; how do you want to be
remembered?
7. If you knew you were guaranteed to succeed, what one great
achievement would you dare to dream for yourself ?
Creating Your Goal Map
Step 1: Dream
Make a list of all the thingsyou truly desire
Use short statements that capture the essence of your goals
My goals:
1. ………………………………….
2. ………………………………….
3. ………………………………….
4. ………………………………….
5. ………………………………….
6. ………………………………….
7. ………………………………….
New home
Dream holiday
Career advancementPrivate educationCommunity contributionHealthy lifestyle
I feel good about myself
Step 2: Order
My goals:
1. ………………………………….
2. ………………………………….
3. ………………………………….
4. ………………………………….
5. ………………………………….
6. ………………………………….
7. ………………………………….
New home
Dream holiday
Career advancementPrivate educationCommunity contributionHealthy lifestyle
I feel good about myself
Step 3: Draw
Step 4: Why
Step 5: When
Choose an achievement date for your main goal
Place today’s date at the base of your Goal Map
Step 6: How
Step 7: Who
Whose help will you need to achieve your goals?
• Friends?
• Family?
• Teachers?
• Colleagues?
Extra Steps
Add detail to your Goal Map by extending any aspect
The Goal Mapping Ritual
• Sign it: Make a commitment• See it: Visualise each morning• Say it: Speak the affirmations• Share it: Family, Friends, Colleagues
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To do list:
1. ……………………………….
2. ……………………………….
3. ……………………………….
4. ……………………………….
5. ……………………………….
6. ……………………………….
7. ……………………………….
8. ……………………………….
9. ……………………………….
10. ……………………………….
Step 4: Why
In Essence
• Think your best thoughts
• Feel your best feelings
• Take your best actions
• Live your best life