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T h e V o i c e o f C o n g r e g a t i o n B e t h S h a l o m Marie Slotnick President [email protected] Robert V. Gamer Rabbi [email protected] David A. Nelson, D.D. Rabbi Emeritus [email protected] Samuel L. Greenbaum Cantor Emeritus [email protected] Frank Lanzkron-Tamarazo Cantor [email protected] Sheldon L. Freilich Executive Director [email protected] Michael Wolf Director of Education [email protected] Nicole Jahr Gan Shalom Director Early Childhood Center [email protected] Julie Grodin Circle of Friends [email protected] Arnie Weiner HaKol Editor [email protected] Congregation Beth Shalom 14601 West Lincoln Road Oak Park, Michigan 48237 Phone: 248.547.7970 Fax: 248.547.0421 Office Hours: Mon.-Wed. 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. [CLOSED THURSDAYS] Friday 8 a.m. - 4 p.m. email: [email protected] www.congbethshalom.org THE BETH SHALOM HAKOL IS PUBLISHED TWELVE TIMES A YEAR FEBRUARY 2014 There’s good news and then there’s REALLY good news. During the last week of December 2013, the Beth Shalom Board of Directors and Cantor Sam Greenbaum signed an agreement to continue his employment as Cantor Emeritus for 2014. During this time frame, Cantor Sam will function in all those capacities he has afforded to our Beth Shalom community in the past. In a proclamation sent for our Chai Life celebration honoring Cantor Sam and Mona for 40 years of service with us, Rep. Gary Peters said, “From his mastery of the liturgy at religious services to his lessons as a teacher of Jewish education for members at all periods of their lives, Cantor Greenbaum has approached his work with a thoughtful balance of compassion, levity, and pastoral care that has enabled him to effectively guide members of his congregation on their lifelong journey in establishing a deep and meaningful connection with their faith.” The congregation is delighted to continue this relationship and may we together go from strength to strength. Marie Slotnick President SHELTER WEEK A HUGE SUCCESS! SEE PAGES 6-7

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The Voice of Congregation Beth Shalom

Marie Slotnick President

[email protected]

Robert V. Gamer Rabbi

[email protected]

David A. Nelson, D.D. Rabbi Emeritus

[email protected]

Samuel L. Greenbaum Cantor Emeritus

[email protected] Frank Lanzkron-Tamarazo Cantor [email protected] Sheldon L. Freilich Executive Director [email protected]

Michael Wolf

Director of Education [email protected]

Nicole Jahr

Gan Shalom Director Early Childhood Center

[email protected]

Julie Grodin Circle of Friends

[email protected] Arnie Weiner HaKol Editor [email protected] Congregation Beth Shalom 14601 West Lincoln Road Oak Park, Michigan 48237 Phone: 248.547.7970 Fax: 248.547.0421

Office Hours:

Mon.-Wed. 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. [CLOSED THURSDAYS] Friday 8 a.m. - 4 p.m.

email: [email protected] www.congbethshalom.org

THE BETH SHALOM HAKOL IS

PUBLISHED TWELVE TIMES A YEAR

FEBRUARY 2014

There’s good news and then there’s REALLY good news. During the last week of December 2013, the Beth Shalom Board of Directors and Cantor Sam Greenbaum signed an agreement to continue his employment as Cantor Emeritus for 2014. During this time frame, Cantor Sam will function in all those capacities he has afforded to our Beth Shalom community in the past. In a proclamation sent for our Chai Life celebration honoring Cantor Sam and Mona for 40 years of service with us, Rep. Gary Peters said, “From his mastery of the liturgy at religious services to his lessons as a teacher of Jewish education for members at all periods of their lives, Cantor Greenbaum has approached his work with a thoughtful balance of compassion, levity, and pastoral care that has enabled him to effectively guide members of his congregation on their lifelong journey in establishing a deep and meaningful connection with their faith.”

The congregation is delighted to continue this relationship and may we together go from strength to strength.

Marie Slotnick

President

SHELTER

WEEK

A HUGE

SUCCESS! SEE PAGES 6-7

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FEBRUARY 2014

FAMILY HAPPENINGS ... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Enhance your birthday celebra!on by joining us at the

daily Minyan (morning and evening) the day of your

birthday. Enjoy camaraderie, friendship and prayer.

We need your par!cipa!on and presence to help those

who have yahrzeit or wish to say Kaddish. Thank you

for par!cipa!ng in this very important Mitzvah.

** KIDDUSH ** If it is the week of a special

family event, or your birthday or

anniversary, please consider a donation

of $54 to help us keep our Kiddush going. Two

donations of $54 or one of $108 will sponsor a kiddush

of yummy treats!

NEW MEMBERS

CARRIE & BENJAMIN FLEISHMAN and family

AMY & JARED CHIMOVITZ and family

MAZAL TOV

To ALISSA PIANIN and BETTY PIANIN on the graduation of their son and grandson, JACOB

ALLEN , from U of M. To MARYLYN and BARRY STERNBERG on the birth of their granddaughter, Merrikk Ila Sternberg. Merrikk is the daughter of Andrew and Elissa (Lindow) Sternberg. To JEANNIE and PHIL ELKUS on the birth of their great-grandson, Noah Isaac Ferst. Noah is the son of Rebecca Elkus and Judah Ferst of New York. To ALICIA and RABBI DAVID NELSON on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Ami Nelson in California. To ARNIE WEINER and SHIRA SHAPIRO on the recent wedding of son Matthew to Elisabeth Mirer.

IN MEMORY OF

ELIZABETH WEISS, beloved mother of Steven (Linda) Weiss. AUDREY LACOFF, beloved mother of Ellen (Cary) Adelman. HENRY “SKIP” KOVINSKY, beloved brother-in-

law of Marsha Kowal. ART LANGER, beloved husband of Gail Langer, President of Beth Shalom from 1995-1997.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

5 Neil & Gretchen Weiner 13 Arnold Weiner & Shira Shapiro

15 Ralph & Maria Benaim

18 Herman & Adell Ozrovitz

23 Richard & Sherri Gelb

1 Phyllis Schwartz

3 Amy Chapman

3 Samuel Komarov

3 Natasha Telfer 4 Alana Doctoroff 4 Molly Mardit 4 Betty White

5 Susan Cohan

5 Jean Goldstein

5 Arnold Shifman

5 Sheldon Weintrob

6 Joshua Adler 6 Lynne Levine

6 Dana McDowell 6 Andrea Stierna

6 Diane Voight 7 Morgen Efros

7 Aaron Pickover 7 Nicole Rothenberg

7 Andrew Schildcrout 8 Beryl Perlman

8 Brian Yamstein

9 Susan Friedman

10 Yefim Beecher 10 Hershel Cohen

10 Melissa Kaplan Estrin

11 Ari Ellis

11 Phyllis Shapiro

12 Don Berlin

12 Marcia Tanzman

13 Aaron Brayman

13 Maria Sokol Staples

13 Brian Urnovitz

15 Barbara Sugarman

16 Jeffrey Milstein

16 Marilyn Weitzman

17 Teresa Beckerman

17 Phyllis Breuer 18 Aaron Kahn

18 Susan Moiseev

18 Jeffrey Salz

19 Zachary Levine

21 Madison Byun

22 Ethan Stierna

22 Lesley Zwick

23 Sophia Bernzweig

23 Helene Robbins24 Ariel Blake

24 Dana Nodler24 Marjorie Yaker 25 Marilyn Aaron

25 Zieva Konvisser25 Ruth Najer 26 Samm Wunderlich

26 Leah Zacks

27 Teviah Estrin

27 Mandy Friedenberg

BARUCH DAYAN EMET

Our congregation acknowledges with extreme sadness the sudden passing of Art Langer z”l. Art’s untimely death occurred on January 6 in Arizona at the age of 71. He and Gail were married for 28 years. Art is survived by his children, Robin (Christian) Goerrissen, Randee (Michael) Black and Debby (David) Schilling and grandchildren Marlie Fishlowitz, Julie Klein, Jacob Black, Kayla, McKenna and Nicholas Schilling.

Art was President of Beth Shalom from 1995-1997 and continued to serve on the Board of Directors as a Past President. He was also past president of MSU Hillel. As a member of Congregation Beth Shalom, Art was extremely generous to the congregation, both financially and with his time, as he chaired and served on numerous committees over the years. Art was also the co-owner of Medical Weight Loss Clinics.

Art’s presence in our congregation will be greatly missed and we extend our deepest sympathies to the Langer family. May his memory continue to be for a blessing.

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RABBI’S WEST SIDE

LUNCH & LEARN

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 18 12 to 1:30 p.m.

HILLEL DAY SCHOOL 32200 Middlebelt Rd.

Farmington Hills

The topic is the New York Times “Week in Review” and you.

$8 per person RSVP to the synagogue office by

Tuesday, February 11 Lunch and materials will be

provided

This year, February 1st also marks the 1st day of the Hebrew month of Adar. Adar is the month in which we celebrate Purim with the festive reading of the Megillah, wearing of costumes by children and adults, a Purim carnival, a festive meal and Purim shpiel. The Babylonian Talmud tells us that when the month of Adar comes in, our joy increases (Taanit 29a). Yet we do not always hold these celebrations on the 14th of Adar – the date for Purim. Instead, as is the case this year, we sometimes celebrate Purim a month later in the month known as “Adar Sheini” or 2 Adar. This happens 7 times in a 19-year cycle. The reason is that in Judaism we observe a modified form of the lunar calendar.

In late antiquity the Hebrew months were proclaimed by witnesses testifying before the Sanhedrin, the great court that originally sat in the Temple. Early on, the Sages recognized the need to add an additional month to the year so that the spring/summer holidays (Passover and Shavuot) would stay in the spring and that the fall holidays (Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot) would stay in the fall. This recognition came from the fact that the lunar calendar is roughly 354 ¼ days long versus the Solar calendar’s 365. Originally, the Sanhedrin might declare the need for a second Adar even after people had celebrated Purim. Eventually, the system was modified by Hillel II, who became the head of the community in Israel around the year 320 C.E. The system was then codified and we had the intercalation of the lunar calendar.

In this system, still in use today, we add a leap month seven times in a 19-year cycle. The years are fixed as years 3, 6, 8, 11, 14, 17 and 19. The year 5774, the current Hebrew calendar year, is year 17 in the 19-year lunar cycle and has 385 days – the longest year possible in the Jewish calendar.

The result of the leap year is that we celebrate Purim one month later on 2 Adar 14. This year that falls on Saturday night, March 15, and Sunday, March 16. While Purim may be a month later, we should still find ways to increase our joy in 1 Adar, beginning on February 1st. Happy Adar!

Shalom u'vrakha,

Shabbat Davening Schedule February 2014

Saturday, February 1 Cantor Frank

Saturday, February 8 Michael Wolf Saturday, February 15 Cantor Frank

Saturday, February 22 Michael Wolf

CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES

February 2014

Friday, February 7.................................... 5:36 p.m.

Friday, February 14 ................................. 5:45 p.m.

Friday, February 21 ................................. 5:54 p.m.

Friday, February 28 ................................. 6:02 p.m.

Message from Rabbi Gamer

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 4 noon to 1:30 p.m.

$15 per person

Guests are welcome!

RSVP to the synagogue office.

RABBI’S LUNCH & LEARN

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From the President … Marie Slotnick

During the month of February, our Torah readings come from the closing chapters of the Book of Exodus. We learn about the requirements for building the Mishkan (the Tabernacle), the establishment of a priesthood through Aaron and his sons, the receiving of the Ten Commandments, and contributions made by the people to furnish and adorn the Tabernacle. As he has been since the beginning of Exodus, Moses continues to be a central figure in this narrative. On the secular side, in February we take note of (“celebrate” may be too strong a word unless you’re a letter carrier) the birthdays of George Washington and Abraham Lincoln. As has been pointed out before, there are several parallels between these figures.

From Moses the prophet and visionary, Washington and Lincoln learned a similar sense of purpose leading to the deliverance of a people from tyranny and slavery as they earned their distinctions respectively as “America’s Great Liberator” and “America’s Great Emancipator.” Each of these men faced daunting tasks, utterly overwhelming at times, yet each turned to God for support and guidance and continued on out of a tenacious sense of responsibility to the greater good. To this day, these men are considered exemplar leaders.

So as we eat our cherry pie and dust off our stove pipe hats on the appointed days, let’s remember that the legacy of these presidents, at least in part, harkens back to Moses, our exceptional leader. And now, because you were waiting for it, here are two Presidents’ Day jokes: A teacher asked Jake, “Do you know Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address?” “No, I thought he lived somewhere in Washington, D. C.”

How did George Washington speak to his troops?

In general terms.

(Feel free to fire me if this was just too much to bear.) The Shop Around the Corner (1940)

Director: Ernest Lubisch Cast includes James Stewart, Margaret Sullavan, Frank Morgan, Joseph Schildkraut, Felix Bressart, Sara Haden, William Tracy.

The ultimate in sheer charm, a graceful period comedy about co-workers in a Budapest notions shop who don’t realize that they are lonely hearts pen pals. There are also twisted intrigues by other staff members. Superbly scripted by Samson Raphaelson. (96 minutes, black and white)

Please join us to help make the minyan at 5:00 p.m. and stay for the movie. You’ll have an opportunity to order dinner (self-funded). Popcorn and beverages will be provided.

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 2

MINCHAH, MA’ARIV AND A

MOVIE:

Help Make a Difference in a Child’s Life! SISTERHOOD

is thrilled to announce that we

are continuing

our partnership with Norup International

to provide tutors

for students in grades 1-8

If you are interested in participating,

contact Fran Hildebrandt

at [email protected] or 248.661.4179

Author Deby Eisenberg to speak

at Sisterhood Event February 24

Congregation Beth Shalom’s Sisterhood will host author Deby Eisenberg at 7:00 p.m. on Monday, February 24.

Eisenberg wrote Pictures of the Past, a compelling saga sweeping through Chicago, Paris and Berlin, reliving events from pre-

World War II Europe, but beginning in contemporary times. As the leader of an established Chicago area Book Club, Eisenberg challenged herself to write a novel that her avid readers could not put down and would love to discuss.

With a master’s degree from the University of Chicago, she is a former English teacher and journalist. Inspired by so many wonderful books and formidable authors, and drawing on her love of literary research, art, architecture, Jewish history, and travel in the United States and Europe, Eisenberg tried to envision a multi-generational love story that would inform as well as entertain, that would broaden the mind and open the heart.

Eisenberg and her husband, Michael live in Riverwoods, Illinois. They have three grown children and two grandchildren.

Refreshments will follow the talk.

The donation requested for the event is $5 in advance and $6 at the door. To make a reservation, contact Susan Friedman at 248.358.0137 or Phyllis Weeks at [email protected].

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Coffee and Crafts Every Monday night

at 7 p.m.

Bring any craft project you’re working on or knitting

needles and yarn if you want to learn to knit.

For information or to sign up, contact

Julie Grodin at 248.770.1074

[email protected]

or

Rachel Schwartz at 248.882.5640

[email protected]

February Fun

With all of the snow and cold weather we have been experiencing, it’s hard to get excited about another winter month! And yet, I am excited by the events that Sisterhood is planning for the next couple of months! Last month was Sisterhood Shabbat. Kol HaKavod to Bobbie Lewis! She was innovative and creative with the service, which made it interesting as well as spiritual for all of us who attended. Thank you to all of the members who participated and contributed to this special Shabbat. A special thank you to Sandra Lerner, Nicole Rothenberg and Kim Bernzweig who are responsible for the mouthwatering Kiddush lunch that followed our services!

This month should also be interesting and fun! I invite you to attend our February 3rd event at 7:00 p.m. when we will join Coffee and Crafts to work on our handicraft project. Anne Greenstein, chair of our Handicraft SIG, is hopeful that we will be able to knit and/or crochet hats and scarves to give to those less fortunate than us. This is a year-long project so if you can’t come on the 3rd, but would like to participate, please contact Anne.

On February 24th at 7:00 p.m. we will welcome Deby Eisenberg, author of Pictures of the Past. This is our opportunity to see where history imitates fiction and fiction imitates history. Deby, who is a member of Congregation Beth Shalom in Chicago, has written a compelling story about a piece of art stolen during WWII that ends up in the Chicago Institute of Arts. See the article on page 4 of this issue. For questions or to RSVP, contact Susan Friedman or Phyllis Weeks.

Speaking of WWII, on March 30th we will gather at the shul for brunch and to watch the movie, THE LAST HOPE: The Story of the Shanghai Ghetto. We will have the opportunity to listen first-hand to a survivor who lived in Shanghai. Look for the flyer that will be coming in the mail. For additional information, contact Phyllis Weeks at 248.470.4157 or [email protected].

I hope that you stay warm. I look forward to seeing you at our events. Please feel free to contact me by phone or email if you have any questions or comments.

B’Shalom, Fran

Sisterhood … Fran Hildebrandt

Sisterhood’s Craft Project 2014

For this year’s Sisterhood craft project we will be making scarves and hats to donate to the homeless. On Monday, February 3, during Coffee and Crafts (7:00-9:00 p.m.) I will bring two samples of hats with patterns; one for circular needles and one for straight needles. I will also bring a crochet hat pattern. Vicki Salinger will bring a crocheted hat that she made from the pattern. We will be using neutral-colored worsted-weight yarn, which may be purchased at Coffee and Crafts at $4 a skein for all of the hats and scarves. If you wish to make a knitted hat, please bring size 8 needles (either straight or circular, depending on your preference). If you are a very tight knitter, you may wish to get size 9 needles. For the scarf, please bring size 9 needles. If you wish to make a crocheted hat, bring size H

and/or I crochet hook. While I will be presenting this project at the meeting, it is not

obligatory for people to participate in this project. If you don’t wish to participate, then bring your own craft to do that day. Beginners are welcome! Vicki and I will be glad to help people with this project. Please contact me by phone or e-mail to let me know you are coming.

Anne Greenstein

248.626.7768

[email protected]

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I am proud to report that Beth Shalom hosted a very successful Shelter Week, Dec. 22-29, providing a warm, caring, and welcoming atmosphere to people who are experiencing so much difficulty in their lives. We had a total of 28 men and women and four children from South Oakland Shelter staying with us. Shelter Week ran very smoothly due to ALL of nearly 300 PHENOMENAL volunteers who gave their time and effort to make it a success.

First off, I could not have gotten anything accomplished without the help of my husband, Rob Grodin. Thanks to Rob for being my constant support, both at the synagogue and at home. Second, I would like to thank Cookie Chimoff for her expertise in the kitchen, assisting with meal planning and cooking. I truly could not have gotten by without her, along with the watchful eye of her mom, Shirley Bloom. A HUGE THANK YOU to Marie Slotnick and Donna Edwards, who were at my side much of the week, helping to serve, clean up and lend a hand. I also want to thank Susan Friedman, Doris Schey, Gayle Bialick, Wendy Pickover and Jeannie Milstein for their help with organizing showers times and rides for our guests. A special thank you to Sid and Jennifer Zack for karaoke, and to my friend and colleague Maureen Sundick for spending much of the week providing arts and crafts for our guests.

Drivers

A huge thank you to David Schey, Susan and Ted Friedman, Donna Edwards, Jeff Salz, Elaine Chesterman, Richard Polk, Sue Sugarman, Tom Hildebrandt, Rabbi David and Alicia Nelson, Tom Wexelberg Clouser, Marie Slotnick, Jeremy Salinger, Ken Bernard, Paul Goodman, Jan Wanetick, Mark Bialick, Don Berlin, Wendy Pickover, Rob Grodin and Howard Fridson, and Yefim Milter and Martin Weberman for driving throughout the week. I’d also like to thank Micheal Steingold for the use of his van and for remote controlled helicopters and cars for the kids.

Mattress Schleppers

Thanks also to Don Eizen, Jeff Salz, Ari Chesterman, David Rodgers, Aaron and Glen Pickover, who helped schlep mattresses and set them in classrooms and the youth lounge. A huge thank you for the Gan/Religious School parents, who helped to make the schlepping so much easier.

Spending the Night A huge thank you to Howard Marcus, Jeremy Salinger, Brianscotte Brooks, Don Berlin, Allen Wolf, Mandy Garver, Glen, Wendy and Aaron Pickover, Jeannie Milstein, Jan Wanetick, and Jermain Jones (Rabbi Nelson’s neighbor), and Joe Lewis for spending the night to be there in case our guests needed anything.

Kitchen Helpers

Thank goodness for all of our kitchen helpers, who worked tirelessly preparing lunches and worked to get the food ready and out to the dining room by 7:00 p.m. nightly. Thanks to Rob Grodin, Marie Slotnick, Rabbi Gamer, Maya Gamer, Susan and Ted Friedman, Shelia and Michael Levine, Richard Racusin, Adele Nodler, Shirley Goldstein, Merton and Helene Robbins, Fran and Tom Hildebrandt, Susan Cohan, Arnie Weiner, Martin Lederman, Vicky Salinger, Ilene Ross, Neil, Shari and Julia Zemmol, Ralph McDowell, Nancy Glen, Sara Berlin, Don Berlin, Rabbi David and Alicia Nelson (for heading our wonderful Shabbat dinner), Cantor Greenbaum and Mona (for assisting on Shabbat with songs and prayers), Marcie Kahn, Jack Kahn, Jeremy Salinger, Neil Cantor, Samm Wunderlich, Sheryl and Ken Gaynor, Char Gordon, Rosalie Cole, Lux Abrams, Chloe Abrams, Klara and Simon Shapiro, Ida Geyler, Sherry Kanter, Sara Resig, Debra Nelson, Henri Bernard, Joe and Bobbie Lewis, Sheryl Kaminer, Mark and Gayle Bialick, Cary Lieberman, Ari Chesterman, Eileen and Richard Polk, Donna Katzer, Esther and Bernie Hammer.

Shelter Week 2013

A HUGE SUCCESSFUL MITZVAH!

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THANKS TO OUR COMMUNITY VENDORS

Beth Shalom wants to recognize the community vendors that made donations over the week. We encourage you to support their businesses as they have helped to support us.

Chazzano Coffee - Cantor Frank and Lisa for donating all of the coffee for the week.

Platinum Dish - Paul Wertz for catering Friday night dinner at a discount for our guests and slicing three cases of cold cuts for the week.

Morris Kosher Poultry - Les Kleiman for getting the needed meat for the week at cost.

Jerusalem Bagel - Eric Zucker for donating 2 1/2 dozen fresh bagels every morning.

Royal Rent A Car – for donating the vehicle used to haul the mattresses and bedding to Beth Shalom (Woodward Avenue in Berkley).

The Bake Station in Southfield - for providing all of the breads, rolls, cookies and desserts at cost for the entire week.

Westborn Market in Berkley - for donating a case of oranges, apples and bananas.

Mitzvah Day/Christmas Day

A huge thank you to our fantastic Mitzvah day volunteers who worked tirelessly from morning until late into the evening on Christmas Day: Michael Lipson, Raesibara Ali, Sara Habib, David Rubenstein, William Antoun, Steve Elturk, Muhmoud Eruai, Shehir Anwar, Qadir Anwar, Stanley Michalik, Dianne Michalik, Char Kerman, Brian Kerman, Mark and Sandy Braiker, Sandy and Michael LIppitt, Micki Grossman, Dorit and Shimon Edut, Linda Kingston, Robin, Blake and Eric, Blake Zucker, Moneera Kassim, Sahar Aram, Zenobia Lee, Shouih Faride, Chuan Ma, Eric and Sherri Litman, Rachel, John, Kara, Muche, Azer Colakovic, Dennis Stern, Janice Stein, Steve Goodman, Sheryl Rosenfeld, and Shay Rosenfeld. Thank you to all those people who made Target gift card/cash donations and helped make a joyous holiday for our guests.

If I forgot to list your name, I apologize and thank you all from the bottom of my heart for making this week possible. Without ALL of you, this week would not have run as smoothly as it did. I also want to thank

Vasile, Sheldon Freilich, Marie Slotnick, Nicole Jahr, Cantor Sam and Mona Greenbaum, Cantor Frank and Lisa Lanzkron-Tamarazo, Rabbi and Wendy Gamer and family, Rabbi David and Alicia Nelson, Esfir Nozhnik, Sheryl Kaminer, and Rachel Schwartz for your never-ending support this entire week.

Thanks to our in-house media person Bobbie Lewis. Channel 7 and Channel 4 coverage was fantastic in covering Mitzvah Day. Our “Mitzvah” went out all over the country again this year. I truly thank you all!! This week was a huge success and Beth Shalom should be very proud! Kudos to all of you! This week was another fine example of showing that

“We ARE Beth Shalom!”

Thank you, Julie Grodin, CBS Shelter Week Coordinator

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SPONSOR A BREAKFAST

After Morning Services in honor of or in memory of a loved one.

� $60 for Monday through Friday � $150 for Sunday Contact the Beth Shalom office or Richard Racusin via email,

[email protected], 248.890.0635 (cell), or 248.968.8848 (home).

THANK YOU TO OUR

DECEMBER 2013 DAILY MINYAN BREAKFAST SPONSORS

1 Josh & Judith Adler in memory of mother, Hattie Adler.

2 Elaine Erdos & Larry Golob in memory of father, Phillip Golob.

3 Kim Bernzweig in memory of mother, Lynda Davis.

4 Dan & Irene Biber in memory of father, Max Biber.

5 Alicia & Rabbi David Nelson in memory of father, Dr. Albert Rhodes.

6 Judy Greenwald in honor of Sharon & Mickey Alterman's new home.

8 Alex Friedman & Roz Schwartz in memory of wife and sister, Elaine Friedman.

9 Andrea Blake & Janice Morgan in memory of mother, Mary Kempner’s, 1st yahrzeit.

10 Ernest Kappel in honor of his birthday.

12 Ted & Barbara Gittleman in memory of daughter, Sarah Gittleman.

15 Drs. Jean and Bernie Goldstein in memory of mother, Florence Sinkoff.

18 Esther & Bernie Hammer in memory of father, Ben Foon, and son, Edward Hammer.

19 Ken & Sheryl Gaynor in memory of mother, Ruth Gaynor.

25 Judy Greenwald to thank all the minyanaires for getting her through the 11 months of Kaddish for her mother, Lillian Greenwald.

26 anonymous

30 Jack Kahn in honor of his 70th birthday.

31 Pauline Markman in memory of her father, Louis Komisar.

Men's Club To Participate

In World Wide Wrap on February 2

Men’s Club

MEN’S CLUB FEBRUARY CALENDAR

DATE EVENT

Feb. 2 World Wide Wrap, 9:00 a.m. Men’s Club members showing students and interested adults how to put on tefillin.

Feb. 13 Intercongregational Men’s Club Dinner at Adat Shalom

6:00 p.m. appetizers and cocktails, 6:45 p.m. dinner, $54 per person. Speaker Charlie Langton, legal analyst for Fox Detroit and WWJ, who has won four Emmys and three Wade McCree Jr. awards for excellence in legal journalism and is known for his legal insights and humor.

For information and reservations, please contact Richard Racusin, 248.890.0635 M or 248.968.8848 H.

Feb. 16 Bikkur Cholim, 9:30 a.m., Coville Apartments (3rd floor, Prentis Apartments, Oak Park JCC campus)

Feb. 16 Men’s Club Board Meeting, 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Beth Shalom

Feb. 20 Men’s Club Media Potpourri, 7:00 p.m. Topic: Marc Chagall

Do you have a set of leather boxes and straps (tefillin) in a cloth bag sitting in a drawer or cabinet?

Did you receive or inherit a set of leather boxes and straps (tefillin) in a cloth bag from your grandfather or zayde or father at your Bar Mitzvah?

Would you like to perform the mitzvah of putting on tefillin and learn to wear these tefillin?

Then come to the 9:00 a.m. minyan service on Sunday, February 2nd. Tefillin coaching by the Men’s Club of Congregation Beth Shalom begins at 8:30 a.m. A sponsored breakfast follows immediately in the Social Hall. For more information, Contact Rob Grodin at 248.399.3147 or Richard Racusin at 248.968.8848.

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CIRCLE OF FRIENDS

SUNDAY MORNING CONVERSATIONS

FEBRUARY 2ND, 9TH, 16TH, 23RD

10:30 a.m. to noon—Gathering Place

Please come join us every Sunday to meet some wonderful people and engage in lively conversations. Everyone is welcome to stop by and bring a friend! We need YOU to

complete our circle!!

If you have ideas or questions, please feel free to call me. I’d love to hear from you!

Julie Grodin, Program Director

248.399.3147 (home) OR 248.770.1074 (cell)

We are concluding year three of our 3-year CSI 2 (Congregational School Improvement Initiative) process. Its purposes are: 1. To enable the congregation to re-

examine its education program, looking

at big-picture items in the school. These items may consist of such topics as: * What should the school be teaching in the 21st century? * Is our current school program model (i.e., hours, type of instruction, staffing, content focus, involvement of the clergy, connection-building between the students and the synagogue) working?

* Is our instruction really reaching the students?

* What additional help might our teachers need in being successful?

2. To encourage a “systematic” process that promotes school improvement in all areas that have a significant impact upon student learning. The major areas are: * instruction

* involvement in the school among all stakeholders (professionals, Board of Directors members, School Board members, parents, teachers,general synagogue members, and students.) * The school’s curriculum

* leadership

* The physical learning environment

We have high ambitions and high expectations and are excited to start implementing some of the recommendations for the Hebrew reading/Tefillah curriculum. We learn in Parashat Terumah that we are to “Cover it (the Ark) with pure gold from the inside and outside.” (Ex. 25:11) Raba took this as a metaphor for human behavior, saying, “Any scholar whose inside is not like his outside is no scholar” (Yoma 72b).

As we initiate the changes, we will continue to focus on our 2013-2014 school theme of Derech Eretz. We want our students to acquire skills and become lifelong learners, and we want them to be mensches!

Center for Jewish Learning … Michael Wolf

Due to space constraints, I will limit myself to the following app recommendation. There’s An App For That I Went Potty App

Potty training your child with an app! Now I have heard of everything. You can reward your child after each bathroom visit by holding out the “I Went Potty” button. There are many other features in this app. By now you have either stopped reading this, are rolling on the floor laughing or strongly considering downloading the app. Wherever you are in your child’s stage of life, this app may or may not be useful to you.

Gan Shalom Preschool... Nicole Jahr

The Gan Shalom PTA would like to send a great big thank you to everyone who has participated in our fundraisers for The Gan. Our cell phone collection is completed, but there are still other fundraisers in which you can participate. If you have a Kroger card, you can link it to The Gan. It doesn't cost you any extra and it’s easy to do. The Gan is part of a co-op with Door to Door Organics. Each week organic produce is delivered on Wednesdays before noon. If you would like to buy your produce in a way that helps to raise money for The Gan, please consider joining our co-op. Information on both of these fundraising efforts can be found on the CBS website under the donations tab. Finally, The Gan PTA will be running a mom-to-mom sale on March 23rd in the shul. If you are able to volunteer or would like to rent a table for the day, please contact the PTA at [email protected].

Thank you to everyone who has helped out. So far this school year, we have used fundraising dollars to buy new bikes for The Gan, to go on a Chanukah field trip, to have a Chanukah celebration, to have a ladies' night at Painting with a Twist, and to have an awesome night at our Camp-ish. It’s been a great year so far. Please consider supporting our future goals!

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When an important occasion arises, such as an Aliyah (Torah Honor), Birth, Bar or Bat Mitzvah, Graduation, Wedding, Recovery from Illness, Bereavement, etc.,

why not make a contribution to our synagogue? Please call the office at Sanctuary Fund

In honor of Sharon & Mickey Alterman’s 50th wedding anniversary

Charlotte Dubin

Esfir Nozhnik

MITZVAH MAN

Ceil Duchin

Congregation Beth Shalom

Stephen & Helene Greenwald

Mandy Garver & Allen Wolf Abby & Lawrence Rosenthal Rabbi Nelson, Cantor Greenbaum and all the staff at CBS

Dr. Herbert & Phyllis Mendelson

For Cantor Sam’s kindness and friendship

Shelley & Ed Kohl In memory of Pesach Wohl Rachel & Charles Growe

Ruth Gaynor Marie Slotnick

Susan Moiseev

Elizabeth Weiss

Sue & Burt Shifman

Adell & Herman Ozrovitz

Eric & Renee Zacks

Audrey Lacoff Marie Slotnick

Arnie Weiner & Shira Shapiro

Rohn Goldman

Manuel Rott Elayne & Harvey Urnovitz

Marking the yahrzeit of Sidney Berg

Ceil Duchin

Liza Kushner Irina Kushner

Morris Levin

Molly Levin

Adele Nodler Abraham Minowitz

Carol Minowitz

Morning MinyanBreakfast Fund

In memory of Elizabeth Weiss

Anna Lindemann

Linda Bell Marking the yahrzeit of Norman Schakne

Marilyn Schakne

Nelson Legacy Fund

In honor of The Bar Mitzvah of the grandson of Rabbi David & Alicia Nelson

Shira Shapiro & Arnie Weiner Sharona Shapiro & David Lerner

Acker Family Gan Scholarship Fund

In honor of The graduation of Jacob Allen from U of M

The birth of Jeannie & Phil Elkus’ great-grandson, Noah Isaac Ferst Marie Slotnick

In memory of Elizabeth Weiss

Caryn & Gerald Acker

Eileen & Irven Leider Kiddush Fund

In memory of Elizabeth Weiss

Dustin Friedland

Rheva Liebow

Eileen Leider & family

Marking the yahrzeit of Grace Schwartz

Roslyn Schwartz

Joseph Samuel Starr Alan, Mara, Ariel, Sarah & Dayna Starr

Shelter Week In honor of Rob & Julie Grodin

The birth of Marylyn & Barry Sternberg’s granddaughter, Merrikk Ila Sternberg

David & Rosemary Wolock

In memory of Manuel Rott Harold Norris

Norman Robiner Dr. Arnold Winshall Elizabeth Weiss

Corbett Edge O’Meara

Harriet Drissman

Leah Baum

Ronald Moss

Nathaniel Brewster Broder Rose Blank Sallen

Hon. Edward Avadenka

Elizabeth Weiss

Audrey Lacoff Rosemary & David Wolock

Marking the yahrzeit of Marvin Wanetick

David & Rosemary Wolock

Cantor Sam & Mona Greenbaum Concert Fund

Marking the yahrzeit of Beryle Walters

Anita Epstein

Social Action Fund

Marking the yahrzeit of Leo Lapides

Joseph Gorelick

Jerry Lapides & Arlene Gorelick

Circle of Friends

In memory of Elizabeth Weiss

Joanna & Eli Berger

Sidney J. Katz Fund For Jewish Education

Marking the yahrzeit of Sidney Katz

Anne Slossman

Marilyn Katz

Tarnoff Special Needs Fund

Marking the yahrzeit of Sarah Shifman

Max Shifman

Rosalie Gold

Zedakah Fund

Marking the yahrzeit of Jerome Coleman

Ronald Coleman

Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund

In memory of Earl Barth

Ann Barth & family

Lindsey Ann Shapiro Memorial Fund

In memory of Dustin Friedland

Peggy Shafir Connie & Ivan Fidler Marking the yahrzeit of Richard Bookstein

Mary Bookstein

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ROSH CHODESH ADAR Services…….……..9:30 a.m. Shabbat Experience for Families…………...10:30 a.m. Minchah/Maariv…... 5:45 p.m. Shabbat ends……....6:26 p.m.

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Men’s Club World Wide Wrap Religious School K-6 ……………….9:00 a.m. Circle of Friends….10:30 a.m. HAVURAH -SPONSORED SUPER BOWL PARTY

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Sisterhood Open Meeting/Program......9:30 a.m. Hebrew High 7-12.....6:15 p.m. Sisterhood Mah Jongg…….…..7:00 p.m. Nach Explorers….....7:00 p.m. Coffee & Crafts…….7:00 p.m.

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Rabbi’s Lunch & Learn ……………………..noon

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Sisterhood Mah Jongg…...12:30 p.m. Religious School 3-6……………...4:00 p.m. Exec. Comm. & Trustees……..7:00 p.m.

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Candle Lighting…….5:36 p.m. Kabbalat Shabbat.....6:00 p.m.

8 TETZAVEH

Services…………...9:30 a.m. Shabbat Experience for Families……….…..10:30 a.m. Minchah/Maariv…... 5:50 p.m. Shabbat ends……....6:36 p.m.

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Religious School K-6 ……………….9:00 a.m. Circle of Friends….10:30 a.m.

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Hebrew High 7-12.....6:15 p.m. Sisterhood Mah Jongg………...7:00 p.m. Coffee & Crafts…….7:00 p.m.

11 12 Sisterhood Mah Jongg…...12:30 p.m. Religious School 3-6……………...4:00 p.m.

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OFFICE CLOSED Men’s Club Media Potpourri…….7:00 p.m.

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NO GAN SHALOM Candle Lighting…….5:45 p.m. Kabbalat Shabbat.....6:00 p.m.

15 KEY TISSA

Services……….…..9:30 a.m. Shabbat Experience for Families………….10:30 a.m. Minchah/Maariv…... 6:00 p.m. Shabbat ends……...6:45 p.m.

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NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Family Program......10:00 a.m. Men’s Club Bikkur Cholim …………………….9:30 a.m. Men’s Club Bd. Meeting ………………..10:30 a.m. Circle of Friends….10:30 a.m.

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NO GAN SHALOM NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

Sisterhood Mah Jongg………..7:00 p.m. Nach Explorers…...7:00 p.m. Coffee & Crafts…….7:00 p.m.

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NO GAN SHALOM Rabbi’s West Side Lunch & Learn………...noon

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NO GAN SHALOM NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

Sisterhood Mah Jongg…...12:30 p.m. Exec. Comm. & Trustees……..7:00 p.m. Board of Directors…..7:30 p.m.

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OFFICE CLOSED NO GAN SHALOM

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NO GAN SHALOM Candle Lighting…….5:54p.m. Kabbalat Shabbat.....6:00 p.m.

22 Services…………....9:30 a.m. Shabbat Experience for Families…………...10:30 a.m. Minchah/Maariv….... 6:10 p.m. Shabbat ends……....6:54 p.m.

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Religious School K-6 ……………………...9:00 a.m. Circle of Friends….10:30 a.m.

24 Hebrew High 7-12.....6:15 p.m. Sisterhood Author Event……....7:00 p.m. Coffee & Crafts…….7:00 p.m.

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Sisterhood

Mah Jongg…...12:30 p.m. Religious School 3-6……………...4:00 p.m.

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Kabbalat Shabbat.....6:00 p.m. Candle Lighting…….6:02 p.m.