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This Talk Unfolds in 3 Acts.

1. Who we really are

2. The Alchemy of Relationships

3. The Power of Conscious Co-creation

Wake Up Call

Copyright © 2018, CEO2

The Final Question

The Quest to Reconcile the Drive of Our Ego with the Desire of Our Soul

Copyright © 2015 CEO2

Have I Been True to My Self?


How Would I Know?

You are Amazing

…deep inside you are a hero,

hungry to make a difference

In the world

You’ve been given a unique set of gifts,

and you might not fully understand

how special they really are…

You have a big heart and

you’ve been moving toward or away

from something your entire life

You ache for something more

Who am I?


Awareness

• Find a partner and pick an “A” and a “B”.

• “B” introduce yourself to “A” like you just met; your name and what you would like them to know about you.

• “A” Simply listen

• Take 60 seconds each and I’ll tell you when toswitch


Going Deeper Make a list of people you admire.

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.

6.

7.

Person Attributes or Qualities

Beside each name, list three attributes or qualities you most admire in them.

Circle any Patterns or Themes that emerge.


The Card

1. Loving

2. Courageous

3. Thoughtful

4. Disciplined

5. Smart

I AM

For me to be True to my Self, I must fully express

these qualities


Hi, my name is…

1. Loving

2. Courageous

3. Thoughtful

4. Disciplined

5. Smart

I AM

For me to be True to my Self, I must fully express

these qualities

Smile and say, “I can see that in

you!”


What would happen

If more and more people in

healthcare began living

from their Card?

The 3 Principles of Ego Power

Then you will finally be happyand secure and able to be more merciful

To be safe you must first have power, prestige and position and look out for number one

Then you can do what you want with others from a position of strength and respect

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The 3 Principles of Real Power

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To be Powerful in Your Life

You Must First Understand and

Master Your Self.

To be Powerful in the World

You Must First Learn to Co-Create

and Master A Game Worth Playing.

To be Powerful with Others

You Must First Understand

Humanity and Master Relationships

Your Ego Your Card

• Unconscious

• Reactive

• Fear Driven

• What we don’t want

• Perfection

• Experience & Beliefs

• Surviving

• Management & Control

• Conscious

• Creative

• Hopeful

• What we do want

• Progress

• Intention & Intuition

• Thriving

• Leadership & Growth

The Alchemy of Relationships

HC = P + P > S < P

No One Goes to Work to do a Bad Job

The Cycle of Mastery & Growth - Relationships

Clarity

Align

Engage

Renew

Relationship Mastery1. Must have common ground2. Know what’s expected3. Know where you stand4. Have the courage to engage

from your CARD

Human Communication

Exercise 1

• Pick a Partner “A” and a Partner “B”

• “A”, talk about something you love: a person, an activity, an idea…

• “B”, your job is to just listen (Do not speak)

• You have 60 seconds each

• We will let you know when to switch.

Review 1

• At your table

• In this exercise, how did it feel to talk to your partner?

• Who controlled this conversation?

• Where was the power in the conversation, in the speaking or the listening?

• What was the effect on the communication?

• You have 3 minutes to discuss.

Exercise 2

• Pick and “A” and a “B”

• “A”, talk about something you love: a person, an activity, an idea…

• “B”, Do Not Speak, but act as though you don’t care, you’re bored, you don’t want to be there.

• You will have 60 seconds each

• We will let you know when to switch

Review 2

• At your table

• In this exercise, how did it feel to talk to your partner?

• Who controlled this conversation?

• Where was the power in the conversation, in the speaking or the listening?

• What were the effects on the communication?


“In any communication

between people or groups,

the listener holds the power.”

— Tom Voccola

Three Kinds of Listening

• Listening for Information

• Listening for Compliance

• Listening from Your Card

Exercise 3

• Pick and “A” and a “B”

• Center Yourself: take 30 seconds to take a deep breath and presence the qualities on your card. Now…

• “A”, continue to say more about something you love: a person, an activity, an idea…

• “B”, Listen Deeply, from your Card

• We will let you know when to switch

Review 3

• At your table

• In this exercise, coming from your card, how did it feel to talk to your partner?

• What did you notice?

• What were the effects on the communication for the listener, and for the speaker?


Act 3: The Power of Conscious Co-creation

CEO

VPs

Mgrs

Clinical

Patients

$The Directive Organization

urvival

In On

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90 10

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In On

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Patients

Clinical

Managers

VPs

CEO

The Conscious Organization

Conscious Results

The 3 Principles of Real Power

Th

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To be Powerful in Your Life

You Must First Understand and

Master Your Self.

To be Powerful in the World

You Must First Learn to Co-Create

and Master A Game Worth Playing.

To be Powerful with Others

You Must First Understand

Humanity and Master Relationships

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EGO Your CARD

Choice


Lenne Bonner, CEO

St. Mary’s Clearwater

Hospitals & Clinics

Orofino, Idaho

You Are The One

Re-member

1. You are Amazing!

2. Relationships Matter!

3. Create a Game Worth Playing!


The Final Question

The Quest to Reconcile the Drive of Our Ego with the Desire of Our Soul

Place focus in Center

Go for quantity

Identify the 3 that

cause the greatest

disruption – the highest

priority

Mind Mapping

Angels

Kindness

The 6 Levels of Human Engagement

Managing, Controlling,& Reacting

Leading, Inspiring & Creating

2nd Tier: Leadership

We are engaged when we feel

• Part of a Game Worth Playing

• Challenged with Respect

• Appreciated for our Contribution

• Responsible for the Outcome.

Supplier & Customer Relationship

Your

Suppliers

Your Work

Group

Your

Customers

Inputs & Outputs

Your Work

Group

Inputs to your work group

Outputs from your work group

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3

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Awareness• At your table, select a facilitator, recorder and

reporter

• Spend a minute to jot down a few ideas individually

• As a group, create a mind map of what might be possible if everyone consciously came from their card

• Select your top three possibilities

• You have 5 minutes

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