tideings magazine - october 2012

JLNVB MissionThe Junior League of Norfolk-Virginia Beach, Inc. is an organization of women, committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women, and improving communities through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. Its purpose is exclusively

educational and charitable.

TIDEings - October 2012

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President’s MessageIt’s official.... fall is here! The football season is in full swing (GO REDSKINS!!), leaves are changing, fall annuals are being planted and the much loved Pumpkin Spice Lattes have returned to Starbucks. Oh yes, there is much to celebrate!

Equally, there are as many amazing things transpiring within the JLNVB! Our League has been recognized as one of the top 25 non-profit organizations by Hampton Roads Magazine for the “Giving Back Awards.” It was truly an honor to be among such great organizations, many of which we have partnered with over the years, including Leigh’s Friends, ForKids, The Foodbank and many more.

What sets us apart? We are not just women who want to transform communities, we are women with extensive training and skills to make it happen! Since the beginning of the Junior League in 1901, there has always been a strong emphasis on training and education. The JLNVB members benefit from extensive training in leadership and organizational development, communications, community needs assessment, advocacy and fundraising. Through this unique training, League members learn to manage and train volunteers, and strengthen their communities while forming partnerships with other organizations.

Again, it is humbling to be recognized in such a way, but it is no surprise to me. We are continuing our legacy of training in our meetings and retreats, available webinars and on the job training in volunteer positions. The JLNVB has completed almost 100 community hours in just over a month’s time. Everything we do is with the concept of “Giving Back” to our community in mind. Thank you for all you do and all that you give.

Best Wishes,

Melissa Steadman2012-2013 President

Junior League of Norfolk-Virginia Beach, Inc.


Important Dates

Monday, October 1, 2012 5:30 pm – 8:00 pm BOD Meeting

Troutman Sanders,Virginia Beach

Wednesday, October 17, 2012 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm GMM EVMS

Saturday,October 20, 2012 9:00 am – 5:00 pm Provisional Challenge Course

Triple R Ranch,Chesapeake

Saturday, November 17, 2012 10:00 am – 12:00 pm

Volunteer Day for Kids:Little Hands, Big Difference

Pembroke Mall Food Court

Saturday, October 13, 2012 1:00 pm ODU Tailgate

ODU, Blue Parking Lot

Monday, November 5, 2012 5:30 pm – 8:00 pm BOD Meeting

Troutman Sanders,Norfolk

Date TBDNovember, 2012 Various Times GMM Cluster Meetings Varied (TBD)

Date Time Event Location

Join the JLNVB Coffee Club!Tuesday, 10/2 - Cure Coffee House, NorfolkWednesday, 11/7 - Bean There Cafe, Virginia BeachTuesday, 12/4 - Perked Up, Virginia BeachTuesday, 1/8 - Bean There Cafe, NorfolkWednesday, 2/6 - Daily Grind, Virginia Beach Tuesday, 3/12 - A Latte, NorfolkWednesday, 4/10 - Java Surf, Virginia BeachTuesday, 5/7 - Elliott’s Fair Grounds, NorfolkTuesday, 6/4 - Bad Ass Coffee, Virginia Beach All gatherings are from 9:30am - 11:00am


Meet the 2012 - 2013 Provisional Class«Tara Reel is an executive assistant and joined the League to gain access to volunteer opportunities to improve the community. Tara resides in Virginia Beach.

»Shelley Streetman is an interior designer and joined the League to volunteer and make new

friends. She resides in Chesapeake with her husband, Michael, and their son, Daniel.

«Jennifer Kirby is an attorney who specializes in veterans’ law and joined the League to make friends and have an organization through which to volunteer. She resides in Norfolk with her husband, Patrick.

»Barbara McElroy is a pharmaceutical sales representative and joined the League to make new friends and give

back to the community. She resides in Portsmouth.

«Amanda Lloyd works in public relations for the City of Norfolk and as an adjunct professor for TCC and Strayer. She joined the League to meet new people and give back to her local community. She resides in Norfolk with her husband, Matt, their dog, Duke, and cat, Kitty.

»Marissa Hershon works for the Chrysler Museum. She resides in Norfolk and joined the League to make a contribution to the

community and meet new people.

«Susan Sobel is a nurse practitioner and joined the League in hopes of making friends and participating in community service opportunities. She resides in Norfolk with her husband, Lance, and their dog, Scout.


«Ashely Ripple is a nurse and joined the League to get involved in community service projects and to make new friends. She resides in Portsmouth with her husband, Jim.

»Jessica Van Nest is a stay at home mom who joined the League to meet new friends and

immerse herself into the community. She resides in Chesapeake with her husband, James, and daughter, Eliza.

«Erikka Masse is an attorney and joined the League to make friends and get involved with the community. She resides in Suffolk.

»Caroline Krohn is an engineer and pharmacist who joined the League to meet like-minded

women and give back to the community. She resides in Norfolk with her dog, Ginger.

«Mariren Fitzpatrick is a research associate at EVMS who joined the League to meet new women with similar goals and interests and to partake and give back to the community. She resides in Norfolk with her dog, Seamus.

»Becca Nall is an analyst with Capital Croup Companies who joined the League to meet new people and get involved in the community.

She resides in Virginia Beach with her husband, Andrew.

«Emily Webb is a Senior Development Officer with Operation Smile and joined the League to make a positive impact in her community and to meet like-minded women. She resides in Suffolk with her husband, Jarratt.

More of the 2012 - 2013 Provisional Class


«Kristen Strehlow is an attorney who joined the League to make friends and give back to the community. She resides in Norfolk with her husband, Robert, and dog, Gracie.

»Emily DeJaager is a licensed hearing aid specialist who joined the League to volunteer and

meet new friends. She resides in Virginia Beach with her husband, Eric, and daughter, Morgan.

«Kristel Todd is an officer with Global Commercial Banking with Bank of America/Merrill Lynch and joined the League to make new friends and give back to the community. She resides in Norfolk with her dog, Dexter.

»Stephanie Himel-Nelson is an attorney and communications director who joined the League to get more involved

in the community and meet new people. She resides in Chesapeake with her husband, Trey, and two sons, Hollis and Holden.

«Briana Cox is an artist and realtor who joined the League work with the local non-profits. She resides in Chesapeake with her husband, Patrick, and children, Caden and Aislin.

»Anna Mechling is an attorney who joined the League for social and community service

opportunities. She resides in Virginia Beach with her husband, Jon.

«Diana Peck is a Spanish teacher who joined the League to give back to the community and meet new people. She resides in Virginia Beach with her husband, Jason.


More of the 2012 - 2013 Provisional Class

«Amy Terzian is a stay at home mom who joined the League to make friends and volunteer in the community. She resides in Norfolk with her husband, Hillman, and two rescue foxhounds.

»Stephanie Johnson works in commercial banking at Bank of America and joined the

League to meet new people and give back to the community. She resides in Virginia Beach.

«Kat Womack is an Assistant Commonwealth’s Attorney in Glouster who joined the League to meet like-minded women in the community. She resides in Norfolk with her fiancé, Stephen Taylor, and dog, Abby.

»Tracie Liguid owns a marketing company and joined the League to volunteer and meet others of like minds. She

resides in Virginia Beach.

«Colae Green is a ballet teacher who joined the League to meet new people and impact the community. She resides in Chesapeake with her husband, Kent.

»Karen Johnson works in real estate and joined the League to give back to the community and

meet new people. She resides in Virginia Beach.

«Leona Meyer is an attorney who joined the League to volunteer to improve the community in a structured way. She resides in Virginia Beach.


«Angela Schultz is an architect intern/project manager who joined the League looking for a way to get involved and give back to the community. She resides in Virginia Beach and has two cats and a dog.

»Cassie Naddell is a teacher who joined the League because she wanted to volunteer and has many friends who have enjoyed their experience

with other leagues. She resides in Norfolk with her husband, Brandon, and dog, Lily.

«Michelle Putnam is a nail technician/owner who joined the League to give back to those in need and teach her children about giving back. She resides in Virginia Beach with her husband, Tim, and two daughters, Paige and Sarra.

»Alison Leithner is a stay at home mom who joined the League to meet people in the area

and get involved with the community. She resides in Norfolk with her husband, David, and son, Greyson.

«Cynthia McCormick is an Accounting Compliance Analyst at Amerigroup who joined the League looking for a fun way to get connected in the community, while making a positive difference. She resides in Chesapeake with her husband, John, and their dog.

News From the GMMThank you for making the first GMM of the 2012-2013 League year a great success! Judging by the energy and enthusiasm present last Wednesday, we can all look forward to a fun and productive year ahead. In case you missed it, here is a brief recap:

• During Merry Minutes, members and their husbands and guests enjoyed cocktails and dined on delicious culinary treats catered by Buttercream & Sprinkles, owned by JLNVB member Christie Ross.

• Melissa Baumann, Director of Interactive Strategies at CINIVA Web Agency, gave us some amazing tips on using social media to advertise and brand the JLNVB. Her training reminded us that our members are our best marketing tool. “Checking in,” tagging, posting, and tweeting can help us reach so many in the community! If you haven’t already, please like our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/JLNVB and follow us on Twitter at twitter.com/JuniorLeagueNVB.

• Signing up for a payment plan is easy for everyone to do! For more information, please contact our treasurer, Julie Stroh, at [email protected].

• Members voted to dedicate community hours to Junior Achievement (www.ja.org), an organization that provides programs in schools and after school settings to teach children about financial literacy, workplace readiness, and entrepreneurship. Our first volunteer opportunity will be Saturday, November 10, from 10:00a.m. - 2:00p.m. at Norfolk State University.


On Saturday, September 22, members volunteered at the Heart of Ghent 10K and Kid’s Fun Run, which was held on the historic streets of Ghent in Norfolk. This event rings in the fall season with a fit, festive, charitable, family-oriented run/walk through the scenic neighborhood. People of all ages participated in the event, even our very own Administrative VP Maura Boswell.

The mission at Ronald McDonald House Charities of Norfolk (RMHC-Norfolk) is to provide a “home away from home” for families with children facing medical challenges and to also support programs that directly improve the health and well-being of children. On Tuesday, September 25th, we were able to assist in that mission as members purchased numerous food items and prepared a delicious chicken and rice dinner on site for the families.

In the Community


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On the Scene with the LeagueOn September 8, 2012, the JLNVB hosted its annual Provisional Retreat. We are excited to welcome these amazing young women to the League! Learn more about them in “Meet the Provisional Class” section on page 4.

On August 29, 2012, JLNVB members gatheredat Empire in Norfolk for social hour.

Do You Want to Be On the Scene with the League?Sign up for the JLNVB Affinity Groups today to connect with your League members! There’s something

for everyone whether you’re interested in books, coffee club, dinner parties, doggie dates, lunch

outings, networking, play dates, a night out on the town or simply running around town! Sign up for

the affinity groups that interest you by clicking here:

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On August 30, 2012, the new Provisional class was invited to attend a welcome social.

It’s that time again! On September 15, 2012, JLNVB members hosted the first ODU home game tailgate in Norfolk. Join League members as we get together with our families to cheer on the ODU Monarchs on Saturday, October 13, at 1:00pm!

Many of you may wonder, what exactly is the role of an At-Large Director? The Placement Guide defines the role as, “the liaison between the membership and the Board”. This means that the Board of the JLNVB wants you to be heard. If you have an awesome idea that you would like to share with the leadership of JLNVB, please let the At-Large Director know. The At-Large Director can also clarify decisions from the Board that you may have questions on. Please do not hesitate to ask questions. The At-Large Director aides members in resolving membership related concerns or issues; however, please understand that the At-Large Director is not meant to replace your advisor - that is still your go-to person - but the At-Large Director is your other advocate within the League.

The At-Large Director is also here to share the many wonderful accomplishments of our League members. One of the reasons many of us joined the League is to be a part of a dynamic team. We want to celebrate our victories (in and out of the league) and also support each other in our challenges. We need your help in keeping the At-Large Director informed so we can continue to encourage each other. Please contact Ruth Elkins, our At-Large Director, and share your ideas and concerns. Ruth can be reached at [email protected] or (757)469-2971. Ruth also needs your Member of the Month nominations. She wants to know who is going above and beyond so they can get recognized for all of their hard work.

Thank you, Ruth, for your continued service to JLNVB and for the integral role you play as our At-Large Director!


Roles & Responsibility of the

At-Large Director

Submitted by Jamie Stump, JLNVB Parliamentarian

• Know Your Objective – Be clear as to why you are having the meeting and the outcome you hope to achieve.

• Set an Agenda – Clearly organize what items are to be covered and plan accordingly for the timeframe you have set for the meeting. Don’t belabor items or discussions that may require a follow-up discussion. Stick to the topics at hand.

• Invite the Right People – Be sure that key members/decision makers are in attendance (or have provided a report to be shared by someone else if they cannot attend). If it is not imperative that someone attend your meeting, do not waste their time requiring them to attend.

• Note Taker – Assign a designated attendee to take minutes of the meeting so they can be distributed to all appropriate members post meeting. This is a great way to keep those that couldn’t attend up to speed on what happened as well as keeping everyone on track with designated deadlines.

• Close with a Plan of Action – Briefly restate the assignments given to those in attendance with the assigned deadlines and make sure all understand next steps. Ask if there are any remaining questions & provide feedback.


A Guide to Leading a Productive Meeting

Meet with a Purpose


Easy Steps to Entertaining for ClustersSubmitted by Christie Ross, Creator of Confectionary Concoctions & All Things YummyButtercream & Sprinkles

I have a passion for cooking and entertaining. I love planning the menu, finding the perfect decorating accompaniments to accent the menu or theme, and the way it looks when it’s all put together. Of course, the most gratification comes from the smiles and happy tummies as guests are enjoying what I’ve labored over. Although it may be painstaking to tend to the tiniest of details to ensure my guests have the best experience possible, I take time to have some fun and I don’t let it become stressful. As November approaches, in lieu of our regular GMM, we will be attending cluster meetings at the homes of various JLNVB members throughout our region. For some, the thought of cooking and preparing can be stressful, but it need not be. Here are some tips for a stress-free party. I’ve also included a few of my favorite Junior League recipes.

Tips:• Keep it simple.

• Use the JLNVB cookbooks, Toast to Tidewater and Tidewater on the Halfshell, for recipe

inspiration.

• Michael’s, AC Moore, TJ Maxx and World Market, as well as local boutiques are great places

for decorating ideas and items; let your budget be your guide, but there’s nothing wrong

with keeping it simple.

• Plan your menu and create a prep sheet to stay organized; make as much as you can

ahead of time.

• Presentation matters. We eat with our eyes and the best tasting food will not be appealing

if it is not presented well. Don’t worry about all of the serving plates, bowls, etc. matching;

an eclectic mix is much more appealing for an intimate gathering (unless you’re going for

the catered look). Pinterest is a wonderful resource for presentation ideas!

• Don’t forget the ice.

• Garnish party platters with fresh herbs, edible flowers, and fruit.

• Most importantly, relax and have fun. I once read, “A relaxed

host makes for happy guests.”


One question I often get from people is, “How much should I make?” Here’s an easy guide (per person):• Eight appetizer pieces: appetizers should consist of two to three bites• Three ounces of dip or salsa (about 1/3 cup per person)• One and a half pieces of dessert• Punch - One gallon for every 10 guests• Beer, wine and cocktails - One to two drinks per person, per hour

Here are a few of my favorite Junior League recipes:

Chocolate Truffles (makes 6 dozen) from Toast to Tidewater

• 1 lb 2 oz package of OreoTM cookies, finely crushed

• 8 oz cream cheese, softened

• 2 tablespoons Grand Marnier liqueur, optional

• 10 oz German chocolate*

• 2 Tablespoons paramount crystals (found in candy supply store)*

• 4 oz white chocolate, melted

1) Mix OreoTM cookies and cream cheese with an electric mixer on slow speed until completely

mixed2) Stir Grand Marnier liqueur into cookie crumb mixture; mix again

3) Roll into 1-inch balls and place on cookie sheet lined with parchment or wax paper; freeze

for several hours

4) Place German chocolate in a double boiler over low heat; melt (Christie’s note: microwave

directions also available on box of chocolate)

5) Stir paramount crystals into chocolate as needed to thin for dipping

6) Remove balls from freezer; dip in chocolate, covering completely

7) Place back on cookie sheet with parchment or waxed paper and return to freezer

8) Drizzle firm chocolate balls with melted white chocolate for garnishing

9) Store in freezer in a freezer-safe container until ready to serve. The truffles thaw quickly

*dipping chocolate found at local cake decorating stores can be substituted for German

chocolate/paramount crystals

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More Great Recipes for Meetings

Marinated Lemon Garlic Olives

(serves 6) from Toast to Tidewater

• 1 jar (10 ounces) pimento stuffed olives

• 4 sprigs fresh oregano

• 3 cloves garlic, pressed

• 2 lemons, sliced thinly

• 10 black peppercorns

• 3 tablespoons lemon juice

1) Drain olives and reserve liquid

2) Layer half of olives, half of oregano, half of garlic, half of lemon

slices and half of peppercorns in a 3-cup container (Christie’s note:

large mason jar works well)

3) Repeat layers

4) Pour lemon juice over olives and add enough reserved olive

liquid to fill container

5) Cover and chill for at least 8 hours

6) Store in refrigerator for up to two weeks

7) Serve in a martini glass

Lime Tea (serves 8-10) from Tidewater on the Halfshell• 5 cups boiling water• 5 tea bags• 1 6-oz can frozen limeade concentrate• 1 cup sugar• 5 cups water• Fresh lime• Fresh mint

1) Steep tea in boiling water for 5 minutes. Remove tea bags. Ad limeade and sugar. Stir well.2) Add remaining water. Serve cold garnished with fresh mint and lime slices.

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Like us on Facebook at Facebook.com/JLNVB

Follow us on Twitter @JuniorLeagueNVB

If you don’t have a Twitter or Facebook account, don’t worry. The Communications Council wants you to be connected. If you have questions about setting up an account with Facebook or Twitter, please see a member of the Communications Council.

Get Social with the JLNVB!

The 1925 Society is an Annual Fund campaign and tribute to the anniversary of the Junior League of Norfolk-Virginia Beach, Inc. These financial gifts are an investment in our community and allow JLNVB to continue to train new members and create projects that meet the needs of our community.

Thank you to all of our past supporters and we hope you will join us again this year! Your contribution will be recognized in TIDEings, as well as on the website and at the Annual Dinner in May. For more information or to make a contribution, please contact Kristen O’Connor, Ways & Means Director, at [email protected].

Levels of Giving$500+: 1925 Society – Level III

$250 - $499: String of Pearls – Level II$100 - $249: White Gloves – Level I

Kudos to...We want to thank our Members of the Month for an outstanding kick off for the Provisional class. Betsy Glover and Kathleen Lujan were hard at work over the summer organizing the entire Provisional Year starting with the impressive Provisional Retreat.

Congrats to our members, Gretchen Ostroff and Sabrina Zimring, who are being honored for this year’s Inside Business Top 40 under 40.

Speaking of working throughout the summer, Hanan Mitry, the Placement Chair, has been hard at work completing everyone’s placement and assigning advisors before the new League year got started.

We are thrilled to announce the arrival of Parker Bell, born on September 7, 2012, to Jessica Antel, her husband, Matt, and big sister, Pearl!

Congrats to Abbe Malone on her baby boy, Gabe!

Congratulations to Danielle Musick and Christie Ross on their new homes! Please be sure to note their new addresses on www.jlnvb.org.

It is that time again to remember JLNVB during the United Way Campaign! Please consider writing-in JLNVB and your contribution will go directly into our Annual Fund. Below is the information you will need for your write in. This is a great way to contribute as most companies will match employee contributions.

EIN#: 54-6044966

Address: PO Box 956, Norfolk, VA 23501-0956

Phone Number: 757-623-7270

United Way CampaignHelp the JLNVB During the

Thanks so much for your support!

Shannon Wright JLNVB Fund Development VP


Our Sponsors

Battlefield Golf CourseChick-fil-A

Color Me MineCrystal Cardenas ZumbAtomic

GymboreeJack & Jill of America, Inc. Norfolk Chapter

Mad ScienceMove With Me Action Adventures

Potts ‘N PaintsTae Kwon Do Champions

Thalia Lions ClubThe Bounce House

The Felted PearThe Little Gym

American Diabetes AssociationAmerican Red Cross

April SethmannArlene & Shannon WrightAshburn Specialty Foods

Beach Kids Pediatrics

THANK YOU TO OUR PAST & PRESENT SUPPORTERS

Boy Scouts of AmericaCHIP

CHKD Healthy You for LifeChris Henniker

CINCHConte’s Bicycle and Fitness

Cox CommunicationsDr. Lucy’s

Eye Care OptometryGirl Scout Council of the Colonial Coast

Girls on the RunGolf Galaxy

Hot House YogaJason Bowman

Jim O’NeilKool Smiles

Precision Spinal CareProadjuster Chiropractic

PROforma/Angelini & AssociatesRandy Wright Printing

Stroller StridersTheater for Kids & Teens

Virginia Beach Fire & SafetyVirginia Beach PoliceVirginia State Police

YMCA97.3 The EagleBurtons Grill

CabotEdible Arrangements

JASE GroupJason’s Deli

Jim White FitnessKimberly & Ross Thompson

Oberweis DairyPembroke MallRichard Harris

Virginia Troopers Alliance


join us during the foodbank’s

Mayflower Marathonfor a jLNVB kids volunteer day:

“Little Hands,Big difference”

Saturday, November 17th 201210:00 am - 12:00 pm

Pembroke Mall Food Court

healthy snacks, crafts, games, sorting and delivery of donatedfood items to the mayflower marathon food drive

Plus: join in the fun of the Santa parade11:00 am @ center court

to DONATE kid-friendly food items,please contact Aisha Evans at [email protected]

RSVP via facebook at facebook.com/JLNVBor email [email protected]

The Junior League of Norfolk-Virginia Beach, Inc. is an organization of women, committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women, and improving communities through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. Its purpose is exclusively educational and charitable.

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