toastmasters: evaluate to motivate
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A little talk at the Executive Toastmasters Club of Makati, Philippines on How to Evaluate Speeches inspired by The Successful Club Series.TRANSCRIPT
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The Successful Club Series
Evaluate to Motivateby ACG-ALB Raju Mandhyan•Executive Toastmasters Club of Makati;•Club No:4086-71•February 06, 2014
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Good Evaluations Improve…
the Speaker’s Speaking Skills
the Evaluator’s Leadership Skills
the whole Club’s Learning Ambiance & Growth
Mindset Management…
1. It’s not about ME, it’s about HIM/HER2. I am not BETTER, not TEACHER.
3. I am an UNBIASED keen OBSERVER + LISTENER
4. I am a gentle, non-intrusive COACH5. My purpose is to Highlight Possibilities
. [“Can do”]
Evaluate Effectively: Preparation1. Before the speech.
• Read & Note Main & Specific objectives /project.
• Review and discuss with speaker.• Talk about special concerns regarding the
speech or the speaker’s ability.
Evaluate Effectively: Listening2. Not just Show but BE truly interested
• Listen with a willingness to learn, change, grow yourself• Observe gestures, pacing and facial expressions• Feel how the speaker must feel and must have felt
• Focus more on what was done well…C.O.D
• Note fewer areas where Improvements CAN be done• Evaluate speech. Judge not the Person / Beliefs
Demonstrate that you are truly interested in the speech. Exhibit your interest in the speaker’s ability to grow and improve.
Evaluate Effectively: Structure4. Structure simply to encourage and empower
• Open with a little rapport building / relevant humor to relax the speaker. Mention what you liked most.
• Commend & applaud HIGHER NUMBER of successes in the speech you like and explain WHY.
• Recommend LESSER NUMBER of areas that can be improved and show or explain HOW and the BENEFITS
• Refrain from overloading, repeating and speaking on behalf of the rest of audience.
• Summarize , restate the big success & encourage again.
Evaluate Effectively: Language 3. Personalize your language. Speak in first person to the Speaker but
address the Whole club.
Refrain from words like:
• “You didn’t…”
• “You should have…”
• “You could have…”
• “You failed to…”
• “But, However…”
Keep the evaluator’s mantra in mind. Say:
• What I saw• What I heard• What I felt
Use possibility language like:• “I believe…”• “My observation was…”• “I suggest that…”• “May I recommend…”• “Perhaps you CAN consider…”
Evaluate Effectively: Delivery
5. Be cool, plain and ooze with encouragement & enthusiasm
• Smile. Pause. Smile. Relax. Breath!• Speak plainly without grandstanding yourself or your skills.• Mind your body language or gestures contrasting your
words. Be truly sincere!• Demonstrate only if and wherever needed. • Refrain from correcting all the way to the end. Summarize
strengths and successes.
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In Closing
“To be a good speaker is to be sensitive to the audience.
To be a good evaluator is to be sensitive to the speaker’s spirit and to the audience too.”
Raju Mandhyan