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Page 1: Transition to Adulthood - Illinois Secretary of State · 2017-05-25 · Transition to Adulthood for Teens and Adults on the Autism Spectrum Presented by ... Slide developed with Marcia
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Transition to Adulthoodfor Teens and Adults on

the Autism Spectrum Presented by

Mi h l J h C lMichael John Carley

Founder GRASP; School Consultant; Author:Founder, GRASP; School Consultant; Author: “Asperger’s From the Inside-Out,” “Unemployed on the Autism Spectrum” & the Huffington Poston the Autism Spectrum & the Huffington Post

column, “Autism Without Fear,”

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OutlineOutline• Setup: The Situation on the Ground• Setup: The Situation on the Ground• The Autism Job Mess• The Schools That Prepare Us?• The Schools That Prepare Us?• Side Issues:

Socialization/Relationships—Socialization/Relationships—Sports—Disclosure—Libraries

• Closing (Perspective)g ( p )• Q&A?

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The Situation on the GroundThe Situation on the Ground

• The complexity of the Spectrum + DSM-5• Nowhere near adequate school placements q p

available• A plethora of butcherous clinicians• 1 in 68?• What’s out there for adults?• We have “Problems”

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Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton, Henry Cavendish, Thomas Jefferson Vincent van Gogh Ludwig vanThomas Jefferson, Vincent van Gogh, Ludwig van Beethoven, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, Emily Dickinson, Ludwig Wittgenstein, Alan Turing, Hans g g gChristian Anderson, Herman Melville, William Butler Yeats, Lewis Carroll, Arthur Conan Doyle, Erik Satie, B l B k G O ll P i i Hi h i h A dBela Bartok, George Orwell, Patricia Highsmith, Andy Warhol, Glenn Gould, Alfred Kinsey, Bertrand Russell, Immanuel Kant Piet Mondrian Wassily KandinskyImmanuel Kant, Piet Mondrian, Wassily Kandinsky, Barbara McClintock, Paul Erdös, Nikola Tesla, Sophie Germain, Dian Fossey, Andy Kaufman, Julia Bowman , y, y , JRobinson, Joseph Cornell, Benedict de Spinoza . . .

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Pr o-Cur eResear ch

Or ganizations Other Peer -RunGr oups and Blogs

(Very) Pr o-Cur eVaccine TheoryOr ganizationsg

Regional Par ents’Regional Par entsOr ganizations

S F i dlSpectrum-Fr iendlyResear ch

Or ganizations

National Par ents

Or ganizations

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Figurative Fights (“The Politics”)

• Language (ex: “Cure,”)• The Vaccine DebateThe Vaccine Debate• Aversives

R h? Wh t ki d f h?• Research? What kind of research?• First-ever Congressional Hearings on

Autism• DSM-5

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The Autism Job Mess

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The New Frontiers in Personnel Agencies

• Specialisterne

• Aspiritech

• Ultra Testing

• Nonpareil Institute

ASTEP• ASTEP

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“What do you mean by ‘mess’?”

• A handful of programs serving…100 per year?

• Working age is 21 65• Working age is 21-65

• 75-85% unemployment number

• A nation of 319 million

• Prevalence rate is 1 in 68

• = over 2 6 million needing to be served• = over 2.6 million needing to be served

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Ouch.

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Large companies…g p

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Large companies have entire departments dedicated to preserving civil rights inclusive practices andcivil rights, inclusive practices, and

equality on their jobsites. q y jThey are called

“Diversity & Inclusion” departments.

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How did we once (or how do we still) define “Diversity & Inclusion?”Diversity & Inclusion?

• Gender• Gender

• Race

• Ethnicity

• Religiong

• Sexual Orientation

Di biliti• Disabilities

• Veteran Status

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With one exception, the unifying principle is p , y g p plegal compliance

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And in practice? (My guesswork only) How many are focused onmany are focused on…

• Gender 95%• Gender 95%

• Race 98%

• Ethnicity 65%

• Religion 70% (predominantly Christian)g (p y )

• Sexual Orientation 45% (but growing)

Di biliti (10%)• Disabilities (10%)

• Veteran Status (8%)

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Employee Resource Groups (ERG)p y p ( )

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How do we define Disability?yVisible Disabilities:

Ph i l bili li i i•Physical – mobility limitations…

•Sensory – hearing, vision…

Non-Apparent Disabilities:

M t l h lth d i i t•Mental health – depression, anxiety…

•Physical health – diabetes, epilepsy…

•Learning – dyslexia, ADD…

•Developmental – autism spectrum disordersDevelopmental autism spectrum disorders…

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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In 2010, 411 Fortune 5000 employers were asked about , p yemployees with disabilities. A third perceive employees with disabilities to be more dedicated and less likely to leave the jobleave the job.

Dedication Turnover

35% MORE 33% LESS

62% SAME 58% SAME

3% LESS 9% MORE

Source: “The Employment of Americans with Disabilities” survey sponsored by the Kessler Foundation & NOD, October 2010

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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Silicon Valley Anyone?

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And why is there fear of non-apparent disabilities?

• Disclosure

• Accommodations

• ADA

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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ADA and Non Apparent DisabilitiesADA and Non-Apparent Disabilities

– Must be qualified for the job– Must be able to perform the essential functions of a

job with or without a reasonable accommodationjob with or without a reasonable accommodation– Must disclose the disability to receive

accommodations– Accommodations must be reasonable and not

present an undue hardship– Not IDEA

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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Other Laws (in the US)

• “100 000 Federal Workers!!!” from the• 100,000 Federal Workers!!! from the U.S. Office of Personnel Management, 2011.2011.

• “7%!!!” . . . US – Office of Federal Contract Compliance Programs –Changes to Section 503 of the R h bilit ti A t dRehabilitation Act: proposed requirement, 2013.

• Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act

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Crisis = Opportunity

75-85% Unemployment rate

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So why aren’t large businesses HIRING?

• Lack of Training (strengths, challenges, accommodations etc )—Confidenceaccommodations…etc.) Confidence

• They don’t get commended for nobly “trying”

• Top-down Initiative

• Love of leadership? Ha!

• They Don’t Have to + our salesmanship They Don t Have to our salesmanship _ _ _ _ _

• The elephant in the tub… “professionalism”

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Retention

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Three Types of Non-Apparently Disabled Employee

• Undiagnosedg• Diagnosed and undisclosed• Diagnosed and disclosedDiagnosed and disclosed

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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So why aren’t businesses RETAINING them?

It’s still too close to the “Don’t ask, don’t tell” days

Th d ’t k th i i (th t i ht They don’t know the warning signs (that someone might have a non-apparent disability)

L ll di i i Legally cannot suggest a condition exists

They’re not certain of what accommodations they can maneuver (cost, co-worker resentment…etc.)

Can’t successfully tap into increasing D&I numbers because they can’t earn the employee trust needed for disclosure

Fear of what to do when an employee discloses

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Why should businesses want them to disclose?Why should businesses want them to disclose?

•The cost of accommodation is so much lower than•The cost of accommodation is so much lower than typically feared– employers estimate that workplace accommodations cost on average less than $500 for an

l ith di bilitemployee with a disability

•The ability to discuss solutions with themy

•Every study indicates that companies that are more diverse have been proven to outperform their peersdiverse have been proven to outperform their peers

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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What would help convince an employee toWhat would help convince an employee to disclose?

•Trainings for managers and colleagues, thus convincing the employee that their differing behaviors and histories

ill t b d i t thwill not be used against them•Supervisors/ colleague/ HR staff demonstrating an understanding of—maybe even a respect for—theirunderstanding of maybe even a respect for their condition•Seeing other elements of D&I accommodated, valued,

d t dand respected

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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The secret to businesses addressing 90% of the challenges…

• Communicate• Communicate• CommunicateCommunicate

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Challenges on our end: “Getting”Challenges on our end: Getting

•Job skills trainingJob skills training•College programs not addressing the socialt e soc a•Keywords•Innovative materials? Baloney Be boring!!!Innovative materials? Baloney. Be boring!!!•Interviews! But seriously…•Networking—Who hires strangers?•Networking—Who hires strangers?•The LinkedIn generation•Like campus recruitment all social•Like campus recruitment…all social.

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Challenges on our end: “Keeping”

• The Hidden Curriculum• Executive Functioning• Sensory • Inability or discomfort towards Disclosure

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The Hidden Curriculum…

Understanding unstated rules in social situations that make us fit in.

•Information that most people learn without having to be taught“N V b l C i ti ” h•“Non-Verbal Communication” such as

gesture, or tone•Unwritten rules that most people understandUnwritten rules that most people understand•Knowing what other people might be thinking

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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Management Strategies for the Hidden Curriculum…

•Clear communication – write it down•Detailed job descriptions•Limited use of idioms•Mentoring•Rules help (and the importance of how they’re delivered)•Structured work environment

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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Executive Functioning…Executive Functioning…Mental processes that allow us to plan, organize, strategize, and pay attention to and remember details.g , p y

Includes:

– Organizational skills– Time managementg g– Multi-tasking – Transitions– Prioritization – Focus

Emotional Regulation– Emotional Regulation

•Can be seen as short-term memory Ca be see as s o e e o ychallenges•Not prevalent in all spectrum individuals

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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Management Strategies for ExecutiveManagement Strategies for Executive Functioning

•Clear communication – write it down•Detailed job descriptionsj p•Flexible work hours•Mentoringe to g•Structured work environment incl. breaks•Solutions revolve around going slow employeesSolutions revolve around going slow, employees taking notes, and supervisors providing written instructions

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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Sensory…

• Sight• Sounds• Touch • Smell• Taste

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Possible Accommodations for Sensory Challenges

• Lighting adjustments• Other workspace adjustments• Noise cancelling technology• Flexible work hours• Telecommute

Slide developed with Marcia Scheiner and ASTEP.

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Stinks to be on the spectrum, but…

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Everyone’s challenges at getting a job (6.0-6.5% is nonsense)(6.0 6.5% is nonsense)

•Long-term unemployed (includes 55+) •Discouraged workers•High % seeking disability•Job growth? Salaries?—Barely above the poverty line•Changing professions vs. inadequate high school + college curriculumsGl b l•Global economy

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Everyone’s challenges at keeping a job

•No job protection•“Adapt or die”Adapt or die

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Will these large businesses be the entitiesWill these large businesses be the entities that save us?

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Meanwhile (if unemployed)Meanwhile…(if unemployed)

•The woman from the Philippinespp•Forgiveness vs the cowboy culture•Learn a trade!Learn a trade!•“Lesser work” – Minimum wage, volunteer•Small biz (REAL growth) non-profitSmall biz (REAL growth), non profit…•Exercise, meditate, eat well, sleep well…

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Meanwhile (if unemployed) 2Meanwhile…(if unemployed) 2

•Take your freaking benefits!y g•Move?•BudgetBudget•Opportunity??? Self-employment, startups, back to school, get in a car…?, g•Momentum

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Parents should…

•Plan 15 years ahead, not 5•“Adapt or die”Adapt or die•Work it with your head, not your heart (politics example)example)

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The Schools That Prepare Us?p

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Inclusion Does Not Magically Work Out Without Effort

• “No Dogs! Dogs Bite!”• “No Recess!”• Evan and the License Plates• Jack at the Mall• Understanding a Student’s Perspective and

Experience, Rather Than Simply Try to Manage p , p y y gBehavior.

• Understanding What is NOT Within a Teacher’s Ability to Control . . . And what is

• Trust

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The New Yorker’s PerspectiveThe New Yorker s Perspective• Pro: Inclusion WAY ahead.• Con: Self-identification, and Self-Advocacy• Pro: We New Yorkers think we know everything.• Con: Money—Unsupported inclusion environments…• Pro: Greater sense of community

C• Con: Midwest not behaviorally pluralistic(GRASP study, emphasis on behavior [vs. rebellion], aides)

See any eccentric people running businesses?

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CollegesColleges

• Distance• Socially• Academically realistic• Office of Student Disabilities

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Ideal Self Advocacy is spirituallyIdeal Self-Advocacy is spiritually portrayed in schools and work as:

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Ideal Self Advocacy is spirituallyIdeal Self-Advocacy is spiritually portrayed in schools and work as:

“I need help.”

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Ideal Self Advocacy is spirituallyIdeal Self-Advocacy is spiritually portrayed in schools and work as:

“I need help.”

“I’m sorry.”

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Ideal Self Advocacy is also:Ideal Self-Advocacy is also:

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Ideal Self Advocacy is also:Ideal Self-Advocacy is also:

“Your only duty on God’s green earth is to getYour only duty on God s green earth is to get the hell out of my way.”

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Confidence

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Starting as early as possible...g y p

Opportunities toOpportunities to practice independence

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Socialization/Relationships

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Socialization:

Do We Really Want To?Do We Really Want To?(my Chinese-

American friends)

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Socialization:

Different Learning StylesDifferent Learning Styles

Visual Learner? Non Visual Learner?Non-Visual Learner?

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Socialization:

Different Learning StylesDifferent Learning Styles

All autism? Special Ed? Inclusion? Mainstream?Inclusion? Mainstream?

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Socialization:

Common Connections

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Sports

• Obvious physical benefit + motor skills• Arena where certain emotions are

appropriate (and where it is safe to apply them)

• Notions of competition• Hayley Wickenheiser and the school in

Houston• Confidence• No slight to the arts :-)

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Disclosure

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Why Do We Disclose?

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Who to Tell, Who Not to Tell

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HOW to Tell

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WHEN to Tell

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Obstacles

• These are judgment calls—We might make a few badWe might make a few bad decisions about who to tell, how when etchow, when..etc.

• The other person

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Libraries

• Usually, we like to read• Sensory-friendlyy y• Merging away from just the place where you

check out books. GRASP chapters...• And if the libraries are smart...redefining...

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No Diagnosis is “the Bad Guy”

• Anxiety• Angerg• Depression• And for us? DistrustAnd for us? Distrust

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“ ’“I know what’s going on with you you’ve just got too manyyou, you ve just got too many

wires…”

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“No, doctor. My problem is , y pthat the wires aren’t insulated

ll h ”well enough.”

--- A 5-year old boy ith ASwith AS

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Two Wonderful Words:

1 “So”1. So2. “what”

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Perspective

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Our Makeup

• Gender• Race• Economic Background• Sexual Orientation Sexual Orientation• Neurological Makeup• Quality of Supports• Quality of Supports• Culture

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Perspective

“Security is a superstition. It does not exist in nature. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.”

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Perspective

“Security is a superstition. It does not exist in nature. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.”

—Helen Keller

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Perspective

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F d—Freud

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