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Date: 2011-03-07

True emotion of body language

TRUE EMOTION OF BODY LANGUAGE

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True Emotion of Body Language

True Emotion of Body Language

Most of body language of people is hardly controlled. Some motions are natural reflection, combine with mind, sense and think of people at any time, any situation.

Otherwise, body language is easy to be misunderstood, especially in today’s society; we tend to look at body language and implications of it rather than words that were said.

Basic of body languages should be avoided when communicating as following

1 - Cover in Around Your Body with Some Effects

This motion show that you lack confidence, shy, isolated and passive. You always try to hide yourself before someone or something.

Let put your laptop aside, let put your briefcase down; don’t leave any effects as barriers between you and your partner!

2 - Watch the Clock, Mint Your Nail

You will make your partners discomfort if you look at the clock or mint your nail while you are talking to them. They would think you are very tired of talking, want to finish soon and also show your nervousness.

3 - Not Directly Face the Person You Are Talking

It show your discomfort or lack of interest. When we are happy to participate in a conversation, we must face those who are talking; our feet and body bend directly ahead of us. When we feel uncertain about others, or don’t want to conserve with someone, we tend to leave our leg and body direction to aside.

“Therefore, directly facing to forward in a conversation to give the impression that you are really interested in what others say”.

4 - Rubbing Your Chin While Looking at Someone

“I’m judging you…!” Everybody often rub their chin in decision making.

“Therefore, if you look at someone while you are rubbing your chin, they maybe think you are judging them; it makes the opposite discomfort”.

5 - Squint You Eye

If you want to give some the impression that you do not like them (or their ideas), squint when you look at them.

Somebody make the mistake of thinking that squinting in conversation is a reflection of deep thoughts.

Don’t send the wrong message to everyone!

6 - Standing Too Close

This just makes people feel uncomfortable (except intimacy). Keep distance between two people when you talk to show respect for private space of others. When you stand too close, they will help overwhelmed and exhibit discomfort at all (for instance, body odor or breathe odor…).

“Therefore, a reasonable distance between two people create harmony, comfort in the talk”.

7 - Looking Down When Communicating

It normally shows that you not interested. Sometimes it is even a sign of arrogance. If you take a glance down at your clothes in a conversation, especially in combination with search something lower, most people will assume that you do not accept their ideas and feel uncomfortable.

“Therefore, it always straight look ahead and communicate your eyes when you see someone you know. Posture is a sign directly showing your self-confidence and calm”.

8 - Touch your face in a conversation

Touch your face, especially on the nose; it is normally a sign of lie. Besides, cover your mouth is a common gesture shows that you are lying.

“Therefore, always keep your hands off your face when you are talking”.

9 - Fake Smiles

A sign commonly seen on the face of deception. A genuine smile has wrinkles at the corners of the eyes and changes the expression of the face, while fake smile only involves the mouth and lips. It’s easy to distinguish between two smiles.

“Therefore, don’t force yourself to a fake smile…unless you take the picture”.

10 - Don’t Fold Your Arms

Fold arms as if you were in defensive posture. It sends a message that you are threatened or uncomfortable and wants to end the communication; or you do not agree to what others are saying; this action may also reflect the conservative, intolerant of you.