understanding and intervening with students who bully
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Presented at the NYSUT See a Bully, Stop a Bully Conference on November 14, 2011.TRANSCRIPT
Amanda Nickerson, PhDAssociate Professor and Director
Alberti Center for Bullying Abuse PreventionUniversity at Buffalo
[email protected]/alberticenter
NYSUT “See a Bully, Stop a Bully”November 14, 2011
Bullying: Definition, Types, Prevalence
Understanding Students who Bully
Preventing Bullying
Responding/Intervening
Working it Through: Case Scenarios
Intentional, usually repeated acts of verbal, physical, or written aggression by a peer (or group of peers) operating from a position of strength or power with the goal of hurting the victim physically or damaging status and/or social reputation
Olweus (1978); United States Department of Education (1998)
Physical bullying• punching, shoving, acts that hurt people
Verbal bullying• name calling, making offensive remarks
Indirect bullying• spreading rumors, excluding, ganging up
Cyber bullying• willful and repeated harm inflicted through the
use of computers, cell phones, and other electronic devices
Hinduja & Patchin (2009)
Teasing: Fun, good-natured, “give-and-take” between friends to get both parties to laugh
Bullying: Based on a power imbalance; intent to cause psychological or physical harm; usually repeated
Conflict: A struggle, dispute, or misunderstanding between two equal forces
Estimates vary WIDELY, but according to student self-report...
•20-25% have bulliedat least once
•5-20% bully consistently
Pre-K through late high school (and beyond); peaks in middle school • Physical bullying declines as children get older• Social, verbal, and cyberbullying continue
through high school
Anywhere; most likely in less closely supervised areas • Bus, locker room, playground,
lunch, hallways, and everywhere(for cyberbullying)
Boys• More direct, physical bullying• Bully more frequently than girls• Bully both boys and girls
Girls• More indirect • More subtle, hard to detect, and often occurs in
groups• Tend to target other girls of the same age• Cyberbullying slightly more common than for
males
Banks (2000); Cook, Williams, Guerra, Kim, & Sadek, (2010); Crick & Grotpeter, (1995); Hinduja & Patchi (2009); Hoover & Oliver, (1996); Nansel et al., (2001); Olweus, (2002);
Underwood, (2003)
Desire for power and control Get satisfaction from others’ suffering Justify their behavior (“he deserved it”) Lack empathy Have positive views about aggression More likely to be depressed Engage in other risky and delinquent
behaviors•Alcohol and drug use•Fighting
Batsche & Knoff (1994); Beaver, Perron, & Howard, (2010); Olweus (1993); Swearer et al. (in press); Vaughn, Bender, DeLisi, (in press)
“Popular”
(Source: Jean Healey, 2006)
Often popular, high social status
Report average self-esteem and believe they are superior • Most do NOT lack
self-esteem
However, also report being less engaged in school, less supported by others, more depressed
There may be…• Less warmth, involvement, and/or
supervision• Lack of clear, consistent rules• Harsh/corporal punishment• Parental discord• Domestic violence/child abuse
Olweus, Limber, & Mihalic (1999)
More likely to experience legal or criminal troubles as adults (even after controlling for other risk factors)
Poor ability to develop and maintain positive relationships in later life
Andershed, Kerr, & Stattin (2001); Farrington (2009);Farrington, & Ttofi (2009, 2011); Oliver, Hoover, & Hazler
(1994); Olweus (1993); Ttofi & Farrington (2008)
Protective factors:• Social support• Positive school climate• Involvement in extracurricular activities• Supportive family
Swearer, Espelage, & Napolitano (2009)
Some evidence to support effectiveness of school bullying interventions in enhancing…
• Teacher knowledge• Efficacy in intervention skills• Behavior in responding to incidences of
bullying• To a lesser extent, reduction of participation
of students in bully and victim roles
Merrell, Gueldner, Ross, & Isava, 2008 meta-analysis
Ttofi & Farrington, 2011 meta-analysis
On average, bullying decreased by 20-30% and victimization 17-20% through the use of school-based interventions
Best results for programs that are:• intensive and long-lasting• carefully monitored for fidelity of
implementation• assessed regularly (2x monthly)• evidence-based • inclusive of parent training activities
Studies use mostly student self-report, teacher self-report, and sociometrics
Not very many true experimental designs
“the overarching message is that intervention can succeed, but not
enough is known to indicate exactly how and when…”
Brief assemblies or one-day awareness raising events
Zero-tolerance policies• May result in under-reporting bullying• Limited evidence in curbing bullying behavior
Peer mediation, peer-led conflict resolution• Many programs that used this approach actually saw
an increase in victimization• Grouping children who bully together may actually
reinforce this behavior
Dodge, Dishion, & Lansford, (2006); Farrington & Ttofi, (2009); Nansel et al., (2001)
Definitions Statement about expected behaviors
and prohibitions Reporting procedure Investigation and disciplinary actions
• Continuum of consequences and interventions Training and prevention procedures Assistance for target
See handout of Sample Bullying Policy and Language
Model appropriate interpersonal behavior
Encourage students to make positive comments towards others
Create opportunities for popular students and rejected students to work together toward a common goal
Promote acceptance of individual differences Educate children about bullying Have anonymous system to report bullying Strive for a consistent response from all adults
Brown et al.(2001); Coloroso (2003)
Intervene immediately (get assistance if needed)
Talk to the bully and victim separately • Avoid peer mediation or conflict resolution
Report to the proper person
Consult with other staff members (e.g., teachers, psychologists/counselors, administrators)
Remove from situation Expect denial Focus on the behavior (not on the person) Inform student about consequences
• Apologize to victim and make plan for preventing problem in future
• Discuss incident with teacher, administrator, or parent• Pay for damaged belongings• Spend time in office or another classroom• Lose privilege (e.g., unable to play in sports game)
Communicate with parents
Focus on the behavior (not the person) Avoid blaming or judging (expect denial)
Emphasize how this type of behavior can be a problem for their child, the other person, and the school environment
Inform parent about school response Work together to help child behave in
other ways
Stay calmDiscuss the event with your child, but avoid interrogatingHelp child manage emotions and views of othersMeet and work with your child’s teachers Apply clear, meaningful consequences
•Loss of privilege, restore/repair damage, plan for changed behavior in future
Encourage use of power for good deeds• Community service
Increase supervision and encourage self-monitoringReinforce and reward positive and accepting behaviorsLook at role models in home and peer groupBalance high expectations for behavior with warmth and supportIf needed, seek professional counseling for child and family
Bullying others is• A way of feeling powerful • A tool for gaining popularity• Learned behavior • Rewarded and expected
Functional behavioral assessment•Antecedents, behaviors, consequences
Psychological assessment (interviews, observations, standardized measures)•Depression•Anxiety•Aggression•Cognitive distortions•Social skills•Bullying/victimization
Swearer, Espelage, & Napolitano (2009)
Increase empathy and perspective taking
Change attitudes towards aggression
Teach problem-solving to manage emotions
Cognitive restructuring for problematic attributions (e.g., “He deserved it”)
See Bullying Intervention Program www.targetbully.com/Intervention_Program.php
Form small groups (4-5 people) Review case scenarios and discuss
answers to questions Be prepared to share responses with
larger group
“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”
- Margaret Mead