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WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers Parenting with Confidence, Connection and Compassion Copyright © 2012 Parent Empowerment LLC. All rights reserved. Kim Griffith, MA, BCC Parent Empowerment Coach

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Page 1: WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers Parenting with Confidence, Connection and Compassion Copyright © 2012 Parent Empowerment LLC. All rights reserved

WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers

Parenting with Confidence, Connection and Compassion

Copyright © 2012 Parent Empowerment LLC. All rights reserved.

Kim Griffith, MA, BCCParent Empowerment Coach

Page 2: WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers Parenting with Confidence, Connection and Compassion Copyright © 2012 Parent Empowerment LLC. All rights reserved

Key Objectives1. What causes Triggers and why?

2. Benefits of the WAVE™

3. 3 core principles that make it easier to learn the WAVE™

4. Discover how partnership, connection & empathy impacts your parenting.

5. Learn the first step to get calm and regulated when triggered.

6. Find out how your values affect balancing your needs with your child's needs.

7. My special “challenge-buster” offer

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Kim, Scout and Satori

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Break through any parenting challenge and be the parent

you really want to be!

The W.A.V.E.™Witness • Accept • Validate • Empower

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• Parenting history• Trauma• Out of alignment• Tired, hungry

and/or stressed

Why is parenting so challenging?What causes emotional triggers?

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Survival Mode

Fight – Flight – Freeze

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Parenting is a partnership between parent and child.

Live authentically in alignment with your values and priorities.

Every parenting challenge is an opportunity for growth.

3 Principles for Learning the WAVE™:

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Parenting is a partnership between parent and child.

Partnership ParadigmSets a foundation for trust, respect and security

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Partnership ParadigmSets a foundation of trust, respect and security

1. Not permissive and not authoritative

2. On the same team – we work together

3. Believing that we both have something to teach each other

4. Mutual respect

5. Feel safe/CREATING CONNECTION

6. Non-judgmental/CREATING EMPATHY

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ConnectionWe are born hard-wired for connection.

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Empathy Identification with and understanding of

another's situation, feelings, and motives.

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Parenting is a partnership between parent and child.

Live authentically in alignment with your values and

priorities.

Every parenting challenge is an opportunity for growth.

3 Principles for Learning the WAVE™:

Page 14: WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers Parenting with Confidence, Connection and Compassion Copyright © 2012 Parent Empowerment LLC. All rights reserved

Parenting is a partnership between parent and child.

Live authentically in alignment with your values and priorities.

Every parenting challenge is an opportunity for growth.

3 Principles for Learning the WAVE™:

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The W.A.V.E.™Witness • Accept • Validate • Empower

Break through any parenting challenge and be the parent

you really want to be!

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WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers

WITNESS

Step outside your reactions and OBSERVE yourself and

what’s going on.

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WAVE Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers

ACCEPT

Acknowledge the REALITY of what’s going on without judging it …

willing to BE with what is actually happening.

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WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers

VALIDATE

Recognize, understand and communicate (reflect) the

validity of your experience and your child’s experience.

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WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers

EMPOWEREnvision what really matters and

the outcome you want for yourself and your child.

Come to a creative, win-win solution or next step to take.

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"After just a few sessions working with Kim, I have enjoyed a new level of confidence and comfort with my parenting style.

Using the WAVE™ technique, Kim has helped me move through some long standing emotional blocks, and I have

seen remarkable results in my increased connection with my family, and also in other aspects of my life, such as in my

career as a performer."

A.C. - Forney, TX

The WAVE™ Process

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WAVE™ Goodbye to Your Emotional Triggers

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The Benefits of The WAVE™ …- Understand and handle your emotional triggers more

efficiently

- Improves your ability to calm down, handle stress and get regulated

- Increase your ability to use intrinsic discipline and motivation

- Have more confidence and trust in challenging times

- Increase the respect between yourself and your child

- Feel greater connection and more compassion

- Develop and use better communication - your child will respond and really hear you

- Enjoy more flow, ease, humor and joy throughout your day

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Parenting Challenge-Busterwww.parentempowermentcoach.com

Got a situation with your child you are itching to improve?

Call me for a complimentary 15-minute

A SPECIAL GIFT FOR YOU:

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Tele-Class A: Tuesdays, 12:00 noon - 1:30pm (CentralTime)February 21 - March 27 2012

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