what a girl wants…what a girl wants…what a girl wants…what a girl wants…

We are ___________ to be We are ___________ to be in a relationship with one in a relationship with one

another. another.

We are ___________ to be We are ___________ to be in a relationship with one in a relationship with one

another. another.

DESIGNEDDESIGNED

The LORD God said: "It The LORD God said: "It is not good for the man is not good for the man to be alone." to be alone."

The LORD God said: "It The LORD God said: "It is not good for the man is not good for the man to be alone." to be alone."

Genesis 2:18Genesis 2:18Genesis 2:18Genesis 2:18

We are designed with ______________We are designed with ______________We are designed with ______________We are designed with ______________DIFFERENCESDIFFERENCES

MALEMALEMALEMALE FEMALEFEMALEFEMALEFEMALE

- DOMESTIC SUPPORT

- DOMESTIC SUPPORT

- HONESTY AND OPENNESS

- HONESTY AND OPENNESS

- ADMIRATION AND RESPECT

- ADMIRATION AND RESPECT

- FAMILY COMMITMENT- FAMILY COMMITMENT

- SEX- SEX - AFFECTION- AFFECTION

- RECREATION- RECREATION - CONVERSATION- CONVERSATION

- ATTRACTIVENESS OF SPOUSE

- ATTRACTIVENESS OF SPOUSE

- FINANCIAL SUPPORT- FINANCIAL SUPPORT

So God created people in his own So God created people in his own image; God patterned them after image; God patterned them after himself; male and female he himself; male and female he created them.created them.

So God created people in his own So God created people in his own image; God patterned them after image; God patterned them after himself; male and female he himself; male and female he created them.created them.

Genesis 1:27Genesis 1:27Genesis 1:27Genesis 1:27

““So Jesus left the Judean countryside and So Jesus left the Judean countryside and went back to Galilee. To get there, he had to went back to Galilee. To get there, he had to pass through Samaria. He came into Sychar, a pass through Samaria. He came into Sychar, a Samaritan village. Jacob's well was still there. Samaritan village. Jacob's well was still there. Jesus, worn out by the trip, sat down at the Jesus, worn out by the trip, sat down at the well. It was noon. A woman, a Samaritan, well. It was noon. A woman, a Samaritan, came to draw water. Jesus said, "Would you came to draw water. Jesus said, "Would you give me a drink of water?" The Samaritan give me a drink of water?" The Samaritan woman, taken aback, asked, "How come you, woman, taken aback, asked, "How come you, a Jew, are asking me, a Samaritan woman, for a Jew, are asking me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?" a drink?"

““So Jesus left the Judean countryside and So Jesus left the Judean countryside and went back to Galilee. To get there, he had to went back to Galilee. To get there, he had to pass through Samaria. He came into Sychar, a pass through Samaria. He came into Sychar, a Samaritan village. Jacob's well was still there. Samaritan village. Jacob's well was still there. Jesus, worn out by the trip, sat down at the Jesus, worn out by the trip, sat down at the well. It was noon. A woman, a Samaritan, well. It was noon. A woman, a Samaritan, came to draw water. Jesus said, "Would you came to draw water. Jesus said, "Would you give me a drink of water?" The Samaritan give me a drink of water?" The Samaritan woman, taken aback, asked, "How come you, woman, taken aback, asked, "How come you, a Jew, are asking me, a Samaritan woman, for a Jew, are asking me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?" a drink?"

John 4John 4John 4John 4

Jesus shows __________Jesus shows __________Jesus shows __________Jesus shows __________RESPECTRESPECT

Jesus replied, "If you only knew the gift God Jesus replied, "If you only knew the gift God has for you and who I am, you would ask me, has for you and who I am, you would ask me,

and I would give you living water." and I would give you living water." "Please sir,” the woman said,“give me some of "Please sir,” the woman said,“give me some of

that water! Then I'll never be thirsty again, and I that water! Then I'll never be thirsty again, and I won't have to come here to haul water." won't have to come here to haul water."

Go and get your husband," Jesus told her. "I Go and get your husband," Jesus told her. "I don't have a husband," the woman replied. don't have a husband," the woman replied. Jesus said, "You're right! You don't have a Jesus said, "You're right! You don't have a

husband - for you have had 5 husbands, and husband - for you have had 5 husbands, and you aren't even married to the man you're living you aren't even married to the man you're living

with now." with now."

Jesus replied, "If you only knew the gift God Jesus replied, "If you only knew the gift God has for you and who I am, you would ask me, has for you and who I am, you would ask me,

and I would give you living water." and I would give you living water." "Please sir,” the woman said,“give me some of "Please sir,” the woman said,“give me some of

that water! Then I'll never be thirsty again, and I that water! Then I'll never be thirsty again, and I won't have to come here to haul water." won't have to come here to haul water."

Go and get your husband," Jesus told her. "I Go and get your husband," Jesus told her. "I don't have a husband," the woman replied. don't have a husband," the woman replied. Jesus said, "You're right! You don't have a Jesus said, "You're right! You don't have a

husband - for you have had 5 husbands, and husband - for you have had 5 husbands, and you aren't even married to the man you're living you aren't even married to the man you're living

with now." with now." John 4:10-18John 4:10-18John 4:10-18John 4:10-18

Jesus wants to Jesus wants to _______ her_______ her

Jesus wants to Jesus wants to _______ her_______ herKNOWKNOW

"Sir," the woman said, "you must be a "Sir," the woman said, "you must be a prophet… "I know the Messiah will come—the prophet… "I know the Messiah will come—the one who is called Christ. When he comes, he one who is called Christ. When he comes, he will explain everything to us." Then Jesus told will explain everything to us." Then Jesus told her, "I am the Messiah!" Just then his disciples her, "I am the Messiah!" Just then his disciples arrived. They were astonished to find him arrived. They were astonished to find him talking to a woman, but none of them asked talking to a woman, but none of them asked him why he was doing it or what they had been him why he was doing it or what they had been discussing. The woman left her water jar discussing. The woman left her water jar beside the well and went back to the village beside the well and went back to the village and told everyone, "Come and meet a man and told everyone, "Come and meet a man who told me everything I ever did! Can this be who told me everything I ever did! Can this be the Messiah?" the Messiah?"

"Sir," the woman said, "you must be a "Sir," the woman said, "you must be a prophet… "I know the Messiah will come—the prophet… "I know the Messiah will come—the one who is called Christ. When he comes, he one who is called Christ. When he comes, he will explain everything to us." Then Jesus told will explain everything to us." Then Jesus told her, "I am the Messiah!" Just then his disciples her, "I am the Messiah!" Just then his disciples arrived. They were astonished to find him arrived. They were astonished to find him talking to a woman, but none of them asked talking to a woman, but none of them asked him why he was doing it or what they had been him why he was doing it or what they had been discussing. The woman left her water jar discussing. The woman left her water jar beside the well and went back to the village beside the well and went back to the village and told everyone, "Come and meet a man and told everyone, "Come and meet a man who told me everything I ever did! Can this be who told me everything I ever did! Can this be the Messiah?" the Messiah?"

Jesus totally Jesus totally ________________________

Jesus totally Jesus totally ________________________ACCEPTSACCEPTS

how you how you ____________how you how you ____________LOOKLOOK

world’s way (lies)world’s way (lies)world’s way (lies)world’s way (lies)

==== how you are how you are acceptedaccepted

how you are how you are acceptedaccepted

how you how you ______________________

how you how you ______________________PERFORMPERFORM ==== how you are how you are

acceptedacceptedhow you are how you are

acceptedaccepted

God’s wayGod’s wayGod’s wayGod’s way

God has chosen YOU and God has chosen YOU and made YOU his holy people. made YOU his holy people.

He loves you. He loves you.

God has chosen YOU and God has chosen YOU and made YOU his holy people. made YOU his holy people.

He loves you. He loves you.

Colossians 3:12Colossians 3:12Colossians 3:12Colossians 3:12

you are you are ___________ ___________

as you areas you are

you are you are ___________ ___________

as you areas you areACCEPTEDACCEPTED

God’s wayGod’s wayGod’s wayGod’s way

Lord, you have examined me and Lord, you have examined me and know all about me. I praise you know all about me. I praise you

because you made me in an because you made me in an amazing and wonderful way. amazing and wonderful way.

Lord, you have examined me and Lord, you have examined me and know all about me. I praise you know all about me. I praise you

because you made me in an because you made me in an amazing and wonderful way. amazing and wonderful way.

Psalms 139:1;14Psalms 139:1;14Psalms 139:1;14Psalms 139:1;14

you are you are ____________________

you are you are ____________________KNOWNKNOWN

God’s wayGod’s wayGod’s wayGod’s way

Show respect for all people: Love Show respect for all people: Love the brothers and sisters of God's the brothers and sisters of God's family, respect God [as he respects family, respect God [as he respects you]. you].

Show respect for all people: Love Show respect for all people: Love the brothers and sisters of God's the brothers and sisters of God's family, respect God [as he respects family, respect God [as he respects you]. you].

1 Peter 2:171 Peter 2:171 Peter 2:171 Peter 2:17

you are you are ________________________

you are you are ________________________RESPECTEDRESPECTED