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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE STUCK!
Self-Advocates Advisory Committee Leadership Coaching Part 2
November 2011
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What is being STUCK?
• Being stuck is when you feel like you can’t do something even when you want to, or think you could.
Being stuck is when you have ideas about how things could be different but for some reason, you just do not take action on it.
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Awareness
How do you know when you are stuck?
1. What does it look like?
2. What does it feel like?
3. What does it sound like?
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What happens when you get stuck
again?
Often it is our FEARS that make us feel stuck.
1. Write down your fears about what are you are stuck on.
2. What are you worried about?
3. What thoughts do you have that make you feel bad?
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Hot tip!
• One of the best things to do when you feel stuck is try something else…
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? • List what you are GOOD at DOING and
LIKE to do. • List at least 3 things.
1. 2. 3.
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Talk about it!
• With a friend, talk about the 3 things you are good at doing and like to do.
• How do you feel when you do those things?
• What do you enjoy about doing those things?
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Confidence helps!
• Sometimes when we are stuck, it is because we do not feel good about ourselves.
Pay attention to the things you are good at and like to do. DO THEM
Make the time to go out and do thingsyou are good at and like to do!
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What does not help:
• Watching T.V.
• Playing computer games for hours.
• Eating junk food.
• Complaining about things.
• Being around people who are not nice.
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Remember confidence helps!
• Pay attention to the things you are good at and like to do.
• DO THEM! • You may not “feel” like doing something
at "rst. • You will feel better, more con"dent. • Now, take the next step.
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One step at a time!
What is one step you can take toward your goal?
• TODAY?
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• TOMORROW?
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• NEXT WEEK?
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At home
• KEEP WRITING! Every time you feel stuck, write your fears, or video yourself, or audio record.
• GET THEM OUT! Talk to friends, family or mentors.
• When you feel stuck, get the fears out!
THEN
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…Take one step!
What is one step you can take today?
Just one ac>on a day will get you toward your goal!
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One step at a time toward my goal!
Today:
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