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What stops you from learning from every single experience?
MY OWN BELIEFS ABOUT WHAT GOOD & BAD EXPERIENCES ARE
AND HOW THEY AFFECT ME
EVERY TIME WE ENCOUNTER A BAD EXPERIENCE,
WE GET TO KNOW OURSELVES BETTER
How do you usually respond to “bad” experiences?
anger � detachment � ignore it
SOME FACTS ABOUT
! Everybody has them ! No one likes them ! Few turn them into positives ! Normally later…
BAD EXPERIENCES
What separates people who thrive from those who
merely survive?
HOW THEY FACE THE PAIN OF THEIR BAD EXPERIENCES
Pain prompt us to face who we have become and
where we are.
WHAT WE DO WITH THAT EXPERIENCE DEFINES WHO WE
CONSTANTLY BECOME
1. EMBRACE A
To a large degree in life we get what we expect.
GROWTH MINDSET
Why would I want to expect the worst?
2. EMBRACE AND UTILIZE
Use the energy that comes from strong emotions and adrenaline to solve problems and learn lessons.
YOUR EMOTIONS
How can I smartly utilize my emotional
energy?
3. EMBRACE THE VALUE OF
Facing them is inevitable, learning is optional, and we normally learn
long after they happen.
BAD EXPERIENCES
Why would I wait for after?
4. EMBRACE CHANGES LEARNED THROUGH
We either face the hard feelings and embrace change
or we try to escape.
BAD EXPERIENCES
Why would I choose the pain of regret over the
pain of discipline?
5. EMBRACE OWNERSHIP FOR
Circumstances don’t define us, what we do in the face of them does.
YOUR OWN LIFE
Why would I give such power to the
circumstances?
No matter what you have gone through in this role so
far – or what you are currently going through – you have the opportunity
to grow from it.
It’s not just about being willing to believe and look
for them, but to pursue them with discipline.
THEN IT GETS EASIER
EVERY TIME!
Life is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.
virginiasatir
THERE IT IS WHERE THE LEADER IN ME EMERGES
My @XP is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way I cope with it is what makes the difference.
Am I ready to look for opportunities in
everything that comes in the way of my @XP?
AM I WILLING TO START AT NSC 2014?