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How To Flirt With Men
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Table of Contents
Chapter 1: Why Flirt In The First Place? 10
Secret 1: Flirting Is A Misunderstood Art 12
Secret 2: Guess Who Invented Flirting? 14
Secret 3: They Don’t Teach Flirting In School 17
Secret 4: There Are Right And Wrong Ways To Flirt 19
Chapter 2: Common Misconceptions About Flirting 21
Secret 5: Is Flirting “Slutty” And “Trashy?” 23
Secret 6: Is Flirting A Sign Of Desperation? 25
Secret 7: Does Flirting Turn Men Off? 28
Chapter 3: The Unforgettable Woman Idea Of Flirting 31
Secret 8: Flirting Is Subtle, Not Outrageous 31
Secret 9: Flirting Is Natural 34
Secret 10: Flirting Can Be Done Anywhere 37
Secret 11: Flirting Is Honest, Not Manipulative 39
Secret 12: Flirting Brings Out The Best In Him 42
Chapter 4: Flirting-- Communication In Heels, But Communication Nonetheless
45
Secret 13: It's In Your Aura 45
Secret 14: It's In Your Body Language 48
Secret 15: It's In The Words You Use 51
Chapter 5: Are You Too Shy To Flirt? 54
Secret 16: So What Are You So Afraid Of? 54
Secret 17: Rehearse It In Your Mind 57
Secret 18: Practice With Your Guy Friends 60
Secret 19: Go With What Works, Not What They Do On TV 63
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Chapter 6: The 7 Most Common Flirting Mistakes That Scare Men Away
65
Secret 20: Mistake #1 - Being Too Forward 65
Secret 21: Mistake #2 - Being Too Slutty 69
Secret 22: Mistake #3 - Taking The Lead 72
Secret 23: Mistake #4 - Asking Instead Of Inviting 75
Secret 24: Mistake #5 - Moving Too Quickly 78
Secret 25: Mistake #6 - Thinking It's A Competition 81
Secret 26: Mistake #7 - Not Considering His Feelings 84
Chapter 7: How To Flirt Without Being Seen As A Slut 87
Secret 27 - It's Important How People See You! 87
Secret 28 - Don't Cross Any Lines Of Decency 90
Secret 29 - Don't Focus On Romance! 93
Secret 30 - How To Know If You're Doing It Right 96
Chapter 8: The Sexiest Types Of Flirtation 99
Secret 31 - Physical Vs Traditional 99
Secret 32 - Polite Vs Playful 102
Secret 33 - Honest Vs Sneaky 104
Chapter 9: Flirting Over Texts And E-mail 106
Secret 34 - The Don'ts Of Text And E-mail Flirting 106
Secret 35 - The Right Way To Use Text And E-mail 109
Secret 36 - Flirting In 140 Characters Or Less 112
Chapter 10: Flirting For Fun 115
Secret 37 - Flirting For Fun Is The Best 115
Secret 38 - Put Your Guy Friends To Good Use 118
Secret 39 - Don't Worry About The Results 121
Chapter 11: Flirting In Ordinary Places 123
Secret 40 - Opportunities To Flirt Are Everywhere 123
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Secret 41 - Great Conversation Starters 126
Secret 42 - Practice, Practice, Practice 129
Secret 43 - Stay Safe 132
Chapter 12: How To Flirt With Someone You Just Met 135
Secret 44 - Scenarios To Watch Out For 135
Secret 45 - Remember: Nothing Romantic Yet! 138
Secret 46 - How Far Should The First Flirt Go? 140
Secret 47 - What If He Flirts Back? 142
Chapter 13: How To Flirt With An Old Friend 144
Secret 48 - Why Old Friends Can Be Tricky 144
Secret 49 - Create Some New "Space" For Him To Move Into 146
Secret 50 - Your Goal-- Make Him See You Differently 148
Chapter 14: The Man's View Of Flirting 150
Secret 51 - No Two Men Are Alike 150
Secret 52 - Do Men Think Flirty Women Are "Easy?" 152
Secret 53 - What Men Think About Sex 154
Secret 54 - What It Means When You Turn Him Off 156
Chapter 15: How To Judge His Reaction To Your Flirting 158
Secret 55 - Signs He's Not Liking What You're Doing 158
Secret 56 - Signs He's Into You, Too 160
Secret 57 - Signs He Just Doesn't Care 162
Secret 58 - What To Do When Things Don't Go Your Way 164
Chapter 16: Signs You're Flirting Right 166
Secret 59 - Sign #1 - Chemistry 166
Secret 60 - Sign #2 - Respect 169
Secret 61 - Sign #3 - The Future 171
Secret 62 - Take It Nice And Slow! 173
Chapter 17: How To Tell If He's Flirting With You 175
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Secret 63 - Is He Friendlier Than Usual? 175
Secret 64 - Other Signs He's Flirting With You 178
Secret 65 - How To Deal With Shy Guys 180
Chapter 18: How To Flirt With Your Boyfriend/Husband 182
Secret 66 - Why Flirt With Your Better Half? 182
Secret 67 - Pet Names And Silly Games 184
Secret 68 - Deferring To His Authority 186
Secret 69 - Bedroom Games 188
Secret 70 - Little Nothings That Make Him Feel The Love 190
Secret 71 - Look To The Future, But Remember The Past 192
Chapter 19: Why Men Flirt With Other Women, But Not Their Wife/Girlfriend
194
Secret 72 - Why Some Men Have The Gall To Cheat 194
Secret 73 - How To Prevent Chronic Flirting In The First Place
198
Chapter 20: Marriage - Flirting To Keep The Love Alive 200
Secret 74 - Why Some Couples Fall Out Of Love 200
Secret 75 - How To Rekindle The Old Flame 203
Secret 76 - Keeping The Fire Burning Throughout The Years 205
Secret 77 - Don't Forget To Enjoy Yourself 208
A Final Word From The Author210
Bonus Report #1:How To Boost Your Dating Confidence In A Month
211
Bonus Report #2:Flirty Ways To Keep A Conversation Going
227
Bonus Report #3:How To Get A Guy's Number In 5 Minutes Or Less
241
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Chapter 1:
Why Flirt In The First Place?
As with any new endeavor in life there are things you need to learn in
order to achieve your goals. Whether it is going to college to learn the
appropriate knowledge for the career path you desire or picking up a
fabulous copy of an e-book to teach you how to flirt, knowledge is the key in
doing all things, and doing them right.
Do you have difficulty flirting? Do
you wonder why you should even bother
flirting in the first place? There are many
reasons to flirt; most importantly it is fun
and effective.
It may be a little difficult to get
started, but you CAN do it. You are a
desirable woman. You may just need the
proper tools to get you on the right track to flirting and flirting right.
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Make Men Want YOU
Why let guys keep looking past you when there is another, more
flirtatious woman around? Flirting has a great side effect: it makes men want
you!
Why shouldn’t they want you? You are an incredible woman with a lot
to offer. When it comes to attracting men, what’s on the inside isn’t always
enough. They need something that grabs their attention to make them look
beneath the surface to discover the real you. Flirting can be just what you
need to make them want to take that deeper look.
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1 Flirting Is A Misunderstood Art
Don’t you just hate flirty women? They go overboard and flirt
outrageously whenever guys are around. What’s worse is that they make the
rest of us look bad.
The part that is really aggravating is that they still get the best men!
The rest of us get left with the men who are too shy, too quiet, too loud, too
smelly, too weird, and basically just too much of something.
We all deserve BETTER!
Since You Can’t Beat Them, Join Them
You can’t get the flirty women to stop flirting. You will never manage
to convince them to make things fair for everyone. Since you can’t beat
them, join them. Then you can be one of the flirty women who get the great
men.
Why should you settle for Mr. Boring when you could find Mr.
Incredible? The flirty woman at work found her own Mr. Incredible and she
is impossible to please (and let’s face it, she isn’t exactly model beautiful
either). But she found a great man. Meanwhile, the rest of us women keep
finding all of the wrong men, because we haven’t learned the beautiful art of
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flirting.
Flirting, when done the right way, can be a beautiful art form. You get
to take your sensuality and use it to your advantage. You are a sensual
woman with a lot to offer men. You aren’t trashy or slutty. But you CAN be
flirty.
Flirting takes a lot of courage and a little bit of skill. Don’t worry if
you don’t have either, because you can learn both. You can boost your
confidence and learning new skills is simple enough with the right guidance.
If the thought of flirting makes you squirm, you are not alone. It’s not
easy to have the self-confidence needed to make you a great flirt. I’m going
to let you in on a little secret: that woman at the bar who is hopelessly
flirting with all the men … she more than likely lacks self-confidence.
Sometimes the key is to fake it until you make it. With time you will
build the self-confidence in your own sensuality. You are an attractive,
desirable woman. Now you just have to learn to see yourself that way.
Summary – Secret # 1:
Flirting can help you find a great man. With a lot of courage and a little bit
of skill you can attract better men. Make them WANT you! Find your own
sensuality and put it to work for you.
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2 Guess Who Invented Flirting?
Does flirting feel unnatural to you? Despite what you may currently
believe, flirting is one of the most natural elements of life. It is how Mother
Nature designed us to operate.
Have you ever noticed how the people with the most personality are
the ones who are always flirting? It’s no surprise that the women with the
most personality (and best flirting skills) get the best men.
The best part is, even if you are the shy, quiet type, your shyness
doesn’t have to stop you. All you have to do is open up a little and let them
see the real you.
If flirting still doesn’t feel natural to you, that’s OK. You will get
there. It takes a lot of practice to get it just right. You won’t wake up one day
and decide today is the day that I become great at flirting. Yes, you can make
the decision to do it that quickly, but it takes more time and effort to perfect
the art.
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But don’t worry, it’s not that hard. It’s more about trial and error and
finding what works best for you. Whatever you do, don’t copy every flirting
trick you see on TV.
Do What Feels Natural To You
When you first start with your new flirtatious attitude, do what feels
right. Don’t say things that make you feel uncomfortable. If you do, it will
show. Just think of how awkward it would be if you can’t keep your
composure while flirting.
I enjoy people-watching. Whenever I go out, I tend to indulge.
Especially when it comes to men and women interacting, I can’t help
myself. One night, I was sitting at a restaurant. My table was near the bar so
I had a pretty good view of some poor woman’s awkward moment.
I’m not entirely sure of
what it was she said, as I
couldn’t hear them. However,
she leaned in and whispered
something and when she pulled
back I could see the look of horror in her eyes. Sure, she tried to hide it
behind a laugh and a smile, but it was evident for anyone to see.
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Needless to say the conversation didn’t last for long, and the woman
left shortly after. She couldn’t seem to muster the courage to continue
flirting.
Summary – Secret # 2:
Flirting is natural. Even if it seems like a completely foreign concept to you
now, you can learn to become a great flirt. Keep it natural and don’t push
yourself beyond your comfort limits.
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3 They Don’t Teach Flirting In School
Wouldn’t it be great if you could simply sign up for flirting classes?
Or better yet, if it were a required course in high school? Then we wouldn’t
go through our lives dating guys who are too weird, shy or loud. Hey, maybe
those same classes would stop some men from becoming the guy who you
end up having the awkward date with.
Unfortunately, it will probably never be that easy. We are all left to
figure it out on our own. Or get lucky enough (if you are reading this then
you fall into this category) to find someone to help us learn how to flirt. Get
excited about it: enthusiasm is important to learning how to flirt effectively.
Where Can You Learn To Flirt?
I have great news for you, just because you can’t sign up for that
Flirting 101 class doesn’t mean it’s a hopeless cause. You’ve already taken a
great step in the right direction by purchasing this e-book. Together we will
get you moving down the path to learn those great flirting skills.
Many women learn how to flirt from the people around them. We
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grow up seeing flirting all around us. Whether or not you stopped and paid
attention to that flirting is probably what determines whether or not you
know how.
Most of us were too busy with life to have made that a priority when
we were younger. Or you simply may not have been all that worried about
growing up, getting married and settling down.
This leads us to the biggest problem … most women don’t know the
first thing about flirting! As a result, you go into the game of dating and end
up on miserable dates that tend to lead to miserable relationships with (you
guessed it) miserable men!
Luckily enough, it’s never too late to learn. But the fact remains that
there are right and wrong ways to go about flirting.
Summary – Secret # 3:
Even though you have probably made it through many years of dating
without having a clue how to flirt, you can still learn. When you learn
doesn’t matter, the important part is that you DO learn how to flirt. Stop
finding yourself with miserable men and start flirting to find a better man.
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4 There Are Right And Wrong Ways To Flirt
You may be asking yourself if you
too can become a great flirt. The answer is
YES! But first you need to know that there
are the right ways to flirt, and then there are
wrong ways.
Throughout this e-book I will be
showing you the right and wrong ways to
flirt. By the time you finish this book, you
will be armed with the flirting techniques that will attract the strongest men
in the dating game who are the most ready for commitment. At the same
time, you will be able to weed out the weaker, emotionally unavailable men.
Are you ready?
The Wrong Ways To Flirt
There are many wrong ways to flirt. The one that you want to
completely avoid is sending signals that you are easy. When you become
overly touchy-feely or make sexual comments, you may think you are
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flirting when in actuality you are sending signals that you are looking for a
good time.
These flirting techniques will get you attention. But unless the
attention you are looking for is only dates that ends in a one one-night stand,
you must avoid sending out the I’m easy signal.
When you are looking for a lasting relationship you never want to
come off as being easy. Otherwise you will attract the wrong kind of men.
You want to be much more subtle in your flirting techniques. A casual flip of
your hair or touching a man’s arm will send out an I’m interested signal,
rather than the I’m easy signal.
Not only is subtly going to attract the right kind of man, it’s also much
sexier to men. Well, at least to the right kind of men.
Summary – Secret # 4:
Flirting is the key to attracting men. There are right and wrong ways to flirt
which we will cover throughout this e-book. Be sure to pay attention so you
can avoid attracting the wrong kind of men.
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Chapter 2:
Common Misconceptions About Flirting
Have you ever heard people putting down women who flirt? Some
people have pretty close-minded views of things that they don’t fully
understand. Or they may even have bad experiences with someone in the
past who flirted in the wrong ways. Regardless of their reasons, you
shouldn’t let that discourage you. People tend to develop opinions of things
even when they don’t have a firm understanding of what they are judging.
Even blondes get a bad name simply because of the color of their hair.
I’m sure you have heard the stereotypes; we all have. Nonetheless, it doesn’t
make them true.
Don’t Be Discouraged By Stereotypes
What are some stereotypes you’ve heard? There are so many out there
that the list is probably pretty long. Just like all the other stereotypes, you
shouldn’t listen to all of the hype.
The most important thing to remember is that (1) you are a unique
person (not a type) and (2) flirting is supposed to be fun. Be yourself and
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have fun with it. And stop worrying so much about what other people think.
When you follow the techniques in this eBook on flirting, you will
learn how to do it like an expert. Too many women miss out on the fun of
flirting because they are scared to be stereotyped. Don’t let that happen to
you! Flirting done right is not only exciting, but men love it, and I believe it
is a very important component not only in dating, but in an ongoing
relationship as well.
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5 Is Flirting “Slutty” Or “Trashy?”
Have you ever heard that flirting is slutty or trashy? If so you are not
alone. Flirting, like most things in life, tends to get a bad reputation from
those who do it the wrong way.
It isn’t so much about what you do as how you do it. There are people
who use flirting to be “slutty.” Through the course of this e-book you will
notice that my advice is to strictly avoid the maneuvers that could be
construed as slutty or trashy.
My point: if you want to attract men who will respect and value you,
you have to flirt the RIGHT way.
Don’t Learn Flirting From TV
TV portrays flirting as slutty or trashy. This is the wrong way to flirt.
So if you have picked up a few ideas of how to flirt from one of your
favorite dramas, ignore it. Believe it or not, there are great ways to flirt that
are fun, safe and classy. We’ll get to more of that in Chapter 3.
TV plays a big role in the misconceptions about flirting. But if you
think about it, those slutty characters are what get those shows the ratings
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they need. It’s only one of many aspects that are shown in the worst light.
It’s all about the ratings, not the realities.
So whatever you do, avoid getting your flirting knowledge from TV
or even movies. If you are looking to attract real men who are ready for real
commitment, you won’t find your answers there.
I have studied relationships for several years and I’ve always been
intrigued by the relationships between men and women. Throughout
studying these relationships I have figured out what works, and what
doesn’t. Hollywood flirting definitely falls into the “doesn’t” category.
Summary – Secret # 5:
Flirting can be fun, clean and classy. It can also be slutty and trashy; how
you flirt makes all the difference. Follow my advice and you will learn how
to flirt in a way that will make you desirable to the kind of men who are
ready for commitment, not a good time.
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6 Is Flirting A Sign Of Desperation?
Have you ever heard that flirting is a sign of desperation? Have you
ever thought the same thing yourself? It’s easy to see on so many TV shows
the desperate girl who flirts and sleeps around. Do you remember Kelly from
90210? Her character was portrayed as the slutty girl who was desperate for
attention and love.
When Hollywood portrays flirting in such a light, it’s no surprise that
so many people find it as a sign of desperation. But it’s not. Flirting is more
a tool to show interest. When you meet a good-looking man, you want him
to notice you. You want him to know that you notice him.
Sure you could be really blunt and just come right out and say it. But
that would be a turnoff for majority of men. You can just as easily show your
interest with a few simple flirting techniques you’ll learn later on. Flirting is
a great way to catch the attention of men and show them that you noticed
them.
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Knowing How To Get What You Want
To me, flirting is more about knowing how to get what you want. You
use flirting to let a man know that you’re interested in him. Then you also
use flirting to keep the man you want. It keeps his attention by letting him
know that you still want him
even after you have him.
When you flirt right, a
man immediately realizes that
you are interested in him. And
they love it.
Think about it. A good-looking guy sits across a crowded room from
you, and catches your eye. He holds eye contact with you while a smile
slowly spreads across his face. Then he looks away for a split second and
back at you.
Now let me ask you something… When he does this, are you feeling
flushed? C’mon, be honest here… Of course you do. That guy just flirted
with you like an expert. Did you think of him as slutty? Of course not. You
felt excited. You immediately knew you had his attention. You loved it!
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That, my dear friend, is flirting.
When you have your eye on a particular man and you know you want
him, then flirting is your best weapon in your arsenal.
Figure out which type of guy you want, learn how to flirt in a classy
way, and you will know how to get that great looking guy across the room!
Summary – Secret # 6:
Flirting lets a guy know you are interested in him. It is about figuring out
what type of man YOU are interested in and then just going for it when he’s
right in front of you!
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7 Does Flirting Turn Men Off?
There was a guy named Gary who was attracted to Shaunna. She was
not only gorgeous, but kind, funny and smart. She seemed to have "the
whole package."
But the more Gary tried to get closer to Shaunna, the more irritated he
became by her bubbly, flirtatious attitude, and more importantly, the way
that she charmed other men, not just Gary.
Since Gary didn't have the most interesting personality, nor was he
really "good looking," and he certainly wasn't loaded (financially), he felt a
bit insecure about just how attracted Shaunna would be to him.
So he took a very passive approach to pursuing her, naming himself a
"friend," while he tried to figure out ways to court her. But each time he
started a conversation with Shaunna, she would go on about the amazing
men she was meeting, and how much fun they had on dates.
This made Gary even more insecure and defeated, so he eventually
stopped trying to get Shaunna's attention. He figured the negative feelings he
got from her flirtatious personality made her not worth pursuing...
Flirting Turns Off Weaker Men
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In the scenario above, you'll notice
something: Gary is not an "alpha male," or
better put, a "confident man." Confident men
are attracted to other confident women. They
aren't "intimidated" by their feminine power,
since they have masculine allure (what we
call "alpha" qualities).
For a man whose character is weak,
and lacks self-confidence, a woman who shows her strength at attracting
men is incredibly intimidating! How can he possibly get a confident
woman's attention without her seeing right through him?
Shaunna was still having good times flirting with other men who
could appreciate her strong personality. They met her challenge because they
were equally as confident.
Flirting is a great way to show men that you aren't ashamed to be
yourself. For the right men, this will be a very attractive quality.
On the other hand, a guy who isn't so sure of himself, and perhaps is
"ashamed" of his lack of character, will be put off by a woman who is the
opposite of how he feels.
So are you worried about losing the insecure type of men? I don't
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think so! If you're like most women, you want the type of guy who's
comfortable in his own skin, right? In fact, a guy with charisma is even
better — am I on the right track?
Don't be afraid to be yourself, and unleash the diva inside, got that?
Summary – Secret # 7:
Men that are insecure don't like women who flirt, but you won't miss
having them attracted to you! Confident men won't be intimidated by a
confident woman who flirts, so live it up, ladies!
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Chapter 3:
The Unforgettable Woman’s Idea Of Flirting
8 Flirting Is Subtle, Not Outrageous
"I'm constantly changing, I'm constantly growing. I think I'm a little
controversial ... I just try and keep some mystery, so hopefully people can't
really put their finger on it." — Evan Rachel Wood
Mystery: men LOVE it! Ask any dating and relationship expert tips on
how to keep a man attracted, and most of them will say, "keep a man
intrigued."
Flirting is best done when it's subtle, leaving a man wondering if you
were actually flirting, or just being friendly. What does that do? It keeps him
thinking of you, trying to figure out if he is attractive to you, or are you just
being nice by nature.
Looks and money have little to do with it. When you have the special
something that catches a man's attention, it just happens magically on its own.
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How can I be subtle about flirting?
To learn more about the subtle and powerful art of
flirting, and use it to start a new relationship, strengthen an old
one, or simply have more fun in the dating game than you've
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